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  • @tiffanythinks
    @tiffanythinks  Před rokem +535

    Hi my loving tiffanythinks family. I did end up going to the hospital to help with my vomiting and bleeding. Thank you to all of you that have been here through all of this. Please SUBSCRIBE & join my loving tiffanythinks family. we got this💙 Instagram, FB & TikTok: @tiffanythinks

    • @danielfairclough9885
      @danielfairclough9885 Před rokem +3

      What happen ?

    • @ss-zz6ii
      @ss-zz6ii Před rokem +16

      Feel better tiff ... sweetie ... may god bless you ..

    • @MsSunshine9876
      @MsSunshine9876 Před rokem +7

      ❤️

    • @danielfairclough9885
      @danielfairclough9885 Před rokem +2

      Love ones another

    • @melindascrazylife5754
      @melindascrazylife5754 Před rokem

      Tiff, you have cancer my darling the best gift you can give him is the gift of getting better and staying with all of us, the gift of life. you've got this pumpkin ,don't apologize for something you have no control over.I bet you 100 to 1 Matt would rather see you get better and do what you have to do. Matt loves you so much none of this is easy so don't apologize for something that's completely out of your control. you have such a beautiful heart let someone take care of you instead of you always taking care of everybody else. ❤ today's not a good day but tomorrow will be better just one step at a time I know I'm grateful that you're still here with us you've got this.

  • @susanbennett9062
    @susanbennett9062 Před rokem +297

    My dear sweet Tiffany, I am 60 and I would gladly take this on so you didn't have to. My heart goes to Amma. 70,000 plus prayers for you

    • @annelyceimgrund6884
      @annelyceimgrund6884 Před rokem +27

      I, for one, can tell you mean it, and your sweetness touched me as I’m sure it will Tiffany.💜

    • @avarismimi
      @avarismimi Před rokem +16

      Awww so sweet. I’m 60 as well & would do the same for this beautiful child 💙💙 bless you bless your heart 💜

    • @marlasinger8904
      @marlasinger8904 Před rokem +7

      So sweet ❤️

    • @kayannahufford340
      @kayannahufford340 Před rokem +8

      Susan that is so precious for you to say that. I also I'm 65 and lived my life. I pray for Tiffany it's so sad that cancer has hurt so many people. I hate cancer.

    • @joannapride7876
      @joannapride7876 Před rokem +5

      🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @fleetingmoments
    @fleetingmoments Před rokem +268

    I cannot even put in words how much I’m wishing you better… please tell Amma we all agree that she is one in a million 💙

  • @shyningsmile8736
    @shyningsmile8736 Před rokem +36

    Cancer moms are absolute heroes. Your Amma is an inspiration.

  • @debbiebayer4836
    @debbiebayer4836 Před rokem +121

    So sorry you have had such difficulty after your surgical biopsies. I work at a cancer center in the U.S. I would have thought your doctors would have been more attentive to your bleeding and pain. Please continue to be strong and advocate for your health and care. Blessings to you, your sweet mother, and Matt.

    • @mariasullivan577
      @mariasullivan577 Před rokem

      Agree … whenever anyone I know has had surgery the attending physicians make sure they or their delegates are available for any possible post op complications even if it’s to a nurse / doctor calling from an A&E dept… at least that is our healthcare system in Australia 🇦🇺

    • @BrownSugarBaby1992
      @BrownSugarBaby1992 Před rokem

      Facts! I had cancer they were so attentive of my condition and needs. I went to UNC CHAPEL HILL CANCER HOSPITAL. They were the best. I feel so bad for her, the tears are uncontrollable. So sad! 😢

    • @earnold1896
      @earnold1896 Před rokem

      @@BrownSugarBaby1992 yes for all with empathy we feel so sorry for her and I hope and pray she recovers for the rest of her life. Poor dear girl. I couldn't cope if it was one of my kids probably. I guess they have to take each day as it comes.

    • @yamahajapan5351
      @yamahajapan5351 Před rokem +1

      Ah, socialized medicine…It’s so superior

  • @elaineroberts7493
    @elaineroberts7493 Před rokem +352

    I found it so hard to watch you suffering so much, and can’t imagine how difficult the day was for your mum. I’m so glad the morphine and anti-sickness meds did their job, and you were able to go home to Matt the same day. I hope he had/has a lovely birthday (not sure how much delay there is with uploading this video) I do wonder how you manage to film and edit so much, but I guess it’s actually a distraction for you, and gives you a focus away from your health issues. I hope your meeting with your surgeon goes well, and that your bleeding soon stops.

    • @susannechickenmom5621
      @susannechickenmom5621 Před rokem +11

      Totally agree with you. Well written

    • @naheedakhtar1982
      @naheedakhtar1982 Před rokem +1

      Snap xx I just cried all way through

    • @lifewithcancer916
      @lifewithcancer916 Před rokem +17

      I absolutely do not understand how she can vlog??? I’ve fought stage 4 cancer for 10:years, I been through so much. Ive relapsed 4x’s. I’ve been through years of chemo, I’ve had 2 bone marrow transplants, then graft vs host disease which is a rejection of my donors and my body began to attack its self literally to death. It attacked all my skin leaving me blistered like 3rd degree burns, attacked organs, my mouth and my teeth fell out. I had so many complications I can’t even list everything. I had nurses at the house around the clock. It also caused me to then get scleroderma and my whole body hardened as hard as a rock. Literally it was like I drank cement and it hardened inside of me. The anxiety was through the roof. I felt trapped inside my body. It Left me bedridden in diapers for 3 years. I’ve had hospital stays that were 100+ day. To sum it all up by the grace of god I’m still here today! My doctors are amazed. I’m still have a lot of health issues and permanently disabled and in a wheelchair but I’m here😊 But what I wanted to say is I can’t comprehend how she can vlog. There is absolutely so way I would or could do that. Maybe I was on a different level. But I know the way I felt I couldn’t even talk to people little lone film and then edit. Also personally feeling the way I did and what I was going through I didn’t want to publicly show it.

    • @dawnchristine1438
      @dawnchristine1438 Před rokem +4

      Oh sweet girl, I'm praying for you and your Mum. You look so tired.

    • @luvteddybearsforever
      @luvteddybearsforever Před rokem

      @@lifewithcancer916 so horrible to hear what you have been through. When it gets to that stage, it’s not really quality of life is it. What’s the reason for you being wheelchair bound? Can you walk at all?

  • @deedeeslife
    @deedeeslife Před rokem +63

    It hurt my heart so much to see the look of pain on your mom's face as she drove you to the hospital. I know that pain. She would do anything to take away your pain or trade places with you. She is just so lovely and caring. I send good vibes and hugs to you and hope you feel better soon.

  • @roch145
    @roch145 Před rokem +106

    You said “how much is one meant to take?” Having gone through all this myself I can certainly relate. Unfortunately such is the path for many people who are treated for cancer. I’ve never liked the terms fighting or battling cancer. Because I think it’s much more than a fight or a battle. You will surprise yourself at some time in the future when you look back and realize and appreciate just how much you had to endure and how you mustered the strength to get through it all. Having such a loving family, with you in person and online makes a tremendous difference. And while there is much emphasis on the patient experience, your family needs to be praised for all they do to support you.

  • @livinglife8333
    @livinglife8333 Před rokem +79

    So incredibly hard for a mom to see her baby in pain, hugs to you and big hugs to mom.

  • @hexhex7220
    @hexhex7220 Před rokem +30

    Tiffany, your Mom's award for being such a great Mom, is "YOU"

  • @robertamcmunn3642
    @robertamcmunn3642 Před rokem +125

    I cannot believe you picked up the camera when you were in such a state. You looked in so much pain and scared. I'm so sorry Tiffany and I agree, how much can one person take. Poor Mom, love to her.

    • @zebrasbean2385
      @zebrasbean2385 Před rokem +8

      It’s actually comforting to talk to camera , I’ve heard so many vloggers say this

    • @clairelarosa1221
      @clairelarosa1221 Před rokem +8

      I was thinking the same thing. Can’t believe grabbing the camera to film while in so much pain. Tiffany - please don’t put social media before your health! I hope the pain & bleeding stops soon!

    • @annetteedel8110
      @annetteedel8110 Před rokem +1

      Prayers for you. You are so strong.
      God is watching over you!.💖
      I've been praying and thinking of you!

    • @smckeown8442
      @smckeown8442 Před rokem +6

      @@clairelarosa1221 she is so strong I couldn’t do it ,but she said from the start that she wants to document everything because it may help people diagnosed with cancer now or in the future xx

    • @csc1641
      @csc1641 Před rokem +2

      Thank goodness she looks so happy at the end. We got this!

  • @janetterocha3609
    @janetterocha3609 Před rokem +31

    Dear Tiffany: your mom does deserve mother of the year award. You are a strong woman. The way you are handling this terrible disease is remarkable. I’m am praying for you all. Please take care of yourself. You’ve got this. 💙cheers from California.

  • @Sam-gq2hl
    @Sam-gq2hl Před rokem +117

    YOU have NOT ruined ANYTHING! I know it's hard to control our thoughts and emotions but next time you feel responsible when things seem to be going wrong, just remember you're body is fighting an illness. The illness is NOT you. It may get in the way or alter the course of your day but you are NOT to blame! So glad to see you happier at the end. Best wishes to you and yours xxxx

    • @chrissy4604
      @chrissy4604 Před rokem +3

      I cannot agree more. You are such a sensitive, sweet soul. Please look after you and feel all our 70,000+ prayers worldwide. We got this. One day at a time.

    • @Sam-gq2hl
      @Sam-gq2hl Před rokem +2

      @Green Rose aww thank you hun! 💕 just hope Tiffany stays in good health 💗

    • @Sam-gq2hl
      @Sam-gq2hl Před rokem +2

      @@chrissy4604 amen to that 💕

    • @colettechampagne9718
      @colettechampagne9718 Před rokem +1

      Sam you are right on . Matt should cancel his birthday, and concentrate on Tiffany!!!

    • @colettechampagne9718
      @colettechampagne9718 Před rokem

      @Green Rose L

  • @debras2845
    @debras2845 Před rokem +70

    My heart is breaking for you my dear Tiffany. There are other Birthdays and you come first. You are allowed to break down and be frustrated and sad. This is a lot to go through and one cannot be strong every minute. You are allowed to feel every emotion. Praying that you feel better real soon.

  • @misfitm1457
    @misfitm1457 Před rokem +89

    You're so lovely, even when so poorly you worry about Matt and your Mum more than yourself. Thank you for the videos xx

  • @sandyhewitt7935
    @sandyhewitt7935 Před rokem +25

    Please don't think you are a burden on anyone, Tiffany. It's a lovely quality of yours that you care so deeply for everyone around you when it's you who are facing these awful challenges. Everyone just wants to reflect the goodness and love you radiate back to you. You are really special 😊

  • @rosieleon2323
    @rosieleon2323 Před rokem +11

    The pain in your mom's eyes, she felt that with you! I can't imagine. Stay strong, all of you!!!

  • @justpauline9514
    @justpauline9514 Před rokem +42

    Amma does deserve an Award ! What a lovely person she is 💕

  • @juless2694
    @juless2694 Před rokem +74

    Tiffany. No one really understands Was suffering means until they go through something like this. You're so strong you're soooo brave and soon you'll get better and can enjoy life again

  • @Sungmin_Mildred
    @Sungmin_Mildred Před rokem +11

    It’s so hard to watch someone in pain. I hope you will be fine soon.

  • @lauradavis494
    @lauradavis494 Před rokem +9

    Tiffany, I have to say that I don’t know if you truly know and understand how amazing of a person you are. After a long, harrowing, exhausting, miserable day, you came home and spent your time to make Matt’s birthday special. It’s truly so heartwarming and inspiring. I am thinking of you constantly and can’t wait for your “I’m cancer free dance at the hospital” 💙💙💙

  • @maggietaylor9475
    @maggietaylor9475 Před rokem +119

    Oh my goodness you looked so terribly poorly at the beginning of your video. I was really worried, but you looked so much better at the end, thank fully. Sending my love to you, Matt and Amma xx

  • @shaburkesharon8882
    @shaburkesharon8882 Před rokem +200

    It's awful to see you suffer, but it is lovely to see you brighten up and smiling 🥰 you will have a lovely time with Mat for his Birthday. Sending love and prayers from Ireland xxx❤️

    • @anthonyharris3193
      @anthonyharris3193 Před rokem +6

      your lucky you have a great mother i miss mine so much best of luck

    • @an-ic6gs
      @an-ic6gs Před rokem +1

      May you live long healthy wealthy happy life.
      And you be always save from wrong .
      You are being trap by medicine drugs mafia . They are running their business of having wages or saleries from their job .
      They are traping you by side effects of their medicine ends up into death because death is usual to see for them and they do this cold heartedly .
      Alopethic medicine made of venum of snack that's why you can't drink water .
      Our prayers are always for you stay blessed and stay safe

  • @kamalafontaine9563
    @kamalafontaine9563 Před rokem +42

    Tiffany, it’s really important for you to seek help as soon as possible, your surgeon should have been contacted for your bleeding that wasn’t stopping.
    Your health should be your FIRST priority, birthdays come and go and you can celebrate Matt’s birthday another day.
    He is a kind and loving man, he will understand that you are not well.
    Please be proactive in your cancer treatment, ask as many questions as you need so that you are well informed. I feel that you have waited a long time to hear about your surgery, so please ask detailed questions…
    I am glad you feel better now and you are able to spend time with Matt but always remember that the sooner you seek help, the less stress you and your mum will be.
    Don’t wait until the pain is un bearable, this is your journey and you need to make sure you decide what is right and what is wrong.
    Hugs to your mum, let her know that she is one of the world’s best mum…♥

    • @kamalafontaine9563
      @kamalafontaine9563 Před rokem +1

      @@lilyfromBrissy
      Thank You my dear.

    • @desiderata333
      @desiderata333 Před rokem +1

      Agreed. She waited much too long. Poor sweet girl. She only thinks of others. She is an angel.

    • @kamalafontaine9563
      @kamalafontaine9563 Před rokem

      @@desiderata333 yes my dear, I am so very sad for this angel.

  • @tamunagegiadze6594
    @tamunagegiadze6594 Před rokem +1

    I'm really sorry for you and your mom, cant' even imagine what she is going through, she is hero, you will be fine dear tif, just last steps through recovery process, soon you will be cancer free. I think that last time they did core biopsy, which is different from previous one, and side affects are vomiting, bleeding, hope today you feel better, I'm christian, orthodox, and I swear, I really pray for you to be cancer free soon, you dont' deserve all this :( you are angel on earth

  • @beelarehman5992
    @beelarehman5992 Před rokem +43

    Please give this girl a break. Sending love to you all. Praying you feel better fast xxx

  • @pamowen3452
    @pamowen3452 Před rokem +72

    Tiffany, that frightened me. I’m so grateful you’re okay for discharge home. I thought you may have needed a transfusion so I’m grateful that you didn’t. Praying for you! We Got This!

  • @lauraapuan5610
    @lauraapuan5610 Před rokem +9

    It brought tears to my eyes to see you feeling so awfully sick. Your mother is the best! I’m sure there is no where she’d rather be than with you. That’s how we mom’s are when our children are sick. I’m happy you were able to go home for your darling’s birthday.
    You got this Tiffany!

  • @carolcarol3938
    @carolcarol3938 Před rokem +16

    Dear Tiffany, I'm sending you a great, big, warm, healing hug all the way from Australia. You are so right about Amma; she deserves a gold medal! I hope Matt has a truly wonderful Birthday. xx

  • @leahbeenz2537
    @leahbeenz2537 Před rokem +62

    Tiffany I’m proud of you for going to the ER and getting the meds that your body needs. You and Amma wear your “We Got This” Badges of Courage daily, and it shows. Please take care of each other and have lots of fun celebrating Matt’s wonderful birthday.🎉💙

  • @barbaramoore5070
    @barbaramoore5070 Před rokem +28

    Oh dear, you made me cry….I’m so glad you’re feeling better and able to celebrate Matt’s birthday with him! 😘💙

  • @Amy-hs1qe
    @Amy-hs1qe Před rokem +36

    Oh, so sorry! Geeze, such a saga you've gone through so far. But you will get past this!! There were many very bad points during my sickness too but I'm now a 25 year survivor - imagine you saying that in 25 years and looking back what you overcame. A big hug to you!

  • @Sbsb3798
    @Sbsb3798 Před rokem +3

    Tiffany you mean so much to me. You have touched my life and soul. The Tiffany Thinks family is connected to you in spirit and with you every step of the way.
    My older brother (35) was diagnosed with Acute Leukemia (AML) last December and faced the trials of high dose chemo and the difficult decision of deciding to go through with his Bone Marrow Transplant.
    The decision was difficult because he had “at least” intermediate risk for Acute Relapse- but did not have a perfect bone marrow donor match (devastatingly I was not).
    He is African American and finding a donor match is more difficult for underrepresented minorities.
    God guided us, his decision, and the fight for his life due to severe transplant VOD complications.
    God guided our family, his care team (IRL angels) to pour their soul into his recovery, and gave him the strength to keep going well seemed dark. At his lowest point nothing made sense, everything hurt and he was frightened/traumatized by his own body.
    He spent 4.5 of the last 8 months admitted in the hospital receiving treatment.
    When all feels lost and you/Amma/Matt have done everything possible, trust in God my dearest. I found God recently… but it’s true after all your efforts, the future is in his hands.
    He will guide your decisions, surgery, recovery, headspace and journey through this life. With love, you are blessed and we pray for you.
    Love you Tiff. You are a rare blessing for us all.
    We got this 💙💫💙💫

    • @murdershe......7378
      @murdershe......7378 Před rokem

      My daughter was diagnosed with ALL on May 13th this year and is currently undergoing intensive chemo treatment so I really sympathise with all you have gone through with your brother and wish him well.

    • @Sbsb3798
      @Sbsb3798 Před rokem

      @@murdershe......7378 I pray for your precious daughter’s treatment, recovery and blessed journey through life. She will be okay. I cannot fathom watching your child battle, but she will get her life and health back.
      After treatment she’ll value our God given time together, love and family all the more💗. chemotherapy is super effective for remission.
      September is leukemia awareness month. Perhaps you have a “light the night” support walk somewhere near you this month.
      Sending hugs, prayers, support and love your way !

  • @minigirl6839
    @minigirl6839 Před rokem +5

    So thankful you went to hospital to be checked out. You are always in my heart and I continue to pray for your healing. 💙🙏🌻

  • @CMP6111
    @CMP6111 Před rokem +16

    Oh my beautiful Tiffany😔😢!
    I’m so sorry you’re having so much pain. Praying for you🙏🙏🙏

  • @patriciahaslam8705
    @patriciahaslam8705 Před rokem +6

    You are amazing. Here you are suffering in pain and all you were think about was your boyfriend’s birthday and not wanting to ruin it for him. What a strong loving person you are. Please stay strong. I know this is a very tough battle but you will win. Believe in the power of the Lord who is always there to help us through these tough times. I’m so proud of you. You got this and so many beautiful tomorrows to come.

  • @Mimi_moon
    @Mimi_moon Před rokem +15

    I laughed imagining the moment in the future, some years forward where you and matt rewatch this video, laughing about the moment you felt bad and started crying because you had things prepared for his birthday but you were at the hospital. Strength to you and your family, everything will be okay. We're here with you❤️❤️❤️

    • @suesmith4289
      @suesmith4289 Před rokem +2

      Your such a sweet girl, you will get over this sweetheart be strong and enjoy your boys birthday.

  • @reviewer1248
    @reviewer1248 Před rokem +40

    You poor poor thing 😢😢 This is appalling how you’ve been left like this although you’ve told them about the excessive bleeding. This is inhuman. Your mum is indeed fantastic. As soon as you had fluids your face changed completely and you looked so much better. Love to you both 🥰🥰

    • @Lisa-Tahiti
      @Lisa-Tahiti Před rokem +7

      I agree. She should never have had bleeding to begin with. They can stop the bleeding right after taking the tissue samples. Then the surgeon still does nothing for her even after she has told him she’s had days and days of heavy bleeding. She needs a new surgeon.

  • @deborahjoel1269
    @deborahjoel1269 Před rokem +24

    Your mom is the greatest! I am praying for you both, a prayer intercessor from Southern Ohio, USA.

  • @miamoore1666
    @miamoore1666 Před rokem +3

    Next time PAGE your surgeon he can be reached for emergencies. You pay him you’re not bothering him under these conditions. Then if he doesn’t respond go to the hospital. Just some advice that I’ve done in the past.

  • @rcelestefelix9299
    @rcelestefelix9299 Před rokem +1

    Good for you! You did not let that "strange" doctor stick his finger in your bottom because that is not your oncologist. I turned down that same type of examination when I was 27 and pregnant with my first and only child and went to a hospital emergency room. The attending doctor got annoyed with me and said I was "inhibiting the examination." We have our dignity, and we also have the right to turn down any examination we want for whatever reason we want. I'm glad you got over that initial scare of an infection and got the treatment you did. And keep going to hospital whenever you have an issue - don't wait. Matt would have understood if you had to stay miss his birthday - those birthdays come around each year (to my annoyance in my old age. LOL

  • @kimberleywinterbauer5286
    @kimberleywinterbauer5286 Před rokem +64

    I’m so happy to see you feeling better. Hugs to your Mom; she’s such a beautiful and caring lady. Sending you prayers and hugs from Southwest Florida

  • @karenelson7698
    @karenelson7698 Před rokem +61

    What an awful time for you Tiffany, but you came back smiling and I'm so glad the hospital we're able to help you. You're mum is amazing too, she's such a strong, beautiful caring lady. I hope Mat had a lovely birthday. Sending lots of love to you all Xxx

  • @dawnsullivan6794
    @dawnsullivan6794 Před rokem +14

    Sweet Tiffany I’m so sorry you’re struggling with the after effects of your biopsies. Pretty soon you’ll be able to have your surgery and be on the healing side of this horrible disease. You will be, Lord willing, cancer free and able to focus on getting back on your feet and back to a normal life again. What a celebration that will be! Tic, tic, tic! You got this! All my love and prayers! 🤗😘❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻👍👍

  • @rkmsrose
    @rkmsrose Před rokem +17

    I am so glad you are feeling better mentally and physically! You definitely needed IV fluids. I'm so glad you have medicine that will help with the vomiting too. Enjoy your time celebrating Mat's birthday. I so hope the bleeding stops soon and you follow up appointment with your surgeon goes well. You could surely use some good news! I will be praying for you and your family.

  • @alisonpoiner630
    @alisonpoiner630 Před rokem +18

    Absolutely lost for words at how much you and your mum have gone through and are still going through. you are so brave and both deserve the biggest medals. sending lots of love. x

  • @nivii0630
    @nivii0630 Před rokem +20

    It’s upsetting to see you suffering like this. Grateful that you are doing better and getting stronger. You’re doing amazing my love♥️🙏🏾

  • @tabethathomas5470
    @tabethathomas5470 Před rokem +8

    Hello sweet Tiffany ❤️❤️❤️My heart was absolutely breaking for you my sweet dear!!!! I’m sorry that you were so incredibly ill!!! I’m so glad that you are feeling a bit better & the Dr. sent you home! Happy Birthday Matt🎉🎂🎁I hope that everyone has a wonderful day enjoying Matt’s special day!!! Stay strong sweet Tiff & always remember that WE GOT THIS 💙💙💙 Sending love from Illinois in the USA🥰

  • @michelleowens671
    @michelleowens671 Před rokem +20

    I’m so glad to see you’re feeling better… happy birthday Matt

  • @jennalarson6403
    @jennalarson6403 Před rokem +13

    You can tell how stressed Tiff’s mom is by how fast she’s driving, and how quickly family was there to support both of them. So happy you have such good support around you. Prayers for feeling better soon!

  • @vsi4cs703
    @vsi4cs703 Před rokem +8

    Get well, Tiffany thoughts and prayers are with you ❤️

  • @YinYangEmpress
    @YinYangEmpress Před rokem +2

    My mom has passed, so the award for the best mum also goes to your Amma. I was crying when you were so worried as I watched this, although I knew you had said on Instagram you were going to be leaving hospital. I pray whole heartedly that you are kept safe and Angels surround you to keep you strong and I bet every one of those Angels are saying we’ve got this 💙”. So much love from all of my family to yours! ❤️

  • @nickybaker1338
    @nickybaker1338 Před rokem +1

    On you sweet, dearest girl! Even in such a very poorly situation, you're concerned about others....never known a single human being as selfless as you, & I'm 58. God be with you. Holy Spirit please may Tiffany feel embraced & nurtured by the peace & love of Your embrace 💙

  • @makeupandcats6283
    @makeupandcats6283 Před rokem +13

    I’m so proud of you for advocating for YOUR bodily autonomy. You are so strong!!

  • @syubiased6854
    @syubiased6854 Před rokem +33

    I’ve been in the hospital for the past 2 days (and still am) and one thing i’ve learnt is NEVER EVER LEAVE YOUR SYMPTOMS TOO LATE OR THINKING ANY PRESENTING COMPLAINT IS TOO SILLY TO GO INTO A&E FOR! WE GOT THIS 💙

    • @newenglandcoast7121
      @newenglandcoast7121 Před rokem +2

      I'm so sorry. I will include you, when I pray for Tiffany. ❣

    • @syubiased6854
      @syubiased6854 Před rokem +2

      @@newenglandcoast7121 awww my heart❤️ I love you and will also keep you and your family’s wellbeing in my prayers😘 Have a amazing rest of your day

    • @tconwheels8644
      @tconwheels8644 Před rokem +2

      May God also touch and heal you too. I feel for all who are sick. Prayers are going up for you as well.

    • @patdaniell5528
      @patdaniell5528 Před rokem +2

      Agree 200%x

    • @newenglandcoast7121
      @newenglandcoast7121 Před rokem +1

      @@syubiased6854🌹

  • @pippakay7234
    @pippakay7234 Před rokem +1

    My heart just ached so much for you and your mum little bird. Your mum looked so worried and you sweetheart looked so poorly. I'm over the moon that you made it home for Matt's birthday because i know that would have bugged you. Love and prayers for you all as pef usual.🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙

  • @r2fant2008
    @r2fant2008 Před rokem +7

    It’s amazing what some anti nausea meds and pain meds can do. Hope you all got to enjoy Matt’s birthday!

  • @geina4412
    @geina4412 Před rokem +41

    This is one problem in our NH S that needs to be sorted, the lack of beds and quick access to consultants are a serious problem.
    You’ve got this Tiff and don’t worry am sure Matt will understand. Get better first.
    Give our love 💕 and kisses to Your mum, she’s a star ⭐️

    • @breephoenix111
      @breephoenix111 Před rokem +1

      Sadly this is happening everywhere. I'm in Australia and there's shortages of paramedics, nursed, drs, beds etc

    • @carlyjones7692
      @carlyjones7692 Před rokem

      Many cancer specialist units will be in the same position, its really important unless someone has discussed with a CNS on an oncology red line (usually a card given to patients) or some other method of contacting their cancer unit that day to discuss their symptoms, they should go to an ED. Often specialist units will ask for their patients to be stabilised in an ED first, have cultures done etc as they don't want infections on units with other immune-suppressed people. However, they will endeavour to get their patients out of ED and on to the ward asap.

    • @dellplummer5173
      @dellplummer5173 Před rokem

      I am dying of cancer... I plan to take my own life in a few days...you are lucky

    • @breephoenix111
      @breephoenix111 Před rokem

      @@dellplummer5173 awww don't do that, do you have family ,have you spoken to your drs about hospice care? Sending love ❤ and prayers to you.

  • @elenipantsiou9945
    @elenipantsiou9945 Před rokem +22

    My dear Tiffany ♥ I've been following you for a while and your videos take me me back 13 years ago when I was in your situation facing cancer with my HERO mum by my side day in day out.Deep down from my heart and always in tears when I watch your videos I wish you the best and I am sure you've got this!!!

  • @pat9577
    @pat9577 Před rokem +1

    Tiffany, you are one of the strongest people I know. Your entire Tiffanythinks family are thinking of you and praying for you always. God bless.

  • @michellelair3102
    @michellelair3102 Před rokem +13

    Oh Tiff!!! I kept checking on Tuesday and then again today. I was so worried about you honey. I feel like I worry and pray for your well being like I do for one of my own children! Thank goodness that the hospital visit got you feeling strong and almost pain free. Hope you and Matt had a wonderful time celebrating his birthday. Much love from NY! 😘 🙋‍♀️Hey Ama! 😘

  • @robertaarenstein6029
    @robertaarenstein6029 Před rokem +39

    My dear Tiffany. I am so sorry you have to go through this. I just watched a lady on CZcams that wrote a song and sang it for you. It was so beautiful just like you. You are in my prayers.
    Please wish Matt a happy birthday, and yes, I think your mom would get an award for the best mom in the world💕

    • @LifeOfJimbo
      @LifeOfJimbo Před rokem +3

      Who was it that wrote the song, it'd be nice to hear

    • @dawnportousa
      @dawnportousa Před rokem +2

      @@LifeOfJimbo I would love to know also!

    • @karoleabird2185
      @karoleabird2185 Před rokem +2

      The youtuber is Songs of Allison. It is an original song called Lost and Found and was done 3 weeks ago.

    • @dawnportousa
      @dawnportousa Před rokem

      @@karoleabird2185 thank you!

    • @shirleyeeckhout7009
      @shirleyeeckhout7009 Před rokem

      Songs of Allison

  • @debbiedusterhoft2870
    @debbiedusterhoft2870 Před rokem +9

    Girl I think we were all emotional watching you suffer in this video. I’m so glad they were able to give you relief with meds. You could see the devotion Amma and Matt have for you . You take care.

  • @jwilcox4726
    @jwilcox4726 Před rokem +1

    Hi Tifiany; My companion will be thirteen on Matt's b day too. 'we just stayed in it;s 9-9 here, that will help me remember. Thanks. Happy Birthday Matt. Glad she has you. God bless Tiffany enjoy the drugs honey you need them right now. Tell Matt and then go to sleep. No upset it will hurt your bottom bleeding issues. Sleep.

  • @Irenialv
    @Irenialv Před rokem +6

    Oh Tiffany this broke my heart. Your suffering reminds me so much of my poor mum. Also seeing your heart monitor, your heart racing, it honestly brings awful memories. I understand the feeling of guilt and anger for possibly ruining moments for the people you love, but always remember they love you very much and all they want is for you to be ok. You got this 💙we know you do!

  • @lisarowe2891
    @lisarowe2891 Před rokem +31

    I felt so relieved to see you at the end of the video looking and sounding so much better. Have a lovely time with Matt. Hope your meeting with the surgeon is a positive one. You have been through so much. Take care. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @chicpea4291
    @chicpea4291 Před rokem +25

    You was in so much pain glad you went to the hospital and they got pain and vomiting under control. Happy birthday Matt and his best present is having you home. Your Mum is wonderful xxxxxxxx

  • @marilynpalosaari2387
    @marilynpalosaari2387 Před rokem +2

    Good evening from Canada, dear Tiffany. 💙 I hope you spent Matt's birthday just snuggling with him & Amma and being cozy for the day. That would be the very best gift you could give him! Maybe it was sunny out & you got to visit your plants outside for a bit in the sun? We all need that sun, don't we? I'm hoping you are beginning to round the bend & feeling a bit better. I'm hoping for only good news from your surgeons appointment. Take care..get stronger... We'll be right here waiting for you, beautiful warrior princess! You've GOT THIS!

  • @snudge9626
    @snudge9626 Před rokem +3

    Tiffany you are such a kind hearted human being. Even when you are feeling poorly you think of Mat's birthday or whether your lovely mum has eaten. It was horrible seeing you so sad at the beginning of the video and so nice to see that gorgeous smile at the end. The whole of England has got this .

  • @joannegollsneider6349
    @joannegollsneider6349 Před rokem +17

    OMG Tiffany, I could feel the anxiety from you and your Mom on way to Hospital and then to be turned away that really got to me. Your smile after your shower was so radiant and beautiful. My prayers are always with you. Love you Girl. "we got this"

  • @elizabethdurocher8308
    @elizabethdurocher8308 Před rokem +14

    A little bump in the road. Glad your home for Matt’s birthday. Happy birthday Matt!!! Sending lots of love and prayers to all.

  • @gp1543
    @gp1543 Před rokem

    your mum deserves the best mum in the world award tiff. your mums beautiful. xx 💙💙

  • @michellebotterill4811
    @michellebotterill4811 Před rokem +6

    Sending you all my love sweet Tiffany, your so thoughtful and kind and I’m guessing a lot of that has to do with the way your amazing mum raised you. Amma is just beautiful and I agree she deserves the best mum in the world award. It must be so hard for her to see you suffering 😢hope you all enjoyed Matt’s special day. HAPPY BIRTHDAY MATT🥂. Your always in my thoughts and prayers Tiff. Love you 💗💗💗

  • @somersetflower
    @somersetflower Před rokem +41

    Darling girl...
    We are here for you holding yours and Ammas hands.
    Do as the nurses tell you and rest easy . Keeping you in my prayers and thoughts as always.🙏
    We love you Tiff .You got this.
    💙
    Matt will save his birthday for another day. All he will be worried about is his darling girl. X
    By the way don't ever feel worried about calling an ambulance to help you.

  • @Elementt4life
    @Elementt4life Před rokem +24

    So sorry to hear that your going through this! Stay strong, we’re here for you! We’ve got this! 💪🏼💙

  • @kelleycox258
    @kelleycox258 Před rokem +1

    Dearest Tiffany , you are such a precious person. Even in the midst of your suffering you always find the positive & you always think of others before your self. You have a kind & loving heart & a gentle spirit. You inspire so many people in so many ways just by being your wonderful self. Thank you for sharing so much of your self with us. I am a mom & a first time grandma & my nurturing instinct kicked in when I saw you in so much pain. I just wanted to give u a big hug & tell u that everything will be okay. I'm so glad u have your mum, Matt, & your wonderful family there with u. I will continue to pray for u & your family . Try to rest & feel better. God bless u, sweetheart. 💙

  • @csslkft6517
    @csslkft6517 Před rokem +3

    Tiffany, you are such a strong soul. Your mom truly deserves the highest award. Your family is there for you and doing their best. Keep the faith. Prayers going up up for you and family. You will get better Tiffany. God bless you

  • @dawnculpeper2125
    @dawnculpeper2125 Před rokem +3

    Your mom definitely deserves the greatest mom award! You look and sound so much better...all my light and love sweet girl

  • @fay791
    @fay791 Před rokem +20

    Prayers for you Tiffany 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💙

  • @glamissunburn6010
    @glamissunburn6010 Před rokem +2

    Tiffany, you are so sweet and kind to people. You have a really good heart. Your kindness is an inspiration. You’re a great person to influence ppl in a positive way. Glad you were doing better too! Hate seeing you suffer.

  • @candicesailsbury1355
    @candicesailsbury1355 Před rokem +11

    I’m so sorry Tiffany 😢 I know you have been through so much misery. Alma yes you are the best and I love you for it. Happy Birthday Matt I hope y’all have a great day together.
    Love y’all bunches

  • @briethompson439
    @briethompson439 Před rokem +7

    Oh Lord, this vlog started out worrisome :/ I'm so glad you're feeling better and got your pain and nausea under control. Also glad you got to celebrate your amazing man's birthday. You are blessed with so much support! Keep putting one foot in front of the other. You are a warrior and a light in dark places 🕯️

  • @joanneford356
    @joanneford356 Před rokem +3

    Tiffany you truly are an inspiration and the loveliest girl I “know “ the world would be a better place with more Tiffanys! 🥰
    You gave Matt the best present ever by doing the right thing and seeking medical intervention.
    I was so worried for you but I know you’ve got this, praying for you all, give Amma and Matt a big kiss from me as they are one in a million 🤩⭐️🌟💫 it’s about taking baby steps at the moment, so be gentle to yourself, but they’ll come a time when you’ll be up and running 🏃‍♀️ and they’ll be no stopping you! Bless you all xxx

  • @broken_rebirth
    @broken_rebirth Před rokem +2

    Oh thank god you got to the hospital. I'm glad they gave you the good pain killers. gut pain /abdomen pain is one of the worst pains equal to a migraine IMHO. Hopefully they will get back to you with good news though. Honestly I think it's just inflammation and lack of fluids. If you had a major infection you'd have a high fever as well. Your body is just stressed at the moment. I'm so happy for you that you get to spend time with your husband on his birthday! :)

  • @sandragoss62
    @sandragoss62 Před rokem +8

    Tiffany if this ever happens to you again please please call an ambulance. That’s what they’re there for. I’m so glad you’ve recovered but the blood loss will make you feel awful. Rest up. You got this 🙏🏻💙🙏🏻💙🙏🏻💙🙏🏻

  • @vickyCA1643
    @vickyCA1643 Před rokem +18

    Those doctors need to listen to you more quickly and do something about the pain & bleeding. You shouldn’t have to wait until it is an emergency to get help! Be the squeaky wheel Tiffany. You must advocate for yourself. Be polite but firm, be proactive for yourself. I know how hard that must be when you are sick! You are not wimp girl, that’s for sure! Blessing to you!!

    • @michellesantiago3030
      @michellesantiago3030 Před rokem +8

      I was thinking the same thing about being one’s own advocate. As a former RN, I encourage you, Tiffany, to speak up! This has been going on since last week when you had the biopsies. The bleeding should have slowed or stopped by this point. If a complication arises ever again, call the surgeons office right away. Don’t take a “wait and see” approach. Instead, take charge of you! You call the shots from here on out! We love you Tiff, and want all the best outcomes for you sweet girl!! Hugs and prayers! 🥰💝

    • @carlf.9035
      @carlf.9035 Před rokem +2

      Great advice for any patient or for preventive care. It's harder than one thinks, some Doctors give off an intimidation that nothing should be questioned even if merely to simply provide clarity.

    • @lisawillbrand2281
      @lisawillbrand2281 Před rokem +4

      This whole story really torques me! Her medical team, if there is one, is disturbingly lackadaisical about Tiff. Don’t know how there ystem works, but, if she has a g.p., he/she should be on this case, following her daily and pressuring these “consulting” doctors to get on with it. My husband is a physician and if she were his patient she would have had all the needed tests and an appointment with an oncologist within 2 weeks at the very latest. What’s happening to Tiff is a crime! Full stop!

    • @keeper6458
      @keeper6458 Před rokem +1

      What's so sad is that a lot of them don't listen... they never listened to me...and I almost died....

    • @michellesantiago3030
      @michellesantiago3030 Před rokem +1

      @@lisawillbrand2281 I’m with you on this! I think they have a totally different system over there, and getting an appointment in a timely fashion is non-existent. Even still, she has to take the bull by it’s horns, and be proactive. She should have been attended to right away from the surgeon who did the biopsies. That amount of bleeding should have been a red flag to the ER staff that would cause them to notify her surgeon, and take further action. Your right. They are working at a leisurely pace, and don’t have much concern about Tiff!

  • @sarahsullo1410
    @sarahsullo1410 Před rokem +1

    Sweet sweet Tiffany! The grace and positive attitude you have shown through all your most difficult times and the love you feel for so many others will surely be what will rid you of this cancer!! Love and hugs to you, Amma and Matt. ❤️

  • @bethanderson397
    @bethanderson397 Před rokem +10

    Oh Tiffany I was so worried for you at the beginning of the video, I’m sooo happy you were helped and are feeling better!!
    Happy Birthday Matt!! Happy for you Tiffany that you get to celebrate with him 😃.
    Your mother IS the best! 💙

  • @JulieR73
    @JulieR73 Před rokem +13

    Bless you. You worry about others when you’re feeling so bad. You’re amazing!

  • @sallymoodley1422
    @sallymoodley1422 Před rokem +16

    Darling Tiffany, our prayers are with you. May God grant you healing and comfort. So glad you feel so much better at the end of the video. May you have a restful evening.

  • @jillcoe4695
    @jillcoe4695 Před rokem +1

    Happy birthday to your darling Matt. So glad you are getting your pain under control and that is wasn't Cdif. Have a beautiful day.

  • @agathahofmann6977
    @agathahofmann6977 Před rokem +1

    ♥️
    geez your complexion at the start and 10 minutes into the video is like night vs day. from grey and sunken in to rosey and plump.

  • @susanfleming496
    @susanfleming496 Před rokem +47

    I'm so sorry you're having to go through all this, dear Tiffany. I'm glad they were able to help at the hospital and that you're feeling better now. Please take good care. I agree you have the best mom in the world! Thinking of you and sending prayers and hugs from Barcelona. We got this 💙💙

  • @Sheloyigamer
    @Sheloyigamer Před rokem +4

    Your mother has a presence in your videos. I can just sense her love and compassion. I’m glad you’re feeling better. I get worried about you between videos

  • @sandy239b6
    @sandy239b6 Před rokem +2

    Stay strong young lady! No weapon formed against you shall prosper in the Mighty Name of Jesus! 🙏🥰

  • @timothytice3074
    @timothytice3074 Před rokem +1

    Give her lots of love Matt stay strong

  • @ldudley8956
    @ldudley8956 Před rokem +22

    So glad you’re back home, Tiffany! Have a wonderful day with Matt! Happy Birthday, Matt! Hello, strong, beautiful, brave amma! 🙏🏼💙🦋🥳🎉🎊🎁🎂🍰🧁🍦🍭

  • @jessicabellone913
    @jessicabellone913 Před rokem +7

    Awww Tiffany I’m so so sorry that all of this is happening to you 💔 I’m sending all my love and prayers to all of you. Your sweet beautifully kind mother definitely deserves mama of the year award 🥇 We got this 💙

  • @mariasweeney54
    @mariasweeney54 Před rokem +1

    🙏🍀 You and your mum are so beautiful…. I’m sorry you are in such pain but you are baring it so well…. It’s just a shame you haven’t got a gateway straight into your cancer care unit/ clinic 😢. So glad the meds and input has given you relief…. Have a lovely “Matts birthday tomorrow “ big hugs n loves to you all…. And a very happy birthday to Matt 🎂🍻🥂

  • @catdoganddramaqueen8487
    @catdoganddramaqueen8487 Před rokem +1

    Sending hugs precious lady. Don’t you worry about being an imposition or upsetting Matt’s birthday, he is so blessed to have you in his life (and of course vice versa) so that’s what is most important. Your Mum is a legend, best Mum, so caring and loving. You’ve got this. Onwards and upwards.