If your income comes via a job then your are not free. You are a nokar and slave of your boss. Tum apni aajadi bechkar paise kma rhe ho. It's real slavery. Jobless person is more free than u. Bharmchari bno. It's bliss. Na tume ladki chahiye na luxury. Na kisi ki gulami krne ki jrurat na kisi k nkhre uthane ki. In that state you will be free. But to reach that level is very tough
Maine apne long distance relationship k f ko bola ki health pe dhyan de...he said...dfa ho....jisko mai acha lgunga vo aise hie apna legi....but still he is not understanding the true meaning of relationship n love.....baat krne ka tarika....respect hie nhi h
Ek ladki ne bola tha 2016 me "teri aukat hai kya mere baare me sochne ki " I'm thankful to her. Bass wahi aukat banane me laga hua hu. I've just completed my MBBS, but its just a beginning. Aur bohot kuchh karna baaki h. I'm not gonna stop till I make my "Aukat" that she was talking about.🙂
Cool....however don't forget it keeps changing from girl to girl.... Cos they always look for betterment.... It never stops....so don't fight to impress them.....be happy with what you do and achieve... otherwise it's an endless game.... 🥴
Tumhara maqsad aur manzil us ladki ko lajawab karne ki nahi rehni chahiye balki esa faaru ban na he ke kisi ka mohtaj na bane aur garibo ki aram se madad karne wala banjaye... Bas fir ladki speechless apne aap hojaigi agar usko aapke baare me pata chalega toh
I used to make fun of this guy to look cool and Trendy. But seriously I felt guilt why did I do that. He is such an intelligent and blunt personality I ever come cross. He talks really. Hats off man and thank you
sir i agree your point,now i am going to build my aukaat...kyuki meri bahott bejjati hui hai sir ,lekin me puri jann laga dunga apni aukaat banane me thank yousir, this video is very helpful for me
I always waste my time by using games,whatsapp,facebook etc... These things spoils my whole day.... I realise this but after some time i again repeat this shit and it takes my day by day.... But here i promise that from today at that time (3.07 a.m) i will totally cut all the destruction and my whole focus will be towards my career..... Thank u ♥️ for the video.... life is really harsh if we don't use our time properly......
Chetan ji, namaskar, satsriakal, adaab. I am 45 years old sikh guy working in IT , simple views towards life, contended with what I had, soft spoken, mediocre ambitions and trying to be good with everyone around. But over the years all around in close family made some good money in business in india and jobs outside india. I feel strongly the differential treatment by family and medium or low respect behaviors from them although I am the eldest kid. I have been working on my health for past 3 years, did marathon etc., now focused on my career growth. For all the viewers, my learning is be fully independent financially, focus strongly on career, be ambitious (Bina kisiko kuchle). Be good to others, but speak up and don't be submissive. Take care, stay strong. Believe in yourself.
Agree..sir....when i was topper in school and college then everyone loves me and make me priority...but after failing in several compitive exams and still being unemployed in mid twenties... perspective of everyone's towards me and my opinion changed alot...no one bother to even listen my views my choice and alll even i am humble kind to everyone.... It is all about your worth by money ,how much u contribute in your family finance..
Money gives freedom to women but it doesn't attract opposite gender like men do... Women's beauty, character and etiquette matters too..... Keep it as well in your mind....
Sad but it's the ugly reality this world operates on. I've had the same experience, it's made me less judgmental and more level headed (specially of the company I keep). But I think that parents should be level headed and not judge their kids too much on Aukaat. But again, we have to accept the society we live in.
A message to all woman : raise your standard. Otherwise A Man will get somebody else. Don't expect loyalty without building value. Old good days are over👍👍👍
I am a girl , I mean married girl ...i am only house wife in my family ,i also can relate with this video .. all the female in my sasural are CA , ENGINEER , INSPECTOR , but I m house wife my in-laws and relatives judge me ..,then i start my business and I promise I will earn itni saara money jo wo sab puri life job karke na kamaa paaye ..I will earn money not because I am materialistic or laalchi ..but for my respect ...I will make my aukaat..
It's important for anyone, regardless of gender, to be financially independent before getting married. Financial stability can certainly contribute to a sense of self-respect and identity. It allows individuals to have greater control over their lives and decisions.
Aukaat should be built not for love, but to be able to live a life of your choice, it's almost so hard to find a good partner regardless of how rich you are.
Hands up to your comment.! Success can make your life easier and respectful but it can't guarantee you for good life partner and relationships. And I love chetan bhgat...
Thank you sir.I am 20 yrs old.I can relate this story with myself.Just 1-2 year before when I was preparing for medical entrance exam no one was supporting except my parents.All gave example of failure at that time.But this year I qualified the exam with a very good rank.After that all are supporting to me. I am a regular student of life in your channel.
But when you start working on your goals , everyone starts coming back to you but things and attention you craved before , dont excites you anymore . STOP POSTING ON YOUR INSTA PROFILE AND START BUILDING AN IMPRESSIVE LINKEDIN PROFILE. keep it up chetan sir you always motivate us✌🤞✌
I agree ... Life mein jeena hai to awkaat bna ke jeena h ....this line touched my soul.... And i will come back on this comment box when i will have my own awkaat...
I totally love this bitter truth video series as it actually gives us a reality check rather than keeping us in a pseudo bubble of fantasies so that we can take the appropriate actions in the time that we have at our disposal ✌. Do continue with this series Sir 🙌
I agree with you sir. I'm a girl & always put career as my top priority. Many barriers are there, but I still only focused on my dream, and your bitter truth videos are very effective for me. Thank you sir. Lots of love and respect❤🙏
It was for men TBH, girls can still get away by marrying into rich households. If girls focus on their looks, they can get way more than a guy could ever dream of
Agreed with Chetan Sir. I still remember my class 12th days, when the results of JEE Mains were announced. Every relative of mine was eager to know my result. But I didn't do well in that exam. And next everyone knows what they do after that. 3 years passed, Now I am in my final semester of Engg. placed in a Product Based Company ( will join as a Full-time employee this June) and none of them even send a message. Living well is the best revenge. 😉
@@ruturajkadam5164 Hi Ruturaj, learn the concepts of Data Structures and Algorithms. Solve problems on Leetcode and Geeks for Geeks. There are many channels on CZcams for guidance. You can checkout take U forward of Raj Vikramaditya.
Like a true elder brother he is guiding the younger generation. These are truly pearls of wisdom relevant not only in present times but for future also.
I have no language to thank you dada..you are doing a great job. I could see my shortcomings gradually and will do my 100% to overcome it. Thanks again.
I agree with you totally sir.... Life have come to such a stage that I feel I never gave myself time only on behalf of keeping others happy.... The words you spoke in video has been so touched n felt tears in my eyes...... Thank you so much for being Wat you are.. Love you sir
I totally agree sir,When I was working then people used to talk to me upfront.And when I left the job and preparing for exams these people disappeared quickly.People respect the post not person.This is that I have understood.
Aisa nhi h agar girls aukaat nhi bhi bnaati hai to aapki shaadi ho jayegi aap settle ho jaogi life mein lekin boys agar nhi bna paate to kutta bhi nhi puchta unhe shaadi dur ki baat hai
@@gagandeepsharma7972 ha bhai....ladkiyo ke liye face important hai....ladki agar dikhne me sundar h to achha ladka mil jata h bhale hi co only 12th pass ho
The moment u said that I'm like your younger brother I felt connected. Thank you sir for showing the reality and for encouragement to do better in life.
Totally totally agree with you sir, I'm gonna put all your words in my mind from right now and gonna work for my future, my career and continuosly improving myself coz aukaat toh ab banani hai!!! Thank you so much Sir!!❤️
I remember 20 years back I used to randomly walk into any company or an office asking for a job, and 90% of the times there wasn't any opening and when there is, I used to get rejected coz of my skill set but everytime I got rejected I knew what I need to work on. This video takes me to my struggling days....Chetan is doing a fantastic job of creating content which is really needed for India's youth coz not all parents are IAS or engineers..
Totally agree sir...... U have told that u treat us like ur younger brother.... It means a lot for us........ Thnkew for this n all the past videos..... ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Chetan Sir U Are Right , Practical Man . Your Advises Will Definitely Bring Change. No One Ever Guided About Life In This Way . Sab log bas fake motivation dete rehte hai but your videos hit inside deep core especially to middle , lower middle , poor class youth's . 😐 🙏
I had two failed startups in life.. i am 32.. i earned money but again my business failed.. i get many ideas in my head and i am confused what to pursue.. i describe myself as cunning and hardworking but things didn’t go well in past.. still i am going on but confused with the ideas that i get in my head…
Ideas does matter but the main thing is where u put them, putting them in good place is all u need but that's the hardest part so keep trying in different areas👍
I just love and respect you for such kind of 'Bitter Truth' videos. Because these videos prove that my thinking pattern is absolutely right and I am in a right path. Thank You Sir😊🙏
I agree with you sir बिना औकात के दुनिया सिर्फ हमारे टैलेंट को अपने मतलब के लिए इस्तेमाल करती है औकात होनी जरूरी है ताकि वक्त आने पर हम इस दुनिया को इस्तेमाल कर सके।
Video is specifically for boys , but sir this one is highly highly relatable for all .. Hats off to you sir , aapke jaisa authentic real content kahi aur nahi milta . Plz make more such videos on how to ace in career and stop being someone's
Yes, this video is specifically for boys but still. Me apni side se he example de rha hu. Meri bua ki shadi huyi wo graduated hain bua but still London ke NRI ladke ne unke sath shadi karli and unko wahin le gye. Second example, meri bhaiya ki shadi jis ladki se huyi wo bhi padhi likhi hain (graduate) bus itna padha likha sundar and susheel hona enough tha bhabhi ke lie. And aj bhaiya unke sath 1.5 crore ke flat me reh rahe hain. Now esa ek example mujhe nahi mila jahan ladke ke sath esa hua ho. Shadi he ladke ki uski aukat poochke decide hoti hai par ladki ki nahi... :)
Whenever I listen to you Sir.. I always feel like my big brother is saying something to me.. I don't have a big brother, but I felt like.. Thank you.!!
@Whatsapp Backup but what if their husband leave them , torture them and don't take their responsibility and kids responsibility and Girls don't want to be a burden for their father , Then ??? After marriage , family members dont want to take girl's responsibility ,if her husband doesnt support her . Girls need to be prepared for any possibilty If her husband supports her , then she can also contribute her earnings .
Sir you opened my eyes, I would like to thank you for that. I will definitely start focusing what adds knowledge and skillset from now on. Thank you very much!
I wanna just say that: 1. working on health continuously last 1.5 years. 2. Improving my skill from 1 year to become Web Developer 3. Relation: parents and some countable friend.😊 and perusing 2nd year of my college. Can I get feedback from Mr. Chetan Bhagat.
A girl loved only for Her sex(beauty,sex appearance) A child Loved because he/she is easy to control (emotionally, physically).he/she basic need is food or who feel them comfortable 👬 A Dog or any pet is just a slave,if you provide food of any living thing that will attract you it can be ant or lion, because their basic need is one & only thing is food,for living If you provide someone something then you are something for them besides that you are Nothing.....I REPEAT YOU ARE NOTHING
@@freedom4813 yes for Boys getting a job & feeding family is easy! 🤣 & for girls getting proposals from boys is difficult! Even a fat girl gets 100 proposals from guys!
The real freedom comes only when you are financially free 🙏
financially free and Real freedom are not relatable Bro. i wish you understand one day thankyou. No negative thoughts that i know what you want to say
If your income comes via a job then your are not free. You are a nokar and slave of your boss. Tum apni aajadi bechkar paise kma rhe ho.
It's real slavery.
Jobless person is more free than u.
Bharmchari bno. It's bliss. Na tume ladki chahiye na luxury. Na kisi ki gulami krne ki jrurat na kisi k nkhre uthane ki.
In that state you will be free.
But to reach that level is very tough
very true..
financially free keya hota hai C @@@dakar
@@cryptonews5253 kya kehrah 🤣, financial freedom is first aur konsa freedom hoota h
Once I was arguing with my mom for branded shoes .That day my mom said to me "First deserve then desire". That line changed my life ☺😚
🥰
Right 👍
Wow
I m a girl and my mom says the same 🤣😂
Its nothing but kanjoosi at all 😂
"Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally, a man is only loved under a condition that he PROVIDES something "
- Chris Rock.
Feminazis will disagree
Exactly God will destroy this anti men world soon
🥶true
Then have multiple wives to get more love multiple children multiple dog
That will multiply the love you get
@@shaizilwarsi7852 Dogs suck
No school is teaching this as straight forward as this I wish someone was telling us 15 years back
1. Career
2. Health
3. Relationship
Three major pillars of life,
focus and never forgot.
Bro health ki spelling sahi kr lo
Maine apne long distance relationship k f ko bola ki health pe dhyan de...he said...dfa ho....jisko mai acha lgunga vo aise hie apna legi....but still he is not understanding the true meaning of relationship n love.....baat krne ka tarika....respect hie nhi h
@@shilpykumari6419 👌💃
@@divinesoul1313 may be he lost the gem. & sure he will regret later full of fake world if someone is caring abt him.. that's fortunate thing ..
@@aatifshah8476 I think..love vo h ...jo apki kamiya bta k apko improve kre...buttering to koi b kr leta h.
"Women don't care about you , they only care about what you can do for them!"
Only your mother will love you unconditionally !
Always remember this!
Ohh really your mom ur sister and your female friends don't care about you. I am shocked
@@sdevi4759 here the word women is used for wife/girlfriend and not for mother or sister .
True bro very true
Humans* Not only Womens but guys too buddy.
@@Indian2.5 men love idealistically whereas women love opportunistically.
Ek ladki ne bola tha 2016 me "teri aukat hai kya mere baare me sochne ki " I'm thankful to her. Bass wahi aukat banane me laga hua hu. I've just completed my MBBS, but its just a beginning. Aur bohot kuchh karna baaki h. I'm not gonna stop till I make my "Aukat" that she was talking about.🙂
Cool....however don't forget it keeps changing from girl to girl.... Cos they always look for betterment.... It never stops....so don't fight to impress them.....be happy with what you do and achieve... otherwise it's an endless game.... 🥴
Good bro 🙂🙂
Go bro ♥️
Keep it up bro
Tumhara maqsad aur manzil us ladki ko lajawab karne ki nahi rehni chahiye balki esa faaru ban na he ke kisi ka mohtaj na bane aur garibo ki aram se madad karne wala banjaye... Bas fir ladki speechless apne aap hojaigi agar usko aapke baare me pata chalega toh
Absolutely correct Sir ,
Career+ Health+ Relationship = AUKAAT
"Jisdin aukaat hogi ladkiya apne aap tere pass aayegi"🔥
true words
@rahul.........aur maze ki baat ye hai ki.......aukaat banne k baad ladkiyan zyada bhav deti hai 🤗
I don't think so ..looks matter more for us!!
@@gurleensekhon319 u r right.......lekin insaan ko shakal se zyada akal se smart hona chahiye
@The Quiver if we have multiple girls as friends.......then people will not ignore us, they will not insult us
I used to make fun of this guy to look cool and Trendy.
But seriously I felt guilt why did I do that. He is such an intelligent and blunt personality I ever come cross. He talks really. Hats off man and thank you
sir i agree your point,now i am going to build my aukaat...kyuki meri bahott bejjati hui hai sir ,lekin me puri jann laga dunga apni aukaat banane me thank yousir, this video is very helpful for me
I always waste my time by using games,whatsapp,facebook etc... These things spoils my whole day....
I realise this but after some time i again repeat this shit and it takes my day by day.... But here i promise that from today at that time (3.07 a.m) i will totally cut all the destruction and my whole focus will be towards my career..... Thank u ♥️ for the video.... life is really harsh if we don't use our time properly......
Content is valuable and what chetan sir said is obviously correct. 'Men only valued whn they achieve something in their life'.
Applicable to girl as well
@@swapanarakshe3865 yes girls should also focus on their growth
@@swapanarakshe3865 Nice 🙃
@@swapanarakshe3865 I am a simp I value you bcz you are a girl. Now show me any a girl who can say the same for me 😀 .....
@@stevebellingham2319 not just any girl...only beautiful girl with a good character!!!
Unfair, Bitter but Absolutely True. Hope more people talk about this openly.
Ekdam correct bola sir Aapne . Bitter but truth 😓
Without Aukat koi Kisi ladke ko koi Pyar nhi krta , respect nhi deta 🙏
Chetan ji, namaskar, satsriakal, adaab. I am 45 years old sikh guy working in IT , simple views towards life, contended with what I had, soft spoken, mediocre ambitions and trying to be good with everyone around. But over the years all around in close family made some good money in business in india and jobs outside india. I feel strongly the differential treatment by family and medium or low respect behaviors from them although I am the eldest kid. I have been working on my health for past 3 years, did marathon etc., now focused on my career growth. For all the viewers, my learning is be fully independent financially, focus strongly on career, be ambitious (Bina kisiko kuchle). Be good to others, but speak up and don't be submissive. Take care, stay strong. Believe in yourself.
Agree..sir....when i was topper in school and college then everyone loves me and make me priority...but after failing in several compitive exams and still being unemployed in mid twenties... perspective of everyone's towards me and my opinion changed alot...no one bother to even listen my views my choice and alll even i am humble kind to everyone....
It is all about your worth by money ,how much u contribute in your family finance..
💯
Money gives freedom to women but it doesn't attract opposite gender like men do... Women's beauty, character and etiquette matters too..... Keep it as well in your mind....
Keep in mind,,wat Shivam yadav said ,,, ok ,🙂
Sad but it's the ugly reality this world operates on. I've had the same experience, it's made me less judgmental and more level headed (specially of the company I keep). But I think that parents should be level headed and not judge their kids too much on Aukaat. But again, we have to accept the society we live in.
Bhai which aspirant ?
A message to all woman : raise your standard. Otherwise A Man will get somebody else. Don't expect loyalty without building value. Old good days are over👍👍👍
100% right 👍
Kya bkwass Hai ye sab kuch ladke hi kare 🤪 bhai kya gyan de rhaa hai tu
100000000% true
@@knightwing2024 you will not understand. And that's OK. It's not for everybody👍👍👍
@@rajibdeka2207 tu ladki Hai issliye Esa bol rahi Hai pta Hai mujhe bkwass bawandar chup ekdum
Every word is precious for a young man whos is lost and confused with life and love.
The word aukaat is very very important in man's life 💯
I am a girl , I mean married girl ...i am only house wife in my family ,i also can relate with this video .. all the female in my sasural are CA , ENGINEER , INSPECTOR , but I m house wife my in-laws and relatives judge me ..,then i start my business and I promise I will earn itni saara money jo wo sab puri life job karke na kamaa paaye ..I will earn money not because I am materialistic or laalchi ..but for my respect ...I will make my aukaat..
All the best
It's important for anyone, regardless of gender, to be financially independent before getting married. Financial stability can certainly contribute to a sense of self-respect and identity. It allows individuals to have greater control over their lives and decisions.
Aukaat should be built not for love, but to be able to live a life of your choice, it's almost so hard to find a good partner regardless of how rich you are.
Hands up to your comment.!
Success can make your life easier and respectful but it can't guarantee you for good life partner and relationships.
And I love chetan bhgat...
You are absolutely right bro 👍
But you will always have more options to choose from
Hence higher chance of getting someone better
@@adarshpareek8864
You said true that money gives you power to change the relationship if not working.
Thanks it helped me a lot.
Yes , you are right. Same thing I am also experiencing in my life. But I don't want to earn money just to be loved by some girl.
Totally agree! Bando ki aukat unke wallet se hi banti hai.. kadva sach!
Focus on carrier and health ... relationship musibat hai..single rho khush rho.. .after success relationship thik hai.. lekin pehle nhi..Agree?
Agree brother
6:48 Golden lines...🔥💫
Thank you sir.I am 20 yrs old.I can relate this story with myself.Just 1-2 year before when I was preparing for medical entrance exam no one was supporting except my parents.All gave example of failure at that time.But this year I qualified the exam with a very good rank.After that all are supporting to me. I am a regular student of life in your channel.
Bilkul sach bol rahe ho sir aap, thankyou so much 🙏🏻
Lines
Kaash m tumse pyar kr paati matlab y paise se pyar h insan s nhi sir big hats for u 🙏..
औकात it's not only word it's define life 🔥🔥🔥
As a berozgaar engineer, I am living this today and what you said is 100% true.. But I haven't given up just yet, I'll rise and shine..
U will rise
Kyu engineering krli 😂😂😂😂😁😁😁😂😝😁😂🌝
@@Sumit_XDF seems like some immature asking the question
Hey, u got this okay
@@Sumit_XDF look just becoz the nation cant provide jobs doesnt mean ull blame engineering.....
yes... mujhe meri aukat se zada chahiye and thanxx to u sir for guiding us
But when you start working on your goals , everyone starts coming back to you but things and attention you craved before , dont excites you anymore .
STOP POSTING ON YOUR INSTA PROFILE AND START BUILDING AN IMPRESSIVE LINKEDIN PROFILE.
keep it up chetan sir you always motivate us✌🤞✌
Those who have the ability to hear the bitter truth, no obstacle can stop them.....THANKS SIR...👍🏻👍🏻
Chetan bhagat is like that teacher who shows your 'Aukat' in every lecture. Hats off to you Sir.
There is a statement..."aukaat me rahna.... now i realize.....there should be aukaat 💯 within us....... thankyou for inspiring ❤️.
I agree ... Life mein jeena hai to awkaat bna ke jeena h ....this line touched my soul.... And i will come back on this comment box when i will have my own awkaat...
I totally love this bitter truth video series as it actually gives us a reality check rather than keeping us in a pseudo bubble of fantasies so that we can take the appropriate actions in the time that we have at our disposal ✌. Do continue with this series Sir 🙌
I agree with you sir. I'm a girl & always put career as my top priority. Many barriers are there, but I still only focused on my dream, and your bitter truth videos are very effective for me. Thank you sir. Lots of love and respect❤🙏
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Same here
It was for men TBH, girls can still get away by marrying into rich households.
If girls focus on their looks, they can get way more than a guy could ever dream of
That is the main problem because you see yourself as girl so please assume yourself as Atma and aatma never discriminates between Boys and girls.
@@MegaGreatape yeah but if they want their own achievements then the thing is different.
Indian youth ladko ko aap jese guider ki zarur he taki aapko sun ke ladki pe time waste karne ki bajaye careers pe time de, you’re great sir
Huge respect sir..
Accidentally I found this video ..
Thanks to God and you too ❤️
Agreed with Chetan Sir.
I still remember my class 12th days, when the results of JEE Mains were announced. Every relative of mine was eager to know my result. But I didn't do well in that exam. And next everyone knows what they do after that.
3 years passed, Now I am in my final semester of Engg. placed in a Product Based Company ( will join as a Full-time employee this June) and none of them even send a message.
Living well is the best revenge. 😉
Can you give some key points of your journey..... I am a fe cs student
@@ruturajkadam5164 Hi Ruturaj, learn the concepts of Data Structures and Algorithms. Solve problems on Leetcode and Geeks for Geeks. There are many channels on CZcams for guidance.
You can checkout take U forward of Raj Vikramaditya.
@@anshulsinha3629 Tech Dose by surya pratap kahar is best for DSA
@@sachin08425 Okay.
Sabhash 😎😎😎
Like a true elder brother he is guiding the younger generation. These are truly pearls of wisdom relevant not only in present times but for future also.
I have no language to thank you dada..you are doing a great job. I could see my shortcomings gradually and will do my 100% to overcome it. Thanks again.
I agree with you totally sir.... Life have come to such a stage that I feel I never gave myself time only on behalf of keeping others happy.... The words you spoke in video has been so touched n felt tears in my eyes...... Thank you so much for being Wat you are.. Love you sir
Chetan is the brother who we all want in our lives ❤️
I totally agree sir,When I was working then people used to talk to me upfront.And when I left the job and preparing for exams these people disappeared quickly.People respect the post not person.This is that I have understood.
This is like an Older brother that I never knew I needed . Thanks Chetan 😊
❤lovely advices. Straight forward
Solid video 💪🏻
If the videos were ranked, it would be ranked as No.1.
You are great sir, my life is changed due to you. Thank you so much ❤
Exactly after 1 year, I will be back here with way more success in my life. This is the promice I make today to myself... ✨
Yes ,mai bhi aaunga
God bless you Bhai ❤️👬
@Ajey Mishra i will be waiting
Yes i also come💯💪
What happened?
Very true sir, Sacchai yahi hai !! big fan of your true advices 🙏🙏
Thank you so much for sharing this very important message in such a powerful manner 🙏
Right sir chahe vo girl's ho ya boys,jinka aukaat nhi hota use koi nhi puchhta ☹️🙂
Aisa nhi h agar girls aukaat nhi bhi bnaati hai
to aapki shaadi ho jayegi aap settle ho jaogi life mein lekin boys agar nhi bna paate to kutta bhi nhi puchta unhe shaadi dur ki baat hai
@@gagandeepsharma7972 ha bhai....ladkiyo ke liye face important hai....ladki agar dikhne me sundar h to achha ladka mil jata h bhale hi co only 12th pass ho
The moment u said that I'm like your younger brother I felt connected. Thank you sir for showing the reality and for encouragement to do better in life.
Totally totally agree with you sir, I'm gonna put all your words in my mind from right now and gonna work for my future, my career and continuosly improving myself coz aukaat toh ab banani hai!!!
Thank you so much Sir!!❤️
Every single word is true..Thank you Sir.❤
I remember 20 years back I used to randomly walk into any company or an office asking for a job, and 90% of the times there wasn't any opening and when there is, I used to get rejected coz of my skill set but everytime I got rejected I knew what I need to work on. This video takes me to my struggling days....Chetan is doing a fantastic job of creating content which is really needed for India's youth coz not all parents are IAS or engineers..
Agreed
You were calling us little brother
Dost thank you sir for all this love and care like our parents ❤️
Thank You very much for making this video!!
Agree sir
Love you for this kind information
You just defined everything in direct way with simple words.
Thanks alot sir.
"Aukaat" is everything 👏 Agreed sir.. This video will definitely change may perspectives 👌🙏
Totally agree with you sir 🙌
I will build by Aukaat !!
Thank you for inspiring💪 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Totally agree sir......
U have told that u treat us like ur younger brother....
It means a lot for us........
Thnkew for this n all the past videos..... ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Sir, U have rightly touched the nerve of all youth masses by sharing this bitter truth... thank you a lot for guiding us. ❤️😊
Sir ekdum on point boli baat boli aapne🥺🥺🖤
Agreeee sir. Really 💯🔥
कटू सत्य वचन- चेतन भाई🙏 ज़मीन-आसमान का फर्क पढ़ जाता है भाई जी लोगों के स्वभाव में अब "औकात" ना हो😓
Completely agree with you 🙌
Thanks sir for inspiring and guiding through your videos. Not just watching , but also applying them in my life ❤️
Agreed 100% thank you sir...
Thank you Sir 🌱
Remember binge reading his books.. And now the same with these amazing vids. Thanks Sir !
Chetan Sir U Are Right , Practical Man . Your Advises Will Definitely Bring Change. No One Ever Guided About Life In This Way . Sab log bas fake motivation dete rehte hai but your videos hit inside deep core especially to middle , lower middle , poor class youth's . 😐 🙏
I agree Sir 😊🙏🙏 Love u 🙏❤️
Agree 1000%💯Thnxx 👍
The first few minutes of this video I can resonate with vividly... Indeed! Self-valued quotient respect & love.
As always sir, straight from heart without being filtered.....your every video guide us in our lives to make it more vibrant sir 🙏🙏🙏
Sach me bhai teri baate dil ko chhu gayi thanks 🙏
Thank you so so much sir.
I had two failed startups in life.. i am 32.. i earned money but again my business failed.. i get many ideas in my head and i am confused what to pursue.. i describe myself as cunning and hardworking but things didn’t go well in past.. still i am going on but confused with the ideas that i get in my head…
Start with Small business...Then go for big
Ideas does matter but the main thing is where u put them, putting them in good place is all u need but that's the hardest part so keep trying in different areas👍
Choose well and Stick to one of those ideas and pursue that throughout the odds.
I just love and respect you for such kind of 'Bitter Truth' videos. Because these videos prove that my thinking pattern is absolutely right and I am in a right path.
Thank You Sir😊🙏
Thank you sir for ur valuable advice
Love sir ❤️🤗
Your right
11:07 to 11:19 it's not bitter truth for a man who has self respect and responsible... It's the eye opening line.. 👍🏽
I agree with you sir
बिना औकात के दुनिया सिर्फ हमारे टैलेंट को अपने मतलब के लिए इस्तेमाल करती है
औकात होनी जरूरी है ताकि वक्त आने पर हम इस दुनिया को इस्तेमाल कर सके।
Video is specifically for boys , but sir this one is highly highly relatable for all ..
Hats off to you sir , aapke jaisa authentic real content kahi aur nahi milta .
Plz make more such videos on how to ace in career and stop being someone's
Yes, this video is specifically for boys but still.
Me apni side se he example de rha hu.
Meri bua ki shadi huyi wo graduated hain bua but still London ke NRI ladke ne unke sath shadi karli and unko wahin le gye.
Second example, meri bhaiya ki shadi jis ladki se huyi wo bhi padhi likhi hain (graduate) bus itna padha likha sundar and susheel hona enough tha bhabhi ke lie. And aj bhaiya unke sath 1.5 crore ke flat me reh rahe hain.
Now esa ek example mujhe nahi mila jahan ladke ke sath esa hua ho. Shadi he ladke ki uski aukat poochke decide hoti hai par ladki ki nahi... :)
Bilkul agree karte h sir aapse aapki har baat se kadva h per sach to yhi h thanks for giving us the right direction kuch to karna h life main
Whenever I listen to you Sir.. I always feel like my big brother is saying something to me.. I don't have a big brother, but I felt like.. Thank you.!!
If without aukaat boys don't get "love."..❣️
..then girls don't get "freedom".🕊️
Exactly
Haaa freedom is important for girls nowadays
@Whatsapp Backup I think by freedom she meant self -dependence
@Whatsapp Backup but what if their husband leave them , torture them and don't take their responsibility and kids responsibility and Girls don't want to be a burden for their father , Then ???
After marriage , family members dont want to take girl's responsibility ,if her husband doesnt support her .
Girls need to be prepared for any possibilty
If her husband supports her , then she can also contribute her earnings .
Freedom and independent is different....I think independent is better word that is you don't depend on another person for your happiness
"Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally".
"Chris Rock"
The only video saved in my CZcams offline playlist to make me realise the reality of life and motivate me...
Sir you opened my eyes, I would like to thank you for that. I will definitely start focusing what adds knowledge and skillset from now on. Thank you very much!
I wanna just say that:
1. working on health continuously last 1.5 years.
2. Improving my skill from 1 year to become Web Developer
3. Relation: parents and some countable friend.😊
and perusing 2nd year of my college.
Can I get feedback from Mr. Chetan Bhagat.
add 'Sir' in the last...🙂
Bhai sath mein project kar sakte hai kya? Aap fronted ho ya backend ya full stack
Every and each line is true sir! Thanks 🙏🏻
I agree sir and reality dikha di apne
Only women, child and dogs are loved unconditionally "A man is only loved under a condition that he provides something""
True🔥
A girl loved only for Her sex(beauty,sex appearance)
A child Loved because he/she is easy to control (emotionally, physically).he/she basic need is food or who feel them comfortable 👬
A Dog or any pet is just a slave,if you provide food of any living thing that will attract you it can be ant or lion, because their basic need is one & only thing is food,for living
If you provide someone something then you are something for them besides that you are Nothing.....I REPEAT YOU ARE NOTHING
@@freedom4813 yes for Boys getting a job & feeding family is easy! 🤣
& for girls getting proposals from boys is difficult! Even a fat girl gets 100 proposals from guys!
I love the in between taunt waala part when chetan sir subtly humari lete hai....😂.. Thanks a ton sir that you acquaint us with the bitter reality.
Aap bilkul sahi kaha raha hai sir..tqs
Sir your videos such a inspiring and motivating . App jindagi ki reality bta rahe Ho