A Viral Moment
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- čas přidán 1. 07. 2024
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Came here after watching the short viral clip. The man in the green shirt seems to be the most intellectually open to discussion. I disagreed with many of his previous points, but appreciate his willingness to try and understand the people he is speaking with. You have a new follower, best of luck to the podcast.
A man wouldn’t ask the question of how a woman’s kids would be an asset to him, however it is something that might float through a man’s mind when assessing a situation. What is one’s return on investment in valid in a relationship with or without kids being involved.
Ok so she wants someone to say something a certain way for her....smh..
I know she's single!
@MTR sent me over here after your single parent video.
that little girl didnt even raise her own child..... nothing more anyone needs to hear from her
The bald guy’s mentality and emotional maturity reminds me of ice cube.
Men argue and debate from a level of basic logic, women from feelings. How do we bridge that gap? Men can hear where women are coming from, and often we hear illogical and nonsensical positions from our Sistas. They then turn on us using shame, insult, guilt and a need to be right in defending their argument. Make it make sense.
I haven't seen many people that went against the gentleman, on CZcams at least. The young lady on the other hand....she comes off as selfish, and it appears thats a popular sentiment so far.
I like there is no profanity on the podcast. nice to see folks speaking not cussin'. keep up the show !
Around 18:50 time mark, just Fr; she is definitely being dishonest from my view. If his tone was respectful, and you know him like she stated; why not answer the question? The question again was " how are your kids assets to another man, and what can you offer a man that you have not already given to another man?" Respectfully, She did not answer.
@yapadyahbanyahawada3011 Just as I know him he knows me. Don’t think too hard on this one. I answered how I saw fit. Don’t like it? Don’t deal. Simple.
@@yapadyahbanyahawada3011 You heard her; "Don’t like it? Don't deal."
And most men of quality will not deal. She'll learn. But by that time, it will be too late. The wall is undefeated.
@DigitalWraith I’ve never had any issues with dating and as long as I stay true to myself and who I am I’m fine with the opinions that come.
@@vicbadd You are replying compulsively while ignoring the information. Women rarely have an issue finding men to date. What they have a problem with is finding suitable men to marry. Hence why you are still single. If the men you date were of a high caliber you would be married by now.
She is talking like she raised her child from birth..... She soundslike a spoiled unreasonable brat. She can't dictate what a man asks or don't ask.....
I would strongly disagree with the advice about him speaking specifically as opposed to in general. When you speak in general, you are speaking to the average person out there that can relate. And the amount of views and comments that show got, proves it. There are many men that can relate to his general statements. Even if his fellow podcasters don't want to agree with it or acknowledge it.
I bet the next video is gonna be another video basically demonizing all bm again. The WS taught these 2 well. Atleast the 1 brotha in the video had common sense.
Nah she straight up deflected and attempted to shame his sound judgment . She said men try to paint black women as angry … nah your demeanor, shaming tactics and defensiveness as it pertains to deflecting logical and rational points, paints this narrative.
And to expound, this is the reason why the hosts needed their own fathers in their lives from the jump. A good father will have the influence to guide his son or daughter and instill accountability,discernment and sound judgment into his son or daughter. As it pertains to choosing who you share the gift of life with. That’s the point I wish the other host would have brought up. Step fathers should definitely be appreciated and valued but isn’t an obligation and shouldn’t be seen as such. Whereas that is low hanging fruit. The accountability of having the discernment to truly choose the right one to create life with should be priority.
Yes mam, I think your partner has to be way up there in status. A normal guys go overseas to be respected for their normal accomplishments. This level is not enough to be respected by modern women. Generally speaking is correct. I have seen this happen everyday.
"No man will ever ask me that" isn't an answer to his question. You never know what a man would ask you. I probably wouldn't ask you that question. Because the moment I found out you are a single mother, I'm heading out the door. Not worth the headache.
In the last video, you took pride in admitting you are a modern woman. But you also tired to make yourself look like a viable option for men by saying you were raised in a traditional way. How you were raised didn't help at all because you ended up being a single mother at 18 years old. That isn't traditional. Like it or not, traditional men, who are productive, also have traditional expectations of their women. And you don't fit their expectations.
If you want the community to improve, we need to bring back shame. And stop rewarding bad behavior, like single motherhood.
As for ranting in regards to Passport Bros: most of them are not bringing their women back to the states due to how backwards this culture is. As for the claim that foreign women want our money; most women want men with money. That is doublely true for women in the US. That talking point isn't very helpful when you have women in the west saying "he needs 6 figures..." 🤣
Funny thing is… I could care less about your inaccurate opinions. I simply enjoy a good debate. So let’s see…
I am a modern woman who was raised by traditional women. I was not a single mother at 18 slow poke. My daughter’s father and I were in fact together. I was 18 in my 2nd year of college living on my own taking care of myself. Unlike many of my peers so spare me. I am not in the business of convincing anyone of my worth because the proof is in the pudding. If you do not like dating women with children the solution would be not to. Everyone should do what makes them happy.
@DigitalWraith we are clearly NOT aligned and guess what sir? That’s okay. I have no trouble dating.
@@vicbadd The accurate phrase is you *"couldn’t"* care less. Saying you "could" care less implies that you do care to a certain degree. And evidently you cared enough to comment on my opinions. Simply saying they are wrong with no explanation doesn’t make your claim true.
Case in point:
Yes, I remember you saying you are a modern woman raised by traditional women and values. Again, it doesn’t matter because you aren't a traditional woman based on your actions and admission of being a modern woman. At 22:26 of the previous video, you stated that you had your child *"3 days before your 19th birthday."* That means you were 18 years old when you had your child. That's simple math.
Your example of "taking care of yourself" doesn't make you valuable to traditional men of high value. You just described traditionally masculine traits of men. Why would a masculine man want a masculine woman? To put it into perspective for you; it's like a man telling you *"I cook, clean and make a house a home. I have no children and am still pure. I'm submissive and bring feminine energy to inspire my partner and follow her lead with no complaints. I bring her peace."* I hope you see how ridiculous that sounds.
Women generally have no problem attracting a man. It's not much of a flex when getting men for dates is easy. If you can attract and marry a man who is of high value; *that is a flex.* Typically, high value men aren't foolish enough to jeopardize their resources for a woman and her ready-made-family. And you confirmed this when you said you attract men who aren't on your level financially and mentally. You also said that most people didn't even know you were a single mother in your 20s because you had other people to raise you daughter. So of course more men would give you attention. In other words, you attract men you don't want. Because if you wanted them, you wouldn't be single. You basically priced yourself out of the dating market for the men you qualify for.
@DigitalWraith Whew God bless you and yours.
@@vicbadd Yes, I know the information I provided is a bit overwhelming, but it needed to be conveyed. I hope you take it in consideration and good luck.
She didn't answer the question. Why are y'all lying to the audience?. If I was to ask y'all what was her answer? Y'all couldn't even explain it because nobody understood it. Didn't answer the question
This podcast is trash!!!! Dude with bald head is too smart & level headed to be here.
@coppertonedone I’ve made a similar suggestion 🙂
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