How to deal with a person who rarely calls and asks you for favors
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- čas přidán 28. 04. 2017
- Have you ever had a person who rarely calls and checks on you, but asks you for favors? This happens because we as a people has lost the tribal mentality today. How to deal with a person always asking for favors?
The realest people don't have alot of friends, 2pac spoke facts!
Ashley Jones every 1 is a hater...it’s unbelievable
"2 Pac" was a character
@@ButterCookie1984 yo momma was a character in my p0rn0
Pac dead bro 😂
If a person does me like that...I will stop answering their calls.. Because they are fake. And they just see you as a convenience💯💯
Precisely & don't give a shit about me or my wellbeing
No appreciation
No gratitude
No compensation for my time
Just a sense of self entitlement
No thanks
But thank you for highlighting the obvious brother.
I stopped doing favors a long time ago....I had one so called friend that would only call when he needed something the last time he called for a favor I told him I can't see he said you can't see i said yes I can't see myself doing favors for you anymore
Well I have crossed oceans for people who would not cross puddles for me. I'm done! I'm here for whose here for me
Tell the person no each time.
good advice, I've cut off a lot of 'friends' because of this, a lot of people expect favours and don't do favours for you in return.
Dude you've added like 3000 subscribers in like 6 weeks by just being real... do a video about keeping it real cause no one does anymore.. you're solid! we love you man
Nathan Keeffer. Much love to you and I enjoy your jokes.Especially, when I am being serious though . I will do a video on Keeping it real either next week or the week after. I will especially do that for you. Nathan. Peace and blessings to you.
i have an idea maybe you can think about it too. this is rocky ground i know. but I'm obviously white, well cherokee indian too. but I have a habit of say if I'm in a store I'll wait extra long to hold the door for a black person, or say something decent to them..not for the kiss ass, but for that moment when i do it racial relations are lifted just a bit if only for the person i did it for.. your demeanor is perfect for a video like that.. but its your channel man.. take it easy bro!
Yes, it is. On my part, Racial tensions and racism are at all time high. I don't talk about or discuss racism. I avoid it.I will listen to other person, but I refuse to engage in that area unless that person says something out of order then I will speak and tell it how it is..Like some, they refuse to talk about religion or politics I say it like this there are good and bad apples in every race. You just have to look out to see who is no good, who is trying to con and trick you, or a lowdown individual. Peace and blessings to you.
a tribal mentality. rarely calls right eells all. 💯preciate you blu $ 🔷0 thnk. doing deeply alright
This was a great video... Very informative. Unfortunately we live in a self absorbed society. I have been on the receiving end way too many times where people only contacted me to use me or for a need. I am a giver by nature and sometimes it was hard for me to "say no" being the people pleaser that I was. But as I got older I realized that I have to think about me for a change and put me first...I call it life's little lessons that we all learn from. Users rarely give and Givers rarely take :) Peace to you Tyler. Thank You for another awesome video :)
Even if they appreciate it, you probably still shouldn't give it to them. Some people will appreciate it, and be asking you all the time, as they appreciate it.
I will not be a damn fool as of Feb 25, 2023 I am done helping people. Everyone is on their own finna start moving in silence 🔕
I am tired of being DISappointed in people who were not meant to be APPOINTED in my life! Friendship is a two way street and one way relationships mean you need to BACKUP from that one way street. I am done!!!
Please do not stop making videos! Through the years you have gotten me through so many Things. Your words helped me tremendously thank you Tyler god bless you 😇🙏🏾
Gemini suck 😂😂
Yup! It's the worst when you're someone who enjoys helping others and enjoys learning how to do things herself. Somehow that means take advantage. I'm sick of individualistic western society.
I don’t loan or borrow so it’s already settled!
Thanks. I needed this pep talk.
Amen. I needed to hear this! Thank you Tylor and from now on will not find it hard to say NO.
I fee it's better to be honest with ourselves dealing with ungrateful people.
Bingo! The Appreciation Factor! Now I know the new drama person in my life is an ungrateful player. Excellent video. I am grateful for this clear message. Many thanks! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼✅💖
A new acquaintance called me this week to ask if I wld sell her my sons bike, which was fine , even though she had changed her mind three times . And,,... here’s the cheeky part,,, she asked me to go buy the mudguards and a padlock and fix the dam mudguards onto the bike !!! 😳😱thought she had a darn cheek, considering she has let me down a few times when we had arranged to meet.
I said yes, and did the job, but she is no friend of mine from now on. No text from her to say a sincere thankyou for doing the job. Selfish rude individuals make me sick.
Why is it people keep asking me to do them favours this summer ?
But you allowed it you should’ve said no there not entitled lesson learned block and delete number no contact
I totally relate to this shit. My nephew sent me a message via FB asking for $. Mind you he never calls me or even acknowledge me buying gifts for his kids.
sounds like my story, this nephew ask me for money and wants to como over, he wants me to go get him, I'm like your mom can bring you. she never did , so I had to stop contact.
Your right mr. Tyler direct to the point.
Thanks you Jesus for saving me and dying on that cross
sometimes I still find it hard to say "No", because it maybe a child/teen in the family asking.
maria mays Hell just say no I always learned the parents even teach their own kids to be users just like them or they just pushing them up to ask you for money that's just it I'll say NO if I where you
StillStanding exactly. Just say no without feeling guilty.
Great video. I needed to hear this.
The world doesn’t owe you anything, and you don’t owe the world nothing
I don't have a lot of friends because I got tired of doing favors for them🤷🏽♂️
Thank you beyond words for this video. I am extremely grateful that I found it. I appreciate you Tyler and content you've created. Many blessings to you. 🙏🏼🙏🏼
A couple of days ago I received an email from an ex-boyfriend's mother that I haven't spoke to an over four months. She said she was "checking in" on me and then she proceeded to ask me for a little favour. I haven't responded back, I felt as if, I needed to figure out how to properly and politely tell her no. I honestly wish that she would just contact my ex-boyfriend probation officer and leave me alone.
However I am going to take all of the information you shared in your video and put it into practice with a response email. Hopefully, she will never message me again, will leave me alone to move on and live my life happily with my new relationship.
Again, thank you for this video. 🙏🏼
good video Tyler!! so true. peace and love to u brother!!
Queen keesta Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
I respect tf out of you for this
I would block this type of person/leach.
Just subscribed😊, this channel has much needed insightful information!! Great vid!!
Rachel Alexandria. Thank you so much for your comment.Peace and blessings to you.
Great video Tyler.
Carol Borela. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
Great advice Tyler!!
Debbie Reid. Thank you so much for your comment.Peace and blessings to you.
+Tyler JTI 😊
Thank you Sir!
Great video!!
James Redd. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
💪💪💪💪💪 thanks alot youtube needs more of this...
I love you Tyler you are so smart
Angel B. Thank you so much for your comment .Peace and blessings to you.
I appreciate your advice :-)
Janny Bennett. Thank you so much for your comment .Peace and blessings to you.
Very informative.Thanks pal.U r the man.
Peter Peterson. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
Good advice
Subscribed a lot you talk does have to do alot with me
Love your videos!!! I've been having a hard time with some people in my life for the past week or so, would you mind doing a video on how to know when to cut someone out of your life? Thanks so much!
Katlin O Brien. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
Literally my friend. She flakes everytime I try to make plans with her and when she actually did text me first to hang out first it was coz she needed something from me. Cant seem to cut her off though since we've known each other for a decade and used to do everything together. I dont expect us to do everything together but a call and a chat over coffee every once in a while goes a long way
Absolutely your gut is actually spelling out what a simple gesture would mean in your book 📕 ❤ I wish you good friends
Im feeling this.
You have to block sad to say it could leave you into emotional distress
The one I can’t stand is when you only hear from them when they are down. When they are good, you hear crickets. I’ve had family on multiple occasions get help from me and then discard me like trash. I’m done. All I want is respect, that shouldn’t have to be asked for. If people respect you, they don’t use you.
when they want s you to do something or ask you for something that's when they call..I want because they don't appreciate it.
Like very informative info
Kevin Turner. Thank you so much for your comment .Peace and blessings to you.
Thanks for making a 2nd video, and yes you are pronouncing my username correctly.
MinsterUrbanWorld. I hope that video helps and it spoke to you. Peace and blessings to you.
POWERFUL " JTI BRILLIANT THANX YOU! Daphne Cotton! ●Castano BROWN FAMILY. INCREDIBLE.
Daphne Rodriquez. Thank you so much for your comment .Peace and blessings to you.
thank you for this vid Tyler. The timing couldnt have been better😨 im a person who always helped others a lot, i can rarely say "no" to ppl. I help where I can ...idk it's a helper syndrome or my pisces fishy nature.😷🤕🤒🤓 i don't see this as a flaw, i think i am here to do so 😇😜
But when nothing returns...?!? When i needed help, i always stand alone. It seems my whole life is going to be that way..I received a request from my "man of my dreams" a few hours ago. He needs money....again. But he is lying and cheating😥 (for God's sake..GOD only is judging...its a long story, i can write a book about that🤔I love him so much...that is divine, but i have to say no. God knows i've done my best 😢
Wish you happy may Tyler 🤗😘💓🌻🌷💚💖
Sandra S. Thank you so much for taking the time to tell your experience and your comment. I hope that everything gets better with you and everything will work out for the best for you. Peace and blessings to you.
Tyler JTI thank you.
Yeah i hope that way too ☺💪 and GOD bless you too. 💕📿
Sandra S. i don't know y they do that!U give them there all but give u crap at the end of it all but God will bless u more!
Sandra S. same here that is exactly how I feel I will help out but always standing alone but no more I'm cutting that off so it's NO FOR NOW ON
@@sandras.6573Sister its not fear same here
you helped, to much but you give enough for returns let it go God give you are husband. God bless you🙏🏽❤
Don't start it then you won't have to put up with it.
Thanks for the video. By the way you’re a Kat Williams voice double lol.
Facts 100
I don’t have time for the people that I deal with a lot . So I can’t even give the time for a fake friend
GREAT 🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈VIDEO TYLER AMAZING THANKS ☺FOR YOUR TIME AND SHARING YOUR FOR GIFT .● BROWN FAMILY DAPHNE COTTON 💜
AMEN!!!!
They not gonna care
They think U ought
To . it's the least U
Could do .
Hopefully ive changed my ungratefulness thank you ive learned my lesson
Please do a video on karmic relationships v. twin flames. I feel like I'm in a karmic relationship and it's draining.
Natural Monroe.Thank you for your video request, i have been some people who asked me the question about that. Consider it done, It will be done either this week or next week. Keep on the look out for it this week or next week. Give it some time!!!! Keep on the look out for it. Peace and blessings to you.
Natural Monroe your video request is finally up. Feel free to comment. on that video. Peace and blessings to you.
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I WAS CAUGHT UP IN THAT TYPE OF LIFE WHILE I WAS LIVING IN MY SON'S HOUSE WITH HIS WIFE AND I AM DISABLED AND NEED TO HAVE HIP REPLACEMENT SURGERY IN BOTH HIPS SO YES I DIDN'T CUT MY SON OR MY GRANDCHILD BUT HIS WIFE I SURLY DID BECAUSE SHE HAS NOT ONLY THIS TO ME ONCE BUT THIS WOULD BE THE THIRD TIME AND IT IS OVER WHEN IT COMES TO HER!!!!!!! 😀👍🏾
I have trust issues.Lie once and I'll forgive you and I'll pay very close attenttion.Lie again and plan on never have in contact with my life again.
So called friend asked me to get some food for her kids since they had coro.I said yes but I'll have to do it in the morning since I'm busy....She hasn't spoke to me sonce.Same lady that told me she loved me 3 years ago so I'd pay attention to her..
Ya,I pay attention when someone lies and does even a precise having a true friend...lol
What if they're related to you and threaten to tell lies if you don't obey and do what they say?
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Ppl also appreciate just coz they want something from u(temporary,superficial words) but in yr gut u know they dont really care ...always call when they need when u needsomething they will make lame excuses everytime....so words means nothing but action does....Goodbuy🕉️
hallo Tyler How to deal with a toxic family member ,,,, "he don't respect you "talk bad to you all the time " and alway ask you for favors
Tyler can you make a video about that ?
Niko Para. Thank you so much for your video request. Consider it done!!!!!! Look for the video today or either tomorrow. It might be done sooner or tomorrow. Thank you so much for your video request.
I always appreciate your videos however the sound quality is a bit irritating for the ears. Please get a better mic. Thank you.
Iron Butterfuly. That is not the mic that you are hearing with the sound quality, that's my voice being raised up because I have a very loud voice. Don't put that on the sound quality being irritating, because the sound quality is fine, that's my voice you are hearing. I am not changing that for your liking which you are getting mislead thinking it's the sound quality. So, i am not buying no mic just because for your liking.
Put the mic further away ....as the sound is too loud for phone speakers
Block
You have to block sad to say it can leave you into emotional distress
I did them a favor and they don't do anything for me unless they get paid for their time.
or what to do if walking in the woods and you find a meth lab.. thanks..just in case it comes up. hahaha. ok bro... i was just playing
Nathan Keefer. I knew that you was going to have a joke up your sleeves lol. haaaaa.
Tyler is real
I don't even answer there calls i stop answering I been this guy I know on my job I think he quit or got fired think he stoled stuff and he call me and told me about it he ast me for get me themcredit cards I pay you im like nah I never answer
Ignore
Delete
What do you mean how to deal with them? That just means that you might be a psychopath narcissist that every time someone asks you for a favor half the city knows
Yep. Delete