Women try guessing each other’s weight | A social experiment

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  • čas přidán 2. 11. 2019
  • This video isn't like anything I have EVER done before, and it all started with a few questions I had.
    Why do we allow our weight to control our feelings?
    Why do we give the scale so much power?
    What does BMI really mean?
    Is body fat percentage actually a better indicator of health?
    I decided to gather a bunch of women together to run a “little” social experiment to find out how all of these things - BMI, weight, body fat percentage - actually looked like on a woman. And I wanted to see if we could tell which was most accurate. Or would we find out that labels are bogus?
    I started planning this video a year ago, and I had NO IDEA how to pull it off. Fast forward to shoot day and we had a 20+ person crew working on it AND we flew out one of the world's best female bodybuilders...from Sweden!!!! So crazy!!!!!!
    Parts of this video were extremely uncomfortable to film, but I hope you guys take away the fact that there is so much more to a person than their number.
    I have so many people to thank for making this video happen - my amazing director Ryan, my husband Sam, the crew, the Blogifam...but most of all I want to thank all of the brave, strong women for speaking their truths. You all are amazing!
    Co-Executive Producer/ Writer: Cassey Ho
    Co-Executive Producer: Sam Livits
    Director/ Editor: Ryan Parma
    Producer/ Casting Director: Laurel Elfenbein
    Sound: Alfonso Cano & Aaron Terrones
    Key Grip: Simeon Mihaylov
    Grip: Mason Williams
    Gaffer/ Cam Op: Joseph Baltazar
    Production Assistant: Brittney Brandt
    Hair & Makeup: Lauren Young & Alondra Excene
    Talent:
    Irene Andersen
    Darlyn Barajas
    Bynay Blasberg
    Ebony Breaux
    Celeste Carbonell
    Paloma Hinojosa
    Covi Lockhart
    Rachel Thomson
    SOURCES:
    BMI chart: www.nhlbi.nih.gov/health/educ...
    ACE FITNESS body fat % chart: www.acefitness.org/education-...
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    ******
    Cassey Ho is an award-winning fitness instructor, entrepreneur and online personality. As the creator behind Blogilates, the #1 female fitness channel on CZcams, she’s transformed millions of lives through helping them achieve their strength and weight-loss goals. She focuses on making fitness fun and the results are evident. Cassey's unique format, POP Pilates©, which launched as a workout video on CZcams in 2009, has become a live fitness class that can be taken at gyms all over the world with over 3,000 POP Pilates classes being taught monthly. Her authenticity continues to shine through, making her one of the most relatable fitness icons online and beyond. She's also the author of the best-selling book, Hot Body Year Round and is the designer of her own activewear line, POPFLEX.
    With a wide range of free workout videos available, Cassey's channel focuses on ab exercises, butt & thigh exercises, arm exercises, pilates, cardio routines, fat burning workouts, high intensity interval training workouts (HIIT), stretching and flexibility routines and so much more!
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  • @blogilates
    @blogilates  Před 4 lety +21073

    I started planning this video a while ago, and I was very aware of how sensitive this topic was going to be. We needed to find women who were comfortable discussing their weight on camera and we needed to produce this video in the most compassionate way. I didn’t want anyone to run off set crying or upset. I wanted to have an open discussion with real feelings about some real taboo topics.
    I’m currently reading the comments on here and it seems that the feelings on this video are split 50/50. Some people are moved to tears because they’re incredibly touched…and then others are very upset, saying it was a terrible, pointless video meant to make women feel bad about themselves.
    So, what was the point? To show that labels and numbers have as much power as we want to give them. They can make us feel bad. They can make us feel good. Or they can just be data points to guide our next steps. But your health, which includes both your mental health, your physical health as well as your happiness is something that cannot be accurately assessed by any number. A number does it’s best to help medical professionals categorize your health as a starting point, but it’s not the entire story. Health really does look different on everyone.
    This content is meant to make you think. Yeah, it’s uncomfortable, but when did we ever become smarter, better humans by being comfortable all the time? We grow the most when we’re challenged - and I’m talking emotionally challenged too. If this video made you feel a certain way, take a moment to reflect and ask yourself why you feel that way. Can you dig deep and dissect this feeling further? Some of you may find that you need improvement in the area of not letting numbers control your happiness. And others of you may just find that you don’t want a relationship with numbers at all, and that my content didn’t help you achieve that. Both are okay to feel. What's not okay is calling people derogatory names and spreading hatred. I will never allow that here on my channel.
    Just so you know, each woman was mentally prepped for the shoot and knew that we’d be discussing weight and other sensitive body image topics. Our producer interviewed each woman who was casted one by one and in person, and made sure they were comfortable with the topics before committing to the shoot. The entire Blogifam and the crew was very careful in making sure the women felt good during the entire process, from casting to shoot day to video release. The mental health of each of the women was my first priority.

    • @lookiewhoishere
      @lookiewhoishere Před 4 lety +147

      Fabulous idea!

    • @Arachne-qw1vr
      @Arachne-qw1vr Před 4 lety +760

      The information I found most compelling in this video was the different regimes people put themselves under. Im not convinced that you demonstrated what you aimed for in this video. Understanding and acceptance around why people are bigger than others. In fact I saw you make a very clear contrast between that one women who didn't eat healthy or exercise and everybody else. This was heightened in the awkward tension in the room. It was not a good awkward, Casey Ho it was not the elated, groundbreaking awkward you were looking for.
      And like an every angry post-writer heres what I think is best: Do another group chat and compare lifestyles in a circle. No partners. How do you manage your day, what kind of food do you eat that you feel guilty over, how do you manage that guilt, what hours do you work, what else stops you from being you? Ok now lets look at your weight, toning and a blood sample on how 'healthy' the science says you are... When you look at each other once more, now what do you see? Fat, or a person.

    • @caseykaiser3313
      @caseykaiser3313 Před 4 lety +1583

      While I appreciate you were trying to do, it didn't seem that way in the video at all. Also another point Cassey, when people are telling you something nicely, perhaps you should listen to them? We all make mistakes and it's okay to accept and apologize for them. Not every comment is about "negativity", sometimes it's just feedback.

    • @mariatutunjian3080
      @mariatutunjian3080 Před 4 lety +42

      I think this is good to bring this up to make us aware ,
      I would give my opinion its a matter of individuals choice and if there motivaited to do this analizaition of what they should really be .

    • @viviannguyen941
      @viviannguyen941 Před 4 lety +124

      Hey Casey, I really enjoyed the video and hope you continue in making more content like this. A feedback I have is that maybe explaining scientific terms, with more background information. For example, when you brought up fat percentages you only had a number. Though where fat is located on the body is super important. Probably more important then how much fat a person have. For example, a normal weight individual that carry most of their visceral fat in their belly may actually suffer more from type 2 diabetese than their overweight counterpart. But idk if you want to go that deep either cause in the end people will still complain. I watch scientific fitness videos such as from Stephanie buttermore and people still be upset so I guess ignorant is bliss. Bless your heart Casey!!

  • @Zalenciaaa
    @Zalenciaaa Před 4 lety +98013

    Use me as a “It was a good idea but the execution was horrible” button.

    • @ramsy4205
      @ramsy4205 Před 4 lety +2290

      Thank you genius person. A biological woman with 5% body fat would be a walking zombie

    • @Ella-fv4hm
      @Ella-fv4hm Před 4 lety +3216

      Lisa should have done it with women who all weighed the same, or wore the same sizes or something like that, so no one would be left with any hard feelings

    • @TheUnfashionista
      @TheUnfashionista Před 4 lety +2793

      I fee bad for the girl who was obese . Everyone else was physically ok ( well, I’m not sure about the 5% body fat ) ... but the other girls for the most part were normal or fit ... there was nobody else like her . Like they could have gone by something else or used better examples .
      I cringed when they asked the heaviest girl how she felt about being obese on the BMI and she said she didn’t think she was obese and then every other measurement they gave her called her obese again. It wasn’t that it wasn’t true , but it just seemed like she was singled out in this more than the other girls. I also think that the muscular girl and the heavier girl both seemed equally uncomfortable by the person in their weight category .

    • @TheUnfashionista
      @TheUnfashionista Před 4 lety +598

      ramsy420 I think she was a biological woman. Her voice sounded altered by testosterone or steroids , but she did seem to be a woman .

    • @ramsy4205
      @ramsy4205 Před 4 lety +261

      @@TheUnfashionista as I explained, a biological woman with 5% body fat would not be walking around like its nothing. For a biological man it's not a big deal because the essential fat is there. That's why they mentioned essential fat percentages for males and females

  • @phoebesketches6489
    @phoebesketches6489 Před 4 lety +20296

    Really bothers me how she points out 24.5 is nearly overweight but doesn’t say that 19 is nearly underweight

    • @tateylyn8497
      @tateylyn8497 Před 4 lety +2430

      Agreed. I was surprised no one was called underweight lol yet others are going to be called out for being overweight? Lmao wtf

    • @tateylyn8497
      @tateylyn8497 Před 4 lety +275

      And I'm most likely a slightly underweight person for my height.

    • @chericebt4332
      @chericebt4332 Před 4 lety +350

      The range for normal and healthy is 19 to 24.9.

    • @tateylyn8497
      @tateylyn8497 Před 4 lety +633

      @@chericebt4332 let's be honest, overweight people will always be called out more than the underweight sadly. When you're underweight it's called anorexia most of the time, but theres no mental illness name for someone who overeats? In that case I'd rather be called fat than underweight because even when I wasnt underweight I was still called anorexic and it felt worse because I was labeled with a damn mental illness that I didnt have. Plus i always ate more than any "fat" person my age at the time

    • @daani1865
      @daani1865 Před 4 lety +68

      Phoebesketches that really pissed me off too it makes me angry

  • @RegularOddball
    @RegularOddball Před rokem +5708

    Weird that she tells the 24.5 BMI girl that she's almost overweight but doesn't tell the 19 BMI girl she's almost underweight. They're the same distance (0.5 points) from those respective categories.

    • @kimberlyperrotis8962
      @kimberlyperrotis8962 Před rokem +284

      Being slightly in the low body fat category doesn’t affect longevity.

    • @dragoncup9099
      @dragoncup9099 Před rokem +56

      That is very interesting

    • @dragoncup9099
      @dragoncup9099 Před rokem +650

      @@kimberlyperrotis8962 its called underweight for a reason: not *healthy* weight.

    • @yesplatinum7956
      @yesplatinum7956 Před rokem +229

      @@kimberlyperrotis8962 couldn’t you say the same thing about slightly high body fat?

    • @jaycewarner422
      @jaycewarner422 Před rokem +111

      @@dragoncup9099 Not necessarily. BMI fails to account for genetics, and while we know being closer to or in the overweight/obese category is associated with reduced longevity due to gravity putting pressure on the lower bearing joints and greater risk of disease/organ failure for most races, being closer to or slightly (meaning a few pounds) “underweight” isn’t always unhealthy.
      I’ll use my genetics as an example (I’m a Kinesiology/Nutrition student and undergrad researcher btw, my interests lie in health promotion and racial health and information disparities/interventions). I’m a 5’6, 116-118 lb female (I put a range because body weight fluctuates due to water weight and other factors), so my BMI is usually between 18.7-19.0.
      By normal standards, I would be considered very close to being underweight, possibly unhealthy. However, what BMI fails to take into account is that I’m a Native American with a long family history of joint issues, high cholesterol and blood pressure, lung issues, substance abuse (not me, but my mom’s mother was especially heavy on them, my mom was addicted to alcohol before she got pregnant with me too), iron deficiency, and obesity. My family medical history has a LOT of cases of joint and mobility issues as we age, so it’s actually healthier for me in the long run if I’m closer to the underweight category (less pressure on the joints). I just have to watch my micronutrient intake. This is also true for many of Asian and Hispanic descent.
      Now, for someone of African American descent, being slightly (meaning a few pounds) overweight may be a bit healthier, despite their higher mortality rates for obesity (bc most mortality rates are from those in the obese category, rather than a couple pounds overweight). This is because they tend to have less visceral fat (the fat that wraps your abdominal organs) and more nutrient deficiencies.
      Across most people, though, being a closer to the underweight category than the overweight category is better for longevity, as Kimberly pointed out.

  • @dietitianEmma
    @dietitianEmma Před 2 lety +5156

    As a dietitian, this was cringey on so many levels. Asking someone how they feel to be categorized as “overweight”… just why? What do you expect them to say?

    • @GB2139
      @GB2139 Před rokem +188

      I expect them to say: YES I AM SOOO OBESE ! HELP
      😒🤬😯👊🏽👊🏽

    • @Kaloapoele
      @Kaloapoele Před rokem +189

      Yeah, hard to watch.
      How do you feel now?
      Bad/guilty?
      Kinda sad

    • @mayabrenner3762
      @mayabrenner3762 Před rokem +157

      That's the point, you don't expect anything. You ask because you're learning their perspective.

    • @Dietxcokex00
      @Dietxcokex00 Před rokem +6

      @@Flippy2100 okay then,chuck

    • @bookpuffin8773
      @bookpuffin8773 Před rokem +8

      @Maya Brenner, exactly

  • @Enrelie
    @Enrelie Před 4 lety +15088

    when the 5'7 runner's physique looking girl and the 5'10 heavyweight champion looking girl said they weighed the same I was like tf y'all trippin😂

    • @michellebernal5668
      @michellebernal5668 Před 4 lety +524

      Enrelie lol right! I was like nahhh that ain’t right at all 😂

    • @jnm2088
      @jnm2088 Před 4 lety +253

      Muscle weighs more than fat

    • @Enrelie
      @Enrelie Před 4 lety +447

      @@jnm2088 and the sky is blue... anything else you would like to contribute?

    • @Enrelie
      @Enrelie Před 4 lety +813

      @@michellebernal5668 I feel like they were tryna be "nice" by skirting around the fact that the obese girl was the only one who weighed the same as the really built girl

    • @michellebernal5668
      @michellebernal5668 Před 4 lety +25

      Enrelie I agree

  • @sarahmannion5867
    @sarahmannion5867 Před 4 lety +109083

    No idea why that yoga lady thought she was the same weight as the body builder 😂

    • @alicegiuditta
      @alicegiuditta Před 4 lety +16738

      my guess is that the others coupled up so they kind of ended up together and went with it hahaha

    • @herewegokids7
      @herewegokids7 Před 4 lety +3569

      She didn't

    • @lollol-rn9kp
      @lollol-rn9kp Před 4 lety +625

      Sarah Mannion ikr 😂

    • @maddyras6732
      @maddyras6732 Před 4 lety +5922

      Alice Giuditta nah she was the first person to choose. i think she just wanted to be told she was skinnier or sum 💀

    • @jadesmith7983
      @jadesmith7983 Před 4 lety +1983

      Exactly. I think they all just went off of height.

  • @janelleborja3261
    @janelleborja3261 Před rokem +2375

    this kinda broke my heart. Women are so programed to focus on body weight and size ( Im included).. It was painful to see these women's shining smiles dim more and more as the video progressed. You are all beautiful and amazing.

    • @tramarthomas6105
      @tramarthomas6105 Před rokem +18

      It was surreal to see

    • @jackjack4412
      @jackjack4412 Před rokem +17

      Science = programming?

    • @jackjack4412
      @jackjack4412 Před rokem +5

      Health has a defined boundary line. Weight isn't the main factor.

    • @marajones1828
      @marajones1828 Před rokem +43

      I’m a fan of blogilates yet this was so hard and painful to watch. It just…felt more harmful than helpful. I’m glad I’ve recovered from my ED cuz this definitely would have triggered for past me.

    • @hasseabro102
      @hasseabro102 Před rokem +1

      @@jackjack4412 yeah exactly, beauty is a womans primary agency. This stems from biology.

  • @vparker4960
    @vparker4960 Před rokem +1225

    This reminds me of when we were weighed in front of our whole class in Elementary school. It was so degrading, because you were being compared to everyone else. We are all uniquely made. So why are we being compared to others?

    • @a.n_as333
      @a.n_as333 Před rokem +30

      Yeah it reminds me to, such bad memories.

    • @calistafalcontail
      @calistafalcontail Před rokem

      Oh gosh the woketard take here. "We are all uniquely made..." Yes but overweight comes mostly from bad food, bad habits, bad choices and its not how we are just made by the highest. Thats what people turn themselves into! Its damaging to the individual and society as a whole. Many countries force their citizens to be more healthy cause its bad for an entire country, when people just let themselfes go, look awful and put stress on the health system. Americans are soft sissies now who wanna be cuddled and hear that being fat is fine and normal and pretty. Its just not and deep down, you folks all know. Whatever happened to self discipline and improving.

    • @datsweggybruh8775
      @datsweggybruh8775 Před rokem +41

      I find it absolutely horrifying that any school would do that to literal children, or anyone for that matter. Children are especially vulnerable as their bodies are constantly changing and already have insecurities. I never experienced systematic weigh-ins in school - maybe it was my country or year, I don't know - but I can imagine how scarring it would be for a child. Anyone who says it's for health has skewered ideas of what health really is.

    • @erinkrabill23
      @erinkrabill23 Před rokem +6

      Yep, that is precisely when I began obsessing over my weight🤗 I wish I could sue for emotional damages lmao.

    • @klee1619
      @klee1619 Před rokem +3

      why would they even do this?

  • @Liffyflash
    @Liffyflash Před 4 lety +22385

    The muscular woman be spending all her life at the gym just to be called obese lmao this aint it

    • @maddiekrstev6609
      @maddiekrstev6609 Před 4 lety +721

      Kim Seunghun I agree, bmi sometimes portrays muscle and fat differently and inaccurately, but at the same time she only had a 5% body pat percentage. It’s not in my place to judge but I just feel as if perhaps body fat % is more fact based, and she knows that she is healthy and hopefully happy aswell. 😅

    • @teresamesa
      @teresamesa Před 4 lety +355

      bmi is crap !!

    • @JulietteVeronica1201
      @JulietteVeronica1201 Před 4 lety +180

      Not necessarily. All it means is she has a ton of muscle if her body fat percentage is that low at that weight.

    • @michellecampa9850
      @michellecampa9850 Před 4 lety +163

      Nobody would call her obese lmao

    • @derpypugs2835
      @derpypugs2835 Před 4 lety +34

      Are you talking about the people in this episode cause the most muscular is a man and the other too are 120lbs😂

  • @elliefisher4595
    @elliefisher4595 Před 3 lety +19309

    when they were told to pick a partner with a similar weight, the body builder was like
    👁👄👁

    • @LeahDada
      @LeahDada Před 3 lety +1600

      I was shocked when the girl with the “toned” body thought that she and the muscular girl shared the same weight range. If I looked at her, I would’ve known that she definitely didn’t weigh anything over 125.

    • @skypie5374
      @skypie5374 Před 3 lety +27

      True!

    • @denniej2868
      @denniej2868 Před 3 lety +63

      @@zukundus8987 She was the first person to choose a partner.

    • @ramsy4205
      @ramsy4205 Před 3 lety +19

      @@zukundus8987 wow how did your stupid comment get 24 likes

    • @songbyrdscrusade2052
      @songbyrdscrusade2052 Před 3 lety +17

      Being a bodybuilder doesn't mean you will be super heavy 😏

  • @lunasiera2573
    @lunasiera2573 Před rokem +1320

    “According to this you’re obese!” Her body fat is literally 5% how is that obese

    • @katvelyte
      @katvelyte Před rokem +274

      I think that was the point to show how BMI and numbers/labels don't mean much alone. However the execution was really terrible.

    • @gdnsx2152
      @gdnsx2152 Před rokem +42

      yo u both clearly dont get that there was weight and body fat categories. they called muscle lady obese because her muscles make her weight a lot they werent saying she was obese based off body fat.

    • @maanika_m
      @maanika_m Před rokem +31

      that is the whole point, cassey herself is tryna bash these scaling standards and show how dumb they are as one calls a bodybuilder too fat where as the other calls too skinny

    • @yazzybean
      @yazzybean Před rokem +23

      @@katvelyte BMI is a very good indicator for the vast vast majority of the population. It only doesn't work for really hardcore bodybuilders, like in this example. But when people go around saying that BMI doesn't mean anything, for most people that's just not the case.

    • @justincain2702
      @justincain2702 Před rokem +4

      @@yazzybean People say this, but I feel like the range is a bit too strict still. I'm around 15% bf and have only been working out for a year, and I'm well into the overweight category. No one looking at me would call me overweight.

  • @jozsef55
    @jozsef55 Před 2 lety +1075

    You emphasised,that the girl with bmi 24,5 is almost overweight.Why didn't you emphasise, that the girl with the bmi 19 is almost underweight?

    • @sarcasticop2950
      @sarcasticop2950 Před rokem +52

      Cuz being underweight is not as unhealthy as being obese

    • @bettinaaaby1451
      @bettinaaaby1451 Před rokem +197

      @@sarcasticop2950 overweight and obese are completely different though

    • @sarcasticop2950
      @sarcasticop2950 Před rokem +25

      @@bettinaaaby1451 yeah but someone who is overweight has a very high probability of becoming obese , not the other way around

    • @lasa1337
      @lasa1337 Před rokem +156

      @@sarcasticop2950 being underweight can be as bad as being overweight

    • @sarcasticop2950
      @sarcasticop2950 Před rokem +16

      @@lasa1337 yeah but I've seen very few underweight people who are underweight to an extent which makes them unhealthy but it's not the same for overweight people

  • @amylouise5885
    @amylouise5885 Před 4 lety +18834

    "You are obese. How does this make you feel?" how tf you meant to respond to that

    • @yokonono2171
      @yokonono2171 Před 4 lety +537

      Amy Louise i know right ? Like wtf

    • @mollyoxy
      @mollyoxy Před 4 lety +571

      I’d just be like yeah I know I am (I actually am, my BMI is 32 but I’m working on losing weight and have lost nearly 40 pounds already). People are all about “fat positivity” and yet they get all riled up about facts like obesity, body fat percentages, weight etc. If people were truly fat positive, they’d be unashamed and proud to show their weight, body fat percentages, obese bmi. But no, they ignore it and say “numbers don’t matter”. The whole fat positivity movement doesn’t realize how much they’re showing their true colors, nearly all of them think being smaller and having no fat rolls is better. A lot of fat positivity models use shape wear or clothes that conceal fat rolls instead of showing them off. They also wear clothes that make them look slimmer or more evenly hour glass shaped. Deep down they all know being obese isn’t good. It’s not healthy and it’s not attractive. Fat positivity is a all a facade to hide the guilt they feel about being obese. I have experienced this myself. You pretend like you don’t care about your size and that you’re confident when you’re really not. I don’t want people to tell me that being obese is ok and something I should be unashamed of. I’m literally hurting my body and taking years off my life. This is not ok.

    • @amiiraabdulnassir9208
      @amiiraabdulnassir9208 Před 4 lety +307

      If u can’t talk ab ur weight than u should’t be in a video ab weight.

    • @monicasahu07
      @monicasahu07 Před 4 lety +19

      Nothing but fear mongering cos insecure skinny chicks buy more crap to keep looking good than happy women who care for health and not looks or body stereotypes.

    • @Enrelie
      @Enrelie Před 4 lety +140

      well apparently she didn't "feel" obese despite nearly half her body weight being pure fat so I also don't know how one responds to that

  • @AntonioM8
    @AntonioM8 Před 4 lety +13882

    this was so weird and awkward to watch, I can't imagine how these women felt

  • @CelebWorkout
    @CelebWorkout Před rokem +328

    8:38 The bodybuilder is made up entirely of muscle. To be honest, the bodybuilder had one of the most incredible female physiques I've ever seen. I don't believe anyone realized how much work went into having a figure like that, especially as a woman.

    • @MeredithDomzalski
      @MeredithDomzalski Před rokem +30

      It is a ton of work. I'm impressed with her dedication. I still think it's important for people to realize that's not healthy, though, and they didn't really address that. I'm sure it's a risk she knows she's taking, but others should be made aware.
      It's interesting that they said she was in the "essential fat" category. The problem is, she isn't. They even said that essential fat starts at 10%, so she's below that. She's likely lost her period and has other health effects.
      I'm absolutely fine with her making this choice for herself. Anyone who gets that far in body building knows the risks and what they're doing. Again, I think her dedication is admirable. Still, it's not great for others to think that this might be healthy.

    • @maddiesconfusedlife9023
      @maddiesconfusedlife9023 Před 11 měsíci +10

      She’s trans guys lmao so she was male to female

    • @amyminto3181
      @amyminto3181 Před 11 měsíci +60

      @maddiesconfusedlife9023 Irene the bodybuilder, who at the time of this video was the 3rd best in the world is a biological mother of 3 kids from Denmark! Some men just can’t bare to see women thriving, especially if they are transphobic

    • @pamelabacker2420
      @pamelabacker2420 Před 11 měsíci +4

      ​@@maddiesconfusedlife9023"she" shouldn't have been in this video, since it's a guy by nature.

    • @katrinaaverage-potato5828
      @katrinaaverage-potato5828 Před 9 měsíci +33

      @@pamelabacker2420where do you think her three biological kids came put of, surely wasn’t her husband? 😂

  • @jessievecchio
    @jessievecchio Před 9 měsíci +61

    The tall black girl seemed so sweet. Idk how to describe it but she just made me feel comfortable when I was watching her. She seemed like someone you could have a conversation with.

    • @erika-xm3qy
      @erika-xm3qy Před 2 měsíci +3

      I feel like she'd be a good mom idk

  • @idasoderlund1030
    @idasoderlund1030 Před 4 lety +11512

    You could see how bad the “obese” girl felt

    • @sophieolive
      @sophieolive Před 4 lety +513

      Ida Söderlund honestly you can tell Darlene was just kinda embarrassed or felt bad about herself

    • @guacamoli7
      @guacamoli7 Před 4 lety +88

      Which one is obese ?

    • @haleighlake4649
      @haleighlake4649 Před 4 lety +26

      sadlyflavored xo the 205 ones

    • @haterlover7873
      @haterlover7873 Před 4 lety +199

      @@essie.
      I'm "obese", & shorter than the girl in the video... my waist is also smaller.
      I appear to have wide & thick thighs, & a big butt.
      My lower body is bigger than my upper body. I get told often that I have a nice body.
      I also go to the gym & try to eat healthy.
      I dont know my fat percentage, all i know is that my BMI says im obese.

    • @paige4855
      @paige4855 Před 4 lety +33

      haleigh lake Irene isn’t obese

  • @ponpomz2974
    @ponpomz2974 Před 4 lety +5046

    Okay Irene is not obese she’s hella muscular-

    • @zipperbagg6153
      @zipperbagg6153 Před 4 lety +102

      8% body fat

    • @Skill_Issue92
      @Skill_Issue92 Před 4 lety +100

      Not obese but she is overweight.

    • @CyanideGirl94
      @CyanideGirl94 Před 4 lety +20

      r/whoosh

    • @ashdingler1
      @ashdingler1 Před 4 lety +149

      yeah, and at 5% body fat....she likely doesnt have her period. Not sure sure if thats healthy or not?

    • @ponpomz2974
      @ponpomz2974 Před 4 lety +24

      Naturallyashley86 probably not..

  • @imachaeryoungwannabe5360
    @imachaeryoungwannabe5360 Před rokem +665

    I felt so bad for the lady in the red pants. Like she was pretty much being shamed but I'm glad the body builder came to her defense. Also the two girls (the tall one and the short one) their bodies weren't even big, they looked perfectly healthy to me

    • @aldubm2234
      @aldubm2234 Před rokem +41

      @@offbanks no you can’t be overweight and healthy. Your body is holding extra fat and that isn’t physically good for your body, making you unhealthy. But that doesn’t mean that people who are overweight deserve judgment or unfair treatment.

    • @Incompetences
      @Incompetences Před rokem +19

      @@offbanks That's the thing though, that extra wait DOES contribute to health problems. If not now, it will cause strain that over time causes severe issues. What you're saying is similar to a person that smokes but doesn't have cancer yet saying they're healthy. A person with extra weight is at a much higher risk of illness and disease.

    • @menjolno
      @menjolno Před rokem +2

      Think of the AI. How can we train them without the data. Stop thinking like the hypocritical politicians and regulators.

    • @KatieBellino
      @KatieBellino Před 9 měsíci +7

      Yes, the one who was actually obese already knows she has a problem. To not have anyone else heavy like her (a 5% body fat body builder is hardly a comparison) was just setting her up to feel awful.

    • @blockpart2184
      @blockpart2184 Před 3 měsíci

      Same!

  • @heathur_xo
    @heathur_xo Před rokem +413

    Yikes I know I am probably in the “overweight” category. I am 5 feet “4 in, 170lbs. I’d probably cry if I was asked how do I feel about being “obese” or “acceptable” I have been feeling so insecure about it.

    • @abbyflows1332
      @abbyflows1332 Před rokem +22

      I’m 5’4 and 210 pounds this is the heaviest I’ve ever been and feel horrible about my weight you’re 20 pounds below me so you’re ahead girl let’s get it this coming year!!

    • @heathur_xo
      @heathur_xo Před rokem +8

      @@abbyflows1332 Abby flows let’s do this. We can do it together :)

    • @sehtuhp9517
      @sehtuhp9517 Před rokem +9

      @@Staykool-aid It's okay! The only advice I can give is try to see your entire self in a full body mirror and see if you ACTUALLY look disproportioned. If you do, just try to eat as healthy as possible and get lots of exercise in there. Even if progress is slow, it'll be progress! I was 145 last year ( I'm 5'0 ) and now I'm 120 and I feel better than ever. That's only 25 lbs in a year and that was just by changing how much I ate. I'm sure you can do it and you have tons of people willing to help you

    • @heathur_xo
      @heathur_xo Před rokem

      @@abbywalkur1163 Yes I am aware. I did read the description I am saying what “I” would do if “I”was asked. Get it?

    • @maggys1244
      @maggys1244 Před rokem +5

      You'd actually be in the "obese" category (5'4" & 190 lbs = BMI of 32,6) - which again, most likely shows how misleading that system is. It doesn't factor in muscle mass, fitness, lifestyle, nothing. Yes, too high body fat levels negatively affect our health, no sense in denying that, but a "healthy" BMI doesn't equal healthy. Mid ED I had a great BMI, but lost a huge amount of muscle mass & could barely function. Whereas now, I'd be classified "overweight" (BMI of 25-26) & in a wayyyy healthier spot than BMI of 20 something me.

  • @crystalmather5448
    @crystalmather5448 Před 4 lety +3611

    "How often do you judge yourself?"
    "Everyday"
    "You are obese. How does that make you feel?"
    "..."
    *facepalm*
    I get obese is a medical term, but to put that poor girl on the spot like that without warning is awful.

  • @winniemaereact1391
    @winniemaereact1391 Před 4 lety +5475

    That experiment would’ve CRUSHED me

    • @Zeverinsen
      @Zeverinsen Před 4 lety +75

      That's probably why they personally interviewed and prepped all the women that agreed to this beforehand 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @hallohallo3487
      @hallohallo3487 Před 3 lety +24

      Severinsen i don't think they knew that they are going to get cold obese or acceptable etc.

    • @nelli7160
      @nelli7160 Před 3 lety +29

      fr, my ed is screaming at me even when i’m just ”enjoying” strawberries or trying on jeans and after them not fitting seeing a skinny girl walk by me. i hate myself and i would’ve broken down after that shit

    • @jahnavigulati9092
      @jahnavigulati9092 Před 3 lety +3

      Exactly... It's definitely not a good idea

    • @multifandomfangirl4625
      @multifandomfangirl4625 Před 3 lety +1

      I've been crushed so it probably wouldn't have effected me and probably just make me work out more

  • @lazarusyesthatsmybirthname3361

    I love the bodybuilder, she’s so supportive of everyone, had no bad comments for anyone

  • @eeeeeehrg
    @eeeeeehrg Před rokem +447

    What the heck, Cassie? This is so disgusting coming from a body positivity CZcamsr. “How do you feel about being overweight?” What do you think they’re gonna say??

    • @ch4pter.dancee
      @ch4pter.dancee Před rokem +53

      Exactly. I love her designs of clothing and how positive she is but this video is just awful. I get it was for a video but I bet some of these people came home feeling bad about themselves.

    • @wondazed
      @wondazed Před rokem +28

      I feel like it’s super rude and just wrong. saying to someone “how does it feel to be obese/almost overweight” isn’t really gonna make you feel great, especially saying “acceptable” body fat numbers

    • @minaberric4069
      @minaberric4069 Před rokem

      It’s so tone deaf and disrespectful. Clearly this woman’s never been fat cuz wtf

    • @sejcai
      @sejcai Před rokem +14

      you’re so right
      this video and the way she complains about clothing designs that are perfectly fine have turned me off to any of her content. i have a hard time believing this shit is anything positive

    • @Tipsy.Tippie
      @Tipsy.Tippie Před rokem +9

      Dude some of these ppl just have to wake up from their sugarcoating dream and step back into reality. The girl with the most bf% was clearly not having it. She knows what shes been doing over the years but still eats bread and sugar. If you sugarcoat things like that itll only get worse. If they feel bad and theyre weak then they arrived at home and just eating all kind of sugar but if theyre strong and woke up they will hit the gym to make them feel better. Dont know why you call urself an body positifity youtuber if you make such things only worse

  • @navybrowning3698
    @navybrowning3698 Před 4 lety +6086

    Yeah I'm leaning towards that this wasn't done in the best way

    • @hawaswaray5148
      @hawaswaray5148 Před 4 lety +87

      She should've left it to jubilee of as/is or buzzfeedvideo

    • @Trumpophone7
      @Trumpophone7 Před 4 lety +4

      What issue do u have w it

    • @abc-eb4zh
      @abc-eb4zh Před 4 lety +7

      How would you do it? I'm curious (not trying to be rude)

    • @echorain9992
      @echorain9992 Před 4 lety +5

      Yeah.. I agree. I know being healthy is great... but I also think mental health is more important than physical health half the time. Those questions that were asked feels as if they wanted the contestants to feel guilty.

  • @julia-vv3xi
    @julia-vv3xi Před 3 lety +6097

    I feel like when they got into their cars to drive home they cried. I feel so bad for the girl next to the body builder she looks so sad

  • @ZahJ14
    @ZahJ14 Před rokem +44

    All these women look so pissed, they didn’t even know what they signed up for 💀😭

  • @alexandraraposo1359
    @alexandraraposo1359 Před rokem +708

    What a great way to make people feel like shit ❤️

    • @menjolno
      @menjolno Před rokem +3

      We should give data to train an AI that guesses everyone's weight. And open source it. You have feelings like a politican.❤

    • @alexussummers8806
      @alexussummers8806 Před 11 měsíci +3

      It was to show that appearance can be deceiving and to not judge others by how they look

    • @kathyroach9344
      @kathyroach9344 Před 11 měsíci

      😂😂😂Well said😂😂😂

    • @Zahaveron
      @Zahaveron Před 11 měsíci +5

      What a great way to ignore the pinned comment! ❤️

    • @someoneelse8295
      @someoneelse8295 Před 11 měsíci +1

      they agreed to do this knowing theyd have to do this and check their weight

  • @faizar1705
    @faizar1705 Před 4 lety +6312

    “you are acceptable” you are “obese”
    i can see the hurt and pain in their face:(

    • @yen2803
      @yen2803 Před 4 lety +125

      Life decisions. Make a change.

    • @chuckles6814
      @chuckles6814 Před 4 lety +175

      Corner Taken Quickly people can’t just “ make a change”. It’s not a split decision

    • @roselynnlyness4263
      @roselynnlyness4263 Před 4 lety +133

      Corner Taken Quickly oh ya ima just be like “ya know, ima be skinny now” and bam! I made a change

    • @aphro123star
      @aphro123star Před 4 lety +94

      @@chuckles6814 ok so put in the effort and make the decision over time... Nobody is saying that people need to become fit in a day

    • @shaunp5074
      @shaunp5074 Před 4 lety +8

      @@chuckles6814 yes it is.

  • @wwkcd7657
    @wwkcd7657 Před 4 lety +7399

    These women look like they wanna cry, this is gonna traumatize them.

    • @mikaelasundt3117
      @mikaelasundt3117 Před 3 lety +292

      Why did they do this In the first place. Like this would hurt!!

    • @noliven17
      @noliven17 Před 3 lety +123

      Mikaela Sundt umm i don’t think they knew about the “reveal” where someone told the whole internet if they were obese or not

    • @azdrenfaizullah9605
      @azdrenfaizullah9605 Před 3 lety +26

      they have to deal with it. Feelings don't matter

    • @cuties9383
      @cuties9383 Před 3 lety +100

      Labrovy Hakkwa feelings do matter.

    • @azdrenfaizullah9605
      @azdrenfaizullah9605 Před 3 lety +36

      @@cuties9383 no. if you care that much if someone said you're ugly / fat / skinny then I'm sorry but that makes you a sensitive little shit. You cannot survive in the real world if you cry someone said you're ugly

  • @t.r.everstone7
    @t.r.everstone7 Před 2 lety +60

    This is particularly fascinating because it's extremely easy to see who should be the same weight as another. There are clearly other fsctors that went into their reasoning. I have two main ideas. One is that their perceptions about their own weights were inaccurate and skewed the results (whether each woman perceived herself as too heavy or too light). The other is that they were more worried about not offending each other during the matching process than actually being correct. Or perhaps it's a combination of both!

    • @KatieBellino
      @KatieBellino Před 9 měsíci +5

      Yes, it was fairly easy to guess this. They certainly could have found people where it was less easy though.

    • @t.r.everstone7
      @t.r.everstone7 Před 9 měsíci +2

      @@KatieBellino True! But would that have been more or less interesting? Or just different. I definitely see why they chose who they did, but they could also try more difficult people like you said. I'd be very interested to see a lady with gigantism who is close to 7', a lady with dwarfism, bodybuilders who are on steroids of 2 different heights, and then maybe some other variations just to see how close they can get.

    • @KatieBellino
      @KatieBellino Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@t.r.everstone7 It definitely would have been a different experiment for sure!

  • @Ellasydney4
    @Ellasydney4 Před 10 měsíci +59

    For someone who is “body positive” this is disgusting. As someone with anorexia this was hard to watch. Absolutely just humiliated most of these woman.

    • @christinebrennan9039
      @christinebrennan9039 Před 5 měsíci

      You're body pos or your anorexic? Lol can't be both

    • @hopesribbons
      @hopesribbons Před 4 měsíci +2

      exactly. i also have an eating disorder and this is just so hard to watch. you can see these womens face change when they get told they are overweight/obese. i would honestly just start sobbing right then and there. there are so many other ways to show how everyone looks different even at the same bmi even without humiliating these poor women.

    • @taiyabazaheer9492
      @taiyabazaheer9492 Před 4 měsíci +2

      You shouldn't have clicked on the video then. If you're triggered,no need to watch.

    • @tylociraptor8131
      @tylociraptor8131 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Sorry to tell you this... Body positive does not mean "tell every obese person they are beautiful and perfect as they are, healthy as a spring chicken and will never die of diabetes or heart disease". You can accept your body and love yourself but still understand that obesity is a deadly thing to contend with. Furthermore if you are that 'triggered' by this kind of video, I would suggest you ... not click on it. It's right in the title what's going on, and it's pretty obvious that might be something you don't want to watch.

  • @Mikehunt129
    @Mikehunt129 Před 4 lety +6454

    The really muscular woman is not obese she’s just has heaps of muscle because she’s a body builder
    Omfg thank you for 5.1k 🥺🙆🏼‍♀️

    • @amarigrace5502
      @amarigrace5502 Před 4 lety +287

      muscle weighs more than fat, that's why BMI is trash

    • @justanothergirl6689
      @justanothergirl6689 Před 4 lety +56

      I guess that's what 200 lbs of fat vs 200 lbs of muscle looks like.
      What's the point of making this video, the girls look sad and self conscious ...

    • @Bane1Mirin
      @Bane1Mirin Před 4 lety +13

      Let’s talk tea and coz she takes steroids

    • @Bane1Mirin
      @Bane1Mirin Před 4 lety +7

      ?? Stop lying you don’t just suddenly have a deep voice when u workout area obviously taking steroids

    • @Mikehunt129
      @Mikehunt129 Před 4 lety +30

      Jayden100 she might just have a deep voice

  • @yalljustmad1283
    @yalljustmad1283 Před 4 lety +8549

    The fact that the two skinny tall white girls didn’t clue in that they look exactly alike🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @butbutmybutt
      @butbutmybutt Před 4 lety +254

      They look alike? Im blind then.

    • @dope3618
      @dope3618 Před 4 lety +359

      right! one just seems slightly more toned and has a tan

    • @DreamOnAStarXx
      @DreamOnAStarXx Před 4 lety +254

      I lowkey think the yoga instructor went with the bodybuilder bc the two of them were the only ones with obvious muscles and she assumed that would make them kinda equal? 😂 Like, maybe she assumed the other blonde girl would be lighter than her bc she doesn’t LOOK obviously fit?

    • @Cindy-hc3du
      @Cindy-hc3du Před 4 lety +49

      I thought they were twins at first glance.

    • @littlepowerpuff
      @littlepowerpuff Před 4 lety +8

      Y’alljustmad yesssss LoL same thought

  • @wisteriaaa_23
    @wisteriaaa_23 Před rokem +63

    As a 15 year old girl who is very underweight, around 27kg, I find it interesting that they never mentioned anything about being underweight. I try to eat as much as I can while also struggling with some sensory issues and emetophobia anxiety, without thinking about about comparing my body to others. I also haven’t started my period or anything like that yet, and I’m very small for my age (4’8 last time I checked) and I’ve been made fun of a lot. So here’s a message to all my teenage girls out there struggling with body image- Make sure you’re comfortable with yourself, being mindful of health benefits while also focusing on loving who you really are.
    Thanks for reading my unnecessarily long comment 😂, hope everyone has a great day! ❤

    • @mansisinha4560
      @mansisinha4560 Před rokem +4

      Hey girl! I'm abt to turn 14 and I'm just 31.5 kgs... this made me feel better... thx❤

    • @7ccs350
      @7ccs350 Před rokem

      I used to be 35kg, i took super apeti pills at age 16 and gained about 25pounds or more. You should try these pills.

    • @smollilbean
      @smollilbean Před rokem +1

      Wow that is tiny. (Not in a condenscending tone) I'm turning 19 this year and my weight also fluctuates between 49 - 51 kgs at 5'2. I think my ideal weight could be 51 or 52 but i feel fine when I'm 49 or 50 too. Right now i feel like I'm a 50.
      I don't feel unhealthy but my extended family makes me feel like I'm one meal away from death and are sometimes rude about it, probably because like 4 years ago i used to be sort of chubby (not fat) and then i lost weight because I joined a sport.
      TMI but i also have really fuller chest so that means I'm probably not unhealthy.
      I wish people would stop being rude to skinny people, skinny shaming is considered to to nearly not be bad and is kinda normalised.

    • @merivesi7021
      @merivesi7021 Před 11 měsíci

      dont worry about your family, 50 kg at 5'2" is fine and fully within the healthy range! i'm about the same at 5'3" and 48ish kg and my doctors have always said im fine :)

    • @smollilbean
      @smollilbean Před 11 měsíci

      @@merivesi7021 Thank you :)

  • @me_just.me5227
    @me_just.me5227 Před rokem +33

    Imagine getting trained for long time, building amazing muscular body and being called as "obese"
    🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂

  • @ailinestrella
    @ailinestrella Před 4 lety +3826

    “hOw DoEs ThIs MaKe yOu FeEl” hearing this made me cringe every time

    • @h0tcheeto
      @h0tcheeto Před 4 lety +6

      Ailin Estrella Victoriano hey estrella is my last name haha so irrelevant

    • @jinryu8858
      @jinryu8858 Před 4 lety

      same though ):

    • @imoosiixx
      @imoosiixx Před 4 lety

      Yeah, I don’t really dig that question.

    • @dantan1249
      @dantan1249 Před 4 lety +3

      Ailin Estrella Victoriano for some reason asking about someone’s feelings in that way implies that you don’t really care but have a sick curiosity. Like chopping off someone’s hair and saying now..... how does that feel?🙁

  • @karinalumen9722
    @karinalumen9722 Před 3 lety +3926

    People need to realize height is a major factor. Short and cubby is often the same weight as tall and slender.

    • @bonniehowell4259
      @bonniehowell4259 Před 3 lety +141

      I think that fact got lost in translation here.

    • @smarthd7749
      @smarthd7749 Před 3 lety +50

      Thats why we have BMI

    • @manic6461
      @manic6461 Před 3 lety +27

      I was a bit sad because I saw the body builder and the obese lady were only 5 pounds bigger than me, I’m 5’9 and a half though so I look ok
      I’m still trying to lose weight though

    • @shannon3741
      @shannon3741 Před 3 lety +19

      THANKYOU as a 15 yr old girl i weigh 13
      stone it may seem big but i’m nearly 6ft when i think of my weight i think i’m really really fat but my mom
      and others always tell
      me don’t forget that ur tallness comes a lot
      with that

    • @smarthd7749
      @smarthd7749 Před 3 lety +11

      @@shannon3741 You have a kmi of 24.8, that ranks you in the overweight category. If you values health it is probaly time to take some runs and Fix the diet. You are not much above the Limit 23.9

  • @imZe
    @imZe Před rokem +73

    i know she said that they were prepared for this but you can tell this took a big to their self-esteem when she said that both of the girls in the group were obese yiu can see how her face dropped

  • @Analymous
    @Analymous Před měsícem +4

    In a world where everything has a “trigger warning” I really can’t believe they brought all these women in to do this without any indication that this is what they were there for.

  • @HelloHello-js6dm
    @HelloHello-js6dm Před 4 lety +4544

    This was done horribly wrong, I cringed when you introduced their body fat percentages

    • @fe5018
      @fe5018 Před 4 lety +119

      Couldn't agree more. It was so badly devised and executed. I have no issue with the basic premise but how they went about it was so ignorant it was torturous to watch.

    • @chowmane9584
      @chowmane9584 Před 4 lety +21

      SO WE CANT TALK ABOUT FACTS ANYMORE BECAUSE IT MIGHT HURT YOUR FEELINGS LOL

    • @bethanymclean2136
      @bethanymclean2136 Před 4 lety +27

      @@chowmane9584 There's a difference between this happening at a doctors visit in private vs this situation. They even said in the video that all the women didn't know what would be involved before filming, just it was supposed to be about 'body positivity'. Plus it's probably embarrassing for that to go up for the whole world to see.

    • @HelloHello-js6dm
      @HelloHello-js6dm Před 4 lety +4

      @@chowmane9584 they literally did it wrong

  • @laurenfairrington4543
    @laurenfairrington4543 Před 4 lety +8340

    Imagine these girls going home and crying because they were called overweight or obese, I k ow I would....

    • @cararice1659
      @cararice1659 Před 4 lety +259

      Lauren Fairrington especially because it’s going online and millions of people can see it!

    • @justmonika700
      @justmonika700 Před 4 lety +58

      I s a b e l l a THAT DOESNT MEAN YOU SHOULD BODY SHAME

    • @parsleyxoo8464
      @parsleyxoo8464 Před 4 lety +64

      I s a b e l l a she’s clearly not obese, muscle weights more than fat

    • @leilar5142
      @leilar5142 Před 4 lety +49

      i would cry on the spot lmaooo

    • @ioncekilledamanwithmyshoe
      @ioncekilledamanwithmyshoe Před 4 lety +74

      Lauren Fairrington well yeah, but the woman with more fat on her body did look obese (obviously not the body builder) and it’s scientifically what it’s called, so maybe that should be a push to change her lifestyle.

  • @victoria-zf3yn
    @victoria-zf3yn Před měsícem +8

    13:27 “you cannot judge a persons health based on how they look” most bs statement ever

    • @lacey6806
      @lacey6806 Před 8 dny

      u literally cant lmao. Someone can be bigger but still be healthy

  • @bellarose8964
    @bellarose8964 Před rokem +7

    It’s heartbreaking that women, even young girls, are being labeled. “Underweight” “Overweight” the top priority is to be healthy, someone who may be obese could have a decent diet, but their body just doesn’t process food the same, so it’s easier to gain weight. All in all, it comes down to health, not weight. Each and every person in this video is beautiful in their own way and they deserve to be recognized for that. Love you all, stay positive

  • @stinkystuf7467
    @stinkystuf7467 Před 4 lety +5205

    I feel like this is how an eating disorder can start
    Edit: I went through an eating disorder and I know there are more issues than just people comments on ur weight or wanting to be skinny.

    • @charlotteballard8449
      @charlotteballard8449 Před 4 lety +123

      This is how an eating disorder starts

    • @maddiebrown699
      @maddiebrown699 Před 4 lety +74

      You're not entirely wrong- however eating disorders manifest from more than just negative or weight shaming experiences. What many don't realize is that much of an eating disorder has to do with a person's chemical, neurological makeup and personality traits. It is EXTREMELY extremely complex. I've had some knowledge based off some people in my life battling ED. For many, it is also a control thing. Controlling what goes into their body, being quite particular about certain things. Some people end up terrified to eat certain foods. It's not all about entirely starving yourself. For others, they may just not be able to make themselves eat enough to accommodate for how much they're burning during exercise. Additionally, ED can stem from various trauma at a young age. Overall I would just like to point out, there's many misconceptions with eating disorders!

    • @stinkystuf7467
      @stinkystuf7467 Před 4 lety +10

      Maddie Brown yes I agree and that's why I said can not the only caise

    • @angrycactus158
      @angrycactus158 Před 4 lety +26

      It is. It’s comparing you body to others, it’s the opposite of what you want to do. My ED started when by brother would comment on my body and what I ate, he didn’t mean to but it happened. I pray for those women, I hope this didn’t effect them to much.

    • @lolok1421
      @lolok1421 Před 4 lety +6

      i know i was hoping i'd be the lightest if i was there.

  • @DaniCrayons
    @DaniCrayons Před 4 lety +8028

    I thought this video was going to be uplifting but it honestly made me sick to my stomach

  • @bananachicken682
    @bananachicken682 Před 2 lety +255

    It was kinda nice seeing the rude yoga lady being taken down a leg when she found out the super sweet nutritionist had less body fat:) the body builder was also so graceful about weight and being compassionate to the gal who was her weight, it was very nice to see!! I’d love to see more videos like this!

    • @idkanymore9812
      @idkanymore9812 Před 2 lety +6

      Nah the blonde girl was so annoying

    • @nicholewojtanowski43
      @nicholewojtanowski43 Před 2 lety +99

      I don’t know what you were watching because in no way was she rude to anyone nor did anyone react to her in a way that would suggest she was being rude or “out-of-line”.

    • @bananachicken682
      @bananachicken682 Před 2 lety

      @@nicholewojtanowski43 😂

    • @osiris8519
      @osiris8519 Před 2 lety +2

      @@nicholewojtanowski43 💯

    • @celestegarcia923
      @celestegarcia923 Před rokem +29

      How was she rude..?

  • @absolutetruthgirl
    @absolutetruthgirl Před rokem +24

    I'm 5'10" tall. When I was in my ED phase the BMI always categorized me as obese. Go figure.

  • @sophievk5171
    @sophievk5171 Před 4 lety +4033

    why did u tell the one with a bmi of 24.5 she is in the almost overweight zone (25> is overweight) and then u did not tell the girl with a bmi of 19 she is in the almost underweight sone (18.5< is underweight) this is ridiculous. either tell them both or neither one of them

    • @heehoopeanut420
      @heehoopeanut420 Před 4 lety +115

      THANK you

    • @jellybeanie9190
      @jellybeanie9190 Před 4 lety +35

      👏👏👏

    • @anoushkasingh2355
      @anoushkasingh2355 Před 4 lety +47

      ikr i was thinking the same

    • @iseultlaw7702
      @iseultlaw7702 Před 4 lety +179

      I wasn't really pleased about that. I think that the comment just illustrates how being close to overweight is 'worth a comment' but being close to underweight is 'unremarkable'. That left a bad taste in my mouth...

    • @crystallizard7230
      @crystallizard7230 Před 4 lety +86

      I was thinking the same... Seems like being skinny is more accepted among women (and maybe even among men). I'm offended

  • @laurenhill1100
    @laurenhill1100 Před 4 lety +6331

    I love how the body builder tried chearing up the other girl it was very sweet

    • @karolinaparizkova2386
      @karolinaparizkova2386 Před 4 lety +179

      Yea like she said: "Oh yea, BMI is not true." Or something like that.

    • @andyrevan
      @andyrevan Před 4 lety +57

      @@karolinaparizkova2386 everyone has more muscles then bmi accounts for.

    • @Darkhood89
      @Darkhood89 Před 4 lety +28

      @@andyrevan Not everyone has muscles though.

    • @andyrevan
      @andyrevan Před 4 lety +77

      @@Darkhood89 can you stand and sit that's muscles

    • @Darkhood89
      @Darkhood89 Před 4 lety +13

      @@andyrevan Do you look like The Rock or jiggle?
      If your answer is the latter, that's the difference being addressed.

  • @SierraAspenAutumn
    @SierraAspenAutumn Před 3 měsíci

    I really appreciate this video. I’ve always been a numbers girl. Obsessed at times. This is a great reminder to be active and do what feels right for yourself. ❤

  • @piyusarkar3065
    @piyusarkar3065 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Body fat % definitely matters. I don't care about BMI, but too much body fat isn't good. Idk why that girl think she's not obese. Acceptance is the first step towards change, and she herself admitted she doesn't eat right or workout regularly like others.
    And in the same way, 5% bf is bad too. Not just for women, but for human in general

  • @merrychristmasice723
    @merrychristmasice723 Před 3 lety +6582

    Did we really just call one of the worlds best female body builders “overweight”? Wtf-
    Edit: guys when I say overweight I mean that overweight has come to be known as a bad thing. Whilst she is technically “overweight” I think it’s rude to call her that. Also the fact that they referred to people as an “acceptable” weight is kinda disgusting.

    • @sofiaxo4543
      @sofiaxo4543 Před 3 lety +183

      obese actually

    • @merrychristmasice723
      @merrychristmasice723 Před 3 lety +34

      Sofia XO 😞

    • @moataznaji9192
      @moataznaji9192 Před 3 lety +464

      The BMI is trash because it doesn’t differentiate between fat and muscle it only thinks about weight and height mean while if you look at the body fat % it’s 5%

    • @merrychristmasice723
      @merrychristmasice723 Před 3 lety +54

      Andy VFD yeah, it’s just ridiculous because overweight has become an insult (even tho it shouldn’t be)

    • @Paracelsuskey
      @Paracelsuskey Před 3 lety +76

      Meme Guy BMI isn’t trash, I guarantee you the vast majority of those with a bmi of 30 or more have excess fat, the bodybuilder in the video is just an outlier

  • @alannah9427
    @alannah9427 Před 4 lety +5078

    This is so uncomfortable and weird and shamey especially since they didn’t knowingly subject themselves to this.

    • @sopleasedtomeetU
      @sopleasedtomeetU Před 4 lety +79

      They clearly volunteered to show themselves and their numbers

    • @fe5018
      @fe5018 Před 4 lety +68

      @@sopleasedtomeetU, I would hazard a confident guess that they were given the impression that it was going to be handled with a far greater level of professionalism and sophistication. Showing themselves and their numbers isn't what makes this uncomfortable, weird, and shamey. Agreeing to expose yourself and your stats is not the same as agreeing to what happened here. I don't think any one would reasonably expect when getting involved that this would be the result.

    • @snookums2693
      @snookums2693 Před 4 lety +4

      sopleasedtomeetU they didnt know what they doing this for tho

    • @caitlinmorrisxx9546
      @caitlinmorrisxx9546 Před 4 lety +11

      It’s not shamey they’re finding out the truth about themselves

    • @edify.9018
      @edify.9018 Před 4 lety +1

      666th like

  • @GuyInAHotdogSuit69
    @GuyInAHotdogSuit69 Před 2 lety +58

    "I personally don't consider myself, like, obese" yeah, well, you're 44% body fat with a BMI of 36, so yes, you're obese, whether you 'identify' as such or not.

    • @AnataWaDareDesuKa
      @AnataWaDareDesuKa Před 2 lety +12

      With so many morbidly obese people shows, I feel as if people forget you’re obese long before you get to that stage; those people on the shows are practically dying, they are VERY far gone.

    • @celestegarcia923
      @celestegarcia923 Před rokem +12

      The delusion of these people is frustrating sometimes, but I think they genuinely don’t realize how heavy they really are especially when family and friends are enablers.

    • @kantorviraganna5514
      @kantorviraganna5514 Před rokem

      Just shut up

  • @danielalt7508
    @danielalt7508 Před 21 hodinou +2

    *"I dont like BMI because it doesn't take account for personality"* said someone

  • @frog2775
    @frog2775 Před 3 lety +6108

    How come you told that one girl she’s “almost overweight” but you didn’t tell the girl that had a BMI of 19 that she’s “almost underweight” 🤨🤨🤨

    • @azdrenfaizullah9605
      @azdrenfaizullah9605 Před 3 lety +358

      the "almost overweight" girl was actually in the overweight zone they did her a favour by saying "almost overweight". You got it wrong buddy

    • @frog2775
      @frog2775 Před 3 lety +169

      Labrovy Hakkwa then why were they telling other overweight girls that they were overweight and not almost??? That makes no sense. She isn’t considered overweight either! She’s normal because of her height. And I’m not your buddy 😊

    • @frog2775
      @frog2775 Před 3 lety +102

      Labrovy Hakkwa OML no they weren’t! Do you know how a BMI scale works?!? It compares your height to your weight, and it doesn’t know the difference between fat and muscle, she was not considered overweight! Yes she was very close, but she wasn’t, she was still in the normal region.

    • @Laura-jl7vc
      @Laura-jl7vc Před 3 lety +22

      YES YES YES this is so important!!!!!!

    • @yhas.5916
      @yhas.5916 Před 3 lety +26

      Lmao calm down

  • @beyondtheskyyy
    @beyondtheskyyy Před 3 lety +25408

    They should do this but everyone is the same weight. To see how different we look but being the same weight to show how little the scale really matters.

    • @yes2527
      @yes2527 Před 3 lety +289

      I think you have it reversed, how you look doesn't necessarily matter because fat accumulates differently on different body types making them seem skinnier or fatter depending on how it sits on them, how much you weigh does matter though

    • @mariadumitru3962
      @mariadumitru3962 Před 3 lety +132

      How about the same BMI?

    • @hand-to-handwombat1342
      @hand-to-handwombat1342 Před 3 lety +7

      YES

    • @kchoater
      @kchoater Před 3 lety +53

      @@yes2527 honestly, unless you are 400+ lbs, it doesnt matter. Dont try to ever bring anyone down bcuz of the number on their scale.

    • @yes2527
      @yes2527 Před 3 lety +178

      @@kchoater unless you are 7 feet tall then being near 400 pounds is unacceptable and detrimental to your health. I don't think that if you're 160 pounds and 5'4 you're not going to die if a heart attack, but I'm saying it's not healthy, and it's dysfunctional to say is beautiful. I'm not trying to tear anyone down, but saying you can be 400 or even 300 pounds and healthy is dishonesty. If I truly wanted to bring harm to someone who is struggling with their weight than I would say "Yes! Fat is beautiful! Have another Big Mac, you go girl!" But I want everyone to live long, healthy lives, which means having a healthy weight

  • @emyleesalkind7980
    @emyleesalkind7980 Před 11 měsíci +7

    This video has illuminated that BMI is absolutely not an indicator of health, lifestyle, or the like. It is just another standard unit of measurement meant to divide people and hurt their psyche. 🤷🏻‍♀️
    Every single one of them looks healthy and gorg. ❤

  • @fathertedczynski
    @fathertedczynski Před 2 měsíci +3

    5% bf even for a man is absolutely insane, so for a woman to manage it is even more impressive. Props to her for constructing a top tier physique.

  • @ardenkate6405
    @ardenkate6405 Před 4 lety +1779

    “YoU aRe ObEsE, hOw Do YoU fEeL?!?”
    Wth....

    • @Sasha-xt3jh
      @Sasha-xt3jh Před 4 lety +105

      Would she ask the bodybuilder "you look like a dude, how do you feel?"

    • @roveniashaw8162
      @roveniashaw8162 Před 4 lety +26

      @@Sasha-xt3jh thats an opinion not a fact tho

    • @clairewillow6475
      @clairewillow6475 Před 4 lety +7

      ArdenKate omg that’s so messed up

    • @ardenkate6405
      @ardenkate6405 Před 4 lety +2

      @Pineapple Awesome AYEEEE

    • @siennafreyja5400
      @siennafreyja5400 Před 4 lety +15

      She didn’t say that. She said this number considers you obese how does that make you feel

  • @sarahdilley564
    @sarahdilley564 Před 4 lety +2386

    Who calls the buffest person in the room "obese"

    • @raymiller4225
      @raymiller4225 Před 4 lety +124

      DANK MINING well I think the point is that the system is bs and doesn’t have any real meaning because the numbers don’t define who they really are

    • @slayuumeowmeow
      @slayuumeowmeow Před 4 lety +15

      Muscle fat also adds a lot of weight

    • @EddieOdora
      @EddieOdora Před 4 lety +66

      @@slayuumeowmeow Muscle fat? Muscle and fat are two separate things.

    • @carahartoon8313
      @carahartoon8313 Před 4 lety +14

      Good video. Not body shaming. Supports the ideas that numbers are arbitrary.

    • @ignfan4life
      @ignfan4life Před 4 lety +1

      @@raymiller4225 Sure, they don't define who we are, but they do have meaning. Showing you can be the same weight as someone while looking different doesn't disprove that.

  • @Thedancingfishyyy
    @Thedancingfishyyy Před 8 měsíci +8

    How the hell do you call a body builder obese

  • @triflesponge8109
    @triflesponge8109 Před měsícem +3

    I amused myself by stopping the video when you asked them to partner up and then put themselves in order from lightest to heaviest. I got every pair right and also the order of the pairs but I’m not proud of that. It just means I am in the habit of doing this judging of other women’s bodies. There again, if I had been part of an experiment to put myself in weight order with a group of women I would have put myself at the heaviest end without hesitation. That way I wouldn’t have had the embarrassment of having declared someone heavier than me (rude!). We don’t do that in polite society. Plus I’d have had the feel good factor if eventually told to move down the line a bit but that would have come at the cost of feeling bad for the person told to take my place. The way the experiment was actually done, I’d have frozen; completely incapable of “accusing” someone of being as heavy as me! Our society definitely views women as better if lighter. In many different business meetings I have noticed the larger women are never asked for their opinion and if they try to offer it other people often look at the floor whilst the larger woman speaks. Once you notice it you can’t stop seeing it. Women in a shopping mall will avoid eye contact with very large women but exchange smiles with someone similar to them. Pubs or anywhere with no defined queue will serve the smaller ones first. We really need to change how our society views an individual’s worth. Every single one of us has the same value and the same needs in life.

  • @Atombender
    @Atombender Před 3 lety +4110

    Calling a buff bodybuilder obese based on BMI is beyond stupid.

    • @Tr1Dylan
      @Tr1Dylan Před 2 lety +212

      Bmi is accurate, just requires you to use a brain. If you have muscle and are obese, be smart. You are not. If you have rolls, stop it. You are obese and don’t defend it... the BMI is right in that case.

    • @JoKeR2eZ4u
      @JoKeR2eZ4u Před 2 lety +82

      BMI is a good way to measure how healthy your weight is if you dont really go to the gym and are considered average. If not bf is always just a number that is right and if yr above a certain percentage or below yr not healthy any more

    • @Mmm-jx7up
      @Mmm-jx7up Před 2 lety +2

      @Alex K right, i was thinking the same

    • @cassieisacatyourmom2564
      @cassieisacatyourmom2564 Před 2 lety +50

      @@Tr1Dylan there was a literal doctor who looked a healthy weight and was healthy based on his height and his BMI makes him technically obese 😐

    • @blueflamingo4526
      @blueflamingo4526 Před 2 lety +70

      @@Tr1Dylan take your own advice. The bmi is made for people of a certain height. It's not for everyone.
      The muscle woman isn't obese because she's tall, she IS going to be heavier even without the muscles.

  • @vanessajolly6688
    @vanessajolly6688 Před 3 lety +4586

    I’m genuinely surprised we’re allowed to comment on this video

  • @MIMIKU03
    @MIMIKU03 Před 2 lety

    I'm late but I think this video is literally what everyone goes through either in their heads by comparing themselves or in fitness/with athletes. These numbers are just a way to get a ball park idea of what's happening with your body. It doesn't necessarily reflect the health or fitness of people. Overall, great video concept and a great group of women who are also knowledgeable about the fact that the uses behind these numbers are inconclusive/not reliable 😌👏👏

  • @problemperson4221
    @problemperson4221 Před 6 měsíci +6

    irene is clearly an outlier (on the BMI scale), her muscles were literally bulging out her tank, 5% BF is insane

  • @MushroomCloudOfDoom
    @MushroomCloudOfDoom Před 4 lety +3203

    I love Irene. You can tell she's a really sweet and gentle person. I felt like she was trying to state her answers in such a way that she was comforting Darlyn

    • @adaguclu2221
      @adaguclu2221 Před 3 lety +6

      @@andrewtoke stfu

    • @joelywang3033
      @joelywang3033 Před 3 lety +5

      Andrzej Tokarczyk tf

    • @shanaosborne7078
      @shanaosborne7078 Před 3 lety +1

      @@andrewtoke Look you dont need to tell us you like thinking about her genitals, just keep that in your browsing history ;) x

  • @nabilabelghit1847
    @nabilabelghit1847 Před 3 lety +5600

    This is cringe, "How do you feel about being overweight and obese?", that's kind of mean, those women looked like they were gonna cry

    • @88phantasmagoria
      @88phantasmagoria Před 3 lety +243

      They didn’t deserve to be asked that question!! These amazing women should be able to say that they’re their weight and not be commented on! That question was so degrading.

    • @nyahp5870
      @nyahp5870 Před 3 lety +108

      I mean if they are overweight or obese that’s something they should stand behind tbh

    • @claudialeiva8687
      @claudialeiva8687 Před 3 lety +89

      I mean they knew they were coming onto an excitement about weight I don’t know what they were expecting, she was just telling them the facts

    • @azdrenfaizullah9605
      @azdrenfaizullah9605 Před 3 lety +88

      They shouldn't be surprised, and should work on themselves rather than crying because others are actually being honest and do not sugar coat when talking about their appearance

    • @thiccskipper1996
      @thiccskipper1996 Před 3 lety

      That's funny

  • @official_notanyone
    @official_notanyone Před rokem +6

    Bro I took one glance and got all of the pairs correct. Ain't no way these women actually thought they paired with their first partner.

  • @cassandra4398
    @cassandra4398 Před rokem +1

    I really, really liked this and all the women were so precious ❤ I loved their connection through this experience.

  • @quackeddiamonds6497
    @quackeddiamonds6497 Před 4 lety +8770

    This video was cruel. I could literally see the girls' faces crumble when they were told "how does it feel to be overweight/obese?" Irene didn't come here to be called obese, and Celeste looked like she was going to cry! Darlyn didnt deserve that either. I feel bad for all the girls but especially the ones who are labelled as heavier and then asked how it felt.

    • @Zeverinsen
      @Zeverinsen Před 4 lety +161

      Discomfort was the intent.
      To show that people connect their self-image in an unreasonable way to these numbers, and that it's uncomfortable to talk about.
      Did you not watch the entire video? Because this wasn't cruel at all, and every one of them were prepped for and agreed to doing this video.

    • @prachi6802
      @prachi6802 Před 4 lety +53

      So im a heavy person and no i dont feel bad just when i knw the facts. I knw im heavy, i can see i have fat. If ppl are are fat, are sensitive to it and dnt like listning and cry for being heavy then they need to go to a therapist to help them overcome their mental insecurities and accpt who they are, if they dont wana accpt who they are then try to improve to be at a point they are happy. Just cos u turn a blind eye towards your own problm. If a person cant handle the truth they need to work on your mental health. This video was needed to show ppl that its ok watever your weight is as long as you can see your healthy. This video shows than two ppl with same weight are not healthy. U cn be 120 pounds n be unhealthy. You can be 190 and be healthy, if its muscle.

    • @billylondon2894
      @billylondon2894 Před 4 lety +33

      You’re weak if you can’t handle being overweight. And if you don’t like it lose weight

    • @billylondon2894
      @billylondon2894 Před 4 lety +4

      Draco Granger-Snape it was for me I was fat from 6th grade to my junior year in high school and when I decided I wanted to change that I did.

    • @billylondon2894
      @billylondon2894 Před 4 lety +4

      Draco Granger-Snape I also have a slow metabolism... your point?

  • @feelthejoy
    @feelthejoy Před 3 lety +21751

    The two muscular women definitely knew they didn’t weigh anywhere near the same. People who are into fitness are pretty good at guessing weights.

    • @SummeRain783
      @SummeRain783 Před 3 lety +1682

      I agree. Not trying to be rude but I knew from the start she was the same weight as the overweight girl. I think they were trying to prove a point about how you can still weigh a lot but through muscles which is fine

    • @anoushfaghani3015
      @anoushfaghani3015 Před 3 lety +730

      Yeah I think they were just trying not to make anyone else feel bad, as they're quite aware of how they compared to every other girl in the group......This 'experiment' should have been done with women who all weighed the same.

    • @boyo6853
      @boyo6853 Před 3 lety +84

      Virtue signaling under pressure

    • @boyo6853
      @boyo6853 Před 3 lety +36

      @@anoushfaghani3015 Why? if it's the truth it's okay it's not rude or anything

    • @anoushfaghani3015
      @anoushfaghani3015 Před 3 lety +10

      ​@@boyo6853 haha don't ask me, just a speculation

  • @lilsemanas
    @lilsemanas Před rokem +4

    when that lady said you "look good, you feel good, but then you get these numbers attached to it and it might change your mind completely" gawd it really makes you think

  • @davidforbes5237
    @davidforbes5237 Před 4 měsíci +3

    The yoga teacher is so deluded thinking that she weighed similar to the big bodybuilder woman lol

  • @sh0rtcake882
    @sh0rtcake882 Před 4 lety +5776

    “How does it feel to be overweight?”
    “How does it feel to be obese?”
    I- really?obviously bad I mean have you seen their faces,they look sad and self conscious..what a dumb question to ask someone...

    • @vorosszonja9818
      @vorosszonja9818 Před 4 lety +131

      To answer the question, it feels terrible, I hate myself really....

    • @schmerin95
      @schmerin95 Před 4 lety +173

      Yeah I think that there could have been a way to ask it in a more sensitive way. "How do you feel about that label? What does it mean?" Instead of putting the person last. People are more than their weight

    • @allison3767
      @allison3767 Před 4 lety +9

      Icy Hot that is so right

    • @GuineaPigLuna
      @GuineaPigLuna Před 4 lety +2

      Totally off topic but I love your Todoroki icon

    • @leigh4978
      @leigh4978 Před 4 lety +9

      Icy Hot People can be bigger and happy or okay with themselves, just because a majority of people may feel self conscious because of labelling and the way they are looked at, that does not mean all people feel that way. I know many people that are big and happy. Not trying to hate, just saying!

  • @a.human.
    @a.human. Před 4 lety +3505

    The title of this video should've been, "Body shaming clueless women"

    • @fe5018
      @fe5018 Před 4 lety +100

      "...With ignorant and misleading pseudo scientific analysis"

    • @tayyabaiqbal5231
      @tayyabaiqbal5231 Před 4 lety +2

      Ifkr

    • @Sand433
      @Sand433 Před 4 lety +35

      Smh this is not body shaming but a video to prove that numbers don't matter that much and we're all different and should be proud of our bodies.. oh god I can't these negative comments, it seems like you only see what you want to see.. however I do agree that this could have been done in a better way

    • @fe5018
      @fe5018 Před 4 lety +8

      @@Sand433, I'm genuinely asking: why would this be what we "want" to see? I'd have been delighted if this video was actually an uncomfortable but intelligent analysis of a tricky topic that challenged our perceptions. But it's not. My main issues with the video aren't about "body shaming" but I think it's unreasonable to deny that body shaming, whether inadvertent or not, was the result. It's reflected both within the video and the comments.

    • @GrigRP
      @GrigRP Před 4 lety +6

      @@fe5018 what was psuedosientific?

  • @squirrelboss7067
    @squirrelboss7067 Před rokem +2

    I don't care what they weigh, I’m so glad we're all different. They're all beautiful ladies!❤️

  • @AngelaCoffman
    @AngelaCoffman Před 3 měsíci

    Thanks girls for being vulnerable. I felt a lot of those emotions with you.

  • @bellejarrell5681
    @bellejarrell5681 Před 4 lety +3608

    This makes me really mad, this is damaging their confidence

    • @marley8504
      @marley8504 Před 4 lety +123

      Maybe. But it's all true. You can't lie to an obese woman that she's slim, or to a slim woman that she's fat. Sometimes the truth hurts, but it hurts just to let you know that it's time to do something for you.

    • @wasitjustadream2345
      @wasitjustadream2345 Před 4 lety +16

      @@marley8504 its having some empathy and think how you would feel if you get exposed on a big youtube channel with a camera in front of your face waiting to see your reaction, they are people just like you. And weight its not that simple, you dont know if this women with obesity was really trying to loose weight. the most important thing its healing the mind

    • @johnjohnston8638
      @johnjohnston8638 Před 4 lety +6

      Shut up you loser

    • @genevievevan8588
      @genevievevan8588 Před 4 lety

      read cassies comment

    • @Zeverinsen
      @Zeverinsen Před 4 lety +9

      Did you even watch the ending of the video where they all agreed that this was an uplifting experience?
      The cognitive dissonance...

  • @morgantindall1167
    @morgantindall1167 Před 3 lety +3399

    I feel like the yoga girl said it good, “you look good, you feel good, but then when a number is put on it, it might change your mind completely”

    • @itzmoonliight14
      @itzmoonliight14 Před 3 lety +11

      Yea that almost made me cry 😭

    • @itzmoonliight14
      @itzmoonliight14 Před 3 lety +1

      @Pretty Boy Don't worry you're perfect in my opinion

    • @itzmoonliight14
      @itzmoonliight14 Před 3 lety +5

      @Pretty Boy Well, all that matters is you love yourself (sorry Idrk what to say and sorry if this sounds cringey)

    • @itzmoonliight14
      @itzmoonliight14 Před 3 lety +2

      @Pretty Boy You're welcome I think have a nice day or night!

    • @heatherleon5764
      @heatherleon5764 Před 3 lety +16

      @Pretty Boy way to be humble😂

  • @bassgirl_denalia9087
    @bassgirl_denalia9087 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Ebony is a prime example of why we don't use the bmi chart anymore. She's quite clearly NOT overweight and is just tall with large set bones and higher muscle. We must start using body fat and physical tests to measure health and not an arbitrary number.

  • @coral-lolz
    @coral-lolz Před 2 lety

    I'm so grateful these ladies handled it so well. discussing topics that women are made fun of every day for, must be really uncomfortable.

  • @isabella-hq8oj
    @isabella-hq8oj Před 3 lety +2116

    the woman who was “obese” w muscle wasn’t obese.. she had muscle

    • @jamesbrown99991
      @jamesbrown99991 Před 3 lety +127

      That's because BMI is not usable for certain body types.

    • @bunniculla
      @bunniculla Před 3 lety +16

      really? i never knew that! not like the video explained it :D

    • @mikkae3260
      @mikkae3260 Před 3 lety +5

      @@bunniculla it’s almost like the above commenter was responding to the person who posted the comment :)

    • @1024det
      @1024det Před 3 lety +21

      The athletic types all knew the BMI was not a good measurement system, like that one girl said we dont use BMI anymore

    • @bunniculla
      @bunniculla Před 3 lety +2

      @@mikkae3260 i was responding to the original commmenter

  • @FancyBarnacles
    @FancyBarnacles Před 4 lety +5494

    Ironically, this video was filled with body shaming.

    • @matthewmcnamara8159
      @matthewmcnamara8159 Před 4 lety +379

      calling obese people obese isnt' body shaming, it's facts. Obese is a medical term not a subjective term.

    • @doom-driveneap4569
      @doom-driveneap4569 Před 4 lety +14

      FancyBarnacles that was the whole point, we all body shame even if it’s mentally.

    • @sopleasedtomeetU
      @sopleasedtomeetU Před 4 lety +17

      Give one example of one instance a woman was ‘shamed’ in this video.

    • @paolas2255
      @paolas2255 Před 4 lety +1

      @@matthewmcnamara8159 👌👌

    • @paolas2255
      @paolas2255 Před 4 lety +3

      @Agatha z you are so wrong

  • @briar_rh
    @briar_rh Před rokem +16

    I really liked Ebony! She seemed super sweet and respectful, and like the type of person I would want to be friends with

  • @kristapeterson3141
    @kristapeterson3141 Před rokem +3

    This is so gross. These women didn’t ask for you to evaluate their bodies, body fat percentage, weight, anything at all. Disgusting.

  • @sjlang7812
    @sjlang7812 Před 4 lety +2289

    the 24.5 girl shouldn't be told she's "nearly overweight" she's literally in the healthy weight range wtf

    • @TheEssenceofpets
      @TheEssenceofpets Před 3 lety +46

      She said according to the BMI. 🙄 and height plays a major factor as well

    • @koko-oz7jf
      @koko-oz7jf Před 3 lety +12

      Yea that's why nearly overweight not overweight at that moment

    • @sjlang7812
      @sjlang7812 Před 3 lety +7

      @@koko-oz7jf yes but shes a healthy weight why not refer to her as such?

    • @koko-oz7jf
      @koko-oz7jf Před 3 lety +2

      @@sjlang7812 to indicate the degree of healthiness according to bmi this healthy/almost overweight
      For eg if she said healthy/almost underweight It would mean closer to 18.5 mark

    • @xRaverxBabyx
      @xRaverxBabyx Před 3 lety +6

      Manahil Sidiki why didn’t she refer to Rachel as ‘almost underweight’ then?

  • @Nina-vk9qc
    @Nina-vk9qc Před 4 lety +8273

    I love how Irene naturally stands with her hand on her hip like she’s modeling for bodybuilding. Queen.

    • @HT-dy5co
      @HT-dy5co Před 4 lety +287

      I love how confident she is, even though all of the women were fairly uncomfortable.

    • @MissLady074
      @MissLady074 Před 4 lety +260

      PLUS she's probably getting judge so much for her looks, yet she was standing there so confidently, speaking with confidence and encouraging other girls to do/feel the same! I admire that

    • @Whirlbee
      @Whirlbee Před 4 lety +43

      Such a queen!

    • @nehssi4598
      @nehssi4598 Před 4 lety +35

      Love her confidence + she beautiful

    • @kimora69
      @kimora69 Před 4 lety +15

      i love her

  • @maypasifiki9360
    @maypasifiki9360 Před rokem +3

    Love this video. I couldn't help but admire the muscle definition on the bodybuilders legs! Everybody has different body types, and its important to appreciate our bodies and not be hard on ourselves. Something you might not like about yourself might be admired by somebody else.

  • @raexo652
    @raexo652 Před 2 lety +10

    This whole topic is just toxic. Even though she wanted a good outcome, it was just plain toxic. Why would you ever gather women and judge each other’s weight? Smh

  • @allisongoss3067
    @allisongoss3067 Před 4 lety +2977

    the bmi is a broken system.

    • @Ali08
      @Ali08 Před 3 lety +62

      It sure is! My young daughter was considered 'obese' as the doctor has written it in her notes! I was floored! Funnily enough, three years later, she looks the same as the average seven year old. It is a crock of BS. Thankfully, she is no longer her pediatrician.

    • @augustacookeygam5579
      @augustacookeygam5579 Před 3 lety +35

      Definitely, I am overweight by BMI standards but I wear size 8 and 10 clothes and a very flat tummy after three children 😠😠😠😠

    • @sigma4337
      @sigma4337 Před 3 lety +12

      @@Ali08 If at any point they looked like a 7 year old then the BMI scale isn't for them. BMI is NOT meant for children.

    • @Ali08
      @Ali08 Před 3 lety +3

      Sigma I am not sure what you are getting at. Just pointing out that it could be incorrect and using my daughter’s experience as a example.

    • @sigma4337
      @sigma4337 Před 3 lety +8

      @@Ali08 Okay but it's not meant to be used on children. I don't go around telling people my washing machine doesn't work because I couldn't use it to clean my phone screen.

  • @mineyoongi1773
    @mineyoongi1773 Před 4 lety +1745

    “you are obese. how does this make you feel?”
    uhmmm... i feel obese

  • @Edinaa
    @Edinaa Před 2 lety +5

    It’s nice that this also helps them to wake up and think about their health. Like the girl who said she is not obese…
    I like that they are not promoting obesity, and “eveybody is beautiful” kind of thinking.

    • @draalttom844
      @draalttom844 Před 2 lety

      Everybody is beautiful for the simple reason no one wins anything thinking anything is ugly

    • @AshwinRamdin
      @AshwinRamdin Před rokem

      @@draalttom844 Nobody wins when healthcare cost go up, because of obesity. People need a wake up call, instead of being told obesity is beautiful. It's not.

    • @draalttom844
      @draalttom844 Před rokem

      @@AshwinRamdin your "wake up calls" only make the eating disorders worst you moron

    • @a.h.i267
      @a.h.i267 Před 3 měsíci

      @@draalttom844yes you do. you can chose to ignore it but society sees it❤

    • @draalttom844
      @draalttom844 Před 3 měsíci

      @@a.h.i267 if you mean fashion everyone but you knows itll xhnage in 5 years and youll look stupid for trying to follow it. Beauty and style aint about fashion. By definition fashion cant be beautiful or stylish, cause its just a vague copy of one of many forms of beauty

  • @HalloMeinFreund468
    @HalloMeinFreund468 Před 2 měsíci +2

    What I realized is that a lot of girls just don't want to handle the truth. While you may not want to be called fat or obese, you should consider that it could be true. Not insulting anyone, don't really want to sound mean or anything but sometimes we have to accept the truth.

  • @creedbratton5456
    @creedbratton5456 Před 3 lety +4104

    When the body-builder was told that she was in the "obese" category, she looked like she was trying to kill someone with her eyes. The BMI is not a good way to gauge health, but a fat percentage is fairly straightforward and helpful.

    • @hihi-ug1fc
      @hihi-ug1fc Před 3 lety +308

      @@ugbucket no?? idk if ur blind or smthing but that is clearly a woman, and it says women in the title so.... it’s clearly a woman

    • @chajang7292
      @chajang7292 Před 3 lety +128

      I agree about fat percentage. What made me cringe was the bodybuilder's partner who was in clear denial of the percentage's significance. She really has a lot of work to do, that type of mindset will make her die early.

    • @creedbratton5456
      @creedbratton5456 Před 3 lety +156

      @@ugbucket Just cause she is buff doesn't mean she is a man.

    • @olovely8905
      @olovely8905 Před 3 lety +118

      @@ugbucket you’re just jealous she probably has bigger muscles then you

    • @mikeb4471
      @mikeb4471 Před 3 lety +8

      Dats a nigga

  • @leesmith3768
    @leesmith3768 Před 3 lety +2518

    "Obese" with 5% body fat, that totally makes sense!

    • @avakahn8157
      @avakahn8157 Před 3 lety +64

      Its all muscle

    • @elliott8596
      @elliott8596 Před 3 lety +104

      BMI can be adjusted to reflect your build. It's crazy to see someone with 5% body fat standing next to someone with 44% and they weigh the same. They don't describe it here, but what that literally means is that 5% of the body builders weight is from fat, where is the other person, 44% of their weight comes from fat. This actually should be somewhat inspiring for her if she wants to lose weight. My guess is, given her care-free attitude about most things, it's not a priority for her. There isn't anything wrong with that, by the way.

    • @aoutsky
      @aoutsky Před 3 lety +19

      @@elliott8596 she's not 5% body fat. She's not even 10%.

    • @estebanod
      @estebanod Před 3 lety +27

      @@aoutsky you know athletes can be lower than 5% right ?
      I don't know if you just feel bad about your body but it's everything but crazy for an athlete to have 5% body fat, it's actually the norm.

    • @AD-ge1bz
      @AD-ge1bz Před 3 lety +6

      @@aoutsky U do realize that the lowest a woman could ever go to is 12% BF right?

  • @millie.s
    @millie.s Před rokem +9

    this proves that BMI and weight doesn’t correlate to how healthy you are and what you look like-

    • @DatActiveGuy
      @DatActiveGuy Před rokem +1

      That’s a lie, it’s proven a high BMI is not healthy. She’s on steroids (Yes she is because no woman can get that big naturally) so that means she will gain more weight, even male body builders suffer with health issues due to steroid abuse and having a Outrageous BMI