"I don't feel confident in public" - My simple tips

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  • čas přidán 27. 02. 2021
  • #confidencedevelopment #buildyourconfidence #confidenceskills

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  • @avivek05
    @avivek05 Před 3 lety +274

    Useful Video! I used to take a lot of harsh words from others and being nice to them because I hate fighting with others. Over the period it developed a low in my thoughts and sometimes I was feeling like am I really worth in this society. That statement "Don't take any shit from others" is meaningful. If we don't take it, then it will not be in our container. It just remained my grandmother came alive ghosh!

    • @Tushar-gv8cf
      @Tushar-gv8cf Před 3 lety +2

      very true brother

    • @mishikadhingra2451
      @mishikadhingra2451 Před 3 lety +3

      Really this is very nice vedio...very useful tips...thankyou so much😊😊

    • @Vitamina0051
      @Vitamina0051 Před 2 lety +1

      Gud 👌

    • @mamathat1806raji
      @mamathat1806raji Před 2 lety

      Valuable information mam

    • @shailendersingh5830
      @shailendersingh5830 Před 2 lety +2

      I am so Tense about my future while wandering at Night Having lots of things in my mind.... Why still I get choked!! And Not able to Express mtself, My view at review time!!

  • @prankishoriitkgp3772
    @prankishoriitkgp3772 Před 11 měsíci +87

    very good points
    * be nice to others
    * you are the one who judge yourself
    * never underestimate yourself
    * set your own priorities and be natural
    * don't ever try to compare with others
    * dress up decently and have a small smile on face even if you are disturbed
    * be yourself and don't give shit if someone has negetive attitiude towards you
    * don't feel ashamed of your weakness let it show up to others
    * don't fear in situations where you feel uncomfortable

  • @aradhyasrivastava12
    @aradhyasrivastava12 Před 3 lety +111

    "Be humble, Its so sexy"
    Love it🙋‍♂️🙋‍♂️🙋‍♂️🙋‍♂️

  • @rizzgodyach
    @rizzgodyach Před rokem +10

    Your videos are extremely comforting. Whenever I am at my low and seeking for some solace, I search up your videos and watch them. Yes! Keep recording these pleasant thoughts and conversations that you want to share with us, it genuinely makes me feel better

  • @gabrielmontano5458
    @gabrielmontano5458 Před 2 lety +27

    This motivational video has been one of the most beautiful inspirational videos I've ever seen in my entire life. You're awesome, girl! plz, keep making more amazing videos! Your work is admirable!

  • @praveentripathi9114
    @praveentripathi9114 Před 2 lety +46

    We need more people like you who help people like us to improve our standards

  • @sangeetaved7813
    @sangeetaved7813 Před 3 lety +161

    You are not teaching English only but morals too🙏🙏

  • @thedureads
    @thedureads Před 6 měsíci +1

    "Be humble it's so sexy" exactly! being humble feels really good and satisfying.

  • @jyotsnaswarnakar8345
    @jyotsnaswarnakar8345 Před 6 měsíci

    That one line “I know you are behaving like this for a reason but I don’t deserve it ” ❤❤❤

  • @saiakshaysuresh3055
    @saiakshaysuresh3055 Před 3 lety +31

    Hey Aleena ! I'm feeling super confident while seeing your face. You're making me so comfortable and happy digitally . I wish I could have a sister , mother or a companion like you . Keep doing this magic till you're alive.

  • @riturajchaudhary2083
    @riturajchaudhary2083 Před 3 lety +3

    Simplicity is the most beautiful quality in human being.I can see u have enough and that makes you a special one

  • @ridafathima6227
    @ridafathima6227 Před 9 měsíci

    Sometimes we don't need advice but in need of friendly talk like you ! u have just change my mind in seconds ! thanks a lot

  • @deepakbehera6989
    @deepakbehera6989 Před 2 lety +1

    U hv got an extremely clean heart, every time u spoke from the core of ur heart...u r helping ppl to be fluent in engish,n i think thats realy a noble job u r doing.I appreciate ur work...

  • @rv7156
    @rv7156 Před 3 lety +17

    Best part when she oversmiled 😂 I found that cute

  • @letstalkto.kpbhardwaj2691
    @letstalkto.kpbhardwaj2691 Před 2 lety +43

    I feel so energetic and confident whenever I saw your videos, you are a great inspiration for several people including me, I'm so thankful to you for making so helpful video for beginners like me, I really like your teaching and communication style, frankly saying I don't get any bore during watching your videos, you are so amazing just keep making life changing videos. Thanks & ❤

  • @magaladhigaaram7484
    @magaladhigaaram7484 Před 2 lety

    You are the best! The only videos on CZcams I never skip is yours!❤️

  • @nachiketkshirsagar4723
    @nachiketkshirsagar4723 Před 2 lety +1

    Tell them you don’t deserve it,you do not appreciate it and the most imp you will NOT TAKE IT .... thank u for this .. needed to hear it

  • @Dr-WELL
    @Dr-WELL Před 2 lety +43

    I watched it now fully and also shared with my kids and wife! Its too good to disseminate all the useful thoughts which came naturally to you as you were elaborating! Please do keep up uploading these gorgeous & impactful contents 🙏

  • @Wellknownmovies
    @Wellknownmovies Před 3 lety +31

    When you told Don't over.
    That time I was really doing over.😂😂😂😂

  • @riyakumaribharti9525
    @riyakumaribharti9525 Před 2 lety

    You seem a very kind person and humble too. I really like all your videos.

  • @smarywann8335
    @smarywann8335 Před měsícem

    "Don't listen to something that you don't deserve " I love this line...❤

  • @iqraali8198
    @iqraali8198 Před 3 lety +8

    Your way of teaching immensely effects my persona to build up a positive attitude in my life .I really like all those efforts and struggles that you took for us. I really love to hear you mam. May God bless you.

  • @jyotipathak826
    @jyotipathak826 Před 3 lety +7

    I loved this vedio..today I was feeling very depressed because of lack of confidence and poor communication skill. And I gotta to learn..that I didn't need to judge myself..and these vital things which u explained.... everybody say that to be confident and have a good body language but nobody tell how to do that .I am so grateful .... thank you so much!!!

  • @vimabhakthan2007
    @vimabhakthan2007 Před rokem +6

    Hi aleena, started watching your videos recently. You are truly inspiring. I also feel less confident when i go out in the public. I will remember your tips from now on " Be yourself and have a beatiful smile always".😊

  • @arnabsaha_
    @arnabsaha_ Před rokem

    You said well, literally without script you had done well. It helps me. “Don’t take any shit from others.”

  • @roshanm027
    @roshanm027 Před 3 lety +4

    From start to the end I loved everything. Literally! 🥰

  • @ankitchakraborty3323
    @ankitchakraborty3323 Před 2 lety

    The Organic You is the one that stands out from the rest of the content on CZcams.. Immense respect and gratitude ma'am..

  • @audiomusic823
    @audiomusic823 Před 11 měsíci

    You are just so natural. I loved it Aleena!

  • @naveenasura9129
    @naveenasura9129 Před 3 lety +4

    This video is very helpful to everyone.just loved it .we are not only learning English we are learning moral values along with that

  • @sneha8530
    @sneha8530 Před 3 lety +13

    Be kind And be humble ❤️

  • @cpcp8290
    @cpcp8290 Před rokem

    Easily and brilliantly conveyed what is required to be confident....

  • @blackgirlparis
    @blackgirlparis Před rokem

    Thank you for this video. I was born in the US but your video is still important to watch, I'm not the most articulate at times, and love getting dolled up but lack confidence really bad due past trauma. This video was still helpful

  • @mayurisonawane8768
    @mayurisonawane8768 Před 3 lety +4

    You have such a calming voice ♥️

  • @hasanonick7119
    @hasanonick7119 Před 3 lety +19

    Learn English is practice practice practice, anytime anywhere, that's it

  • @Test-gr9wh
    @Test-gr9wh Před 2 lety

    I like each and every line you said. I was impressed by your way to talk.

  • @muhammadadil7207
    @muhammadadil7207 Před rokem +1

    I just want to say that your video content is easy to understand, and simple I really like it. Thanks for the amazing lessons.

  • @reshmimanakkal835
    @reshmimanakkal835 Před 3 lety +5

    This is an amazing video.. I agreed with all the points.. I experimented all these things on myself and found successful.. Hats off to you for realizing and sharing these things at this younger age

  • @manojbk9013
    @manojbk9013 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you so much, Aleena for making wonderful videos like this & spreading positivity. Keep up the fab work.

  • @kashvidev8431
    @kashvidev8431 Před 10 měsíci

    You are the only person whos said that being nice helps you. I am a very nice and cheerful person but recently i thought that maybe being nice has got me getting used by people and k wabted to get out of it because i realised that it was lowering my confidence. But after hearing this i guess being nice isnt so bad after all.

  • @savitakalokhe9289
    @savitakalokhe9289 Před rokem

    I m seriously want to be like u in fluency...the way u speak, l
    Sound so confident , so convincing ..I really want to be like u, when it comes to communication skill...the way to talk..amazing...no words..it's like just to keep listening to u..and ur each & every word directly goes to brain, without having any difficulty in getting the right meaning..ur speech is so connective.

  • @jayantmudliyar1332
    @jayantmudliyar1332 Před 3 lety +4

    " Confidence comes from standing up for yourself " ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @yusraali2345
    @yusraali2345 Před 3 lety +408

    When she oversmiled i couldn't stop laughing. 😅😅

    • @anand6509
      @anand6509 Před 3 lety +47

      😂😂 and when she smiled I started reading comments I knew someone gonna talk about it..😂

    • @PriyaPaulYT
      @PriyaPaulYT Před 3 lety +16

      Sameeee😂😂😂

    • @shuhaibct1721
      @shuhaibct1721 Před 3 lety +6

      😆👍

    • @Polu99
      @Polu99 Před 3 lety +4

      Right ...😂😂 Me tooo

    • @varshajat333
      @varshajat333 Před 2 lety +2

      hehe true

  • @jayantisonkar6626
    @jayantisonkar6626 Před 2 lety

    Aaj tk ka sabse useful video lga hme utube pe each n everything is perfect I like so much ur videos thnku man

  • @wipfilmmaker
    @wipfilmmaker Před 2 lety

    your are one hell of a motivational speaker as well.

  • @mutahirhayat2292
    @mutahirhayat2292 Před 3 lety +11

    Aleena you are amazing, sweetest voice.

  • @nainagaur6062
    @nainagaur6062 Před 3 lety +64

    Yes aleena i am totally agree with you that english is just a language like any other language , if you don't know how to speak in english does n't mean that you don't have any knowledge or good personality...Personality is something realtable to your behaviour also..be kind to anyone on earth be it a human being, animal or anyone else...

  • @anakerajpoot-vr7tc
    @anakerajpoot-vr7tc Před rokem +1

    And literally ma'am your smile is too good.
    I mean it's really nice and so pretty beautiful...

  • @samiarshad5045
    @samiarshad5045 Před rokem

    Thank you so much for this video , you are truly an amazing person

  • @kruttikabhomkar9850
    @kruttikabhomkar9850 Před rokem +9

    Your videos are very helpful. It also helps to know how to use sentences and vocabulary while speaking. Everytime I watch your videos, I always learn something from it. You never let away opportunity to build confidence in us. Thanks for this video.❤️

  • @keepgrowing8479
    @keepgrowing8479 Před 3 lety +15

    This is gonna be one of my favorite videos of yours.. Best advice ever 👏
    Thanks alot 🤗

  • @pkpgzp6765
    @pkpgzp6765 Před 2 lety

    This is one of the piece which I hardly left it.
    MAM ur smile is very lovely and very nice expression.

  • @AbdulRafay-wx6cy
    @AbdulRafay-wx6cy Před 3 měsíci

    You are such a great person love your videos so inspiring

  • @borkhajain3852
    @borkhajain3852 Před 2 lety +35

    Recently, i started watching your video. I strongly agree with your points. loved it. I think we all have gone through miserable situations but you worked on it. You made yourself. Just wanna say truly inspiring 🙂

    • @AleenaRaisLive
      @AleenaRaisLive  Před rokem +7

      I hope you still watch my videos, do you?

    • @swarvedamrit
      @swarvedamrit Před rokem +2

      @@AleenaRaisLive Hii Aleena ma'am 🥰
      I'm too young but I watch your video and I'm trying to speak fluent like u
      Your video help me a lot I enjoy your video and u know what in your one video u said that watch the video without subtitles and I do too and I can understand also. Really really u r so... Wonderful ✨🥰✨
      I'm Anjali

  • @user-oc7cr9gu6w
    @user-oc7cr9gu6w Před 3 lety +3

    such a Beautiful soul .. whenever I listened to you mam ..I got so much inside to work upon and polish myself..
    .😊 Thankyou

  • @cecfauzdaripatty1110
    @cecfauzdaripatty1110 Před 2 lety

    after hearing your voice and the way you talk something is reflecting in me. Love you a lot. Keep smiling and stay blessed.

  • @sailesshdhanani2857
    @sailesshdhanani2857 Před 9 měsíci

    Valid points and yes at times we don’t recognise our own value in front of others. Being bold in front of others when it’s not appropriate- we have to learn - either it’s my way or high way 😅

  • @rohit-yp4bz
    @rohit-yp4bz Před 3 lety +4

    Each and every video is literally Amazing . You also motivate us to speak without hesitation . If you was in my school then definitely there is no need to learn English.

  • @abhishekpawar1090
    @abhishekpawar1090 Před rokem +3

    Confidence comes from standing up for yourself ❤️

  • @Swapnateggi
    @Swapnateggi Před 4 měsíci

    I m always humble and kind . If they hate me I love them ❤

  • @zuhaasif6871
    @zuhaasif6871 Před rokem

    Please make more videos like this! Really really loved it! Such a helpful and worthy video. ❤

  • @uzmasahar9091
    @uzmasahar9091 Před rokem +3

    I like your simplicity and your way of teaching is stupendous.....

  • @bharathisuresh8054
    @bharathisuresh8054 Před rokem +3

    So informative for me, for sure I'm going to follow all these steps one by one and become a better person. You are really so cool and thanks to you ❣️
    Just by listening to this video I just felt so confident i can do this...
    Definitely gonna work on this and improve myself🥳lots of love to you for doing this Aleena and you have such a beautiful voice 💕

  • @asmitabhatta6323
    @asmitabhatta6323 Před 2 lety

    I FEEL SO GOOD WHENERVER I SEE YOUR VIDEOS.
    YOUR FACIAL EXPRESSION MAKES ME IMPRESS .
    OUR ONE SMALL SMILE CAN CHANGE THE ENVIRONMENT .
    WHEN YOU'RE TELLING THAT " YOU DON'T HAVE TO FIGHT AND NOT TO SHOUT AT PEOPLE AND JUST TELL THEN SORRY SIR, I' M SURE YOU' RE BEHAVING LIKE THIS WITH ME FORA REASON .BUT I DONT APPRECIATE IT AND I THINK I DONT DESERVE IT . "
    THESE SENTENCES TOUCH MY HEART AND I STILL REMEMBERED WHAT THE INCIDENT HAPPENED TO ME IN THE PAST AND I WAS ALSO EXPRESSING TO MY BOSS LIKE THIS WAY . AFTER TEELING THIS THE SITUATION IS OVER MY HAND SO I DECIDED TO LEAVE AND JUST WALK AWAY WITH A SMALL SMILE.😊😊😊😊💕💕💕

  • @chandnisharma1797
    @chandnisharma1797 Před rokem

    I hope everyone get confidence like you 🤞

  • @achzz8246
    @achzz8246 Před 3 lety +6

    You are that only youtuber whom I love to watch again and again.listening to you is always sooo inspiring ...❤️

    • @ritikapanjwani8811
      @ritikapanjwani8811 Před 3 lety +1

      @Aswathi B S - Hi Aswathi if you would like some help with English or French or Spanish u can check my videos as I love learning languages and helping others with it . Latest Spanish 30 Day Challenge video : czcams.com/video/D1yolciarsI/video.html
      5 Big Mistakes language learners do :
      czcams.com/video/5aAUXq-XSXQ/video.html
      Problems a language learner faces : czcams.com/video/kLqQf4kfpcc/video.html

    • @MdShahid-qs1dz
      @MdShahid-qs1dz Před 3 lety

      Hii

  • @vilasraj2465
    @vilasraj2465 Před 3 lety +9

    Maam you make me confident. When i open youtube. First i would search for aleena rais videos. Becoz the way you speaking is very natural. Im honestly saying. No one would hate you maam. Love from kerala

  • @masum___
    @masum___ Před rokem

    Thank you for your advice, Aleena. It helped me a lot!

  • @sanafatima1844
    @sanafatima1844 Před rokem +1

    That is a nice thought that u gave thanks for appreciate ❤

  • @roshna1082
    @roshna1082 Před 2 lety +3

    Your video are conducive to boost my confidence. Before i seeing your videos i don't even have courage to write comments in comment section but now i have it. The sentence you said in your previous video strike in my mind i always repeat it " as time goes by things are going to become automatic " thank you for your precious word its make my world more brighter than it used to be.I don't know you personally,but i felt your are such a wonderful person. when i saw your video i think iam listen to my friend. Your words are simple and understandable. Thank again for your monumental support, defiantly i disseminate your video to my all acquaintance.

    • @mohdshakib6828
      @mohdshakib6828 Před 2 lety

      I agree with you this CZcams channel really amazing nowadays I am watching videos on daily bases and getting new words
      Felling confidence

  • @akhileshnarishetty2917
    @akhileshnarishetty2917 Před 2 lety +4

    First of all I would like to say thank you.
    You're thoughts made me inspired ma'am. Please keep on upload videos. I hope you'll start motivational videos too.

  • @FilmyFundaAndSoulfulScribbles

    I already knew that you are really very cool and humble and your speeches when I show your videos.. I heartily say you have such a admirable personality to encourage every person...Thanks for sharing your thoughts which is genuine...🙂🙏

  • @Zahra27756
    @Zahra27756 Před 9 měsíci

    I used to think that walking with head down is what humbles us but, today I walked with a good posture and it definitely changed my mood

  • @rebecca987
    @rebecca987 Před 3 lety +3

    Yeah actually ....your video is more impressive and fantastic without a script. Thank you so much ma'am. I hope I'll be a great speaker very soon.😍

  • @rashmimamgai7429
    @rashmimamgai7429 Před 3 lety +3

    Hello ma'am,Your videos are remarkable, every time when I watch your videos I get many new things which I can adopt and make my communication better.. You know each nd every problem which we face while communicating in enhlish.. Thank you so much for telling us the way how we can overcome from this fear..

  • @vsecure1
    @vsecure1 Před rokem

    Awesome, i appreciate it.
    Aleena you are doing something must be appreciated by everyone.

  • @reenagusain4617
    @reenagusain4617 Před měsícem

    You are very natural and I like the way you speak.❤

  • @eleonorapassanger8540
    @eleonorapassanger8540 Před 2 lety +5

    **Dear Aleena just I bumped into your videos and stroke right into heart, my English may not be the perfect one but enough to express lol :)I do not think I care much as long I have the chance to express and share with you what I actually felt ...wow finally a free mutual Soul out there , no limits, Ego mind thinking ,just a gigantic wave of bright expressive transformative energy that is able to connect, brake limits and distance between, marking the rest of the World recall what kindness actually is, that essential human touch within that roots and bond us as human beings ! For me personally the job of all times is **Being yourself** in a World of vain and pain , if you make it though the gain would be far far beyond any imaginative expectations..! Wish you All the Best 🍀,

  • @arumoydas7706
    @arumoydas7706 Před 3 lety +8

    Unscripted video is remarkably done Aleena.You have covered topic of being confident, almost in all its constituents.Something more I guess on inner / self grooming is coming up+how not to be too choosy about persons to mingle with, will be another ingredient of being comfortable and cool while talking.Thanks

  • @abhishekak8597
    @abhishekak8597 Před 2 lety

    You teach us in such a way that we can't avoid any video of your.. thank you a lot

  • @ritika8237
    @ritika8237 Před 2 lety

    Your energy is sooo beautiful❤️🌼✨

  • @digitalsuchi
    @digitalsuchi Před rokem +3

    Immensely love for you ma'am, your videos are such a free therapy for me it's keeping us motivating, positive. I really appreciate your efforts. Thank you so much ma'am for this amazing video ❤️🙏.

  • @sam-mo3ww
    @sam-mo3ww Před 3 lety +4

    U deserve million billions for subscribers♥
    U r the one who is tell true facts✌

  • @naimatullahkhan4905
    @naimatullahkhan4905 Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you for your kind advice

  • @reshmamane8474
    @reshmamane8474 Před 2 lety

    Wat a lady , elegant in all ways ,love your work and u

  • @achzz8246
    @achzz8246 Před 3 lety +29

    You haven't mentioned your hobby in the end😌

  • @ektapandey7109
    @ektapandey7109 Před 3 lety +3

    Oh ! Wow ..... Very soon 600k 🎉

  • @itz.gurpreet6185
    @itz.gurpreet6185 Před 4 měsíci

    trying my best for learning .your videos are helping me for that

  • @Rainthapa25
    @Rainthapa25 Před rokem

    I just loved it ! Thank you very much

  • @anchorchetnamalviya75
    @anchorchetnamalviya75 Před 2 lety +7

    Hii Aleena dii... you're such an inspiration for me... I daily watch a video of you... thanks for all these experiences you share with us..helps alot to grow up... 😊

  • @libbiart--464
    @libbiart--464 Před 3 lety +84

    i like each and every video of your mam

  • @chandanammahitha5924
    @chandanammahitha5924 Před 2 lety

    Yeah its very true pieces of advice that i am dammn sure it helps being nice to others n own selves .very worth video 👏

  • @aishasaddiqa8345
    @aishasaddiqa8345 Před rokem

    I do need that!! Thank you

  • @nikhilnegi931
    @nikhilnegi931 Před 3 lety +22

    Whenever I hear or see struggle word the only thing that comes in my mind is
    "Ananya Pandey " 🤣🤣

  • @syedsarim8463
    @syedsarim8463 Před 3 lety +2

    motivation 🔥❤️👍

  • @priyarangadurai9094
    @priyarangadurai9094 Před 2 lety +1

    Its really motivating, inspiring, helpful to brush up my mind

  • @sathishp9065
    @sathishp9065 Před 2 lety

    When you telling this word "VERY IMPORTANT" i felt motivated

  • @Raj-xz7vs
    @Raj-xz7vs Před 3 lety +33

    I would like to be your student 😂 for lifetime

  • @sandeepdevarars3209
    @sandeepdevarars3209 Před 3 lety +22

    Aleena mam is so Inspiring just by her smile she can Bring Success in Others for KAS & KPSC exams..... Tq madam avare......👍

  • @ROHITKUMAR-mb8oq
    @ROHITKUMAR-mb8oq Před 2 lety

    These days I am watching your all the videos one by one and one thing that I found amazing in your content that's your simple personality that stands you out from all the CZcamsr btw as well as your have such a killer smile superb 👌♥️♥️

  • @makiamukhtiar6132
    @makiamukhtiar6132 Před 2 lety +1

    Ap bht acha guide kar rhi hein