F*** that kid, he didn’t decide to contact you at all but once his mother died he all of a sudden wants to see you? Sounds like he’s in need of money or something.
He might have uncovered some genetic condition or have some kind of a hereditary illness and wants to ask him about his family's medical history in which case in my opinion he should be heard and helped but nothing more
The audacity. “I no longer want you as my father”, later on “ dad great to see you”. He probably got no inheritance or his stepfather kicked him to the curb once his mom died, also Id immediately tell sis she stepped far out of line and she is no longer welcome in my life. THE END
@@buffaloefilms3079 Considering he's had a decade to call op back but decided against it the entire time, I strongly disagree. He wasn't a kid when he turned 18 & definitely wasn't when he turned 21 let alone 26 but still had op fresh in his mind because as soon as mom died he comes crawling back 😮💨
I don’t want to say leave him like he left you, but the boy is now a 26 year old man. It’s sad what happened but you need to look after yourself first. Your family needs you more that he does.
I say no and cut contact with sister. Apparently she doesn’t care about family and doesn’t care about the pain that you and your mom went through after the spoiled little brat decided he didn’t want to be your kid. Some people are just clueless when it comes to, others feelings.
cutting contact with the sister would be horrible, she’s done nothing wrong, she’s just trying to be forgiving. yeah the son doesn’t deserve anything. but a true kind person would let him back into their lives.
@@zovoky2484 she has done everything wrong. She went behind OP back and gave out information to people who didn’t deserve it. If she went about it the right way she would have contacted OP and had discussion with him about this before just giving out his information to people. You clearly have never had one person ever betray you and stab you in the back. when someone betray somebody, their family and friends should not give that person your contact information when you went no contact. Just a simple matter of respecting your loved ones. If you don’t respect them enough to keep their private information private then you should not be entitled to have it. The sister is just as guilty as everybody else because she should never have given out his information.
Leave that Boy like he did it with you and don‘t listen to your sister that Boy dosen‘t care about you. He just wants something from you and when he gets it he will leave you alone again.
This post was made months ago and yet no update Edit : I was wrong there was an update via a comment but since the post was archived I don’t know the exact details Apparently the son wanted op’s help to finish his law school cus his step dad had “ run dry “
Well I am not the best person in the world but if I had the disposable income to help him out I would. I would make him sign a document saying I am gifting you this money if you never contact me or any of my family ever again. This would de a test to see if he only cares about my money or if he is trying to amend bridges. Because if he takes the money and comes back then I have written proof to through in my sisters face that I am nothing more then a dollar amount. I don’t think there is I dollar amount that I wouldn’t pay to get rid of all the regret in my life but if there is an affordable amount I could pay to not have another I would sign that check in a heartbeat.
That kid legit said “I want to be my boyfriends son” and almost killed you from the hurt he caused but I say meet up with him DON’T forgive him tho just ask where the bf went and make sure he knows how much hurt he caused then leave
At 12 he was probably easily manipulated by his mom or new boyfriend 🤔 still that didn't give him any right to come back after all those years and act like nothing happened, he's basically an adult at this point so he should understand at least now what he did to his biological father. I'm sure he would have never contacted his father is his mom was still alive. Ungrateful kid
OP has had 15 years to think about it, and has already decided to not be this person's parent. There is absolutely no reason to hear anyone out, unless he regrets his earlier decision.
He had so much time to visit his dad but suddenly when his mom dies he comes crawling back? I would say maybe they were trying to keep their son away from his dad but 1, he had a devilish look whe delivering the news and 2, it’s been almost a decade since that kids become a legal adult. If he really regretted his actions he’d try to make contact a lot sooner
He’s old enough to go drive he is old enough to dismiss his father then he is old enough to not complain about his decisions and crawl back to his father when things get tough.
Honestly, give him a chance. Just my opinion take it or leave it but even if he turns out to have not changed at all simply looking him in the eye and forgiving him for the pain he caused you will do wonders for your mind. Even if you do not want him in your life meet with him and forgive him. Forgiveness isn’t saying what happened was ok or that he is welcome, it simply means you forgive him.
Sometimes a child just needs to be let go of. We live in a day and age where children are told they are their parents equals. Sometimes you just gotta say “aight Im done” when they push too far and you did everything you could
I hate it when when people give teens a pass on something terrible like I heard a story about a girl who asked “who did dad sleep with “ when her parents told her they were getting divorced when it was the wife who cheated like yea they might not be an adult but they should still know how much that can effect someone I’m glad no one thinks the kid is right in this situation
The kid is no longer a kid. He is over the age of 18, he can fend for himself, and if he does need anything he can ask that new dad he wanted for help. Or his mother's side of the family too.
there is nothing good that can come of meeting that kid. op would have died and it would have been the kid's fault. i know a feeling similar to what he felt, although probably less intense. my boyfriend of 1.5 years looked me dead in the eyes and told me that for 3 months he had been lying to me about loving me. i attempted to kill myself minutes after he left. i only survived because my mom asked if i wanted to watch a show with her and i backed out of it seconds before the point of no return. i then had to go to school the next morning and pretend i was fine. this world is hell. i still think about him sometimes, even 4 months later. would it be better for me to try to find someone new to help me heal?
Ask your sister to find out what the kid (now man of 26) wants. If it's money or a place to live, tell him (through her) to go ask his rich new daddy. If his new daddy has dumped him, tell him now he knows how it feels. If he just wants to mend fences, let him take you to dinner to talk if he picks up the tab.
He was probably easily persuaded by his mom and her boyfriend. He was 12. His words hurt you, but you’re right. You’re allowed to move on. You can listen to him to see what he has to say. Legally you’re not his father, biologically you are. It’s up to you want you want to do. Hopefully your son sees that words and actions have an effect on someone.
It is your life. He has his whole adult life to come and see you and he flat out refused. Why out of all this time would he decide to come and see you if he didn’t want something. How would you even catch up after years of heart break? There was an update on OP. His former son wanted him to help him finish paying law school cause the ex boyfriend went broke over it. See, I knew he wanted something. He never wanted to reconnect with his father, he wanted his money and was going to use the blood card for it.
I want to say hear him out. However if hes an adult, he could have made xontact with you at 18, and he didnt. That proves he doesn't give a damn about you or his biological siblings. He needs to grow a pair and write you an apology letter, and bug off or prove he actually cared and missed you all those years
He was technically a child. As a much as he may have meant it then. He may not have known better. But he was old enough to show sympathy. So don’t give him all the remorse you know.
I don’t know about this one. I would say if there is any feeling of wanting closer then go for it. As a younger person I would tell you love conquers all and you need to do it. But that was many years and many disappointments ago. Now I would say what value dose that person bring to you? You owe to your self to ask that question. I have never bared children my self so I feel like I don’t have a right to say wether to go for it or not. However, as a man how lives life with constant regret the best thing you can do is ask your self if you will regret your choice. And if you can figure out how to answer that question, please let me know.
Well i think it may be good to see if he actually meant what he said when he did not want you as a dad cuz the thing is you dont even know that if it was his own choice mabye his mom told him some fake stuff you never did to make him hate you so it might be a good idea to first see if he wanted it or no if didnt you can try to come back into eachothers lifes if he wanted it then cut contact no exceptions
Sounds a bit tough however I don’t think holding an 11-year-old accountable for a lifetime Decision makes much sense… If you need to comparative think about this like a tattoo, he may have liked Power Rangers when he was 11 but now is an adult he might like them and want to tattoo removed. His brain wasn’t fully developed, and he may have acclimated to his decision growing up… But that doesn’t mean that it was the right decision nor something that he stands by. it’s also more than likely some degree that he was influenced or manipulated to making that decision. I think the only course of action that makes any sense is to let him back in but very slowly.😊
But since then hes been every age up to his current age of 26 and only just now, after his mom died, reaching out? No hes had all those yrs to reach out and now his mom died, his "awesome stepdad wasnt mentioned so did he disown kid?die?divorce mom? So now kids all alone he comes back? Sounds dubious as to reasoning and timing. Or, as my mlm on always said, "be careful, for if you make your bed hard you still got to lay in it", he made his bed hard
He could have reached out to you for 8 years and he only did when his mom died and I’m guessing this his un-bio dad left him, so dont talk to him he dosent deserve it you almost did for this kid
It took his mother dying to realize that? He could’ve contacted him any time of the day, before and the dad probably would’ve been happy. As long as he didn’t call him dad or anything. But he chose to wait till his mother died to try to make a mends. That’s weak man.
@chadbroski665 come on dude he's twelve ur telling me if ur moms boyfriend was buying u all these expensive things and taking u on vacation all the time plus the mom was probably telling the boy to make the step-dad his real dad
@@ohhblift8414 key word “probably” and yes I do think a twelve year old could make they’re own decisions for themselves. I don’t feel bad for him considering what he said to his father even being 12, like they said in the video the boy made his own choice, and it wasn’t like he couldn’t make the decision of having the new guy as his dad, but that does not mean he had to never speak to him again after that moment. He cut the father out of his life, and expected him to let him back in. That isn’t the father’s responsibility to help that boy even with the state he’s in. I will agree on you with the boyfriend though since he probably did block the father, but still it shouldn’t be his responsibility to take in the boy after years of not talking to him, and renouncing the title of father from him and then coming back just because of financial trouble or just not having a home. He should’ve never considered going to the Op. I do want to apologize for the original comment, and you can believe what you believe and I’ll believe what I do. Thank you.
@chadbroski665 trust me bro I know how this works dude my sister won't see my dad because my mom would feed lies in her head just like was doing by buying the kid all the expensive stuff in this video u act like u never been young and dumb and blinded by things terrible people bought u
Honestly you are his father, legality doesn't change reality, I know you were hurt by what he did but that doesn't mean he hurt you, he could not conceptualize consequences at that age, you might think "he isn't owed my forgiveness" but you also allowed a 11 year old to make a life altering decision without your guidance because you didn't want to fight, you wanted to feel sorry for yourself more than you wanted to fight a 11 year olds will, so in reality you abandoned him, not the other way around, and to use legality to excuse yourself or your self pity to excuse your abandonment is pathetic.
Your sister just as bad forcing an interaction that is none of her damn business yes its her, and she has every right to have a relationship with him but not forcing it with you knowing what you been through sister is a horrible person just because your family doesn't mean you tolerate horrible toxins behavior stick your ground and back away
It would feel good to ignore him and hurt him back. But its more important to love yourself than to hurt others. So I'd say listen to him in a stoic manner so that you can make a more inform choice for yourself.
paperwork doesnt make u not his dad, hes your kid even if on paper he isnt, listen and see what he has to say, forgiveness is yours to give or not, heal and let him heal. thats tge good that can come of this, she is gone now, so this is truly between u two now.
Not smart. That boy wants something and I just saw a comment that said “the son wanted him to finish paying for his law school because the step father run out of money”
No. He had 14 years to fix this mess, understand what the fuck his mother did, and get in touch. He decided to not do any of that until he remembered that he had a dad outside of his stepdad when he ran out of money. Kid's only biologically related to his dad but he's no family of the guy. Kid should take up student loans or whatever to finish his law school instead of asking the dad that he betrayed for money.
Bro became the thing he once hated his own dad, ain’t no way bro really angry over a eleven/twelve year old kid’s decision come on now how dumb you have to be I was there once I chose my dad over my mom and you know what my mom still loved me I guess she more man than this mf, she accepted it but in the end my stupid decision to leaving my mom never happened cause they both started to live together again. Moral of the story is we may not be a good family but we respect each other and not make anyone feel excluded(we more like basketball team than a family) I wanna be like my mom if it come down to something like this, the fact that she accepted me with open arms baffles me she even brought me take out on the way home from the court this brings a tear to my eyes. I’ll always respect her for that.🥹
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F*** that kid, he didn’t decide to contact you at all but once his mother died he all of a sudden wants to see you? Sounds like he’s in need of money or something.
Also, where's the other guy? If the offspring needed help, why didn't he go to him?
I Think the Adopted Father Whent to find Milk and Never came back
He might have uncovered some genetic condition or have some kind of a hereditary illness and wants to ask him about his family's medical history in which case in my opinion he should be heard and helped but nothing more
@@zavoreq6166
Ridiculous. If there's a glimmer of truth, offspring should contact sire through an attorney.
@zavoreq6166 Then the sister should have enough information.
The audacity. “I no longer want you as my father”, later on “ dad great to see you”.
He probably got no inheritance or his stepfather kicked him to the curb once his mom died, also Id immediately tell sis she stepped far out of line and she is no longer welcome in my life. THE END
That’s insanely harsh there’s no need for that.
Kid was eleven at the time and yeah he probably has bad intentions but the sister doesn’t know thay
Tell sis she's welcome to treat offspring however she likes, but don't bug you about it.
@@buffaloefilms3079 Considering he's had a decade to call op back but decided against it the entire time, I strongly disagree. He wasn't a kid when he turned 18 & definitely wasn't when he turned 21 let alone 26 but still had op fresh in his mind because as soon as mom died he comes crawling back 😮💨
@@UnrealEggo He could also be very much manipulated by the opinions of adults. You people act like kids are as smart and as developed as adults???
@@shoto_draws5097 what he said
I don’t want to say leave him like he left you, but the boy is now a 26 year old man. It’s sad what happened but you need to look after yourself first. Your family needs you more that he does.
I say no and cut contact with sister. Apparently she doesn’t care about family and doesn’t care about the pain that you and your mom went through after the spoiled little brat decided he didn’t want to be your kid. Some people are just clueless when it comes to, others feelings.
cutting contact with the sister would be horrible, she’s done nothing wrong, she’s just trying to be forgiving. yeah the son doesn’t deserve anything. but a true kind person would let him back into their lives.
@@zovoky2484 she has done everything wrong. She went behind OP back and gave out information to people who didn’t deserve it. If she went about it the right way she would have contacted OP and had discussion with him about this before just giving out his information to people. You clearly have never had one person ever betray you and stab you in the back. when someone betray somebody, their family and friends should not give that person your contact information when you went no contact. Just a simple matter of respecting your loved ones. If you don’t respect them enough to keep their private information private then you should not be entitled to have it. The sister is just as guilty as everybody else because she should never have given out his information.
Lmao
Leave that Boy like he did it with you and don‘t listen to your sister that Boy dosen‘t care about you. He just wants something from you and when he gets it he will leave you alone again.
This post was made months ago and yet no update
Edit : I was wrong there was an update via a comment but since the post was archived I don’t know the exact details
Apparently the son wanted op’s help to finish his law school cus his step dad had “ run dry “
I knew it
It was so obvious that all he wanted was money lmao Im not the least bit surprised
The audacity to this just shows how pathetic he is.
Well I am not the best person in the world but if I had the disposable income to help him out I would. I would make him sign a document saying I am gifting you this money if you never contact me or any of my family ever again.
This would de a test to see if he only cares about my money or if he is trying to amend bridges. Because if he takes the money and comes back then I have written proof to through in my sisters face that I am nothing more then a dollar amount.
I don’t think there is I dollar amount that I wouldn’t pay to get rid of all the regret in my life but if there is an affordable amount I could pay to not have another I would sign that check in a heartbeat.
Yeah bro not getting a dime
Did anyone hear that the daughter was 18 meters?? 2:30
Yea
I think it was written as 18m which was supposed to be taken as months but, because of the text to speech bot, it became meter.
@@jingjing7411that’s what I figured, thanks for the confirmation
That kid legit said “I want to be my boyfriends son” and almost killed you from the hurt he caused but I say meet up with him DON’T forgive him tho just ask where the bf went and make sure he knows how much hurt he caused then leave
At 12 he was probably easily manipulated by his mom or new boyfriend 🤔 still that didn't give him any right to come back after all those years and act like nothing happened, he's basically an adult at this point so he should understand at least now what he did to his biological father. I'm sure he would have never contacted his father is his mom was still alive. Ungrateful kid
I’d say hear him out but don’t form a relationship with him, listen to what he has to say and think if it worth it
I mean, it is non zero odds that the kid was protecting the father from a monster of a mother. So we never know.
He (sire) has had 15 years to think about it.
Nah. What's to hear out? Tell him go talk to his dad.
OP has had 15 years to think about it, and has already decided to not be this person's parent. There is absolutely no reason to hear anyone out, unless he regrets his earlier decision.
@@scurvofpcp… what?
He had so much time to visit his dad but suddenly when his mom dies he comes crawling back? I would say maybe they were trying to keep their son away from his dad but 1, he had a devilish look whe delivering the news and 2, it’s been almost a decade since that kids become a legal adult. If he really regretted his actions he’d try to make contact a lot sooner
He made his desisions so now he has to asume the consecuences
He’s old enough to go drive he is old enough to dismiss his father then he is old enough to not complain about his decisions and crawl back to his father when things get tough.
probably the mom said some stuff about the father that’s why he did that
No he prefered money like his mother.
@@olivierdk2seems like it
I would say hear him out but I do understand how you feel
No
@@heathermorrow7941why
Yep@@heathermorrow7941
No
Yea he a kid he prob didn’t fully knew what he was doing Is Mom probably told him
I genuinely hope he reads this story.
daughter 18 meters
LMAO
She tall as fūçk
Probably was written 18 months but the ai mistook it as meters lmao
She got all the height genetics
The kid made his choice and he needs to live with it he broke OP’s heart beyond repair
3:04 "It was, My first biological offspring" 😭💀
The audacity to come back after making your dad have no parental control? Man almost killed himself.
I would say go meet up with him, see what he actually wants from you, and then tell him off for how much he made you hurt to get the ultimate revenge
Honestly, give him a chance. Just my opinion take it or leave it but even if he turns out to have not changed at all simply looking him in the eye and forgiving him for the pain he caused you will do wonders for your mind. Even if you do not want him in your life meet with him and forgive him. Forgiveness isn’t saying what happened was ok or that he is welcome, it simply means you forgive him.
Sometimes a child just needs to be let go of. We live in a day and age where children are told they are their parents equals. Sometimes you just gotta say “aight Im done” when they push too far and you did everything you could
No, and that’s what happened if you make dumb decision
Play stupid games and win stupid prizes
I hate it when when people give teens a pass on something terrible like I heard a story about a girl who asked “who did dad sleep with “ when her parents told her they were getting divorced when it was the wife who cheated like yea they might not be an adult but they should still know how much that can effect someone I’m glad no one thinks the kid is right in this situation
2:35 my daughter is also 18 meters old! Such a coinki-dink!
The shit ai bot read 18m as 18 meters instead of 18 months
The kid is no longer a kid. He is over the age of 18, he can fend for himself, and if he does need anything he can ask that new dad he wanted for help. Or his mother's side of the family too.
there is nothing good that can come of meeting that kid. op would have died and it would have been the kid's fault. i know a feeling similar to what he felt, although probably less intense. my boyfriend of 1.5 years looked me dead in the eyes and told me that for 3 months he had been lying to me about loving me. i attempted to kill myself minutes after he left. i only survived because my mom asked if i wanted to watch a show with her and i backed out of it seconds before the point of no return. i then had to go to school the next morning and pretend i was fine. this world is hell.
i still think about him sometimes, even 4 months later. would it be better for me to try to find someone new to help me heal?
Gym solves everything
Ask your sister to find out what the kid (now man of 26) wants. If it's money or a place to live, tell him (through her) to go ask his rich new daddy. If his new daddy has dumped him, tell him now he knows how it feels. If he just wants to mend fences, let him take you to dinner to talk if he picks up the tab.
Holy shit his Daugther is 18 Meters??!!!
They grow so fast! 😂
one word : DESPERATE
He was probably easily persuaded by his mom and her boyfriend. He was 12. His words hurt you, but you’re right. You’re allowed to move on. You can listen to him to see what he has to say. Legally you’re not his father, biologically you are. It’s up to you want you want to do. Hopefully your son sees that words and actions have an effect on someone.
Daughter is 18meters 💀
It is your life. He has his whole adult life to come and see you and he flat out refused. Why out of all this time would he decide to come and see you if he didn’t want something. How would you even catch up after years of heart break?
There was an update on OP. His former son wanted him to help him finish paying law school cause the ex boyfriend went broke over it.
See, I knew he wanted something. He never wanted to reconnect with his father, he wanted his money and was going to use the blood card for it.
I want to say hear him out. However if hes an adult, he could have made xontact with you at 18, and he didnt. That proves he doesn't give a damn about you or his biological siblings. He needs to grow a pair and write you an apology letter, and bug off or prove he actually cared and missed you all those years
Holy shit you have a tall daughter
No mercy for the wicked.
My daughter is personally 2 meters
Not your kid, not your problem
He was technically a child. As a much as he may have meant it then. He may not have known better. But he was old enough to show sympathy. So don’t give him all the remorse you know.
Nothing except for exposing the family who You couldn't really trust with everything.
Give him 500 dollar and ask him to leave, and get a job
damb😂
I have a feeling if the kid was a girl this might be different.
Nah, I feel the same in both hypotheticals
I need to know what happened next
Any updates?
daughter 18 mtrs.. I wanna meet her😂😂😂😂
I say hear him out in case he's genuinely sorry for what he did but keep your guard up just in case he just wants something from you
_"...meet up..."_
Bad idea.
Bad idea man, he the boy is 28 had 10 years to contact him but now his mother is gone, now he wants to talk? Seems like he wants something
I don’t know about this one. I would say if there is any feeling of wanting closer then go for it. As a younger person I would tell you love conquers all and you need to do it. But that was many years and many disappointments ago.
Now I would say what value dose that person bring to you? You owe to your self to ask that question. I have never bared children my self so I feel like I don’t have a right to say wether to go for it or not. However, as a man how lives life with constant regret the best thing you can do is ask your self if you will regret your choice. And if you can figure out how to answer that question, please let me know.
No part 2?
You should talk with him and then make another part for us
Part 4?
Damn I ain’t know anyone could get to 18 meters that’s tall asf
Stay away from him
What the hell was that creature he pulled out of the ground 2:25 ??
Well i think it may be good to see if he actually meant what he said when he did not want you as a dad cuz the thing is you dont even know that if it was his own choice mabye his mom told him some fake stuff you never did to make him hate you so it might be a good idea to first see if he wanted it or no if didnt you can try to come back into eachothers lifes if he wanted it then cut contact no exceptions
Nah I would have no sister after she said those words to me. An if call the ex wife’s family to tell them to get him or I will call the cops
Sounds a bit tough however I don’t think holding an 11-year-old accountable for a lifetime Decision makes much sense… If you need to comparative think about this like a tattoo, he may have liked Power Rangers when he was 11 but now is an adult he might like them and want to tattoo removed. His brain wasn’t fully developed, and he may have acclimated to his decision growing up… But that doesn’t mean that it was the right decision nor something that he stands by. it’s also more than likely some degree that he was influenced or manipulated to making that decision. I think the only course of action that makes any sense is to let him back in but very slowly.😊
He was 11 when he said to his dad yes so he was 11 he probably didn’t know what he was doing
But since then hes been every age up to his current age of 26 and only just now, after his mom died, reaching out?
No hes had all those yrs to reach out and now his mom died, his "awesome stepdad wasnt mentioned so did he disown kid?die?divorce mom? So now kids all alone he comes back? Sounds dubious as to reasoning and timing.
Or, as my mlm on always said, "be careful, for if you make your bed hard you still got to lay in it", he made his bed hard
He could have reached out to you for 8 years and he only did when his mom died and I’m guessing this his un-bio dad left him, so dont talk to him he dosent deserve it you almost did for this kid
Bros 26 hes a man now he can kick rocks
That is evil😈
I would he was young and dumb and the stepdad was trying to bribe him with all the stuff he probably grew up and finally realized what he did
It took his mother dying to realize that? He could’ve contacted him any time of the day, before and the dad probably would’ve been happy. As long as he didn’t call him dad or anything. But he chose to wait till his mother died to try to make a mends. That’s weak man.
@chadbroski665 come on dude he's twelve ur telling me if ur moms boyfriend was buying u all these expensive things and taking u on vacation all the time plus the mom was probably telling the boy to make the step-dad his real dad
@chadbroski665 and why would he contact him when the dad probably blocked him on everything so how was he gonna contact him
@@ohhblift8414 key word “probably” and yes I do think a twelve year old could make they’re own decisions for themselves. I don’t feel bad for him considering what he said to his father even being 12, like they said in the video the boy made his own choice, and it wasn’t like he couldn’t make the decision of having the new guy as his dad, but that does not mean he had to never speak to him again after that moment. He cut the father out of his life, and expected him to let him back in. That isn’t the father’s responsibility to help that boy even with the state he’s in. I will agree on you with the boyfriend though since he probably did block the father, but still it shouldn’t be his responsibility to take in the boy after years of not talking to him, and renouncing the title of father from him and then coming back just because of financial trouble or just not having a home. He should’ve never considered going to the Op. I do want to apologize for the original comment, and you can believe what you believe and I’ll believe what I do. Thank you.
@chadbroski665 trust me bro I know how this works dude my sister won't see my dad because my mom would feed lies in her head just like was doing by buying the kid all the expensive stuff in this video u act like u never been young and dumb and blinded by things terrible people bought u
I’m saying it that child can die and you shouldn’t car the mom cheated on YOU and he left YOU sooo leave HIM just trust me
Dude. The video that is linked isn’t even the video that has the story at all. Completely different story
Fuck no. He didn’t care then, so you shouldn’t care now. Karmas a bitch!
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoOOOOOOOOOOoOOo just NO.
He’s not a kid he’s 26 years old he’s an adult boy you’re problem
Aw hell naw what did I just see. some five-year-olds today are so annoying
didn’t your bf get you this like weeks ago 💀
Honestly you are his father, legality doesn't change reality, I know you were hurt by what he did but that doesn't mean he hurt you, he could not conceptualize consequences at that age, you might think "he isn't owed my forgiveness" but you also allowed a 11 year old to make a life altering decision without your guidance because you didn't want to fight, you wanted to feel sorry for yourself more than you wanted to fight a 11 year olds will, so in reality you abandoned him, not the other way around, and to use legality to excuse yourself or your self pity to excuse your abandonment is pathetic.
nope
Have some self respect and keep him away from you it’s clear he’s a leach
No
My daughter 18 metters😁👍
Your sister just as bad forcing an interaction that is none of her damn business yes its her, and she has every right to have a relationship with him but not forcing it with you knowing what you been through sister is a horrible person just because your family doesn't mean you tolerate horrible toxins behavior stick your ground and back away
I mean mf was 11 to you expect
It would feel good to ignore him and hurt him back. But its more important to love yourself than to hurt others. So I'd say listen to him in a stoic manner so that you can make a more inform choice for yourself.
paperwork doesnt make u not his dad, hes your kid even if on paper he isnt,
listen and see what he has to say, forgiveness is yours to give or not, heal and let him heal. thats tge good that can come of this, she is gone now, so this is truly between u two now.
Not smart. That boy wants something and I just saw a comment that said “the son wanted him to finish paying for his law school because the step father run out of money”
No. He had 14 years to fix this mess, understand what the fuck his mother did, and get in touch. He decided to not do any of that until he remembered that he had a dad outside of his stepdad when he ran out of money.
Kid's only biologically related to his dad but he's no family of the guy. Kid should take up student loans or whatever to finish his law school instead of asking the dad that he betrayed for money.
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Bro became the thing he once hated his own dad, ain’t no way bro really angry over a eleven/twelve year old kid’s decision come on now how dumb you have to be I was there once I chose my dad over my mom and you know what my mom still loved me I guess she more man than this mf, she accepted it but in the end my stupid decision to leaving my mom never happened cause they both started to live together again. Moral of the story is we may not be a good family but we respect each other and not make anyone feel excluded(we more like basketball team than a family) I wanna be like my mom if it come down to something like this, the fact that she accepted me with open arms baffles me she even brought me take out on the way home from the court this brings a tear to my eyes. I’ll always respect her for that.🥹
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