Marriage Helper LIVE: Attracting Your Spouse Back: With Dr. Joe Beam - Episode 03

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    Today's Topics:
    -How can you attract your spouse back to you?
    -How can children affect a marriage?
    -How can you improve your emotional attractiveness?
    -How do you strengthen and develop in the area of being able to articulate and connect emotionally with your spouse?
    -What to do for a spouse who feels attacked and doesn't want to change.
    -What does it take to make true changes that last?
    -How to save a marriage that doesn't involve children.
    -How can you trust again after an affair has happened?
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Komentáře • 167

  • @presidenttrumplegitwon.8845

    This is true, working on yourself in those areas is the most impactful way for the both of you, it's going to make you happy, it's going to draw them back to you and want you more because they will want what you have, and in turn will make you even happier in which in turn will make them fall even deeper in love with you and turns into a constant challenge of who loves who more. It's amazing and has worked for me, my wife went as far as getting papers and started filling them out. To reconciling and talking about more children.

    • @dhangsommers
      @dhangsommers Před 2 lety +4

      How long Did IT take For you for the pies to Work.

    • @mevzarriola555
      @mevzarriola555 Před 2 lety

      Yes true

    • @lincolnearnest8910
      @lincolnearnest8910 Před 2 lety +1

      But that's wrong, because then I'm just being used for what I have, right? Shouldn't a spouse be with their spouse because they wanted their spouse?

  • @asamusicdude
    @asamusicdude Před 2 lety +10

    This is interesting I'm here a yr later and still standing for my marriage.I've realized I've been communicating and doing the PIES very efficiently the only thing left is my new full time job coming up along with the part time I've had. My wife is still as cold and ever but i use her bad words as gymfuel.I know things will get better Praise God. I feel super confident!

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Před 2 lety +3

      Hey asamusicdude! It sounds like something that could be extremely beneficial to you would be our SMART Contact Toolkit. This will teach you exactly what to do to start rebuilding healthy communication with your spouse! Highly recommend you consider checking it out here: marriagehelper.com/product/smart-contact-toolkit-product/
      We truly hope it helps you and so thankful you have found the PIES to be helpful! You've got this!

  • @jonahpomraning8952
    @jonahpomraning8952 Před 5 lety +13

    Wounds are fresh right now but I am showing that i am not trying to argue with her

  • @aprilstaley8882
    @aprilstaley8882 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Irreconcilable differences, is what my husband and I both have put on divorce papers but to me thats a lie😢 we were happily married 13 years the last 10 have been bad and I started that break and im the one standing now that ill give him the divorce because he says he needs it but I don't want to give up

  • @hollymaxwellboydell
    @hollymaxwellboydell Před 2 lety +3

    This is lovely. Learning to love ourselves, to be whole, and to love one another unconditionally is so key. 🌹 Thank you for teaching and helping to save marriages. ♥️

  • @rubencandelaria9093
    @rubencandelaria9093 Před 9 měsíci +2

    What can I do when your past is ruining ur marriage and the love is falling apart

  • @2012JustUs
    @2012JustUs Před 4 lety +5

    This information is amazing. I’ve been working on myself and fixing my marriage.

  • @kimora7964
    @kimora7964 Před 6 měsíci +1

    This channel is helping marriages ❤

  • @christiangonzalez4847
    @christiangonzalez4847 Před 3 lety +4

    thank you. I highly appreciate your time.

  • @rubencandelaria9093
    @rubencandelaria9093 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I've been working on my past and forgiving everyone I've been trying and u want to work things out

  • @mjperfume1523
    @mjperfume1523 Před rokem +5

    He has a very quick temper always ready to jump on me if i make any mistake

    • @nancyparra5741
      @nancyparra5741 Před rokem

      In another video he talks about is your married to a good man doing a bad thing or a bad man doing a bad thing. What is the difference and should you work at keeping that partner.

  • @phyllishicks2853
    @phyllishicks2853 Před 4 lety +9

    How can I forgive my cheating spouse if he will not give me any proof he is no longer cheating?

    • @lukeagelica9470
      @lukeagelica9470 Před 4 lety

      I know someone who can help you

    • @Nitronerd
      @Nitronerd Před 4 lety +6

      Forgiveness is not contingent on what the forgivee is doing or does; forgiveness is about what you do.

    • @camillagonzales2409
      @camillagonzales2409 Před 2 lety +1

      You can’t. Especially if nothing has changed and there are no consequences for his behavior. There has to be proof that, if he doesn’t behave in a way that makes you feel safe, his life changes. No access to all his devices/whereabouts at any time? no sex with you, move out of the bedroom. Refuses counseling? File for legal separation. Still works with his AP? Doesn’t quit his job or transfer? File for divorce. Don’t argue or even discuss, just do. It’s up to him to keep the marriage from becoming constant torture-fest that keeps you from healing. Of course, you can choose to live this “lifestyle” or choose to play hardball.

  • @katiebr
    @katiebr Před 4 lety +3

    I’m reading this book, really good!! I learn so much from you guys!!!! God bless for all the marriages you’re helping!

  • @jonm.3133
    @jonm.3133 Před 3 lety +7

    Is there a schedule of when these stream live? I've been watching them after the fact. I'm already subscribed.

  • @mjperfume1523
    @mjperfume1523 Před rokem +2

    Do u still have a workshop for keeping your marriage alive? This course was on black Friday

  • @AustinKloud
    @AustinKloud Před 2 lety +3

    I wish I could save my marriage- my wife’s Limerence love has taken her from our home. She has left our children with me and she has stated she has found her soulmate.

    • @wendymann7929
      @wendymann7929 Před 2 lety

      I'm so so sorry

    • @yvettecisneros4421
      @yvettecisneros4421 Před 2 lety

      I think the same is happening with me. My husband started texting a women he met when he was out of town. He had to go back to her town last week, slept with her and now he is back home, he won't come back into the house, is very guilty but has been communicating with her via texting. I fear it is now emotional since he doesn't want to be here at home. Granted she lives in a different state, still emotional, and it sucks

  • @drn316
    @drn316 Před 5 lety +3

    He spoke at Palm Valley Church, he’d make an amazing pastor

  • @jailosa9602
    @jailosa9602 Před 3 lety +5

    I want to be feel attractive

  • @bryonhook9662
    @bryonhook9662 Před rokem +3

    What if my wife says she doesn't trust me emotionally? How do you build that emotional trust...?

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Před rokem

      Hey Bryon Hook, so sorry to hear you are going through this. Because of the complexity of this situation, we would strongly advise you reach out to us directly! You can call us at 1 (866) 903 0990 and be connected with one of our Client Representatives who will guide you to the best resources we have available for your situation. You can also schedule the call yourself for a time that works best for you by following this link: marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/
      We look forward to speaking with you directly if you will allow it!

  • @tericarbaugh5427
    @tericarbaugh5427 Před 3 lety +2

    Also I pray every day n I also got a lawyer but I love him so very much not knowing wht to do when he's in there

  • @user-mj1ht1tw2w
    @user-mj1ht1tw2w Před rokem +1

    Vraiment je fais ce que je peut que ça soit comment c'est autant bien avoir ou ne pas avoir c'est bien Dieu est grand que nous donne toujours la force et la foie de mieux gérer la l'amour oui merci

  • @annyoliveros3322
    @annyoliveros3322 Před 4 lety +2

    Love this video and learning a lot from you guys! And I love the couple tshirts!

  • @lincolnearnest8910
    @lincolnearnest8910 Před 2 lety +2

    Noone wants to be or feel used. I don't.

  • @valenciabell9679
    @valenciabell9679 Před 5 lety +1

    What made you decide to go back to Alice?

  • @paulcowles998
    @paulcowles998 Před 2 lety +2

    Thanks for your videos

  • @mjperfume1523
    @mjperfume1523 Před rokem +1

    My husband will never be attracted to me today he said me to get out

  • @paulbarrett4868
    @paulbarrett4868 Před 5 lety +2

    I’m in the UK, separated for 7 months now and living apart with a 4 yr old daughter and managing 50/50 care of her. is there any recognised workshops here. Tried relate towards the end of our marriage but didn’t feel it focused on the ‘marriage’.

    • @muktarumar9866
      @muktarumar9866 Před 2 lety

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      @muktarumar9866 Před 2 lety

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  • @vallang4832
    @vallang4832 Před 4 lety +4

    Hope everyone is okay in Nashville.

  • @dhangsommers
    @dhangsommers Před 2 lety +1

    When is this going to be live again? Thank you.

  • @gabrielmanzanares3181
    @gabrielmanzanares3181 Před 4 lety

    Hi I'm here watching you live Kimberly

  • @brianshaffer8182
    @brianshaffer8182 Před 5 lety +2

    Wife says shes done I love her but complacency has destroyed both of us please help

    • @muktarumar9866
      @muktarumar9866 Před 2 lety

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      @muktarumar9866 Před 2 lety

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  • @joannawert3095
    @joannawert3095 Před 3 lety +3

    You look nice Kimberly.

  • @mjperfume1523
    @mjperfume1523 Před rokem +3

    He says he doesnt care if he hurts me

  • @melodychinell
    @melodychinell Před 4 lety +2

    My husband has been battling a drug issue and has cheated and moved out. He has filed for divorce do you think I should let it be or fight for my marriage? I don't want to loose my husband.

    • @yowhatsup4377
      @yowhatsup4377 Před 4 lety +4

      Might want to move on if he has issues like that.

    • @miracleabikhui9813
      @miracleabikhui9813 Před 3 lety

      I know of a man who helped me to restore my marriage permanently back after many years of separation without delay

    • @miracleabikhui9813
      @miracleabikhui9813 Před 3 lety

      Text him via whats App

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      @miracleabikhui9813 Před 3 lety

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    • @muktarumar9866
      @muktarumar9866 Před 2 lety

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  • @simonpersau1344
    @simonpersau1344 Před 5 měsíci

    How u can get your wife back and win her love back

  • @rickmckillip7382
    @rickmckillip7382 Před 3 lety +4

    I tried one of your coaches and when I told him my situation what was going on he didn't have any clue or what I could do so he was really no help to me

  • @CarniBarbie
    @CarniBarbie Před rokem

    I called and got a recording. I’ve left two messages. I really need help. How do I get ahold of someone? 😩

  • @hereonlyculturally6334
    @hereonlyculturally6334 Před 4 lety +1

    @Marriage Helper please could u give me the title of Dr Joe Beam ebook? thanks much!

  • @strrm67
    @strrm67 Před 6 lety +2

    Thank you I really enjoyed this!

  • @asamusicdude
    @asamusicdude Před 3 lety +4

    Been binging these

  • @mjperfume1523
    @mjperfume1523 Před rokem +2

    My husbands b has stole so much of my property i have no respect for him b c he is encouraging her to do that!

  • @simonpersau1344
    @simonpersau1344 Před 5 měsíci

    I like to chat with u how i can get my wife back

  • @raulsantiago6823
    @raulsantiago6823 Před 3 měsíci

    I have failed my wife for not taking the lead both Godly and in the house hold . It's been two weeks I haven't seen my kids or her . I miss them I failed as a man

  • @lytnin88
    @lytnin88 Před 4 lety

    are we live?

  • @youtubeuser0528
    @youtubeuser0528 Před 2 lety +1

    I is so sad. He left me.

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Před 2 lety

      Hey Kayla Bermudez, Just out of curiosity, have you taken advantage of our free mini course? We know times are tough and want to provide as much as we can to you free of charge. That's why we created this free mini course. It will teach you how to get your spouse back and give you a plan moving forward! You can get access to it directly by following this link:
      your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-course

  • @clairebrown9402
    @clairebrown9402 Před 2 lety +1

    I paid for. Not there.

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Před 2 lety

      Hey Claire Brown, so sorry to hear this. You can call us at 1 (866) 903 0990 and be connected with one of our Client Representatives who can fix an issue if there is something wrong with an item you purchased! Please Follow this link: marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/
      We look forward to speaking with you directly if you will allow it!

  • @Julie-ni5se
    @Julie-ni5se Před 8 měsíci

    I need help 😢

  • @lienhaokip5149
    @lienhaokip5149 Před 4 lety +1

    How to attract my wife who lost attraction on me after seeing another guy under my nose.. We are now seperated.. We have a son who is 10 at present.. Please help

    • @miracleabikhui9813
      @miracleabikhui9813 Před 3 lety

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    • @miracleabikhui9813
      @miracleabikhui9813 Před 3 lety

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      @miracleabikhui9813 Před 3 lety

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    • @muktarumar9866
      @muktarumar9866 Před 2 lety

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  • @beththomas8591
    @beththomas8591 Před 5 lety +3

    I have loved my husband for 36 years: through good bad and ugly. He had an affair 3 years ago. I FOUND OUT ONE MONTH AFTER my Mother died... and then I found out about hid affair while we were vacationing and then I lost my job. I tried to kill myself. He tried to work things out with me but never stopped contact with his lover. Now his lover was 20 years younger, married with 2 younger children. He has stayed around me even though he has moved in with his parents, but he hasn’t come home,. I loved him but he doesn’t love me... his lover tod me he hasn’t loved me for quite sometime and she was never jealous of me because he didn’t love me and if it wasn’t her it would have been someone else. I still love my husband but he isn’t coming back...how do I get over him?

    • @cindypope4238
      @cindypope4238 Před 5 lety +6

      I am so very sorry for your pain. I would say to get over this you will have to grieve your losses and to accept the reality of what has happened and to realize your worth is not based on your husband's choices. You have intrinsic worth because you are made in God's image. I am 60 and divorced and have never had a truly healthy relationship with a man. In fact, I tend to attract narcissists because I have had strong codependent tendencies in the past. Anyway, I have found peace and thankfulness for all God has given me and do not focus on what I don't have. Also, I continue to develop myself in all the different PIES and life is good!

    • @andreawisner7358
      @andreawisner7358 Před 5 lety +9

      Considering that this video is about being attractive, maybe you could work on being all kinds of attractive, and even if it doesn't bring your husband back you will be benefited in many ways and your sadness may dissipate.
      Don't rely on the words of his lover. Of course she would say that. Ignore her.

    • @muktarumar9866
      @muktarumar9866 Před 2 lety

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  • @nathanaeljames3886
    @nathanaeljames3886 Před 3 lety +7

    Does any of this shit actually work

    • @ThePossumone
      @ThePossumone Před 3 lety +7

      I think it can, just no complete guarantee. It is amazing in the POWER OF ONE person making all the effort, prayer and love - it can work Nathanael, it can.

    • @nafsuzzakiyyakabiru9991
      @nafsuzzakiyyakabiru9991 Před 2 lety

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    • @ikaikap5208
      @ikaikap5208 Před 2 lety +1

      Some of it worked for me.

  • @jenniferraymond3913
    @jenniferraymond3913 Před 5 lety +8

    Why on earth would you want to keep someone who clearly does not want you. Just move on and find someone who will love you the way you deserve to be loved, your spouse has.

    • @kdhawk2276
      @kdhawk2276 Před 5 lety +10

      Maybe God wants to grow you and ultimately you'll learn what love really means!

    • @jenniferraymond3913
      @jenniferraymond3913 Před 5 lety +2

      Doreen Hawkins ???????? Miserable is as miserable does.

    • @The_Stubborn_Christian
      @The_Stubborn_Christian Před 5 lety +7

      I guess you've never experienced unconditional love

    • @hunterakers9585
      @hunterakers9585 Před 10 měsíci

      My wife and I lost connection, but neither of us say we don’t love each other. However, she still decided to separate from me. I still have hope that we can rekindle our connection and love. It may take time for her remember what she used to have for me, but I’m will to work on me to be a better version of me in the meantime. I let myself forget how to show her the love that she deserved.

  • @loretaromero5860
    @loretaromero5860 Před 3 lety

    My husband beaten me when we argue about other woman he closed with..but hever sorry and avoided me after beaten me,what should I do ..do I should the one talk to him first?

    • @jacquelinegarcia3344
      @jacquelinegarcia3344 Před 3 lety +5

      Why should you be the one apologizing to him? Did you beat him? No he beat you for you confronting him for something he did. You did nothing wrong, you deserve better and you should value yourself no man should ever beat a woman. Please think about that girly love yourself 🤍

    • @rubylopez3926
      @rubylopez3926 Před 2 lety +6

      No this is not for people that are involved with someone who physically injure them. Get out, get help and be safe. I’ll be praying for you

    • @samlev9208
      @samlev9208 Před 2 lety +3

      LEAVE! He hit u

  • @zandrabungandagat5681
    @zandrabungandagat5681 Před 5 lety +2

    How to get my husband back

    • @ENIGMAXII2112
      @ENIGMAXII2112 Před 5 lety

      @joe l Same here man..... How to get my wife back? And yes I do want her back!

    • @miracleabikhui9813
      @miracleabikhui9813 Před 3 lety

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      @miracleabikhui9813 Před 3 lety

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    • @muktarumar9866
      @muktarumar9866 Před 2 lety

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  • @wheelrolling78
    @wheelrolling78 Před rokem +1

    no pies please

  • @tns147sexy8
    @tns147sexy8 Před 5 lety +3

    I can't do it. I'm black. He's white. He loves white women and Hispanic women. I'm ugly. I'm a loser, and I can't measure up. He's already so far away from me, he doesn't hold me anymore. I'm worthless. He hates hearing my voice. I'm racially abused, mistreated, and bullied every second of my life by him, the beautiful white women and Hispanic women, my ex-boyfriend Michael and his friends, and everyone else who wants to hate me. My children are beautiful, everyone else in my family is beautiful, but what happened with me? I honestly feel worthless like I have no reason to live. :'(

    • @vanessalomeli1494
      @vanessalomeli1494 Před 5 lety +1

      tns147 sexy I’m sorry to hear what you’re going through . All I know is that no one is worthless . YOU are worthy ! Get help so you can let go of this man that isn’t good for you .

    • @kikiandco1899
      @kikiandco1899 Před 5 lety +2

      I am mixed race. It is not about ur color trust me!

    • @flyinghome3176
      @flyinghome3176 Před 4 lety +1

      You must GET supporr as soon as posible. It los as if you HAVE been abuses EMOTIONALLY.

    • @tns147sexy8
      @tns147sexy8 Před 4 lety +1

      @@vanessalomeli1494, I wish I did have worth. I don't.

    • @tns147sexy8
      @tns147sexy8 Před 4 lety

      @@kikiandco1899, it is.

  • @069220
    @069220 Před 5 lety +6

    Why would anyone want to attract a spouse back when all they bring you is misery?? A piece of paper should not hold anyone back from being happy! Marriage is NOT an ownership contract! When the other refuses to try to improve the marriage, do you just stay with them just because you are “married”? Will the kids respect you for spending your life in misery...for their sake? What would that be teaching them?? If you’re miserable just stay that way so not to upset others?

    • @garygreen5243
      @garygreen5243 Před 5 lety +1

      yeah definitely if there not trying to change

    • @rjuane1
      @rjuane1 Před 5 lety +1

      Talk let them kmow that you are not happy and live!!!

    • @069220
      @069220 Před 5 lety +2

      When you live with an immature, vindictive, threatening spouse it’s not as easy! They’ll threaten to fight to take the children and ruin their spouses reputation. Many many husbands will not discuss on a mature level, nor seek help, they’ll vent their hurt and seek vengeance.

    • @069220
      @069220 Před 5 lety

      Juan Eduardo Ramirez : lol, if it was only that easy!

    • @rjuane1
      @rjuane1 Před 5 lety +1

      @@069220 life is never easy , do you prefer stay with somebody that you do not love, for what?. And when you understand that life is no easy , deja de serlo i dont know how to put it in english sorry, sometbing like become easy

  • @stevemines6870
    @stevemines6870 Před 5 lety +6

    Why fight 2 make someone be with u who don't want you that's just painful stupid BS

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      @muktarumar9866 Před 2 lety

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  • @jenniferraymond3913
    @jenniferraymond3913 Před 5 lety +3

    Why on earth would you want to keep someone who clearly does not want you. Just move on and find someone who will love you the way you deserve to be loved, your spouse has.