I Asked God to Marry a White Husband, Years Later I Regretted It
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- čas přidán 7. 06. 2024
- In this heartfelt video, Betty from Mombasa, Kenya, opens up about her unique journey of faith and love.
Years ago, she asked God for a white husband, believing it was what she wanted.
But as time passed, her perspective shifted, leading to unexpected regrets. Join Betty as she shares her story, reflecting on the lessons learned and the wisdom gained from her experience.
This is more than just a personal tale; it's a conversation about love, expectations, and the complexities of interracial marriage.
Betty's honesty and vulnerability offer a compelling insight into the realities that often go unspoken. Tune in to hear her powerful testimony.
#Afrimax #InterracialMarriage #MarriageStory #CulturalDifferences #LoveAndRegret #PersonalJourney
Bad marriage can kill you but being single won't kill you 🙏
Asked God for white husband she’s a wicked woman what’s wrong with black husband 😂😂
YAH❤❤
Being single can also kill unless one pray for self-control. 😊
Preach!!!!!
Not always. My innocent cousin was in her home minding her business and she was single 😢
When I got disappointed with relationships, I went back to school and added value to myself.
Wow. Deep
Exactly, good
Exactly she is half baked
That's true as woman we have to upgrade ourselves before letting someone to help you so that you'll be respected
Good move..me also..
Upgrading
No one deserves to be abused. I hope Betty is doing well she uses humor to help deal with the abuse. She was naive but brave and brutally honest.
❤❤❤❤
Betty's Stories from Kenya is her channel
I agree, absolutely that she was genuine lazima
There is the husband version
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She is so brave and transparent. Most people are judgemental but she was naive. It happens to so many others. She is so brave to speak up even though people will shame her. I am happy she is strong, a survivor, and great personality. She is very admirable in my book. Sharing her story can help so many young women.
Yeah, I agree. You're 💯% correct 👍🏾
Agrée 😊
Betty's Stories from Kenya is her channel
You don't ask God for a white husband you ask him for a good God-fearing husband who's gonna be a great father to your kids a great provider who's gonna love and respect them and stay by their side through everything.
Wanted to type this too. I don't believe in giving God a list pertaining to the man you end up marrying. God is wise. Simply asking for a husband which He wills for you is more than enough to end up with a loving man.
Definitely,but she ask a husband not describing what kind of a man she wanted ……
@@phoenixsheikh2079она говорила на другом канале, что хотела мзунгу и старше по годам от себя.Она пошла в отель с ним сразу, поехала в Россию не зная его, тпебовала чтоб бросил работу и все продал в России
Don't pin this on God, He didn't give you this man
Exactly
i am a white men from the Netherland and my wife is from Afrika we together for 17 years and everyday i treath her like a queen, she is my wife for life, her family is always welcome, sometimes her family stay for 6 month in our hous and thats fine by me.
if we go to afrika her whole famlily threat us so good, we can stay as long if we want.
i am a bless men
Which country because Africa is a large continent…
Gentlemen like you are rare
@Jan-dis1jq,
You and also your wife are very lucky! May God bless you and your family🙏
There are many good men and women in the world and God bless them🙏
Yes as you are from the Netherlands and not Europe. So where in Africa is your queen from?
Really
That lady didn't know what she wanted in a man. She has seen international relationships and created a scenario in her head. So when she asked for a white man as her husband, the devil sent exactly what she wanted. He was once the angel of light after all
Trust,she rush everything
Her hair also a wig i think
Whites partners make beautiful babies period
This was not God but the devil …and evil spirits from her bloodline and she was not grounded enough in the word of God to know the difference. I pray that she overcome and put shame to the devil. You are a beautiful girl you can make it Jesus loves you. You’re a strong woman . God bless you.
It is all about her. When she was depressed from being alone in Russia, she felt she needed change that the man answered by going back to Kenya with her. Then the exact same thing happened to her man who was resorting to drinking as a coping mechanism. Her answer was different in a wrong way. None of them is to blame in this case. They need to see a therapist to understand their early childhood upbringings that shaped their current behavior. Otherwise blaming this and that is not going to help at all but it will take things from bad to worse.
Wise comment
quite right. I think this idea is made by black men because we all know in general, theyre not reliable.
I agrée however their responses were different. Whilst she planned to go back to Kenya, he resorted to abuse.
@@tumwebazeccynthiamwiiza8473 or did he.. I tend to think it is a pack of lies.
Right
The devil answered NOT God, God does not add sorrow to his blessings. May God heal you and your children 🙏
" God does not bring sorrow to blessings "
Love this.
True. “The blessing of the LORD, it maketh rich, and he addeth no sorrow with it” -Proverbs 10:22
Note 👍: from the story, she did not marry the one that appeared after her prayers, she married his friend.
God can give you sorrow. If he wants you to realize your mistakes, and want you to be closer to him.if God test you will sorrow, that doesn't mean God doesn't love you
@@user-rs1rz7hh7w Proverbs 10:22.
Sure we have to be keen
God protect us all from evil people
It wasn't God that answered your prayers, you answered your own prayers.
Exactly
😂😂😂😂
Indeed, we are our own worst enemies worshipping white devils at the same time imbued with self loathing. The grass is never greener on the other side.
So insentive of you guys, at least empathize with her.
@@nightingale2987😂😂😂 what are lies!!😂😂😂
Been with my white man for 25 years and we are still in love. We had some hurdles along the way, but we always worked them out. There is something deeper going on here, please be strong
Exactly ! People focusing on the fact that the husband was white …this can happen with anyone 🥹
YOU don't know yet, he wants YOU to be old and he's going to divorce you
🎉 by my
Advice her please. Most people in the comments are enemies of marriage. Sasha is a good man. Three years with her in Russia isn't a short time.
@@alabra3350I believe in marriage, I am interacial marriage, but that young lady betty SHOULD never be beaten by Anyone. Sasha probally WAS a good man but he needs therapy b4 a wife.
The problem started when she insisted that they relocate back to Kenya, forgetting that Russia is the man's place of comfort too. He is good man affected by change of environment
He was an alcoholic long before he was with her. That was his downfall.
Agreed. Betty could not stand living in a country so foreign to her, and asked her husband (the breadwinner) to go to another a foreign country. Any person moving to another country has to be prepared to start from the beginning learning a new language in order to gat a job. This couple was not ready for such a tremendous change in their lives. God bless to both of them.
This lady is an example of stupidity
I think that's what happened too, that's why he wanted to kill himself
@@colemand402 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don't know why women think been single is a crime not every marriage is from God almighty
ABSOLUTELY NOT NOT NOT THIS WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?!?!!!!!!!!! THIS WOMAN is ABSOLUTELY ABSOLUTELY ABSOLUTELY EXTREMELY HAPPY BEING SINGLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
not a crime but we all love a good marriage
Don't say every woman talks about those you know
We are supposed to be married to 1 person, so she wasn't doing anything wrong, but he obviously was just their to purchase whores
she wore gold in Russia. What was she missing? She wanted to get his money, but she didn’t need a husband. An aggressive woman, her husband has scars on his body that she gave him
Why do women think getting a white man is the right thing? There’s bad in every race, but when we pray, because we want it so bad we immediately think God answered our prayer when the first person comes along, the red flag was when he offered money for sex, instantly she should have left because that man was not sent by God, my heart goes out to the children that God will not only heal their hearts but the mother as well. We as women must learn to wait on God and be able to identify when and if it’s God🙏🏽
Perfect response. Love your reasoning.
And women today think getting a white is having it all internet has lied to us let’s find a good man God fearing no matter the race but today every woman is looking for a white too bad 😮
He married his friend, you didn't listen well. The one who offered the money he didn't even know the English so they went apart
It's called self hate
They were 3 guys... the handsome one who offered money and two others. Her husband was one of the two. At the time, her husband had a girlfriend....so the handsome guy she met at the beach was the one who offered money
Never " need" a man..never want somebody to take care of you..never be afraid to leave. You still refer to him as your husband..that's a red flag and a sign that your open to taking him back..cut the ties
Been with a white man for 18 yrs with 3 kids. We moved back to my country but we had a big plan before doing it and he is thriving and successful here. I asked God for a God fearing , good husband and father and He sent him in a lighter skinned 😊
Ahhhh sweet.
But why marry a white man anyhow? When you don't have anything else in common? Why?
She has a great sense of humor and personality. The greater the storm. The brighter the rainbow!
But what's up with the titel of this video. What has his skin color to do with anything.. Look at all the baby-mamas in USA where the man is bl ack.. Clearly a bla ck marrige aren't a bed of roses either. It's about love and nothing else, it has nothing to do with color.
This channel is pure toxic. This man thinks that he owns bla ck women and that they should be breading machines. Wheras bl ack men can date and marry all the whi te- and other non-bl ack women that they want. Seriously.
Look at his other videos about whi te women marrying bl ack men - which he prises and wants the world to know is sooooo wonderful and always a blessing! Meanwhile it's an obsession for him to find bl ack women who regretted marrying a non-bl ack man, especially a whi te man! This guy is a hypocrite!
Bl ack men in USA and Afri ca dates non-bl ack women far more often than bl ack women dates non-bl ack men. Bl ack women are extremely loyal and look where that got us.. baby-mamas, poverty-striken and married to corrupt afri can leaders.
Look at every major black actor, musician and NBA-player in USA and every major black actor, musician and football-player in Europe, again, they are all married to whi te women. Why isn't that a problem for him?
Let's see how long this post is up...
I don't know who needs to hear this, what you've passed or passing through can't be compared with the joy that awaits you. Soon your story will change forever for good❤❤❤
Amen ...I tap into that blessings
Slaves said that same EXACT statement 400+ years ago. As Africans [Blacks] we MUST practice racial purity!!!!
God gave her a white man. Exactly what she wanted :).
Very true
I needed to hear this 🙏🏾 Amen
Betty you are a very beautiful strong woman. I admire your courage to open up and be vulnerable. Many blessings ❤
No, my sister. God will never give you an abusive husband. It was not God. I pray you heal from whatever happened to you, but don't blame God, its not His fault.
I had a alcoholic husband as well I moved to America and he started to drink more and I saw that he started drinking more I separated from him and a few years later I divorced him. I worked 2 jobs and raised 4 kids and bought a house which is paid in full and retired now and thank God for everything he had done for me. We African women are very strong some don't realize it. I came from Africa as well. Thank you Lord Jesus 🙏 💓
@sharrelgrootboom. All women are strong.
@@tinkerbell1666: NOT AT ALL.
Most women are weak. I know so!
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@@Intrigankatru I just translated this - it seems you know the couple well and this reporter should have asked husbands side of story.
All women are strong. From every country, I'm from Peru, South America but I don't just see just kne race of women being a strong woman.
I thank God for answered prayers and the unanswered prayers too. If God doesn’t answer a prayer, be glad about that too. He knows what you don’t know.
Truth
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100% agree with you
@rhone793,
Exactly! You're a wise individual 👍👏👏👏🙏
I'm so sorry for you my sister 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂you're strong you'll heal the biggest step you've taken is to admit you made a mistake from that admission you have paved your healing road❤❤❤
wow, she seems like a decent and a lovely girl. I feel so sorry for her. I wish you find the happiness in life now as she really deserves it. All the best to you and your family. Thank you for sharing your story. You are so strong, stay blessing ❤
You weren't specific about your prayer.
You just prayed for a white man.
You got a white man.
You didn't ask for a kind, thoughtful, loving person, someone who would treat you with respect.
Your prayer was granted as you requested.
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Exactly 👌🏾 God knows that people are strong headed and don’t listen so He will leave you to your fate after giving you clear red flags 🚩
He was kind and thoughtful until when she frustrated him and made him leave his good job in Russia, to move back with her to Kenya; how can she say she was lonely just because her husband went to work weekdays just to earn a good living for them; if it were possible, I believe he would have tried working from home just to please her and make her stay with him, but due to the nature of his job. She herself confirmed that he never hit all through the time they lived together in Russia and she described his temper AND HER temper as minor issues back then, even saying he treated her as a queen; so why didn't she just stay and focus on the benefits in her home in Russia. Now everything is shattered, the innocent children are suffering, and the man is now a shadow of his once upon a time successful self.
Her insisting on leaving him in Russia to go back to Kenya with his child, resulted to a worse situation for them all. She should reconcile with him, and HUMBLY HELP him overcome the problems her decision has caused them all. Also the family was not God-centred, nor prayerful, nor involving God in their decisions. They need to repent too
Ladies!!!
Let's not be in a Rush getting into Marriage instead Pray wholeheartedly, God's a good listener & he answers Prayers.
Fact 👌
It could happen to anyone
@@marshawright4002 DON'T BE A VICTIM.....👌🏾💯💯✌🏾😎
+@@bukolaodunayo3269
Amen
I really like the interviewer, it's the second interview I see of him and he seems so interested and full off compassion.
That Russian man married an uneducated village girl who was very naive... She said he was a doctor? This was not a marriage from God... This was a marriage from hell. She was very ambitious looking for a white man to give her everything and she keeps saying she wants a husband to take care of her over and over again. Your husband is not your father and you can't be so naive to believe life is a fairytale and you'll be treated like a queen because life has struggles. He should have rather left her instead of drinking. Him abusing her is unforgiveable but she is not innocent either. She's not a victim because even after he beat her, she didn't leave and she got pregnant again. They were both toxic people. I wish I could hear his side of the story. I do feel sorry for him and I don't think he was a bad man. I think he went mad in Kenya and it was because of this woman. So it's a lesson for all of us to stay away from toxic people and leave toxic relationships. Never marry anyone who sees you as an opportunity and never stay with an abuser.
Yes sir. I agree! all of this could have been prevented.
There are some people in comments who are very Judgemental, I appreciate her for taking the time to tell her story most people wouldn't..Instead of Judging lets learn something
Those judges have no empathy. It make me sick.
It's not judging we should be held accountable for our actions. Most of african women believe marrying a whiteman solves their problems. Family members are the worst at this. God does not breed contempt neither does he bring confusion. The devil equally hears prayers that's why it's important to seek the face of God before anything.
@@Arielzis You do realize that you just judged them too?
What did you learn from her story?
@@erickamiller458 I learnt that I would never have the guts to tell my life story😅 She's brave trust me
The sad thing about it is that Betty depends on a man to provide but God is your provider. She will fall for the next individual quickly that comes into her life and I pray she considers those 2 little girls,,, you can’t just let any man into your space now!!!
Yes. She should stand on her own provide for herself and kids. Set an example for all others not get the next man ..
I hope & pray you heal life can be very hard unfortunately we help bad situations because we want so bad to be loved sometimes we pick the wrong person 😲
Amen!!! Now it’s about protecting her two girls!!!
Say it again for the people in the back!! Jesus Christ is the only one Who was able to save our damned spirits from hell! So, everything else is small potatoes in comparison!
Everyone makes mistakes
She is an honest girl and a good story teller. I love her energy. Im from Uganda. You girl God will see you through oo
Thank you for sharing your story Betty ❤❤.. I hope our young African girls learn from your experience and learn how to identify red flags. You are very beautiful 💕.
I like the way Afrimax is keenly listening with all the gestures. Sometimes you really just want to be listened to as you pour away all the pain. It's a therapy.
Strange situation
Yes, the Interviewer is the BEST❤. So patient and sincerely listening.
Weird editing choices to play clips of him beaming in her face while she’s talking about very dark parts in her marriage
All young men and women please ask God for a godly partner that fill with peace, joy, love and understanding. Never ask God for a color partner.
but white Jesus!!!
User!
Exactly💯💯💯👍👍👍
💯 true
@@cinnamonstar808According to? And what is wrong with being white? Is it a sin? Is it wrong?
@@khosiethabekhulu3497believe in or not there is a group of people in the United States that have been brainwashed to believe that being born white is a sin. They call themselves the Hebrew Israelites.
God bless you sir for your ears and eyes! 🙏😁 You did a wonderful job with this interview. She has a very strong telling story
Very beautiful story telling. Exactly what I tell people on my channel. Interracial marriages are very complex and are not always a bed of roses. To Betty, thanks for sharing your story. I hope it empowers someone out there who is desperate and thinks a white man is the only way forward. God bless you and your little beautiful girls. Love from Germany 🇩🇪
@@OdunZee thank you 🙏
She's poisoned her womb with that devil's seed.
Most marriages are not a bed of roses. I have a mixed marriage and things started getting bad when we moved to Africa. It didn't affect our relationship but it puts a lot of stress from the outside world unto the relationship and makes it much more complicated as in a developed country where everything is well organised and almost everything works. Here it's the opposite and my wife suffers with me
В накладе она не осталась .
Not all interracial relationships are bad. I have been in mine for about 13 years. He is a kind good man. A gentleman. Don't look at race for love. Let love come naturally no matter the race. God bless you 🙏
When God sends you someone to share your life with, He doesn't send you a broken person for you to fix.
Beautifully said and so true!!! 💖💕💖💕💛✨️✨️✨️
But God doesn't always send you what you want but what you NEED! Maybe, finally this experience helped her grow up and be independent.
AMEN. ABUSIVE N JERKY. OMG. HE WAS A devil🛑✝️ 9:45 . 🛑👺👹👺👹👹👹🛑✝️😇😇😇😇😇✝️🛑🙏🏾
@@sandrabentley8111THIS IS NOT GOD. ABUSIVE JERK.
I met a young lady from the same country whose mother waited for her to look for a similar guy. Well, the guy not only rejected her but also their children. So sad and you're more than enough. Seek God for everything.
May God bless her and her children. Thats so brave of her to share her story. I pray she may find peace and happiness in life. We've learnt alot
Alcohol always destroys family always.
imagine saudu arabia is now actually allowing alcohol to be sold and drunk there,they shall all become zombies in the future.
Vodka is their food because of the weather
And Russian men are extremely heavy drinkers.
True
She drinks too
The best prayer as a woman is to pray for a God fearing man. Not by color, tribe,etc... just a God fearing Man.
I married a God fearing man it was terrible being married to him, being god fearing and being a good husband are two different things be specific tell god all the qualities you need in a man.
If he abuses you, then he is not actually God fearing. No one fears God and behave ungodly. It is absolutely impossible except he or she is battling demons and in that case, they'll need deliverance 🙌🏽
Exactly
Even the devil fears God😊
God fearing man?!?!? Good luck with that.
I really love the brevity and frankness possessed by Betty, you deserve better mama. You are strong and I have learnt a lot from your story, as a young man I have known the things to avoid when marriage time comes.😊😊
What a story! A few lessons for all of us! Thank you for sharing.
It was not GOD that answered your prayers my dear, The blessing of GOD add no sorrow. Every good and perfect gift comes from GOD.
I disagree! He's her husband but she is the cause of him to fall apart.
@@juliennesoniamalabomakong9021yes yes
@@juliennesoniamalabomakong9021алкоголь стал причиной развала семьи.
@@juliennesoniamalabomakong9021How you know???
GOD told you that???
The lesson is be careful what you ask God for. Remember the story of Jonah in the bible what he asked for then regretted it? This lady seem to have issue with her own race and maybe God allowed her to find a whiteman to teach her a lesson saying good is in every race. Nothing is wrong in marrying another race but our motives must be correct. Some folks marry the white man and is not happy with the relationship but they believe they look cool to the outside world so they live a lie. An Inferiority complex.
He really loved you, to leave everything behind and start fresh in Kenya. I think he became depressed when he came to Kenya, just the way you got depressed in Moscow. I pray God strengthens you both.
True
Exactly.
Very true. She needed to listen to him when he suggested to move from her village. He is also missing his job. Drinking started as a way of coping, then ended up escalating. Yes, he now needs medical help and help to go back to his country.
True
Sure, they both need healing.. this is a story with so many lessons to learn..and the good thing is there is hope for Betty, Sasha and the 2 lovely kids..
Thank you for sharing your story❤ God be with you and I pray you get help, peace and love that surpasses human understanding ❤
What a life story! Alcohol is poison and addictive!
Alcohol is terrible! 😥
Your husband needs to stay 100% away from alcohol, from people who drink and places which have alcohol! Your husband has to be honest to himself and he has and needs to make the decision either to have his children happy and proud of him or to die miserably!
Continue to be strong and don’t let your husband come back unless he changed and has not drunk alcohol for 3 years-100% ! You are awesome!
You are a brave and strong woman. May God guide your every step and all your decisions in life.
I am a "mzungu," and I have no idea why some people think that it's better to marry a mzungu. We are definitely not all rich, and wazungu have problems too! We are all human beings!
Your forefathers have polluted us into hating ourselves and believing that your race is superior than others. Nowadays the media is controlled and owned by your people and paint as low so we’ve been programmed to believe that white is right and black is wrong. But we are slowly waking up to the truth.
its a persons choice to date a certain race. character has nothing to do with colour
That's exactly what she's saying @@user-jr8ou8ui8m
@user-jr8ou8ui8m u didn't understand comment
Not all want white men for their wealth, maybe want cappuccino babies
My advice to you is to go to school even trade school. Never depend on a man for your survival and that should be the lesson learned.
Completely right
My opinion as a Africa lady; That man was a good man but later got frustrated with life he wasn’t truly happy in the marriage so turned to alcohol for comfort. Your uncertainties and impatience in the marriage ruined him . You would have seek help for him
I love your idea and I agree with you 100%
When she said even the chickens were stealing that took me out lol. I love her personality in the face of adversity
Giving my life to Christ was the best decision i ever made that i can’t regret
You will regret associating partners with The Creator. Worship Allah alone like Jesus called you to do, if you love him.
Jesus is the way,truth & life.He is the only way to God
@@Belkys.The Bible came before the Quran. The Quran is mockery. Most Muslims do not know the Holy Bible or their own Quran. That's because Muslims are cultural. Not logical, scriptural, or factual. The Holy Bible is the truth. It will point you in the right direction. The only way to God and Heaven is through accepting the Son of God as our savior. He saved us from a permanent death by way of his death and resurrection. The same death and resurrection that the rest of God's children will one day experience. The devil is using you. Come from underneath his wings and read the true word
I wish people would show compassion and grace with their comments. She admits she made mistakes and at that point she wanted her marriage to work, but it wasn’t with the right person. Betty, you’re a strong woman and I pray you find the peace you seek. May God be with you and give you wisdom to make better choices for yourself and your daughters. We are all allowed to make mistakes in life because there’s always a lesson in it. The interviewer was so graceful to allow her to share her story without interruption. Your next chance is coming up and I pray it’ll be one of peace and joy! All is well Betty!
This woman is a swindler, with hysterics she forced her husband to sell everything in Russia and leave for Kenya. And in Kenya she took everything away from her husband, and now she asks people, viewers for money for her maintenance, but she herself doesn’t want to go to work.
Yeah...I married a " white" man instead of I married the wrong man. Attention ho
excellent comment
Well I wish I never married my "black" husband...maybe that's what people have a problem with. you think ???
@@lindacouncil1353 i didn’t elude to race, I focused on the person. So context please?
This is a very touching story,its sad when what we think we need is what the enemies use to deceive,a wrong marriage is something that is hard to be undone due to the intricate nature of life, God bless her heart,she's a woman who has true love and is seeking betterment of her life, God bless you dear❤
I would have loved to hear Sasha's side of the story.
I actually came here to look for this after watching his, when the man said he has stopped taking alcohol I immediately knew that what he said was not the whole truth and alcohol had a part to play and that is why he had said he has stopped taking alcohol.
From her stories, you can tell that her Russian husband started suffering from depression in Kenya. People handle depression differently.
i think there was stress from a very different lifestyle than what he was used to. And then drinking to avoid it. Vicious cycle
@@nicklaus8536Вы оба ошибаетесь. Саша и в России был и плохим человеком и алкоголиком. От него ушла первая русская жена. И Саша обманул своего сына. Он абьюзер и расист. Приехал в Кению быть белым господином, надеялся,что рабство еще не кончилось
@@user-bq7st2dc6u ,чернильница ты.
True
I swear to God depression can turn you to another version of yourself I don't blame him.
She is very brave to tell her story. Everyone has a different story to tell about their lives. Let’s learn to respect one another’s life journey!!! My life is very brutal & dramatic, I cannot dare to tell , I have black out lots of my trauma. I real respect her vulnerability & openness of telling her traumatic story !!! Sending you strength & love sister ❤️
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What ever you are going through, I'm praying for you ❤️ no one deserves to be messed treated. Prayers sent for you.
I pray you are healing from whatever trauma you went thru. No one deserves that. Take care and sending you lots of love and virtual hugs! 💖💕💖💕💛✨️✨️✨️
@@pambeforethestorm9784 Thank you so much ❤️
@@sureiamboo you are more than welcome ❤️❤️
The better praying should have been for a husband that is good to me and my parents, a kind, loyal, compassionate and trustworthy man.
Presenter has strange facial expressions. I dont know why he was smiling the whole entire time
Maybe high; maybe he’s attracted to her; maybe it’s a combination of both! From the way his mouth is moving, I’m leaning towards high.
I was thinking the same thing. Maybe he doesn't know what to do with his face.
Good observation
He's a very good listener, a rare attribute in most interviewers
He's so interested in her, not concentrating on what she's saying 😂
Just ask God to send you a good partner doesn’t matter what colour they are.
No... actually, you have to be specific in your prayers
@@saidatabby4797wrong!!! Humans are all human and breath same way an bleed same way!! We are ALL the same other than some have more melanin than others but other than skin colour we are ALL the same!! HUMANS!!! We ALL bleed n breath the same regardless of colour of skin ❤❤
@@Teestar519Educate them sista...folks are ignorant in these comments. They do not think logically.
@@saidatabby4797really😢😢basi cjui kuomba.O.MG😭😭😭
@@Teestar519 Europeans don't think that whatsoever! They ONLY appear to be happy when Africans [Blacks] are suffering. Our skin tone tells a story, and for centuries Europeans have deemed those with darker skin ugly, ungodly, untrustworthy, and unworthy
dear sister. that man loved you ...he left everything he had in Russia because of you and had to start from scratch in kenya - this was not easy. just as it was not easy for you in Russia. May the Lord heal both of you. Love and prayers.
этот человек любил алкоголь больше чем жену . Он променял семью и детей на алкоголь . Он пропил квартиру , которая досталась ему от матери , а из России он уехал тоже изза проблем с алкоголем , его выгоняли с работы и новую найти было все тяжелее . Захотел стать белым господином в Кении .
@@Asabughallarmh156 ч не против , иметь много денег это отлично , главное не жадничать , а помогать тем у кого их нет . Вот я и помогаю кенийской семье российского алкоголика . А ты помогаешь этому алкоголику на ежедневную выпивку . Я детям алкоголика намеду и жизнь , ты алкоголику на виски , сигареты и проституток .
May be he had another family in Russia 😮😮😊😊
@@karma-pt2ttthat makes sense
@@queenexellent9854he probably did
God bless her for sharing her story. People are always commenting like they have life figured out are clowns. Everyone has a story and everyone has regrets. I hope your life gets better 🙏
You are a strong, brave and patient woman.. Sometimes we don't get what we ask for.. You are beautiful and your kids are beautiful.. Be stronger as you are a strong woman, surely life will change for you to the better in God's name.
From this story I have learned a lesson. Pray for a God fearing man 🙏🏽
She dishonored her ancestors. Anytime you do that things go bad
Amen for me too
Am telling u,dats wat my mum always say pray for a God fearing man
And don’t marry outside your race!!!!
Those are worse
He was actually a good man. You can see that he was very determined to keep his family together. He was just frustrated. The village is no place for foreigners, especially men. They need a place where they can work and meet people who relates to them.
She was equally miserable in Russia but she had a baby and a house to keep her busy. She still almost went crazy.
That situation could have been managed with better understanding.
Yes, she was not understanding. The situation was not managed well. The guy really loved her.
She was poor and uneducated. These types are not good for relationships because they think money comes from trees, and often they don't appreciate. It's not about the village. Men can survive alone, while women are dependents putting pressure on the husband.
My thinking too
I think so too
@sianrapei691 this is the comment i was looking for, the man loved this woman but a lot of misunderstanding took place. its sad because most of relationships break like this. the story of the passport says it all. he went to the point of thiniking she hit his passport which she ddnt. i hope she finds peace she is a good woman. wish her well and the kids.
Such a strong woman!!!! I pray that the Lord will heal you and provide for you !!!!
I pray she gets the help she needs and her life gets better….God bless you sweet woman!
Life abroad can be very lonely. Even in English speaking countries like UK, you can still feel alone as people keep to themselves
I agree
Very true
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Which country are you
💯💯💯💯💯💯 correct I can testify to that into your courts room loneliness is a last name in UK
The owner of the shoes knows where it hurts.
Do not judge this lady.
Life happens but God is truly faithful ❤
People are not praying for an answer from God. Ok.
My dear you have two amazing babies give God thanks. I believe you can see the positive side of the union and embrace it with grace.
Fight for him Bety,pray God for your husband please💪
That stomachache was a sign that she met a devil/narcissist but she didn't listen to her intuition your body reacts when you meet a bad person 😢
He did everything for her at first He loved her a lot.He left everything behind for her when russia wasn't good enough for her. She just wasn't ready for that type of life but she thought she was.
You're very naive my dear, that man gave all his life took loan after selling everything he worked for and she moved him to a village because of her selfishness to be with her family what about him he's not an animal for God sake what's wrong with ur brain he was frustrated and depress and wanted to live noooo she hide his pasport she needed the house finish for her family well u gonna believe the nonsense she didn't take it
You are blaming her? He was heavily drinking, tried to strangle her and still you are blaming her? I swear women are our own worst enemies @@nancyv6661
@@nancyv6661The man was sick when she met him. All the emotional spending paying for her hospital bills exhausting all of his vacation money tells me that he was already unstable. To her he was a guardian angel but she was severely ill, incapable of seeing his flaws. He's much older so much more is expected.
Yeah what's up with the titel of this video. What has his skin color to do with anything..
This channel is pure toxic. This man thinks that he owns bla ck women and that they should be breading machines. Wheras bl ack men can date and marry all the whi te- and other non-bl ack women that they want. Seriously.
Look at his other videos about whi te women marrying bl ack men - which he prises and wants the world to know is sooooo wonderful and always a blessing! Meanwhile it's an obsession for him to find bl ack women who regretted marrying a non-bl ack man, especially a whi te man! This guy is a hypocrite!
Bl ack men in USA and Afri ca dates non-bl ack women far more often than bl ack women dates non-bl ack men. Bl ack women are extremely loyal and look where that got us.. baby-mamas, poverty-striken and married to corrupt afri can leaders.
Look at every major black actor, musician and NBA-player in USA and every major black actor, musician and football-player in Europe, again, they are all married to whi te women. Why isn't that a problem for him?
Let's see how long this post is up...
You meet someone one day and move in for 3days with a stranger, its not good just to throw yourself on a man.
She was so glad to have Sasha, it didn't matter whether he was a good provider or not
@@NovemberReigne At the end the results were so bad and it ruines one's future.
That’s not smart
Stop judging her
All the villagers charming against her because of jealousy
You are a strong woman and sound very genuine and honest,interracial relationships are not so easy,you have to make lots of sacrifices and compromises, now this is my take on this issue,this husband in question made so many sacrifices from the beginning,he didn't care that you had bn with his friend for three days,he fell in love with you and kept his word came back for you,looked after you while sick,came back again and married you,relocated to Kenya just for you, 1) you should have waited abit in Russia just to secure your citizenship even for the sake of your kids, today you would have bn able to return and work to sustain the family 2) yes his friend may have contributed to the drinking but staying in Russia would have bn better for him, coming from Russia to start a business in Kenya,in the village for a white man is not easy, and that also contributed to the drinking 3) this man has given up completely on life,pls he needs first to go to rehab for the alcohol addition, second return back to his country to work and do something with his life to be able to look after his kids,pls don't regret the marriage,I feel there is still love between you two,just retrace your steps to where you both missed it
Beautiful kids Betty that Sasha gave you 2 Beautiful reasons to smile forget the rest just focus on those 2 pretty things he brought in your life such pure treasures ❤❤
Be careful for what you wish for
True
Right
Kan
Ikr...
Exactly👍👍👍💯💯💯
When the person you love wants to leave, please allow them to go and if they are meant for you they will surely come back. Than ending in blood shade.
True
Yes always let them go it get so bad if you force them to stay
"I just fell right into his arms" . This line made my morning 😂. Thank you for sharing. I wish you well with your family
Thank you for sharing your story. There is a great sense if honesty in your description. Tell your story. Dont mind the fortunate souls in the comment section, with all the right answers. You are beautiful.
Empathy and self-awareness is something we should all pray for 😑
Beautiful vlog oh Gugu your topic touched me. Turned 45 and married still no kids , but will never give up on having kids. Thanks Gugu❤❤❤❤
I am from Uganda, my sister thank you so much for a story, however nothing else, but only God is your maker "Jeremiah 1:4" says he new you before you're formed in your mother's womb, therefore get saved God will do more than man can for you. Thank u
I'm a woman my advice to other ladies who are married far away from Kenya please just bare and be patient be understanding if your man loves you if he privide for you and kids than telling you wanna go back to Kenya and you don't have job. Bora mtu akupigi. This lady did a very big mistake by allowing her husband to sell everything in Moscow knowing he cannot get job in Kenya to rise his family. Sometimes ladies just see the consequences too it was better to stay in Moscow getting everything despite the boring you can watch tv or something keeping you busy since every time you go to your country for vacation with your husband and kids
The comment I m looking for, she also contributed to wat happened
The man got into depression by coming to a country he knows nothing about.
@@joannjeri4381 he got depressed because he has nothing juu aliuza everything in his country thinking he will be better in Kenya and that was a very big mistake.
@@preciouskelvin7495 namuurumia huyo mzungu sana penye ako atajuta kupenda tena
The day you said you are going back to Kenya is d day d marriage packed up..u cause this calamity
Uprooting her husband and kids from Russia because she was bored, complaining she rarely saw her husband when he is actually working to feed them, how did she think they ate, paid bills etc and then going to live in Ishiara where this man would have become depressed and hopeless and becoming alcoholic...then all the businesses being robbed by her employees, money he worked all his life. And when he tried to leave to go to mtwapa, she was stopping him....because it was always what she wanted, always me, myself and I, family think together....your husband left work in Russia for you and the kids because he wanted his family in one place....it is your turn to work and pay your way, you are young
She was so selfish and worse of it bringing fam/friends to the relationship....Dummy
Exactly she brought a man down … she needed to be a follower since she wasn’t providing so she decided she needed to make he own money at any cost…. She couldn’t play the role of supporting… Russians drink but they function… being married to an alcoholic myself will take him anyday
This made him an alcoholic, it’s was all about her
I don't get this story for one second. You lived well in Russia and he provided for you. How did you expect him to provide for the family when that's not his village or language? You could have tried your best to adjust to life in Russia or plan more vacations for your home sickness. Just as you were depressed, he was depressed
Very emotional and am suscrbing to her channel right now as a form of my support
She is a very strong and patient woman.She deserves nothing but the best.
She was desperate asf and unfortunately many black girls think the same
God answered your prayer to give other women this awareness...God has his own way of things.... your a strong lady
You go, girl, you are not the only one having these trials. You have the mettle to keep going and two beautiful girls to care for. I see you still love your husband, but you need to love yourself enough not to invite trouble back into your life. Keep forging ahead.
Im kenyan but this woman lead to the downfall of that man once a doctor and now in the streets
She should have left him in Russia.
He fell for the younger "exotic African" lure.
Спасибо вам за понимание
His alcoholism ruined him.
haha, lol
Most of us experience,heart break... pick up the pieces and move on.
I've experienced heartbreak and I'm still healing
Yes! me moving on with 5 kids God on our side
@@gloryruth615 My mom moved on with four,most of us women still hurting...we can't sit around...we have to do it especially for our children.
God's answers never back fire....when you pray ask for confirmation from God❤
Atimes God give us what he want especially when we insist the prayer should be in accordance to his will.
Sorry to hear that you went through this❤. I shared my story of my marriage from hell with a German man on my channel. Not all marriages work out as we wish but may God be with you and your children.
What a tragedy. It's so sad that two people who loved each other fell apart in such away. Its not a matter of colour, it's communication. Im sorry for your loss. You are an amazing person Betty.
Betty's story from Kenya is her channel
she already saw a red flag and she assumed it was not going to work
Betty, you were not thinking about his mental well-being, just as you were suffering mentally in Russia. May God help you all
Yah! I think he suffered mentally. I don't understand why she left Russia... They had a better life there. There was nothing in Kenya for him.
She's mean
It wasn't both of u it was circumstances. He was a good husband just depressed as u were also depressed in his country. He had enough of it mentally. Wish u a better end
I don’t need to be mean and I don’t want to sugarcoat things. Betty lack love and empathy and she’s selfish.
@NatashaSophia13 that's just the truth. People supporting her, should listen to the story well.
Don't rush in a marriage and even babies. Most of the divorce rates caused by rushing marriage. But you are a strong mom. God bless you.
You are so strong woman. I respect you so much. God bless you and your children! Bvelieve me!❤
I am 4 years single...was in an abusive relationship for years. My prayer now is God...please send me a God Fearing man who is going to love me for who I am, not what he wants me to be in Jesus' name!!!
Life is not a bed of roses. You take the thorns with the flowers. Perfection does not exist. Beware what you pray for
Exactly 💯💯💯👍👍👍