My husband used me for the green card continuation

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  • čas přidán 15. 12. 2023
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  • @placesandspaces3489
    @placesandspaces3489 Před 4 měsíci +4

    I actually feel sorry for this lady. But the red flags were there from day one.

  • @queennubia8406
    @queennubia8406 Před 2 měsíci +2

    You have a good heart, but chose the wrong man.

  • @I_love_my_culture
    @I_love_my_culture Před 4 měsíci +9

    They should find him and deport him ASAP!

    • @f-stop8112
      @f-stop8112 Před 3 měsíci

      Never believe for a second does she want that to happen.

  • @Peace165135
    @Peace165135 Před 4 měsíci +13

    I just finished watching your second video and find you incredibly interesting. I've been following your journey since the video with Kevin when you landed in Ghana. Having known people in Ghana for years, I've encountered various characters. The first video with Kevin had me hooked, but the recent one leaves me conflicted. On one hand, I respect your independence and entrepreneurial spirit. On the other, it's perplexing how the man you met clearly stated his intentions for a green card, and every move thereafter was to achieve that goal.
    While I respect his determination, considering your family's well-being, my advice is to separate, forget, and move on, as you mentioned he has nothing more to offer. No need for gratitude; his sole objective was reaching America. The sooner you realize this, the better off you'll be. Love for people transcends borders, but it's essential to be aware that people may take advantage of situations. 🌍💔

    • @Dream-Me
      @Dream-Me Před 4 měsíci +3

      You respect his determination whilst trampling over people . He had the choice of the other woman where it was strictly business but he chose K..For what?? Purely selfish and wickedness. There's nothing to respect here. He's not a real man.

    • @ShytTalker70
      @ShytTalker70 Před 4 měsíci +5

      @@Dream-Mehe chose her because she was silly and immature. She was an easy target. She still hasn’t learned. Let him leave with the phone and charge it up. Then she shocked he didn’t hug the kids? He didn’t like her kids!

    • @Peace165135
      @Peace165135 Před 4 měsíci +1

      If you're not familiar with the mindset of the Ghanaian people, they might attempt to take advantage-just a general observation. I've encountered several scammers there, including a couple who are actually friends, but they've never targeted me because I know the ropes. I went the extra mile to learn the Twi language, which helps me catch onto what they're saying when they think I don't. My close friends there are aware of my Twi proficiency, but others who don't know me always try to pull a fast one until I switch to Twi; then, their whole attitude changes. By the way, I'm not African. I'm just a regular black dude born and raised in Philly. But I got mad respect in ghana.

  • @1msnicky
    @1msnicky Před 3 měsíci +3

    Damn girl this is more interesting than a TUBI movie 😮‼️ I’m supposed to be sleep but can’t put the phone down.. I could listen to you speak all day. Your transparency is everything.. you seem like to good a person. I really wish you the best and the ❤you deserve. Find out what it is about you that think you have to take care of a man in order for them to love you.. stop that shit these niggas gonna drain the life outta you..

  • @cjgmc1
    @cjgmc1 Před 4 měsíci +8

    The minute that he demanded money from me, would have been the end. That is the biggest "red flag" ever.

    • @ShytTalker70
      @ShytTalker70 Před 4 měsíci +3

      She was desperate and she still don’t want to accept it calling all of these women’s trying to stop him from being in the other potential relationships. She is so sad. I hope she get some counseling and heal!

    • @Knksquad
      @Knksquad  Před 4 měsíci +3

      I will get some counseling sweetheart
      I think we all need closure after we leave a relationship. I’m not desperate. I told him I didn’t want to be married anymore. Further more the women was calling I just was talking to them trying to see how long he had been doing it under my nose. I rather for him to move on and have another relationship cause then he would be someone else’s problem. And not in my face begging.

  • @Higfsyourvioihb
    @Higfsyourvioihb Před 4 měsíci +15

    Men don’t judge women off their salary, they judge us off looks so your financial caliber is not what they are looking at when they are into you, Men are about how you look primarily…..and You can’t have intimacy with someone not in to you, he was using you and seemed to lack attraction which is why he never said you were beautiful

    • @ShytTalker70
      @ShytTalker70 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Right and only had sex with her to keep the money flowing, keep her in the fake ass marriage, and get his green card.

  • @onibioh
    @onibioh Před 4 měsíci +9

    Thanks for being vulnerable on this live. Am sure you are here to let people know and learn from your mistakes. You were too trusting. As an African I am ashamed to say that his type is not unique to Africa. I pray you heal and
    you find real love. You are one resilient and good natured person. Am rooting for you.

    • @africaine4889
      @africaine4889 Před 3 měsíci

      Sorry to say but ee Africans knew already eht that guy was about. He didn't do no black magic, she was after the d..He is handsome too. Jow csn u get married just like that

    • @africaine4889
      @africaine4889 Před 3 měsíci

      Yep. When she first talked about it i definetely commented that he was playing her

  • @RoadMapInvestments
    @RoadMapInvestments Před 4 měsíci +8

    Statistically, women live longer than men. So, being married doesn't keep a woman from "dying alone" as most will outlive their husbands. Plus, women should really be looking at stats and asking questions...For example, why do single women live LONGER than married women, but for men a married man lives longer than a single man. Why do single women have better quality of life (as for happiness and health) vs married women.
    These males will suck the natural life force found in women that can be best used for your OWN world and loved ones.
    Sis, enjoy your life and live life on YOUR terms. As a woman of means, deal with men IF YOU/WHEN YOU choose, then send them on their way.
    ...The best way for women to live a peaceful life.

  • @normapullen9818
    @normapullen9818 Před 4 měsíci +8

    Wow, that story about the cartel was wild. Great job in protecting your kids!!

  • @adesania
    @adesania Před 4 měsíci +8

    This Ghana-man you brought to Mexico sure is a bum, after all the money you spent on him getting to Mexico he ended up stealing from you and your daughter. That man even didn't spare your children. Your children could read him and that's why they alarmed you to check your accounts. If they want money from you they are not the one. Instead of using business opportunities he just want to do nothing and be fed.

  • @khrisi9410
    @khrisi9410 Před 4 měsíci +19

    Until you do some inner work, forget men. Increase your self esteem. Increase self worth. Increase self love and then you'll be able to create strong boundaries which will help you raise your standards and the outcome of all this inner work is ATTRACTING your equal, attracting a give and take union. As it stands today, any man you deal with will use you. You cannot buy love. You cannot buy loyalty. You cannot buy respect. You cannot buy reciprocity. Without a healthy standard of self love you'll jus attract Dusty broke broken men.

    • @JustMyNterputation
      @JustMyNterputation Před 4 měsíci

      They feel they are better than us therfore we owe them. They would do more with the opportunities we are so called wasting. It's entitlement from a child you ain't birth and it ours. They sold us to the white man and we owe them?! That level of envy runs too deep for me. Karma for that ass! They need to pay homage.

  • @LeoSun33
    @LeoSun33 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Showing you so much love and grace. These are just life lessons that make us wiser and stronger. I’m such an empath, I cried when you played the messages you left him because I felt all your emotions.

  • @NurseNoreen
    @NurseNoreen Před 4 měsíci +6

    You "bought" land in Ghana too? On no! Sweetie, that was more than likely another scam. Land scams in Ghana are the order of the day! You will return and eventually discover that you don't own that land at all. Hopefully, it's before you lose even more money being scammed by the contractors who will show up for work when they feel like it. They also do subpar work. I don't know who told you that African men are all hard working! Mark my words about the land. You don't own it.

  • @DedeAfrikka
    @DedeAfrikka Před 4 měsíci +1

    The zick was so good, it got your mind all fkkd up.

  • @jewel6430
    @jewel6430 Před 4 měsíci +6

    Look baby girl you will always be a Target doing something for humanity. If you want to do something for humanity, do for children that will give you so much joy. Our children are suffering on a day to day

  • @Dialluckysocks
    @Dialluckysocks Před 4 měsíci +1

    100 done ! U never ever take care of another man!!!!! Period

  • @Crob100
    @Crob100 Před měsícem

    If Karma really works....wypippo would be getting theirs for all of the destruction they have done on this planet and to all races.

  • @missree-ree4ya252
    @missree-ree4ya252 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Best bet!! To meet an African man living in states or abroad that is Planning on going back! Make sure he he’s been abroad for 10-20 years !!

  • @africanqueen1giselle642
    @africanqueen1giselle642 Před 4 měsíci +7

    I don't blame you for not waiting to get married again. I am in my second marriage and won't get married again. I say do you hun and continue to take care of your kids.

    • @ShytTalker70
      @ShytTalker70 Před 4 měsíci

      @belltowndaisytwo is that number for you. You can’t tell somebody they can’t get married again. You sound crazy as hell!

  • @sweetbadd9852
    @sweetbadd9852 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Didn't the father say he only allowed you to marry his son to take him to America?

  • @terriwhite7753
    @terriwhite7753 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Chil' the African poverty makes some in Africa do this stuff...that poverty in Africa is something else...learn from the Nollywood movies...they portrayed a similar scenario, and it was not with an American woman, but the victim was a wealthy Nigerian woman. So, they will do their own like that too to get out of poverty. Trust no one in Africa, or anywhere for that matter.

    • @Knksquad
      @Knksquad  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Damn that is so sad smh!!!

    • @terriwhite7753
      @terriwhite7753 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@Knksquad Sis., like someone said in the Chat during the Live, return to the Lord and He will take care of you and those who did you wrong. And as a witness, when you stick with the Most High, the Lord will give you clear signs, witness, dreams, and/or direct Word before you got involved so deep, to avoid you spending so much money and time on someone who is worthless. Walking with the Lord humbly, the Lord has done it for me several times and saved me from a whole lot and saved my emotions. Seek the Lord, Sis., and return to Him wholeheartedly.

  • @harmonyandpeacetranquility7851
    @harmonyandpeacetranquility7851 Před 4 měsíci +6

    🧑🏽‍🎓The men should be the provider.👩🏾‍🚒
    Women need to STOP being the head of the household with their Financial Asset when it comes to men.
    Suggustion: You should get some counseling for yourself, so you can heal from all the verbal and emotional pains. You should be focusing on healing yourself, so you can avoid these toxic men. 🎉

  • @sweetbadd9852
    @sweetbadd9852 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I commented in one of your videos that he was using you for a green card and the family were in on it!

  • @anindigomind9424
    @anindigomind9424 Před 4 měsíci +1

    My heart breaks for you as it breaks for me. Thank you for sharing as it was a message for me that what I have been feeling is right about my own situation

    • @Knksquad
      @Knksquad  Před 4 měsíci

      You are so welcome

    • @daughterofsankofa
      @daughterofsankofa Před 4 měsíci

      Can I talk to you about your situation? I'm talking to women who are married to African men

    • @Knksquad
      @Knksquad  Před 4 měsíci

      @daughterofsankofa sure you can my Facebook is Freedom Ayad Bey

  • @miriamhoward5865
    @miriamhoward5865 Před 4 měsíci +1

    It was a blessing Sis. It all came out in the open, Not a curse but he will get his in the end just sit back and watch.

  • @fredamurray1598
    @fredamurray1598 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I’m down for South Africa! Hit me up so we can set it up.

  • @andreadaniels8484
    @andreadaniels8484 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Sis, when is the next time you are going to do another LIVE? Not only are you entertaining but INCREDIBLY INFORMATIVE. I would love to be counseled by you concerning the loan/social security/freight brokrage, etc.... We, as a people, could learn SO MUCH from you.

  • @user-mz9jy4mw5c
    @user-mz9jy4mw5c Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thanks for the info kevicia

  • @ulovemichelle
    @ulovemichelle Před 4 měsíci +2

    Damn sorry to hear all that went down it was a learning experience for sure. Focus on yourself and the kids and your future plans for a while. He’ll definitely get his karma 🤨

  • @NurseNoreen
    @NurseNoreen Před 4 měsíci +6

    You probably encounter Africans who think they are better than you because of the way you carry yourself, how much you curse and how loudly you speak. They don't feel the same way about all of us. I could see how they were judging you when you were cussing and screaming in that van in Ghana.

  • @Demetta
    @Demetta Před 4 měsíci +2

    Great Live! I still love you and respect your hustle ❤

    • @Knksquad
      @Knksquad  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Awww I really appreciate that thank you so much hunni!!!!

  • @ameenahameed8874
    @ameenahameed8874 Před 4 měsíci +1

    My take - date yourself. Spend the money on you and your children but date yourself because you’re worthy and worth it. Also it’s ok to be single. You can further connect with family, friends and community and still have a full life. It may be harder to meet someone when you’re in a higher income range of similar income, so it may take some time. It’s better to remain single until you meet someone who genuinely loves, cares about you and treats you well. And maybe when you meet him, y’all can travel the world and share your experiences with us.

  • @shelisenewbeign7625
    @shelisenewbeign7625 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Thanks!

  • @VictoriaWhitbeck
    @VictoriaWhitbeck Před 4 měsíci +2

    From the day one, this guy told you he needed to get to America, and he needed your help. So, he really used you to get to his dream destination. I never thought you would bring this guy to America. Definitely, this guy did juju to control you. He got you all the way. You were under his spell. Wow. I really feel bad for you. I believe that this guy used and are still using black magic to make you do things you don't want. When I heard that you said you filled for the green card for this guy, I was shocked. Definitely this guy used some power on you. Those things are reel. I feel, until now, you are not safe from this guy power. I realized that you still call him " my husband." This is a proof that emotionally, and spiritually, you are still tied to this guy evil power. I also believe, if the immigration contacts you before you get a divorce, you are still going forward with this guy green card process. I feel bad for the two younger kids. Protect the heart of those two little ones in the future.

  • @tashaw3636
    @tashaw3636 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Do you ever miss your First husband?

    • @Knksquad
      @Knksquad  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Not at all🤭

    • @tashaw3636
      @tashaw3636 Před 4 měsíci

      @@Knksquad 😂 I ain't mad at it. Do you sis bc Mexico looks beautiful.

  • @cjgmc1
    @cjgmc1 Před 4 měsíci +5

    He had you under a spell!

  • @poshproductions8104
    @poshproductions8104 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Going forward please just be a lady and let men court you. You should never take care of a man. That’s not natural, that’s out of order. A man will never respect you if you do that and it will never work. You will always have to work hard to keep them, making your life miserable. Just let a man be a man, if he isn’t providing that just means he’s not ready and why would you want to be with someone who’s not ready. It’s ok if he makes less because a real man will work 2 jobs to provide for someone he loves. He’s motivated to take care of you. You showed lack of respect for yourself by pursuing him, letting him take advantage of you, giving praises to someone who did nothing to deserve it-so why would someone else respect you. They follow your lead. Please figure out why you allowed this man to mistreat you over and over again and you took it and still took care of him. You have a lot going on for yourself, recognize that and act accordingly. You knew better but you still did it. Figure out why so you never allow this to happen to you again. Even with Kevin we could see that you paid the way, begged him to stay, provided and guided. Everything that you said in this video, you knew from day 1, you even said it and the comments said it. Now this man has a Mac, iphone, clothes, shoes, money, he is set and you are set-back. One thing about you though, you’ll bounce back, please allow yourself to be sad, cry etc so you can get it out of your system, then write down what you’ve learned so you grow from this and don’t repeat it, then take time to become whole that means being happy with who you are and by yourself because during this time you will make necessary changes ( always make sure the person you date is whole as well, that is not negotiable) then you can go forward. Work on yourself as hard as you worked on getting him to Mexico. You got this Queen, I think you talking about it is helping you heal. No one can call you a liar, you always tell the truth no matter what, even if it doesn’t show you in the best light. Be wise, use your wisdom…God bless.

    • @Knksquad
      @Knksquad  Před 4 měsíci +3

      There were no lies detected. Everything you said was absolutely right. You read me like readers digest. I do need counseling. I do have self esteem issues and the men I was with didn’t make it any better. I remember Kevin use to say I was mediocre at best. And that every woman he was with looked better then me. Neither one of them complimented me or wanted to tell me how good I was in anything. I felt like they needed me. I cared too much so I continued to do for them. They had no one but me. It’s like I’m attracted to broken men, cause all my life everyone was broken. The more I loved them the more They pushed them away and the more ungrateful they became. And ur right they had absolutely no respect for me. I promise to give to myself for now on as I’ve given to others. They had it up til now. This is my year. No one will ever come before me again. I also have Daddy issues so that’s why I always looked for love in all the wrong places, But now I been burnt so much that the pain made my heart cold. I don’t know if I can love like that again. But I’m gonna document my healing journey so that u can visually partake in it. And you will see it’s only up from here. Thank you for taking time out to support me. I’m very appreciative.🙏🙏🙏

  • @ntrvlogs2087
    @ntrvlogs2087 Před 4 měsíci +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
    We need note videos girl!!!!!!

  • @cjgmc1
    @cjgmc1 Před 4 měsíci +3

    You should call immigration and apprise them of the situation.

  • @queennubia8406
    @queennubia8406 Před 2 měsíci

    Can you share the $300,000 business advice he gave you?

    • @Knksquad
      @Knksquad  Před 2 měsíci +1

      Hey hun, it wasn’t business advice. I would just come to him in general conversation and ask him what I should do about certain things. Just general advice, he feels that’s worth $300k

  • @FindYourFree
    @FindYourFree Před 4 měsíci

    yup, Senegalese man used me

  • @candymae1215
    @candymae1215 Před 2 měsíci

    My sista you are a blessing to others 💯 whoeva doesn’t appreciate you - the Creator will simply remove dem and teach dem a serious lesson- Stay Beautiful and Blessed

  • @f-stop8112
    @f-stop8112 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Aren't you financially responsible for 10 years for someone you bring into this country?

  • @justzee1574
    @justzee1574 Před 4 měsíci +1

    2:02:42 you have special powers . We are able to manifest money and carma fast. Im taping into my power too. These African men be connected to your energy

  • @shelisenewbeign7625
    @shelisenewbeign7625 Před 4 měsíci +7

    He is a yahoo boy look into it they in Ghana etc

  • @jewel6430
    @jewel6430 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Every woman needs a man you just need a man in your income range , like your son said . Rich don't marry poor as far as I know. Unless I am wrong. Your a beautiful person

  • @CameliaKay9804
    @CameliaKay9804 Před 4 měsíci +3

    You should have never gave him the green card, you overlooked all the red flags from the very beginning

    • @BrightAura777
      @BrightAura777 Před 4 měsíci +5

      If you listen to the story he doesn’t have a green card yet. But I agree she should have never brought him to Mexico and then to America.

    • @ShytTalker70
      @ShytTalker70 Před 4 měsíci +3

      She didn’t want to see the red flags.

    • @CameliaKay9804
      @CameliaKay9804 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@BrightAura777if she knows what’s best for her she’ll divorce him quick fast and in a hurry

  • @taigmanianderson9367
    @taigmanianderson9367 Před 4 měsíci

    Sorry for what you went through but for you to say all African men are the same and they are a product of their environment is untrue and a very broad statement to make I understand you are speaking out of emotions and experience I am a single American woman living in Africa for almost 2 years and have never heard of this type of crazy story. As single american women we all have to do our due diligence, it is true A lot of African men do seek the opportunity however you sure as hell made it very easy for him, he didn’t have to lift a finger to pretend anything he showed you from the beginning when he TOLD you he wanted to get to America. That other person you found for him at the beginning who was willing to do the deal is hopping and skipping right now coz you define took thé bullet for her. I truly believe he decided to choose you over her because you gave too much info about yourself too early, you were a much easier target. Pray you get over this soon 🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @Dream-Me
    @Dream-Me Před 4 měsíci

    Do they speak English in the private schools in Mexico?

    • @Knksquad
      @Knksquad  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Yes ma’am

    • @ShytTalker70
      @ShytTalker70 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@Knksquadmy husband makes six figures and all of his friends do to. I can hook you up with an American that has his own, home, car, a job. Also these men have nice bodies to match. They go to the gym. They go hunting. They are about their business and you want gave to beg for sex either!

    • @africaine4889
      @africaine4889 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@KnksquadDear that guy is still married in ghana trust me. He will bring his family to America

  • @nanettetaylor6126
    @nanettetaylor6126 Před 4 měsíci

    Wow he was playing you big time I was thinking about how he didn’t do anything to please you or make you happy but you kept doing everything for him I feel so bad for you.

    • @Knksquad
      @Knksquad  Před 4 měsíci

      I feel bad for myself.. never would have thought I would be under a spell like that.

  • @justzee1574
    @justzee1574 Před 4 měsíci

    2:20:14 do a ritual to protect you when in America

  • @newaccount5891
    @newaccount5891 Před 4 měsíci

    How could he be like Kevin your American ex when Kevin was with you IN America for years. Yes, he may have cheated and that's not cool but if an African man is so fickle that he can't even stay with you in American and leaves you with a "Thanks a lot" how can he be Kevin?

    • @africaine4889
      @africaine4889 Před 3 měsíci

      Keving bluntly told her other women were more attractive than her, and other awful things. She sais she also was providing for him. They are the same.

    • @newaccount5891
      @newaccount5891 Před 3 měsíci

      @@africaine4889 No, a man telling you that other women are more attractive is NOT the same as a man who is willing to not only use you for citizenship but has his whole family in on it. Kevin did not leave her once he got what he wanted. He was with her for 20 years and would probably still be with her now if he could. This African man was always going to use her UP and bounce away..just like any other african man will do.