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Growing up can be a bumpy road, and it's no exception for Riley, who is uprooted from her Midwest life when her father starts a new job in San Francisco. Like all of us, Riley is guided by her emotions - Joy (Amy Poehler), Fear (Bill Hader), Anger (Lewis Black), Disgust (Mindy Kaling) and Sadness (Phyllis Smith). The emotions live in Headquarters, the control center inside Riley's mind, where they help advise her through everyday life. As Riley and her emotions struggle to adjust to a new life in San Francisco, turmoil ensues in Headquarters. Although Joy, Riley's main and most important emotion, tries to keep things positive, the emotions conflict on how best to navigate a new city, house and school.
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Jane why not see this ? đ i think Jane like this film too đ
Please do the Shrek series! You're gonna love it I guarantee you
Hi Jv when are you gonna release coraline and wreck it ralph on yt? Im excited to watch it!
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I love how most reactions start out hating Sadness for âruiningâ Riley, and then it slowly dawns on them that Joy trying to force happiness is the problem. I do love how the film shows a kid struggling with a problem in such a clever way. Because she denies herself to be sad, she is pushed to react to everything with fear and anger, until she just stops caring about anything.
YES!!
Yeah true I wasn't one of them but it's interesting to see others share that reaction.
I've noticed that too
Aka, depression. =P
Except for the few dumbass reactors who miss the point entirely.
Sadness isn't a bad thing, you need sadness to appreciate the Joyful things. Sometimes a mixture of both sadness and joy are the best of memories.
So, you basically just told us about feelings like weâve never had them. Thanks đ
@@judeless77 why be a jerk? Whatâs the point? Who hurt you?
@@judeless77 we should just delete the whole film, right?
I feel that way about anything nostalgic. Sadness that it's gone and joy that it happened.
I like it that both Joy and sadness has the same blue color
That first moment in San Fran where Sadness says âthey donât love us anymore, thatâs sadâŠI should drive, right?â Is the moment when Sadness should actually drive. What if Riley had expressed some of her sadness and concern to her mom at that moment? Mom could have comforted her and helped her process some of the fear and worry she had about the whole situation. It would have been more real than Joy covering up with âletâs have pizzaâ and later mom rewards that with the line âyouâve stayed our happy girl.â
I get such a sadistic joy out of watching people's initial response to the character of Sadness.
Yes, yes, fall into the trap! đ€Ł
I actually really enjoy seeing the few who know immediately that Joy is making a mistake.
@@StoryMing I enjoy both but I find it respectable when people know immediately that just constantly making yourself happy when you're not is a bad thing, but honestly you can't expect people to get it right away and when they eventually do it's very much satisfying and it shows the movie holds impact.
the first time I watched this, I immediately hated Joy!! XD I thought she was selfish and a bully towards Sadness. I almost stopped watching the movie because of her!! So I was glad to see the direction the movie took and what the message was!!
I remember, when watching in theaters, I hated Joy, she was really overbearing đ€Ł
It never was Sadness ruining anything, it was just RIley BEING sad. They're personifications of her emotions, not the whimsical rulers that dictate how she feels
I've never seen it like this. Makes me appreciate the movie so much more, because I didn't like the idea of being controlled, so it soured the movie for me. Thank you for your intake!
@@jasmineart9961 I mean you can definitely read it like that! They are characters in this movie after all, but since all of this is a metaphor for how emotions work... I mean, in the end it doesn't even really matter where the emotion originates, in the end, all five of them ARE Riley. If you look at the parents emotions etc, they even look like the people they personify. To me it just makes sense because it perfectly explains why Sadness can't stop touching the memories, and she's even confused herself why she keeps doing it, why she can't help it, it's because Riley is sad, and she is Riley's sadness, that is being cast over the memories of what she had to leave behind. Riley ist sad, that's why Sadness can't stop herself.
Thank you. Exactly! â€đ
@@ginster458 make sense even better what Joy trying to stop Sadness and fails - cause Riley said in the end what she knows she must be a happy girl, so she forcing joy inside, but it just didn't work
@@jasmineart9961 A way to see it is, "This really sucks, but I need to keep calm for everyone else." Just using the conflict with the character personifying that struggle of not wanting to show 'weakness'.
If you watch closely, the island that appears at the end when the bittersweet memory become a core memory is not family island again - the family is the central part, but you also see hockey, goofball etc, because this is the island of childhood. Riley is slowly becoming an adult, and all her former memories congeal into a part of her personality, the part that formed during childhood. Her emotions become mixed, more complex, and her old happy memories turn sad- not because they were sad to begin with, they aren't even inherently sad now, they're sad because they're in the past. Because you cannot relive them. Think of it like when you lose a friendship, or a love, or a loved one- the happy memories turn blue, you can still see the scene playing, remember the laughter and the fun, but they're blue now, cause they're gone.
Great catch!
It's still family-- primarily-- but different than the original island that was lost. Most notable feature to me is that it now has the Golden Gate Bridge. Soon after, you see that Goofball and Hockey etc have also been "restored" as their own islands..
I love their portrayal of emotions and memories. And I think one of the best is the control panel. It was small, at first, and they kept making the comment of letting one or the other emotions drive. At that age, you aren't mature enough to really be able to strongly feel multiple emotions at once. One will always be in charge. The others would have input, but one was predominant. At the end, the new control panel allowed them to all exercise control at once, as Riley's emotional maturity grew enough to have more complex emotions.
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Plus, the graying-out of the panel, and their inability to do anything with it, is a very accurate metaphorical depiction of depression.
@@StoryMing Yes. A good representation of a full emotional shutdown, where you cant even pull yourself out enough to feel sad, angry, or even afraid.
Please cry! There is no shame in crying at a touching movie. That's emotional intelligence right there.
This is pretty much the point of the movie. Don't suppress your emotions, no matter what you think of them.
Sadness isn't *making* Riley feel sad, she is only the manifestation of the sadness Riley actually feels in the here and now. Sadness told Joy that she didn't know *WHY* she was suddenly feeling compelled to touch the current memories. It was because Riley was feeling sad, and she *needed* to express that.
This comment helped me apprectiate sadness more, she always annoyed me up until the second half of the movieđ
What I love about this movie is that it reminds the audience that being sad is not a bad thing. Sadness is not inherently bad. It's good to be sad sometimes. We need to be sad, we can't always be happy, it's not possible. In this movie the audience realizes that the reason sadness has to act out so much is because Joy is not allowing Sadness to work with Riley. So Riley doesn't know how to deal with being sad because Joy is always forcing her to be happy when she needs to feel Sadness to mature. It is okay to be sad.
It's a good point - the message I primarily take away is that sadness is the root of empathy. Seeing how Sadness helps Bing Bong process the loss of the wagon through sympathy. You also see how Riley's mother has Sadness leading Headquarters in her mind, but she's not a dower or outwardly depressed person. The mother's Sadness picks up that something is out of the ordinary with Riley and tactfully tries to get to the root of it - so you could say that the mother's emotional intelligence is based in the empathy Sadness provides.
In the words of Gandalf, " âGo in peace! I will not say: do not weep; for not all tears are an evil.â
I'm just really glad to find a youtuber guy who's not afraid to cry on camera. Like serious kudos for not being embarrassed or ashamed to do so
It is refreshing. Have you heard of the channel âCinema Therapyâ? Itâs a really good channel. Two guys, one is a film maker and the other is his friend who is a licensed therapist. They go through movies and talk about the messaging, the characters and their relationships, anything physiological and how to work through things (e.g. trauma, depression etcâŠ) and how the cinematography has been used to emphasise and portray behaviours and mindsets. The reason why I am mentioning the channel is that there have been many of there videos where they have cried. I highly recommend, I believe they have an episode about âInside outâ.
â@@mazzy305 ugh i love them. Their channel genuinely feels like a mini therapy sesh đ
The fun things is, if you rewatch the movie now you'll see that Sadness was trying to help and Joy was the one getting in the way.
"Inside out" and "I'm not going to cry" just don't go together đ
I love how Sadness realized that shes compulsed to touch Rileys memories and thinks that there's something wrong with her. It really puts it in perspective. Riley couldn't feel sad and talk about it at home which lead her to exploding during school when talking about it.
itâs important to remember that they arenât piloting her like a mech lol, theyâre essentially just metaphors for how the brain naturally works. sadness wasnât making her sad, she was just sad because of the circumstances
And trying to fight and surpress the sadness with a mask of happiness.
I modeled my emotions as colorful talking critters
"who's gonna be the bad guy "...that's why I like movies such as inside out. It shows that a movie doesn't necessarily need to have a typical hero/antagonist to get entertaining. I really like this movie creativity and how it tackles serious issues like mental health, internal changes when growing up, discovering your personality etc. that suits kids while being entertaining for adults too.
I always break down crying when Riley says to her parents "Please don't be mad." That was how I lived most of my life. I hid my feelings from my mom because I didn't want her to be mad. I just very recently started to express my feelings more because long story short I had a breakdown and I ended up in the hospital for about a week and a half. That was a few months ago, now I'm doing better with explaining how I feel. What I've learned in therapy is that it's okay to be sad, I used to hate myself for being sad because I hated what followed. Now I'm working more to balance my emotions and it's a lot of work but I'm glad that I'm working towards being more emotionally balanced. This was a great reaction, and I knew you were gonna cry. It's a great lesson for kids and their parents.
I live in this same type of environment too, having a strongly emotional personality clash with an anger-prone mom. Every day can be so hard đ
For me itâs right before that, when she says « you need me to be happy ». I just canât get through that part without breaking down into tears.
Your amount of empathy and willingness to understand the characters even when you dont like them on the surface is truly a wonderful trait. You dont meet people like this every day, its really refreshing. I avoid my own emotions a lot (still trying though) so these movies and reactions serve as a huge relief because I end up crying with you lol. thank you, keep being you.
I definitely think this movie is about mental health along with how, as we age, our feelings become more complex like you said. We don't want to feel the perceived negative emotions but we need to remember that all of our emotions are important đ„°
PRECISELY. When Joy & Sadness get sucked away Riley becomes depressed. She doesn't feel happy or sad, just all the other emotions that cause her to act irrationally... this is exactly what depression feels like.
Bingbong "dying" allways makes me cry. He really was the best friend anyone can have, I mean he was happy to be forgotten so that Happy could save Riley-
I love the fact that this movie can make people cry over an imaginary friend fading from memory after the child has outgrown them.
I cry at it too, every time, but I'm a total sap so it's hard for me to know whether something will have the same emotional impact on others that it does on me.
That part made me cry but it utterly destroyed my 9 year old nephew. His grandpa (or G pawas he called him) died only a year before and I think that's why it messed him up so bad.
@@marahbaker8615 I understand. I am so sorry about Grandpa.
There's talk about moving AND THEN there's the actual moving. The idea of moving from a child perspective is no big deal. It's when you actually move when things get real and the stability of your world gets rocked. Especially as a preteen!
Every time I watch this movie I can't help but think of my sister's 5 kids. Her husband cheated on her and they divorced, but it was messy and took like 3 years to finalize. And they had just moved into a nice big new home right before my sister found out, and when he left her she couldn't afford the new place alone and they had to move into a temp home, and now they're renting a home from one of their church friends. All in the span of like 5 or 6 years their parents have split up, he had a new kid with the other woman, they've moved like 4 times (and on a happier note, but still I imagine a lot of stress to kids all 15 and under, my sister just got engaged to a new guy). And it's like I can see which emotion is "piloting" each of the kids.
Me, on the other hand... I've never moved in my life. Now 30 years old and still living in the same bedroom as I always have. I feel like I 'missed out' on that experience of moving and making new friends and sort of getting to reinvent yourself. But I was the accidental child of the family and my parents were in their 60s when I graduated high school. So instead I've stayed home and paid rent and do a lot of the manual labor like house cleaning, grocery shopping, lawn mowing, raking leaves, and shoveling the driveway. But I know that once they're gone and I need to actually find somewhere else to live that'll be an adventure.
Start of the movie: is sadness the villain? Sheâs ruining everything!
End of the movie: joy was the villain; she was ruining everything
Nobody was the villain and doesnât ruin everything. Our feelings arenât bad nor good. itâs just some of us are afraid to express them cause we want to be happy to make other people happy.
@@BalletBullet1 yeah but from a character development standpoint it was essentially Joy that was the catalyst for our conflict
@@Alex-kd5xc true.
@@Alex-kd5xc I mean, in that case riley's mom would be the villain because she made joy think she should stay in control right when she was about to give it up
@@Alex-kd5xc True, and if you go a layer deeper you could even agrue that Riley herself caused this. They are her emotions, her thoughts and ideas. She didn't want to feel anything like joy or sadness for a while so she forced them out.
I always feel just a little protective of Sadness when people assume she's the villain at the start. xD
Yeah, depression is like that. You are overcome with sadness, can't feel joy, eventually you stop feeling sad, and there's just fear/anger/disgust left. Then you stop feeling that as well and just shut down like Riley does at the end.
Pixar in
1995: What if toys have feelings?
2001: What if monsters have feelings?
2004: What if Superheros have feelings?
2008: What if robots have feelings?
2017: What if dead people have feelings?
2020: What if souls have feelings?
And then 2015: What if feelings have feelings?
You should react to Ratatouille, Up and Finding Nemo
I love how all this chaos happened because she suppressed her sadness. So relatable
Notice the emotions taking the lead in each of the parents. Dad's being run by anger at the moment, mostly because from the background dialog, it's obvious his new startup isn't going as smoothly as he thought and he's frustrated over it. And mom is being managed by sadness because she probably left behind all of her friends too, and she's trying to be a supportive wife and mother while managing her own grief.
It also feeds into the more stereotypical gender roles of men being more aggressive and assertive, a trait associated with anger (and notice anger isn't always a bad thing because "he cares very much about things being fair" so it emphasizes there are some things worth being angry about) while women tend to be more empathetic to the emotions of others, which can often make us sadder more easily (hence why "chick flicks" have a tendency to have tragic endings or make you cry).
But at the same time, consider that emotions are not simple, which is what the movie is trying to show. Sadness is also empathy, which you would need a lot of as a mother. Anger is also pride, assertiveness, even a form of confidence. Mixing emotions also forms other emotions. Joy + Sadness = nostalgia/melancholy. Joy + Disgust = Intrigue. Disgust + Fear = Revulsion/Phobia...etc...
for me the saddest part is bingbong being forgotten. I have a lot of mixed emotions about my childhood bc it was not a good one, and I had to grow up way too fast. That "letting go" of riley's childhood was just so hard to watch
I cannot say I hate or hated Joy or Sadness - Joy forcing happiness at the beginning is all of us when we try to stay positive - most of us humans have grown up with the mindset that no matter what, you should be happy, because any other feeling you show makes you strange, so Joy is just a representation of that mindset and obviously as the story progresses it changes and we can see that all feelings play a role at different times of our lives and for different reasons
I've noticed a lot of people express incredulity at the fact that Riley and her emotions seemed to have not realized they were going to be moving until the house was sold and they were actually leaving. I believe it's not that they didn't know it was going to happen (because as you said, it would have been talked about, they had to have been packing for some time and making all the necessary arrangements, so there was no way that Riley's parents could have kept it hidden and then sprung the news on her at the last minute); rather, I think it more likely that it just didn't really sink in for her until then. I myself have had occasions where I knew something was coming up and I had discussed it with other people and was all prepared for it, but then suddenly when the time came and it was actually happening, I suddenly got really anxious about it out of nowhere. As far as I'm concerned, this is what the movie is trying to portray, not ignorance of the situation.
When I moved out of country for a time I had planned it for month. I was going because I wanted to. So, when the time came to say goodbye to my friends I was a bit stunned and worded my emotions as "Huh. So I will not See you for a few month." And my friends were like "duh! Do you just realise that??" And the fact was: my emotions did just realise the meaning of the thoughts in that moment.
Yep, me with my college exams. I always know that they are coming but it only starts to down on me like 2-3 weeks before the exams start lol.
Yeah kids simply cannot understand those sorts of concepts until they are happening.
I remember moving 45-mins away to another town when I was 13. I was a little older than Riley, was pretty excited about the move, had family members who lived in the town, had even spent a decent amount of time there visiting family throughout my childhood, and wasn't moving so far away that I couldn't ever see my old friends again. So it was basically the perfect situation to be able to move without having a rough time dealing with it. About a week and a half after moving in; I remember looking out the apartment window, not seeing the pickup basketball game happening across the street (which was nearly a nightly occurrence for all the kids who grew up on my cul-de-sac), and I cried harder than I've probably ever cried in my entire life. It was mostly the realization that things wouldn't ever be the same, and the idea that there was a definitive segment of my life that had come to an end that hit me so hard. No matter how much you think you're ready for it, the first time you face major changes in life, it can be a really scary and difficult thing to process.
21:55 That moment when you realize Joy's the closest thing to a villain Inside Out has. Her insistence on toxic positivity led to her and sadness getting lost in the first place, and despite the fact that she could have sent the core memories to headquarters with the recall tubes, and then make her way to headquarters without having to worry about the memories, she doesn't, and I think the implication there is suppose to be that Joy not only distrusts sadness, she doesn't trust any of the other emotions. I mean, look at her reaction when non-joyful memories start flooding in. She tolerates Fear, Disgust and Anger because she saw the usefulness they brought to the table, but she still didn't want any of them to truly be in control, and that's why she fought so hard to make sure she got the most time at the control table. It's kinda messed up just how controlling Joy was.
I understand everything youâre saying, but itâs important to remember that Riley is only 11 and her brain has not matured yet to realize that not being happy all the time is okay. Joy did all that she did only because she felt like she was doing the right thing in keeping Riley happy in a bad situation. Over the journey as the situation worsened, she learned from her mistakes and learned the importance of Sadness and having complex emotions. Joy isnât the villain people are making her out to be because thereâs really no villain in this movie. Everyone just wanted what was best for Riley, they just needed to develop the right ways to do so.
@@softsquishysuga Hence why I said Joy is the closest thing the movie has to a villain, not that she's a villain outright.
@@jacintacapelety9600 there's no villain at all
@@richbitchhh1240 Hence why I said Joy is the closest thing the movie has to a villain, not that she's a villain outright.
Always gets me how sadness in the beginning wants to touch the happy memories and turns one into a sad memory. Because sometimes when we go through abrupt changes and try to cheer ourselves up, we can't really take our minds off the reality and the supposedly "happy memories" just seem to have no foundation or meaning, and then we just get genuinely sad by remembering them. It's so intriguing how this movie depicts natural reactions of the brain in a fun way.
When they get locked out of the controls, it's meant to represent how depression feels. For a lot of people, it's not necessarily overwhelming sadness, but rather an emotional exhaustion and numbness that makes it difficult to feel anything at all.
Him: I don't think I'm gonna cry in this
Me: honey you got a BIG storm coming.
This movie did such a good job of using color, lighting, and music to help the viewer understand where the character is; the music is obvious, but the way what Riley wears turns from colorful to black, the light when sadness pulls out the memory, all just so good. I say yes to the logo on the mug, awesome reaction and review, thank you for sharing a little more about you, I think we all got a little introspective after this movie lol
this movie hits me every time I watch it. I happened to be 11 years old when this movie came out and I have blonde hair and blue eyes so I instantly related to Riley. Iâve moved 10 times in my life in and out of states between 5 different schools, and this movie provided a sense of sympathy for me, like someone finally understood me. Im so glad you watched this đ€
Honestly i was the same age and i have blonde hair and blue eyes as well and i have moved more times than I can count, this movie hits me the most out of all the pixar movies
This film is such a great representation of how much trauma and depression can harm a person, and how resolving it soon enough can help them to heal instead of leading to irreversible damage.
I've got to admit, I found myself getting super salty when you kept derisively dismissing Sadness; you even postulated that she might be the villain! (And if there is a villain, it's the ham-fisted Joy and her toxic positivity).Of course, the movie intends for the audience to have that annoyed initial reaction to Sadness in order to emphasize its thematic message.
After 22 minutes of your contempt for my favorite forlorn figment, it was such a relief when you finally remarked, "Wow, I guess you need sadness sometimes." I love that moment at the end when Riley is hugging her parents after she's run away; even as she's crying, she lets out this sigh and you can see the catharsis on her face. Sadness isn't just "ok," it is an absolutely necessary and vital emotion.
Exactly. It lets other people know that we need comfort or understanding or just someone to listen. And you appreciate joy on a much deeper level after experiencing something that makes you sad, because you realize how precious those moments really are. My grandmother also used to tell me that crying specifically releases certain toxins in the body. I dunno how true that is. But I do know that sometimes you just feel better after a good cry.
@@ashleypenn7845 An elementary school guidance counselor once told me, (and I'm paraphrasing, obviously) "You know how your stomach always hurts less after you vomit? Well, crying is like your feelings throwing up. You throw up to get rid of something gross inside you, and when you cry, you're expelling a gross feeling that's making you sick." That analogy seems similar to what your grandmother said; whether the toxins are literal or figurative, crying helps to release that negativity.
@@humbleblatherskite837 @Ashley Penn emotional tears actually contain stress hormones like cortisol - so not actually toxins, but your body's stress chemicals, which can be harmful in chronic/excessive amounts.
@@ashleypenn7845 Crying is actually a method of stress relief. Its why you always feel a bit better once you've let yourself have a good cry.
My first reaction to inside out was not hating sadness but instead hating joy, Joy only wanted Riley to have joyful memories and didnât like others making Riley other wise.
Same it's nice when people eventually get it through the experience of the movie.
Right. I didnât like Joy in the beginning. She could be nice but she didnât know how to help the others or Riley in the way they needed. Plus she was also mean to sadness when she was just doing what joy was doing. Expressing the emotion she embodied.
as a father of daughters this movie was designed to hit hard, and it did.
Movie: it's important to allow sadness in when something's wrong.
Reactors: I'm not gonna cry.
My biggest takeaway was to always remember that what we as adults do as a matter of course, such as pretend to be happy and shrug it off if we fail to do so, is very difficult for children, and if they are unable to do so, they will feel like they have failed their parents. It is a parent's responsibility to note when their child is struggling under the load, and assure the child that failure is not the end of the world.
This man really said âIâm not gonna cry for this one.â
He didn't know then. Now he does.
Yes they have accents. Everyone has an accent, JV. It's just hard to recognize your own as one because you're so used to it.
One thing I adore about this film is Joy's design: Every other aspect has a uniform color scheme, except for Joy. Following the pattern of the others you'd expect her to have yellow or orange hair and eyes, but she doesn't. Hers are blue; the same as Sadness. You can also kind of notice a bit of fear's color scheme on Disgust and a touch of anger in Fear via their clothing but those aren't as obvious as Joy's design where it's directly in her body. Each of them has hints of the other because they're all connected in some ways.
The Midwestern accent is actually considered the most "phonetically" correct by dictionary standards. But yes, if you had a different accent like southern, or east coast, or british or australian, then midwesterners would sound different because their accent is different from your own.
I love that as a father you're in touch with your emotions. Your daughters need that.
Love this movie. Sadness is the hero of the movie!
Love how Joy's superiority complex vanished by the end of the movieđ
JV: "I'm not gonna cry!"
Yoda: "You will!"
It is interesting that the pre-release promotional material for this movie didn't mention anything about Bing Bong. They kept him a secret - so much so that Richard Kind (who voices Bing Bong) was not even allowed to attend the Cannes film festival where the film was first screened.
"I'm not gonna cry"
Oh yes, yes you are. If you didn't i'd question whether you were human
Don't worry about your daughter losing her goofiness when she's older. đ€ As long as you give her a great childhood with fun memories, she's never going to lose that part completely. My dad played with me a lot when I was a kid, so I naturally have a playful side of me that can never be taken away, even at 30 years old now.
This movie is great for addressing toxic positivity and trauma.
kids don't have to lose their goofiness. but feelings need to be supported and validated. facilitate safety for your kids.
28:28 Let's take a moment to think about an 11 year old girl's Joy crying out of sadness. How much sad can it get??
the blending of happiness mixed with sadness has a name : nostalgia ^^
I feel like this is one of the best written movies I've ever seen. It's so complex, but at the same time simple. Kid friendly, but I think every grow up person can relate strongly too. And my favorite part is the small visual hint you get to the plot right from the beginning... notice how every emotion is a single color except for Joy.. she has blue hair and eyes. I think they wanted to say that there is no Joy without Sadness..
My mum actually uses this movie for her classes to help her students (who are mostly autistic) understand and articulate their feelings. I personally enjoyed watching this movie with my niece and nephew seeing them point out the different emotions and how you can feel more than one at a time. Absolutely blew their minds lol.
Thatâs so cool!
I was in labor with my daughter when I watched this for the first time, it holds a special place in my heartđ
This is one of the movies that has made me cry the most as a full grown adult, specially as I struggled with toxic positivity growing up, and my depressive episodes manifest as numbness. It hit too close home and I love it for it. Because I had to struggle through understanding and unlearning behaviors, and I really hope the movie helps kids to learn about these issues
"I'm Not Going To Cry" That means you will cry >:'D
Sadness is more important than you realize
I really appreciate crying alongside with you during the touching moments. Itâs kinda comforting. So thank you :)
It's a beautiful journey of a girl's journey from simple to complex emotions.
Title : *I'm Not Going To Cry*
Tumbnail : *JV Crying*
Honestly, I wanted to watch you watch this BECAUSE you are a parent! Us parents get it on a whole deeper level. Enjoyed this immensely, thank you.
25:18 _"I don't think I'm gonna cry for this guys... It's not gonna happen."_
*_IN LOVING MEMORY OF JV'S GALACTIC ADVENTURES. CRIED THRICE DURING THE INSIDE OUT MOVIE._*
This one gets me too - I have two daughters both who are now in their teens. I think I have a harder time in not knowing which early memories will and wonât stick over time and are core to them.
"Take her to the moon for me." me a grown ass woman đđđđ
He says hes not gonna cry when this is the one film noone left with dry eyes
this movie is really good for helping kids understand their own emotions. if you don't know it, the channel cinema therapy has an episode on this movie and Alan, one of the hosts, tells the story of when his family moved soon after seeing this film and how his son told him that his memories of home were all blue now. breaking down complex emotions like this allows kids to be able to say "I feel red right now" if they're angry for example, and as someone who works with young kids things like this are so helpful! I recommend the cinema therapy channel too, they go through the psychology of movies and always have something insightful to say and the hosts, who've been friends forever, work so well together
Maybe consider Disney's Meet the Robinsons if you haven't already seen it. It's not the one of the more well-received animated films, and I do get some of the criticism regarding the art design/animation quality and some of the zany characterization, but I still feel like it has such a good message and it definitely moved me emotionally.
wow, I'm currently a senior in high school and what you said at the end resonated so much when it comes to learning to embrace emotions instead of pushing them away like I used to years ago. This movie came out when I was Riley's age so watching her letting her emotions out at the end for the first time made me bawl so much (especially at that time, but even now still).
Bing bong is still one of my most traumatic memories and Iâm a full on adult - like why do they do this in CHILDRENS MOVIES when they affect adults so harshly like he literally died.... I canât with animations, they hit more than any normal films do lol
Because maybe they're not children's movies
I remember explaining to people why I cried twice in this movie and it was crazy how many didnât cry at they end, they only mention Bing Bong as the sad part. But the end makes me cry more then any Pixar movie. If youâve ever been sad but tricked everyone around you that you werenât then the ending hits the hardest. When I was in high school I lost my grandfather and none of my friends knew because I didnât talk about it and I tried to be strong for my family because I wasnât taught that itâs ok to be sad. This movie reminds me of that and shows me how far I have came since then
I almost cried when, Riley was running away from her parents.
For someone who cries in every one of his videos, you need to lay off Sadness. XD Nothing is wrong with Sadness and it is a VERY important emotion to have.
"I'm not gonna cry during this"
Famous last words
"I'm not going to cry"? Don't be ashamed of it; that's the point of this movie, that you need Sadness if you want to survive and thrive. How else would you develop empathy and compassion? And remorse! You need remorse, otherwise without empathy and remorse you wouldn't have a conscience.
If you look closely with Riley's Mom, her emotions are led by Sadness; she's perceived correctly that something is wrong with her daughter and she tries to signal to Riley's Dad for support in her effort to help Riley.
The beauty of this movie is that there is not really an obvious villain; the most obvious would be Depression, when the control panel in Headquarters turns grey and locks out everybody but Sadness. It's all the better since it's telling us that Sadness and Depression are two different things; depression is an overwhelming sense of hopelessness, that you'll never feel joy again.
I know for myself that sadness is usually what brings me out of depression. And the malfunctioning control panel is an excellent metaphor for depression, based on my own experience; despite your best efforts to escape the pain, you just shut down and feel empty. Everything around you can be wonderful but inside you feel like you're drowning. Sometimes just facing your pain/sadness directly is what you need to escape depression.
I can only recommend the film spirit stallion of the cimarron. I've known this film since I was born and I love it to this day. He's very heartwarming. And if you liked how to train your dragon then you will surely also like Spiritđ€
I still listen to the soundtrack regularly, it is so under-rated, excellent story telling!
@@aaronm4210 I thought I'm the only one who still listen to itđ„ș
@@noxgirl_gaming You kidding?? Bryan Adams and Hans Zimmer crushed it, a lot of the tracks still give me some chills, especially the jump and the "Here I am" from the opening
@@aaronm4210 racing with the eagle giving me chills every timeđ
Still love that movie the story the music the art ugh so good
This movie is beyond beautiful and the details are incredible for example the eyes of every emotion has its own colour except for Joy, she has blue eyes which points out to the message that you can't have joy without sadness :)
This is one of my favorite movies ever not just cause my kids love it but it taught me-the adult a lesson. Feel all the emotions feel them and embrace them while they're there. Don't try to suppress any of them because they will bottle up and explode when least expected. It's OK to be sad but don't dwell on it, this is why sometimes we feel like we need a good cry and it's because we have been suppressing sadness for a while. That's not mentally healthy. Glad you enjoyed the movie. Please show it to your daughters one day and explain to them we women can sometimes feel them a bit stronger and it's OK to acknowledge that. đ
also interesting that the mom, dad, and the boy at the end has a single gender emotion while riley has both
Inside Out movie to JV's tear ducts: Peace was never an option.
i love sadness as someone whos battled depression u need to feel sadness so u can feel joy
Depression is the disability to feel any emotion... feeling sad is the first step on the way to recovery
JV: Iâm not going to cry! Iâm actually going to hold it together for this one! đ
All of us: Yeah okay you keep telling yourself that đđ
The medical term for a brain freeze is, "Sphenopalatine ganglioneuragia
This is such a great movie, even adults sometimes feel like sadness itself is the problem, but Inside Out frames it's lesson (it's unhealthy to bottle up out feelings/it's necessary to allow ourselves to feel bad sometimes) in a way even children can understand!
subscribing because finally a reactor not afraid to cry during movies.
This is my favorite Pixar film, because it not only cleverly ties a story with real life emotions you experience during change and growing up, but teaches you that it's normal to have mixed emotions on things, and it's important to be sad at times, and that sad and depressed are not the same.
I used to strongly dislike this movie because I didn't like Joy at all and, as someone who's had a lot of sad moments in their life, I quickly understood how important sadness was, that she was the solution to the whole problem/conflict in this film.
At the time, all the reviews were 10/10's and they said this movie was amazing and really delved into the mind. I disagree with this. This movie isn't *that* amazing imo, *but* it does teach kids an important lesson. That being sad and crying is ok. Life is stressful and crying it out can be really good and healing for the soul. Crying also indicates to others that we *are* sad and need comfort or help, and that's something we see at the end of the movie.
It also took me a while to realize that everything that happens is *Riley.* The emotions fighting it out is her thought process. Her dealing with her own grief of moving. She was always a happy kid, so she doesn't want to feel sadness. Here's proof: 09:10 Her mom praises her for being strong and staying happy. It's instilled in her that being happy is the best thing she can be, so being sad would be a burden and that's bad. She's internalised this. It's why Joy is so overbearing, Riley herself doesn't want Sadness to take control.
I've learned to see this movie for what it is, a nice film with a good lesson. This one just wasn't for me.
Editing camera is an interesting idea, never seen that before. Might be fun to see/hear your after thoughts!
Fun fact here JV youâll love this. Dadâs fear is voiced by âRockoâ from âRockoâs modern lifeâ
The way they portrayed a depressive episode by having the console turn black and stop working is brilliant. A lot of people think depression is just feeling sad all the time but it isnât, yes sometimes feeling sad is part of it but there is also this numbness, where you just canât feel anything, your mind doesnât want to work or think. Thatâs why intrusive thoughts or thoughts that others might think âwhy the heck would you think thatâs a good ideaâ can gain traction and seem like itâs the best course of action. Brilliant story telling.
I think this is a great film for any parent to see, being sad is healthy. Make sure your children know they can talk to you about anything and everything is import. If there is a stressful situation or major change make sure to ask your child how they are feeling because if you are stressed or sad whilst having much more life experience then the fear of the unknown is likely to be far scarier for your kid. Not to say they would definitely feel upset, there are people who take everything in stride even as kids but checking in with them is a good idea.
Also I had a thought whilst watching the reaction, you felt so sad about Riley forgetting parts of her childhood and bing bong (fair enough on that one, since the film intentionally makes you sad about bing bong). However my thought was, you shouldnât be sad looking back at who your child was, be proud of who they are now and look forward to whom they will be in the future.
Bing Bong's death DESTROYED me
Thanks for sharing your genuine thoughts and feelings in these videos. It's really nice to resonate with someone over these amazing films and be moved by them in a new way through your responses.
And I think how you say you put effort into developing your openness to experiencing and expressing how things like films make you feel is really wonderful. Allowing ourselves to be sensitive is really meaningful, just like they explore in this film. It's something I've always appreciated and looked up to about my Dad. I'm sure it's something your family really appreciates about you, too.
Joy + sadness= melancholy, nostalgia
It's called growing up
Memories from childhood can be bittersweet. You feel happy for so many good moments, but then you realise you will no longer be able to live those moments again. They are just gone. And your parents start growing old too... And you wish you could go back in time.
A crazy theory about this movie is that this movie is an analogy to Anxiety/DEPRESSION!!! And when she run away from home without say goodbye, is like how people commit suic1de because of depression, they run away from our lives without say goodbye, also we can see this "Depression in teenage" thing with her, all the emotions mixed with a lot of angry, and just sadness, its a dark theory but is a good one
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@@leonidasneves7972 Did you just hate comment yourself?
@@lorettabes4553 LMAO yes
It's more about accepting that sadness and crying is a healthy thing that everyone, especially kids, should be allowed to do/experience. This is a way darker take on it, and Riley is far from 'clinically depressed.'
I did the same thing growing up. Movies, songs etc never made me cry. It wasnât until I saw a news story about hurricane Katrina that broke that. It was devastating. But ever since then, Iâve become more emotionally in-tune and empathetic. Now I cry at commercials đ
I think this is such a brilliant movie. So many interesting things. I love how they portray confusion, because there is no Confusion character, but rather everyone is trying to have input chaotically. This movie did such a good job breaking down emotions in a way for people to understand themselves better.
When the console is shutting down, that's the best picture of depression I have ever seen. Because that's exactly what it is, absence of any emotion and sometimes, to be sad is the first step out of it.
I watched this movie with my mum once it released, we both have suffered with anxiety and depression over the past few years but this movie really opened my eyes on being sad, and how it is a good thing. I got too used to putting on a face for everyone but realized it's ok to be sad. Such a beautiful movie
I really appreciate all the reactions you have been putting out. Iâm currently stuck in the ICU, and these videos have helped with the boredom and loneliness immensely. Iâm looking forward to the next video and the new merch đ
I'm glad I can help you out in any way. Hope you get better soon!