REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY | 13 LESSONS on how to use REJECTION to your favor | Marcus Aurelius STOICISM
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- REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY | 13 LESSONS on how to use REJECTION to your favor
In this insightful video, we delve into mastering emotional resilience through Stoicism, particularly the teachings of Marcus Aurelius. Discover how to navigate the challenges of being ignored or rejected, while maintaining Stoic calm and control. We present thirteen practical strategies, rooted in Stoic philosophy, to effectively deal with rejection. Learn techniques such as employing Marcus Aurelius' Stoicism to maintain composure, focusing on self-improvement, leveraging personal virtues, and practicing healthy emotional detachment. This guide offers essential tips for practicing Stoicism in everyday life, ensuring you remain unaffected by others' indifference.
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00:00 - INTRO
01:27 - 1: Ignore THEM too
03:10 - 2: Don't react emotionally.
05:44 - 3: Remove them from your mind.
07:42 - 4: Demonstrate your value.
10:19 - 5: Cut off contact.
12:28 - 6: Prove them wrong.
14:23 - 7: Go out and have fun.
16:39 - 8: Build your social status.
18:44 - 9: Act as if they doesn't exist.
20:41 - 10: Give them the silent treatment.
22:43 - 11: Don't beg for attention.
24:41 - 12: Be kind but emotionally distant.
26:33 - 13: Don't reveal your struggle.
19:13- REMEMBER THIS
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Strength in adversity
My gggg
Amen we will!
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Strength in adversity.
I lost my mom on July 2 my dad on July 12 and my husband on July 25, 2021. All in the same month. I’m only strong because what other choice do I have. The sun will come up tomorrow and I am gonna be here. So when “He” just cut me off recently it makes me smile and carry on because I have been through far worse….
You are one powerful woman .
Your strength will give you the life you deserve. ❤
Wow I lost 3 family in three consecutive years and thought it's tough,after reading your story,I feel for you
With strength comes grace. I found that for myself I feel so strong. I have a big family and have lost so many over the years. I have noticed that the older I get the wisdom comes and I listen.
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Ignore them too
Focus on your life and self respect
Don’t react emotionally
Remove them from mind
Demonstrate your value
Cut off contact
Prove them wrong
Go out and have fun
Build your social status
Act as if they don’t exist
Give them silent treatment
Maintain your dignity
Don’t beg for attention
Be kind but emotionally distant
Don’t reveal your struggle
Thank you😊😊😊😊
Awesome Helpful Words Friend, Needed Them Today!🙏🏽 8:15 pm
I needed this thank you!!❤❤
Appreciate this! Thank you very much❤
Make alot of money.
Im the little girl whos parents didnt want her. They didnt put me for adoption though, they just left me alone as if i didnt exist. I remember trying to thaw frozen food in my mouth because i was starving... At 8. Now im a year 3 law student and a mommy. My pain never defined me. My parents maltreatment didnt define me. I refuse to allow anyone to take my peace.
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Hi, please keep challenging yourself to make healthy choices. We all have these certain weak spots ….only you know yours . Keep shining 💥
Best Wishes ❤
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I salute you. You are brave and courageous.
Sometimes the algorithm really does suggest the exact video you need at the exact moment you need it.
Couldn't agree more! 💙
it's google stalking you actually
@@chriscs9080. Yes , except they use robots and not people, much faster .
I totally agree @wololo4761
Ai man, we are doomed or saved .
Wife of 15 years just told me tonight "I'm no longer in love with you...I want you to move out".
So yeah, I'm falling the fuck apart right now...and can't stop crying...and feeling dark...
But, deep inside, I'm relieved it's over. I don't gotta be a victim of her addiction anymore. I don't gotta be manipulated and lied to anymore.
I'm free to give my faithful commitment to a woman who wants the same, not a 35 year old addict who still wants to act 22.
One day I'll be grateful it's over.
Right now, it hurts like hell tho. This cut is by far the deepest I've ever had to endure
These videos are so fucking crucial to my mental well being right now and being stoic is having quite the impact on how SHE'S treating me, almost feeling my absence before Ive even finished packing my shit
Am sorry it's not easy may God grant you peace
Get out there. You deserve better. After all of this bs you will feel relieved and happy. You are free now. I know u can't see it atm but she did u a favor. Focus on yourself and friends. Step by step. Make smart decisions. Take care of your energy. With every day it is going to be better. You will feel like yourself again . Many of us had to go through this. You're not alone. I'm thinking of u and wish u well ❤️🩹
GET THRU THIS MAN❤
Kick her out. You’re not moving.
Rejection by someone you love is debilitating. I need to listen to this a few more times to make sure it sinks in
You are exactly right. It’s extremely hard to think about anything else. It’s all-consuming.
It's also takes time to overcome, go easy on yourself 🙂🙌
It hurts so much.
Me too
Yes, this is my daughter! I practically was a slave to her! And she treats me with such disrespect! She doesn't like it when I say no! She attacks me! but she can hurt me all she wants always!😢
Rejection is God’s protection.
I like your analogy 😊
Prayer brought me to this sight. Thank you Father. I bless your Holy name 🙏❤️🙏
YES
🙏Amen
Thank you!
4:43 " Your power lies in how you respond , not in how others treat you "
"Build a fortress of self-respect.
Words that i will try to live by.
Absolutely
You WILLL say tha
Look to make a life more complete then be sure you will not feel obsolete
Suzanne XOXO @@MerlotWateringHisGrass
Incredible
Someone should please like my comment so that i can always find my way back here to soak in these great words of wisdom 🙏
Just save the Video
Cheeky 😆
@@crislanvilla28always looking for likes. fools
It’s about internal validation - not external. You don’t need likes. Are were you kidding?
@@miriamreeves9437 you are apparently ignorant of why I made that comment.
1.Ignore them too
2.Don't react emotionally
3.Remove them from your mind
4.Demonstrat your value
5. Cut off contact
6. Prove them wrong
7.Go out and have fun
8.Build your social status
9.Act as if they doesn't exist
10.Give them silent treatment
11.Don't beg for attention
12.Be kind but emotionally distant
13.Don't reveal your struggle
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Literally 0% stocism lol. To be stoic is to not need to act a certain way in reaction to a certain perceivable negative stimuli. Everything listed is sigmi culture/pop psychology bs.
@@pgman5416🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
@@ginaqc78 research stoicism. The wiki is actually a great starting point. Read philosophy books. These videos are disguising themselves as stoic teachings but they’re mostly toxic af anti social behaviors
A lot of men need to hear this. As of late, some of them have been acting like a child over being rejected by a woman
You relate this to men. Like this doesn't relate to women also. This relates to anyone who has experienced things mentioned. Women can also have irrational behaviors when rejected by men.
@@justhilariousignoranceisav3243 I never seen it. I never seen a woman threaten a man’s life or put hands on them for rejecting them. This is way more common behavior that men display. Men come a dime a dozen so that’s probably why it’s not common for women to do this
Women need this too
Women act like children if they don’t get their validation
My family pet needs to hear this to 😆
I really needed this today. My husband walked out on our marriage and I recently found out he is involved with someone much younger from his work. I have been here at home with kids while they are all watching me cry almost everyday for the past year. My husband knows I’m struggling which he says he feels bad about, but what it comes down to is this new person is giving him all the attention and praise that was missing from our marriage while I was severely depressed myself. I have learnt when I am hurt I react in a very disregulated way and often say things that I regret later which often leaves me looking unstable and immature. These sort of messages really helps me to refocus and helps me remember that I am responsible for my own feelings and how I chose to react to them and sometimes the best thing I can do when feeling hurt and rejected is to take a step back and focus inwards instead of allowing other people’s actions to determine my emotional state and behaviour which often is completely out of alignment with my own virtues and morals which is generally quite solid and strong. Sorry for the rant, I’m clearly not used to commenting in places like this, but thank you.
My husband wanted out after 40 years of marriage. We got along great, so I was shocked. It was not another woman, he wanted to be alone and move near his son across the country. I told him go, I didn’t show my emotions. I told him I will move forward and make a great life for myself. I never let him see my hurt, I wouldn’t give him the satisfaction. I went no contact even though he wanted to FaceTime me and call all the time. Nope. It’s hard being alone for the first time in my life. No friends or family. But I’m determined. I’m going to start dating and make a good life for myself. You can do it too!
Thankyou very much for being open about it. I am 60 and look back at mistakes i made, and would like to say to you, that the very best thing you can do, is to follow the advice from the video.. And that your kids need you to do this too. They need to see their mum recover snd live in a positive environmrnt because your emotions will affect theirs. Its really best to be the strong stable one, be their anchor, and be grateful you have these kids and let them feel safe at home.. And lived. Yiur husband leaving you has shaken the safety of your home badly enough, and you must rise above it, closing doors will open new ones and the mental health of kids relies on a stable home environment,, so in a way, its our job as mothers to do this, with the knowledge that what a mother projects.. The kids absorb this, so.. What i do is... Clean the house, pit a, warm meal on and be there for them, as positive and stable as you can be.. And do things together which bond yiu and place memories in the bank, so to say...crucial for their inner selves.. Cant be underestimated.. Years csn go by with allowing our own emotions to cripple us... Tbis is wasting time.. By that i mean, that the kids need to see you strong and leading the family and doing things together with laughter and gratitude for the sun rises and falls. And it can be a beautiful world.. It deoends on how we create that Be strong, mental health is reliant on the home generating trust, safety and love.
It takes time you will be ok silence is best
Try to stay busy take the children to the park daily or for a walk. Take a deep breath it's going to be okay 🙏
You are a strong woman❤
Your kids will watch u overcome these unfortunate outcomes and also become strong like their momma and handle anything that comes their way with grace. Anyone who doesn't value and respect how much work it takes to keep the home flowing as smoothly as possible, they do not deserve to be there. You deserve better and God will bring u what u deserve as long as u put ur faith in God and what he has planned for u. Don't let anyone under value u ever, especially when all ur effort goes into taking care of ur family at home. ❤
God bless you, and I want u to know everything will get better. Stay strong💪and keep up the great work, The Lord, the one who matters, sees u, and that's all that matters. ❤
We're all gonna make it brahs
Thank you
Not only make it but thrive,grow& become even more resilient 🎉
Yes we are!❤
And invincible ✨🤯
I didn't realize Stoic's were fortune tellers. This is way eastern philosophy is better. Results aren't based on outcomes.
A chick I had deep feelings for ghosted me for no apparent reason. I don’t think I did anything wrong. I wanted to reach out to her closure but this video made me come back to my senses. Thank you.
Are unbearable regrets but having freedom at the same time more painful than life in prison when it comes to people who only have 1 or 2 years left to live and then they die or pass away in 3 years?
I know a guy who ghosts all the time. Sees me & wants to unite but never talks about needs or wants;
Doesnt stay around long enough to get close or personal or just flat out get to know.
you ..then he's gone 👻 Odd... ghosting. See you in another 2 or 10 years of Im around! 👀
@@DesertlizzyThe Are unbearable regrets but having freedom at the same time more painful than life in prison when it comes to people who only have 1 or 2 years left to live and then they die or pass away in 3 years?
I asked a girl out and she said yes but it turned out that her friend was on the phone and said yes for her. Her friend did t even tell her I was dating her now until a few days later and since she wasn’t ready to date me we broke up. That would’ve been fine except it was so awkward for her that she said now she just wants to be friends and now she hasn’t texted me in weeks. I wanted to reach out but this video made me focus on myself
@@ArchiedArcher Are unbearable regrets but having freedom at the same time more painful than permanent punishment in prison when it comes to people who only have 1 or 2 years left to live and then they die or pass away in 3 years?
The message just confirmed that I’m on the right right path.
Same here
Don't care about rejections,There is always someone who accepts you and cherishes you,
That's the point fool.
U don't need to be accepted by anyone... You must make space in the desired person's eyes er chase or show them weakness attract them
Exactly ✅💖
@@x-senradam9009 🙏
Funny that one like is probably you liking your own post 😂@@user-oe5rr4dz2y
True
"Flip the script, regain your power." Remember you don't need anyone's approval. You are the one that creates your happiness. No one else. Be true to yourself! Peace and love to everyone from the Olympic Peninsula in Washington State!♥️🙏🇺🇲
Thanks for sharing this
I live in Victoria and marvel at the beauty of the Olympic Peninsula Withey Olympic mountains! What a backdrop for us to have. Thank you and God bless you and God bless your beautiful country.
Strength in adversity💝
We are social though and believe it or not we need each other
Port Townsend
Just watched I’ll be back with results 💪🏽😉☺️ today is 3-23-24 pray 🙏🏽 for me and wish me luck I feel sooo I’m powerful from this video 💪🏽😊💃🏾
I don't let what other people do, make me angry, but I'm going to be assertive when I need to be, because people will walk all over you, if you continue to be silent.
I was gaslight by a guy who said he and his ex are getting back together. Ok. I. Here for me and my well bring.
This guys voice calms me. Like a heavenly father giving wise words to a son
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AI is calming
GOD
... or daughter
@@robzilla730 nope. Im definately 100% male
Rejection at a high level means you will receive something even higher and Greater ❤❤❤!
Thank you for your perspective!
Amen
Well I'm still waiting
I love this 😊
@@Micosprincessgoldenera90sgirl althought it's just a stupid saying? And why do you all use those emotes like youre shy or embarrassed? I really don't get it... most of you people on this earth are fully blown weirdos
"Receive without conceit, release without struggle." - Marcus Aurelius
Love this 👌
@@luxemindsetofficial Great wisdom to unpack with this profound quote by Marcus Aurelius
I have been rebuilding a relationship with my ex. He made me believe he was serious in working things out and has suddenly gone silent. I'm struggling with this big time but have backed off and not tried to contact him. Trying to see the situation for what it is and put my energy back into myself
I allowed my ex back into my life, he made so many promises, he had changed, he realised the pain and hurt he had caused. Now, I found out that he is still behaving badly, having multiple affairs.
I feel hurt, but better after listening to this wisdom and the wonderful voice of the narrator. Thank you.
Been there.....they never change
Run
I dont feel rejected anymore ,i feel blessed , i realized the God and his universe has been working for my good afterall. Whoever i am whatever i am , i feel blessed , and i will keep believing that i am God's creation, his poet ,his song , and above all his masterpiece. I have nothing but gratefulness for the people who were kind and generous to me , forgiveness to those who wronged me . And i praying they 2 will move on someday. GOD HAVE KEPT HIS LOWLY SERVANT SAFE .
Gratitude, forgiveness, and a surrendering to the Power that holds everything together.
Shalom
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This message was right on time. So many good points I am definitely going to implement in my daily life.
You have to except things for what they are knowing you can't change what happens on the out side. But focus the things you can change on the inside. As within so without as above so below. From the macrocosm to the microcosm we are all just energy in that respect we are all one .
@@godvibeonlywkimberlyl9916it's not as easy as you think...
Self respect is what keeps me “silent” and introspection is my pleasure to be my best self. I will to not be devalued by someone’s attempt to control me.
This comment is everything
Reading comments alone makes me feel i am not alone in this world, that alone uplifts my spirit, especially when i read stories those who have overcome diversities, defrayals, and disappointments. Time heals. Thank you. God bless you all and live to share your happy ending stories
I wish I had come across this 13 years ago. However, I believe the universe sends you some messages when its the right time to receive it. Thank you.
My love rejected me the other day because I told him I was sick. I walked away with grace and chose Silence and thought this was preparing me for something Greater than I am. And then this video shows up today on top of my feed. And I am so Grateful because that is exactly the path I chose - stoic! And I studied Marcus Aurelius as a child, drew even his portrait with a finger in the air. What a remarkable reminder. Thank you from the bottom of my soul, this confirmed my strength like a mirror.
You know who your friends are when you are ill because they will show some level of concern for you. Narcissist's are easy to spot because they will treat you as if you are an inconvenience when you are ill or injured. Some narcissist's may not show this callous side of themselves straight away but in due time they will. I hope the person you love has your best interest at heart.
@@lindelaedmonds4595 🕊🌹
Take the high road and trust in God. He's bigger than this and will get you through this. God bless you 🙏.
@@unebonnevie you are right. He doesn't deserve one single thought let alone such a noble title.
This qoaut really remains me of who I'm, the king is here
Rejection is GOD'S protection!!! 11:11 peace and blessings to you and your family as well Happy New Years Highest energies Thank you Beautiful Universe and brother for the message! Wisdom is the key!
Happy New Year. Thank you
I'm so grateful I don't worship your god.
@@GoddessBlessYou
Oh, so you actually worship Satan then huh? 🤔 😂 🤷
Jesus is Key
You have 111 likes too…I don’t want to spoil it but I like 👍 lol
Happy New Year, Warm Blessings for 2024. ❤️🧡
"Your value doesn't dectease on someone's inability to see your worth..". I needed that.
I was 'played' and I felt angry. I couldn't just sit and be calm. So instead of reacting i rode my bike all night to get rid of that toxic energy.
Also, block and delete. Not out of spite, but to preserve my inner peace. ❤️
So, you already knew what youve been told here. Only useful experience comes from "I DID IT MYSELF". Every other experience is debatable. You dont need these sites and clips to improve. Trust me.
@@APOLON-bm7ym I raised my child ALL by myself working 2 jobs not a penny for child support from the father.
The father became physically abusive towards me when she was 6 months old. I left everything behind (except my baby and a backpack) and didn't look back. My love for her inspired me to better myself and go back to school to make a decent life for us. Thank you for the kindness in your words. 💗
DEAR Bunny
Bless you're ❤️ I hope you're doing well Hun.may God Grant you your Hearts desires and may Your Dreams come TRUE Sweetheart in JESUS NAME With MUCH LOVE 💕 From Somewhere in OKLAHOMA 🙏🌹🙏 be strong in the LORD LOVE 💕
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DEAR BILLY from somewhere in OKLAHOMA!🤗💕
Thank you for your kindness, your thoughts and for taking the time for your prayers! ✝️🤍
I just came to Jesus a year and a half ago after 2 friends whom I love very much died suddenly and unexpectedly. The seed that was planted long ago blossomed into belief in Jesus. I feel so blessed to receive your reply. 💕
This has been my social life since my friend passed. I take your kind words to my heart.
~From me, out here on Canada's West Coast ✝️🕊️🤍💕👍🏻
I hope my reply finds you blessed as well ✝️🕊️🤍
@@ankitrana306 I totally understand it's not easy. Especially when uour heart is hurting. Sometimes it's the only way to allow yourself to heal. I block so that I can't hear or see any messages or phone calls he may or may not have made to me.. I'd rather not know. Just sharing this in hopes that it'll help you 🤗🤍.
This is my daughter , I'm 66 and she is 49, it's has always been a one way street always about her and her life and everything, does not care about mine or my feelings or my thoughts or nothing i want to talk about, she only wants to talk about her and what she's going through and doing and wants to do, ive been in the wrong of chasing her with messages and talking through messages which she never clearly answers back or acknowledges them. I really needed to hear this, time to break loose from her rejection and silence and ignoring me, i thought she was my best friend and i do love her but it's time to step back and move forward into a new direction and opened doors. Thank you so much for this wisdom !!!
As a daughter with an elder mother, I'll do better. Thank you for the reminder.
Yes. Same with me too.
My husband walked out on me after I made a police complain on domestic violence. That time my daughter supported me. In fact she was happy to see him go. But I kept grieving how my life has been wasted. I was 55 then. Slowly I pulled myself out of it. Now I m happy with myself. I go to my job, do house hold chores, shop for myself and daughter. But strangely I now find that my daughter doesn't care about me. In fact she has become very rude and also verbally abusive. Yet she expects me do all her cooking, provide for all her expenses. She has made it amply clear that she doesn't need my company.. only my contribution. I think I should let her live her life her way. I really cannot find a solution to this. She is nearly twenty now.
@@sunandasengupta8113 madam. Let everyone go. Be happy.
@@l.h8249aaawww this made me feel exactly the same way.
This was food for my soul, I’m going to listen to this again and again, I’ve been rejected several times this last year by my own family and I needed so much to hear this. The pain was incredible because I’ve nothing whatsoever to provoke the rejection. Now I feel with these gems of wisdom I can overcome the pain with dignity . Thank you! ❤
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I'm truly glad to hear that the content resonated with you and provided some comfort during a difficult time.
Lovely comment
I’ve been through this too. I’ve cried a river over rejection without reason by the ones I love.
Now I’m stronger and more resilient. You can be too. Know your worth discover your greatness and be free.
Thank you for your post. I also have had these painful & bewildering experiences. My best understanding is that this apparent irrational hatred is due to the perpetrators' jealousy of your goodness, your genuine ability to connect with others and your empathy. The darkness is always attracted to the light and can't bear it.
I have this with 2 family members and one that lives with me 😊
"if one door closed Another Opens"👍👍
I listened from Thailand❤ Thank you.
Thanks for listening
Tomorrow's going to be a brighter day.
Stoicism has, in addition to my Christian faith, uplifted my heart and spirit... I am so grateful for its wisdom. I've just been through a particularly tough patch. Rejection is one of the toughest journeys I've made. Thank God He's carried me through it. Thank YOU for availing this beautiful philosophy in this easily digested format. #Strengthinadversity.
13. Don't Reveal Your Struggle
"To every man Death smiles, all a man should do is smile back." - Marcus Aurelius
Our life is short. It’s but a rain drop in a thunderstorm- Alan Watts
I like this quote 🎉
Your kindness is a gift not a transaction. I need this!
Yes, I Concur!
I almost got married to someone. Thankfully he changed his mind. I was going to marry him and I knew it was a bad idea. I felt sorry for him and felt guilty because I broke up with him 8 months ago. And than felt guilty and I made my amends and we got back together. He gave me these videos and these videos actually helped me see what I was getting into with the man I was involved with. So I prayed and he changed his mind. I was upset and felt bad. I actually wanted to die. Then I had to take a look at it was my pride and ego that hurt. I honestly wanted out of the relationship. And he gave me a free way out to leave. It's been 3 days since I accepted that it was not ment to be. And it is one more learning experience
I feel like I am in the twilight zone. I was getting ready to sell my homes so I could move to New Jersey and get married to my childhood sweetheart. Everything was great. He expressed his feelings openly, very romantic. Came to California for a week. I was hoping to just enjoy time together. He decided to work all week cleaning up my yard and garage. Very sweet that he wanted to do that. I told him he is amazing and so sweet to do so. But please take it easy, because he was hurting his back. We both are in our 60’s. I took him to the airport, everything was still great. Once arriving, he kept saying pull over here, I was. He jumped out so fast, I said you must want to get home. That’s when he was screaming. Seriously, why? Still not sure. He slammed the door didn’t say goodbye, no kiss nothing. I was dumbfounded. After three days of silence, I texted him asking what was wrong. Why did you get so upset? He called back that night still screaming and complains about the week, how he worked so hard and I had the nerve to say that to him at the airport. Guessing after all we talked about, it’s now over? Wtf?
So confused over the whole thing. I would like an answer to what happened. I feel I need closer, and guessing what flipped that switch to make him lose his mind. I know I don’t deserve this. Everything he said before all this happened, was he lying?
I am not going to contact him any further. I am thanking God I didn’t sell my homes or move in with him.
I feel like stoicism gives us permission to return to self in a world that demands we endlessly give in order to be considered a "good person".
The timing couldn't be more perfect...
Me too ❤
Same
Your power lies in how you respond 🎉
Not ignoring people but controlling my behavior and actions.
I will listen to this many times til it is second nature to me
Thank you!
Me too!
Love this 👌
💯💯💯💯💯
Amen. Oh Lord please give me strength and others too broken hearted. 🙏
I destroyed my whole life for one woman. I kept struggling for 12 years. The time she came back in my life I was very much settled. She married me.. after few years she started the drama again. I kept showing my emotions by hurting myself.burning myself, punching walls, crying, being alone for many weeks, leaving jobs, cuts with blades, sitting in cold nights to get sick. I lost a lot of weight, I lost my eyesight. My brain. Fighting with people.
Now a day playing online games, spending time in games and sleeping. I have started taking Medicines to recover. Watching these kind of videos to get inner peace and strength. Prayers 💔😊
Why, why, why punish yourself?
Just say no and move on.
Anything else would save you at least half of these ongoing issues you listed.
@@alierem4266you are right, but I am keeping my promise. I proposed here and I am bound to my words. I will wait few more years. May be she will come back.
She has her brothers, sisters and their children. She keep herself busy with the family. May be when she will be needing family she will come back to me.
I wonder how heart control the mind. I can move 100s of KGs of weight in the Gym but I can not move on with my heart like this. This is all for that one person. I can treat others as I want. strange but true.
1 week passed, I am doing 12-15 KM walk and some pushups and squats. Hopefully I will be back to my life in 20 days more.
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Whoever is reading this, I pray for you: a heart free of sorrow, a mind free of worries, a life filled with joy, an abundant source of financial wealth, a body free of disease disability and a day filled with God's blessings
Thank you. I pray the same for you. Many blessings and Shalom!
@@SharonsMessianicJourney so sweet, thank you so much!!
"In a world where instant responses are expected, your silence can be intriguing. Even attractive. It shows you're not easily shaken. That you have a life full of interests and priorities beyond this rejection!" SOOOOOOOLD! Sign me tf in! Im a stoic student rn!!!!
Thank you for your insightful comment. It's great to see that you resonate with the concept of stoicism. Looking forward to having you as a part of our community.
I am so immune with rejection as it happened countless time 😌
This message is something I needed at this moment. It is God sent.
Grace is a beautiful thing
25:38 "your kindness is a gift, not a transaction" ... this is just a tiny piece of all of the wonderful advice given and explained in this video. Love the content!
I forwarded this video to my own email. The words are so reassuring and soothing! They wash all the pain and sadness away, and fill me with joy for today. Let's go!
I love to swim in the powerful Pacific surf. Rejection and loss sometimes feels like a wave cresting and washing over you. The hardest losses are like the waves that pin you to the ocean's floor. If you can hold on long enough, and get back to the surface, you will have survived and know the measure of your own strength, when faced with adversity. Love life, whatever it brings, and stay strong!
this popped up for me to see just when I needed it. I just got rejected hard today, and was feeling super down. this reminded me of how so many times when I didnt get the outcome that I wanted, and was feeling devastated, down the road something happened or came a long that was so much better for me. It made me remember that I am so glad that the universe didnt give me what I wanted, and what I got was so much more than I could have dreamed. this video really saved me today.
Thanks for sharing this with us. Glad it helped you remember that rejection can be a redirection to something better
Rejection is divine protection.
Pfft this doesent happen for everyone. Sounds like your fairy tale came true though😂
I need to listen to this EVVVVVVVVaraday! (everyday)
This has been my daily mantra and it has been an amazing video to help me when someone told me they will never forgive me and too many lines have been crossed. I am embracing the stoic life forever!!!!
Holy cow ! I just resigned at 3 am and I feel absolutely no regret , especially after watching this video . Things had been brewing for too long . I am super confident with my decision and am willing to face any number of challenges for a new beginning! Thanks much !
Yes it's kinda frustrating when you beg for attention and seeking someone's approval. Now, I realized that I'm stoic by nature. All that have been mentioned here are exact and true based on my experience.Rejection is not easy to handle but don't let it over rule your emotion and reactions. This is great!! 💪
So true
Yes rejection is really hard to handle
YES!!! I was heartbroken when I was not the chosen candidate for my dream job. Thank goodness. I later learned that the person who got that position was miserable and abused. I’ve dodged the bullet more than once but this experience has never been forgotten
A really Good friend of mine sent me this link. She said it made her think of me. It took me many years of insecurity to find myself and I live my life much like this video suggests. I'm still growing but obviously, well on my way. I found value in this video and will watch more in this series, now that I know of them. 😊😊😊😊😊😊
Strength through adversity. Through these words, I have come out the other side stronger.
Great
Yes …me too…feels good…now but it hadn’t for so long lol warm blessings ❤️🧡
I've recently gone through a breakup, and it's my first one ever. She's a lot more mature than me, a lot more experienced in self love, and its seems like she's been through this scenario plenty of times before. I've received a whole ton of advice similar to what this video is trying to accomplish, but I couldn't get past the first hump of rejection. I've been making good progress, but I still couldn't get past the thought of her still possibly caring about me. This video has helped me solidify my thought process, the advice that I've been receiving, and my healing progression. Thank you to the person that made this video, and I am so grateful for seeing this video at a time where it was most needed in my life. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing your experience. I'm glad to hear that the video has been helpful for you during this difficult time. Take care and keep focusing on your healing journey.
Thank you for sharing your experience. I'm glad to hear that the video has been helpful for you during this difficult time. Take care and keep focusing on your healing journey.
Yes everyone can listen but having the mindset to put this wisdom into practice is a tremendous skill in itself
Women are not mature... so you must be so immature for her to ve more "mature" than you. You sound like beta male baby right now
Someday u will see it as a blessing in disguise..keep going.. more strength to u
I got ghosted recently, and I really became affected and angry. I tried to reach him out without an answer. However, these lessons are starting to resonate with me. Great video! Thank you.
“You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.” - Marcus Aurelius
Enemies inspire me to be great , don't get mad , get even , be great , you're EVEN !!!
I just wanted to share how this helped me so much. I've been rejected by 14 different romantic interests of mine in the past few years. It had really destroyed my self esteem and how I view myself. This video helped me to stand tall and not be overcome with despair. That and another quote I read recently. "Strong women scare weak men"
As a woman who has had to be strong just due to life's traumas, it's an honor that I am strong and resilient. I can stand by myself and though I still wish I had a partner to lean on sometimes, I know that I am capable within myself
Really glad it has helped you a lot. Keep being the strong woman you are!
That is the dumbest, most pandering quote I've seen. "Strong" women do not scare men, men do not value "strength" in women, they value femininity. Do weak men scare women? Why do you hate weak men if you're so strong?
This is something feminists tell themselves, that men are "scared" of their "strength". Y'all are not strong, y'all are just untolerable and loudmouths.
Your soul mate will come when you least expect it.
@@zoh2023 By watching videos that blame men for not finding her attractive?
Apparently men are weak because they don't find masculinity attractive, go figure.
This is not how stoics think. She's supposed to have introspection and realise why she's undesirable, instead of blaming others for being undesirable.
I really needed this today at the right moment too. Thankyou. I've had the world slammed in my face time and time again lately regarding a situation in my life. My family home that is of course owned by my mother and she has been in a home and I will now be homeless. 3 weeks to be out and a whole house to clear on my own whilst being disabled and very ill. No other family to help and nobody wants to rent to a disabled woman. Everyone is shutting the door in my face as I don't earn enough. So yeh I am feeling rejected in this harsh world we live in. After I grew up in this house raised my two sons in this house, caref for both my parents until my mother needed nursing home care and all that for the world to turn it's back on me. So thankyou it's helped me today 🙏
I've finally realized this is the only answer to exist in this world, to get along with people. The sacrifices however are things like love. It's time to give it up.
Sometimes people make you feel worthless but remember your true value there is only one of you in this whole entire universe make the most of what you have just be grateful go with the flow of life❤
Strength and unity and understanding self-love to all my brothers and sisters who are in the movement
I chose not to let someone's indifference affect me in any given way. I shall remain focused on my goals
Even if rejection is not an issue personally, there was quite a lot of wisdom to absorb in the time spent listening to this lesson. Thank you
Thanks for taking the time to listen and for your thoughtful feedback! I'm glad you found wisdom in the lesson.
Strength in the face of rejection
Yes!
Need to watch this video every time I’m feeling weak.
Hugs to all that have been hurt cause being injustices that you didn't deseve
Struggled after my divorce. I wasn't a present husband of step dad. Long story after 16 years she asked for a divorce & I said yes. Didn't fight for it which is bad on me. I understand what she means now & as she has loved all communication I have felt strength in listening to these & now finding my self for me so I can become the man with true love for myself thank you.
Beta male Brad. You sound like a lazy wimp
Strength in Adversity 👑🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟Will one day be Crowning Glory 🎉🌹💖👍
All thanks to god and these community for crossing these video ❤
Every point is a whole mantra to reflect on everytime one feels depleted and propels one to self mastery . What a gem ! Thank you so much ! 😊
Whatever doesn't kill you DOES make you stronger!
While I’ve been putting these lessons into practice, this vid was recommended to me by the Google algo and has served as an affirmation to continue practicing these on my journey. Strength in adversity, indeed. 🙏🏼💪🏼✌🏼
my every layoff only made me level myself higher, if not for them I would not have gained the exponential growth that I did. I am very thankful for every single layoff I got.
I am 25.I used to like a guy for 2-3 months. As i belong to a conservative muslim family, my family indeed gave marriage proposal to that guy. That guy and his family rejected me. I was pretending these days that this rejection didn’t bother me that much but deep down it did. I am hurt. This video came in exact moment when i needed it the most.
Be the person that they thought you could never become. And then become better.
Wow. Everything you mentioned is spot on.
I know my worth and even though people daily do everything to put me down, they will never succeed in making me feel bad about myself. I love and respect myself and that no one, I repeat NO ONE can change or take away from me. They try, but they fail miserably every single time. 😂 You have a new sub now. Thank you ! ❤🙂
People are going through a lot these days. My story is very long and i am trying to use these moments to grow.
Thanks for sharing these powerful words of wisdom❤
Strength in adversity… so encouraging.
I cannot express how much I have needed your channel. Eternal gratitude.
When I needed this the most,it just appeared on my screen,thank you universal forces of life, for giving me courage,wisdom and temperance. I am emerging far stronger and wiser than I could have ever imagined in the face of a marriage breakdown that has been an arena of insults,disrespect,one sided vitriol,fights,destruction of household items,damage to vehicle and threats of repeat of same and virtually a prison for both of us
It may be funny, but I met someone about 2 years ago. I believed and was convinced that it was her. All this time I was trying to get closer to her, I gave her gifts, beautiful bouquets of flowers,
I tried to invite her to a wonderful evening... and I received compliments from her. She told me that she had no one and didn't want anyone, but that she would definitely think about me, and then she changed her mind several times. I truly fell in love with her like never before in my life. We work together and it's hard for me to look her way and talk to her after rejection. This is a really strange feeling. But this short material allowed me to understand that I am worth more than just having fun with her and ultimately... rejection. I love and respect her very much, and I will act in the manner outlined in this video, which has certainly opened my eyes. Because you have to love and respect yourself. Thank you
Never chase a girl. Never agree with a girl. Girls don’t even know what they actually want. They are addicted to drama and the emotional roller coaster, not good feelings. Be abrasive in getting and being what you want and setting boundaries. Be agreeable on the most meaningful things to her at the right time. We get bad habits from shows and movie scripts written by women. Thankfully the pendulum is swinging back to sanity - patriarchy.
Strenght in adversity.Infinitely thank you;ultra empowering and uplifting.
"Strength in adversity." Thank you for posting this very important and helpful message.
Thank you for this upload, the timing couldn’t be more perfect. I was using silence as a response to a rejection. But I was beginning to doubt myself until I watched this. The synchronicity is awesome. Happy new year.
I've also used silence as a tool for a loud voice and the art of silence works for me
This is the natural way of my being these days, since experiencing challenges abroad and learning to adapt to people whose morals are completely different from my own.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It's always interesting to hear how different cultures can shape our perspectives. I can relate to the challenge of adapting to new morals and values. It's definitely a learning experience.
This video has taught me to apply Stoicism in ways I didn't imagine - Stay Stoic.
I'm so thankful that I've learned and apply this type of self love and respect.
Love it! I often feel rejected. But everything turned into blessings when I focus on my self improvement and self respect. Silence is the best strategy. 😊
Strength in adversity 😢👏🏾🙏🏾 HAD ME Crying My Lord Thank you for this I needed this For the New Year of 2024 🔒
Glad it was helpful to you
Me too
I wish you all the love this world has to offer you, I love you standing in your strength!❤
Embrace rejection. Thanks for your advice.