The Authenticity Paradox | Professor Herminia Ibarra | TEDxLondonBusinessSchool

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  • čas přidán 26. 06. 2018
  • “Be authentic” - that’s what organizations, brands and people keep being told. But too often, following that advice can limit us, especially at work, says Herminia Ibarra, professor of organizational behavior. She proposes an expansive way to think about authenticity, one that will ensure we keep growing.
    Herminia Ibarra is the Charles Handy Professor of Organizational Behavior at London Business School. Prior to joining LBS, she served on the INSEAD and Harvard Business School faculties. An authority on leadership and career development, Thinkers 50 ranks Ibarra among the most influential management thinkers in the world. Her most recent book, Act Like a Leader, Think Like a Leader (Harvard Business, 2015), explains how to step up to a bigger leadership role. She received her Ph.D. from Yale University, where she was a National Science Fellow. "The Authenticity Paradox: Who am I when I’m changing?
    Who doesn’t want to be authentic? But, a simplistic understanding of what authenticity means hinders growth and limits our impact. Learning, by definition, starts with unnatural and often superficial behaviors that can make us feel calculating, instead of genuine and spontaneous, and we latch onto authenticity as an excuse for sticking with what’s comfortable. But, the moments that
    most challenge our sense of self are also the ones that can teach us the most. By viewing ourselves as works in progress and evolving our professional identities through trial and error, we can develop in ways that both feel right to us and suit our changing circumstances.
    Herminia Ibarra is the Charles Handy Professor of Organizational Behavior at LBS. Prior to LBS, she served on the INSEAD and Harvard Business School faculties. An authority on leadership, Thinkers 50 ranks Ibarra among the most influential management thinkers in the world." This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 54

  • @ladylea8432
    @ladylea8432 Před 15 dny

    I needed this talk so much. The speaker not only presented her speech effectively, she was gentle in untangling the authentic/professional paradigm. I needed this so bad.

  • @puerwhisperings
    @puerwhisperings Před 5 lety +79

    You got me "Ooooooooh wow!" at the end ..Being authentic is basically to be your child Self , open to try new things,open to learn ,experimenting anything we want without being attached to our "personality".

    • @arczero1623
      @arczero1623 Před 4 lety +7

      Exactly. We aren't just one person, we have always had access to how our friends and family act, dress and behave. Herminia put it well, either you can stay static and rigid, falsely clinging to a you that doesn't exist, or you can let new experiences flow over you and take part in the awesome events you are a part of. Who is to say how Inner Alchemist would react to a different event tomorrow? No one knows, Inner Alchemist hasn't experienced the 1st of February, 2020 yet. We think so autobiographically, "last year I went to school, therefore I AM a student." But the past doesn't determine the future. The present determines the past. As one of my favorite speakers Alan Watts said, our past is like the wake of a ship. It tells us where the ship has been, in the same way that our past tells us what we have done. But the wake of the ship doesn't steer the ship, just like the tail doesn't wag the dog. If you insist on being determined by the past, that's on you, but our present and future self is still being formed!

  • @lucifermorningstar905
    @lucifermorningstar905 Před 4 lety +9

    What got you here wasn't a choice. What gets you to where you want to go is.
    So to be authentic in that state of mind would be to always accept the cards dealt to you and do your best with them until that round is over, so on and so fourth.

    • @nathanma4273
      @nathanma4273 Před 4 lety +1

      successful people choose what they want to do and have faith in it, mediocrity are chosen to do whatever their jobs are.

  • @Betcaligarcia
    @Betcaligarcia Před 4 lety +10

    Wonderful ! I’m that playful educator and always feel terrible that I spend so much time “playing” with new methods and strategies - I think about engagement first and then what I need to teach. I have really good days and really bad days in the classroom, but I’ve learned that in my highs and lows my students are content on riding the rollercoaster.

  • @hackthedots
    @hackthedots Před 3 lety +6

    This is such a great point to make on the authenticity- and acknowledgement that "what got you here, won't get you there!". I've also read the "Act like a leader, think like a leader"- there are some great tips, insights, backed with research and specific steps we can take. As someone who is passionate about diversity and inclusion, I think that this take on authenticity and our careers development is so useful and eyes opening! Thank you!

  • @brubru2724
    @brubru2724 Před 4 lety +26

    She explains so well I love this talk

  • @user-pv2qh1tj4z
    @user-pv2qh1tj4z Před 7 měsíci

    Authenticity is a great value every body needs. A great topic!

  • @abcr1998
    @abcr1998 Před 20 dny

    Thank you for answering my question❤

  • @Discipal4goodmusic
    @Discipal4goodmusic Před 6 měsíci

    I needed This. I’m exactly at that moment . Thank you

  • @MoneyGist
    @MoneyGist Před 9 měsíci +1

    There's a very interesting quote from a 2005 rom-com (Hitch) that goes, "'You' is a very fluid concept right now."
    Speaks to me right now.

  • @easylifemyg
    @easylifemyg Před 5 lety +9

    Amazing!!!! I love the play vs work analogy and how it relates to becoming steiffled onto one personality or going with the flow and being playful. Very powerful

  • @steezmonster92
    @steezmonster92 Před 5 lety +6

    A friend and I were in deep conversation and got stuck here. Thanks Herminia for the open-minded viewpoint.

  • @lemonyarch3270
    @lemonyarch3270 Před rokem +1

    Excellently said. I've been definitely trying to think my way through it, and haven't been able to come to a conclusion. Hence the paradox. But this has been really helpful for me. Thank you!

  • @abiolafalusi
    @abiolafalusi Před 3 lety +3

    I love this ... authenticity = fast prototyping yourself (are you your historical self or learning self )

  • @richp3580
    @richp3580 Před 9 měsíci

    Great talk! I had low expectations coming in and this far exceeded what I expected.

  • @muskduh
    @muskduh Před 4 lety +3

    she's a great speaker. very calm and direct.

  • @dymphievandenbergh7717
    @dymphievandenbergh7717 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for this clear Tedx Talk.

  • @cwfilli
    @cwfilli Před 2 lety +1

    Phenomenal talk!

  • @julienrateau1075
    @julienrateau1075 Před 3 lety

    Brilliant ! Thank you very much 🙏

  • @ComCJ674
    @ComCJ674 Před rokem

    Brazilian loved and respected professor in the whole word, Paulo Freire, talks a lot of lots of things I just listened to, in a very beautiful way. In result, we as teachers are educated in a trully authentic, loving, polithical and human bases. Salve, Paulo Freire!

  • @vannessaviljoen8752
    @vannessaviljoen8752 Před 2 lety

    THIS WAS JUST AMAZING.

  • @NeoNorr
    @NeoNorr Před 5 lety +2

    really fascinated by how it changed her teaching!

  • @MaikBaum
    @MaikBaum Před 2 lety

    Inspiring! ❤️‍🔥

  • @JT-zm3pn
    @JT-zm3pn Před 5 lety +7

    I struggle with this a lot

  • @AkinAkinbodunse
    @AkinAkinbodunse Před rokem

    I love it.

  • @deryasefer
    @deryasefer Před rokem +4

    "If you seek authenticity for authenticity's sake you are no longer authentic."
    Jean-Paul Sartre

    • @TruBlu65
      @TruBlu65 Před 5 měsíci +1

      In what book, or writing of Sartre

    • @sg5sd
      @sg5sd Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@TruBlu65
      Notebook for an Ethics
      By Jean-Paul Sartre (1983)

  • @katrinapurser2021
    @katrinapurser2021 Před 7 měsíci

    I have to say I was a bit perturbed by the use of the words “bozo” and “idiots” when describing the thoughts of another person, as though it was known that this person was thinking judgmentally in such a way. Additionally, it seems as though it’s suggested that being authentic means being stagnant and stubborn in your identity, too which I don’t agree. I think you can be authentically yourself and still grow and expand your personality and personal attributes. Authenticity does not mean there can be no change.

  • @nathanma4273
    @nathanma4273 Před 4 lety +8

    Her book "act like a leader, think like a leader" is worth reading too.

  • @geoffkershler4544
    @geoffkershler4544 Před 3 lety

    Great exposure on the important topic or authenticity

  • @FoxyRoxyReviews
    @FoxyRoxyReviews Před 5 lety +3

    You could have suggested to that person to use narratives / story’s to celebrate their world view of data / truth as a Segway into their presentations. It’s a technique often used by presenters as introduction into the heavier material.

  • @Jihuni_0518
    @Jihuni_0518 Před 3 lety +2

    Could you transfer to korean?
    I couldn't understand. I want to know.T T

  • @jedfriedland1520
    @jedfriedland1520 Před 5 lety +2

    First rate material and delivery.

  • @timj4601
    @timj4601 Před 3 lety

    Amazing, potentially life changing video. Very mentally stimulating.

  • @rudolfrendeer5859
    @rudolfrendeer5859 Před 3 lety +8

    I think she got to the point that authenticity does not exist. Both perspectives, before and after she took the advice reject each other. So how is she authentic? It is a trick. She simply changes the definition of authenticity to something in which all actions are authentic. Thus non is.

    • @WambuiNdungu
      @WambuiNdungu Před 3 lety +1

      My thoughts exactly.
      It also sounded like authenticity is ever changing; past, present, future....

  • @christoffermathiesen2675
    @christoffermathiesen2675 Před 3 lety +2

    I agree with her, but isn't she just building on Leadership Pipeline by Ram Charal et al.?

    • @ktkee7161
      @ktkee7161 Před 9 měsíci

      How many of our ideas are completely original?

  • @moirai1161
    @moirai1161 Před 3 lety +1

    she rockin those boots thoooo

  • @baniajuliofonseca670
    @baniajuliofonseca670 Před 2 lety +1

    Jesus,That is me

  • @raveeshshenoy
    @raveeshshenoy Před 3 lety +4

    I came here thinking this talk is about self-awareness and technique to getting to know your authentic self. Disappointed that it was a business-driven behavioral optimization strategy and nothing to do with authenticity.

  • @ImeldaTierra
    @ImeldaTierra Před 3 lety

    As I paused what to say if you are on a tabloid especially if you’re a first timer speaker it’s a shaky nerve but if you are in the midst of talk you will use to . And it sounds like everybody wants to be a leader . As for me since I have no right to speak out and always blocked some negativity that people likes to manipulate or authenticates for the purpose of making money for source it’s a kind of criminal acts and wrongdoing and more embarrassing sides that people makes distress, competitive in selling , marketing , entrepreneurship, challenging and the best efforts is showed the best of itself is the best the best training . A lot of best and talented and even gifted even they are not a masters of speech.

  • @professordrabhijitsayamber2299

    Om shanti ka

  • @ss1extreme
    @ss1extreme Před 3 lety +6

    I guess you learn to talk a lot without saying much in business

  • @keithpeavy8466
    @keithpeavy8466 Před 6 měsíci

    This is a less-than-optimal definition of authenticity…

  • @enatp6448
    @enatp6448 Před 3 lety +7

    Unfortunately this talk does not do justice to the concept of authenticity and its value. I'm particularly blown away by the colleague's advice about getting into students' physical space. So not cool....

    • @torstentorsten
      @torstentorsten Před 3 lety +1

      I totally agree. One can not be further away from being authentic by following her advice.

  • @sentiny
    @sentiny Před 4 lety +5

    Nothing new, another stoic self-actualization / self-help nonsense. What she can't explain is actually is her colleague's introduction to the story, the timing of life, the external circumstances.
    Anna needs a new game-changing story arising from her own story, her own conditions.
    By the way, her introduction of the name "Carl Rogers" is considerable. He said; "When I accept myself just as I am, then I can change" .. Maybe this approach would be less superficial about the subject matter (instead of what got you here, won't get you there ..)

    • @AG0.
      @AG0. Před rokem +2

      exactly.

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    @MinhNguyen-tt3rm Před 3 lety

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  • @bananas9230
    @bananas9230 Před 4 lety +1

    I think she took things from one side to another. Its not the best way to go.