How OnlyJayus Became TikTok’s Most Hated Creator
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- čas přidán 16. 02. 2022
- OnlyJayus' TikTok story is one like no other. Despite having incredibly uncontroversial content, she's managed to find herself on the political TikTok battlefield every couple of months for the last three years. It began with simple complaints about hate comments, and has since escalated to the point where OnlyJayus cannot even make a simple joke without being cancelled, along the way having beefed with creators like Acrello, AuntKaren0, PapaGut, and TheJonathanMoss. This video will cover that transition, and in the process, explain how OnlyJayus became TikTok's most hated creator.
This is, How OnlyJayus Became TikTok’s Most Hated Creator.
Thank you guys for watching, like and sub if you enjoyed, SunnyV2 XO ❤
This video was heavily inspired by Bills "The Downfall Of OnlyJayus: The Most Hated Content Creator On TikTok!", big thanks to him, you can watch his version here: • The Most HATED Content... - Zábava
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"Social media made y'all way too comfortable with disrespecting people and not getting punched in the face for it"
-Tyson
I don’t know bro saying the n word is kinda bad
@@kingx7745 mf it was 6 years ago. You're acting like she killed someone. Plus, rappers say the n word, yet nothing happens to them. I love how society made a racist term able to be used by only one race... and not just made it frowned upon when being used by ANY race.
@@blocksource4192 Don't u just love facts 😌
But on serious note I honestly think we've come too far to change today's society.
@@blocksource4192 you can say what you want to you identical peer group. But regardless, why do you want to say the word Soo bad? - mind of a racist who has a black friend.
@@garygnu8775 I’m confused what you’re saying by this comment. First of all, a racist term no matter it is must not be said by any group. Jews shouldn’t say antisemitic stuff the same way Asians shouldn’t be automatically considered smart. Idk where you got the why do you love saying that word or whatever. I never said i wanted to say I said I wish no race said it. I find it wrong for anyone to say racial terms.
Cancel culture isn't even about canceling people anymore its about gaining your own clout for being the one to call them out
They loooove the power that comes with it.
Exactly!
Totally agreed.
Always has been.
Wow maybe you guys will realize that cancel culture doesn't exist and whining about not being able to say the N-wors isn't oppression
This is why I stick to CZcams, TikTok is just too toxic for me
You think CZcams is any better?
Right but the bad thing is that tiktok is more entertaining for me
Eh. CZcams ain't that much better tbh
@@officialdamadmanchannel6513 I don't know about you, I just watch cooking videos so yes it's better.
@@unknownguitarist917but there’s cooking videos on tiktok so that logic doesn’t really make sense
Thank god she seems a lot better now. I watch her and her content is still similar but she is able to ignore bad comments now and has a relatively good following of people, and I haven't seen a bad comment on her youtube channel in a while, so she has definitely redeemed herself.
I'm black and I think the only thing she did wrong was feed the masses and entertained some very inconsiderate Black people, it was embarrassing to watch them repeatedly weaponized the word and directly bully her for something that barely affected them
@@michaelrichards5340the reason she couldn’t just stop is adhd makes it really hard, i know bc i have adhd too
@@michaelrichards5340 I'm also black and I exactly agree.
I'm not black. I'm orange. I think I ate too many carrots.
@@mantismaster13 There have been many cases of people overdosing on carrot juice and dying…
"You said some horrible things, you need to apologise."
"I've said some horrible things, and I apologise."
"Wow holy hell, how dare you say such a cookie cutter thing. Disgusting."
Cancel culture be like:
stan twitter and tiktok:
Literally every twitter user:
People like that are deformed in logic and have a low emotional intelligence. Truth is that those who are vulnerable to the wrong crowd often get attacked
literally any other person who easily gets offended:
the fact that someone had to leak her ADDRESS is pathetic. She is slowly getting her life in danger by her 'fans.'
Lol she is a literal kid. They shouldnt be allowed to post shit on social media especially stuff like history, philosophy etc involving black people
@@cuddlemuffin.9545 I think there’s worse things people should put their attention to ,’:l
@@cuddlemuffin.9545 good point
@@cuddlemuffin.9545 a 22 year old is far from a child
@@azkia08 frontal cortex doesn't develop in women till at least 25, yes they are not children but they are not full grown adults if you want to speak scientifically and factually. 2 years before she was only 18. A year before she was 19. Nine-teen. So turning 20 instantly gives you life experience that takes decades to aquire?
11:43 people were laughing at her for this but it’s kind of sad because you can tell she is genuinely stressed out and all this drama is just making it worse.
Yeah she was fucking doxxed. Her own home wasn't even safe for her to be in and she had to move. I'd be yelling at my camera, too. You'd have to be such a p.o.s. to laugh at her then
Womp womp
@@partypartyyeah303 🤡
@@partypartyyeah303please please go touch grass
@@partypartyyeah303not rn bro this isnt funny
i have adhd and one thing about it is some people with adhd are sensitive when it comes to criticism so onlyjayus not being able to ignore it is valid
Can we criticize the audience as well? Why do people feel the need to relentlessly cyberbully people?
These are the same ppl who drank benadryl as trend, they have brain damage
bc they enjoy seen other people suffer some will say it others not
It’s funny
person above me was dropped on their head twice
@@Red_1911 fatherless child
I talked with OnlyJayus back in March when things were going bad. She seemed very stressed out and scared. Life is short
Ey yooo
Thanks for reaching out to her, man. Our community supporting her is the best thing we can do. Everybody makes mistakes.
Hi
ayoo borzah my man
damn when a guy known to smile and be happy has something to say about this, that's when you know the situation is crazy
Wait, so she used a slur towards a (one) person in PRIVATE messages and internet wanted her to apologize PUBLICLY to WHOLE black community? Make it make sense!
Yes ,and it makes sense, she used a RACIST slur multiple times. She was definitely being racist and this offended a lot of people (in most cases people say it in a song or like once in a less offensive way like Pewdiepie but she said it like she meant it). Saying the N-word comes with a lot of consequences ( even if it was a long time ago) and she had to face them.
@@Tomi-py9uwfax but i dont think she should be banned, she obviously changed and has apologized. Just let it go already
@@Tomi-py9uw Oh wow, she said a word, now everyone has gone mad. Ppl should stop crying for a single word and stop living in a pink peppa pig fantasy world. Life can be harsher than just hearing some word. The fact that you get mad for a word makes the word have meaning xD "Saying the nword comes with a lot of consequences" LMAO SUCH A NERD
@@Tomi-py9uwwhat consequences I say it all the time where are the consequences?
Ikr liberal black ppl are so fkin sensitive !
I feel so bad for Jayus, she got blamed because some guy copied her videos word for word and she called them out. And when the racist incident occurred she tried to apologize but was continuously bullied for a scripted apology. Nothing she could do was right, but if she didn’t respond to some of these accusations, things could have gotten even more messy. I am the kind of person that would do this whenever someone presents a false accusation to me. So I understand what it’s like to give something attention that definitely doesn’t deserve it.
Same
If only this level of outrage was shown for groomers, which Tiktok is FILLED WITH
Yep. If only. This amount of outrage over this girl loses all credibility because it's not at all genuine. It's bandwagoning, clout chasing bullshit over someone who is obviously vulnerable. I find it way more evil, insidious, and scummy than anything she ever did.
Is it really? I haven’t paid that much attention, is there any big ones I need to go and try to report?
@@n64p3 vorostwins made a discord where they encourage children to post pictures of themselves so creeps can DM them. Would have never thought they'd be like that until I went in to their disc.
scary thing is, it’s not just tiktok. many other social media sites have groomers and pedos
Literally filled
The fact that Shane Dawson and David dobrick didn’t get as much hate as she did is concerning
Seems like it’s because Jayus is an easier target compared to Shane Dawson who has more experience dealing with his issues for many years as CC. Which is kinda sad cos it shouldn’t be that way. ://
So what you want is more hate and drama.
What did Doberik do?
because shane and david dobrik didnt call anyone a "ni-ger lover".
@@yennefer559 yes but Shane did do blackface countless times, and David almost killed a man and was complacent in a date rape. So safe to say they are a bit worse than Jayus.
I feel for her, she made one tiny misstake in her life, but people blow it out of proportion and then ruin her entire life. As if they never said anything wrong, or made a misstake.
Ikr
“one tiny mistake”
Bro did you read the message? She said she “hopes your parents die of cancer” and that “I hope everybody you love dies”, it doesn’t fucking matter how long ago she said that or how private that conversation was. To tell that to another human being is absolutely disgusting and can’t be forgiven.
shut up@@lifeiscats1337
@@lifeiscats1337not really. You act as tho you are a saint who never said anything out of pocket. Sure what she said was wild but my guy holding something someone said 4/5 years ago over the head is just dumb.
@@lifeiscats1337 what a pathetic mindset. You have some serious growing up to do. People like you are so immature and spineless.
I gotta say this despite it’s been a year…
I HATE HATE HATE when fans use peoples emotions to get them angered. That just truly shows how much you want to stir drama for you’re own personal gain. The way Sunny worded this was perfect. But seriously Tik
Tok is just such a negative place. Hope nothing like this happens to you ❤️❤️❤️
People say "educate yourself", and then she actually wasted time 'educating' herself.
Their response? "I don't believe you educated yourself."
You can't win with these people.
exactly. do not appease the mob.
@The General I have a hard time collabing with people I like on a smooth work flow. Imagine everyone acting like a bunch of religious zealots from the inquisition calling you evil essentially. Have you ever been through that? Trust me when I say it's hard to get collabs done quickly, VERY hard when you're stressed out, and nearly impossible when *millions* of people hate you overnight and sponsorships are dropped. You try it. But maybe you're a child with zero life experience, so things still seem black and white to you. I don't know, but wait until the mob comes after you, because they *will* . They'll find something to complain about and you'll be begging them for mercy and the same as you are doing right now, they won't care, they won't have a heart, and they won't give any mercy. Godless mentality
No matter what you do, people will always criticize
Fuck are you talking about she was literally saying racial slurs to people
Because she didn’t educate herself
The irony is that everybody slamming her is saying she's a racist, hateful person, as they proceed to hate on her for months straight.
When one person starts hate, another person hates them.
It's an endless cycle, that won't end until someone stops it.
how tf your name is rn hassik but your profile is a c
joke comment
@@st4ym4d41 bruh now I'm confused
It was written that "only a man of color may absolve you white man, for your rAcIsImS." Thus saith the Lord.... Or so the crazy lefties have told me.....
So gather round' muh white subjects, kneel upon the ground and beg me, your "Black Jesus," to absolve you of "mUh rAcIsIMs"✝️
I absolutely do not condone racism, but there was really no need for people to be so harsh on her. People are ruthless man
So people on the internet want to see and believe the worst about others, regardless of intent or context.
“Welcome to the internet.” - Bo Burnham.
The fact that a guy can copy her, then say he found it somewhere else to direct hate toward her is just downright hypocritical
he just said he got it from google to cover up the mistakes, while literally copying her video nearly exactly the same, so far to say that his cousin has ADHD. which most likely is false as he is just using this as evidence to gain more followers perhaps.
I agree. Obviously a lot of the criticism is deserved especially for saying racial slurs, but a lot of situations were either overplayed for more clicks or she wasn't in the wrong in them to begin with.
@@ashlabelle she got cancelled because she said a bad word when she was 16
@@chillfrosted2670 exactly!! why did no one mention that he STILL said his relative had asthma when she said it first?? I'm not defending her, but nobody talks about it?
@@lee-lv8zo because, they just dislike onlyjayus. its unfair for her, they just want to use more and more flaws that she has.
Being the *most hated person* on the cesspit that is TiKTok is honestly an achievement in itself.
Her or sienna Mae lmao we love to hate
More hated than EDP?
I thought it was vegan teacher
@@AG-yc7vt probably not
@@IkeReviews was that bitch
The fact that the people are cold hearted enough to bully her when she has a mental disability is outrageous and something should be done I have an older brother with adhd and he can barely remember stuff that happened hours beforehand so I know how she struggles and I give all my support toward her growing her mostly helpful and funny channel further
The mental disability she has probably has absolutely nothing to do with what she did
Creators shall never apologize.
Being someone aho sits down for five minuets at 2:40 and suddenly its 5:25 i can agree,things happend and i thunk jayus actualky changd ,but some people dont know how to let go,its been 4-5 years how tf are you all still mad ,poor jayus still recives hate to tbis day let
Mental illness isn’t a excuse to be racist.
I have been diagnosed with severe Adhd. Paying attention in classrooms, focusing on projects and test, and social interactions are extremely tough for me. Living with Adhd is challenging and can make your everyday much harder, but I would never use it as a reason for my actions/mistakes. Anytime I forget to do something, I don't say "Welp, I have ADHD so I am justified in forgetting". I personally see that as pathetic, everyone has disabilities/challenges in there life and millions of people live highly productive and organized lives with severe ADHD. Disabilities aren't there for you to make excuses about why you can't do things, or why you didn't do your job.
"A strange game; the only winning move is not to play" - Joshua AI
Honestly, I hate what society has become now. Just I quote I remember hearing, "All people do now is complain, and not help. Because now, we think complaining is enough". I think that's what this situation is.
I think you're right, at this point the comments critical of her have hundreds of likes whereas most positive ones are in the low tens.
@@peggymiller9363 There’s no need to add salt to the wound but that’s exactly what people keep doing in this situation. We seriously have to teach our generation about the dangers and cruelty of the internet or else situations similar to onlyjaysus will become more common.
@@sebastianavila4131 idk bout yall but in middle and highschool they made a big deal out of cyber bullying and the dangers of the internet, and i graduated in 2019. However its almost essential to be on the internet in this day in age, what people need to learn is how to properly handle these situations, bc only jayus basically added fuel to the fire.
and cyber bullying will never end bc ppl are creative and as long as they can hide behind a screen theyll do what they can to attack others they dont agree with or feel like an easy target. its why a lot of social media is seemingly in agreement in politcs, bc if anyone dares to disagree, even slightly theyll try (and often succeed) to bully them off the platform.
Absolutely, I'm sick of society as a whole. They act extremely ignorant, they listen to every public opinion and they follow what's mainstream. Oh and corporations are so messed up.
True words
I love how this channel tells me about “famous” people on the internet that I’ve never heard of and all their drama that has nothing to do with the not-famous ordinary me
I heard his next video is about @jksanrio ?
TikTok "Stars" aren't legitimate celebrities, they're even MORE useless and irrelevant!
"famous" people's downfall.
I have no idea who she is because I dont use tictok.
I agree
I can’t believe people make such a big deal out of someone saying one word. It’s sad, our society is so off track.
I mean your race didn’t get called a derogatory term for YEARS just for the color of your skin did they? Of course not so clearly you wouldn’t understand but I bet if someone were to call you a “karen” or “cr@cker” it’d be a whole different story right?? In situations like this it’s best to keep quiet
What word?
@@KnockedupNout the nword duh
Ikr😭🙏
Kind of tone deaf considering it’s not just a word . But you know that. You just choose to ignorant. While I don’t agree her entire life should’ve been over from it . Accountability is knowing that what you said was messed up and derogatory/nasty.
SunnyV2, your audio, and editing is awesome!!! keep it up.
Imagine having to sleep everyday for the rest of your life thinking about this situation. Too toxic I wouldn’t be smiling. It’s not healthy
I'm not on any side here, onlyjayus deserves to get cancelled but not too much. People are taking it too far, give her a chance again and maybe she'll improve. If not they'll definitely bring this to more light
I agree. The internet is relentless when there's a target on your back. They don't really want to forgive until you're at your rock bottom.
@@c4cubey931 "onlyjayus deserves to get cancelled, but not too much"
I don't think you know what "getting cancelled" means
@@saptaccrvima3563 yeah but like... You get the point
Edit: WAIT IS OP ACTUALLY BORZAH?
@@kingpeedorah yeah, I do. But, he worded it poorly. You either cancelled or you don't.
Let’s be honest, they don’t want her to “better herself”. They only want to tear her down, and they are enjoying every second of it.
Cancel culture in a nutshell
I think so too. Thats why im so glad i dont have that app anymore. Tiktok is so toxic for the dumbest reasons. Yes she should definitely be held accountable for her actions but leaking her fucking address?? How do people think that's going to help her grow and evolve. That is doxxing, WHICH IS ILLEGAL PEOPLE SO YOU'RE JUST AS BAD AS ONLYJAYUS IS, perhaps even worse you could literally get this girl murdered. Just call yourselves accomplices while you're at it.
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@@Weed413 probably the n word carry’s history and cracker was only used for what they call the white man whippin them nun else tile the late 80s were the word was just being thrown out
Typical phony outrage. When their inner circle says the same hurtful BS, crickets.
I feel bad for her, she made 1 terrible mistake and the entire internet are trying to cancel her. I get that offensive words hurt but she apologized, she tried to better herself, she made efforts and usually most people wouldn't even bother so I feel as though people were being unfair towards her and not giving her a chance. I'm glad SunnyV2 covered this and let everyone see both sides to the story.
Play stupid games win stupid prizes. 😂
@@partypartyyeah303that isn’t what that means honey. I mean it is what that isn’t the situation at all.
@@m00yasssss how isn’t it? She fucked around and found out. Bet she won’t say it again 😂
@@partypartyyeah303 um yeah and she didn’t? Not once did she say it again. Also, it isn’t because she obviously expected to get a negative response. It was a private conversation and the person she was talking to forgave her. That isn’t an excuse for what she said but it’s an excuse to forgive the new person she is.
@@m00yasssss womp womp, DIDNT ask DONT care. I’m just happy she got karma, threats and all lol
The internet is so backwards because if you make a mistake and you are famous the internet will never allow you to live it down. They will ask hou for an apology but when you give the apology they call you fake. You can never make a single mistake on the internet.
this is why being a famous content creator is so difficult. you do something bad or slip up and your life is over.
I know what a shame. It's not like they can quit at any time and work at any media company using their experience on social media.
This is the sad reality of fame
Facts
Good.
True
I like it when SunnyV2 introduces me to someone I’ve never heard of til now and educates me on their downfall.
ngl, he really does educate us
why are you always in videos
same lol
same
damn, youve never heard onlyjayus, some of their shorts used come up and i just think they have very obscure tips and whatever
TikTok drama is just so rich. I love watching an influencer’s platform die
I generally like only jayus’s vids and I have never heard of this controversy before
She wasn’t emotionally ready for social media which is probably THE MOST IMPORTANT PART of becoming a content creator, once you’re ready to ignore hateful comments you’re ready for the internet.
Well said
people don't realize there not ready for something until there in that position. you don't know how hard it is to have millions of people wanting you to lose everything until it happens to you.
NO ONE IS EVER EMOTIONALLY READY FOR ME... NO ONE!!!
@@socialmedia5805 aaaaaaaaaa
@@socialmedia5805 you’re too much 😭😭😭
She’ll never be the most hated as long as the vegan teacher still exists 💀
Trueee
at least the vegan teacher actually has enough worth being canceled over and not something she said four years ago
We unironically hate the vegan teacher.
loll
4 years already?? sheesh
girl- the thumbnail 😭
That guy was obviously copying her. Ppl Defending him is ridiculous
that dude saying it was a "W" that she lost her sponsorship and podcast cemented for me that they just want to destroy her, not actually have social justice
Because people have to learn lessons. You don’t get to say racist things and be rewarded for them. Serves her right. Certain groups of ppl get away w so much hateful antics and mfs really get upset that there are consequences for their actions. Y’all acting like she got arrested or something 😂 She shouldn’t have called someone a n!gger lover in the first place. She will be fine.
Exactly
People just pick sides
and he's talking about a saviour complex... ironic
that's only one dude
So in other words, she's TikTok's "most hated creator" because people cry when they see anything that can be slightly offensive, no matter the time or context
Right
What i've learned from everything i've seen on the internet if you apolagize you attract more hate if you dont apoligize you attract more hate there is no way to win 😔
I dislike every party in this scenario. I dislike OnlyJayus' use of racial slurs, her cringe inducing coverup and general attitude to similar content. I dislike people trying to cancel her for something stupid like that. I dislike AuntKaren's narcissism and weaponization of the race card. I dislike the Tiktok and reddit users who try and provoke her and/ or think that they are doing a good thing when they mess up someone's life because of their hero complex.
Same!
I hate everything
Everyone involved is a p.o.s. I get trying to hold people accountable for things but constantly adding fuel to the fire is just childish. Whenever I see drama on TT that really is not worth my time, I just block all those involved. These people should learn to do the same.
Amen
@@sillyfegart5455 sigma
This has nothing to do with what OnlyJayus did, but people that hate on someone just because they want to get a reaction out of them are horrible people and don't deserve to have a voice on the internet.
people are horrible for doing this to her, like why are you complaining on her getting mad when you literally wanted it to happen by pissing her off. stop messing with people.
I'm just disappointed in those people who do those kinds of harmful things on the interent
I agree aci, also nice subnautica vids I enjoy them. lol
Yeah I agree that those messages weren’t ok to send but I don’t understand why they had to be brought up after 4 years. It would make sense for people to do that if it was something she had continued to do. I think what made it worse was how she handled it
Unfortunately welcome to cancel culture everyone
This is the crowd that picks away at your every word in every private text over what bad they can find in you, then line up to go see Travis Scott in concert with guest singer R Kelly. People on Tiktok are pointless.
Tik Tok defined in one person
It's, to be honest, terrible to see a young girl like her getting bullied over something she said to a person in private 4 years ago. Imagine thinking people don't change in a 4 year time period. Must be terrible to have so many people watching every step and "mistake" you make. On the other note.. I've been addicted to your content lately, keep it up dude!
At 5:50 you can see Sunny V2 highlights the EDP method of dealing with controversy.
Ok
Actually 5:45 is the EDP method.
does saying it in ‘private’ really make it less bad? if you make the choice to send an angry message that is screenshottable and permanent then you’re making the choice to accept the consequences of whatever you say in that message. i just can’t see how anyone can have sympathy for someone who would say such an evil, hateful thing regardless of their age, gender, or the level of ‘privacy’ involved.
She didn't do anything wrong in the first place.
What I’ve garnered from this is
1) Don’t say racial slurs [easy]
2) Apologize as little as you possibly can, because cancellers won’t care, no matter what, but at least regular people might possibly respect your tenacity.
3) People on social media take literally everything that isn’t disgustingly positive as a negative
Don't apologize at all. Jschlatt and Twomad are cancelled every month but it has no effect on their following because they don't even acknowledge it.
Agree with no 2 no one really care about your apologize..your fans?maybe but other people?nope.
@@linux_fox who
@@kanoaikawach asked
1) is not easy at all dude wtf??
The advice still rings true: Never apologize. Just suck it up, take the hits because you can’t do nothing about it and move on.
as someone who also has adhd, I also struggle to just exit a situation, like it’s so hard to just not do something
Imagine being told to apologize only to be criticized even more, man I hate social media
Yeah, some ppl are like that. Nothing's good for this type of internet user
This is TikTok, not quite as toxic as Twitter but pretty senseless toxic ppl
Cancel culture man. People expect an apology but then would bash on it anyway saying it’s not sincere enough
@@lunarialoonatic that isn't cancel culture, it's just called shitty behaviour.
CZcams is social media
Jayus’s biggest offense is just not being emotionally ready to handle the internet before blowing up. She’s not an evil person and doesn’t deserve to be deplatformed, especially when compared to the far far far more problematic content creators on the internet.
Tiktok afforded groomers access to underaged children that are there for saccharine "cat can smile too" videos. I think it's not a stretch to say that the people picking on a content creator with paper-thin skin then acting surprised when she lashes back in the most hurtful way she can think of (which frankly is far from the worst thing one can say, this seems like the pewdiepie debacle all over again) to regain some semblance of feelijg of control over her online life are being a fair bit focused on themselves rather than actually important shit. Because frankly, the fact they not for a moment consider that she has a similarly bad (if not arguably worse) experience as a neurodivergent in a neurotypical world and only seeing her skin color...yeesh.
SERIOUSLY LIKE…DID YALL FORGET ABOUT SHANE DAWSON
No her biggest offence is using Raciest slurs from what i can see. if that isnt on the list of her offenses. I am unsure about what that says about you.
@@overthier nope, they're talking about lately, not 4-6 year sago.
fr, he did say something that was racist but its was 4 years ago?! then people start putting little things on him and making a huge idea about it.
imagine if sunny gets into a controversy💀
I honestly don't think anything makes me laugh more than hearing "time blindness"
Moral Of The Story: Never Ever Join/Use Twitter
yup
Well... this video is on TikTok, not Twitter. So it should be "never use Twitter and TikTok"
@@looniemoonie5955 nah it’s twitter’s fault trust💀
@@looniemoonie5955 dumbfounder people existed because twitter,soo
Since I left twitter and tiktok, I am so much better. Except youtube, I only use platforms where people need to use their real name, cause they seem to have so much more respect towards others knowing their aren't anonymous and are known as "John Doe" not "@/daddyslittlefuckingwhatever"
The only winning move is not to play. Innocent or guilty, the best way to apologize is to ignore it, the internet forgets quick if you dont bite
Until people damn you for not doing anything at all? This happens too.
It works if ur a small content creator too so people won't be doing as much milking video to bring up a 10 month old drama titled something like "onlyjayus fid something really bad" 'this is why onlyjayus is cancelled" etc, why is no one pointing out all this tea milking channel
If you did nothing wrong, don't apologise.
Probably the best way to put it.
Nice. Kevin Flynn quote.
yeah the racism makes her a pretty awful person, but people on tik tok need to touch some grass and learn to take a joke
This channel reminds me of how old I really am because I've never heard of majority of the CZcamsr's he talks about
Wow, people can be real shitty. She had her downfalls and issues, but clearly did not deserve the whole shitstorm she’s being dragged through. I’ve never even heard of this girl until this video
ye
I stumbled across her in CZcams shorts about 4 months ago, and her videos are interesting. I subbed, and her videos are still consistently very good. I feel like people mistakenly believe she's insensitive, because of her loud and hyper nature.
She's probably the same sort of person screaming to have Donald trump canceled and that whites are oppressive blah blah blah. Don't even care.
Racist
People are blaming her for being over sensitive and stuff, but what the he11 she supposed to do about that. You can’t change that
First n-word controversy, especially from past, should always be forgiven.
For me, it’s not that she said the N-word it’s the context and way she used it. People can educate themselves and that’s fine, I hope she isn’t racist anymore. Blaming adhd on everything is never a good look. Whining and crying to the Internet when you’ve already been canceled will never work. Just poorly handled.
to be fair, ADHD, if severe enough and combined with other mental illnesses, DOES play a huge role in a person's ability to deal with life
I am African American and I don’t speak on Behalf of the whole community just myself . This girl has received so much hate for no reason. Yes she was a hateful person but let her move on from that! Everyone here has made mistakes. We are all human
Ok, why are African Americans so sensitive to niggah while they call themselves niggah?
@@sirbluebeetle2875 Uhmm because it has a history of slavery and getting abused tortured and hit. White people used to call us that hideous words as outcasts. It’s a racial slur and if your white and using this word I hope you know your promoting slavery. Please be mindful of your language. Even myself I do not like saying it at all.
@@cateiia8984 it kinda defeats the purpose if African Americans keep saying it. Also, I'm online so my race doesn't matter.
@@sirbluebeetle2875 yikes
@@cara.bella15 what?
This is why you don’t apologize for public backlash, only apologize if you genuinely believe you did something wrong, similar to dream’s case, if you apologize once ppl will demand apology’s for literally everything and anything.
In dream's case, you mean when he was called out for cheating with facts and just doubles down that he didn't only to later admit he did? Nah just say oh fuck I did my bad.
Yeah, but nowadays people have no moral compass or foundation, so the crowd determines what is right and wrong.
Except OnlyJayus is trash
@Sheko You saying that just shows you have no actual knowledge on that case.
And even if you do apologize- a lot of the time they just won't accept it. These people don't care if the person they're cancelling actually feels sorry, they just want to see the creator vulnerable so they can go: "HA HA NOT SO BIG AND TOUGH NOW ARE YOU!?" All because their feelings got hurt.
1:01 she has a point here if you think about it, people leaked her address for some reason, she had to move, and had an even tougher time getting contact with her family cause she has to move, it’s not fair to get pissy when she doesn’t respond to you immediately
i love how every sunnyv2 thumbnail includes a person who just woke from a 2 hour nap
If you notice the people attacking her, most all of them have large followings. They aren't interested in her redeeming herself, theyre interested in dragging her down to stir up drama because the longer they drag it out the more clout they get. They're here for views and ad revenue, not social justice.
If you notice all the people defending her, most all of them are white. I wonder why....
Good point, since im not in tik tok I didnt thought about that, lots of creators of yt do the same by creating drama or sayimg hateful stuff.
AGREED
Welcome to cancel culture.
This is why these big creators should never apologize for anything, even if they are sorry. It just stirs up a mob, paradoxically.
As a service dog user, not gonna lie, I did find the joke funny. I'm honestly more mad at the woman at 13:28 who said that no one who uses a service dog would find that funny. Like... let me make my own decisions ma'am.
That lady was a typical warrior mommy who's only personality trait is being the mother of a disabled child. Yikes.
Also, pls gib your service doggo pets from me! 🤚🏻🤚🏻
@@dianeaishamonday9125 dont wanna spoil the fun but she is not a typical warrior mommy at all. her tiktok video was very unnecessary yes but still lmao
Mf probably uses his disabled child for content
True dat and even if someone did do what she said she didn't make that decision it's like saying if someone jumped off a bridge u gonna get mad and say hey he's telling ppl to jump off a bridge
Hell yeah I'm a service dog user and that shit was funny as; honestly I'm on her side on this it's not like none of us said the n word in 2015 when it was seen as cool
I hate how people bring up other incidents when arguing.
“WHY DID YOU COMMIT A GRAND BANK HEIST”
“I didn’t”
“Well, it says, 30 years ago, you committed assault”
“Yeah?”
“SO YOU MUST BE A ROBBER FOR DOING SOMETHING WRONG 3 DECADES AGO!”
Crazy how a word can hold so much power
Ikr
It’s so scary how people feel a NEED to take problems or controversies to the public. Instead of being a decent person and take it to DMs, they crave that social attention and drag the other person thru the dirt just to make themselves feel better about themselves.
It definitely takes more sense to take it to the DM, but I would feel attention hungry if it really felt like everyone was against me, or if more people knowing would back me up. The internet is not a safe space for anyone..
@@bruhvibes5941 People rlly dont understand that other people have a career, a way they make money. Taking to the public is going to help eliminate their career, and just over a word she said
I won't miss her, or her femcel comments.
Onlyracist supporter cope
yknow I never really understood that
if it is a personal problem, aren't you mfs supposed to be doing that in private???
like, what happened man wtf
She might have been in the wrong at times but making SEVEN VIDEOS about someone not responding to an email is just obsessed and creepy ☠️
I actually enjoyed Aunt Karen's videos but when I started discovering how other black creators actually did not like her at all and debunked a lot of things she had talked about and basically said she reaches a lot just to get clout, I couldn't support her anymore.
Ikr? Like, ghosting a collaborator surely is rude and unprofessional but damn girl....... seven videos? And on top of that, campaigning to deplatform them because they ghosted you? Ummm
Clout chaser
AGREED, dude tbh if I ever went viral I’d probably be cancelled to my memory can not 💀
Definitely. however they were tik-toks so maybe their was just one intended video taking multiple tik-toks to make.
Yeah she has said some pretty messed up things and raciest slurs in her past, but there is truly nothing more that she can do, she was trying her hardest to prove she changed.
Ty for chronicling all of these ppl. Delicious... This girl couldnt handle lite trolling and she nuked herself in response 😂 incredible. Good gravy
The moral of the story is: NEVER apologise if you don’t think you’ve done anything wrong.
it was wrong tho :/
especially in private convos.
yea
Don't apologize even if you've offended someone. They will never forgive you anyways. There's a thing called freedom of speech.
@@idiot4177 saying the n word 4 years ago ?
This is exactly why I don't use tiktok. The negativity and hate on tiktok is seriously ridiculous, and Jayus's situation proves it. Apparently, she had to literally MOVE APPARTMENTS just because of
a mistake she made 4 years ago. And she literally apologized. It doesn't help that some people tried to take advantage of the hate she was receiving to gain more popularity and followers. Tiktok is fucking terrible.
People of colour, beige and brown! :D
Not only that but “cancel culture” is literally pointless. Like wtf r ppl trying to do when digging up someone’s mistake from six years ago? It was years ago, past is past and it seems like her “enemies” are the only ones that need to fix themselves, not her
@@wyv_3rn When cancel culture does something right is the same time when the world is about to explode
@Bzake fr bro
why are there so many poeple fucking kissing her ass? It doesnt matter if she said it 4 or five years ago she said some fucked up shit. that apology that she made was faker then travis scotts
I love how when she's having an "emotional breakdown apology" she's literally hitting a dance move
She is a perfect case study on how you should never bow down to the outrage mob. These people will never be satisfied with your attempts at apologising so you’re better off just ignoring them.
dude she has ADHD, people with ADHD have severe problems and process different things in various ways, its not easy being like that but the racism was actually a bit too far which had offended a lot of people
Well you should never fight back the outrage mob. If she would had look in their faces and sincerely said sorry once and then leave the case without any comment, this whole drama wouldn’t had become such popular..
@@vincenteliasbaar7760 right. It’s the Camilla Cabello route. Apologize for your racism, do some token activist thing so you can claim to have demonstrated change, then ignore all comments on it.
Plenty of white people will immediately forgive you and not care, as is their privilege, and plenty of black people will never forgive you and never forget, as is their right. You’d be fine because you’re not targeting black people anyhow.
It’s only when you keep showing your entitlement that the situation worsens. Like of course her apology is going to be shite: she got caught and then had to own up to it, so it’s going to seem forced and inauthentic. Then on top of that the white woman tears are always a bad idea when engaging with black people. But that would have been whatever: we know that ish isn’t aimed at us. It’s everything that came after: she could have done the collab and kept it pushing. But she didn’t, and let this snowball on top of all the other issues she already had.
What can anyone say other than that she’s horrid at social media? She should have gone ahead and hired someone to help her deal with this crap. Probably still could.
@@18NakedCowboysInTheShowersAtRR nah fuck that. I was bullied mercilessly by black kids when I was a child because I sucked at sports, and was the only white kid there. If I was in her position, given my history, no fucking way would I apologize.
I get that people get hurt about racism but that shit doesn't just magically appear over night. You don't wake up racist. You don't make your coffee, create your toast, and then suddenly think, "yeah fuck these *racist comment here*".
@@madape556 bro grow up. Just because some black kids bullied u ur gonna excuse racism. If a couple of black kids bullying made u racist, u were already racist
I feel bad for her. There is no rule book of what to do when you’ve reached it.
Scrawl through her old messages and delete them and take back every word. It’s a joke, there are literal child predators on TikTok with 20m+ followings who don’t get cancelled.
She needs to let things go, like mean comments which is hard.
What’s scrawl?
@@teddycustumz3267 It means to write carelessly, but I'm pretty sure this guy meant it as in she should search through all of her content and take down the things that are gaining attention
@@roslindale feminist alert!
@@roslindale I think that’s a bit harsh to entirely blame it on that, however I think it does play a role. I think it’s more on TikTok creators targeting her knowing she’ll respond and give them clout and attention
@@roslindale literally a brain dead comment
10:52 If "Sent from my iPhone" is in an email, don't respond
Why
Giving her any type of leeway is crazy. She said the n-word that's what she get. She's not being bullied, she's getting what she deserves. The n-word is hurtful and no other group of people is going to tell us how to respond or feel.
Now I don't like Jayus myself, but there is no goddamn excuse to leak someone's address. Idc if they're a bad person with bad views, you're actively putting them in danger and not respecting privacy at all. If you're the type of sicko who leaks private information, especially addresses, you can get bent
That’s full blown stalker at that point
Based
plus something people that think this is ok as long as they deserve it dont consider that they put people who live with them or who are asociated with them in danger as well
Hm. Sounds like social consequences that happen to just about everyone who pisses someone else off on the internet.
@@elsamena7976 so you think its right? what is that supposed to mean
Social media is literally no different from middle school. People just bully, point and laugh, and start drama the real world doesn’t care about
True man onlyjayus was a really good creator hadn't seen her content in a while then saw this video
Ye
Do the smart thing delete social media
czcams.com/video/FHgeNd8jFmY/video.html
Well why do stupid underage kids use social media then why theY get bullied and sent bad things there crying as if there were shot with a bullet and they don’t delete any online chats even 13+ they don’t delete so yea they really need to be smart not stupid delete the platform and report the user that’s a reason why this comment is wrong
I think she was in the right in some ways, first emotionally exploiting people is an awful thing to do, but anyone who does it is clearly just a mean internet troll and should be ignored, not right by the trolls, but jayus could have reacted differently or not at all
Goes to show just how sad some online users are, Bullying this chick for a slight feeling of joy. Poor girl
Just imagine this being such a problem in your life that you signed a petition over it... absolutely insane.
You gotta be such a massive loser to sign a petition to cancel someone man
Right she said a word and everyone wants to ruin her
this should b like the black mirror episode where u use the tag "#DeathTo ______" and then at the end only the ppl who used that hashtag died but obviously not that serious lol. maybe it should b like all the people who sign it get banned from tiktok
@@vortor2728 great idea
I know right
"Don't feed the trolls" is really actual life advice jayus!! The more you feed them the hungrier they get!
To be fair, even if she didn't feed them, they would get hungrier- this advice would have been far more applicable before cancel culture, but we live in an age where you could be minding your own damn business, streaming from home as you are paid to do, then you get swatted because someone thought it would be funny to have you go through something that could completely traumatize you.
@@akalishroud2365 quite literally none of what you said invalidates my statement that feeding trolls only make them more hungry. It doesn't mean you have to completely ignore every single thing that is said online but when you allow people so much power over your mind they will abuse that power. Thats like the genesis of a troll and attention sustains them indefinitely .
@@ginnygin7141 I wasn't trying to invalidate you, the fact that you immediately felt concerned with that as a priority in this response confuses me. I was simply saying that in the end, if we are being honest, ignoring it probably wouldn't have helped her either. if you don't say anything ever then people will begin to think you don't disagree or have an argument against what they are saying so in their head it must be true, In the end the false truth will spread anyway and continue to make her look worse in the eye of the public. Just because someone doesn't agree with something doesn't mean they are trying to invalidate you, it feels like you have the mindset of those people who are like always trying to find reasons to be upset and see someone elses viewpoint as diminishing or undermining your opinion, I'm not, simply sharing another viewpoint to the saying.
@@akalishroud2365 I think you misunderstand my intention and meaning with what I've said. I don't feel invalidated personally by what you said. What I had intended to convey was that we can both be right in that what you said is relatively correct while what I said is still valid as well, hence your statement not invalidating my statement. I apologize for the confusion I caused with the way I worded my reply
To clarify; feeding the trolls is any activity, good or bad, that acknowledges that they exist including, but not limited to, replying "OK".
Is nobody going to talk about that first hate comment username lol 3:24
I made a severe and continuous lapse in my judgement, and I don’t expect to be forgiven. I’m simply here to apologize. What we came across that day in the woods was obviously unplanned. The reactions you saw on tape were raw; they were unfiltered. None of us knew how to react or how to feel. I should have never posted the video. I should have put the cameras down and stopped recording what we were going through. There's a lot of things I should have done differently but I didn't. And for that, from the bottom of my heart, I am sorry. I want to apologize to the internet. I want to apologize to anyone who has seen the video. I want to apologize to anyone who has been affected or touched by mental illness, or depression, or suicide. But most importantly I want to apologize to the victim and his family. For my fans who are defending my actions, please don't. I don’t deserve to be defended. The goal with my content is always to entertain; to push the boundaries, to be all-inclusive. In the world I live in, I share almost everything I do. The intent is never to be heartless, cruel, or malicious. Like I said I made a huge mistake. I don’t expect to be forgiven, I’m just here to apologize. I'm ashamed of myself. I’m disappointed in myself. And I promise to be better. I will be better. Thank you.
what
People with ADHD can have rejection sensitivity disorder which can make them very sensitive to any kind of criticism which may be why she reacted poorly to all the criticism.
Forreeal
I have ADHD, I easily lash out at people but I know when to stop and so do others that I know with ADHD,
Edit : I KNOW everyone has different severity but if yours is really bad you shouldn’t become an influencer on a toxic platform
But that’s not an excuse to act like an asshole. You reacting poorly to criticism isn’t on the people criticizing you, it’s on you.
Ok so that might explain my temper. Any tips for controlling it? 😭
just dont use tiktok.its more easy
Imagine being forced to apologize, then getting EVEN MORE hate,
Cancel culture is something else
Some people genuinely have no lives lmao
@@rd101 same thing goes for most people caring about the hate.
Why do we care?
Celebrities are for entertainment
@@buddy3852 Real
It shows weakness and they just milk the controversy further.
Tbh she was stuck in a damned if you do damned if you dont no-win scenario its a shitty position to be in.
Yeah I figured something was up, when she complained about losing 50k followers and refused to acknowledge that her bizarre appearance was not something anyone wants to watch. Sure enough this seems to validate my suspicions.
tf do you mean bizarre? have you never seen a public person in revealing clothes?
@@Celatra Um...its because she wants to be a dude...idk wtf you're talking about with revealing clothing.
she's non binary. she is not trans lmao@@physicalgrafiti12345
No. She isn't trans@@physicalgrafiti12345
If the internet forces you to apologize for something that you did years ago, don't. Instead, do that thing again, it'll work 10x better.
No, you’ll get killed or something.
The point where I felt the worst for her was when she got doxxed, that's disgusting. It's illegal, if I were ever doxxed I would be furious and would sue, and force them to pay for my new home.
Who would you sue? How could you find out who did it? Would you have the time and the money to investigate and litigate?
@@312bigbeanburrito Facts
@@312bigbeanburrito I guess TikTok for not handling any of it.
@@312bigbeanburrito These are all very valid questions, but they only further explain why doxxing is so infuriating and why it’s not acceptable. The justice system struggles to keep up with a lot of newer internet based crimes in the same way it might be able to keep up with a “simple” crime that takes place in real life, face to face (i.e. a robbery) and many people are using this to their advantage to do unacceptable things on the internet with lessened repercussions.
you have a jelly bean pfp i doubt you can legally sue
I found her annoying, so I avoided her content. Thats it. Thats all that should be done.
What is wrong with people... These people just want to bully people.
Internet.
Bruh I sound like a boomer
If you let someone over the internet "bully" you lol why make yourself insane by keep going to where the "bullys" are??😂 CZcams isn't the only website or platform on the internet younno??
@@mikedmacc709 because its not a website issue, its a human one, what site do you recommend that has no humans?
bad 'criticism' can really take a toll on someone, specially if they're not prepared to deal with how despicable people can be
I guess you are not a libtard that has their little feelings hurt easily, good for you Ron!
@@brunoslybruno thanks, you have a brain.
If this guy gets into a controversy, he will instantly know how to react and respond
The thumbnail is a violation 💀
The only people who don't realize how much you can change in even just 1 year, are the people who will act like teenagers their whole lives. I feel bad for this girl, yeah she did something wrong but anyone else who can't admit they also have made huge mistakes is just lying to themselves and doesn't understand what it is to be a human.
Good that this has happened to her
Not everybody deserves this treatment everybody in the internet is a bunch of crybabies
@@michaelreed8047 nah.
You can apologize for your actions that have hurt others whilst still changing your behavior. They aren’t mutually exclusive.
Her fan base is primarily teenagers THO
Internet: APOLOGY NOW! Jayus: Okay here. Internet: HOW DARE YOU APOLOGIZE!
Your supporting the clown 🤡
This is what you get when you give phones to monkeys
@@BenchongDyWhat?
Welcome to the internet. This is why you never apologize. It’s like dousing yourself in gasoline while being trapped in a burning building.
@@BenchongDy bro why you gotta be racist like you’re part of the problem rn
Holy fuck, the internet is ruthless. She didn’t seem like a bad person and the internet just kept applying pressure