How To Stand For Your Marriage Alone

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  • čas přidán 9. 07. 2024
  • It IS possible to stand for your marriage alone.
    Now, it might seem impossible, it might seem crazy, (and you might not know where to start)
    but it can just take one spouse wanting to save the marriage to actually start saving the marriage.
    But you can’t stay where you are- you need to stand. You need to be strong and grounded even when life doesn’t go your way; even if your spouse is cold or distant. You need to do something to create change- even just within yourself.
    But what more can you do? Where do you start!?
    your.marriagehelper.com/how-t...
    Start by knowing you can’t “force” your spouse to change. Start by getting up and focusing on what you can do to move forward. Yes, your marriage is important- we believe this wholeheartedly and want to help you save your marriage- but it is not the only thing that brings value to your life. You are still a father, mother, son, daughter, friend, co-worker, boss. Don’t forget that there are people that need you.
    When you’re only focused on what’s going wrong…when you’re anxious, when you’re depressed, you can lose sight of people around you and you can lose sight of what you can start doing.
    The people we’ve worked with who have SAVED their marriage had one thing in common: one spouse wanted out of the marriage but the other spouse, wanting to save it:
    -stuck with it long enough
    -was willing to make changes,
    - and made changes within themself
    One spouse was willing to do these things and made it possible for the two of them to come back together.
    Here’s what you can do starting today.
    Get calm so you won’t react in a frazzled state and remove all of the negative influences in your life (people, social media.)
    Get focused and recenter yourself. Do the right things to move forward. Work on yourself; work on your PIES [ Check out the PIES Video Here: marriagehelper.com/the-4-ways... ]
    Stop doing things that “push” your spouse away and start using SMART contact to establish POSITIVE communication [Check out the SMART Contact Video Here: marriagehelper.com/save-your-... ]
    Get ready for change to happen. Hopefully in your marriage, but definitely in yourself. Believe that it is possible & believe that it is worth it… that there’s hope, that there’s a future. And, make a way for change to happen. It will be painful- it may be the worst thing you’ve gone through, but use the situation to grow; to become a better person. Become someone who GROWS during hardship- a new, better person, and hopefully a better marriage.
    Want to hear how one woman saved her marriage even after 4 years of her husband living thousands of miles away? Check out (10:26).
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Komentáře • 599

  • @mgoodlin1
    @mgoodlin1 Před 3 lety +270

    I don't know if you will see this but I want to thank you. Most of all for helping me keep hope alive. I was separated for nearly 4 months. My wife comes back TODAY!!! I didn't do it perfect but I followed your PIES. Made changes to myself to stop being controlling. Your advice WORKS. My Wife was slow to see the changes but she did a 180 and is coming back home today to stay. Your videos really kept me going during some dark days. Thank you for helping me with hope and to not give up!.

  • @clintmiller8579
    @clintmiller8579 Před 3 lety +139

    I’m standing for my marriage. I need tons of prayers! I’m not giving up. I don’t think she is either. We talk everyday, we text everyday, I believe God will save my marriage. I need everyone here to pray for me and Lacey!

  • @tyrinp6882
    @tyrinp6882 Před 3 lety +129

    The most painful thing is to stand alone for a marriage when your partner doesn’t care😢

  • @johnmshaw49
    @johnmshaw49 Před 4 lety +124

    Been standing for two-and-a-half years. I have no intention of stopping

    • @kimjd2
      @kimjd2 Před 4 lety +5

      John Shaw Me too! Almost 2 years! 💪🏼

    • @angelinabaranova2099
      @angelinabaranova2099 Před 4 lety +4

      Pathetic

    • @St.Irenaeus
      @St.Irenaeus Před 4 lety +27

      @@angelinabaranova2099 your comment is pathetic

    • @St.Irenaeus
      @St.Irenaeus Před 4 lety +5

      Good for you john god bless i hope your marriage thrives

    • @jefflep1
      @jefflep1 Před 4 lety +4

      I love this. Thank you!!!

  • @katiebr
    @katiebr Před 4 lety +160

    This channel is my last and only hope , very inspiring! For those who are standing for your marriage, like me, you’re not standing alone, Christ is standing with you! This morning I cried to God that I’m done with this husband!! I’m tired to try... but when I watch this I have a little hope, the best Channel and professionals I’ve ever seen!!! hard to do it, so hard!’ God help us all!!!

  • @TimMillernapavalleyfilmworks

    I'm standing alone for my marriage. It's been seven months and she is finally starting some marriage counseling. I returned to church, started working on myself. Please pray for our family of four 🙏

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 Před 2 lety

      ✛2347030894892(☉。☉)!!!

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 Před 2 lety

      Hello this really works for me. I know of a man| who helped me bring my ex back, he can aIso heIp you, he does a perfect work I'm assuring you, you gonna testify

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 Před 2 lety

      Wha'tsapp him for help

    • @LavenderGardenia
      @LavenderGardenia Před rokem

      How are things going brother?

    • @TimMillernapavalleyfilmworks
      @TimMillernapavalleyfilmworks Před rokem

      @@LavenderGardenia unfortunately divorced but hopeful to find someone new!

  • @mattcastro1093
    @mattcastro1093 Před 3 lety +60

    My wife wants out of the marriage. I do understand why. I wasn't the best husband or parent. I've realized that too late. Prayers well needed here. I don't want to lose my family...

  • @mrhunterf2869
    @mrhunterf2869 Před 4 lety +29

    Thank you so much Kimberley my wife and I have been married 8 years and she left me August last year. I'm a Christian and I'm believing God to help me. I'm not going to stop standing for my marriage.

  • @pumkinlove6056
    @pumkinlove6056 Před 4 lety +50

    I whole heartly believe my marriage will be saved. It's just extremely difficult to not be impulsive. The waiting process is very lonely. Thank you sharing the advice. I was extremely lost but now at least I know where to start. Prayers for all whom are here. God and love conquer all.🙏🙏🙏💕

    • @BdDaBOMB
      @BdDaBOMB Před 2 lety

      I'm of the younger generation, as a Male I am uncertain how to put some wisdom in the wife & oversee and letting her do what she's going to do because no one will instruct me on what are the Wholistic ways to use a woman & what are her true roles?
      Forgive the baseness of my concern but it is foundational to seek to know this.

    • @sunshineorraiin
      @sunshineorraiin Před 2 lety +5

      How is your marriage now? Did it get saved? I’m currently on 2.5 weeks of a separation, and I’m terrified. Trying to have faith in God.

    • @jerryanddiannedennison5644
      @jerryanddiannedennison5644 Před rokem

      @@BdDaBOMB sir, you do need help if what you think the way you stated. Don't give up. Keep studying and listening to these marriage help coaching videos. Best wishes.

  • @saraszerlag6916
    @saraszerlag6916 Před 4 lety +28

    I feel like Kimberly was talking directly to me in this video. This is so hard. But I’m going to be strong, calm, and gentle. I’m all I got right now, and if he comes back, I will be his safe place to land.

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Před 4 lety +5

      Sara, we know that it can be painful. But, there IS hope. You can do this!

  • @cindycastaneda320
    @cindycastaneda320 Před 4 lety +32

    So much prayer. Main hurdle is when we take several steps forward and then he pulls back. Another setback is passage of time as it’s hard to stay hopeful the more time that passes and the more that we both get used to being apart. Thank you for this story of hope.

  • @MarkieMcG.
    @MarkieMcG. Před rokem +10

    I stood. Let my ego go and acknowledged my part in it. We're better than ever. Passion, love, and forgiveness is abundant here.

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Před rokem

      That's amazing!!! So glad things are working out! Let us know if there's anything else we can do for you!

  • @aforjesus2413
    @aforjesus2413 Před 3 lety +45

    Pray for me and my marriage, as I want to stand for my marriage and wish everyone here a blessing to you all. NZ Wellington loves you all.

  • @OhStewardess
    @OhStewardess Před 2 lety +27

    I have been standing for four months now, and I plan to STAND for however long it takes!

    • @codemonkeyguru6779
      @codemonkeyguru6779 Před 2 lety +3

      I've been standing for my marriage for a month. My wife is cold and distant when we're alone but happy when we are surrounded by our children.

    • @ted2136
      @ted2136 Před 2 lety

      @@codemonkeyguru6779 good on you! Any advice for me! I am 4+ months in. And working on me. Struggling with the do something.any ideas from your perspective?

    • @googlecritic2773
      @googlecritic2773 Před 2 lety

      How’s your marriage going?

  • @denisecabral3511
    @denisecabral3511 Před 4 lety +61

    I have been standing for my marriage, prayers and changing myself with Gods help

    • @lipinghe4921
      @lipinghe4921 Před 3 lety +3

      May God heal both of you and restore your marriage in Jesus’s name.

    • @makhrr30
      @makhrr30 Před 3 lety +2

      Don't give up!

    • @nicolefae1956
      @nicolefae1956 Před 3 lety +2

      How’s it going?

    • @makhrr30
      @makhrr30 Před 3 lety

      Just improve yourself.

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 Před 3 lety

      @@nicolefae1956 ___
      I recommend you to someone who helped me attract my wife back to me after separation...

  • @jjwiggs28
    @jjwiggs28 Před 10 měsíci +6

    Im going to stand for my marriage. It will be an uphill battle as I wasn't a good husband, lover or father. I'm turning to God and entering Celebrate Recovery to heal and love myself again. I ask for prayer for my journey. Thank you in advance. 🙏

    • @veronicahancock3245
      @veronicahancock3245 Před měsícem

      How are you doing? Still going to Celebrate Recovery? Hope all is well 😊

  • @nbholladay
    @nbholladay Před 4 lety +26

    There are multiple good suggestions in this video. It occurred to me that one thing that can change us most and that leads us to do the things she has mentioned here is charity-- selfless love: "charity suffereth long, and is kind... seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil...hopeth all things, endureth all things". I am still in the middle of my own crisis, but as she said, I know that at least I have changed. My love for God and others is increasing. I have realized that past mistakes and problems with handling things is that I have been focused on myself rather than them.

  • @joeygavronsky635
    @joeygavronsky635 Před 4 lety +16

    I am praying for my marriage daily..she just ended it 2 weeks ago... I know praying is what I need to do ,we all need to pray for what we want God to do a work in but like a farmer praying for rain is not enough without preparing that field with seeds first ... if we really expect God to do a work in our marriage we must prepare while praying..is there anything God cant fix if we prepare the way as we ask for his help daily.. and then we must say to him God even if my marriage doesn't succeed to where I want it I will still follow you lord.. because in the light of Eternity these worldly things won't matter either way.. most important thing we need to do right now is work on pleasing the God who made you..

  • @MemphisBBQ640
    @MemphisBBQ640 Před 9 měsíci +5

    "...truly, I say to you, if you have faith like a grain of mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move, and nothing will be impossible for you.” --Matthew 17:20

  • @tomculbertson5569
    @tomculbertson5569 Před 3 lety +4

    I wish I had found your help videos before I had made and done so many of the things I shouldn't be doing. At least I have found them now and am very thankful there is someone like you that genuinely is looking to help people save their marriages. Thank you so much for all your heart felt advise. You've given me and others the tools needed to possibly save our marriages and at the very least become a better version of ourselves. Sincerely thank you!

  • @shannonvest2599
    @shannonvest2599 Před rokem +4

    My husband left me a couple weeks ago he suffers with PTSD and other trauma related disorders. He always says it’s me but in my heart I know it’s his own pain and trauma. I am working on myself and trying to be the wife he needs me to be to deal with all of this but it is so hard when he thinks getting away from a 30 year marriage is the only answer. I’m giving him space and it’s so hard, we have leaned on one and other for everything for so long. My daughter is 14 and it’s just so hard to watch her go through this with us. Please pray for our family. I do believe we will be reconciled, it’s just so hard in the meantime

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Před rokem

      Hey @shannonvest2599, so sorry to hear you are going through this. Because of the complexity of this situation, we would strongly advise you reach out to us directly! You can call us at 1 (866) 903 0990 and be connected with one of our Client Representatives who will guide you to the best resources we have available for your situation. You can also schedule the call yourself for a time that works best for you by following this link: marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/
      We look forward to speaking with you directly if you will allow it!

  • @marvinrichardsonj.r.6979

    I'm 2 weeks away from the marriage intensive and can't wait as I'm standing for my marriage alone.

  • @sunshineorraiin
    @sunshineorraiin Před 2 lety +4

    I have been dealing with the temptation to just give up since he left. I don’t want that. I don’t want my marriage to end. I keep reading the Bible to help me, but I’m so absorbed in how I’m feeling that I lose sight on what is important. I feel like I’m becoming bitter and I’m trying to stop that seed from growing.

  • @sherrybyrd9419
    @sherrybyrd9419 Před 3 lety +5

    Having hope during this difficult time means everything. Thank you for your videos.

  • @janetcorpin9765
    @janetcorpin9765 Před 2 lety +6

    I've been standing alone with God to save our marriage for 23 years. I have no plan of giving up. I just come and listen to this video everytime it's difficult for me to handle. I know God is speaking to me through you marriage helper. Thank you.

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 Před 2 lety

      Hello this really works for me. I know of a man| who helped me bring my ex back, he can aIso heIp you, he does a perfect work I'm assuring you, you gonna testify

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 Před 2 lety

      Wha'tsapp him for help

  • @AlexMartinez-dy6qs
    @AlexMartinez-dy6qs Před 11 měsíci +2

    I moved out yesterday. I'm going to be standing alone for my marriage. I will begin the process of healing and recovery. I need prayers please.

  • @papichuloishere9811
    @papichuloishere9811 Před 4 lety +11

    Thank you for putting videos like these out

  • @eriks3883
    @eriks3883 Před 4 lety +4

    I have needed this validation for focusing on others so badly. Thank you.

  • @deniseboynton7913
    @deniseboynton7913 Před 4 lety +11

    I am so happy I found this channel. I am in that place -my identity seems to be wrapped up in my husband and I want to be a better version of myself for me, my kids and of course to save my marriage. ❤️ God bless you for doing these videos-that last story made me cry 😭 of course watching your videos makes me cry.

  • @andrewm2459
    @andrewm2459 Před 2 lety +3

    This is very encouraging. Currently separated and the future is unknown. But this is so helpful if the marriage dissolves or not. These are all good practices to have to just be a better person

  • @mariw2185
    @mariw2185 Před 4 lety +41

    This was amazing! It made me feel excited again! Either way it goes I’ll be alright! ♥️

  • @TrashyJayys
    @TrashyJayys Před 8 měsíci

    I’m glad that I came across this video, I was so selfish in my marriage with my goals and made my wife feel inadequate. We are now separated, but through this month in a half of separation and reflection I realized that I was in the wrong and I want to save my marriage. Right now she doesn’t seem to want it, however I’m holding out faith that in the end that it’ll work. I’m still in love with her and I couldn’t see it then, but I do now. Thank you for the advice!

  • @dicemimics38
    @dicemimics38 Před rokem +3

    I am standing alone for my marriage these videos are helping. I wish I had the money to take the courses. Please send prayers as I work to make the hard changes. I did all of the things you said not to do and they do not work.

  • @eveleneevelene
    @eveleneevelene Před 2 lety +3

    This video gave me a whole new perspective about HOPE. Thank you for sharing, I am so blessed by the testimony

  • @speerbrandi
    @speerbrandi Před 4 lety +14

    I felt like Kimberly was talking directly to me. Im working so hard to save my marriage, if he decides to come back this will be his safe place. Thanks so much for all your videos.

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 Před 3 lety

      ___
      I recommend you to someone who helped me attract my wife back to me after separation...

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 Před 3 lety

      What.sApp him...

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 Před 3 lety

      Thanks__ +2348119132200...

    • @BdDaBOMB
      @BdDaBOMB Před 2 lety

      I'm of the younger generation, as a Male I am uncertain how to put some wisdom in the wife & oversee and letting her do what she's going to do because no one will instruct me on what are the Wholistic ways to use a woman & what are her true roles?
      Forgive the baseness of my concern but it is foundational to seek to know this.

    • @ghhm2705
      @ghhm2705 Před 2 lety +1

      Why are there identical comments like this one posted by different users? Bot much?

  • @vidasnyder
    @vidasnyder Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you! I am encouraged! ❤️

  • @alanpyropyro7707
    @alanpyropyro7707 Před 2 lety +2

    I am Watching this Video And I will stand of For My Marriage and give my Partner Time 💪 . Time will tell I won't give up

  • @neighbors_pta3239
    @neighbors_pta3239 Před rokem +2

    Today starts when I choose to stand for my marriage when everything feels so hopeless and impossible.

  • @ryanrobertson8951
    @ryanrobertson8951 Před 9 měsíci

    Listening to these gives me hope. Even if it's unrealistic hope, I'll take whatever keeps me from giving up on my life.

  • @mace2gorc872
    @mace2gorc872 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I needed to hear the lady's story today. My situation really feels hopeless. My wife recently told me some very hurtful things on top of reminding me of many of the bad things i did. My situation isnt even as bad as some of these stories, but my wife wants nothing to with reconciliation. It hurts and im doing my best to stand for my marriage, but some days i feel i juat cant go on.

  • @komododragon4242
    @komododragon4242 Před 2 lety +1

    After watching this video I realized how selfish I was. My wife is terrible with money, but she is my wife. I gave her an allowance. I now realized how demeaning that was to her.
    That allowance started pushing her away.
    I'll put to work the other suggestions and update this post.
    I love her so much.

  • @minmyochit6689
    @minmyochit6689 Před 2 lety +2

    Thanks a lot for this advice.

  • @kimjd2
    @kimjd2 Před 4 lety +8

    Thanks for another great video! My marriage has been “over” nearly 2 years now. What a twisted mess! A story of husband being in limerance with a narcissist 😔. But I have hope.... once in a while I get glimpses and I refuse to quit standing. 💪🏼🙏

  • @floroseguillermo9533
    @floroseguillermo9533 Před 4 lety +2

    wow....thank you ma'am..God will fight for you..

  • @user-pj1wp8lm3t
    @user-pj1wp8lm3t Před 11 měsíci +2

    My wife is in a relationship but I'm standing tall she wants to be friends and work on our selves had to go with that idea now we talk

  • @rpjcpa
    @rpjcpa Před 4 lety +3

    This is so helpful. It came at the right time for me. Thanks Marriage Helper!!

  • @jeffryanpangatungan4868
    @jeffryanpangatungan4868 Před 3 lety +8

    Thank you. I am fighting my marriage life on my own. Still hoping that one day everything will come back to normal.

    • @euliebernette4108
      @euliebernette4108 Před 3 lety

      Hello I know of someone who can help you he helped me get my ex back and he can also help you too

    • @euliebernette4108
      @euliebernette4108 Před 3 lety

      Whtspp him

    • @euliebernette4108
      @euliebernette4108 Před 3 lety

      +1,,,,,8,,,1,,,,6,,,,3,,,,4,,,,3,,,,8,,,3,,,,,,0,,,,7

    • @ghhm2705
      @ghhm2705 Před 2 lety

      @@euliebernette4108 stop with your spam

  • @geraldbannan434
    @geraldbannan434 Před 2 lety +4

    Not giving up on my marriage but it feels like I'm fighting a losing battle

  • @royrodgers567
    @royrodgers567 Před rokem +2

    I'm 6 months in and so far the worst parts are waiting, loneliness in the bed, fighting the thoughts of what "they" are doing, talking with her on the phone and hearing him right next to her, most of the time she won't talk unless her AP is right there, and more waiting.

  • @emiliardrichard4095
    @emiliardrichard4095 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for giving me hope i'm trying to stay possitif and be strong but it's very hard your video's inspires me to keep fighting

  • @bendudavies3368
    @bendudavies3368 Před 5 měsíci

    I was just giving up.trying to tell my partner that I need a divorce tomorrow.but I was looking for a way to present it.then I came to ur video that just changed my mind.thanks so much I'm watching from Liberia

  • @normaferguson8369
    @normaferguson8369 Před 27 dny

    Thank you for your words of inspiration. 🙏🏽

  • @chrisburton5584
    @chrisburton5584 Před 3 lety +1

    I am standing for our marriage.

  • @michellesooklal4111
    @michellesooklal4111 Před 4 lety +2

    I have been standing for my marriage and will continue too

  • @dawnlapka3782
    @dawnlapka3782 Před 2 lety +1

    I can't tell you if he wants out or not. I can only say that these things that you are saying are in line with my Faith Values and that trying to be the best that I can be now before we get married, because hoping that things work out is better than becoming a hermit. This is my 2nd marital partner in my life. I know that he's the right person for me.

  • @RichardTClark396
    @RichardTClark396 Před rokem +1

    I’m doing it ! my spouse filed after 30 years right out of the blue I’m devestated but I take wedding vows serious . It takes two to make it work but at moment I’m all alone . Absolutely devastated!😢

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Před rokem

      Hey Elizabeth Coburg, so sorry to hear you are going through this. Because of the complexity of this situation, we would strongly advise you reach out to us directly! You can call us at 1 (866) 903 0990 and be connected with one of our Client Representatives who will guide you to the best resources we have available for your situation. You can also schedule the call yourself for a time that works best for you by following this link: marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/
      We look forward to speaking with you directly if you will allow it!

  • @EagleVireo
    @EagleVireo Před 11 měsíci +2

    I’m on the brink of divorce, I have made some mistakes that I’m trying to atone for, my wife is not cooperating and is already moved on and dating other people. I can say I have a little flicker of hope.

  • @sheelaraj9645
    @sheelaraj9645 Před 4 lety +3

    GOD BLESS YOU 🙌& UR TEAM🙌🙏

  • @valclub479
    @valclub479 Před 3 lety +3

    Better advice for me then PIES. Thank you

  • @torres7918
    @torres7918 Před 4 lety +16

    wow, I'm going through this right now, I am 40 years old and have been with my wife since i was 17.5 years old, 6 months ago she tells me she wants to separate, I went ape shit ,because I have been with her 22.5 years and my identity is tied to her, i have no idea how to move forward and i do not want to i still love her and have feelings for her, is been 6 months and 6 days, i am very depressed and have lost 59lbs, we communicate because of the kids, but it is the worst thing I have ever gone through, my life seem awesome before all this, life was great. now I'm lost without her and want happiness again in my life but it doesn't seem possible.

    • @4thsolutions105
      @4thsolutions105 Před 3 lety +4

      It's the worst feeling ever, am going thru the same staff right now

    • @jeroenboekhoorn
      @jeroenboekhoorn Před 3 lety +2

      Focus on God and the plans he has for your life. I’m a stander too but God can turn around this awful situation and bring her back but you have to thrust him

    • @efthimios
      @efthimios Před 3 lety +1

      Gerald same here. she met someone at 48 at work and acts like she doesnt know me now. The identity comment you made opened my eyes maybe thats the problem.

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 Před 3 lety +1

      @@efthimios ___
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  • @caydewalker9449
    @caydewalker9449 Před 3 lety +2

    Been married for over 3 years. My wife filed for divorce while being deployed. I’m standing for my marriage. It’s hard. I’m not going to lie. It hit me hard, it hit me out of nowhere, I worked nonstop every day and took care of our child by myself. These videos are helping me keep focus. She dropped it on me on our 3rd anniversary. Not religious. I’m wanting our marriage because it’s what I believe is the best for my child, wife and myself.

    • @halimataliyu3316
      @halimataliyu3316 Před 2 lety

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  • @treschicmama6293
    @treschicmama6293 Před 3 lety +6

    This is really the advise I needed right now. Especially in times when I feel like giving up

    • @euliebernette4108
      @euliebernette4108 Před 3 lety

      Hello to whom it may concern I can recommend you to someone that helped me fix my broken marriage and he can also help you as he did mine too ✅✅🇺🇸🇺🇸

    • @euliebernette4108
      @euliebernette4108 Před 3 lety

      Whtspp for help

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      @euliebernette4108 Před 3 lety

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  • @freddavidson286
    @freddavidson286 Před 5 měsíci

    Father im not giving up on my marriage it is in your hands please heal and change has only you can

  • @olujideolusola
    @olujideolusola Před 3 lety

    Very inspiring to watch this video

  • @queenjosannedouglas3038
    @queenjosannedouglas3038 Před 3 lety +1

    Yessssssss because Of the environment I am living in and the influence of toxic People they walked out on me seriously and Truthfully

  • @Kelly-ps3ci
    @Kelly-ps3ci Před 4 lety +4

    Brings me to tears each time I hear the story of the one that waited 4 years. Standing is hard, long at times but I know it will be worth it. This may seem weird but I love my H more each day during my stand.

  • @papijay84
    @papijay84 Před 2 lety +2

    I am standing right now for a few weeks, it's been really difficult since she seem to be grossed by me and my voice, I've been praying for it and my kids but it can be overwhelming and I'm afraid that it is going to be longer than I can think.

  • @nolayupsgolf716
    @nolayupsgolf716 Před 3 lety +2

    These videos have helped me so much today. Today the real fight begins. I'm not ready to let go

    • @okayshe8681
      @okayshe8681 Před 3 lety

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  • @stevenkilage4920
    @stevenkilage4920 Před rokem +1

    Thank you this has really helped me love ❤️ you I will work on myself and let my wife come back when she's ready

    • @joanwater2050
      @joanwater2050 Před rokem

      I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated 💔 for months. All thanks to Mr Steve whom helped me to get back my ex again, Also he attract soulmate and SP, removing third party. I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours

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      @joanwater2050 Před rokem

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  • @ingridaccount
    @ingridaccount Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you Marriage Helper!

  • @stevennorris9575
    @stevennorris9575 Před 3 lety +3

    Obviously it hasn't been easy to stand humbly vulnerable for redemption and possible reconciliation of the marriage I once had with my ex-wife for the glory of God,and ministry of healing.Though I know that I've been working on being rest assured from love in God.

  • @gracenowases345
    @gracenowases345 Před 2 lety

    @3:42. I've been standing through all this alone for my marriage

  • @deepikaraj6866
    @deepikaraj6866 Před 2 lety +1

    I stand for my marriage...

  • @singingspree84
    @singingspree84 Před 4 lety +4

    Read “it is not suppose to be this way.” It will help with dealing with grief and acceptance from a Christian perspective.

  • @JacobHerrman-sh4dz
    @JacobHerrman-sh4dz Před 25 dny +1

    Stand on it. Until it's gone

  • @ClintonGalton
    @ClintonGalton Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for all you did for my life!

  • @williambernaby7523
    @williambernaby7523 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you. You are doing such a wonderful job saving marriages. Mine is on the brink of a divorce but am trusting on God to restore. God bless..

    • @estheragbo6153
      @estheragbo6153 Před 2 lety

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      @estheragbo6153 Před 2 lety

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    • @googlecritic2773
      @googlecritic2773 Před 2 lety

      How’s your marriage going?

  • @MrNormandaniel
    @MrNormandaniel Před 3 měsíci

    My wife took my whole life, my kids, her side of the family, all my money, I saw last week she’s already selling anniversary jewelry I bought her, left every gift I made or gave her since highschool and left it all in a storage unit we share out of town 13:01

  • @deborahpaul5227
    @deborahpaul5227 Před rokem +2

    18 months separated with no financial support so my life is work & paying bills. except for going to work & church, I can’t go anywhere bc don’t have $. So I’m stuck home by myself in the house & bed I shared with H with only tv. H wants nothing to do with me.

  • @juanmadera5180
    @juanmadera5180 Před 4 lety +11

    Im standind alone for marriage... my wife have separeted from me since 4/1/2020..... and i miss her so much... i cant even have fun. I try yesterday and just kept thinking on my wife... and then i have to go to an empty apartment.

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 Před 3 lety

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    • @robina3443
      @robina3443 Před 6 měsíci

      I feel the going to an empty apartment - it is the worst.

  • @michaelhammermeister1655
    @michaelhammermeister1655 Před 3 lety +3

    I have had an affair, I have lied, I have cheated. We "worked" past it then everything became an issue. She finally asked for space. Found out she is now seeing another guy. I am changing, found my religion again, seeing a therapist. I am changing to be a better man, I am changing to be the man she and my kids deserve. I am standing alone, I will continue to stand and will always stand no matter what. Thank you for your wise words!

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 Před 3 lety

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    • @halimataliyu3316
      @halimataliyu3316 Před 2 lety

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  • @ahindle78
    @ahindle78 Před 4 lety +8

    My husband has been in another state living with this women for 4 months now and I am working on myself but when he does text or I text back about finances or the dog he is still short and cold. The girlfriend is still playing games on social media as well but I ignore it. I pray multiple times a day for him to come home

  • @gogogibeautyvlog9959
    @gogogibeautyvlog9959 Před rokem

    I love what you real say in this video it makes me helps more strong to stand alone with my merraige at this time and hopefully my merraige soon it well be okay morethan before

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Před rokem

      Thank you so much Gigigogi🥰. We truly appreciate your comment and are grateful to have you as part of our community here on CZcams. Please, don't hesitate to reach out to us if there's anything else we can do for you. marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/
      Blessings,

  • @genasoriano559
    @genasoriano559 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you very much for helping us with your powerful positive video messages in Marriage. I really love your advice.

    • @BdDaBOMB
      @BdDaBOMB Před 2 lety

      I'm of the younger generation, as a Male I am uncertain how to put some wisdom in the wife & oversee and letting her do what she's going to do because no one will instruct me on what are the Wholistic ways to use a woman & what are her true roles?
      Forgive the baseness of my concern but it is foundational to seek to know this.

    • @halimataliyu3316
      @halimataliyu3316 Před 2 lety

      I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems.......

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  • @felipevillegas1031
    @felipevillegas1031 Před 3 lety +3

    I'm standing for our marriage alone. I'm defending the divorce petition of my wife in court!
    I do believed something wrong with my wife mental and emotional health because if self neglect.

    • @clintmiller8579
      @clintmiller8579 Před 3 lety +2

      Keep working my friend. God will save your marriage with prayer and hard work. I, myself, am in counseling for my emotional Heath issue. Just have faith and pray for your wife!

    • @felipevillegas1031
      @felipevillegas1031 Před 2 lety +1

      @@clintmiller8579 I won't loose hope!
      I love my family!I need to protect my kids!
      I'm away from home,anyway so no need to
      approved the divorce petition!
      I believe my wife will be enlighten in time,
      I'm not doing this for myself,it's for our kids
      and our family!GOD has its own way!
      Nothing is impossible to HIM!

  • @joeyfisher68
    @joeyfisher68 Před 3 lety +3

    I have been seeing a therapist and grooming better . .have been separated. . .and went anxiety crazy n pushed her far away, now I have moved out but went over and held her when she had a very rough day . She wants to be friends but saving the marriage is not on the table . .nights alone are the worst . .can't eat can't sleep . And have to force myself to minimize contact all the time . .I wish I had a sign that there was hope

    • @cassielindsey4970
      @cassielindsey4970 Před 3 lety

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  • @biblefirst5691
    @biblefirst5691 Před rokem

    I will stay calm .. I will fight through this by the Grace and Power of God I will change.

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Před rokem

      Hey @biblefirst5691, Just out of curiosity, have you taken advantage of our free mini course? We know times are tough and want to provide as much as we can to you free of charge. That's why we created this free mini course. It will teach you how to get your spouse back and give you a plan moving forward! You can get access to it directly by following this link:
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    • @biblefirst5691
      @biblefirst5691 Před rokem

      @@MarriageHelper Yes I have ! It was great. Thank you for contacting me and reaching out.

    • @biblefirst5691
      @biblefirst5691 Před rokem

      @@MarriageHelper Is their a phone number to talk to a coach for advice?

  • @jasminewilliams5
    @jasminewilliams5 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you so much I needed this.

  • @cherrymeed.sanchez9271
    @cherrymeed.sanchez9271 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for this

  • @po5541
    @po5541 Před rokem

    There's always hope

  • @SRave69
    @SRave69 Před rokem +1

    Breathed a little life back into with this. My wife has said she doesn't want that marriage back. And neither do I. That marriage was no good for either of us. I want new and improved. She has recently filed change of address taking over her own bills and so on. That hurt. That tells me shes out. And moving on. But I'm not. She hasn't filed yet. So like to believe there's a slim chance. But still preparing for the other outcome

    • @joanwater2050
      @joanwater2050 Před rokem

      My ex came back to me a few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back. Also attracting SP, soulmate, and removing Third parties which works within 48hours...

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      @joanwater2050 Před rokem

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  • @beodinepedro360
    @beodinepedro360 Před 3 lety

    Thank you

    • @halimataliyu3316
      @halimataliyu3316 Před 2 lety

      I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems.......

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  • @coachkelly116
    @coachkelly116 Před rokem +1

    He says he is done, has removed his ring and filing next pay-day. He says I snapped out of my depression too late and doing all he has ever wanted me to do only shows we can amicably share custody. I told him I still keep praying and believing for reconciliation. He says he can't stop me from praying but it's too late. I told him it is never too late.

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Před rokem

      Hey Coach Kelly, so sorry to hear you are going through this. Because of the complexity of this situation, we would strongly advise you reach out to us directly! You can call us at 1 (866) 903 0990 and be connected with one of our Client Representatives who will guide you to the best resources we have available for your situation. You can also schedule the call yourself for a time that works best for you by following this link: marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/
      We look forward to speaking with you directly if you will allow it!

  • @EricaPinkLady
    @EricaPinkLady Před 4 lety +6

    Yes, I'm stuck trying to get myself out of it.

    • @calgal7828
      @calgal7828 Před 4 lety

      Erica Hermann Me too...

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 Před 3 lety

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    • @calgal7828
      @calgal7828 Před 3 lety

      @@bailynewcity2069 Thanks but no thanks.I got him back but I’m sorry I did!

  • @user-mj1ht1tw2w
    @user-mj1ht1tw2w Před rokem

    Je suis toujours calme et respectueux a tout niveaux

  • @BBSAXX
    @BBSAXX Před 4 měsíci

    One can only try so hard to save the marriage, especially if there was an unsettled affair on the other side.

  • @darinhannay1324
    @darinhannay1324 Před 2 lety +1

    I love you all and I will pray for all of you because like you i also need to be a better husband and father.....I'm not giving up either

    • @ruthokpere4344
      @ruthokpere4344 Před 2 lety

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    • @ruthokpere4344
      @ruthokpere4344 Před 2 lety

      Mr Muduguru is the best when it comes to recovery relationship, he recover mine and he can also help you.

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      @ruthokpere4344 Před 2 lety

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  • @4thsolutions105
    @4thsolutions105 Před 3 lety +2

    It's the worst feeling ever, standing alone for my marriage, this really hurts, but am not giving up or her, not at all

    • @4thsolutions105
      @4thsolutions105 Před 3 lety

      I would like that so much, what is the process, how does it work

  • @Celestin566
    @Celestin566 Před rokem

    Thank you this gives me hope to keep standing for my marriage. Is there a video of the woman you shared her testimony. I would like to hear the woman testimony and how she got through.

    • @mwjc2
      @mwjc2 Před rokem

      Yes, me too; how can we hear from that woman? That is way too close to my situation as well.

  • @josephf6381
    @josephf6381 Před 4 lety +1

    My wife and I still are communicating but she is still cold and talking about how she will protect herself by getting a job just in case i make her mad again. We spoke today and was very informative but I wanted so bad to tell her how I felt she hurt me and why i was frustrated with her and that she should take responsibility for what she have done. But I jusy sat and held it in. Is this this right thing to do while things are rocky?