Wow. This is my husband. I never would have known it but for him trying to peg me as one after I caught out his affair with a girl young enough to be his daughter and him sending her over $6000. He is a Jekyll and Hyde. I wasted 37 years with this man.
Do they do this on purpose? They know they are doing this? Intentionally hurting me knowing the pain he causes me and not caring? They are cognizant of this?
Yes they know. They don't care. If they play innocent in front of others it's only because they look bad and don't want anyone else to think they're "bad." They can't believe in their false self unless untainted supply does as well.
@@cassiebennet4262 my husband has always made me out to be the bad guy and blamed me when he's done stuff that's been bad and unfortunately people believed him people think he's really sweet I never noticed this really until recently or made a connection
Great summary Ben! I've been watching your videos and Dr. Ramani's a while now and both of you have been VERY helpful for my healing. Many thanks once again! It's wonderful to confirm how much help you are giving🙏🏻🌟
Narcissists run away from shame, then do more and bigger things that are a reason to be ashamed of and then run away or deny. CRAZY!!!!!
They aren't capable of love
Wow. This is my husband. I never would have known it but for him trying to peg me as one after I caught out his affair with a girl young enough to be his daughter and him sending her over $6000. He is a Jekyll and Hyde. I wasted 37 years with this man.
I also found that the ex narc was also very shallow
Do they do this on purpose? They know they are doing this? Intentionally hurting me knowing the pain he causes me and not caring? They are cognizant of this?
Yes they know. They don't care. If they play innocent in front of others it's only because they look bad and don't want anyone else to think they're "bad." They can't believe in their false self unless untainted supply does as well.
🔥🔥🔥 so helpful, as usual.
@@cassiebennet4262 my husband has always made me out to be the bad guy and blamed me when he's done stuff that's been bad and unfortunately people believed him people think he's really sweet I never noticed this really until recently or made a connection
Thank you very much ❤🙏❤🙏❤
Great summary Ben! I've been watching your videos and Dr. Ramani's a while now and both of you have been VERY helpful for my healing.
Many thanks once again! It's wonderful to confirm how much help you are giving🙏🏻🌟
Great to hear!