Being Authentic In A Filtered World | Rachel DeAlto | TEDxHartford

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  • čas přidán 11. 12. 2018
  • We filter how we are seen on social media. It gives an incorrect version of who we really are. How can we be self confident if we share a different version of who we really are? In a world where we wear a limitless number of masks, authenticity can be the difference between success and mediocrity. Relationship expert Rachel DeAlto reveals how her success was created and will share how you can connect with others and reach your professional potential through self-awareness, vulnerability, and confidence in being exactly who you are. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 44

  • @suebakernottly
    @suebakernottly Před 4 lety +21

    This showed up in our group today, I wasn't going to watch it, and I am so glad I did. Yes those moments of kindness, I am going to write them down now.

    • @janetpannel
      @janetpannel Před 4 lety

      Thanks for sharing Sue, and oh yes this is good.

    • @dpesca
      @dpesca Před 4 lety

      Oh yeah Sue, thanks for sending too.

    • @margiesvanmori
      @margiesvanmori Před 2 lety

      I love that

  • @michaelhunt635
    @michaelhunt635 Před 4 lety +21

    “You can never be true to others, if you keep on lying to yourself.”
    ― Gift Gugu Mona

  • @margiesvanmori
    @margiesvanmori Před 2 lety +4

    This is beautiful. It is so hard to stay true to the authentic self when there is so much social media influence. I deleted my instagram and Facebook and I have seen SO MUCH growth in how I feel about authenticity and joy in the present moment. Life is beautiful and meant to be lived fully. Not lived through a lense. You don't need the permission of viewers to enjoy your life

  • @celebrity_rooster7488
    @celebrity_rooster7488 Před 3 lety +3

    Stay away from anyone who tells you "to succeed, you have to be fake".

  • @timmymckinley
    @timmymckinley Před 4 lety +6

    Isn't this true, lately I have been hearing what I am saying about myself to others, always the golden version.

  • @josephtein3835
    @josephtein3835 Před rokem +1

    Really appreciate this lady's honesty and openness here. It's the best way to teach what she is saying. Thank you!

  • @myfavoritestuff
    @myfavoritestuff Před 4 lety +9

    Wow she is telling my story, or lack of it. Really really true all of this.

  • @luizantoniomachado
    @luizantoniomachado Před 4 lety +5

    Now this moved me, a lot of authenticity here.

  • @akshaya2580
    @akshaya2580 Před 5 lety +5

    Need to hear for those who live in social media.

    • @margiesvanmori
      @margiesvanmori Před 2 lety +3

      I agree. I had to give up instagram and Facebook this year bc something about those platforms specifically disrupted so much authenticity. I found they were robbing me of being able to fully show up as my authentic self and I wanted to live life as fully present in the moment as I possibly can. Cheers and blessings to you!

  • @SummerBlake
    @SummerBlake Před 3 lety +3

    Yes. THIS. So much. I’ve been going through some deep realizations this week, and the desire to consciously move toward greater authenticity has been a huge part of what’s been occurring for me. This talk resonates powerfully. Thank you for sharing your journey and your insights.

    • @margiesvanmori
      @margiesvanmori Před 2 lety

      Even just the pursuit of showing up authentically in each moment is powerful stuff. blessings!

  • @ponktiaddrita6274
    @ponktiaddrita6274 Před 5 lety +3

    I feel somehow relaxed to listen!
    Gives inspiration!
    Thank you.

  • @annmerrychristmas
    @annmerrychristmas Před 4 lety +6

    One word - Authentic.

  • @jessedurham5312
    @jessedurham5312 Před 4 lety +3

    This is a clever talk, very honest.

  • @pennyhooker
    @pennyhooker Před 4 lety

    Brilliant talk!!!

  • @zacksuchodolska
    @zacksuchodolska Před 4 lety

    Smart presentation.

  • @dvendii
    @dvendii Před 3 lety

    Brilliant & authentic...

  • @ulisseditaque
    @ulisseditaque Před 4 lety

    Brilliant!!!

  • @bernicebailes9394
    @bernicebailes9394 Před 4 lety +1

    I am not sure which mask to take off after watching this, good talk good subject.

  • @mansiupadhyay711
    @mansiupadhyay711 Před 2 lety

    Wisdom decked!

  • @dariasotnykova
    @dariasotnykova Před 4 lety +1

    Good talk, explained me to me.

  • @tinatuvalle
    @tinatuvalle Před 4 lety +1

    I felt like you were talking about me and how I sugar coat everything.

  • @phyllismknapp6038
    @phyllismknapp6038 Před 4 lety

    I don't go in for all that authentic stuff, the new buzz word. But this is!!!

  • @jamiewilliams8107
    @jamiewilliams8107 Před rokem +1

    A lot ofpeople dont live their truth

  • @berkadsiz2905
    @berkadsiz2905 Před 3 lety +5

    Dersten gelenler +1

  • @lisa-lio
    @lisa-lio Před 4 lety +1

    Yeah thats me the filter queen, lol.

  • @berkadsiz2905
    @berkadsiz2905 Před 3 lety +1

    Konu ne?

    • @cayan6466
      @cayan6466 Před 3 lety

      kanka ciddi misin sdgfjhaghsajddsgajh

    • @berkadsiz2905
      @berkadsiz2905 Před 3 lety

      @@cayan6466 kanka kadın kendini övdü full takip edemedim snjhdjhjsh

    • @iremcanbolat4225
      @iremcanbolat4225 Před 3 lety

      şaşırtıcı bir konu

    • @berkadsiz2905
      @berkadsiz2905 Před 3 lety

      @@iremcanbolat4225 kesinlikle öyle

  • @eniask.5292
    @eniask.5292 Před 3 lety +1

    so fake