Our 24-Year-Old Son is Addicted to Porn

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  • Our 24-Year-Old Son is Addicted to Porn
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Komentáře • 417

  • @aileencrane7700
    @aileencrane7700 Před 3 lety +509

    Just to clarify, “a younger child” is not 21 years old. They’re adults.

  • @troyspears6470
    @troyspears6470 Před 3 lety +260

    The mom is wondering why their 24 year old son is still acting like a child? Because she keeps treating him like a child!!

  • @angryox3102
    @angryox3102 Před 3 lety +527

    Why is his phone being searched by his mother at 24 when he’s paying the bill?

  • @1740ryguy
    @1740ryguy Před 3 lety +316

    Dude this Mom needed a reality check. You can't have your cake and eat it too. Shes saying that she does not like his behavior but then turns around and makes him dinner and helps clean his room??? He's 24?!?!

  • @d.c.d.8985
    @d.c.d.8985 Před 3 lety +203

    She is co-dependent and likely overbearing. You could tell she didn’t like John’s advice. She wanted John to say the way to fix the child was to control his life further. When he said the way to fix him was to actually let him go free, and develop into an adult, you could hear her voice drop and her demeanor change. She’s the reason her kids are like this and she low key loves it. Her identity is “I’m a mother” and she doesn’t know how to transition into “I have my own life.” She isn’t going to take John’s advice. She’s going to keep smothering both of her children.

  • @linjubar
    @linjubar Před 3 lety +284

    He’s 24-years-old, and she’s checking his phone, and knows how much he spends on whatever. Maybe he needs to be out on his own, but she sounds like a control freak.

  • @ZGADOW
    @ZGADOW Před 2 lety +79

    She called her 21 year old a “younger child” and is afraid the 24 year old is influencing him? Wtf these are adults not children. MOVE OUT and get away from that overbearing mom

  • @theresalor
    @theresalor Před 3 lety +101

    21 and 24 are not kids 😭😭😭

  • @RyansReaper

    “Why is he living at home hes 24” yall must live out in the middle of nowhere or texas cause everything is so expensive you cant move out on your own in most places

  • @Guitarlvr01
    @Guitarlvr01 Před 3 lety +98

    I’m a victim of parents who subconsciously crippled me and didn’t want me to ever be an independent adult. It really is hard to realize what’s happening and leave the situation. My brother is 39 and still living at home. The parent will never change - unfortunately it’s the adult child who has to get sick of being treated like a toddler. Personally, I went to a recruiter and joined the Military and didn’t ask my parents first. It was my only way out. Best decision of my life.

  • @David-wo9un
    @David-wo9un Před 3 lety +243

    I would have depression too if I was still living with my parents at 24.

  • @AnnaMazingFusion
    @AnnaMazingFusion Před 3 lety +201

    This is interesting. I don’t see living with your parents at 24 as something incredibly weird because of how I grew up culturally. I’m hispanic and in our culture it’s very common to live with your parents until you finish college and/or get married. However, we are very respectful with our parents’ rules, we work hard and we’re not lazy. If you are going to live with your parents, you should help around the house and follow some rules. If you don’t like those rules, you should leave. I’m 22 and I go to university while living at home and I also work, and most of my friends from my hometown also live with their parents and go to school. It’s just a small cultural difference because we tend to be more family-oriented, while Americans tend to be more individualistic :) Nothing wrong with either of those, I’m just stating our differences ❤️ My mom doesn’t mind me living with her because she wants me to be as debt free as I can, and I think that’s beautiful! I really appreciate her support; however, I also admire that Americans work hard and often make it possible to move out by the young age of 18 😮🤗

  • @jimmyjack7141
    @jimmyjack7141 Před 3 lety +98

    His phone and bank account are none of her business. Poor guy at 24 still being smothered by his mother.

  • @m11322
    @m11322 Před rokem +65

    "He's 24, why's he living at home" - Must be nice to be so detached to the economic hardships the younger generation are facing.

  • @mirabella2154
    @mirabella2154 Před 3 lety +52

    He works and he contributes to the rent and food. And he saves the rest of his money. What's the issue?

  • @kazzhulse
    @kazzhulse Před 3 lety +49

    24 and 21 at home, they aren't taking care of themselves because she's stunting them. I feel sorry for them because mommy always needed her babies around. She never taught them the life skills they needed.

  • @pinkcyclop
    @pinkcyclop Před 3 lety +40

    The cost of living is so high no wonder why so many people In their 20s live with their parents.

  • @natef1504
    @natef1504 Před 3 lety +59

    She’s not going to kick him out.

  • @CrystalM1917
    @CrystalM1917 Před 3 lety +31

    You see how quiet she got after he told her to kick him out.

  • @rebeccaanne8546
    @rebeccaanne8546 Před 3 lety +70

    I dont understand why dr delony is so incredulous that a 24 year old guy is living at home during a pandemic