HOMEMAKER | The struggles of a middle-class housewife to gain respect for her contributions
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- čas přidán 13. 05. 2024
- A story of a middle-class housewife Pallavi who struggles to gain respect and recognition from her husband for her contributions towards the smooth functioning of their home. Until one day, he finally realises that homemaking is no less than a job in itself.
Writing and Direction: Shloka Shetty
Cinematography: Hrsh Rai
Actors: Ashwin Kumar, Shloka Shetty, Shamik Kulkarni, Shreya Shah
Music: CZcams Audio Library
Production: VSF Productions
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In fact, all such ladies are not housewives but House Managers, worthy than the so-called MBAs because converting and managing a house into a home and taking care of a self-centered, phone-engulfed husband and sundary chores without outside help is not a child's play. A thankless job indeed, because she never expects anything in return except love, respect, and care. A typical middle-class family's struggles shown so accurately in a tightly drawn script without any pomp and show. Both main performers did a commendable job, particularly Pallavi's down-to-earth persona. Worth watching and emulating. Apart from "Thank you," Ajay would have said: "I love you."
That "thank you" was actually their way of saying "I love you"
lmao you couldn't be a bigger simp
@@smriti-rl9tq Saying "I love you" has its own importance & connotation than saying "thank you."
@@nareshdev4119 yeah, cuz when a spouse says Thank you, it's the highest form of gratitude than I love you. So yep correct, there's a huge difference. Aaaisa mera manna h.
@@smriti-rl9tq I may disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it. However, we say "thank you" almost to every person to show our gratitude whereas "I love you" is a special phrase meant for parents, siblings, wife, or beloved, because this phrase represents our innermost feelings and not merely gratitude. "Love" has a special connotation.
I salute all the homemakers because their life at home is not easy
That's why we should always respect every person's work either doing job or homemaker ..especially to women and our beloved Mothers ❤
It is not only a housewife , nowadays addressed as homemakers, but a woman, in fact ,any woman who has to shoulder responsibilities in various ways. It is indeed a thankless job, all that we seek is not thanks, but respect. In fact, I am a senior citizen in myearly 60's, who has been taking care of both parents ( dad passed away), my Amma is wheel chair bound and a super senior. I have to take care of all domestic chores and tender to her( not easy as those caregivers out there will know). Moreover, I suffer from severe bone loss . The driving force behind, is will power , especially as older people will need affection, which not all paid caregivers can give. Cleanliness, hygiene, proper diet( even if it a small portion), has to be ensured. I pray that the hands of tge divine graces all those ( women and men) who seek to strive without any expectations.
Home maker doesn't mean you are non working it's a tiring job with no money it's a never ending job
Rubbish
@@anushaiyer2487what you mean by this 🙄
I agree it's so tiring
@@UserYy1 i mean i dont agree with this bullshit of being housewife wtc neither it is tiring neither it is neverending in fact it is not a job at all it is just alifestyle choice
I really like this video, they showed that a woman can still be busy at home even with no kids. A lot of people assume that women with no kids have nothing to do. I have seen my friends go through this situation where people think they are always free because they don’t have kids. I also always saw them busy just like they showed in this video but most people wouldn’t understand them. Thank you for this amazing video!
Hmmm or wo log muuh pr bhi bol dete he kitna hurt hota he
Akom correct 😊😅just 6 month of my marriage n people around say such things 😂😂😂
N jab sochna nai bolna ko society jawab wahi da Dena chahiye.😅karara wala
@@birinaL hmmm in logo ka bas chle to dahej me hi bacha lekr ldki saath 😭ye chahte he ye log
I used to work but once I had kids, I stayed home because my husband worked overseas. Without realizing it, I lost my confidence, my self worth and became heavily dependent on my husband. My husband used that to his advantage and divorced me after 19 yrs. Thankfully, I had an education and was able to go to my field of after 5 yrs of the divorce because it was difficult getting hired back into my field. I even picked cleaning jobs. Thankfully, I was able to get a job in my field of studies after a few years and was eventually able to pick up the pieces of my life. I never regretted staying home with kids but what I regret is that I lost everything about me during my marriage and that made it a challenge to regain the person who I was before having kids. Lesson for anyone being a homemaker, don’t lose yourself and your self worth in the process.
I dont understand why staying at home and being a homemaker make u lose confidence and self worth. I stay at home, still studying, aint earning for a long time, my love my husband earn everything for me, even when my family get into problems he helps us financially bt he never taunt me for that and staying at home never decrease my confidence as a woman, that's a position that is naturally suitable for a woman, so why feeling down! I had earn for some period of time in my life and that life wasnt better than life of staying at home, i get not all people like the same bt at least as women we should never feel down as homemaker or as staying at home. Who wonna earn that's their personal choice and who wanna be homemakers we shouldn’t scare them by saying no u should earn, get a job, get independent. Society would be terrible if there's no homemakers or women at home at all, what will happen to generation upbringing, feminity will be long gone and women will loose essence of being women and men will become lazy and not willing to provide for their family, their kids. So we should learn the importance of homemakers women and preserve this tradition. I feel sorry for what happend to you bt that's wasnt your fault or because u were a homemaker, your husband was a bad man
@@The_Psychotic_Beauty
You don’t know my story or trauma so please don’t compare yours to mine and I have also worked in shelters for women of domestic violence. It’s my life’s lesson learned and I truly believe each woman MUST have an education if they can afford it to fall back on if something goes wrong in life. All too often, my life story repeats it self in other women’s lives over and over again. You missed my point today. I NEVER regretted staying home with my kids and if I had to do it all over again, I would do it but under different circumstances. I think if one can stay home with their kids while raising them, that’s wonderful. Being a homemaker is a lot of responsibility that people take for granted.
Did he pay you alimony and child support did he remarry
You must be having a strong backup family from your parents side.@@The_Psychotic_Beauty
@@The_Psychotic_Beautybecaise men and in-laws make you feel that way..the mother-in-laws particularly either ant the bahu out working so that they can get a complete gold onthe house or else they want bahu to stay home and be on toes for everybody plus take orders from mother in laws at all times.
Such things happen only in videos 😂. My husband has not cooked anything for me in 16 years of our marriage whether I’m sick or not I only have to cook 😢
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It's true even in my house it's the same condition 😢
90 percent Ghar me yehi haal hai, hamare bhi ghar me😢
It's so toxic, I will advice you to get out of this
@@justplay3955are you idiot or something . I know it's not a good thing but it's not so much of a big deal for divorce 🤦 . Immaturity at it's peak
I wish someone will make film on a working woman managing home... Apart from all house work, she has to dedicate 10 hrs to office work 😢
I felt good to see that thehusband was open minded enough to appreciate his wife many times. Once he realised her work is also very hard he appreciated her for that too. He is a good husband. Not a stubborn person, but one willing to change.
Every housewife should have her own identity and she should be independent in every work as how much ever we work at home it will never be enough and no value at home
Well said bro!
And where time left to be independent after marriage, it's all thing to do before marriage
Marriage is never a relationship of equality , the system in which girl is forced to leave her home to stay in her husband house is itself the beginning of imbalance of power ..it's so surprising that bride leaving her home is so normalised that we don't even see the fault within it , we don't question it at all .majority of women have accepted it without even critically examining it ....plus dowry plus domestic labour plus getting pregnant, plus taking care of their children ..if we calculate the monetary value of the free services that women provides without any holiday and retirement , it will exceed the income of husband way ahead
aww feminist mad at a fictional video. now compare housewife of a labour or a auto driver
free services ,lmao . salray of husband. then do one thing. make countries based on gender . for reproduction , you can abrter and transfer babies according to gender. then we will see who does more
what about lesbian couples or single men who are blue collar workers who cant afford a maid or cook ?
There are women construction workers and labour as well if you really look around. Some even manage their children but they also end up as child labour. A man has just one job because he doesn’t have the burden of child care. A woman does along with her job as well as managing house and a man child husband. So don’t try to take too much credit for doing one thing.
Anyone doing work at home is often devalued cos it doesn’t bring money. But it is actually a money saving and supporting duty. Whether it’s a lesbian couple or not. For male workers who don’t have a maid usually face double burden of managing house work and job outside. But I think they have their mothers at home who do the work. Men always have some woman supporting them with their unpaid labour otherwise they really can’t sustain alone unlike women who can do both.
This can only happen in these reels. I am having fever from 3 days, and still cooking and cleaning utensils in that..
Since yester'night, i was feeling very weak and so whiney, while cooking..my husband was yelling on me, for that 😢
Aap hadd se jyada kavi karne ki kausis na kare, aapna khyal pehle rakhe, logo ka badme
@@manishazaman6647
Thanks a lot.
But since, we are in the USA, i have no option of house help or any other help. So for food at least..i have to work.
@@aditi3112 ask your husband for some help, kabhi yun na mile to mang liya koro, sometimes we sit with our ego hum kyun puche, unko dikhta nhi kya, main to mang leti hu aur dete h,
So insensitive
Many woman love to take care of husband and home, cook good food for family. Seeing their happy face and clean licked plates itself gives so much satisfaction. But when they aren't appreciated for the work they do, when they are not respected, that's when many woman leave their happiness go for jobs just to prove their capabilities. I don't mean all, there woman who are ambitious and passionate about their jobs. I am talking only about women who want to be homemakers, but don't opt for it because they aren't respected and their efforts aren't recognized.
Bakwaas band kar
Its happened only when husband is this much caring and supportive
Literally you guys are too good .
The acting and script writing is top notch❤❤❤❤
Keep up the good work.
I dont understand the logic of housewife or a working woman. Ghar ka kam sab ko karna padta hai kisiko kam ya kisiko jyada. Aur rahi respect ki baat, wo to person pe depend karta hai ke woh kitna understanding hai. I am a working woman and i think i am a good house wife too. But jitna v karo respect to nahi milta
The best vlog I have come across. 🙏👌👍 for sharing
Hey VSF production nice direction and script by shloka Shetty and hatt's off to the cinematography to giving realistic effects nice work from VSF PRODUCTION 👍
Very natural performance 👌 👏 ❤ I could feel every emotion of the performer!
I love your videos.. no over drama no extra effects ... Just pure thing... ❤️
Today im sad because im a upsc aspirant mere husband ko mene bola me thak gai hu toh he said kya kaam krliya jo tum thak gai ghr k kaam k alawa mujhe apni studies bhi dekhni padti h pr aaj tk iss baat ka credit nhi mila😢
Clear nahi hoga tabhi Tak credit bilkul nahi milega 😢.
Izzat hamesha do hi chizo ki hoti hai ya toh gun ya phir roop, aur agar dono na ho toh aurat bekar hai. Sad but true😐
Husband ko leave mat kar dena jyoti mourya ke trah😂
That's why pehle job then shadi but log samjhte hi nhi hai I am also upsc aspirant diii ♥️
Mere b same hi case he....m a banking aspirant...but priority sirf ghr k kam ko milti h....padai to hoti hi nhyi he
Great concept, greater execution! ♥️
Awesome. Ghar sirf husband se ya wife se nahi parantu dono ke support se aur puri samajdari se banta hai.
Shloka did a very good acting,proud of you girl!
He even helped her during illness but there are many women who worked after taking medicine
Everyone’s acting is so good! ❤
Bahut bahut acha story hai har husband ko dekhna chaiye ❤
The way giving birth to a child is not mens responsibility that way supporting financially or earning money is not women's responsibility,,when we will start understand this there will be no conflict about men's and women's rights,,,
Ideally yes. But not everyone has a partner. What about single women, widows n divorcees?
We women are just treated like slaves, never appreciated or cared for .Hum ko toh bimar hone k a bhi haq nahi hai😢
I salute to all ladies
Amazing story
Superb acting..💐💐💐...& an excellent social message..👌
Very nice concept ❤
Actually in schools life skills should be introduced for both boys and girls involving cooking, banking , diy home repairs
Relatable video ❤
Thank you for making such a beautiful video
It is not easy to housewife even we dont earn money
Huge respect 😍😍😍😘😘
Lovely acting lovely story , truly natural ❤❤❤❤
You guys need to continue these type of videos ❤ loved it
Very Good topic for film
Real Life me ye koi nhi samajhta hai..sirf movie me hi log itne samjhdaar log paye jate hai 😂😂
Because they are paid for it
Aur comments m
My husband does
In fact in real life even if the husband knew that the wife was sick, he wants everything on time. If i couldn't wake up to make breakfast due to illness he will get angry and without talking he leaves the house by saying i am sleeping more without thinking about his food and all. feels very disrespectful and it hurts a lot. But still i have to behave like i am ok🥺
@@anutarakesh408send this video to him and talk him about clear sis you deserve better and respect care too
Sare content ek taraf aur vsf productions ek taraf ❤
Good one, Shloka and the hero aswell 🤗
Yeh sab sirf reel ya videos me hote hai. Real life me Aaj bhi home maker ka koi respect nhi hota
Or upr se krti hi kya ho pure din ye alg se kahte h
Nahi ab aisa nahi hota
Empower yourself, respect or no respect but empower
Nahi ye galat generalize Kar rhi ho aap. Me karta Hu respect.me aapni mummy ke sath kaam bhi karvata hu jab free Hota hu tab.
Jab respect nahi milti to mat bano homemaker job karlo koi😂
How nice story line...
And now they are together forever 🥰
Dear boys..plz understand it....your words break us
Such natural acting.. ❤❤❤
Acting means fake not natural
Gajab ki video hai ❤❤❤❤❤ Keep growing aur video banao
Shloka i know you through Aashna vlogs. You are such a natural actor! Beautiful ❤
Love u for making this video
Great script and so natural acting❤️ Amazing work guys! ✨
बिल्कुल सही कहा
Just imagine who manages dual roles without a maid.....
That's my mother...single parent...two notorious children...job..managing house...no maid...now we r doctor and doctorate....single handedly she did everything...now just with one toddler I'm into different types of psychology issues....stress, depression etc etc etc..just by imaging about my mother I almost faint...she is just a call away still I feel she is so far...kudos to all mothers 🎉
So good👌
Nice video never underestimate to those who r housewives
Iam soo lucky like that my hubby also like that he gave most priority he told me ur house wife means ur heart of family
Mardon ko ehsas hojye na apni bv k leye wohi kafi hai. ❤
Yaha to husband samajdar hain, mere husband ne kaha mujhe ki meri kaam sirf khana pakkane aur bartan dhone hain usko aur Sara kaam dikta nahi.
Shree Swami Samarth..............🙏
Good understanding couples 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩
Very nice husband should realise how women manage
Aise related video orr banaye👌
I loved the script by Shloka. All the things the characters do are so lived-in. From hesitating to touch the dustbin at one go to not finding the turmeric kept right in front of you. And, ofc the used utensils waiting for him to be washed. I like how his character is not entirely changed at the end. He is just shown to h've a realisation.And, The most interesting aspect of her character is her "un-complaining" nature. I expected in the eating with the couple scene the camera would give the glimpse of the friend's wife rxn to the "doing the kitchen stuff requires nothing". As she looked newlywed to me. She would h've resonated with her. nevermind.
Rispect for every woman👩👩❤❤
Whenever my mother was get ill and we were kids that time. My father was cooked lentil & rice for us And washing dishes also. Now I am 23 and my sis 20. Now we both can handle all house hold work.😊
Very nice video... But the problem is koi normal banda esi situation main chutti ni lega.. This man was atleast worried for his wife that's why got the understanding of her work
Shree Swami Samarth.....❤
Super message diya bro❤
Best video
Bina 😊paise ke Ghar m wife Kam karti he phir bhi log kehte he Kam hi kya hota he
Bina paisa tu nahi hota yeh baat loag ghalat kehtay hain. Agar unn ko rent, bills, grocery, yeh sub pay nahi kurna tu ek Tarah Paisa unn ka bhi hua. Jab khud pay kurna ho sub kuch jab paisay ki zaroorat hoti hai. Mein ghar pe hotee houn Lekin Mein husband ko appreciate kurtee houn kiyo ke Mujhe pareshani nahi paisay ki, kiyo ke woh sub expenses pay kurtay hain, agar Mein ghar ka kaam kur rahee aur woh bahar tu paisa tu mera bhi hai kiyo ke Mujhe kisee baat ki fikr nahi pay kurnay ke lien.
@@shaleent-yl4yfsunder vicar. Unko bhi aise hi Sochnaa chahie aapke gh are ke kaam ke bare mein. Mutual respect zaroori hai is rishte mein. Baat aur zaroorat ko samjho aur ek doosre ki respect Karo. Koi chhota bada nahi koi gairzaroori nahi. Dono ki importance hai
Shi he sbke kaam ki ezzat krni chahiye
Lovly pair ❤
Respect all house wife 😊🙏🙏
I woulk like to embrace husband's character here
Very nice acting ❤
I really like to watch your long time clips ❤❤❤❤❤ plssss do it daily
V nice
Husband role karnewala actor bahot achha abhinay kar Raha hain
Very nice presentation
Excellent story, definately resonates with many many girls around.
Good msg
Now a days women are doing both job and home maker work,at a time ,real to say that will be most toughest.
Maid if comes also she cleans only utensils that also only 1time with pocha
Jai sabhi bhgwan ji 🕉️🧿📿 nice vedio
Still her husband is not bad man.. 💗
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤kaas ye sab samj pate
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Wow, ekdum tagada content banaya hai sir, lekin outro mein ussi video ke related kuch motivational quotes provide kartee toh aur achha hota 🙏
Very nice video
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Aisa hi lgta h sabko ghr m kya hi kaam h.
Such a great story love the concept and the simplicity ❤️🤌🏼
Basic skill should be taught to both the boys and girls........ Not only girls......
@@Arjun70275 True! daily life work is not a gender role.
@@InnocentShinchan right bro.....our society needs change in mindset about this matter ......
Look at her. Smile on her face akways wen he comes nd goes to office but no positive response ftom him.
My husband is very loving..if he can, he helps else if m nt well he orders instantly .. n also cooks in special occasions like teej
Shree swami samarth tai🙏🙏🙏
Self respect is everything wether ur working or homemaker doesn't matter.No body has right to judge or comment even suggestions that why don't u work for money.
Sometimes husbands friends will be rude and say food is not good. And why should she do catering from home, it is just extra work
It is also his mother’s and wife’s fault they never taught him any housework. Because if he knows everything then women will become redundant
Will he able to give birth too?
@@vidyasonavane9602 I will tell you a secret, most urban men don’t want children.