There are people out there talking about "it's just preference" "lightskin look better"....etc y'all, this is the problem, y'all don't even try to listen and try to understand what those black women are trying to tell you It's not only about dating... Darker skin women are complaining about being bashed by BM They complain about people assuming they are more aggressive or "ghetto" bc of their skin complexion. They are complaining about having no support from black Black men or lightskin black women. They are complaining about not being represented. They complaining about people never listening to them bc of their skin complexion.... The saddest part is that they are being discriminated by their own people but they're allways the one who are gonna stand up for other people. Colorism affect darkskin people on a daily basis...not only when it comes to dating
@Q Lock Can't you read or you're just stupid?? They are not complaining about BM not liking them They're complaining about BM degrating them and not supporting them as much as they support light skin or non-black women I LITERALLY said it wasn't only about dating or liking someone. Rejecting someone just bc of his/her skin tone is pretty weird but since y'all keep tryna justify colorism...
I all so see dark skinned women preferring light skinned men and i all so see dark skinned women being races and mean but hey thats just my experience ?and for the record im with a dark skinned over weight woman so im not colorist 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
@@hotrod6299 Dammmnnn colorism doesn't mean preferring lightskin women. Preference=When you like several things but you like one of these things better than the other ones. Colorists gonna like anybody from any race and any ethnicity butt black women. Colorism means discriminating dark skin people. Some BM date lightskin women and start bashing dark skin women to uplift the lightskin women and that's the problem. just watch the video they are not only talking abt dating stuff like DAMMMN. Dating a dark skin woman doesn't mean you're not a colorist my g, not degrating them and treating them the same way you would treat a lightskin woman makes you not a colorist.
@@mshxx7251 Okayy that's not the subject but 1st of all some biracial can be darkskin skin or brown skin so they will automatically identify as Black. Being biracial means being several races at the same time Mixed is not a whole different race. Most biracial people identify as black. Darkskin,brownskin lightskin, mixed..when the light comes off we're all black so stop deviding us and telling people that they're not black enough. That's not the point cause at the end of the day we're gonna face racism together
@@melaninhub7467 sorry if it came out that way love youur channelxx. i mean like those mixed people who would be like i hate white people when there mum/dad is white and hating there white side .
@@prettypink1724 Being Mixed means you are several races it is not a different race. Mixed people who aren't white passing are seen as black and generally identify as black even if they're not fully black
Why aren't more black parents active in instilling self-love in their black daughters? Everything is always about black boys and nobody talks about what young black girls experience
I agree 100% i had my own mother tell me my skin was "too dark",and gave me skin bleaching creams. Along with telling me my natural hair was "ugly", "a mess". And it looked like a "demon"
@ oh wow. If you have a black daughter I suggest you CARE about what we are saying otherwise please do not produce any black girls. They need parents who CARE. Black girls experience a lot of negative representation. We are called angry, ghetto, unattractive, etc. Just so many negative stereotypes and constantly belittled by black men. Being black and then being a woman is the hardest thing because black is seen as least desirable and that's because racism and other factors and that seriously affects the self-esteem of these young black blacks. Hair is another issue. We are constantly told we have bad hair and some black girls grow up to hate their hair and cover it with weave and wigs.
@ will black men for once get over yourselves? When black men get shot black women are right there protesting. The founder of black lives matter is a black woman. And did you not see Brianna Taylor get shot? And on top of that they were looking for her boyfriend who still has his life while she and the baby are gone. When we discuss things we go through black men are very selfish and don't care but when yall go through things we are expected to care. I feel bad for little black girls if these are men they have as fathers.
@ my looks has nothing to with this conversation, be a grown man and have an intelligent conversation without resorting to childish behavior. How old are you 16?
The girl saying she bathed herself in bleach broke my heart 💔 Skin is beautiful in ALL colors from the darkest dark to the lightest light and everything in between.
Thats how you can always spot the colorist / self hating ones they start off by sayin I white girls because blk girls ... yet every time I hear a white man talk about why he likes blk women the first thing out of his mouth is not to bash his own race . Not to put all the women in his race in a category because the women he chose to deal with .
I know some white guys who date outside their race but don't bash or blame white women for the reason they date out. Black guys are too immature for black women and they know white women are the only ones who will put up with their shit.
@@geni412 “men that don’t take women seriously usually tend to date other men.” uhhhh that’s a very questionable statement for someone who i’m assuming is blk therefore they face the hatred and understand it’s wrong to hate someone for something they can’t change. now what we’re not gonna do is put another marginalized community down. i’m not even a gæ man, i’m sapphic. does that mean i don’t take men seriously? and then let’s incorporate that into the straights. someone dating someone means they don’t take everyone else seriously? i mean it doesn’t make sense. also pstttttt learn about intersectionality, there are gæ blk men and women and they face discrimination for both things. genuinely surprised no one found a problem with that comment...
black queens are GORGEOUS. I'm not black but the disrespect I've seen towards black women on tiktok really disturbs me. Black girls like SZA have always been such a role model to me and your culture is everything. I'm so sorry for what y'all have to go through.
@@smaytaganya1446 Yeah I know but since we're talking about colorism in the black community I only mentioned black people but Ik colorism is an issue that affect some other races too :)
@@googlea2692 Yeah I know but since we're talking about colorism in the black community I only mentioned black people but Ik colorism is an issue that affect some other races too :)
At 9:50 he was speaking soooo much truth!!! That’s why us as black women should never feel intimidated by other races of women we are the creators and trendsetters of everything and everyone else follows never let another race of women make you feel less than, cuz trust they wish to be you ✊🏾
Lou facts!! Everyone copies and tries to take credit for what we invented and already naturally had but trust no more we know the truth and can’t no one take that away
Y'all i'm north african (not black tho) and can kinda feel y'all . Men always us and put our tanned complexions down to praise white women , like ??? Tf how u be bashing your own mother's features or your own 💀 so fkn dumb .
I am a black teenager living overseas and I would do anything just to go back home because no one is racist back home I don’t want to live in a place where I get atleast 1 racist comment every day. When I was younger I wanted to Mary white men and have white friend and have white kids until I realized what a gift melanin is
omg the last tik tok got me jumping everywhere! like FINALLY I hear someone talking about how MOST girls be copying black girls, from the hoop earring, the hand movements to the "ghetto voice" and even more! and alot of them try to act tough and "ghetto like." like I have been WAITING to hear someone talk about this. 😫THANK YOU.😂 btw black ppl are ALWAYS starting trends and are ALWAYS lit!😏
Not at all we're all minorities Latins grew up side by side with blacks same as Asians you can't at all say it originated with blacks! So stop it! You don't know who started it first! Don't come trying to gaslight different communities as if they weren't a thing!
@@zacharymelendez2982 I think you should check your black history. Really dive deep into it. Unfortunately what you said invalidated our culture, things we've done and created, and the fact that we are literally the backbone of America as well as other places. It doesn't take Einstein to know that pop culture and gen-z culture (including mannerisms, slang, etc.) is HEAVILY if not entirely influenced by black folk. Yes, all POC are minorities, but you saying because some of us grew up alongside each other means that it *implied* that y'all started things and most trends that are being used present day. And we do know who started it first because we're educated and learning. We're here to educate, too. Don''t squash and invalidate us in the process of questioning where trends originated, just look deeper into it. Lots of videos, documentaries, black libraries, textbooks, etc. It's okay to not be black or to be a different race and even want to take part in what we've started and our culture. "Not at all, we're all minorities." is very invalidating and silencing. We're tired of being silenced.
I can relate to the girl at 5:48. At the age of 12 I watched CZcams videos about how to lighten skin. I didn’t have access to skin bleaching creams but I watched that lemon can help lighten the skin and I tried using it everyday in the bathroom and literally wasted the lemons my mom would buy from the store. It didn’t work and I’m glad! Because today I love my chocolate skin more than ever! ☺️
I relate. I wish this worked with straightening hair. In 1st and 2nd grade, girls would harass me bcuz of my hair so I straightened it often and now 10 years later I'm still trying to bring back the curls and coils
Lemons work slightly for things like hyperpigmentation, but it's not going to bleach you completely. There are products, creams, and pills that work VERY effectively but I wouldn't recommend. You're gorg sis! 💕
Please post more videos like this one ❤ I'm a teenager black girls who lives overseas in Africa exactly, and it's sad to see how my sister's are treated so badly by ours own brothers. ( Sorry for my English, I speak Portuguese ).
This is such a personal question, so if you prefer not to answer I understand, but are you from Angola, Cape Verde, Mozambique or Guinea Bissau? I love learning about different countries and language. And you have such a pretty name and your English was written perfectly! Sorry if this comes across as creepy
@@adetomiakintitan4980 Idk but its frustrating for me to think about that but this wont change the way I look at my skin color its unique and if the person dont like well IDGAF and I try to get over it somehow...........
@@adetomiakintitan4980I have to plead guilty to some of this. As a kid I was constantly being bullied about my skin color. I kind of took it to heart until I met dark skinned girls who were kind,considerate and generally great friends to me. Tbh I still have a little guilt over some of my thoughts concerning dark skinned girls. But my experience taught me that personality is way more attractive than skin color
why are you guys si eager to put people in a box though ? they are black, maybe not fully but they still are, i mean some mixed people look darkskined and face the same racism as a black person.
@@deprimeplatypus490 If they face racism that is their issue. Brown skin asians dont call themselves black just because they face racism. Stop erasing black people
Im a "darkskin" biracial and i agree. Not because i don't want to be black its just the facts. Black isnt about adopting culture, racial experiences, and shade of brown. Its dna for your parents
@@Maria-kp4ws black isnt a race. White isnt a race. Brown isn't a race. Yet it's still said. And we know what is being implied..idk y people get offended by mixed but not about the "blacks" and "white" etc thing its literally the equivalent. And Biracial isnt just one race is what she means.
If It came up in a conversation I will say I'm Black. Not Native American or White or Mixed. I don't relate to those communities. I relate to the Black community. You don't know what I look like and what I experienced.
Satan was kicked out of the Heavens for thinking he was all that. Believe of himself better than man. His destination on the day of Judgement is Hell. Don't listen to his evil ways of vanity, color and he is better. Follow the Most High who said BE. Who has control over the body and soul. Vanity is spawned from Satan and his followers.
I`m a black man, I`m 27 and I am just realizing that colorism is a real thing.. I`m sorry for living under a rock, I love all shades of a black so I was not aware that colorism a thing and I am sorry some of y`all have to go through these type of bs specially that we should all be able to relate since we are all black and have to deal with racism ✊🏾✊🏾
Not only you deal with racism. Racism still exists because whites and blacks are of different origins but share same history in which whites had wronged the blacks. I am not saying that all blacks are racist but as a white guy I have experienced that whatever we do, we are called racist just because we are whites. Where as a black person can never be racist since he is a black person! That's wrong right? Not all blacks are like that but still there are some. Meanwhile a white guy can also be racist, which we have seen in murder of George Floyd. But not all whites are like that. Racism cannot be removed because both parents of both races teach their children differently. My parents had strictly told me to be very polite and calm with blacks since they are aggressive and feel taunted easily. This is so wrong. When I was a kid I didn't even knew if they are aggressive. Such teaching sucks. One of my black friend once told me that his parents strictly told him to behave in a particular nice manner with whites since whites have more legal power and he could get arrested/blamed for wrong crime. This kind of teaching is also incorrect. I am sure this happens in most houses. A pure child who knows nothing about racism is forced to behave in such a way with opposite race creates a divide. It tells the child that he's different from other guy. This is how racism continues. None of my black friends were ever racist or aggressive with me but we all do behave little different with each other than we do with our race. People of same race find it easy to interact with same race but hard at same time with other races. My conclusion is to end racism we should not blame any other race. Whatever our ancestors did cannot be forgiven. But we are not them. There's no use blaming us or hating our race.
@@niranjandesai6766 yes. I hate how black people go around insulting whites and they say "I can't be racist bcz I'm black". You are racist, you the same shit...
It’s the fact that almost all of the TikTokers in this videos barely have any views and I can bet you tik tok is doing that shit on purpose. These videos need to be on a wider audience.
Who taught you to hate your dark skin, Who taught you to hate your thick lips and wide nose, Who taught you to hate your kinky hair? Malcom x aka el hajj malik shabazz Read young people!
It’s boys so young they are colorist and it’s sad but you just have to surround yourself with the right people . remember darker the berry sweeter the juice 😀
The first girl really confused me. She went from talking about „types of black people“ categorized by skin tone, to the last one who was NOT out there based off of skin tone, but by „race“ . I honestly thought she was gonna say albino. So then you have the 4 types of black peoples skin tone. And then she said „I’m doing mixed people next“ you already included them in a TikTok for BLACK peoples skin tone...
"mixed is when you have one black parent and one of another race". I understand she's speaking specifically about those who are mixed with black. However it is VERY important to note that being mixed doesn't automatically mean you are mixed with black. It means you have two different races (often exchanged with ethnicity too). Just wanted to point that out, but ofc in this context I understand
Okay you guys live in America and you say so ...it's wrong obsly ...but living in my own country I have heard many a things .....that I won't get married because of my darker tone and stuff ..... It hurts... I hope this colourism ends
If that's you on your profile pic then you will surely get married, you're gorgeous and I wish I could tell all the dark-skinned Asians that because they are💖.
The first persons tiktok was very weird. I do not agree with separating Black People by their skin Shade. This whole lightskin, brownskin, darkskin thing doesn’t sit right with me because I was growing up, if I saw a black person, no matter what shade they were, I just knew they were black. Black is literally black. Showing the different shades of “Black” and separating us, then telling people to stop separating us is very weird. Maybe I’m buggin out but it just doesn’t sit right with me.
As a black girl this speaks volumes 💯 I am so glad I've came across this video because I see colorism everywhere I go and it's so sickening. All black women are pretty in every, shape, skin tone, hair style, etc. Everything is beautiful about them. Watching this video almost made me cry because even I've experienced this in middle school before the pandemic hit. I've seen so many black girls get called b words and other hurtful words by black boys. I used to come home every day questioning myself and wondering if I was pretty.
an interesting note about the first one, my sister and i are both blasian, but im light skinned and my sister is dark skinned, while our mom is brown skinned
Unlike Africans, the average black Americans is 15-25% European. "Light skinned does not equal mixed" is just wrong. Just because both of your parents were mixed race to some extent doesn't mean you're not.
9:11 As a Black woman, the amount of people that ask me "So, what do you do?" when I buy expensive things, or engage with expensive services is exhauuuusting dude.
I just wanna say I genuinely love black people coming from a black person. But, I want you all to know you are enough and your skin is beautiful. If a man isn’t gonna like you cuz your skin well he ain’t worth it. You are beautiful and amazing. Black women set the trend for like everything they hate us because they are intimidated. I’m not saying everyone hates black women but a lot of ppl do. We are so beautiful and are God’s creation. Other races know your beautiful as well I just need to take the time to uplift black women and their beauty because we are constantly being degraded
That I’m sorry video hurt my heart🥺🥺🥺I’ve struggled with racism before, and being from another country makes it harder(Kenyan proud🇰🇪) bc ppl think that I can’t speak English, when I was born in the US
Me knowing most black men only see me for my skin tone & pretty hair makes me not wanna date them... I feel disgusted 🤦🏾♀️🚮 It pisses me off every time I hear “what u mixed with” ... both of my parents are brown skinned. Idk how I look like this 😕
I go to a majority white school and the black boys that are there all prefer white girls and dont like theeir own race. And me being one of the few dark skinned girls there, I never ever tried to be involved with anyone, because one I dont want too, but if I did desire to do so, ik nobody would want me. I used to think that ew I dont want a black guy or ew I dont want a white guy...etc. But at the end of the day, idc what race he is, I just want a man that will accept my race and my culture, and appreciate me and my sisters as black women. And appreciate ALL races. Racism is so outta pocket its just annoying now.
Try not to worry too much. I went to a majority black school and I wasn't black girls preference at the time. I didn't feel desired until I started dating 'others'. Now black women are very much interested. Some of us are late bloomers
@@nonameno2696 yeah it's so fucking stupid. In a way though, dealing with that shit at a young age can be a good thing. Adversity builds character, you'll be better prepared to deal with the bs of this world as you get older. But it definitely sucks. I know how stupid boys can be (I was one). Some of us are straight ignant...not much you can really do honestly at that point but recognize that these fools don't define who you are
@ 5:20 That's what I've been saying for years. I remember reading about it in books-that particularly were abut slavery. Colorism has been around for centuries. I remember reading about how enslaved Africans with lighter skin complexions worked indoors while enslaved Africans with darker complexions work outdoors.
8:13 BRROOO I literally have to keep searching google to find more dark skin AND brown skin photos every time just to see what a specific hair color/style would look like. Hell sometimes even lipstick designs. Am I the only one? Can someone fr explain this? It’s annoying
Literally had 1 light skin friend who opened this door for me. I liked a guy who was white and she told me that he didn't like dark skin girls and was into her cuz she was light skin. Turns out she was lying as years later I ended talking to him and he was def into me and he actually hated her guts cuz he knew she was fake asf. Wish I knew then what I know now cuz that's not even half of the crazy she was throwing down. It never occured to me there was a divide because my family is multi colored. I am the 2nd darkest of the entire family and I thought it was normal to have a colorful family. My book worm ass was not paying attention becuase looking back I now see how the world viewed my family because of our different shadings of black
How do you feel like the world viewed your family? I'm asking cuz my family is different colors too. A lot of kids would assume my mother was my nanny bcuz as a child I was so close to white skin and my mother is brown skin.
Light skinned women always think they are preferred in the white community just bc of their light skin. Newsflash there are people of light/white complexions all over the white community, they are seeing nothing new and "exotic" when they see you. That's why when they date us girls of color they usually choose the darker ones like me and you. She thought she ate
thank you so much for posting this!!!!!!! please talk about how black girls treat light skins/brown skins!! idk if it still goes on but dark skin girls treated me like crap fr based or things i cannot control and how they were treated bc of ppl that look like me
I understand where mixed people are from about feeling that they don't belong in the black/ other racial communities but the reason but you have to understand too the reason black people have a problem with biracial people being labeled is as black is because colonizers would use biracial people as model blacks because they adhere to the beauty standards etc while completely shoving non mixed black people aside and thats where this whole mixed people are black becomes a problem.
The reason why I put mixed people in this is bc some mixed people are dark or brownskin and they face way more discrimination than a fully black person who's lightskin, some mixed people are seen and treated as black in the society, they just get no privilege from being mixed, so I think it's ok for them to identify as black. For example, Ryan Destiny is mixed and ain't nobody see her as such. Let's not forget that being mixed does not equal being light.
@@melaninhub7467 i understand what you saying but I was just explaining why black people have problem it , I do not discredited the struggles that mixed people go through or deny the fact they are part of the black community, its important for people to understand where the each other's view points are coming from or else we won't get anywhere.
Well, that's not a problem anymore. The world has accepted people like Beyonce and Barak Obama are Black. And I know I do not represent dark people but I won't take anybody telling me I'm not Black
It's true for me, I come in many shades. There has been a plenty of times where I couldn't wear my normal makeup during the summer because I'm 4x darker.😂🤣 I am Brown BTW.
@@thatawesomewoman5389 yeah. There are photos from when I was a child and I have really darkened orange/brown skin but now my skin is the shade of Zendaya's
3:02 Whenever I ask a white person "Why do you tan" they give me bull shit like "Oh I just like the way it looks". *No Peter, no Pamela-you got the right one. Today is the day we find out*
I love the mom (in the blue dress). My son is bi-racial, his mommy (me) is black & he LOVES black girls…dark girls! I love my son. 🥰 Go get him sistas….one at a time though…please.
Omg The second video is I had the same discussions with black guys and they respond the same way it was just them criticizing only black girl not once did they mention another race.
The girl @1:02 was on point The girl @2:00 She was saying the right things, but the fake crying is too much. She didn't even have any tears Also, someone needs to let the girl @4:51 know that the Willie Lynch letter isn't real
How can the letter not be real when we still experience it today, especially the skin shade/tone one. There is some truth to it even if it wasn't/isn't real.
2:00 Got me really sad. I'm sorry to every black woman who's ever felt like they aren't hood enough just because of their skin color. Don't worry over guys like that.
People have such low standards for light skinned women and white women, but a dark skinned black woman needs to be absolutely perfect to get an ounce of respect
He has a point about white women. They tan and damn near get skin cancer. Somebody needs to tell them to love themselves and get healthy amounts of sun. Honestly all that tanning is going to age them faster.
@@gibememoni Okay it doesn’t matter why they’re doing it it’s harmful. And how do you know? Have you heard of black-fishing white and Spanish influencers do it all the time. Don’t say it like that
As a blasian native woman I can't wait to see the cultural appropriation conversation between black and asian people it runs really deep. Black people appropriate asian culture and asian people appropriate black culture. This only happens sometimes and should not be representatives of said communities
When do blacks appropriate Asian culture? I've only seen other races appropriate to Black culture becuz being Black is so "cool". I've seen Groups like Blackpink appropriate Black culture but never the other way around
@@milanihall9909 1. Don't refer to black people as "blacks" it's out dated and it sounds gross. 2. Alot of black women participated in the chopsticks in the hair and wearing "asian costumes". It's not to say that black people are the only ones to appropriate asian culture because it's always been normalized to sexualize asian traditional clothing and alot of rappers sexualize asian women's bodies . It's also not to say all black people do this or that I don't generalize ANY group of people however I will call out my communities (I'm black, asian, and native) when I have/ do see things that need to be called out.
I like how black men and speaking up for black women and these non black women need to stop having stuff to say every time we speak on each other in a positive way, y'all understand and we shouldn't have to explain are self period.
7:45 I did the same as her and I am estimating that 3 in 100 people I saw were darkskin. That is crazy. It's unbelivable. To all darkskin and other black people, even if you are mixed, just know you are beautiful. 👸🏽👸🏾👸🏿
I am sorry but what about the albinos who have 2 black parents or are mixed but have 0 pigmentations in anything that we have like hair or eyes, etc yea so what about them don't they fit into a category but not light-skinned cause they do not any pigmentation.!?????
Thank U. That was Beautiful. There is Nothing Better than a Black Man coming Home to a Black Woman. What U guys are doing our beyond expectations. (Keep It Up!) The darker the berry. The sweeter the juice. We All Our 1. Black Is Black.
There are people out there talking about "it's just preference" "lightskin look better"....etc
y'all, this is the problem, y'all don't even try to listen and try to understand what those black women are trying to tell you
It's not only about dating...
Darker skin women are complaining about being bashed by BM
They complain about people assuming they are more aggressive or "ghetto" bc of their skin complexion.
They are complaining about having no support from black Black men or lightskin black women.
They are complaining about not being represented.
They complaining about people never listening to them bc of their skin complexion....
The saddest part is that they are being discriminated by their own people but they're allways the one who are gonna stand up for other people.
Colorism affect darkskin people on a daily basis...not only when it comes to dating
this is soo true and people choose to ignore it because it benefits them.
@@homarneysetoute8840 exactly
@Q Lock Can't you read or you're just stupid?? They are not complaining about BM not liking them They're complaining about BM degrating them and not supporting them as much as they support light skin or non-black women
I LITERALLY said it wasn't only about dating or liking someone.
Rejecting someone just bc of his/her skin tone is pretty weird
but since y'all keep tryna justify colorism...
I all so see dark skinned women preferring light skinned men and i all so see dark skinned women being races and mean but hey thats just my experience ?and for the record im with a dark skinned over weight woman so im not colorist 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
@@hotrod6299 Dammmnnn colorism doesn't mean preferring lightskin women. Preference=When you like several things but you like one of these things better than the other ones. Colorists gonna like anybody from any race and any ethnicity butt black women. Colorism means discriminating dark skin people. Some BM date lightskin women and start bashing dark skin women to uplift the lightskin women and that's the problem. just watch the video they are not only talking abt dating stuff like DAMMMN. Dating a dark skin woman doesn't mean you're not a colorist my g, not degrating them and treating them the same way you would treat a lightskin woman makes you not a colorist.
the colorism in black boys is reallllll
Real as day 😞
DaRkSkIn ShAwTy Exactly being biracial does not equate to being black.
@@mshxx7251 Okayy that's not the subject but 1st of all some biracial can be darkskin skin or brown skin so they will automatically identify as Black. Being biracial means being several races at the same time Mixed is not a whole different race. Most biracial people identify as black. Darkskin,brownskin lightskin, mixed..when the light comes off we're all black so stop deviding us and telling people that they're not black enough.
That's not the point cause at the end of the day we're gonna face racism together
@@melaninhub7467 im not dividing though but sorry then x
@@melaninhub7467 sorry if it came out that way love youur channelxx. i mean like those mixed people who would be like i hate white people when there mum/dad is white and hating there white side .
Last category is "mixed" girl no that's not the last. We got pale black people, y'all don't wanna acknowledge or talk about our albino people 😥
Fr albinos aren't mentioned most of the time and that's realllyy messed up
Yeah and mixed/biracial people aren't black. They're mixed/biracial aka part black, not full black aka two black biological parents.
True I didn't find any tiktok that was mentioning them 😓
@@prettypink1724 Being Mixed means you are several races it is not a different race. Mixed people who aren't white passing are seen as black and generally identify as black even if they're not fully black
@@gabrielle_sn9200 Oh yeahhhh. Damn you right
Why aren't more black parents active in instilling self-love in their black daughters? Everything is always about black boys and nobody talks about what young black girls experience
I agree 100% i had my own mother tell me my skin was "too dark",and gave me skin bleaching creams. Along with telling me my natural hair was "ugly", "a mess". And it looked like a "demon"
@ oh wow. If you have a black daughter I suggest you CARE about what we are saying otherwise please do not produce any black girls. They need parents who CARE. Black girls experience a lot of negative representation. We are called angry, ghetto, unattractive, etc. Just so many negative stereotypes and constantly belittled by black men. Being black and then being a woman is the hardest thing because black is seen as least desirable and that's because racism and other factors and that seriously affects the self-esteem of these young black blacks. Hair is another issue. We are constantly told we have bad hair and some black girls grow up to hate their hair and cover it with weave and wigs.
@ will black men for once get over yourselves? When black men get shot black women are right there protesting. The founder of black lives matter is a black woman. And did you not see Brianna Taylor get shot? And on top of that they were looking for her boyfriend who still has his life while she and the baby are gone. When we discuss things we go through black men are very selfish and don't care but when yall go through things we are expected to care. I feel bad for little black girls if these are men they have as fathers.
@ he was a drug dealer who put Brianna and their unborn baby in danger. He's just as guilty as the cops
@ my looks has nothing to with this conversation, be a grown man and have an intelligent conversation without resorting to childish behavior. How old are you 16?
The girl saying she bathed herself in bleach broke my heart 💔 Skin is beautiful in ALL colors from the darkest dark to the lightest light and everything in between.
She needs therapy and a better environment.
No
let her move in with you an see what happens
@@ramsessbilal3387What
@@jemellgeorge1791Yes skin is beautiful. Find God.
Thats how you can always spot the colorist / self hating ones they start off by sayin I white girls because blk girls ... yet every time I hear a white man talk about why he likes blk women the first thing out of his mouth is not to bash his own race . Not to put all the women in his race in a category because the women he chose to deal with .
@Surgeon 17 Men that don’t take women seriously usually tend to date other men.
I know some white guys who date outside their race but don't bash or blame white women for the reason they date out. Black guys are too immature for black women and they know white women are the only ones who will put up with their shit.
@@brett8460 how did she bash white women she really didn't
TRUTH FULLY SPOKEN
@@geni412 “men that don’t take women seriously usually tend to date other men.” uhhhh that’s a very questionable statement for someone who i’m assuming is blk therefore they face the hatred and understand it’s wrong to hate someone for something they can’t change. now what we’re not gonna do is put another marginalized community down. i’m not even a gæ man, i’m sapphic. does that mean i don’t take men seriously? and then let’s incorporate that into the straights. someone dating someone means they don’t take everyone else seriously? i mean it doesn’t make sense. also pstttttt learn about intersectionality, there are gæ blk men and women and they face discrimination for both things. genuinely surprised no one found a problem with that comment...
Please post more videos of people speaking against colourists. It really helps
Yes
Nah they speaking against men
@Imaya Ingram it makes perfect sense your choosing not to understand
@Imaya Ingram 😐 are you dead ass
@Imaya Ingram child you probably dont even know what colorism is
black queens are GORGEOUS. I'm not black but the disrespect I've seen towards black women on tiktok really disturbs me. Black girls like SZA have always been such a role model to me and your culture is everything. I'm so sorry for what y'all have to go through.
I...absolutely love you.
Just wondering but why out of all the role models
@@applesmith8129 lol her album CTRL helped me through a very dark time ig lol so yea I’m deff SZA’s biggest fangirl and i love her energy
@@elizabethtabuai4617 Much more 💗
So colorism is just self racism
It's basically racism against black people who are darker shades
@@melaninhub7467 not just Black people...
@@smaytaganya1446 Yeah I know but since we're talking about colorism in the black community I only mentioned black people but Ik colorism is an issue that affect some other races too :)
@@googlea2692 Yeah I know but since we're talking about colorism in the black community I only mentioned black people but Ik colorism is an issue that affect some other races too :)
@@melaninhub7467 what about lighter shades
At 9:50 he was speaking soooo much truth!!! That’s why us as black women should never feel intimidated by other races of women we are the creators and trendsetters of everything and everyone else follows never let another race of women make you feel less than, cuz trust they wish to be you ✊🏾
YASSS!!! I felt that one in my souulll😂🤗
My Lovely Kids so glad you did, it’s so true!!
@@TTT88961 yes it is🤗🤗😊
Lou facts!! Everyone copies and tries to take credit for what we invented and already naturally had but trust no more we know the truth and can’t no one take that away
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The colourism struggle I am scarred by the word preference
Ikkk😭😭
Fr
@@AlatOnDemand your beautiful ❤️
@@princesstalks1119
Thank you ❤️
Y'all i'm north african (not black tho) and can kinda feel y'all . Men always us and put our tanned complexions down to praise white women , like ??? Tf how u be bashing your own mother's features or your own 💀 so fkn dumb .
am so tired of fighting both racism and colorism at the same time
Lol 😂
Sooo truuue
I am a black teenager living overseas and I would do anything just to go back home because no one is racist back home I don’t want to live in a place where I get atleast 1 racist comment every day. When I was younger I wanted to Mary white men and have white friend and have white kids until I realized what a gift melanin is
This is what I call a rude awakening.
quincy oyugi what country are you in?
Where are you from and where are you currently? You said "I want to go back home".
@@Deedeesky no there’s a ton of skin bleaching products, but in some areas the more melanin the more beautiful but not many
@@camillej4593 the people who bleach there do it for themselves but there is no such thing a shaming darker people, every skin is appreciated.
Umm...Zendaya's mother is white. She is biracial...Just thought you should know that lmao.
Exactly! It’s not hard to tell the whole truth lol
So? (serious question)😅
@@googlea2692 How did I call her???
shes mixed biracial example is like Talia Jackson from family reunion
@@melaninhub7467 so she ain’t fully black tf. Y’all wanna claim everyone is black.
2:00 Whenever I see this one I always start crying. This whole thing almost made me cry.
It's sad to see.
Your pfp is giving me life- I miss monster high :(
Why you black girls always want to cry grow up 😂😂
omg the last tik tok got me jumping everywhere! like FINALLY I hear someone talking about how MOST girls be copying black girls, from the hoop earring, the hand movements to the "ghetto voice" and even more! and alot of them try to act tough and "ghetto like." like I have been WAITING to hear someone talk about this. 😫THANK YOU.😂
btw black ppl are ALWAYS starting trends and are ALWAYS lit!😏
Not at all we're all minorities Latins grew up side by side with blacks same as Asians you can't at all say it originated with blacks! So stop it! You don't know who started it first! Don't come trying to gaslight different communities as if they weren't a thing!
@@zacharymelendez2982 I think you should check your black history. Really dive deep into it. Unfortunately what you said invalidated our culture, things we've done and created, and the fact that we are literally the backbone of America as well as other places. It doesn't take Einstein to know that pop culture and gen-z culture (including mannerisms, slang, etc.) is HEAVILY if not entirely influenced by black folk. Yes, all POC are minorities, but you saying because some of us grew up alongside each other means that it *implied* that y'all started things and most trends that are being used present day. And we do know who started it first because we're educated and learning. We're here to educate, too. Don''t squash and invalidate us in the process of questioning where trends originated, just look deeper into it. Lots of videos, documentaries, black libraries, textbooks, etc.
It's okay to not be black or to be a different race and even want to take part in what we've started and our culture. "Not at all, we're all minorities." is very invalidating and silencing. We're tired of being silenced.
Right! I watched Jackie Aina's video and she said she thinks Blacks made acrylic nails popular and hoop earrings like you said!
@@-joyful-8593 like i said u don't know who did it first period history is all a lie half of it is proven wrong so idc!
@@zacharymelendez2982 get tf on dude us blk females are the orginators and most copied and that's facts.
Black men carry the torch and light the candle for this shit.
I can relate to the girl at 5:48. At the age of 12 I watched CZcams videos about how to lighten skin. I didn’t have access to skin bleaching creams but I watched that lemon can help lighten the skin and I tried using it everyday in the bathroom and literally wasted the lemons my mom would buy from the store. It didn’t work and I’m glad! Because today I love my chocolate skin more than ever! ☺️
I relate. I wish this worked with straightening hair. In 1st and 2nd grade, girls would harass me bcuz of my hair so I straightened it often and now 10 years later I'm still trying to bring back the curls and coils
Omg me too
Lemons work slightly for things like hyperpigmentation, but it's not going to bleach you completely. There are products, creams, and pills that work VERY effectively but I wouldn't recommend.
You're gorg sis! 💕
Same
do you really love it? or are you just telling yourself that to make yourself feel better about yourself when you know its not true
Please post more videos like this one ❤
I'm a teenager black girls who lives overseas in Africa exactly, and it's sad to see how my sister's are treated so badly by ours own brothers. ( Sorry for my English, I speak Portuguese ).
Your English Was Spoken Beautifully
This is such a personal question, so if you prefer not to answer I understand, but are you from Angola, Cape Verde, Mozambique or Guinea Bissau? I love learning about different countries and language. And you have such a pretty name and your English was written perfectly! Sorry if this comes across as creepy
@@libbystwinfreelibby1839 In my case I’m from mozambique 🇲🇿💖
Wrong your English is clear I get your point🔥
Tell me I wasnt the only black gurl
asking myself: "If this Dude won't DISLIKE me because I am darkskinned gurll?!"
you are not. I be asking myself too. I even be like "he probably to don't like black/darkskin girl
@@adetomiakintitan4980
Idk but its frustrating for me to think about that but this wont change the way I look at my skin color its unique and if the person dont like
well IDGAF
and I try to get over it somehow...........
falling moon yess that’s the energy👏🏿👏🏿 we don’t alter our skin color over here😌
@@adetomiakintitan4980 PERIODT.
@@adetomiakintitan4980I have to plead guilty to some of this. As a kid I was constantly being bullied about my skin color. I kind of took it to heart until I met dark skinned girls who were kind,considerate and generally great friends to me. Tbh I still have a little guilt over some of my thoughts concerning dark skinned girls. But my experience taught me that personality is way more attractive than skin color
Me personally , I don't consider "mixed" people as black ... Just saayingg .
Same. They’re mixed that’s that.
Exactly just like Barack Obama is the first biracial or mixed President not Black. You’re absolutely right!
why are you guys si eager to put people in a box though ? they are black, maybe not fully but they still are, i mean some mixed people look darkskined and face the same racism as a black person.
@@deprimeplatypus490 and they are still white. They are MIXED.
@@deprimeplatypus490 If they face racism that is their issue. Brown skin asians dont call themselves black just because they face racism. Stop erasing black people
It's sad society has come down to this.
Mixed people are mixed people they are not just black.
Im a "darkskin" biracial and i agree. Not because i don't want to be black its just the facts. Black isnt about adopting culture, racial experiences, and shade of brown. Its dna for your parents
Mixed is not a race.
@@Maria-kp4ws black isnt a race. White isnt a race. Brown isn't a race. Yet it's still said. And we know what is being implied..idk y people get offended by mixed but not about the "blacks" and "white" etc thing its literally the equivalent. And Biracial isnt just one race is what she means.
If It came up in a conversation I will say I'm Black. Not Native American or White or Mixed. I don't relate to those communities. I relate to the Black community. You don't know what I look like and what I experienced.
@@Maria-kp4ws neither is any other “race”
Satan was kicked out of the Heavens for thinking he was all that. Believe of himself better than man. His destination on the day of Judgement is Hell. Don't listen to his evil ways of vanity, color and he is better. Follow the Most High who said BE. Who has control over the body and soul. Vanity is spawned from Satan and his followers.
AMEN!❤❤
AMEN!🤎
@@bumblebee_0112 girl you everywhere lol
Amen very true💜
AMEN!!!!
Thesavoyshow, That black man is speaking FACTS
💯💯
@@melaninhub7467 can you do part 2 please
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I`m a black man, I`m 27 and I am just realizing that colorism is a real thing.. I`m sorry for living under a rock, I love all shades of a black so I was not aware that colorism a thing and I am sorry some of y`all have to go through these type of bs specially that we should all be able to relate since we are all black and have to deal with racism ✊🏾✊🏾
Not only you deal with racism.
Racism still exists because whites and blacks are of different origins but share same history in which whites had wronged the blacks.
I am not saying that all blacks are racist but as a white guy I have experienced that whatever we do, we are called racist just because we are whites. Where as a black person can never be racist since he is a black person!
That's wrong right? Not all blacks are like that but still there are some. Meanwhile a white guy can also be racist, which we have seen in murder of George Floyd. But not all whites are like that.
Racism cannot be removed because both parents of both races teach their children differently. My parents had strictly told me to be very polite and calm with blacks since they are aggressive and feel taunted easily. This is so wrong. When I was a kid I didn't even knew if they are aggressive. Such teaching sucks.
One of my black friend once told me that his parents strictly told him to behave in a particular nice manner with whites since whites have more legal power and he could get arrested/blamed for wrong crime. This kind of teaching is also incorrect.
I am sure this happens in most houses. A pure child who knows nothing about racism is forced to behave in such a way with opposite race creates a divide. It tells the child that he's different from other guy. This is how racism continues.
None of my black friends were ever racist or aggressive with me but we all do behave little different with each other than we do with our race.
People of same race find it easy to interact with same race but hard at same time with other races.
My conclusion is to end racism we should not blame any other race. Whatever our ancestors did cannot be forgiven. But we are not them. There's no use blaming us or hating our race.
@Truth IS why can't i be here
@Truth IS cause I support black lives matter. Why are you trying to get me out of the community?
@@niranjandesai6766 yes.
I hate how black people go around insulting whites and they say "I can't be racist bcz I'm black". You are racist, you the same shit...
Simp..
It’s the fact that almost all of the TikTokers in this videos barely have any views and I can bet you tik tok is doing that shit on purpose. These videos need to be on a wider audience.
Yass girl that's what I was thinking. They be banning our acc for no damn reason too. qfnuitqahdniouFKN Anyway bye girl 💖❤
Brownskin always gets ignored in the conversation
It's a blessing and a curse either way we all black
Who taught you to hate your dark skin,
Who taught you to hate your thick lips and wide nose,
Who taught you to hate your kinky hair?
Malcom x aka el hajj malik shabazz
Read young people!
tv and the media taught me to
@@lenoralol9962 what they said and white ppl from MY EXPERIENCE
This is great what your doing. I’m so happy to see these things. No matter what color we are we need to stick together in the black community.
I see this tiktok of this black boy that stated “I prefer no dark skinned women” it be your own people!!!
Nothing wrong with that
It’s boys so young they are colorist and it’s sad but you just have to surround yourself with the right people . remember darker the berry sweeter the juice 😀
I understand the girl @ 5:50 I did that and I'm a boy I didn't understand why I got so much hate but it makes sense now that I'm older
The self hate is real- these boys need to find themselves a job or a life 🤦
No, they need a therapy.
@@smaytaganya1446 yep
Yup therapy is needed
They prolly feel that way because of what they were put thru at the hands of black women in their family but no one ever wants to talk about that.
@@demarcushunt6463 that's why yall need therapy
The first girl really confused me. She went from talking about „types of black people“ categorized by skin tone, to the last one who was NOT out there based off of skin tone, but by „race“ . I honestly thought she was gonna say albino. So then you have the 4 types of black peoples skin tone. And then she said „I’m doing mixed people next“ you already included them in a TikTok for BLACK peoples skin tone...
I see you every where oh gosh 😂😂
So I'm not black?
9:52-10:50, I couldn’t help but smile.
Thank you for sharing this... I sometimes feel powerless because not every black person can understand.
"mixed is when you have one black parent and one of another race". I understand she's speaking specifically about those who are mixed with black. However it is VERY important to note that being mixed doesn't automatically mean you are mixed with black. It means you have two different races (often exchanged with ethnicity too). Just wanted to point that out, but ofc in this context I understand
Okay you guys live in America and you say so ...it's wrong obsly ...but living in my own country I have heard many a things .....that I won't get married because of my darker tone and stuff ..... It hurts... I hope this colourism ends
If that's you on your profile pic then you will surely get married, you're gorgeous and I wish I could tell all the dark-skinned Asians that because they are💖.
@@_osame8645 she is just trying to play victim.There is no way she would have trouble getting married
The first persons tiktok was very weird. I do not agree with separating Black People by their skin Shade. This whole lightskin, brownskin, darkskin thing doesn’t sit right with me because I was growing up, if I saw a black person, no matter what shade they were, I just knew they were black. Black is literally black. Showing the different shades of “Black” and separating us, then telling people to stop separating us is very weird. Maybe I’m buggin out but it just doesn’t sit right with me.
I loved all of these videos! They spoke the TRUTH
Lets us also remember God in these times. May God's mercy and grace cover you and your families in these times
Wing Wong your religion is wrong
@@bakedpotatoes5545 tf d'you mean "how?"? They worship a someone who clearly isn't real and is fabricated.
@@bakedpotatoes5545 her remains, and religious text is not even proof of a god existing.
As a black girl this speaks volumes 💯 I am so glad I've came across this video because I see colorism everywhere I go and it's so sickening. All black women are pretty in every, shape, skin tone, hair style, etc. Everything is beautiful about them. Watching this video almost made me cry because even I've experienced this in middle school before the pandemic hit. I've seen so many black girls get called b words and other hurtful words by black boys. I used to come home every day questioning myself and wondering if I was pretty.
an interesting note about the first one, my sister and i are both blasian, but im light skinned and my sister is dark skinned, while our mom is brown skinned
Yeah genes are weird
Unlike Africans, the average black Americans is 15-25% European.
"Light skinned does not equal mixed" is just wrong.
Just because both of your parents were mixed race to some extent doesn't mean you're not.
9:11 As a Black woman, the amount of people that ask me "So, what do you do?" when I buy expensive things, or engage with expensive services is exhauuuusting dude.
The young lady in the car with the blue shirt made me cry, although I wanted to hug her because of the pain we suffer daily.😢
I just wanna say I genuinely love black people coming from a black person. But, I want you all to know you are enough and your skin is beautiful. If a man isn’t gonna like you cuz your skin well he ain’t worth it. You are beautiful and amazing. Black women set the trend for like everything they hate us because they are intimidated. I’m not saying everyone hates black women but a lot of ppl do. We are so beautiful and are God’s creation. Other races know your beautiful as well I just need to take the time to uplift black women and their beauty because we are constantly being degraded
That I’m sorry video hurt my heart🥺🥺🥺I’ve struggled with racism before, and being from another country makes it harder(Kenyan proud🇰🇪) bc ppl think that I can’t speak English, when I was born in the US
5:46 she pretty 🍫
Fr She is.
The last man , I love him so much . He didn't lie either , We need more men's like him !!🤍
Some of yall gonna be mad at me, but can we please stop calling mixed people black...
I assume you're talking about mixed black people? Like, 1 white parent and 1 black parent.
Me knowing most black men only see me for my skin tone & pretty hair makes me not wanna date them...
I feel disgusted 🤦🏾♀️🚮
It pisses me off every time I hear
“what u mixed with” ... both of my parents are brown skinned. Idk how I look like this 😕
I go to a majority white school and the black boys that are there all prefer white girls and dont like theeir own race. And me being one of the few dark skinned girls there, I never ever tried to be involved with anyone, because one I dont want too, but if I did desire to do so, ik nobody would want me. I used to think that ew I dont want a black guy or ew I dont want a white guy...etc. But at the end of the day, idc what race he is, I just want a man that will accept my race and my culture, and appreciate me and my sisters as black women. And appreciate ALL races. Racism is so outta pocket its just annoying now.
Try not to worry too much. I went to a majority black school and I wasn't black girls preference at the time. I didn't feel desired until I started dating 'others'. Now black women are very much interested. Some of us are late bloomers
@@ahmorgan i see what you mean, honestly its just sad that racism exists lol
@@nonameno2696 yeah it's so fucking stupid. In a way though, dealing with that shit at a young age can be a good thing. Adversity builds character, you'll be better prepared to deal with the bs of this world as you get older. But it definitely sucks. I know how stupid boys can be (I was one). Some of us are straight ignant...not much you can really do honestly at that point but recognize that these fools don't define who you are
@ 5:20 That's what I've been saying for years. I remember reading about it in books-that particularly were abut slavery. Colorism has been around for centuries. I remember reading about how enslaved Africans with lighter skin complexions worked indoors while enslaved Africans with darker complexions work outdoors.
8:13 BRROOO I literally have to keep searching google to find more dark skin AND brown skin photos every time just to see what a specific hair color/style would look like. Hell sometimes even lipstick designs. Am I the only one? Can someone fr explain this? It’s annoying
Literally had 1 light skin friend who opened this door for me. I liked a guy who was white and she told me that he didn't like dark skin girls and was into her cuz she was light skin. Turns out she was lying as years later I ended talking to him and he was def into me and he actually hated her guts cuz he knew she was fake asf. Wish I knew then what I know now cuz that's not even half of the crazy she was throwing down.
It never occured to me there was a divide because my family is multi colored. I am the 2nd darkest of the entire family and I thought it was normal to have a colorful family. My book worm ass was not paying attention becuase looking back I now see how the world viewed my family because of our different shadings of black
How do you feel like the world viewed your family? I'm asking cuz my family is different colors too. A lot of kids would assume my mother was my nanny bcuz as a child I was so close to white skin and my mother is brown skin.
Light skinned women always think they are preferred in the white community just bc of their light skin. Newsflash there are people of light/white complexions all over the white community, they are seeing nothing new and "exotic" when they see you. That's why when they date us girls of color they usually choose the darker ones like me and you. She thought she ate
The first one was 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
thank you so much for posting this!!!!!!! please talk about how black girls treat light skins/brown skins!! idk if it still goes on but dark skin girls treated me like crap fr based or things i cannot control and how they were treated bc of ppl that look like me
I understand where mixed people are from about feeling that they don't belong in the black/ other racial communities but the reason but you have to understand too the reason black people have a problem with biracial people being labeled is as black is because colonizers would use biracial people as model blacks because they adhere to the beauty standards etc while completely shoving non mixed black people aside and thats where this whole mixed people are black becomes a problem.
The reason why I put mixed people in this is bc some mixed people are dark or brownskin and they face way more discrimination than a fully black person who's lightskin, some mixed people are seen and treated as black in the society, they just get no privilege from being mixed, so I think it's ok for them to identify as black. For example, Ryan Destiny is mixed and ain't nobody see her as such. Let's not forget that being mixed does not equal being light.
@@melaninhub7467 i understand what you saying but I was just explaining why black people have problem it , I do not discredited the struggles that mixed people go through or deny the fact they are part of the black community, its important for people to understand where the each other's view points are coming from or else we won't get anywhere.
Ofc :)
Well, that's not a problem anymore. The world has accepted people like Beyonce and Barak Obama are Black. And I know I do not represent dark people but I won't take anybody telling me I'm not Black
Light skin and medium black people can know what it's like to be dark skin. Just stay in the sun long enough.
What's your point? (I'm curious)
It's true for me, I come in many shades. There has been a plenty of times where I couldn't wear my normal makeup during the summer because I'm 4x darker.😂🤣 I am Brown BTW.
@@thatawesomewoman5389 yeah. There are photos from when I was a child and I have really darkened orange/brown skin but now my skin is the shade of Zendaya's
The guy in last broooooooooo ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️👐
The type of black men black women need
@@melaninhub7467 thank God for men's like this cuz i be really thinking that like NOBODY like us .
6:25 made me tear up cause I feel her pain
I just noticed that I’m brownskin black.
Ppl only focus on light and dark skin ppl while some of us are in between :’)
3:02 Whenever I ask a white person "Why do you tan" they give me bull shit like "Oh I just like the way it looks". *No Peter, no Pamela-you got the right one. Today is the day we find out*
@@burntsoup huh?
@@burntsoup oh aright thank you for breaking it down I’m slow sometimes
Tanning is natural bleaching isn’t lol
@@PossibleBat No, not natural tanning. I mean chemical tanning like the ones in bottles and putting on tanning iron it’s the intent to get darker.
@@burntsoup I agree, thank you for the explanation
All skin is beautiful, no matter which way you put it🤷🏽♀️
I love the mom (in the blue dress). My son is bi-racial, his mommy (me) is black & he LOVES black girls…dark girls! I love my son. 🥰 Go get him sistas….one at a time though…please.
Idc about anybody’s preference my skin is beautiful, your skin is beautiful, our skin is beautiful ❤️.
The arguing in the comments about what’s “black enough” doesn’t make it any better. If anything, it just proves how we’re separating ourselves. :/
OOOHH THAT LAST GUY WAS SPEAK FACTSSSS🗣
If we're mixed we ain't just black
Mixed is not just Black and another race
9:51 I hear nothing but facts 👏🏾
Can uh the next black generation put a end to this and run the world
Democrats and Joe Biden they got so many Medicals coming through that they going to rule the world nobody else hey oh alright
That last clip of dude 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Omg The second video is I had the same discussions with black guys and they respond the same way it was just them criticizing only black girl not once did they mention another race.
I love black woman.
The girl @1:02 was on point
The girl @2:00 She was saying the right things, but the fake crying is too much. She didn't even have any tears
Also, someone needs to let the girl @4:51 know that the Willie Lynch letter isn't real
Bro what?
2:00 Was just getting emotional she wasn't fake crying or tryna cry
@@melaninhub7467 agreed
research it..... the letter real....
How can the letter not be real when we still experience it today, especially the skin shade/tone one. There is some truth to it even if it wasn't/isn't real.
2:00
Got me really sad. I'm sorry to every black woman who's ever felt like they aren't hood enough just because of their skin color. Don't worry over guys like that.
People have such low standards for light skinned women and white women, but a dark skinned black woman needs to be absolutely perfect to get an ounce of respect
Bro If my mom is black and my dad is mix does that mean I'm mix?🤔
@GreyFace oh thanks
He has a point about white women. They tan and damn near get skin cancer. Somebody needs to tell them to love themselves and get healthy amounts of sun. Honestly all that tanning is going to age them faster.
they are trying to look italian/spanish/greek, not black. Big difference.
@@gibememoni Okay it doesn’t matter why they’re doing it it’s harmful. And how do you know? Have you heard of black-fishing white and Spanish influencers do it all the time. Don’t say it like that
4:55 , omg i didn’t even think about history of colorism , but thats it right there
I cried 🥲 thank you 🙏🏾
I'm multiracial this was interesting👍
9;51 to 11:12 shows passion
Can we talk about how stunning the girl @ 2:00 is!? Omg she was gorgeous
Tbh I’m not surprised. Never expected anything better from society. It’s focused on things people can’t control. Always has been.
#blm 💯
As a blasian native woman I can't wait to see the cultural appropriation conversation between black and asian people it runs really deep. Black people appropriate asian culture and asian people appropriate black culture. This only happens sometimes and should not be representatives of said communities
When do blacks appropriate Asian culture? I've only seen other races appropriate to Black culture becuz being Black is so "cool". I've seen Groups like Blackpink appropriate Black culture but never the other way around
@@milanihall9909 1. Don't refer to black people as "blacks" it's out dated and it sounds gross.
2. Alot of black women participated in the chopsticks in the hair and wearing "asian costumes". It's not to say that black people are the only ones to appropriate asian culture because it's always been normalized to sexualize asian traditional clothing and alot of rappers sexualize asian women's bodies . It's also not to say all black people do this or that I don't generalize ANY group of people however I will call out my communities (I'm black, asian, and native) when I have/ do see things that need to be called out.
@@milanihall9909 also sorry for the long response
@@tsumi_the_hapa4009 don’t Asian people have a whole thing called b-style and b-gyru or something yeah I don’t want to hear that
@@JhaAydah I think you're refuring to the fashion trend in Japan correct?
I been said delete tik Tok 🚮🤷🏽♀️
All the fools are the ones that wanted it to stay 🤡
I think as black people we need to be united...we shouldn't be sparking so much division between us...it's like a civil war...not good
I like how black men and speaking up for black women and these non black women need to stop having stuff to say every time we speak on each other in a positive way, y'all understand and we shouldn't have to explain are self period.
What movie or show was playing at 8:35?
"Dear white people"
It's on Netflix or streaming websites
It's a great show
Go watch it immediately
This série was... 😅
7:45 I did the same as her and I am estimating that 3 in 100 people I saw were darkskin. That is crazy. It's unbelivable. To all darkskin and other black people, even if you are mixed, just know you are beautiful. 👸🏽👸🏾👸🏿
It's so good to see most people in the comments rejecting the damn One Drop Rule.
I wish peopld could be like this and stop normalizing racism against asian people.
#✊🏾
I am sorry but what about the albinos who have 2 black parents or are mixed but have 0 pigmentations in anything that we have like hair or eyes, etc yea so what about them don't they fit into a category but not light-skinned cause they do not any pigmentation.!?????
Now you got it
Albinos are their own category. It's called albinism
Thank U. That was Beautiful. There is Nothing Better than a Black Man coming Home to a Black Woman. What U guys are doing our beyond expectations. (Keep It Up!) The darker the berry. The sweeter the juice. We All Our 1. Black Is Black.
"IT'S NOT HIS FAULT THE HE HAD TO SEARCH DARK SKIN WITH BOX BRAIDS" PREAAAACH