I got the movie of this serial killer in a yard sale . Horrific , for the survivor victims family . That’s all I can buy . He was a coward psychopath .
It’s heartbreaking for any family member to have the conflict internally of the person they loved and then to find out parts of the person you knew was a lie or hidden and covered up, leaves such confusion internally at times.This whole experience has clearly impacted his life and it makes you wonder what sort of childhood both ted and his brother actually had and if it is only his experience with his brothers horrific legacy that has impacted his life or if there family life was not as wholesome as ted bundy tried to present.
I am happy you have included this video. It seems appropriate to end the inhumanity experience Carol and others went through in a conciliatory manner. Nobody except God knows why Ted Is what he did. Judge Cowart I feel made a conciliatory statement towards Ted. If he made a statement of outrage, he ran the risk of the conclusion of an awful trial descending into ugly chaos filled with belligerence and disrespect. As a leader, the trial proceedings were Judge Cowarts responsibility. Whether we like Judge Cowarts comments or not, the final comments seems the lesser of two evils from a 3rd person perspective. An attempt to pacify potential outrage had to be made in an awful trial and repulsive defendant. My biggest thing to be happy about is that Carol and other survivors moved on to have very successful lives after being attacked. I am also happy the high road was taken by including this video of Richard Bundy. No grudge should be held against the family because of the awful, inhuman actions of Ted; Louise's son and Rich's brother.
I appreciate the strength it took for Rich Bundy to do this interview. I hope and pray that, in even a small way, doing the interview helps Rich Bundy.
After watching this interview, it hit me.....when you hear about someone that takes another person's life, you never consider the impact of that evil deed has on the people that love them. So sad for this man! God bless him. What a horrible burden to take through life!
He didn't only steal his victims lives. He stole the youth, hope, and innocence of this guy right here. And hardly ANYONE ever has empathy for a monsters family. This is incredibly sad.😢
@@-Cybin Yes he is. Imagine you do everything right in your life then your brother turns out to be a serial killer. No matter all that hard work and focus, you are emotionally and mentally fucked. It doesn't make the victims any less of victims you muppet. Both can be true at the same time. Ted did this, not his brother. Ted.
@@-Cybin Not a victim? Seriously? Clearly you aren't keeping up my friend. Richard was absolutely victimized by his brother's actions. Without a doubt.
Yes, I thought that too. He isn’t physically like his brother but he has kinda the same voice as Ted and lots of his mannerisms. That’s were the similarities end though. Rich comes across as a very decent, compassionate man, who is able to feel empathy for others. God bless you, Rich❤
The siblings of a serial killer never get much attention. This was the first interview I’ve seen with Ted Bundy’s brother and you can see how much he looked up to his big brother. It must be very difficult for those who are related to the killer to live a somewhat normal life after the truth comes out. Hopefully he gets the help he needs and it’s unfair how the sibling’s reputation is tarnished for the rest of his life.
Imagine... Just try and imagine being a teenage kid, going through all the changes that come with growing up. Then discovering your older brother who you've looked up to your entire life is a brutal killer. Then even worse, growing up and seeing skills they documentaries and movies matter about him. He is a victim for sure.
Buddy you can hear the amount of drugs Rich Bundy took. Ted Bundy wasn't just a killer he was a necrophile and cannibal. His youngest victim was 12. You would have to be pretty brain damaged from drug abuse to even reminisce the past with a person like that. No one should love him not even his brother.
@michellenunley314 You’re misusing the term “survivor’s guilt,” like so many misinformed people do. I’m sure it’s tough for him, but it’s not survivor’s guilt.
This literally made me emotional. i can feel his pain and anguish. His isolation. His shame in loving a serial killer. He truly loved Ted, and through his actions Ted smashed him to pieces.
@@Blackhankhill Your naivete is incredible, this psychopathic murderer thought no such thing. You are projecting yourself onto that monster in a bizarre, irresponsible attempt to 'humanize' him. That "look" the brother describes is the typical 'look of contempt' of a narcissistic psychopath/sociopath - could write an entire chapter about that look alone. That homicidal maniac didn't care about his brother for his brother's sake, they just don't do that. It's likely the brother just saw him in a moment of thought about either a past victim or a future one, or even perhaps one he wished for, and the poor kid caught a glimpse of the monster within but with no possible idea of what he was seeing.
I don’t think even a psychiatrist can understand what this guy feels and the emotions he has endured, but you are still alive Richard which means you are a survivor, high five to you bro. What a good dude.
It always hurts whenever someone you loved and trusted. Betrays you and everyone else that you love around you. People like Bundy are so consumed with their own sick disgusting ways. That they rarely if ever are considering the consequences of their own actions. Mostly they think "Fuck off, I'll do what I please and there's no one who can or will stop me. Cause I'm better than they are." That is why all of us out there who are acutely aware of such people like Bundy have a responsibility to stop them anyway we can. Remember one day it could be someone you deeply love and care about.
I was thinking about my three sisters, how wonderful they are, how much I love them, and how much I am blessed in contrast to Rich. And now I am reading your comment… I am so sorry… Sending you sibling love ❤
@@steviejrr I love when people like you who are so miserable, lash out at people on the internet because your wife didn’t want to fuck you this morning
It makes me feel bad 4 Rich. Apparently his life has been greatly affected by his "brother's" choices, that he hasn't been able 2 enjoy his own life. My heart goes out 2 him.
I know what you mean I got an older brother to that I used to look up to and he disappointing me I love him and wonder what it’s like to have a relative as a serial killer thinking the whole world is going to judge you think it’s partly your fault that whoever it was really too turned out that way your names are always tarnished he seems like a good guy and I feel for him
@@BeanFace-oj2enthere’s nothing wrong with a man being sensitive. This is the EXACT toxic misogynistic thinking that leads to bad man. Someone picking on them for being “too sensitive” and telling them to “man up”. Men can be sensitive. Men can have feelings. Men can cry. Men can love cats. There’s nothing wrong with any of that. Men aren’t solely here to impress you with their manliness. Just like women have a plethora of personalities and interests and they’re not all the same, men do as well. Yet people like you think men can only act one way.
Sir, you are not your brother. You are not a monster. Please do not let the weight crush you anymore. I had monsters in my family, too. I know it is so hard.
@@ConwayTwitterHe's not sad about losing his brother. He's angry that he didn't know sooner or felt something wrong but couldn't figure out what... He's hurt but not because of the loss. Losing a brother is full of grief but you get a move on sooner or later but that's not even close to what this guy suffered with ... Fear, Humiliation, Deceived, Guilt and all kinds of pain... I'm sorry about your loss BTW. I wish peace and comfort for your brother.
I'm a big brother who had little brother who was ten years younger than me and left us way too soon in 2001 at the age of 12. That little boy thought I could walk on water and knowing that, I just can't even imagine what this guy has gone through psychologically.
It was his biological grandmother posing as his mother who claimed his innocence. I don’t think we heard from his biological mother who he thought was his sister.
Correct, most people don't understand this. The old white haired woman most people believe was TEDs mother was actually his grandmother. TEDs mother was actually his so called "sister"who gave birth to him out of wedlock at about the age of 17, the entire family from that point on raised Ted as her "little brother".
you know nothing about what a mother would feel about her son.... to me its normal that she saw her son as an angel..that's what a normal mother would do. makes sense ? NO... but it is what it is.
He's like a human version of Ted. Spiritual polar opposites. Rich clearly has a gentle and kind nature unlike the creature his brother was. Sucks for him. I hope he's loved and looked after in his community.
I have a feeling that moment Ted sent him away abruptly was because Ted began having thoughts of harming him, or maybe even killing him as well... and the thoughts became overbearing. That's also why I think he had that moment of appearing horrified/disgusted at the airport. If my gut is right, then his murderous/violent tendencies were starting to transcend out of just women he found attractive...
@@daithiocinnsealach3173 In my opinion Serial Killer Calendar (murderbilia site), Netflix and every other true crime outlet that has made money from Rich's family should cut the dude a cheque. It's not like they haven't made million's from his families pain. Terrible for him. I have no doubt Rich could make good money with his music, the issue being of course dudes would want him in their band solely because of who he is, that or any music he makes is unfairly rejected for the same reason. Seriously, if I won 100 mill in lottery, Rich Bundy is a dude I'm cutting a 1 mill cheque for. He doesn't deserve his current situation. Ted Bundy was truly fucking worthless for everything he did, but pulling his brother down with him was the cherry.
He also looks like him from the outside but you realise how much of a gentle soul he is. A guy who looks like ted bundy but has a good heart. It's very ironic.
Sad... But we are not our brothers or parents. He's as different from Ted as night and day. Betrayal is a terrible thing one of the worst things. He was betrayed by his hero. 😢
Rich, you are absolutely one of the kindest people I have met, I'm sorry that you have been carrying this burden with you. May only good vibes go your way, dude!
Poor guy. Really devastating what he must have gone through and still is. How betrayed he must have felt when he realised who really was the brother he once adored and admired. I truly feel for him. He looks a great guy with a lot of love for others, self-esteem and dignity.
@@mistersquare7327 It's a rhetorical question you ignoramus but I guess such subtleties are above your head......if you read more books you might understand.
I love reading the support Richard is receiving on this thread. My heart hurts for him, the pain he obviously feels, the trauma he has endured and he manages to be a caring, compassionate human being. Prayers to Richard. You are a true survivor!
Thank you for uploading this. I never knew Bundy had a younger brother, and to find out how much Rich looked up to Ted and respected him breaks my heart. You can tell the man is still very much affected by the actions of his psychopathic older brother :/
You can tell this has crushed him and weighed on him his entire life. He’s literally been fighting this his whole life and he always will. Bless this man. Just bc you have a family member that is evil; does not mean that you are anything like them. At all.
It's not just the fear of him being like his brother. He feels far more shame of not being able to save his brother from the evil that consumed him. Also the victims and their families who will continue to suffer. Even his own family and people who were close to Bundy before they knew what he had done.
No, but you are forever marked in relation with him in eyes of public, thats why he isolate himself, you can escape from that, but you cannot escape from knowing that you loved and trusted to someone who was capable to do something like this 🤦🏻♂️
@@borisp9163 I'm not saying that you're right or I'm wrong. The truth of why he lives the way he does may have nothing at all to do with his brother. Only he knows his reasons for his actions. Which is very true for most of us. That aside, the ugliness of that experience impacted his entire family and I'm sure cut him right down to his very core. I'm sure he struggles with that pain everyday.
I adored my older brother when I was a kid to come to the realization when I was older that he was a criminal who eventually died in prison. I kept my kids from him but in the end I was the only one that went to prison to see him when he was dying. I didn’t like or trust him but he was my only brother yet I condone nothing he did.
I think he was predisposed for a failure, considering how Ted turned out. There are exceptions to the rule, but the whole family was doomed. Actually, Ted turned out exactly like his grandfather, a psychopath. Mental illnesses are hereditary.
This is the face of someone who can no longer trust anyone Many of us are in that situation But his was public and a world’s stage. Imagine how people looked at this innocent brother of his ? Ted ruined his brother’s life too . This man carrys the weight of his brothers sin. That’s heartbreaking.
That was POWERFUL stuff. I think I would change my name if I was Ted Bundy's brother - I'm sure people, learning his last name, have jokingly asked "any relation to TED Bundy?," more than once.
This is precisely my thought! And I know, somewhat amorphously, that I would have made this joke in some way or other over my short lifetime. It’s made me rethink irreverent speech and have more compassion for those who really don’t commonly cross our minds x
So sad to see this innocent man's life ruined by his brother's deeds. Going through his life branded as Ted Bundy's brother. Feeling the load of guilt that is not his fault. He's also one of Bundy's victims.
I feel for this guy. He seems like a real compassionate guy who looked up to his brother and then finding out he's one of the most infamous serial killers in the world. Fuck man. Keep your head up Rich I'm praying for you buddy.
I had tears in my eyes after one minute of this interview. Such a tragity. He loved his brother. An ultimate betrayal. I can't imagine how his mother felt.
Of course, it goes without saying that I feel so bad for TB's victims and their families, but I also feel so sorry for his brother. I can feel his pain. Murderers not only kill their victims, but hurt and destroy the lives of their family and loved ones.
I can't imagine the depression this guy has lived with his entire life. Props to him for staying on this earth and not taking himself out, bc I can garauntee he's struggled with suicidal ideation.
His comment about his brother cutting the visit short and the reason being that he was feeling the urge coming on... I found that moment a disturbing flash of TB's nature.
Loosing your brother/hero in a horrible way can break you. I can't imagine what kind of fight must be going on in his head everyday. Hope him and his cat can find some kind of peace.
I saw this documentary. The hurt the younger brother and the fiancé suffer is just so palpable. I think the brother now not being around people is understandable. How do you trust anyone after what one of the people you trusted most does what Ted did. How do you trust yourself to read anyone again? It’s just so sad. We know that nobody could know. But it’s hardest to forgive yourself.
I wish that someone would reach out to this poor man and give him some hope, certainly somewhere better to live than a trailer. This is just heartbreaking. :( :(
Richard..I'm so sorry that this was done to you. You, your Mom and the rest of your family did NOTHING to deserve this! God please hold all the innocents in Your hands.
I feel so bad for Rich. He loved his brother, and looked up to him. To have to accept that Ted was such a monster completely devastated him. It's something he has to struggle with everyday. My heart breaks for him and the rest of the family, not to mention the victims' families.
There no happy endings with any of these type of stories. Both the victims and the killer are dead. The families on both sides have to struggle everyday to find a way to continue living. Even though that feels more impossible than most people would ever believe. You just keep putting foot in front of the other. Until one day hopefully you can find a better way to continue or you are fortunate enough to be reunited with those loved again.
You can see it in his face- what he says and how he says it. He feels like he isn't allowed to love his brother anymore. Like it's wrong to have any happy memories with him. Someone needs to give this guy permission to love and morn the brother he knew. The brother he knew was very different from the monster he was to the rest of the world.
@@infinite4392 It's not just the pain of losing his brother to the diabolical evil within Ted Bundy. It was the pain and suffering that his brother caused to countless good people. His own family included. Forgiving a person for committing sins that severe is something that is very challenging if not impossible for anyone to do.
Bless his heart! I cant even imagine going through what he went through finding out what his beloved big brother was.Its clear that it all haunts him to this day.
It's really moving that he actually talks about the victims with great compassion. His girlfriend from back then doesn't talk like that. "I really wouldn't want this picture" i never heard her say anything like that.
My heart truly goes out to this man. I cannot even fathom having to live under the shadow of that. I am happy to report that he's doing all right by other standards. He feels bad if he doesn't leave his trailer for 2 or 3 days and I feel bad when I don't leave my bed or my bedroom for 2 or 3 years. Depression. It's not just for breakfast anymore.
To be betrayed by someone you loved and trusted so completely is the worst. It’s like being killed yet you’re alive. For him I feel that he’s going through this death continually. I wish he could really let it all go, and I bet he feels the same way, but…
When you are betrayed by someone you love they steal everything of real value from you. Not money, but they take and destroy all the precious moments and memories you had with that person. They make you question everything they had done for as long as you knew them and you question yourself about how could put yourself in that vulnerable of a position ever again. On top of it all, that person that you thought you knew just dies -- immediately and out of the blue -- but they attacked your past, present and future on the way out.
I know what it feels like to think someone you loved most was the complete opposite of the person you thought they were. It's heartbreaking. It's really something you really never get over. You always wonder what signs you missed.
Richard is so clearly a good person. I mean, he genuinely has the decency that his brother only wore as a mask. It underscores the tragic weirdness of this kind of evil--with most sorts of extremely violent people, they're just the most extreme examples from a pool of generally awful relations and acquaintances. That someone like Richard could be so evidently pure-hearted, in such close proximity (of both nature and nurture) to someone as evil and cruel as his brother is... almost baffling. And that his brother could genuinely care for, even adore, him or any one human being, while being capable of such dehumanizing violence to others... boggles the mind.
@@liviodinaj6105 l I feel the same way living with strangers all my life had to face all the atrocity purely l was holy child perhaps all these struggles had to face because of me. He wanted be a world leader with holy spirit lt had have connection of maistri so he stole my dad plans was quite old How many decades? May be after world war ll second
Ted had no empathy or compassion. I have a narcissistic sister I have nothing to do with. How she intimidated me. I remember driving out to party at the reservoir in Appleton City, Mo. I asked her to stop so I could move a turtle crossing the road. She ran over it. Then laughed. I can't even wrap my head around what Ted did to Rich. I hope he finds peace and love 🕊️
That's weird. I accidentally ran over a possum when I was 16 going to get my driver's license in 2001. I still very bad about that. I always look out for the ducks dogs cats anything plus humans. It's best to stay far away from that sister of yours. I have one also Katie but, she has a six year old kid. Good for her.
When a very close relative is found to have committed crimes like this, it's very hard to understand and reconcile. You know the person in one light, and then are presented with another side of them you can't even comprehend. You begin to wonder if the person you knew was even real. Was it all an act? How could they do such things? Or are they capable of being nice and good, and also being a despicable monster? It's extremely confusing - you feel disbelief, anger, resentment and eventually a kind of hollow acceptance that doesn't bring any solace. You spend a lot of time thinking about the people they hurt and the things they've done - you kind of become shackled to it in a way.
Very well said my brother murder somebody. He left there naked dead body in the middle of nowhere. And you wonder if it's real or not because I remember changing his diaper as a baby
I absolutely agree. Everything gets thrown into question, even asking if there's something you could have done. Obviously no one could've stopped Bundy but I bet that thoughts crossed his mind on many occasion.
This man’s pain is palpable. My heart aches for him. Ted Bundy essentially “killed” a huge part of his younger brother’s life. I hope he knows that there was absolutely NOTHING he could have done to change or prevent what his brother did!
He is such a strong guy. Knowing what his own family member did, someone he trusted, and he is still living and working through it. He hasn’t given up, and he never should. I am truly sorry for all who are affected by Ted’s sickening acts. This was so brave of him to share his story. His own perspective of it all. For everyone out there, I love you 😢💕
In a post apocalyptic world..I could see myself livin like this. Then I realize I have 3 kids and a wife. Goals and hope for the future. This man is merly existing.
i’ve watched the full documentary more than 5 times, not for the shock or horror, but for the beauty and dignity it brings to each of the victims, their friends, their families, and their potential, lost. I think we can agree, Rich’s pain is real. His character shines through. May love touch your life, Rich. ☮️
I can’t even imagine the trauma of having to merge all the best memories and experiences with your brother and “role model” with the mind blowing truth that he is a murderer. What an irreparable shock to the psyche that must be. 💔
Ted Bundy:Falling for a Killer on Amazon.
I got the movie of this serial killer in a yard sale . Horrific , for the survivor victims family . That’s all I can buy . He was a coward psychopath .
God love him.."if i have enough for food and shelter for my cat...and myself.. im OK"
It’s heartbreaking for any family member to have the conflict internally of the person they loved and then to find out parts of the person you knew was a lie or hidden and covered up, leaves such confusion internally at times.This whole experience has clearly impacted his life and it makes you wonder what sort of childhood both ted and his brother actually had and if it is only his experience with his brothers horrific legacy that has impacted his life or if there family life was not as wholesome as ted bundy tried to present.
I am happy you have included this video. It seems appropriate to end the inhumanity experience Carol and others went through in a conciliatory manner. Nobody except God knows why Ted Is what he did. Judge Cowart I feel made a conciliatory statement towards Ted. If he made a statement of outrage, he ran the risk of the conclusion of an awful trial descending into ugly chaos filled with belligerence and disrespect. As a leader, the trial proceedings were Judge Cowarts responsibility. Whether we like Judge Cowarts comments or not, the final comments seems the lesser of two evils from a 3rd person perspective. An attempt to pacify potential outrage had to be made in an awful trial and repulsive defendant. My biggest thing to be happy about is that Carol and other survivors moved on to have very successful lives after being attacked. I am also happy the high road was taken by including this video of Richard Bundy. No grudge should be held against the family because of the awful, inhuman actions of Ted; Louise's son and Rich's brother.
@@sharononeill4051I agree.
His brother, his idol, his hero.
He should NEVER feel guilty for loving Ted.
His love was 100% innocent and pure.
Bless you Rich Bundy x
virgin simp@@Idomtknow47282
That was in the context before he known his crimes for what his brother did.
Many of us have loved someone who has done horrible things They just never got caught 💔
In the movies they do paint Ted as great w/ children though. That's crazy.
nice stanza
I appreciate the strength it took for Rich Bundy to do this interview. I hope and pray that, in even a small way, doing the interview helps Rich Bundy.
Yes me too 💖🙏
He seems like a really good caring person. I really hope the best for him . 🙏
After watching this interview, it hit me.....when you hear about someone that takes another person's life, you never consider the impact of that evil deed has on the people that love them.
So sad for this man! God bless him. What a horrible burden to take through life!
He didn't only steal his victims lives.
He stole the youth, hope, and innocence of this guy right here. And hardly ANYONE ever has empathy for a monsters family. This is incredibly sad.😢
Not nearly as sad as the story and the fate of the victims and their relatives...he is not a victim
@@-Cybin Yes he is. Imagine you do everything right in your life then your brother turns out to be a serial killer. No matter all that hard work and focus, you are emotionally and mentally fucked. It doesn't make the victims any less of victims you muppet. Both can be true at the same time. Ted did this, not his brother. Ted.
@@-Cybin One doesn't extinguish the other, you fucking moron.
@@peterkent6250exactly. No matter what he does he will be known as a brother of a serial killer through no fault of his own.
@@-Cybin Not a victim? Seriously? Clearly you aren't keeping up my friend. Richard was absolutely victimized by his brother's actions. Without a doubt.
He has a lot of Ted’s mannerisms, and his voice is strikingly similar. Poor guy.
Yes he does. She sounds just like him.
Yes, I thought that too. He isn’t physically like his brother but he has kinda the same voice as Ted and lots of his mannerisms. That’s were the similarities end though. Rich comes across as a very decent, compassionate man, who is able to feel empathy for others. God bless you, Rich❤
A lot of siblings do
That he does. He’s a lot like Ted, in the way he speaks, moves, his mannerisms.
That little gigglesound and smile and even the breathing around 0:55-0.60 is strikingly similar.
The siblings of a serial killer never get much attention. This was the first interview I’ve seen with Ted Bundy’s brother and you can see how much he looked up to his big brother. It must be very difficult for those who are related to the killer to live a somewhat normal life after the truth comes out. Hopefully he gets the help he needs and it’s unfair how the sibling’s reputation is tarnished for the rest of his life.
Agreed. If he ever read this I'd say you are not the product of other people's decisions. I think I'd like Rich.
unfair, unjust.
A victim deserves to have peace and happiness too.
Unfortunate the siblings are often ignored, there's always some kind of sickness in the family, abuse, etc...monsters are made not born.
That’s why you don’t hear about them, it’s their choice, the sisters and daughters always come forward, it’s rare the male relatives do
Agreed. I would love to hear from the family members/siblings, as they were impacted too.
You can hear and even feel the pain that Ted's brother is going through. My heart goes out to him. God bless him.
Imagine... Just try and imagine being a teenage kid, going through all the changes that come with growing up. Then discovering your older brother who you've looked up to your entire life is a brutal killer. Then even worse, growing up and seeing skills they documentaries and movies matter about him.
He is a victim for sure.
Survivor guilt is awful. This man (child) deserved better from his idol!
Buddy you can hear the amount of drugs Rich Bundy took. Ted Bundy wasn't just a killer he was a necrophile and cannibal. His youngest victim was 12. You would have to be pretty brain damaged from drug abuse to even reminisce the past with a person like that. No one should love him not even his brother.
You can feel his pain and angst 💔
@michellenunley314 You’re misusing the term “survivor’s guilt,” like so many misinformed people do. I’m sure it’s tough for him, but it’s not survivor’s guilt.
He didn't know the killer, he knew his brother 😢
Well said. :)
"Shelfter and food for my cat and I" absolutely broke me. This man is a shell. Bless him. I'm in tears
Truly
I just wondering if Rich is on disability or does anyone know what his situation is?
@@paulaward2075 either government assistance or food banks or family.
Calm down lol
Another innocent life Ted Bundy ruined. Poor man.
This literally made me emotional. i can feel his pain and anguish. His isolation. His shame in loving a serial killer. He truly loved Ted, and through his actions Ted smashed him to pieces.
I think thats where Teds look of disgust and horror came from too knowing how much his actions would crush his brother
Yea it's really sad man. His brother was a real rotten mf.
As opposed to what? Figuratively making you emotional?.. lmmfao
@@Blackhankhill Your naivete is incredible, this psychopathic murderer thought no such thing. You are projecting yourself onto that monster in a bizarre, irresponsible attempt to 'humanize' him.
That "look" the brother describes is the typical 'look of contempt' of a narcissistic psychopath/sociopath - could write an entire chapter about that look alone. That homicidal maniac didn't care about his brother for his brother's sake, they just don't do that. It's likely the brother just saw him in a moment of thought about either a past victim or a future one, or even perhaps one he wished for, and the poor kid caught a glimpse of the monster within but with no possible idea of what he was seeing.
@@chilliecheesecake😂
I don’t think even a psychiatrist can understand what this guy feels and the emotions he has endured, but you are still alive Richard which means you are a survivor, high five to you bro.
What a good dude.
You can tell it really messed him up
It always hurts whenever someone you loved and trusted. Betrays you and everyone else that you love around you. People like Bundy are so consumed with their own sick disgusting ways. That they rarely if ever are considering the consequences of their own actions. Mostly they think "Fuck off, I'll do what I please and there's no one who can or will stop me. Cause I'm better than they are." That is why all of us out there who are acutely aware of such people like Bundy have a responsibility to stop them anyway we can. Remember one day it could be someone you deeply love and care about.
No somethings college can not make you understand....most things truthfully
Do you know him?
...or what he still endures
He is an empathetic person. Still feeling the pain for the victims of another persons crimes. I hope he can find peace with everything.
As someone whose sister has made choices that destroyed and continue to destroy our family, this breaks my heart
I was thinking about my three sisters, how wonderful they are, how much I love them, and how much I am blessed in contrast to Rich. And now I am reading your comment…
I am so sorry…
Sending you sibling love ❤
I love when people like you make it all about you, this is not even close to your situation.
What exactlly did your sister do? It cant be that bad right?
@@steviejrr I love when people like you who are so miserable, lash out at people on the internet because your wife didn’t want to fuck you this morning
OF fs
It makes me feel bad 4 Rich. Apparently his life has been greatly affected by his "brother's" choices, that he hasn't been able 2 enjoy his own life. My heart goes out 2 him.
Same. His guilt is palpable. Ted’s crimes were not his fault.
I know what you mean I got an older brother to that I used to look up to and he disappointing me I love him and wonder what it’s like to have a relative as a serial killer thinking the whole world is going to judge you think it’s partly your fault that whoever it was really too turned out that way your names are always tarnished he seems like a good guy and I feel for him
Maybe they were both affected and the younger watched the elder and learned, but still was ruined.
WTF are you trying to say? @@daithiocinnsealach3173
@@astoldbytheolyn4382ted was à devil .He not only destroyed young lives but also his brothers life..who couldnt know..sad
Unfortunately, it wasn't that Ted was trying to protect Richard by sending him home. Ted just wanted him out of the way.
That's correct.
'Jimmy Rig' your way through life...never heard that expression in England...
@@kailashpatel1706 what is that? jimmy rig??
@@kailashpatel1706 I have heard it growing up, very common where I came from.
@@kailashpatel1706 it’s a very good alternative to the original phrase. Lol
"When a man loves cats, I am his friend and comrade without
further
introduction"
~ Mark Twain
Lol my nikname was gibber at college😃 don't have much faith in cat loving men, possibly to sensitive or bending
Me too.
@@BeanFace-oj2enthere’s nothing wrong with a man being sensitive. This is the EXACT toxic misogynistic thinking that leads to bad man. Someone picking on them for being “too sensitive” and telling them to “man up”.
Men can be sensitive. Men can have feelings. Men can cry. Men can love cats. There’s nothing wrong with any of that. Men aren’t solely here to impress you with their manliness. Just like women have a plethora of personalities and interests and they’re not all the same, men do as well. Yet people like you think men can only act one way.
@@BeanFace-oj2en Your values lack warmth, lack intelligence.
@@bradenharris8718 Well said.
Sir, you are not your brother. You are not a monster. Please do not let the weight crush you anymore. I had monsters in my family, too. I know it is so hard.
Poor man! Living with the dark shadow of the shame his brother committed. Prayers for Richard.
How awful to have everything go wrong with the brother. What a loss. Thanks for posting these. We rarely hear about family. Really wish him the best.
@@ConwayTwitterHe's not sad about losing his brother.
He's angry that he didn't know sooner or felt something wrong but couldn't figure out what...
He's hurt but not because of the loss.
Losing a brother is full of grief but you get a move on sooner or later but that's not even close to what this guy suffered with ... Fear, Humiliation, Deceived, Guilt and all kinds of pain...
I'm sorry about your loss BTW. I wish peace and comfort for your brother.
I'm a big brother who had little brother who was ten years younger than me and left us way too soon in 2001 at the age of 12. That little boy thought I could walk on water and knowing that, I just can't even imagine what this guy has gone through psychologically.
❤
I’m so sorry for your loss.
I've got an older brother about ten years aswell h thinks he can walk on water... Especially when he's had a drink and I say he can't 🤣
Glad he isn’t delusional as his mother was, who insisted Ted was innocent till her death even after hearing Teds confessions himself.
denial is a strong defense mechanism
It was his biological grandmother posing as his mother who claimed his innocence. I don’t think we heard from his biological mother who he thought was his sister.
Correct, most people don't understand this. The old white haired woman most people believe was TEDs mother was actually his grandmother. TEDs mother was actually his so called "sister"who gave birth to him out of wedlock at about the age of 17, the entire family from that point on raised Ted as her "little brother".
you know nothing about what a mother would feel about her son.... to me its normal that she saw her son as an angel..that's what a normal mother would do. makes sense ? NO... but it is what it is.
He's like a human version of Ted. Spiritual polar opposites. Rich clearly has a gentle and kind nature unlike the creature his brother was. Sucks for him. I hope he's loved and looked after in his community.
No he's not. He lives in a trailer with his cat, rejected by society.
I have a feeling that moment Ted sent him away abruptly was because Ted began having thoughts of harming him, or maybe even killing him as well... and the thoughts became overbearing. That's also why I think he had that moment of appearing horrified/disgusted at the airport. If my gut is right, then his murderous/violent tendencies were starting to transcend out of just women he found attractive...
@@pauliedibbs9028 you gotta cool
With the murder docs.
@@daithiocinnsealach3173 In my opinion Serial Killer Calendar (murderbilia site), Netflix and every other true crime outlet that has made money from Rich's family should cut the dude a cheque. It's not like they haven't made million's from his families pain. Terrible for him. I have no doubt Rich could make good money with his music, the issue being of course dudes would want him in their band solely because of who he is, that or any music he makes is unfairly rejected for the same reason. Seriously, if I won 100 mill in lottery, Rich Bundy is a dude I'm cutting a 1 mill cheque for. He doesn't deserve his current situation. Ted Bundy was truly fucking worthless for everything he did, but pulling his brother down with him was the cherry.
I'm sure you have a degree in psychology! And we need to take everything you say as competent!
When you listen to his voice closely he sounds like him. Poor guy, he's probably had really hard times with people who knew Ted was his brother
He also looks like him from the outside but you realise how much of a gentle soul he is. A guy who looks like ted bundy but has a good heart. It's very ironic.
I replayed it and didn't look at the screen and wow, he really does.
Sad... But we are not our brothers or parents. He's as different from Ted as night and day. Betrayal is a terrible thing one of the worst things. He was betrayed by his hero. 😢
You don't even need to listen closely..as soon as he began speaking it sounded familiar. Ted really did hurt and destroy so many people. 😢
Rich, you are absolutely one of the kindest people I have met, I'm sorry that you have been carrying this burden with you. May only good vibes go your way, dude!
When did you meet him? I guarantee you never did
"It takes one victim and all of this goes to sh1t..." his heart is in the right place. poor guy.
Poor guy. Really devastating what he must have gone through and still is. How betrayed he must have felt when he realised who really was the brother he once adored and admired. I truly feel for him. He looks a great guy with a lot of love for others, self-esteem and dignity.
Richard seems so sad. Ted ruined so many lives; betrayed so many people. How could he do this to his family? He broke all their hearts.
He was sick that’s why
A really stupid question. How could he? Well, he could do it just like thousands of serial killers did it before and after him.
@@mistersquare7327 It's a rhetorical question you ignoramus but I guess such subtleties are above your head......if you read more books you might understand.
I'm pretty sure it was rhetorical...@@mistersquare7327
@@mistersquare7327yeah that is a stupid question. No offense to OP. It’s like saying “why do cartels kill people?” They just do…
I love reading the support Richard is receiving on this thread. My heart hurts for him, the pain he obviously feels, the trauma he has endured and he manages to be a caring, compassionate human being. Prayers to Richard. You are a true survivor!
Thank you for uploading this. I never knew Bundy had a younger brother, and to find out how much Rich looked up to Ted and respected him breaks my heart. You can tell the man is still very much affected by the actions of his psychopathic older brother :/
His brother is so sweet, we are not responsible for our family's actions... I'll pray he will be ok :(
I feel for his brother. You can see how much his brothers' actions affected him.
I am so sorry you have had to endure this. Big hugs, to you and your cat.
Ted didn't deserve Richard.
You can tell this has crushed him and weighed on him his entire life. He’s literally been fighting this his whole life and he always will. Bless this man.
Just bc you have a family member that is evil; does not mean that you are anything like them. At all.
It's not just the fear of him being like his brother. He feels far more shame of not being able to save his brother from the evil that consumed him. Also the victims and their families who will continue to suffer. Even his own family and people who were close to Bundy before they knew what he had done.
No, but you are forever marked in relation with him in eyes of public, thats why he isolate himself, you can escape from that, but you cannot escape from knowing that you loved and trusted to someone who was capable to do something like this 🤦🏻♂️
@@borisp9163 I'm not saying that you're right or I'm wrong. The truth of why he lives the way he does may have nothing at all to do with his brother. Only he knows his reasons for his actions. Which is very true for most of us. That aside, the ugliness of that experience impacted his entire family and I'm sure cut him right down to his very core. I'm sure he struggles with that pain everyday.
I adored my older brother when I was a kid to come to the realization when I was older that he was a criminal who eventually died in prison. I kept my kids from him but in the end I was the only one that went to prison to see him when he was dying. I didn’t like or trust him but he was my only brother yet I condone nothing he did.
I think he was predisposed for a failure, considering how Ted turned out. There are exceptions to the rule, but the whole family was doomed.
Actually, Ted turned out exactly like his grandfather, a psychopath.
Mental illnesses are hereditary.
This is the face of someone who can no longer trust anyone
Many of us are in that situation
But his was public and a world’s stage.
Imagine how people looked at this innocent brother of his ? Ted ruined his brother’s life too . This man carrys the weight of his brothers sin. That’s heartbreaking.
I feel so sorry for Richard, he seems like a really kind and loving guy. I hope he can find peace in his life.
My mom was friends with Bundy's mom. They both worked at University of Puget Sound. My mom felt so bad for her.
For raising a serial killer? Ok
@@Black.Sabbath So you think his mother knew that her son was a serial killer and covered up for him?
That was POWERFUL stuff. I think I would change my name if I was Ted Bundy's brother - I'm sure people, learning his last name, have jokingly asked "any relation to TED Bundy?," more than once.
I think he'd be better off changing his last name too. It's too much a social stigma for him.
It is hard to know who we are related to. The world can seem so small sometime.
I was just thinking about that as well.
This is precisely my thought! And I know, somewhat amorphously, that I would have made this joke in some way or other over my short lifetime. It’s made me rethink irreverent speech and have more compassion for those who really don’t commonly cross our minds x
I'd say naaah I am related to Al and Peg
So sad to see this innocent man's life ruined by his brother's deeds. Going through his life branded as Ted Bundy's brother. Feeling the load of guilt that is not his fault. He's also one of Bundy's victims.
He is not his brother's keeper. He should not carry the guilt of his brother's actions. Clearly, Ted broke this guy's heart.
Exactly.
We don’t choose our own family … 😢
I feel for this guy. He seems like a real compassionate guy who looked up to his brother and then finding out he's one of the most infamous serial killers in the world. Fuck man. Keep your head up Rich I'm praying for you buddy.
Imagine growing up with your brother your whole life as kids and only to find out he was 1 of the most vicious ruthless killers in history
Aww, I'm so sorry for Rich Bundy. He seems like the most lovely person and I'm devastated that he's had to endure this. God bless him.
I had tears in my eyes after one minute of this interview. Such a tragity. He loved his brother. An ultimate betrayal. I can't imagine how his mother felt.
Richard, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Please know there are people who care for you.
Of course, it goes without saying that I feel so bad for TB's victims and their families, but I also feel so sorry for his brother. I can feel his pain. Murderers not only kill their victims, but hurt and destroy the lives of their family and loved ones.
Yes, I can’t stand it when people try to blame the families of the perpetrators. The families are innocent victims as well most of the time.
Its freaky how the voices of siblings are so similar
Ronald Reagan's brother. Richard Nixon's brother. Check them out
So sad. His brother is a victim too.
I can't imagine the depression this guy has lived with his entire life. Props to him for staying on this earth and not taking himself out, bc I can garauntee he's struggled with suicidal ideation.
I agree, this guy i hope continues to stay strong.
My heart breaks for the brother. How awful to find out someone you love is a murder
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@@DJ-bj8kudo you want a cookie?
@@DingDangg Is that how you lure little boys?
@@DJ-bj8ku Bullseye murdered your father😂
His comment about his brother cutting the visit short and the reason being that he was feeling the urge coming on... I found that moment a disturbing flash of TB's nature.
Loosing your brother/hero in a horrible way can break you. I can't imagine what kind of fight must be going on in his head everyday. Hope him and his cat can find some kind of peace.
Rich, if you see this, you have my best wishes forever. God bless you.
Seems to be a lonely, broken soul….
This is heartbreaking to watch. I pray he finds some peace somehow somewhere someday.
You can hear it in his voice, they sound very similar at times. Hope you are doing alright Rich.
I really feel sorry for him. Can you imagine the mental trauma he endured?
They sound vocally so alike, his brother is another broken victim.
I saw this documentary. The hurt the younger brother and the fiancé suffer is just so palpable. I think the brother now not being around people is understandable. How do you trust anyone after what one of the people you trusted most does what Ted did. How do you trust yourself to read anyone again? It’s just so sad. We know that nobody could know. But it’s hardest to forgive yourself.
I wish that someone would reach out to this poor man and give him some hope, certainly somewhere better to live than a trailer. This is just heartbreaking. :( :(
Seems like a good guy. The aura of an older rock star. I hope he's ok.
Living in a trailer not wanting a family cause he is so ashamed of what his brother did. no his not ok.
Did a PayPal donation to Rich last week. I’m in Australia 🇦🇺. I feel for him.
Bless you ❤️
I'm an Aussie too
i always thought so....he deserves it sooooo much!!!
Thank you soo much for your kindness! I am glad to know he has one. May God send you and your loved ones blessings. 🙏🏾🦋💜🌻🙏🏾
I’m down to donate! What’s the info?
He’s such a solid and genuine guy. I’m so sorry that he had a brother like Ted.
Richard..I'm so sorry that this was done to you. You, your Mom and the rest of your family did NOTHING to deserve this! God please hold all the innocents in Your hands.
He's carried a heavy burden. He's dying slowly of a broken heart. It's ok to still love your brother and even to forgive him for what he's done.
I feel so bad for Rich. He loved his brother, and looked up to him. To have to accept that Ted was such a monster completely devastated him. It's something he has to struggle with everyday. My heart breaks for him and the rest of the family, not to mention the victims' families.
There no happy endings with any of these type of stories. Both the victims and the killer are dead. The families on both sides have to struggle everyday to find a way to continue living. Even though that feels more impossible than most people would ever believe. You just keep putting foot in front of the other. Until one day hopefully you can find a better way to continue or you are fortunate enough to be reunited with those loved again.
You can see it in his face- what he says and how he says it. He feels like he isn't allowed to love his brother anymore. Like it's wrong to have any happy memories with him. Someone needs to give this guy permission to love and morn the brother he knew. The brother he knew was very different from the monster he was to the rest of the world.
Such as?
@@infinite4392 It's not just the pain of losing his brother to the diabolical evil within Ted Bundy. It was the pain and suffering that his brother caused to countless good people. His own family included. Forgiving a person for committing sins that severe is something that is very challenging if not impossible for anyone to do.
Bless his heart! I cant even imagine going through what he went through finding out what his beloved big brother was.Its clear that it all haunts him to this day.
What a kind soul. The absolute opposite of his evil brother..
Ted used to torture cats and kill them, Richard seems to love his cat, that shows the difference in character.
The whole Bundy saga is very very sad. What a sad waste of life.
It's really moving that he actually talks about the victims with great compassion. His girlfriend from back then doesn't talk like that. "I really wouldn't want this picture" i never heard her say anything like that.
I have way more empathy for Rich, than her.
there aren't many people you can tell are beautiful souls from 6 minutes of video. i agree.
My heart truly goes out to this man. I cannot even fathom having to live under the shadow of that. I am happy to report that he's doing all right by other standards. He feels bad if he doesn't leave his trailer for 2 or 3 days and I feel bad when I don't leave my bed or my bedroom for 2 or 3 years. Depression. It's not just for breakfast anymore.
To be betrayed by someone you loved and trusted so completely is the worst. It’s like being killed yet you’re alive. For him I feel that he’s going through this death continually. I wish he could really let it all go, and I bet he feels the same way, but…
When you are betrayed by someone you love they steal everything of real value from you. Not money, but they take and destroy all the precious moments and memories you had with that person. They make you question everything they had done for as long as you knew them and you question yourself about how could put yourself in that vulnerable of a position ever again. On top of it all, that person that you thought you knew just dies -- immediately and out of the blue -- but they attacked your past, present and future on the way out.
@@skienayou described it so well; the way only someone who’s been through it would have been able to. .. I would not wish this experience on anyone.
Some people don't realise how well phycho's can compartmentalise.
You could go through your life with one of these phychos and never know.
Having siblings that I love. I can't imagine how hard this would be. It would be really hard to turn years of love and memories off.
Their voices sound so similar, it’s like listening to Ted talk.
Agree
I know what it feels like to think someone you loved most was the complete opposite of the person you thought they were. It's heartbreaking. It's really something you really never get over. You always wonder what signs you missed.
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
This poor man is really suffering. My heart goes out to him. I hope he eventually finds some peace.
A brother who doesn’t denies the fact that buddy was a scumbag
It hurt me when he said there's no joy in that childhood picture of himself and Ted he said he wouldn't want to have that picture
Richard is so clearly a good person. I mean, he genuinely has the decency that his brother only wore as a mask. It underscores the tragic weirdness of this kind of evil--with most sorts of extremely violent people, they're just the most extreme examples from a pool of generally awful relations and acquaintances. That someone like Richard could be so evidently pure-hearted, in such close proximity (of both nature and nurture) to someone as evil and cruel as his brother is... almost baffling. And that his brother could genuinely care for, even adore, him or any one human being, while being capable of such dehumanizing violence to others... boggles the mind.
we know why it happes :) love you all :0
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Ted had no empathy or compassion. I have a narcissistic sister I have nothing to do with. How she intimidated me. I remember driving out to party at the reservoir in Appleton City, Mo. I asked her to stop so I could move a turtle crossing the road. She ran over it. Then laughed. I can't even wrap my head around what Ted did to Rich. I hope he finds peace and love 🕊️
I’m so sorry. 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@HappyMomma412 thank you. 🕊️ 💕
Your sister is more than a narcissist. She's a sadistic psychopath.
That's weird. I accidentally ran over a possum when I was 16 going to get my driver's license in 2001. I still very bad about that. I always look out for the ducks dogs cats anything plus humans. It's best to stay far away from that sister of yours. I have one also Katie but, she has a six year old kid. Good for her.
Wow. I would stop the car for a squirrel to cross in front of my car safely...What a sociopath...
I really love that he uses all these kinda wholesome analogies like jimmy rig your way through life
How profoundly sad 😢
When a very close relative is found to have committed crimes like this, it's very hard to understand and reconcile. You know the person in one light, and then are presented with another side of them you can't even comprehend. You begin to wonder if the person you knew was even real. Was it all an act? How could they do such things? Or are they capable of being nice and good, and also being a despicable monster? It's extremely confusing - you feel disbelief, anger, resentment and eventually a kind of hollow acceptance that doesn't bring any solace. You spend a lot of time thinking about the people they hurt and the things they've done - you kind of become shackled to it in a way.
I agree wholeheartedly. I feel nothing but empathy for Richard, as well as his mother Louise. A living nightmare forced upon them by sheer evil.
@asmith3601 Thank you for explaining. It makes sense why he feels so terrible.
Very well said my brother murder somebody. He left there naked dead body in the middle of nowhere. And you wonder if it's real or not because I remember changing his diaper as a baby
I absolutely agree. Everything gets thrown into question, even asking if there's something you could have done. Obviously no one could've stopped Bundy but I bet that thoughts crossed his mind on many occasion.
May Rich find peace! ❤
This man’s pain is palpable. My heart aches for him. Ted Bundy essentially “killed” a huge part of his younger brother’s life. I hope he knows that there was absolutely NOTHING he could have done to change or prevent what his brother did!
He is such a strong guy. Knowing what his own family member did, someone he trusted, and he is still living and working through it. He hasn’t given up, and he never should. I am truly sorry for all who are affected by Ted’s sickening acts. This was so brave of him to share his story. His own perspective of it all. For everyone out there, I love you 😢💕
Agree 100%. This isn't casting any shade on him but just listening to his voice you can tell he and Ted are related
i agree rich is a good man and im proud of him going out of his comfert zone to truly tell us how he personally feels about the issue
So sad..brother is so sincere...my heart goes out to him.
In a post apocalyptic world..I could see myself livin like this. Then I realize I have 3 kids and a wife. Goals and hope for the future. This man is merly existing.
Man , that's heavy bro . I cant even imagine . Respect for not denying his brothers guilt like so many. Alot of Respect.
i’ve watched the full documentary more than 5 times, not for the shock or horror, but for the beauty and dignity it brings to each of the victims, their friends, their families, and their potential, lost. I think we can agree, Rich’s pain is real. His character shines through. May love touch your life, Rich. ☮️
Where can I find the full documentary? What is it called?
@@TheFirstAtomGoogle it
5 times? U may need help bro
@@TheFirstAtomI would like to know too!
@@teet1337he may have low retention. I can’t no watch stuff more than one time, why ? I guess my memory. Is better than others lol😅
I can’t even imagine the trauma of having to merge all the best memories and experiences with your brother and “role model” with the mind blowing truth that he is a murderer. What an irreparable shock to the psyche that must be. 💔
This is heartbreaking. It would be horrible to find out someone you love is a monster.
the end with his cat is so amazing. cats really do help us with diffrent aspects of life💗💗 hope he is doing well
So sad that he hurt the people who loved him so much. Terribly sad. 😔😢
Man, poor guy. He really loved Ted. People are always full of disappointments.
There’s hope, Susie!
To the core. The shattering, cognitive dissonance. Pain changes people. ( hey brother, it’s not your fault). ♥️
You can tell he has never gotten over this, even a little bit. His life has been devastated this entire time, and probably always will be.