As a bisexual man I remember when I was struggling with my sexuality. Whenever I felt attracted to another man I always dust it off saying that "oh I am just admiring his masculinity" or some other crap. Whenever I tried to make myself one thing and sneak and like something from the same sex I always had an excuse to make it seem that I am straight. These men are not 100% straight. They might like women for the most part more so than men but if you have sex with a man you're not straight.
I'm gay...and honestly, I don't think you have to be attracted to men in order to have sex with them. I would have sex with a woman if the price was right, but I'm NOT bi-sexual, nor am I straight at all..
+thomasthetans gay for pay my ass.. I know many real straight guys who would fuck u up if you even come close to them let alone ask to have sex with them lol ..there's so many decent jobs where u don't have to lower yourself to this level lol
+thomasthetans Not so. What a person is CAPABLE of doing is not necessarily what they are. Gay porn pays way more for men then straight porn does. If your straight in gay porn then you get even more.
+Aurora Aylward-Pitharoulis No one is either straight or gay if willing to swing that way for cash. Admitting they might be bisexual will simply spoil the fun and probably won't pay as much.
trikillerx ctn04132 they're either gay or bi. There's no way you could call yourself straight after doing that shit. “no homo” or not looking at the other guy ain't gonna do shit, because you already did something that was. You can't just go into straight porn?? Like really? You degrade yourself from something that you usually can't do? Oh please. They're obviously in denial. They don't appreciate themselves. People shouldn't stoop so low to that kind of stuff. I mean I get that they're not against the lgbt but gez respect yourself. i mean just the way some of their faces look like they are in denial.
People need to understand that sexuality is completely unrelated from the act of sex. Why do you think men who are gay have been married and have had children with women? You can be as gay as ever and still have sex with a woman. That doesn't mean you are straight. That just means you had sex with a woman. People need to get rid of the perception that people can only have sex when they identify as a certain sexuality. At the end of the day, its what you identify as, if you're being truthful. There aren't many people on Earth who are completely straight or gay, anyway.
I like the way you think. There are many gay men who have sex with women, and many straight men in this world who experiment and have sex with their straight friends behind closed door because they are bi-curious. These are the type of guys who are attracted to girls 90% and guys 10%. Some guys are 80girls/20guys, 70girls/30guys and so forth until someone is 50/50(very bisexual), Then there are some guys who see themselves as gay who are attracted to guys 90% and girls 10%, all the way up until 50/50. So yeah, in reality, no one is 100% attracted to their opposite sex.
Why did they clap for his girlfriend leaving him? Also this is more of a public shaming than a interview judging by the reaction of the crowd. Tsk tsk... Lol!
I don't care if you like this or that, if you sleep with a woman or a man. If you're heterosexual, gay, bisexual, 67 % hetero, etc... Do whatever the hell pleases you for whatever the reason. I also do whatever I want and don't need people's opinion. Just be yourself and be happy!
Sorry. I spoke to soon. The most annoying person on this show was the gay spokesmen Sean who felt that the non-gay gay bartenders were some kind of a fraud because they flirt with the clientele without any real intention of sleeping with them. Who in the heck goes to a bar only if they can sleep with the staff? Ridiculous persecution-complex commentary.
I felt like that was really bothersome too. His views on gay for pay porn was stupid too. Gay porn actors are doing the exact same thing. They're creating these fantasies that are never really going to happen. Not every man is a hulking hairy piece of meat with a huge schlong. They don't get the benefits of being gay by doing gay for pay. They're there for hours on end, working, they aren't enjoying much of it. That one guy seemed to be caring of his fans, the people that look up to him in a way. Why would he want to somehow appropriate the gay life style? Also, yes, I feel like I agree with the other guy that was offended by the exluciveness of gay bars. Why can't gay bars be open to straight people too? Obviously those straight people going aren't going to somehow discriminate or hate. It isn't becoming some unsafe place for them. The whole reason they are there is because they are accepting.
I am gay, and our bars have several straight bartenders here in the city. We know exactly why they are there and love them just the same. They are our friends and would be sad if they left. And they aren't only our friends at the bar; they definitely hangout and do stuff with us "as friends" (because they are our friends) outside of the bars.
This is why I'm glad Tyra isn't on anymore! She doesn't respect others point of view who don't agree with her. Porn is entertainment. It's not about falling in love or actual feelings. At the end of the day it's their profession. They and most do it for the money.
It’s damaging and desensitises people to sex, nothing wrong with being opposed to porn. I’ve watched interviews of porn stars who have themselves said that it is exploitative. Mia Khalifa herself is one example.
I think touching your face when talking about sensitive issues, or issues that make you fell uncomfortable means that you aren't being completely truthful when responding to questions.
@@Marklinsf thats bs. She is aggressively questioning him and borderline accuses him of lying about not being gay. Hes clearly nervous and uncomfortable.
I don't care what these men do. If they are happy having sex with other men for money, more power to them. I have to give them props for being upfront and honest about what they do.
+Peiyun Xue Tyra doesnt like pornography, she talked about her opposition to porn and the porn industry in the past. She finds it exploitative, degrading and contributing to problems in relationships and an individuals ability to have and participate in a healthy normal relationship.
XxTheRavenxX for that very reason. This interview does look like the gay porn industry preys on desperate and poor young heterosexual men. (Kurt working at Subway to raise his family, Aaron starving while trying to attend college with no books) Plus she had the two former pornstars (gay porn and straight porn) discussing the longterm negative aspects of working in the porn industry, and to put the nail in the coffin you had the editor from "Advocate" talking about the drug use and unprotected sex parties that revolve around the watching of porn. I think this whole interview made the porn industry look pretty bad.
Having sex and being gay are two different things, in the sense that you can have sex, and even enjoy it (because sex feels good) without a concern about your sexuality. It has NOTHING to do with sexuality, and EVERYTHING to do with psychology.
@@Sambo-eh9vl It does. Arousal for men is easy. Arousal does not mean attraction. A man can be aroused and even enjoy sex with another man despite being straight or identifying as straight because the act itself is pleasurable. Maybe these guys are bi or maybe they are not. But its not impossible for a straight man to do gay porn just because it pays much more.
@@rumblefish9 Girl what? That literally makes no sense. ANYBODY can have sex with eachother, if you have sex with a man and enjoy it then your bi or gay. Arousal for men is definitely not easy if they aren't physically attracted to whatever their tryna screw, that's just pure stupidity to even say that.
@@JR-ev9gz Yes! I worked at a gas station and talked to him all the time. My co-worker years ago even told me he did gay porn and I didn't believe it because he would come him with his wife and children after church. 😂
I respect gay and straight people first of all, we're all people and we should all get along. SECOND OF ALL I started hating tyra when she turned into a DR.Phil, questioning so much and trying to find the worst answers to get the most audience.
I find the mental gymnastics some guys go through quite humorous. Oh, I only like to "give Christmas presents" not receive them, so I'm not gay...um...well you might not be gay, but you're not straight either.
im not gay so i don't pretend to understand how gay men think but this is just my opinion, im straight and if i do porn i will do a straight porn because i am not attracted to dudes, therefore i honestly think they are bi-sexual. the bartenders confirmed it for me that the two guys that are gay for pay are bi. p.s im not close minded, im just a straight dude voicing out my opinion and btw tyra is one sides and is exploiting the gay for pay dudes.
Looking at this episode after so many times and now being more educated, I feel like this specific episode is stigmatizing and demeaning of the gay community and any behavior potentially related to it.
This was pretty shocking to me, not gonna lie when it first aired and I'm a pretty open minded person. People are comparing women doing same sex porn and not being called gay , but I think the reason is men usually aren't ok with their sexuality like this so with them being so ok with it that they would have sex with a man and not be gay IS strange.
Not really. There can be a multitude of reasons a male might have sex with another male. Think about it... when most straight men go to prison they do have same sex contact. The society that we live in is narrow-minded. In many societies same sex encounters are not automatically labelled as being Gay...
Kurt seems like he definitely at least bi-sexual at the very least....no issues with it at all, but he should be honest with himself. I think he would probably be happier.
I feel like he was uncomfortable with how the audience would judge him. If you're gonna go on tv and admit you do gay porn, how is coming out any worse? Idk that's how my frame of thinking would be.
He isn;t. He's acting it out. As a bisexual i can see the difference having dated both. Real gays hate that stereotypical "gayness" with the "female" movements with the hands. They are attracted to men because they are men, not men with female traits.
+Donderkonijn1978 there's no such thing as real gays don't know where you got that from now I can agree most gays are feminine and some just can't help it it's who they are. we all have a preference rather that be masculine or feminine. if you like masc men then that's fine but don't bash fem gay guys respect the stereotype we as a community are given.
Gay = boy + boy Straight = boy + girl Lesbian = girl + girl Bi = boy/girl + boy/girl You can like what you want but, theres a name for it and theres nothing wrong with that.
@@minnie1379 people are so hung up on putting labels? Arousal/sex doesn't always mean attraction. The fact that a couple of gay guys in the thread say they would have sex with a woman for the right price.
That advocate editor irks me. Sorry, not sorry, but he comes off as "if there's no chance I can get with you, I don't want you tending bar at a club I go to..."
i'm appalled when the guy said he does gay porn to keep gay people at home so they don't ''get in trouble' just by watching him'. this just sounds outright discrimination to me and personal worship to me. besides, pornography fucks up your mind, and in turn affects your sexual performance.
I don't like how the dude advocating for LGBT is being super judgmental of them "taking advantage...?" Uhhh people need money man. Economy is shot dowwwwn the drain dude and these dudes gotta deal with skepticism all over the place.
I'm gay, and like any other man I watch porn. And I am totally against this gay for pay thing. Gay porn should be only performed by gay men, who actually know what they are doing. Is very easy to tell when some guy on a video is straight because he is basically putting few or no effort, barely looks at the other guy at his eyes, sounds artificial when moaning... In few words: fails in the small acting duty that there is in porn. Not amusing at all.
BluisRaw02 I don't speak for straight porn since I don't watch it. As a gay porn consumer, I'd rather watch the one that is performed by gay actors, just saying.
Kurt seems gay to me. He gets to both eat the cookie and keep it. There are so many gays who lived a straight life, married and had children but came out later in life.
omg why is it on talk shows there has to be that one gay guy who feels like he represents every gay man alive..gtfoh..people are different, have different beliefs, no one represents me, I REPRESENT ME..I don't care what the rest of the world thinks or does..if someone wants to do porn and their straight, do it..it's your life and there are people who get off on it, if you don't agree, well great you don't have to watch it..I don't get the big deal about it..most people act like everything someone else does effects their lives, just let people do what they wanna do, as long as they are not hurting anyone and it isn't effecting you? who cares?
I didn't have any problems with there discussion they can think what they want. What got me was the gay guy who acted like the straight men weren't allowed to experience and understand gays. Like I'm sorry there not trying to dress in drag or have a high pitched voice. And who goes to a club to expect someone to sleep with you? If you do that then you must be a big horn dog. I also didn't like how he said we don't like how the straight men become gay for a while like wtf ? I don't mind it because it gives a tighter bond. The straight guys become more understanding of us.
+Rock Sanchez Right? He's just so completely bitter. And it annoys me that they brought him in as the "gay expert" like he can represent "the gay point of view". It is so vindictive to say "my gayness gave me a rough time and you should have that too"... wtf?
A lot of my friends work at gay, straight and "bias-free zone" bars. I go out to clubs and bars just for fun and to hang out with my friends. I do not try to pick up a bartender at a bar-I know they are there to work and get tips. I used to go to some dance club years ago and this one bartender, I thought he was cute- so I would try and order my drink from him to give him my tip. If the bartender had actually tried to talk to me, I'm not sure what I would have even said. I did eventually speak to that guy who was a bartender a few years later and found out he was my neighbours friend. I've worked in bartending and am always polite to people, never lead people on. I want to keep my job and make tips.
Tadoe BD Tadoe BD um no. Subway is Subway, and it's a minimum-wage job no matter which one you're looking at, and if you're just a fucking sandwich artist then the company has no right to pry into your personal life unless there's proof you're badmouthing them or breaking one of the basic "respect the company" rules. It basic fucking common sense. If you don't know that, you've obviously never worked that kind of job. There are laws regarding what jobs can ask you or expect you to tell them. This would be seriously breaking several of those laws.
I hate the way Tyra keeps trying to trip these guys up just let them do what they want to do and stop acting like you know them better than they know themselves
Sean Kennedy's argument reminds me of the 'black culture appropriation' debate... want to be black but don't deal with the difficulties that goes with it (am still not sure where I stand on this debate but I couldn't help but see the similarities). This gay for pay 'thing' reminds me of a friend and an ex-boyfriend of hers. When they started dating he took her out for dinner at a"friend's place". During the meal, he confessed that this friend (who happened to be an older gentleman) was actually his lover, but he himself (the ex) is straight. He and this older gentleman had a contractual relationship, meaning the relationship was not based on love- he provides the older gentleman with sex and he in return gets LOADS of money. I must have been 19 at the time and needless to say, I advised her to dump...which she did. Sometimes its better to bypass somethings in life...
If you compare Tyra's views here to the one when she interviewed a transexual woman who took part in her reality show, you'll notice a double standard.
Jeez Tyra is so judgmental and stupid! Urghh! Let him be and let him live his life. It's his life! At least he is open with his secrets, we all have secrets and we don't always act transparent. I'm sure it takes a lot of courage to open up like that. All she did was judge and antogonize him. Jeez.. I'm sure she hides her secrets and that she would not like to be interviewd and judged that way. Grow some intelligence and respect for other people Tyra! We judge others because we ourselves carry the problem. I think one of her problems was that she would not have the courage that he had in 150 years to be open about his secrets!
Shes not being judgmental...Shes just asking questions! I mean she wasn't antagonizing him she was asking pressing questions...She needs ratings to stay alive...and their is a show about tyras problems
Lmfao Tyra: What the heck is that one ?! Is that oranges?! Audience : ketchup & Mustard Tyra: oh ketchup & mustard oh child! , he is the hot dog in that one 😏 Ahahahahahahaha I died!
i am not hedwig She was an Egyptian by birth, but she was part of the Ptolemaic dynasty, who were ethnic Greeks. I have also given up on any attempt at trying to use the racial classification "brown". It is used for so many completely different ethnic groups that its not really all that useful.
***** Alright. People from Saharan Africa are light brown. People from sub-Saharan Africa are dark brown. People from the horn of Africa (Eritrea, Djibouti, Somalia) are medium brown. People from the Indian subcontinent (India, Bangladesh, Burma, Pakistan, Nepal) range from light brown to medium brown.
On another note: Tyra isn’t being judgements, she’s trying to ask questions regarding the topic. That’s why they are on the show. No need to have them on the show if she can’t pick his brain on the situation. She’s asking what we all want to know.....that’s it. More power to them to get up there and answer them.
As a bisexual man I remember when I was struggling with my sexuality. Whenever I felt attracted to another man I always dust it off saying that "oh I am just admiring his masculinity" or some other crap. Whenever I tried to make myself one thing and sneak and like something from the same sex I always had an excuse to make it seem that I am straight. These men are not 100% straight. They might like women for the most part more so than men but if you have sex with a man you're not straight.
That's what I'm saying
thomasthetans it goes the same for a females in porn all of them are pretty much bisexual.
I'm gay...and honestly, I don't think you have to be attracted to men in order to have sex with them. I would have sex with a woman if the price was right, but I'm NOT bi-sexual, nor am I straight at all..
+thomasthetans gay for pay my ass.. I know many real straight guys who would fuck u up if you even come close to them let alone ask to have sex with them lol ..there's so many decent jobs where u don't have to lower yourself to this level lol
+thomasthetans Not so. What a person is CAPABLE of doing is not necessarily what they are. Gay porn pays way more for men then straight porn does. If your straight in gay porn then you get even more.
When Tyra asked the straight guy from the audiences opinion he looked like "What the hell am I doing here?"
Poor guys. Tyra didn't even give some of them a chance to speak.
My friend is a gay guy and does straight porn and no one finds it weird...double standard
+Yu Kun (暴走的海绵宝宝) THANK YOU! That story is absolute bullshit.
+Yu Kun (暴走的海绵宝宝) That is not always true. If you are a more famous straight pornstar, you earn more than any gay pornstar (famous or not)
deanrocks1000 That is not true. In gay porn you earn a minimum of 3 times the amount of that of a straight porn star. Minimum. Famous or not.
your friend is a fat skank
+Aurora Aylward-Pitharoulis No one is either straight or gay if willing to swing that way for cash. Admitting they might be bisexual will simply spoil the fun and probably won't pay as much.
"I ain't doin nothin strange for a piece of change. They crazy" Love it!!! 😂
It's like Tyra, the audience and everyone commenting on this has forgotten that bisexuality a thing
Well he has rampantly denied being bisexual.
@@emmanuelmacharia3589 yeah ikr; they're claiming heterosexuality not being bi
LMAO "Pretend it's Christmas, do you like to give presents, or receive presents"
tyra is being very insensitive
It's Tyra Banks. She has no filter. Watch her on ANTM. She appears hammered half the time.
@@mitchells8360 yeah and she does it while thinking shes so above everyone else
She always was! I didn’t realized how insensitive until I rewatched some of these old clips of her talk show and reality
I'm not gay, but $20 is $20. :/
+trikillerx
60k is 60k ... like... u know? Nah, still wouldn't do it.
Ash F
Albert Einstein once said:
I will tickle your pickle for a nickle. :/
+Ash F me neither.
trikillerx ctn04132 they're either gay or bi. There's no way you could call yourself straight after doing that shit. “no homo” or not looking at the other guy ain't gonna do shit, because you already did something that was. You can't just go into straight porn?? Like really? You degrade yourself from something that you usually can't do? Oh please. They're obviously in denial. They don't appreciate themselves. People shouldn't stoop so low to that kind of stuff. I mean I get that they're not against the lgbt but gez respect yourself. i mean just the way some of their faces look like they are in denial.
ctn04132 lol I thought you guys might have. But yeah.
People need to understand that sexuality is completely unrelated from the act of sex.
Why do you think men who are gay have been married and have had children with women? You can be as gay as ever and still have sex with a woman. That doesn't mean you are straight. That just means you had sex with a woman. People need to get rid of the perception that people can only have sex when they identify as a certain sexuality. At the end of the day, its what you identify as, if you're being truthful. There aren't many people on Earth who are completely straight or gay, anyway.
I like the way you think. There are many gay men who have sex with women, and many straight men in this world who experiment and have sex with their straight friends behind closed door because they are bi-curious. These are the type of guys who are attracted to girls 90% and guys 10%. Some guys are 80girls/20guys, 70girls/30guys and so forth until someone is 50/50(very bisexual), Then there are some guys who see themselves as gay who are attracted to guys 90% and girls 10%, all the way up until 50/50. So yeah, in reality, no one is 100% attracted to their opposite sex.
Shaun Palm I just love it when people come on the net pull ludicrous statistics out of thin air and claim them as fact.
Shaun Palm And I like the way YOU think. It's basically, in short, the words of Elton John concerning sexuality: "Everyone's bisexual to a degree."
They say no arrow flies straight but I'll tell you what God my arrow that shit flies so damn straight
Lord Nick Well said! and I totally agree with you, Sex is Sex and gay or straight it doesn't matter.
i liked this guy for being honest and being courageous to talk about his sexuality openly.
Why did they clap for his girlfriend leaving him?
Also this is more of a public shaming than a interview judging by the reaction of the crowd. Tsk tsk... Lol!
Edgar Ortiz yeah... this was filmed in the 2000s, a lot of taboo still
Tyra was and still is a judgmental twat when it comes to the adult industry
I don't care if you like this or that, if you sleep with a woman or a man. If you're heterosexual, gay, bisexual, 67 % hetero, etc... Do whatever the hell pleases you for whatever the reason. I also do whatever I want and don't need people's opinion. Just be yourself and be happy!
They are homophobics, please at least respect the guys, not for being strajght, but for being a human, they deserve that!
Dionysius Rumbaka I actually felt bad for these guys, they were so judgemental.
Exactly!
This episode was extremely controversial at this time. When Tyra went off the air so did Oprah and Wendy would never do anything like this lmao!
@@rvegas81Oprah did a show about dl guys
@@Robert-vf6nywhat’s dl guys lol
Tyra and her lackey audience are so judgemental.
I love the open-minded! It makes the world a better place.
im sorry tyra is toooo much in this
Sorry. I spoke to soon. The most annoying person on this show was the gay spokesmen Sean who felt that the non-gay gay bartenders were some kind of a fraud because they flirt with the clientele without any real intention of sleeping with them. Who in the heck goes to a bar only if they can sleep with the staff? Ridiculous persecution-complex commentary.
ShowMe I was thinking the same exact thing!
I felt like that was really bothersome too. His views on gay for pay porn was stupid too. Gay porn actors are doing the exact same thing. They're creating these fantasies that are never really going to happen. Not every man is a hulking hairy piece of meat with a huge schlong.
They don't get the benefits of being gay by doing gay for pay. They're there for hours on end, working, they aren't enjoying much of it. That one guy seemed to be caring of his fans, the people that look up to him in a way. Why would he want to somehow appropriate the gay life style?
Also, yes, I feel like I agree with the other guy that was offended by the exluciveness of gay bars. Why can't gay bars be open to straight people too? Obviously those straight people going aren't going to somehow discriminate or hate. It isn't becoming some unsafe place for them. The whole reason they are there is because they are accepting.
I am gay, and our bars have several straight bartenders here in the city. We know exactly why they are there and love them just the same. They are our friends and would be sad if they left. And they aren't only our friends at the bar; they definitely hangout and do stuff with us "as friends" (because they are our friends) outside of the bars.
This is why I'm glad Tyra isn't on anymore! She doesn't respect others point of view who don't agree with her. Porn is entertainment. It's not about falling in love or actual feelings. At the end of the day it's their profession. They and most do it for the money.
Exactly!
It’s damaging and desensitises people to sex, nothing wrong with being opposed to porn. I’ve watched interviews of porn stars who have themselves said that it is exploitative. Mia Khalifa herself is one example.
''I ain't doing nothing strange for a piece of change''
Lolz
I'm GAY.. and I'm Proud of it. :)
...ok
Shanté C no one fucking cares
Shanté C no one fucking cares
Shanté C no one fucking cares
HentiosonLP so why comment if no one cares? or you just need attention? LOL
every time the father of three/four kids talks about sex, he scratches his head
I think touching your face when talking about sensitive issues, or issues that make you fell uncomfortable means that you aren't being completely truthful when responding to questions.
Kenny.Pardon my French and any subsequent awkwardness, but you're cute ;-)
@@Marklinsf thats bs. She is aggressively questioning him and borderline accuses him of lying about not being gay. Hes clearly nervous and uncomfortable.
If society thinks it is an abomination then of course he also will feel like it is wrong.
@Kenny Hayes then why is he there? 🙄🙄
He's not making $$ if he's working at Subway
True DAT
So true! You are right!
lol
+Lorisa214 he cant do it everyday lol doesnt your ass get weak
+Vee Jena No joke, I heard you get paid per video like 10K but only if you're good and you get paid more if you're willing to do more and stuff.
I don't care what these men do. If they are happy having sex with other men for money, more power to them.
I have to give them props for being upfront and honest about what they do.
Why does tyra looks so annoyed and angry?
+Peiyun Xue THAT CONTOUR
+Peiyun Xue probably bc these two dudes are dumb as hell, I'd say
+Peiyun Xue Tyra doesnt like pornography, she talked about her opposition to porn and the porn industry in the past. She finds it exploitative, degrading and contributing to problems in relationships and an individuals ability to have and participate in a healthy normal relationship.
+JVROSS25 then why do this interview then?
XxTheRavenxX
for that very reason. This interview does look like the gay porn industry preys on desperate and poor young heterosexual men. (Kurt working at Subway to raise his family, Aaron starving while trying to attend college with no books) Plus she had the two former pornstars (gay porn and straight porn) discussing the longterm negative aspects of working in the porn industry, and to put the nail in the coffin you had the editor from "Advocate" talking about the drug use and unprotected sex parties that revolve around the watching of porn. I think this whole interview made the porn industry look pretty bad.
Having sex and being gay are two different things, in the sense that you can have sex, and even enjoy it (because sex feels good) without a concern about your sexuality. It has NOTHING to do with sexuality, and EVERYTHING to do with psychology.
That makes no fucking sense
@@Sambo-eh9vl It does. Arousal for men is easy. Arousal does not mean attraction. A man can be aroused and even enjoy sex with another man despite being straight or identifying as straight because the act itself is pleasurable. Maybe these guys are bi or maybe they are not. But its not impossible for a straight man to do gay porn just because it pays much more.
@@rumblefish9 Girl what? That literally makes no sense. ANYBODY can have sex with eachother, if you have sex with a man and enjoy it then your bi or gay. Arousal for men is definitely not easy if they aren't physically attracted to whatever their tryna screw, that's just pure stupidity to even say that.
Sex has nothing to do with sexuality??? Brilliant stupidity on your warped thoughts.
I'd love to see you have sex with dogs and enjoy it, then say you're not into bestiality
God bless Pam! Loving her son and reserving judgment even when this old ass show was on and it was not the norm to be so nice. What a great mom!
They need to just come out
Kurt Wild is in denial, he loves to be the bottom getting it
@@taylorburleson5080 what
@@taylorburleson5080 is that really him
@@JR-ev9gz Yes! I worked at a gas station and talked to him all the time. My co-worker years ago even told me he did gay porn and I didn't believe it because he would come him with his wife and children after church. 😂
@@taylorburleson5080 lol
I respect gay and straight people first of all, we're all people and we should all get along. SECOND OF ALL I started hating tyra when she turned into a DR.Phil, questioning so much and trying to find the worst answers to get the most audience.
lol, the first guy scratching his head all the time talking
+Alucard8319 hahah i noticed that too!! that means either lying or insecure
+Curtis Qiu yes indeed. insecure if his answers are correct or something and that in front of everyone lol. Awkward
Curtis Qiu exactly! He’s not straight. Anal is not designed for sex either. Very unhealthy!!
Probably insecure, cause everyone is so judgemental in this room.
I find the mental gymnastics some guys go through quite humorous. Oh, I only like to "give Christmas presents" not receive them, so I'm not gay...um...well you might not be gay, but you're not straight either.
im not gay so i don't pretend to understand how gay men think but this is just my opinion, im straight and if i do porn i will do a straight porn because i am not attracted to dudes, therefore i honestly think they are bi-sexual. the bartenders confirmed it for me that the two guys that are gay for pay are bi.
p.s im not close minded, im just a straight dude voicing out my opinion and btw tyra is one sides and is exploiting the gay for pay dudes.
Exa
Exactly
the bartenders? lol
Apparently Gay pornstars get a much bigger pay. Could be the reason?
TTUploads its really not that big of a diffrence like people try to hype it up to be.
🤣 as a gay man who goes to gay bars. Idgaf if the bartenders are gay or straight. I go for the bartender who serves me the quickest.
the two dudes are pretty cute haha
Looking at this episode after so many times and now being more educated, I feel like this specific episode is stigmatizing and demeaning of the gay community and any behavior potentially related to it.
A mother will always be a mother...most of them are very accepting
The way she worded top or bottom... I nearly fell on the floor
This was pretty shocking to me, not gonna lie when it first aired and I'm a pretty open minded person. People are comparing women doing same sex porn and not being called gay , but I think the reason is men usually aren't ok with their sexuality like this so with them being so ok with it that they would have sex with a man and not be gay IS strange.
Not really. There can be a multitude of reasons a male might have sex with another male. Think about it... when most straight men go to prison they do have same sex contact. The society that we live in is narrow-minded. In many societies same sex encounters are not automatically labelled as being Gay...
@@garymotley51111) most straight men do not have sex with men in prison. 2)Bisexual 3)you are biphobic
How did a Barbie channel upload this? 😂
SelenaBEST oml XDDD
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i like how they answered. even with judgemental questions they stuck to facts... its their life choice ,
This is incredible to watch high! I’m dying laughing 😂🤣😂!!!!!
Straight, Gay, Bisexual. I don't understand why everyone is so bothered about putting them into categories. Look up the Kinsey scale
"I ain't doing nothing strange for a piece of change they crazy."
I like how he didnt react when his girlfriend said that she believes he's bissexual
Its called bisexual!
Gay For Pay = Bisexual. I guess that true
i like his confidence during the interview.
the girl at 13:57 with the yellow sweater! lmaoo She's like damnnn for real!?
Kurt seems like he definitely at least bi-sexual at the very least....no issues with it at all, but he should be honest with himself. I think he would probably be happier.
I feel like he was uncomfortable with how the audience would judge him.
If you're gonna go on tv and admit you do gay porn, how is coming out any worse?
Idk that's how my frame of thinking would be.
they're not straight they're bi
Kurt is definitely gay. second, I'm not so sure.
He isn;t. He's acting it out. As a bisexual i can see the difference having dated both. Real gays hate that stereotypical "gayness" with the "female" movements with the hands. They are attracted to men because they are men, not men with female traits.
+Donderkonijn1978 Yess! As a bisexual I can agree with you!
+Donderkonijn1978 there's no such thing as real gays don't know where you got that from now I can agree most gays are feminine and some just can't help it it's who they are. we all have a preference rather that be masculine or feminine. if you like masc men then that's fine but don't bash fem gay guys respect the stereotype we as a community are given.
he is bisexuality
Same. He is in denial of his sexuality i hope he comes in term with it poor guy. Born in judgemental society.
what is gay, straight, lesbian, bi? You like what you like. who's business is it?
Gay = boy + boy
Straight = boy + girl
Lesbian = girl + girl
Bi = boy/girl + boy/girl
You can like what you want but, theres a name for it and theres nothing wrong with that.
@@minnie1379 people are so hung up on putting labels? Arousal/sex doesn't always mean attraction. The fact that a couple of gay guys in the thread say they would have sex with a woman for the right price.
Who cares if the person serving drinks is gay or straight?
right just dumb
"Three beautiful children, with another on the way. That's gonna make 4." Did they put a gold star on her forehead when she figured that out?
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That advocate editor irks me. Sorry, not sorry, but he comes off as "if there's no chance I can get with you, I don't want you tending bar at a club I go to..."
I loved how she explained if he like to give or to receive. hahahahhaha shes awesome.
He's so shy and I feel bad for him. He's so cute
i'm appalled when the guy said he does gay porn to keep gay people at home so they don't ''get in trouble' just by watching him'. this just sounds outright discrimination to me and personal worship to me. besides, pornography fucks up your mind, and in turn affects your sexual performance.
TYRA LOVE THE GAYS AND THE GAYS LOVE TYRA! LMAO
No the gays love Rupaul. Tyra is ignorant at times.
Vadim Black does this!
I don't like how the dude advocating for LGBT is being super judgmental of them "taking advantage...?" Uhhh people need money man. Economy is shot dowwwwn the drain dude and these dudes gotta deal with skepticism all over the place.
I ain't do'n noth'n strange for a piece of change.. lol 😅😂
This Episode Is Soooo Judgmental And Wrong... Tyra And All Them Females Completely Judge These Guys... Let Them Make Some Money
Really? They judging?
I'm gay, and like any other man I watch porn. And I am totally against this gay for pay thing. Gay porn should be only performed by gay men, who actually know what they are doing. Is very easy to tell when some guy on a video is straight because he is basically putting few or no effort, barely looks at the other guy at his eyes, sounds artificial when moaning...
In few words: fails in the small acting duty that there is in porn. Not amusing at all.
Maska Jinzo When I watch porn I want it to be good and not obviously forced. Should I feel sorry about it?
***** No you shouldn't be sorry - I completely agree.
***** They're all actors anyway. Great logic. Straight women do lesbian scenes all the time. Double standard.....shame on the hypocrisy
BluisRaw02 I don't speak for straight porn since I don't watch it. As a gay porn consumer, I'd rather watch the one that is performed by gay actors, just saying.
@@BluisRaw02real sex is not acting.
Kurt seems gay to me. He gets to both eat the cookie and keep it. There are so many gays who lived a straight life, married and had children but came out later in life.
Bi
what the fuck he is thinking about ?
He received lots of presents and come to say he is straight ?
C'mom
omg why is it on talk shows there has to be that one gay guy who feels like he represents every gay man alive..gtfoh..people are different, have different beliefs, no one represents me, I REPRESENT ME..I don't care what the rest of the world thinks or does..if someone wants to do porn and their straight, do it..it's your life and there are people who get off on it, if you don't agree, well great you don't have to watch it..I don't get the big deal about it..most people act like everything someone else does effects their lives, just let people do what they wanna do, as long as they are not hurting anyone and it isn't effecting you? who cares?
We've come a long way since this was aired. It's almost comical to watch
I really miss her show I actually enjoyed it
"We don't wanna go there because he's a gay pornstar, and he makes our sandwiches." - fucking classic
That is just so retarded to even say that LMFAOOOO. Imagine say that in todays day & age.
I see nothing homophobic about Tyra or the show... y’all reaching in these comments....
"Gay for Pay" sounds bait like someone is excited to get their money
I didn't have any problems with there discussion they can think what they want. What got me was the gay guy who acted like the straight men weren't allowed to experience and understand gays. Like I'm sorry there not trying to dress in drag or have a high pitched voice. And who goes to a club to expect someone to sleep with you? If you do that then you must be a big horn dog. I also didn't like how he said we don't like how the straight men become gay for a while like wtf ? I don't mind it because it gives a tighter bond. The straight guys become more understanding of us.
+Rock Sanchez Right? He's just so completely bitter. And it annoys me that they brought him in as the "gay expert" like he can represent "the gay point of view". It is so vindictive to say "my gayness gave me a rough time and you should have that too"... wtf?
A lot of my friends work at gay, straight and "bias-free zone" bars.
I go out to clubs and bars just for fun and to hang out with my friends. I do not try to pick up a bartender at a bar-I know they are there to work and get tips.
I used to go to some dance club years ago and this one bartender, I thought he was cute- so I would try and order my drink from him to give him my tip. If the bartender had actually tried to talk to me, I'm not sure what I would have even said.
I did eventually speak to that guy who was a bartender a few years later and found out he was my neighbours friend.
I've worked in bartending and am always polite to people, never lead people on. I want to keep my job and make tips.
I work for Subway, and I know for a fact that there's nowhere is the interview process for him to relevantly bring his side job up.
Julianakun Different subways have different requirements dumbfuck.
Tadoe BD Tadoe BD um no. Subway is Subway, and it's a minimum-wage job no matter which one you're looking at, and if you're just a fucking sandwich artist then the company has no right to pry into your personal life unless there's proof you're badmouthing them or breaking one of the basic "respect the company" rules.
It basic fucking common sense. If you don't know that, you've obviously never worked that kind of job. There are laws regarding what jobs can ask you or expect you to tell them. This would be seriously breaking several of those laws.
"Naked twister." LOL!
ONE MORE THING.. AARON JAMES LATER ON ADMITTED HE IS ATTRACTED TO HANDSOME MACHO MANLY MEN
Ok
29:06 i love how woman are honest and less complicated
How do you ask that on daytime television...simple "Are you a top or a bottom?" I don't understand how that's a vulgar question.
Gay for pay? Gay for real
Don is handsome
I hate the way Tyra keeps trying to trip these guys up just let them do what they want to do and stop acting like you know them better than they know themselves
that poor guy was so uncomfortable being there : (
That mom is so awesome!!!
Lol just cause your straight and work at a gay bar doesn't mean your "gay for pay" it's just a job like any other bar tending job...
Sean Kennedy's argument reminds me of the 'black culture appropriation' debate... want to be black but don't deal with the difficulties that goes with it (am still not sure where I stand on this debate but I couldn't help but see the similarities).
This gay for pay 'thing' reminds me of a friend and an ex-boyfriend of hers. When they started dating he took her out for dinner at a"friend's place". During the meal, he confessed that this friend (who happened to be an older gentleman) was actually his lover, but he himself (the ex) is straight. He and this older gentleman had a contractual relationship, meaning the relationship was not based on love- he provides the older gentleman with sex and he in return gets LOADS of money. I must have been 19 at the time and needless to say, I advised her to dump...which she did. Sometimes its better to bypass somethings in life...
Rich daddies ,nice guy here just 10 000 a night :)
that offer still available? ;)
I like X'mas!! Ha ha ha.... Receiving present
I'm upset that it isn't no more new episodes this show touches on important and sensitive topics unlike the Wendy Williams show.
If you compare Tyra's views here to the one when she interviewed a transexual woman who took part in her reality show, you'll notice a double standard.
I miss this show
As a gay guy I feel so offended and insulted.
No reason for you to be
+trfan18 good
Jeez Tyra is so judgmental and stupid! Urghh! Let him be and let him live his life. It's his life! At least he is open with his secrets, we all have secrets and we don't always act transparent. I'm sure it takes a lot of courage to open up like that. All she did was judge and antogonize him. Jeez.. I'm sure she hides her secrets and that she would not like to be interviewd and judged that way. Grow some intelligence and respect for other people Tyra! We judge others because we ourselves carry the problem. I think one of her problems was that she would not have the courage that he had in 150 years to be open about his secrets!
Shes not being judgmental...Shes just asking questions! I mean she wasn't antagonizing him she was asking pressing questions...She needs ratings to stay alive...and their is a show about tyras problems
There’s no such thing, bro! They’re in the closet gay…PERIOD!!!!
They're cute
Lmfao
Tyra: What the heck is that one ?! Is that oranges?!
Audience : ketchup & Mustard
Tyra: oh ketchup & mustard oh child! , he is the hot dog in that one 😏
Ahahahahahahaha I died!
Did Tyra say Cleopatra is a Black woman? I dont think an ethnic Greek born on the African continent counts as Black lol
***** Cleopatra was Egyptian. Egyptians are brown.
i am not hedwig She was an Egyptian by birth, but she was part of the Ptolemaic dynasty, who were ethnic Greeks.
I have also given up on any attempt at trying to use the racial classification "brown". It is used for so many completely different ethnic groups that its not really all that useful.
***** Alright. People from Saharan Africa are light brown. People from sub-Saharan Africa are dark brown. People from the horn of Africa (Eritrea, Djibouti, Somalia) are medium brown. People from the Indian subcontinent (India, Bangladesh, Burma, Pakistan, Nepal) range from light brown to medium brown.
i am not hedwig my shit is damn dark brown
joesatana well shit son are you Hispanic/Latino? Should have added them to my comment
TYRA SAID DO YOU LIKE TO GIVE PRESENTS OR RECEIVE THEM NOOOOOOOOOO HAHAHAHA
On another note: Tyra isn’t being judgements, she’s trying to ask questions regarding the topic. That’s why they are on the show. No need to have them on the show if she can’t pick his brain on the situation. She’s asking what we all want to know.....that’s it. More power to them to get up there and answer them.