How to Know What You Are Good At [Simple Exercise]

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Komentáƙe • 126

  • @corymartin9125
    @corymartin9125 Pƙed 3 lety +129

    The painting in the background is nightmare fuel...😅

    • @JanRossi
      @JanRossi Pƙed 3 lety +11

      I noticed it too. sort of odd. It's mocking me!! lol

    • @earlofthearies.1982
      @earlofthearies.1982 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      Lol.

    • @staciejean
      @staciejean Pƙed rokem +3

      Oh my god, this comment is hilarious!!!😅😅😅

    • @georgianabodoiu59
      @georgianabodoiu59 Pƙed rokem +1

      Indeed it is. I hadn't noticed it but now I can't watch the video till the end because of those ugly faces. Why on earth would you choose such a painting????

    • @GraveS1ave
      @GraveS1ave Pƙed rokem +1

      Oh dear your right

  • @NissySlim
    @NissySlim Pƙed 4 lety +61

    This is so important, I find there's many people who have a hard time seeing what they're good at. I don't know if it's because we're programmed to think in just finding a practical job instead of what makes us happy or low self esteem or both. Great video!

    • @earlofthearies.1982
      @earlofthearies.1982 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      Because there's more criticism than credit giving.

    • @nunya3583
      @nunya3583 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      All of the above and much more

    • @ninabeauty3099
      @ninabeauty3099 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Same ! If you don’t do the research most people just fall into getting a job

  • @findingtifa
    @findingtifa Pƙed 3 lety +76

    I can re watch this and still feel like a failure I am so blocked to the point I can't concentrate and think calmly what I am good at

    • @user-zo4gr4ow2z
      @user-zo4gr4ow2z Pƙed 3 lety +1

      You can subscribe to the channel

    • @RealJMmusic
      @RealJMmusic Pƙed 3 lety +6

      You become what you speak into existence. Be aware of your words.

    • @meganfox9618
      @meganfox9618 Pƙed 3 lety +10

      Finally someone who understands me

    • @cheribeton
      @cheribeton Pƙed 3 lety +11

      You are okay just being you. I thought her examples were quite funny bc I was like what, buying a house? Come again? Just a nudge here to help you out, maybe you’re really good at self reflection? Maybe you’re really humble? Maybe you’re good at understanding people who feel insecure? Maybe you’re a great listener? Try to not compare yourself and your journey with others, just compare yourself with the past you.

    • @yinyang75
      @yinyang75 Pƙed 3 lety

      You are nt alone my friend,more power to ya ❀

  • @kimbospice11
    @kimbospice11 Pƙed 4 lety +23

    One skill I uncovered is that I'm great at helping people get their first clients! It's natural to me, but a miracle to others. Love this Susie! Thank you for sharing

  • @RiazMeghji
    @RiazMeghji Pƙed 4 lety +13

    'do the best you can with what you're given' - digging this Susie. In the end, that's all we can do. Thank u!

  • @CoachSimona
    @CoachSimona Pƙed 4 lety +17

    Such a great exercise, Susie! Thank you so much! The skill I found that I'm great at is listening to other people, having empathy, and accepting them for their most raw and vulnerable selves.

  • @90sGuitarLessonsOnly
    @90sGuitarLessonsOnly Pƙed 3 lety +2

    Thankyou...after watching this I am getting a hope of a new life, am able to summarise my abilities...I used to think that am useless af!
    When you said to recall :
    I recognised that I sold a subscription to a customer at night 10 pm that too drunk!
    I recognised that I love driving ..I took my cousin sister for a 2 hour bike ride...that she loved it..and she never had experienced it before.
    I also recognised that although am a techie, beyond that my content is mostly empathetic (be it an email or the way I talk)
    On a whole I am getting to know myself again..
    THANKYOU FOR THIS VIDEO.

  • @marcusaureliusstoic
    @marcusaureliusstoic Pƙed 4 lety +6

    Awesome video! I had a lot of self doubt when I was looking to change industries a while ago. I didn’t feel as though my skills were transferable. I wish I’d known this stuff back then! đŸ”„

  • @SocialConfidenceMastery
    @SocialConfidenceMastery Pƙed 4 lety +4

    Knowing yourself is so important!

  • @kellymorrison4730
    @kellymorrison4730 Pƙed 4 lety +3

    I love the advice you share in step 2 about really acknowledging all that we have done and all the we are capable of!! Loved all 3 steps - thanks so much for sharing!

  • @GeoffreySetiawan
    @GeoffreySetiawan Pƙed 4 lety +2

    heyyy! These are really great questions to ask yourself. Thank you!

  • @CasparisHelena
    @CasparisHelena Pƙed 3 lety +3

    Love your speech Susie. Make sense to review our strong skills to replicate in new contexts. Thank you.

  • @cagebeast
    @cagebeast Pƙed 3 lety

    Thank you so much!😁

  • @janetbedford7562
    @janetbedford7562 Pƙed 4 lety +1

    Thank you, Susie Moore. You have a lovely speaking voice . Easy to listen to. God bless and Merry Christmas 2019.

  • @CristianFontanelliTV
    @CristianFontanelliTV Pƙed 4 lety

    Great exercise! Thank you Susie for sharing!

  • @theswcoaching
    @theswcoaching Pƙed 4 lety

    This is a great exercise Susie! Thanks for sharing this.

  • @scottmercs3400
    @scottmercs3400 Pƙed rokem +2

    Susie, thanks for the fresh insight. As I followed your ideas it occurred to me that I have a knack for turning “scruffy” locations into beautiful places 🙏.

    • @susie-moore
      @susie-moore  Pƙed rokem

      WOOOHOOO!! That's awesome!! Amazing, Scott!

  • @jennybellido3279
    @jennybellido3279 Pƙed 4 lety

    Great stuff all throughout this vid!

  • @GermanLuk
    @GermanLuk Pƙed 4 lety +3

    Really great video! Interesting topic, but for some like me truly challenging. I am really good at pointing out my weakness :D

  • @KristenChittock
    @KristenChittock Pƙed 4 lety

    These are such great points and such a great approach to figuring out what I'm good at, I will be thinking through how my skills are different from other people and ow they differentiate me moving forward :)

  • @angeloireland576
    @angeloireland576 Pƙed 4 lety +3

    I could not think of a single thing I have achieved that was positive for step 1

    • @mathildadock8058
      @mathildadock8058 Pƙed 3 lety

      It's difficult sometimes to come up with problems we have solved - especially if one has been raised in a critical environment. I have accomplished many things in my life but struggled with this exercise. Simple "formulas" do not fit all. But it's good to try these things as we all have different ways of being incentivized.

  • @cococha
    @cococha Pƙed 4 lety

    This is amazing, very smart.

  • @CarolMould
    @CarolMould Pƙed 4 lety

    I'm a really good listener and help people work things out for themselves

  • @AnonymousXvictoriouS
    @AnonymousXvictoriouS Pƙed 3 lety

    Thanks so much

  • @ZurickDesigns
    @ZurickDesigns Pƙed 4 lety

    Very interesting! Loved this!

  • @greekmamalife
    @greekmamalife Pƙed 4 lety +1

    This is great. I will do the exercise at the weekend

  • @Sustainagirl
    @Sustainagirl Pƙed 4 lety

    Yes i want to welcome success 👋 I'm going to take some time to write down my strengths! And how to apply them... thanks for the tips

  • @joeysoprano8405
    @joeysoprano8405 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Great video! Sometimes reassurance is the spark we need.

    • @susie-moore
      @susie-moore  Pƙed 2 lety

      Absolutely Joey! Thank you so much for watching!!

  • @hunterblain3448
    @hunterblain3448 Pƙed 3 lety +6

    Does anybody else see the creepy painting I the background

  • @cyrilrembameame4374
    @cyrilrembameame4374 Pƙed rokem +1

    Thank you so much, it was very helpful..🙂

    • @susie-moore
      @susie-moore  Pƙed rokem

      Awesome!! So glad you found it helpful, Cyril!

  • @JohnDoe-fs6lz
    @JohnDoe-fs6lz Pƙed 3 lety

    Just what I needed. Thanks a lot . A clear reminder

    • @JohnDoe-fs6lz
      @JohnDoe-fs6lz Pƙed 3 lety

      @@susie-moore đŸ™đŸ» love your hair dear

  • @ElleRid
    @ElleRid Pƙed rokem +1

    Helped myself get past a series of offense, assisted my bestie go thru her husband having a stroke/being available, setting better boundaries. I have no idea what helped me to get thru these things. Lol

    • @susie-moore
      @susie-moore  Pƙed rokem

      Amazing, Tawanda! ❀ Thank you for sharing!!

  • @user-gm6qv8nb5o
    @user-gm6qv8nb5o Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

    thank you

  • @AgnesMann
    @AgnesMann Pƙed 2 lety +3

    still as confused as I was if not more. How to overcome the Jack Of All Trades feeling and find the one thing you are best at - And before you ask- I did ask friends and fam and everyone tells me different things- which proves I am indeed Jack of all trades

  • @ederchaponanmillones6089

    Thanks for sharing this video and helping people. Greetings from Peru

    • @susie-moore
      @susie-moore  Pƙed rokem

      Thank you for watching! So happy you found it helpful!

  • @random-accessmemory9201
    @random-accessmemory9201 Pƙed 3 lety +8

    This is a hard exercise. I just chose my degree and job because of practicality. 😰

    • @zanganba
      @zanganba Pƙed 3 lety +3

      Focus/Remember on events of your life, where someone thought you were useful , there's the answer.

  • @blessingsngosa3043
    @blessingsngosa3043 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    I love music so much ❀❀

  • @earlofthearies.1982
    @earlofthearies.1982 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Skill distiller formula, got it.

  • @AcesizOfficial
    @AcesizOfficial Pƙed 4 lety

    Yep đŸ‘đŸœ

  • @vamsikrishna-
    @vamsikrishna- Pƙed 3 lety +2

    This entire video watching I got headache thinking of what I did in life
    The thing is I only did what my parents said till now and now being a teenager I can't listen to them đŸ€Ł

    • @JanRossi
      @JanRossi Pƙed 3 lety

      Do not listen to them! You listen to you!! You got this..... leave your parents comments in a vault. It's not their life - it's yours...

  • @DebbraLupien_AkashicRecords
    @DebbraLupien_AkashicRecords Pƙed 4 lety +1

    Making the complicated uncomplicated by stripping away nonessentials to reveal the core essence. I've always done this naturally so it didn't feel like a special skill.

  • @TonyAdams95
    @TonyAdams95 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    Hmm interesting, I wrote down all my 3 Three scenarios and I noticed I’m good at working under pressure

    • @susie-moore
      @susie-moore  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      That's awesome, Tony!! Thanks for sharing!

  • @cheerwhiner7829
    @cheerwhiner7829 Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci

    That painting is like that freaky Phoebe painting from “Friends.”
    (Was her name Gladys?đŸ€”)

  • @CamiGalles
    @CamiGalles Pƙed 4 lety +3

    In addition to be an amazing singer, I uncovered I'm great at communication & storytelling

  • @6cooch9
    @6cooch9 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    It’s so hard when I’m diagnosed with depression, anxiety, ADHD, and autism đŸ„Č everything is so HARD

    • @susie-moore
      @susie-moore  Pƙed 3 lety +1

      You are so strong, Neya! Even when you don't feel like it! You can do ANYTHING! ❀

    • @Shreyans05
      @Shreyans05 Pƙed 2 lety

      Me too! Diagnosed with ADHD and IBS :)

    • @6cooch9
      @6cooch9 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@susie-moore I’m just seeing this now nearly a year later :) I’m smiling so hard. Thank you so much Susie. Life is getting easier 💕

  • @earlofthearies.1982
    @earlofthearies.1982 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    First step, practice it then see how it turn out, step 2 write it out if you know how.

  • @ReneeEverydaylife
    @ReneeEverydaylife Pƙed 3 lety

    New subie

  • @michael567jober
    @michael567jober Pƙed rokem +1

    only thing i can think of is getting out a toxic relationship and holding down my apartment despite hard times

    • @susie-moore
      @susie-moore  Pƙed rokem

      That's a GREAT win, Mike! And something to be proud of!

  • @samquilab6900
    @samquilab6900 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Hi, your here too!đŸ„Č

  • @moosaghaffar8273
    @moosaghaffar8273 Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci

    I don’t think i have anything im good at doing except smoking lol😂

  • @PoorSmellyYeti
    @PoorSmellyYeti Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci

    Fixing the process of Walmart's shopping cart repair.
    Maintaining 11-13 %interest stock wise
    Quantified a constant 63% positive customer survey feedback. The rest don't fill them out.
    I'm terrible at leading.
    Outsold KFC's 3 cookies for 1 dollar with McDonald's 2 for 1
    This video didn't really help. I'm pretty sad now.

  • @giongchy
    @giongchy Pƙed 2 lety +2

    I'm good at being bad at everything

    • @susie-moore
      @susie-moore  Pƙed 2 lety

      That's negative self talk! There are absolutely things that you are good at!

  • @sherlockholmmes5036
    @sherlockholmmes5036 Pƙed rokem +2

    Ma'am, I came to the wrong house, but I see the point, thanks though 👍👍

  • @salleyayad9769
    @salleyayad9769 Pƙed 3 lety

    ❀❀

    • @salleyayad9769
      @salleyayad9769 Pƙed 3 lety

      @@susie-moore I love what you said about recognizing what we are good at. I love that I came access this video because it helps me stay motivated on the journey of finding myself

  • @EldritchMephi
    @EldritchMephi Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci

    I dont have any skills though. Im not good at anything. Now i just feel even more worthless

  • @youknowkbbaby
    @youknowkbbaby Pƙed rokem

    What you are good at in life vs. What you are good at making money...big differences

  • @Your_Delusiona1
    @Your_Delusiona1 Pƙed 3 lety

    You ... Are... Beautiful đŸŒč

  • @Amazon_DeliveryGuy
    @Amazon_DeliveryGuy Pƙed rokem +1

    I still have no idea what I’m good at, I guess I’m just useless

    • @susie-moore
      @susie-moore  Pƙed rokem

      Never useless at all! No human being is useless! You definitely have strengths and gifts - you just have to believe in yourself and realize they are there!

    • @Amazon_DeliveryGuy
      @Amazon_DeliveryGuy Pƙed rokem

      @@susie-moore well, thanks for the encouragement

  • @divyasonara4817
    @divyasonara4817 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    I'm still not getting â˜č

  • @N_n885
    @N_n885 Pƙed 3 lety

    I love to sing but my voice is so bad sometimes ppl say to me to " shut up ur voice is so bad " ...

  • @business5206
    @business5206 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    I completed 9th grade, I learned how to solve a Rubin cube, I built a pc

  • @yesgames2755
    @yesgames2755 Pƙed rokem

    I have no accomplishments. Darn

    • @susie-moore
      @susie-moore  Pƙed rokem

      I wonder if this is a belief that could use some upgrading?

  • @bgshok5841
    @bgshok5841 Pƙed 3 lety

    I dont see anything that i did , i dont see anything good, nothing comes to my mind when i think about what i did

    • @andrewjackson4012
      @andrewjackson4012 Pƙed 3 lety

      Hey, it's been 3 months. Can you think of anything now? I'm feeling this way right now - but I'm sure it's just that I can't remember or my frame of mind at the moment.

    • @bgshok5841
      @bgshok5841 Pƙed 3 lety

      @@andrewjackson4012 Still nope , but i ignore it

  • @jhyejinee
    @jhyejinee Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci

    Why do I think that my achievement was all because of pure luck 😔

  • @8ballbfdi
    @8ballbfdi Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Who else is here so they can find a skill to get famous off because you can’t deal with being overshadowed by others who are better? Nobody?... Oh well.

  • @episteme666
    @episteme666 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    you have a beautiful face

  • @earlofthearies.1982
    @earlofthearies.1982 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    God giving skills vs people skills.

  • @poodlesnoodles9697
    @poodlesnoodles9697 Pƙed 2 lety

    The problem is that I am smart and naturally talented, and I never had to work to achieve anything in my life. Now that I've reached a point where I have to work, I have no idea how to go about it.

    • @susie-moore
      @susie-moore  Pƙed 2 lety

      Hey LT! Thank you for sharing! There's no time like the present to start learning!

  • @AnonymousXvictoriouS
    @AnonymousXvictoriouS Pƙed 3 lety

    Ok something is really weird why are all the pepes that are commenting youtubers