I Asked God to Marry a Black Husband, Years Later I Regretted It
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- čas přidán 24. 04. 2024
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In today's episode, we delve into the compelling story of a woman whose dreams of happiness turned into a struggle for survival. After escaping the harsh realities of war in her homeland, she sought solace and hope in marriage to a man she believed was her answered prayer. But as life unfolded, her initial joy transformed into profound regret.
Join us as we explore her journey from war-torn Croatia to the challenges she faces now in Kenya, grappling with loss, betrayal, and the ongoing struggles of her family living in exile. Her tale is a poignant reminder of the complexities of life and the unexpected turns it can take.
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Can you please give her correct home address in Croatia I stay in German but Ugandan married to a German and have a house in Karlvoc in Croatia..might want to help one day .
Is Tatiana still in Kenya
Follow up please?
Yes she's in Nairobi @@khadjaissa222
Yes she is , she jst goes to her home country to see her parents / funurals....
Hurt and pain has nothing to do with color of the skin. People need to start understanding that love has no color. It's a man or woman Character that makes them who they are.
Skin color has nothing to do with it it don't define who you are there is good and bad in all race
Hi
Exactly
Very true!
It doesn't matter white people always generalise. Think the same of black people.
Lesson for all is that race is not a marriageable trait or characteristic but rather ask for a partner that is loving, understanding, a provider, etc
Exactly. Both of them using race as criteria for a husband basically asked for trouble, and got it.
Dumb women keep asking for looks instead of character and wealth. This is the problem with romanticised love. It has no logic to it. True love is about a man providing financial resources, respecting you and honouring you as his partner or wife. Nothing less than that will do for me! Never settle for breadcrumbs from any male, ladies. 😮
That sounds nice but race definitely does matter in a relationship. Most people in the world clearly aren’t interested in interracial relationships.
@@travelingdude1621 I think the comment went "purposely" over your head. Race shouldn't be a priority or even a trait to guarantee a happy marriage. You said "Most" people aren't interested in interracial relationships but that isn't supported in factual data in assimilated societies, so we can't know who someone does want to engage with vs or who doesn't. Interracial marriages are on the rise in many countries from white/European to East/South/Asian, black to white, native Latin and many others. So that means more people likely care less about who they marry (racially) in an integrated society and more to do with proximity and "CULTURAL" (2 different things, culture vs race) values mixed in there. The more the world integrates, the larger the pool of proximity will exist. Sure there are closed minded people all over the world but that is melting away with cultural respect and assimilation.
Never ever let another woman in your home.
In other words be willing to do all the work yourself? Maids will always be needed, just don't bring in a young lady; get an older lady perhaps in her late forties/early fifties. Most men won't go for those ones
Some men are heartless the colour don't make a difference.
But bm are way worse than them all.
Good and Bad is in Every race,
Better say you regret the day you met your husband, don't color code it.
Warm Greetings from Ghana 🇬🇭
This are the type of people spreading hate among black people....cos of their selfish interest ...
Absolutely correct . She shouldn't colour code . Her ex husband is horrible
100 percent, but that really shows how her mind works and she should never have a relaitionship with anyone not her colour imagine she brought a child into this relationship
@basilking,your sure right my brother.
Ghanaian men you are worse, nagerian and Ghanaian
Why do people marry a colour and not a person?
Ask the white people even in these modern times white people still hate to see blacks married to white,majority of them not all thinks we're nobody
Go ask black men
@@mixedwoman1330 I am a black man.
@@luttashiundu2009 I know go ask yourself and black men around you!
@@mixedwoman1330 I have never loved someone because of their colour or religion or whatever parameters used for discrimination . As a matter of fact I am yet to date out of my race not that it is an issue with colour, No.
If 10% of your subscribers only gave $1 each. The price of a cup of coffee to see her smile and with happy tears.
It’s worth it and I’m ready to support ❤
Greetings from Pennsylvania, USA. God has a very special plan for this very special woman and her children. ❤🙏
Such a sweet lady. She really got a raw deal.
We should be careful who we marry😔
Just do your background check
Many have done that but also we have to accept the challenges / trials. No marriage is perfect
His is careful done? People hide their true self. And again most men after their wives have had kids they get tired and start looking for new catch.
@jeorgedavid3239 sometimes background checks is not enough.
She is really genuine and she needs some help. Let’s help her please!!! ❤❤❤
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@@user-wc4wf8rx8xWhat's funny
How do we help her .
I want to help her but how
May someone tell me plz.
@@khadjaissa222 WHERE ARE YOU FROM
@@user-wc4wf8rx8x
What that has to do with the question of helping ?
A man is a a man...black ,blue , yellow ,khakhi ,gray...a man is a man.And a man will leave you in the desert with no water 🙌🏼
What about white men?
What a story!
Tanya, you are not alone and you are strong. This too will pass
The love and faith this lady has for God is amazing.May God help you and your parents tatiana
The ex-husband must pay child support, and she can fend for herself only, that way she will be relieved. The husband is very cruel. I wish her the best.
She has been in Kenya for 30 years. Her children must surely be grown by now.
@MissDebra Oooooh, you are 100% correct.
Truth is when you work with Kenya army you are not allowed to marry a foreigner unless you quit job.Alikuwa anafanya kisiri maybe aliona atajulikana.He has to support the children.
@@Nana-do5polol, that’s not true. You are allowed to marry whoever you want to…
To make the matters worse the husband is working for the government as KDF soldier.He has to be forced to support the kids
Her accent is Kenyan pure
Yes 😊
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The headline for this piece is RIDICULOUS. This White woman marrying a Black man is NOT the reason to regret. She could have easily fell on bad times with a White man. The title is VERY R@CIST! PURE/SIMPLE.
Yes!! Pure Kenyan accent!
Because from the beginning Croatians don't have good English accent plus living in Kenya her English became Kenyan😊
I hope those who can afford will donate so that her parents can go back home.
Tatiana may God give you strength and grace! your are so humble and your pain is so genuine . God has a plan we walk by faith
Need to ask GOD for a true man filled with his love, instead of a particular color. There are horrible people of all ethnic and cultural groups.
I thought same thing. They should pray to be loved not loved by a certain colour
What a beautiful woman. I'm so sorry for what she went through. May God continue to bless and provide for her and the children. No woman deserves to be treated like that. I love you Tatiana.
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@@user-wc4wf8rx8xWhat's funny? Are you okey?
I love u too
My sympathy, to all who has been hurt,God will heal you.
Amen 🙏🏽 ❤
She is real and talks from heart❤❤
Tatjana, am so sorry for what you have gone through. Am a kenyan based in Germany, if you would like me to visit and meet your parents one day here in Germany and see how they are going on, i will. Hope you get the help you need and make your father's dream come true.
May God bless your heart dear ❤
That's so thoughtful
I feel your pain. I too am trying to find my daughter. She is Bipolar and is homeless. Her father took her to a Foreign country so he could collect taxes on her😢😢😢. He died of cancer and I want to get her with me . Women go through so much. She is a strong person.
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@veviennejarrett3028 My prayers are that you will find your daughter, in Jesus Name. Amen. 🙏🙏
My dear Tatjana, such a sad story, many Serbs were killed and had to leave their homes in Croatia. I feel so sorry for your parents and I am so sorry for your brother. May God help you to rebuild the house in your hometown and may God bless you all from now on. ❤❤❤
Sometimes we marry the wrong person. God bless you
U are responsible for your happiness. Sometimes this man is looking for someone to make him happy
At least you tried it. Now you just have to find the right man to actually love. Love has no color ever..try again sweetheart
Correct
Sometimes there is cultural shocks; I don' think I would support a mixed marriage. Also, age 21 most times immature. These war mongers are wretched.
It actually has a lot to do with the colour of your skin. If it didn’t, she wouldn’t feel the need to reference her “Black husband”. You have to realise that as a collective, Black and White people are not on the same socio economic level. Also, once you realise that western governments & white capital intentionally keeps Africa impoverished, you start to realise that they want to maintain the system of white supremacy. Lastly, when you recognise that during colonialism, white women were introduced to Africa to breed a new generation of mixed babies to reinforce colonialism, you realise that nothing has changed. We are still under slavery and colonisation, both in the West and on the continent. Wake up Africans!
@@alvirasamuels4942my friends are in cross cultural marriages and they are happy. It's really not about the color it's about the person that you meet. This kind of thing like what happened to her happens even with the same color relationships.
Am sure she thought she would be safe in Kenya because there was no war. She says her husband was a major in the Kenyan army. That means this man is among the military men who went peacekeeping mission in Croatia in the 90s. You will be fine Tatiana❤❤
Sorry for all losses you had. The good thing you love God and God is with you.
I don't understand people choosing the colour. Does it matter what colour they are its just like eye and hair colour. I am white British married to a black south African man. He chose me we met in a nightclub. He wanted to marry me I agreed. we have a daughter. I was not the type of person to make the first move anyway. I wanted an older man but younger than my parents. He is 11 years older than myself. Love has no race it is just about finding the right person. People should not cheat otherwise it just goes to show after one thing. What is love, no cheating and showing respect.
🙄🙄🙄🙄😴😴😴😴LIE AHMED LIES
Yes it matters.
Lies 😂
Sad story am ugandan married to german we have a house in Croatia...there many houses abandomed after war but croatia is a beautiful country with very beautiful beaches and scenery.the people are realy friendly.croatians love black people ..am like a muzungu in Croatia as a black aperson❤❤❤❤
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Hello ,I am a Ugandan living in UK.
Nice
I'm sorry for the pain you went through. May God heal you. Psalm 121
The title is misleading maybe just to attract viewers. The lady explains it clearly and honestly that it was not about race. Such stories of a husband running away with a house cleaner, nurse, etc are found in every country and at every level of society be it in Hollywood or the poorest areas!!
It's a pity that such a beatiful woman has suffered like this.I Love you flower of God.
No one needs to suffer irrespective of how they look like
Rare...A religious woman with heart...And a good message that should resonate with most everybody if they let it...Peace
Sad but God is the mist of everything so don't u worry too much, now u have ur citizenship just start working on urself life goes on my dear ❤❤🇯🇲
Sorry to hear that you went through this❤. I shared my story of my marriage from hell with a German man on my channel. Not all marriages work out as we wish but may God be with you and your children.
Super interesting that she speaks in the kenian accent.
Sometimes we are confused and ask for certain skin tones or economic success. We need to be whole ourselves and accept someone who is healthy and never beg or settle!! 💕👍🏽
We are one family whether black or white but we must learn to love one another
To everyone who is going through pain and difficult time. May God heal you and help you out of every situation.
Thank you
Amen 🙏🙏
Her story is touching so much,I wish God can send people who can help her,I love helping people but I don't have anything to give my heart is so broken seeing people suffering while others have plenty 😭
True. As an African,I feel sad for the trauma, this beautiful lady has endured ,all these years. No one deserves this.I hope God perfoma His miracles .
Your faith in God has brought you this far keep believing God will do the rest your blessing is on the way
I met this lady over 20 yrs ago in kitengela and her story of being betrayed by her husband is true
father please use people to help this family!!
sorry for what you went through,i was i was in upper classes my dad was among kenbat 2 with UN for peace cop. he told us lots of nice stories how beautiful country and good hospitality. my sister trust in GOD he will make it easy and open good payj for you ,
I SEE A HUMBLED WOMEN WITH NO HATE IN HER HEART.
MATTHEW 7-7-8 ASK GOD YAHWEH WITH FAITH AND YOU WILL RECEIVE! IN YESHUA JESÚS NAME AMEN 🙌🏽
May the person who has surplus of wealth and looking to rebuild a life sight this story to invest into what it would be the most satisfactory thing to do to enhance his own soul... God blessed that person in abundance 🙏🙏🙏
Even without surplus wealth it's good to help with the little you have.Gid blesses the hand that giveth more than the hand that receith
The English this woman speaking is of an African accent.
May God see you through, you hard a difficult time.
Kenyan accent.
Wrong prayer in the 1st place. One must pray for a partner that they are compatible to, whether he be tall, short, black, white, yellow, green whatever coz you will live the rest of your lives together and raise kids
Even then marraiges dont work out
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I'am so sorry for you ma'a, may God healst your injuries🙏🏾😘🍀
Us black people it easy to help others color but if it was a black person with no document same time to call cops for you 😂😂😂
In Liberia, same thing. Immigration was even paying them like $200 dollars to be secret informant to tell who didn’t have papers
My sister..a.bad man is a bad mad regardlessof race be it black white pink yellow name their colours....bad is bad so dont blame yourself for falling for him it happens we can not predict who's good who's bad because their language is one ...I love you baby😂😂
If the guy is from Kenyans are good people they have human hearts I think it’s good idea to donate her Kenya is beautiful country
There are some bad kenyans like every where. I know a ex friend she did some very nasty stuff
Is the man still in the army ??? If he's , he must take care of the children
Am sorry Tatiana for your loss, every race cheats no matter what colour comes on your way where does the name cheats,divorve comes from, hope they will repair and rebuild your beautiful home
Such a sad story of her life but strong in her faith for God. May God bless you no matter what happens your beautiful heart and very genuine. ❤this woman of truth and May the Lord help you always you’re not alone. He never left you in times of your struggles he was always with you. In Jesus name Amen ❤
She is humble
Thank you Simon for bringing awareness to many. I know what it is to be poor and downtrodden.
Cim sam je vidjela znala sam da je nasa 😄 pozdrav gospođi, nema ljepse nego kuci😊
I don't expect anything good from anyone except GOD and myself. I will try to make happy myself as much as i can. Specially, i don't expect good things from man. A lit of women who expect good thing from man will end up by losing even what they have. So, my sister being strong and making happy ownself will be possible.
Her children should be adults by now. What is the update on the children's well being. Where do they work?
Men in kenyan army,please change.
You have broken the hearts of most of my friends as well😕
It's so sad.i wish those who have something they can help the lady n her parents too.i so wish I w not poor really I would help them.ryt now am feeling sorry for her it's hurting really.God pliz answer the tears of that family I beg you.she is going through a lot.dont worry my sister the Karma will come after your husband...he is so heartless
God bless rhis lovely lady and her family.
Please god give her what she needs in life to make things easier for her.
I hope and pray this wonderful lady God will make a way for her and her family stay bless my lady your a special person with good heart ❤️
Watching from India 🇮🇳
So sorry mami ❤❤ I'm looking forward to seeing you come back with a testimony
Ohhhhh my God I'm crying very sad story ohhhhh sorry darling 😢😢😢😢😢😢
May God come through for this family
I'm sorry for what you have been going through may God make it easier for you and your family I pray God will lift you up and give you a better life and future I pray you're parents will have there home repaired very soon I feel your sadness please keep your faith and put your trust in God for God hears your cries for help he will never for sake you truly you are worthy of all that is good for you and your family hold up your head high thank you for sharing your story I'm appealing for all you wonderful people out there to help this poor lady she is really speaking from the heart take care and God bless
It's a character issue not a race issue. Good and bad men are everywhere.
Making marriage an idol would lead to premium tears
Very sad.. May God wipe your tears beautiful lady.God loves you
Africa must help this Woman please
My heart goes out to this lady. She and her family experienced a lot of pain. My God help them 🙏! She is such a sweet soul ❤️!
I live in Canada it is sad story I may help her whatever I can
Your an amazing strong woman. I wish you well
Am sorry , please help this lady
So many women suffer in this way everywhere. I feel for any woman who's mistreated. But many of us are suffering - its heartbreaking. But most dont get the help she is asking for. This is why Im glad I never married and only had one child, who was shot and killed. I have no child to assist me as I age. I saw / see the parh ahead and try to be brave. No one came to my aid. I had to use my wits, grit, and luck. I wish her and her children the best.
Hugs mum. God will make a way . There are so many women who gave birth to many kids and they are suffering
some Kenya men sijui hua wanataka nini
Wengi ni wakora especially when it comes to interracial relationships wako kutake advantage na si mapenzi.
Angemujengea na achunge watoi😢
Angemujengea na achunge watoi😢
Watu wengine walirogwa na mganga akafa
Color has nothing to do with a person who has no principles
May Allah swt help you sis and all the others who needs help Ameen
Hmmmmmmmm 😔thanks sir amazing job GOD bless you all the best 👍👌👍❤️❤️❤️
Moral of the story. Stick within your lane.
My second time commenting its true what she is saying about croatia the city is ok but village side there many houses abandoned its most likely the parents really neer help . Croatia is now under european union but deep in villages houses are abandoned i guess the owners are still abroad after the way.
Almost all countries has villages that are abandoned. People want or must live in cities to get jobs.
So sad. Please guys let's help her 😢😢😢
Sending love and strength, my heart hurts for you😢😢
May Allah bless you all. It was an honor taking part in this session with my teachers, Shaykh Abdullah and Shaykh Omar. May Allah accept from them, the Yaqeen team and all of us.
Inshallah as the world crisis progresses the smartest thing people do lately is building a strong investment that isn't controlled by the government. Like digital currencies.
That is very true, thanks brother for that kindly advice I was having a tough time until I started.
I started back in 2019 then I had to sell off some landed properties
No one's depends on salaries this days
That's really interesting! I've been thinking about investing in digital currencies lately but wondering how to do it, do anyone have any thought on that?
To avoid losses as a and enhance profits as a newbie you'll need to consult a professional
Why pray to have a certain nationality as a spouse? Pray for God to send the spouse he wants you to have.
Oh what a sad story,challenges after challenges.
Oh lord have mercy on this lady and her family.
Tanya nemojte izgubiti nadu.uvek gledaj napred.
Hvala
Thanks my dear
Sad story 😢 God will intervine.
God help those in need and strengthen them trough out their bad moment.
Life isnt easy sometimes thing happen to let us know how much we need God.
If I had the money I would definitely pay to repair her father's home. What happened to her family is so sad. There is so much money in this world, people should not have to live like this. 😢
Love is from God so let us love one another,❤ may God strengthen your hands
Shes very likable. Nice lady.
after hearing this lady story please help her and the children so she can go back home and help her parents