I Stabbed My Husband to Death, His Final Words Were of Forgiveness

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  • čas přidán 25. 04. 2024
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    In a heart-wrenching confession, Grace tells the story of a fateful day that changed her life forever. Raised in an abusive home, Grace's search for love led to more pain when her dream relationship turned violent. Facing a dire situation, she tragically ended her husband's life during a confrontation. His final words of forgiveness have haunted her ever since. Now, after serving time and facing the struggles of raising her children alone, Grace seeks redemption and a fresh start. Join us as we uncover her compelling journey of love, betrayal, and forgiveness in a remote Kenyan village.
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Komentáře • 201

  • @AfrimaxEnglish
    @AfrimaxEnglish  Před měsícem +8

    If you'd like to support Grace in her journey to rebuild her life and provide for her children, please click here: givinglife.com/api/public/share/?campaign=725.
    Your help can make a significant difference.
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  • @lidimanate9118
    @lidimanate9118 Před 19 dny +9

    This woman is a good person. She walked away from her troubled marriage, and her husband went to provoke her. In fact, she wasn't supposed to go to prison for that accident. Her sentence was supposed to be suspended. May god help her to rebuild her life again!

  • @Millie-rm2wj
    @Millie-rm2wj Před měsícem +24

    God has seen your heart and forgiven you mama... find peace and closure in the matter. You will rise again

  • @victoriaijeh1279
    @victoriaijeh1279 Před měsícem +9

    I'm really shedding tears for all the pains she unjustly underwent.
    May God help her find peace and reestablishment .

  • @kashbassey9149
    @kashbassey9149 Před měsícem +44

    This woman was abused all her life
    She had enough...I can fully understand why this happened 😢...hope she finds peace..

    • @loiswhite503
      @loiswhite503 Před měsícem +1

      Doesn't give her the right to murder

    • @triciadowner
      @triciadowner Před 23 dny

      ​@loiswhite503 if it was man what would you say?

  • @limphomohlomi2193
    @limphomohlomi2193 Před měsícem +12

    I am so sorry for this woman, may Lord heal her😢

  • @fredajohnson7393
    @fredajohnson7393 Před měsícem +20

    Those that doesn't know anything about abuse relationship, will not understand her,
    The abusers will always support the man, what was the man doing in her house?
    If she did not tell the doctor that she's the one that stab him, how will anyone knows? She's in pain because this is not the life she picture for herself, i just hope that those kids have a better life.

    • @khanyi653
      @khanyi653 Před 24 dny

      Sorry sweatered ❤,hugs that was a sellf defence if he kill you your family was goner through pain,but am glad it was him co he started that,please forgive your self dear and strong for kids ❤️❤️

  • @margaretbareh3166
    @margaretbareh3166 Před měsícem +8

    May Almighty GOD bless you and your children Grace.stay strong.

  • @everythingbeautifulalways6118
    @everythingbeautifulalways6118 Před měsícem +20

    No one should hit us and we will defend ourself... forgive yourself , you didn't plan to kill him... you were defending yourself.

  • @rachelbowskill4165
    @rachelbowskill4165 Před měsícem +6

    She deserved no jail and should have been aquitted .
    God bless grace x
    I too have been abused as a kid and never been treated well since .

  • @achiengsunshine569
    @achiengsunshine569 Před měsícem +7

    Am sending you huge hugs🤗🤗, people will judge you for doing what you did.. been here .. this lack of care, love from our parents doesn't know how it affects our future and mental health.. often we go looking for something we don't find in ourselves or our loved ones and we end up in even worst situations situations.. am really sorry, I hope you find peace, love and contentment that you deserve. 🤗🤗

  • @MissDebra
    @MissDebra Před měsícem +86

    How is self defense a criminal offence? This is the problem with unrighteous governments. Shame on her government! In America, we know that self defense is a God-given right. Dear lady, turn to Jesus. He will heal your wounds. Repent of all your sins and come to Him. Instead of sorrow, you will have joy and laughter as a born-again believer! Jesus is waiting for you.

    • @stephenbundi6347
      @stephenbundi6347 Před měsícem +1

      MissDebea are you married ❤️❤️

    • @stephenbundi6347
      @stephenbundi6347 Před měsícem

      Are you married?💞💞

    • @chadwik4000
      @chadwik4000 Před měsícem +5

      It was probably murder.... "Fight for her life"?where are all the cuts and stuff on her and bruises?

    • @chadwik4000
      @chadwik4000 Před měsícem

      ​@@stephenbundi6347whaaaai ahe you gaaayhe?
      YOU EAT DE POO-POO!!!

    • @Oceanbird971
      @Oceanbird971 Před měsícem +3

      @@stephenbundi6347 can you stop!

  • @Englishroserebecca
    @Englishroserebecca Před měsícem +18

    Poor abused woman. I want to hug her and her children. I want her to have peace. May her life improve. May her family soften their hearts and remember they have grandchildren.

  • @ucan1
    @ucan1 Před měsícem +30

    I am leaving this comment here so that after some hours, days, weeks, months or years when someone likes or comment on it, I will be reminded to watch this video again

  • @DaniBooss
    @DaniBooss Před měsícem +4

    Grace should had never been in prison. The abuse she endured I’m sure was horrific. You deserve an abundance of happiness beautiful GRACE ❤ I’m rooting for you girl 🫶🏻

  • @judyusher5404
    @judyusher5404 Před měsícem +7

    She was in her quiet corner. The devil sent him to disturb her peace and cause a lifetime of turmoil for her and family, but thank God forgiveness, grace and mercy.

  • @eyewano1088
    @eyewano1088 Před měsícem +13

    That was self defense. He sought her out, found her & made his way to her house fully armed with a knife ready to attack her & he did, only she beat him at his game as she defended herself. Can't understand how she even had to serve all that long in prison.

    • @irenekomora7246
      @irenekomora7246 Před 16 dny

      Self Defense if it results in death is a punishable offence, only it falls under the category of manslaughter. That's why she served a lesser term.

  • @janesame7914
    @janesame7914 Před měsícem +13

    It's not easy to be abused every day

  • @charlottemckenzie9806
    @charlottemckenzie9806 Před měsícem +10

    She left him whydid he go back to abuse her again the poor woman was tired of it imagine going through that from a child. She defended herself

    • @nyanzi7831
      @nyanzi7831 Před měsícem

      God knows better.We can not judge

  • @jumokealadese6507
    @jumokealadese6507 Před měsícem +4

    So sad, she was defending herself,,,she has to.let go of the past, God has forgiven you ,you were abused ,you are free, let go of the past, God bless you and you're kids ,never feel guilty,,you still have you're beautiful kids to look after. Amen

  • @user-yp7dt1hz7j
    @user-yp7dt1hz7j Před 16 dny

    You are very strong dear continue fight for your future and children

  • @Oceanbird971
    @Oceanbird971 Před měsícem +34

    It wasn't her fault she was abused pls don't attack this woman she was abused as a child pls don't attack her she was being abused and other stuff she came from an abusive family her parents took drugs and alcohol this is what affects a child especially when it comes to domestic violence and abuse and other stuff she was depressed and miserable and unhappy and enraged pls don't attack this woman she's been abused her entire life i don't think people realize that she endured so much it was too much for her to handle pls don't attack me or the woman that was abused as a child and a adult, i feel awful for her she wanted love and affection and support why is it so hard for her to feel loved and cared for a lot all she wanted was affection and compassion and love and other stuff but her ex husband abused her that's where her trauma kicked in pls don't attack me or this woman I know what it's like being abused by someone who thinks they love you but actually doesn't love you at all, she is blaming herself for defending herself and other stuff pls don't attack her she was abused as a child i feel awful for her

    • @Oceanbird971
      @Oceanbird971 Před měsícem

      @@chadwik4000 oh shut the hell up!

    • @loiswhite503
      @loiswhite503 Před měsícem +1

      Stop the wow is me pity party.
      Use your tough times for God's glory.
      Stop the wow is me.
      Yes I know exactly what it's like to be abused.
      I know his family have lost a son , a father , uncle, and human , they most likely have a lifetime of pain .
      Do they deserve it?
      NO NO NO. THEY NEED JESUS, YOU DO TOO . HE CAN HEAL YOU.
      BYE 👋 GOD BLESS.
      REACH OUT TO JESUS BEFORE ITS TO LATE

    • @chadwik4000
      @chadwik4000 Před měsícem +1

      @@loiswhite503 Too many people on the internet act like "Wow, is me!", and they treat everything like a popularity contest.

    • @dominicmbai1839
      @dominicmbai1839 Před měsícem +1

      Nonsense. What if its the husband who had killed her?,would you have said that the husband had trauma and family abuse?.

    • @chadwik4000
      @chadwik4000 Před měsícem

      @@dominicmbai1839 trauma and abuse is a license to kill they think

  • @user-dl2mw7kt5t
    @user-dl2mw7kt5t Před měsícem

    God be with you girl, i can feel your pain. Be strong cc for your children's sake.

  • @akuaasantewaa3752
    @akuaasantewaa3752 Před měsícem +3

    This case shouldn't have even gone to trial and making her spend more than 4 years in prison is a miscarriage of justice. This is the problem I have with African justice system. This woman wouldn't have been jailed if this happened in a developed country. May God have mercy on her 🙏

  • @deborahtodd2073
    @deborahtodd2073 Před měsícem +15

    This was self defense. He found her house and attacked her. He could have killed her too. He walked to his death. This is unfortunate. Terrible misunderstanding. Extremely sad situation.

    • @ndafaalma9169
      @ndafaalma9169 Před 20 dny

      In my country if you go and hit someone in his or her residency, you're guilty. This woman just defended herself

  • @chinnymoore6994
    @chinnymoore6994 Před měsícem +11

    This is a case of self defense..so sorry .. sometimes men are horrible 😔😢

  • @jacquelinefelder1242
    @jacquelinefelder1242 Před 18 dny

    Blessings to her and her family. I hope and pray that she gets all the help you need.

  • @mangenjedorothy8257
    @mangenjedorothy8257 Před 17 dny

    I pray for you Grace may you find peace and remain strong for your kids.hugs❤

  • @ioniefrith3095
    @ioniefrith3095 Před měsícem +3

    Held your hand high, walk with your dignity and trust God he'll give you the peace u looking for ❤

  • @melindamaybe8713
    @melindamaybe8713 Před 13 dny +2

    Thanks!

  • @janewanjira-ki6ib
    @janewanjira-ki6ib Před 19 dny +2

    Woooi don't judge her; our Lord is a forgiver and to both families heal fast be and may God con console you

  • @Jaythecook
    @Jaythecook Před 26 dny +2

    I am so sorry my dear sis.
    You were defending yourself.

  • @ruel1703
    @ruel1703 Před 29 dny

    I feel you so deep my sister...❤
    Only in the Lord we shall find peace 🕊

  • @fatima_suzie
    @fatima_suzie Před měsícem +9

    The man didn't want her to go to jail that is why he told the Dr they are best of friends

  • @wangarijane1669
    @wangarijane1669 Před 24 dny +2

    Soo sorry my dear. God Will make a way where there seems to be no way

  • @ansonawilliams6792
    @ansonawilliams6792 Před měsícem +9

    God has forgiving you. Your husband has done the same as well this save as an advise to others

  • @faauluuluganiutili1243
    @faauluuluganiutili1243 Před měsícem +3

    God bless you Mama ,thanks for raising your kids ,, God is forgiving you, You need deliverance, look for a Prophet to help you for deliverance I have no money at the moment to help you but I am praying for you and your children, you're one of the strong person I'm also a single mother of 4 I never give up of raising my children, they are all growing up now and we live happily every after without an abusive husband ❤ Don't forget to pray and fasting, Jesus loves you

  • @carlenespencer9529
    @carlenespencer9529 Před 19 dny

    Grace I feel your pain I’m now waiting your video I’m crying but hope coming your way god is there for you my dear

  • @paulinemurage6915
    @paulinemurage6915 Před měsícem +3

    Do not judge that is what God says to us, I truly believe God has forgiven her, your future is bright. Hold on to God and you will see his faithfulness.

  • @user-Atang12Kabelo
    @user-Atang12Kabelo Před měsícem

    May God bless them and their family and friends amen

  • @ladyjameela
    @ladyjameela Před 15 dny

    Keep on praying my Dear sister..wasn't your fault..God will keep on changing your life..don't bother about Family who are not understanding or friend..be friend to your God..Yy tu Mungu ndo wakuhukumu si binaadam..so keep on going..its good umejua kosa na unaomba msamaha...

  • @okwaoshen7607
    @okwaoshen7607 Před měsícem +4

    she left,the husband should have let her be .she's living with the guilt nd only jesus can heal her if not,she will live with it for the rest of her life.this is so emotional the way she'd crying.

  • @Seamusmtepa
    @Seamusmtepa Před měsícem +2

    So heartbreaking 💔 😢

  • @Lyziradukunda
    @Lyziradukunda Před 25 dny +3

    I can't judge her.

  • @dianahchepkemboi2953
    @dianahchepkemboi2953 Před 13 dny

    I cried 😢 throught the whole video, she was abused, may God give her peace and closure 🙏

  • @jennifercadette8569
    @jennifercadette8569 Před měsícem

    That’s a sad situation Hon god will forever u just pray god is in control the lord is my shepherd god close doors no man can open he open doors no man can’t close just pray things will fall into place

  • @Dan19718
    @Dan19718 Před měsícem +7

    She needs a therapist

  • @judyhallman2459
    @judyhallman2459 Před 8 dny

    I’m truly sorry this happened to you I wish the best for you and your kids I pray 🙏🏽 for happiness and healing in your life in Jesus name 🙏🏽🍃🙏🏽

  • @floraundisa3688
    @floraundisa3688 Před měsícem +3

    Pole sana madamu, forgive her my people

  • @DaniBooss
    @DaniBooss Před měsícem +2

    My prayer for Grace is that she learns to forgive herself and love herself ❤ She’s such a beautiful soul 🫶🏻

  • @deborahtodd2073
    @deborahtodd2073 Před měsícem +4

    If God can forgive who are we hold unforgiveness. I hope they realize that she was running away from the problem and he found her. She actually tried to avoid it.

  • @asiimwesarah4094
    @asiimwesarah4094 Před 23 dny

    May God see u through dear❤

  • @Sibumagazine
    @Sibumagazine Před měsícem +2

    Her country law failed her; may God heal her.

  • @nordialocke9106
    @nordialocke9106 Před 17 dny

    I felt sorry for her such on emotional story ,abusive relationship cause her pain and sorrows

  • @hestiningsihking6707
    @hestiningsihking6707 Před měsícem

    Sometimes the one you loved more hurt you most.don't give all your love to someone,give some space in your heart.for yourself.

  • @shakaconteh1742
    @shakaconteh1742 Před 27 dny +1

    To be in an abusive relationship with someone else is not easy 😕 😪 😔

  • @nanoa32
    @nanoa32 Před měsícem +1

    I hope she finds peace. Poor lady 😰😰

    • @nyonairene8797
      @nyonairene8797 Před 29 dny

      But why should you judge some one? Are you so perfect ?🤨

    • @nanoa32
      @nanoa32 Před 29 dny

      You ignorant bastard. I guess you cannot read illiterate ignorant rat. If you can have an educated intelligent individual read my comment for you then you’ll see that I fully support this poor lady. So next time don’t come for me because I’ll embarrass you 😎

  • @donnaharisson2976
    @donnaharisson2976 Před měsícem

    GOD WILL FORGIVE YOU GOD WILL HÉLP YOÙ SERVE GÒĎ ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Nevermin28
    @Nevermin28 Před měsícem

    You can tell just by seen her face 😭😭 she see now happiness or peace or she never been loved before 😭😭😭😭

  • @wendheryayra4858
    @wendheryayra4858 Před měsícem +2

    There’s one problem with our parents. Their reputation. Her only concern is she being remarried. What’s with the obsession of African parents n marriage. It wasn’t your fault dear. It could have been you. Hope you get the strength to move on. All the best

  • @meryzimmerman3771
    @meryzimmerman3771 Před měsícem +3

    Oh Lord help her give comfort

  • @fatima_suzie
    @fatima_suzie Před měsícem +10

    She speaks very good English despite not being very well educated

    • @wagaroy2459
      @wagaroy2459 Před měsícem

      shes a bright woman did you hear she scored 392 at KCPE?

    • @fatima_suzie
      @fatima_suzie Před měsícem +1

      @@wagaroy2459 I am Nigerian, I don't know what that means

    • @nelsonkiiru7252
      @nelsonkiiru7252 Před měsícem +2

      ​@@fatima_suzieshe scored well in her primary education exam.

    • @KenObuon-ci5xq
      @KenObuon-ci5xq Před měsícem +1

      Meaning she scored 392 out of possible 500 marks.

  • @evaecckles2517
    @evaecckles2517 Před 17 dny

    🙏🏽🙏🏽🤔🙄😢❤❤ I pray for this woman and her children did she get her life together thank God forgive her for what she's done sad story deeply

  • @opheliasarnyeneh6566
    @opheliasarnyeneh6566 Před měsícem +4

    Why did she had to be imprisoned?
    He came to her house to kill her and she defended herself. Would it be okay if he had killed her?
    Someone died and that's bad. But that someone meant to take a mother's life and leave the kids motherless. Thinking of who would care for her kids if she died, had to fight back for her survival.
    She should be able to live her life in peace, carrying for the kids. The kids already lost their father and don't have to lose their mom.

  • @zoochicampany8592
    @zoochicampany8592 Před měsícem +1

    Ohhh my goodness, this woman is clever

  • @user-ov2lc8xo5x
    @user-ov2lc8xo5x Před měsícem +5

    Whatever happened she is not to plame, remember her husband had stabbed her also, maybe she did it for self defense

  • @elleyonaspg9580
    @elleyonaspg9580 Před měsícem +2

    Why make her relive this painful memory, to what end. I saw her on a similar program. If you are not going to help her in some way or another, leave her be. You can see it is difficult for her to recount the story!

  • @sandrenestanley8266
    @sandrenestanley8266 Před měsícem

    Family is the worst dnt study them. Push to support your kids and make a better life

  • @berthelinatheodose9995
    @berthelinatheodose9995 Před měsícem +2

    God will see you through blessing on you inj jesus amen❤❤❤😂

  • @jokuducharity9912
    @jokuducharity9912 Před měsícem

    Childhood traumas 😢 are real
    God help us heal

  • @nualisplace
    @nualisplace Před měsícem +4

    I thought she was doing better after the last interview on another channel and hoped she had received therapy and started healing

  • @naftalimwangi6041
    @naftalimwangi6041 Před měsícem

    maraya akufe wote

  • @tigertiger7084
    @tigertiger7084 Před měsícem

    Sorry all going to be fine

  • @islyrevans295
    @islyrevans295 Před měsícem +3

    Y are African laws without conscience, if it was self defense y did she go to prison,some of those villages have elders that are illiterate and also bias against women

  • @claudiahall-re1wt
    @claudiahall-re1wt Před 12 dny

    No Help. She is Wicked

  • @lly7379
    @lly7379 Před měsícem +1

    Jesus loves you and doesn’t judge you as the world does. Give your life to Jesus and he will give the love and affection that no one in this could ever give you

  • @luckydubebello1131
    @luckydubebello1131 Před měsícem

    😢😢this must b a kikuyu lady hara kabla sijawatch

  • @ReginaSilva-sx8fx
    @ReginaSilva-sx8fx Před 14 dny

    Vc vai conseguir porque Deus está com vc

  • @juju4538
    @juju4538 Před měsícem

    Well usually people who were abused usually ends up finding abusive partners.....but unfortunately if your husband was an abuser most likely he was abused as a child just as yourself, so the whole situation is terrible.... because he needed help not death

  • @jumahmohammed7582
    @jumahmohammed7582 Před 22 dny

    ❤❤❤❤😢😢😢

  • @Samma590
    @Samma590 Před 18 dny

    💐

  • @user-oq5fq4lh7d
    @user-oq5fq4lh7d Před 13 dny

    IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT!

  • @lumnmlonyeni821
    @lumnmlonyeni821 Před měsícem +1

    Every 1can say it's self defense

  • @lolieza4411
    @lolieza4411 Před měsícem

    Thank you Afrimax English
    My dear sister tell it to
    Jesus and ask God forgiveness may you find peace in Name of Jesus Christ our only saviour

  • @juju4538
    @juju4538 Před měsícem

    She looks sturdy, either the husband really big and strong or the beatings were equal fights and she just happened to kill him and then claim self defense

  • @IrankudaMireille-gd3nz

    Leave marriage not kill

  • @sheenahammond1442
    @sheenahammond1442 Před měsícem +1

    So he died from a leg wound

  • @user-cy7ux3vy7t
    @user-cy7ux3vy7t Před měsícem

    Pls this is a lesson to parents n u children when u grow in such a home learn to run to God to deliver n help u with prayers not to be like that bc u knew it was not a gd experience n u too started if they kill ur child just like that will u be happy?so now what next what are u thinking about ur children's future bc they saw it n they like to copy go to a read man of God let him or her deliver them bc they will also grow to be abusive husbands even kill but God forbid look for a way u have no excuse we should aways run to God Mtt11:28-30

  • @laurakamau5214
    @laurakamau5214 Před měsícem +2

    Tuliacha ukisema umeheal what happened na vile unapeanga watu hope

    • @GraceKibandi-rf1rj
      @GraceKibandi-rf1rj Před měsícem +3

      I have heald dear. Memories ndio shida. Anyway z I'm good

    • @laurakamau5214
      @laurakamau5214 Před měsícem +1

      @@GraceKibandi-rf1rj oooh sorry memories by the way husumbua mtu it's heard to forget

    • @josekioni1423
      @josekioni1423 Před měsícem +1

      @gracekibandi you are really strong and step by step the bad memories will fade away.

  • @LoveJesus-gm1vz
    @LoveJesus-gm1vz Před 12 dny

    Jesus loves you my sister,all is well

  • @WwEe-qc7tc
    @WwEe-qc7tc Před měsícem

    What i know is that no one can see and listen her well, and understand her well course she was not ready for what happened at that time course her man stabbed her and she definitely defense her self and stabbed him but she didn't planned but it's like an accident to that man if she was ready she couldn't agree to go to prison while knowing that she was pregnant but it's something happened unexpectedly

  • @dorisflorenceokila6963
    @dorisflorenceokila6963 Před měsícem

    Why did you have to do that

  • @NG-nw9lv
    @NG-nw9lv Před měsícem +1

    She didn't of to kill the man she could just walk away find some other alternative to get away instead of killing him

    • @edithamadi5551
      @edithamadi5551 Před měsícem +5

      She would have been the one dead. She was defending herself

    • @ThePoeticGoddess
      @ThePoeticGoddess Před měsícem +1

      Given the fact that she stabbed him on the leg, I highly doubt that she INTENDED to KILL him. That’s probably why she still cries about it. Unfortunately, he put her in a dangerous situation and her survival instincts kicked in. He DID stab her first, by the way. She defended herself.

  • @tshepialletta3482
    @tshepialletta3482 Před 18 dny

    You know some men will make you crazy the abuse and cheating men will make you psycho path reason I choose to be alone sorry dear

  • @judithlejalearnmore2236
    @judithlejalearnmore2236 Před měsícem

    Hivi ulipata Bwana mwengine ndio umuue pia Mtoto wa mtu ulinunua hivi watoto hawana baba Hii kabila kwa kuuwa iko juu🤺

  • @mariekimbi
    @mariekimbi Před 24 dny

    I understand because I have been there 😢with such barbaric men

  • @sheenahammond1442
    @sheenahammond1442 Před měsícem

    Shame these places still have no jobs

  • @Ebbie-pw5xx
    @Ebbie-pw5xx Před 13 dny

    Why u never share their WhatsApp numbers so we can send money to them directly without any middleman involved.

  • @yolandapaulinoii5141
    @yolandapaulinoii5141 Před měsícem

    ❤🇦🇴🇦🇴🙏🏿

  • @ennypheladimaponya3699
    @ennypheladimaponya3699 Před měsícem

    Abuse