Doctors, When Have You Known That A Baby Wasn't The Fathers? (r/AskReddit)
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“That girl is ya sista, but you momma don’t know
He talk to his momma and she says
‘Go man, go. Yo daddy ain’t ya daddy,
But ya daddy don’t know”
What a song
czcams.com/video/PAkkLQr2Kjc/video.html
The kicker is, it's a full song, multiple verses, with the poor guy picking three or so girls. With the last one, he goes to his mum. And that's when that verse is, at the end, after Abt 3 heartbreaks.
The original version, which my mum had, was actually done as a sort of tragic ballad until the final couplet which therefore is even more comic.
Strangely, it was a bit of a hit song in the 60s. And being done C&W style it was popular with the oldies too. The same people who objected to Elvis's pelvis.
Welcome to the boonies!
Bilinda Law-Morley sounds like American history
I finally know the actual song. my dad used to say it as a joke but like I didn't know there was an actual song. WOW
It would suck to have to tell someone that it’s not their child tho.
Kawaii Lulu Yeah
It's great the guy gets away to live his life😀
@@nakedblackman8509 Dogshit take
Doctors should know better than to be “iffy”. My husband is a blonde and blue Italian and I’m light skinned AA. My daughter is pale skinned with blue eyes and blondish red loose curls, and my son is olive skinned, blue eyes and bone straight, dark hair. Genetics. Go figure.
TheVeganBerkeleyBeauty is that how girls explain skin colours
@northern_lights uh how is that unprofessional? It's part of their job to determine Parenthood for the birth certificate.
Aw they sound beautiful. I once knew a white guy(blonde&blue), who was married to a black woman and their children had blond slightly wavy hair, green eyes, and tan skin. They were both so beautiful.
Both my parents are mixed, so all of us kids look very different! I am bioluminescent pale, muddy auburn hair, with one hazel eye and one dark brown eye, sis and one bro are blonde/blue eyes, slighty more tannish skin than mine, and other bro looks black/native. We all look like various paternal family though! Genetic dice rolls are weird, indeed!
Genetically children are more likely to to take after their grandparents than their parents.
My daughter looked nearly albino when she came out. It took over a month for her skin tone to settle down, pretty much mathematical average between her mother and me.
Benjamin of Houston my sis came out dark-skinned and I came out white as sour cream. Both my parents are light tanned (of course that changes in the summer). My sister looks like my dad though and I look like my mom. Eventually I got darker by playing sports and my sis did too.
My mum told me the same story. Nurses used to tease her by asking if she was sure if I was my dad's because I was so white.
A friend of my mother’s was the proud mother of 4 healthy children and her husband was a great father to them all- one problem she’d been having an 18 year long affair with a guy she’d been in love with since her teens. She’d married her husband after very briefly dating and in a fit of anger when her teen love had gone away to work in another city and come home married. A year later they begin the affair that spanned 18 and all 4 children were from her lover not her husband and it seemed like everyone knew but the husband. The youngest daughter grew suspicious of her paternity when she found pictures of her mother in her teens with her teenage boyfriend and how much she looked like him. One mail order dna kit later and all hell broke loose around the dinner table
Letting a man believe that a child is his seems incredibly unethical to me. And the NICU not allowing DNA tests is just a way to trap the men into being legally responsible for those children.
Actually it's because more blood draws then necessary puts the baby at a higher risk.
@@veldabigknife7109 i thought you could do the test without blood by taking cells from the inner cheek.
@@veldabigknife7109 Mouth Swabs?
Yeah - if you are going to have children by different men then do it, but be honest about paternity
My parents brought me up knowing i wasnt thier biological child. Its called adoption.
“Shame and Scandal in the Family” is the name of that song in case anybody’s interested. Pretty funny song.
On my dad's side there is a weird gene that causes babies to have platinum blonde hair that grows darker very slowly until the child is about 18 and ends up with really dark blonde that looks like medium brown really, just a different shade of colour. Both my brother and my cousin have it.
Same with my family, my brother was born blond and now his hair is nearly black.
My Ex husband is at least 1/2 First Nation.
I have very lt Brown hair. And hazel eyes.
My son was born "baby Blonde" blue eyes burns at a sneeze
My brother and I were white haired when we were born. Now 18 and 15 years later we're both dark blondes.
My dad is 1/4th native but looks full blooded, my mom is 1/8th with black hair dark brown hair and very tan looking. I came out blue eyed and with hair so blond you could barely see it. Genetics are weird.
Emma Lee are you sure they really are native though? Lots of families have stories about grandparents who are Cherokee or something, but those end up being completely made up fables. There’s even a name for these false beliefs - Cherokee grandmother syndrome.
Not really related to the prompt but a funny birth story. When my mom was pregnant with me she had red hair (dyed, she's naturally blonde) The nurses upon seeing her hair go "ooh, we're gonna have a red haired baby in here!" My mom replied, "Not unless dye can go through the placenta..."
Hahaha! Really funny mom.
I would have loved to see the embarrassed look on that smartass nurses face after that bro 🤣🤣🤣
One of my cousins is half Philippino, and she gave birth to a very white blue eyed toeheaded baby. Kid looks just like the dad with just the slightest tilt to the eyes.
Genes r weird.
My parents r Indian and Scottish.. u wouldn’t know it, I’m as pale as snow with red hair.
My husband is from south Italy, all his family have black hair and olive skin.
The chances of my kids being a darker skin and hair then me was very likely... however both are pale as me and red/blonde hair... that Scottish gene is a powerful one 🤣
The one with the three dads is low key Momma Mia
A little off topic but when we had our son my wife was pushing and pushing to no avail. Then the doctor decided to do a c-section . Then he came out and the nurse put him on the table, I went to look and I was taken aback. The nurse noticed my expression and told me that don't worry, the cone head is normal after pushing so much and will be ok.
It is actually incorrect that O type parents can't have AB children, I am AB+ and my mother was O+ and believe me I came out of this woman. She did have to take special shots though so that her immune system wouldn't abort me and my brother since we had drastically different blood types from her and we still developed jaundice from her immune system attacking us that we had to receive treatment for.
And he say that O-can't donate to AB- and that's a lie. I think that history isn't true
Ali Aramayo yeah o is the universal donor
it’s possible but extremely rare, something weird would have to happen with the ABO (blood) genes for that to happen. your father would have to be AB and somehow you ended up with both a and b alleles (gene versions) which made you that (not sure if you’ve taken biology class but type O blood is a trait you only get when both the abo gene you got from your mom and dad are o as it’s recessive, and ab is only when you have both a and b alleles). that means that when someone with type o blood passes an abo gene, it has to be o, and an ab person would have to pass a or b, making you type a or b. however, somehow your father’s genes weren’t passed on right and you were given a and b. (obv that doesn’t make anything wrong with you since ab is a normal blood type) . you’re an extreme rarity lol. idk if that made sense but yeah
@@aliaramayo1952 isn't O universal? That blood type can give to anyone but can only take O.
@@jackiea2457 Yeah, but O+ cannot be given to with A-, B- , O- or AB-. O- is the universal donor.
And there is an actual study on AB gene being passed on from one parent. So it really does happen that an mother with O blood group can have an AB blood group child 😱 This is so cool to learn.
11:54 reminds me of Liam from Shameless. Both of his biological parents were white, but he was black
Colour can jump a generation.
Heh. My wt cousin got pregnant at 18 on purpose, father was half romani. Kid has blue eyes and blond hair. We have really hard time believing kid to be quarter romani, their features are so distinctive. But maybe skipped a generation.
the white guy who got betrayed by his adopted black brother 😔😔
Not my story but here it is.. A friend and his ex of his of got back, she was pregnant with another man's baby. Baby is born and nurses are in shock, because this baby is a mix race. He looks at the baby and says she looks just like you mamma. Well he explained that he knows he isn't the baby's father because when they got back together again she was already pregnant. He might not be bio dad but the baby is still his.
The baby is ALWAYS the father's, it's just that sometimes the father isn't the man who thinks he is.................
Christopher Dean "father not expected" in family tree research
@@ianmoseley9910 I'm sorry, I don't understand what you're getting at.
I came out looking like a native american baby. Some people were worried I had been switched up or something. My skin was just a different color because I was just born and that thick black hair I had fell out and blonde hair grew back in its place.
Some hispanic characteristics often turn up in the UK - dates from when some of the ships in the Spanish Armada were wrecked on British shoreline, a number of the survivors married into the local population.
I seem to recall from lessons several decades ago that people are more likely to look like their grandparents than their parents.
I. Am. Your. Father.....
the one about the baby with hydrops is the saddest one. of all the ways to find out. that kid came into the world just to point its finger at its cheating mom by suffering painfully and dying.
But the blood - having partner be 0 and child AB isnt so 100% anymore. There is stuff like Bombay phenotype, where you can have genes for whatever and still look like 0 cause u lack gene for another important part of the structure.
Anna Brymová how rare is that
0:21 - That's really sad!
1:05 - Yikes!
10:15 - My God, who pays for all that??
13:18 - You can adopt embryos now??? I'm amazed!
When I was about twelve, I commented to a friend of mine that she and her younger sister looked a lot alike. She got upset and said, "Don't say that! Don't *EVER* say that!" At the time, I assumed she was just mad at her sister about something. Several years later, I found out that their mother had been married and devorced twice and that the girls (presumably) had different fathers.
Wealth Rat is cute! :-)
They still have Gene's from the mother. So she can be as mad at you for telling her she looks like her sister. They're still connected.
10:00 The daughter of my mother’s friend got pregnant (unplanned) while in medschool. I was confused about how someone with that educational background would end up pregnant accidentally... or not practicing safe sex (that goes for both women and men). Yet Nut is a freaking doctor and knocked up 2 other doctors... all while having another partner and child??? He has my mom’s friend’s daughter beat I guess.
Knew someone who looked white. She lived with her white mom; so naturally everyone assumed she was. Got married to a white guy. Got pregnant, had a baby girl, looked Chinese. Husband had a fit. Accused her of treating. Stupidly won't believed anything she said. Walked away and filed for divorce. Years later met this Chinese man. Got married. Had a Caucasian baby boy. The whole thing her father was Chinese. Years later they adopted a Spanish boy. They're thinking of adopting again. They have a happy multi coloured family. Gene's are very funny. They show up when you least expect them too.
if the idiot didn't understand to look at her family, then she is better off without him. I'm happy she was able to find another man and build a beautiful family. thanks for the story
I am not a doctor or a nurse, but my cousin is definitely not my uncle's biological son. The two of them look completely different. My cousin does, however, look like my aunt.
On the soldier story, that guy is probably in denial about his wife cheating on him and his kid not being his, but if he is legit just accepting it and deciding to raise the kid anyway without caring about blood and taking him as his own, I respect that.
Blood groups, colouring can go back genetically to grandparents etc as you can have, recessive genes in families that may come out in different generations
I'm IVF baby and once while drinking with my father, he confessed that he wouldn't believe that I was he's kid if it wasn't 100% sure because we look nothing alike 😂😂
my parents are both dark haired, dads eyes were blue, mom is hazel. most of us kids look like mom, youngest bro got dads blue eyes. middle brother was white-blonde and blue eyed when he was born. things might have gotten ugly but my grandfather and his second wife had a son with the exact same coloring several years prior. i mean they could have been twins !
we need Maury Povich and Springer in the MATERNITY WARD STAT!
What's wierd with genetics in my case is that my dads side is all Irish with ginger hair, and my moms side is Austrian/southern germans with dark brown hair, and because of this depending on the season my hair changes colors.
Dark brown in the summer and copper brown in the winter.
You’re like a tree.
No offense.
I was born with a clump of golden-brown hair (my twin was bald lol).
My mom had purple hair and my dad had fiery hair.
I wonder if any doctors joked around saying I’m not theirs :p.
Paternity tests should be mandatory
The song is called Shame and Scandal in family by Shawn Elliot
lol my family has weird genetics on my mom's side. My grandmother had dark skin (she could've passed for latina) while my grandfather had olive/fair skin. This meant that their children and grandchildren varied in shades lmao. My uncle and two of my aunts have darker skin. My mom and a couple more have lighter/yellow skin and the last of them are white. My dad has pale skin so I have yellow/tan skin that gets tanner naturally and my sister has darker skin (also passes for hispanic) and she also tans naturally and my brother is just very very pale
Same thing, except it’s on my dad’s side
Grandpa is mixed, Grandma is pure white.
My aunt inherited my grandfather’s skin tone, while my dad inherited my grandmother’s.
While I was pure white when i was born, my sister was born with a slightly darker skin tone. She lightened up as she grew though.
Speaking of this topic, my mom and dad knew immediately it was my dad’s after seeing it. We (I have an identical twin sister) looked exactly like a combination of mom and dad.
I came out darker and got lighter over years.
People told me i look like my parents growing up. I always wondered how that could be so as I'm adopted. It's possible someone who doesn't look like thier parents could be adopted and hadnt been told.
I'm very white with red hair. After spending all summer in the sun, my kid brother was mistaken for black. Our youngest sister was blond with blue eyes. Same two parents; just lots of different ancestors in the mix. 😀
17:29 "It will put the caramell on it's skin, else it gets the hose again."
Oh god those poor people
I don't have kids, but I sometimes see people kind of look twice when I'm out somewhere with my youngest nephew, who's seven. Nephew is a quarter black, looks like he has a gorgeous tan year-round, straight black hair, his mother's blue-grey eyes, while I'm one of the palest green-eyed redheads you'll ever meet. We look NOTHING alike, LOL.
My mom has a picture of me and my brother (twin) when we were infants and we are both so light I’ve had friends asked who in the picture and I explain how melanin works. As for who’s who only mom knows.
The one where the father white and his wife had an affair with his step brother and only finding out by the birth of their child. He was so happy and excited, he even got to stay in the room. I would never want to see something like that.
For anyone who cares, the song mentioned at 1:09 is 'Shame and Scandal in the Family' by Shawn Elliot.
I would tell my story but its too long for me to explain cause i'm lazy.
The second story reminds me of Rusty X Tammi from Squidbillies
15:20 ish
The best possible scenario...so happy for the whole family.
monkeynumber nine Reminds me of an episode of Call the Midwife. Basically the same scenario-black baby born to white parents-but the father immediately embraces the kid as his own son.
How is that the best scenario? Being lied to and just take it?
Absolutely disgusting. The poor man's genetic line has just been ended and he's such a pathetic cuckold he just rolled over and took it. I could never respect either of those people.
Parents thought the hospital had mixed up the babies when I was born haha. I have bright red hair and nobody else in the family does, but I resemble both of my parents and we have Scottish heritage on Mum's side so we assume it comes from there, but it looks especially funny when you compare my coloration to my Dad's, as he's fairly dark tan and is often mistaken for being Middle-Eastern (he's Eurasian I guess? Only part we know for sure is Chinese) :P
I'm waiting for the day I have a child and they come out looking really white despite my husband looking very Asian. My husband is half Asian but got his fathers dark skin and hair. I'm on the other hand am blonde and struggle to find makeup light enough for my skin. I have a strange feeling any doctor who would look at a knew born of ours is going to question if he is the father. Until they realize the older white woman who was there is my mother in law and not my mother. Hopefully by my actual mother arriving from the airport
You know when my daughter was born the nurse sheepishly asked me if her dad was white I laughed and said he was darker than me
Have a friend whose sister and her look Mexican but her brother had blond hair, light skin and green eyes but it was her brother:v
My mum is blond with blue eyes, my older brother looks like her and is blond with blue eyes. I am a dark brunette with dark brown eyes and a copy of our father who had brown eyes and black hair. one of my mum's favorite entertainments during family vacations is watching young women trying to figure out the relation between me and my brother because we don't look related unless you look real close.
In my mom’s side looking white is very strong because of my great grandma being from Spain and my great grandpa was a pretty dark skinned native Mexican and he always had to assure people they were his kids when my grandma had kids they all turned out white looking like my mom and when my mom had me and my siblings only me and one of my brothers came out with tanned skin (got it from our dad) and we don’t pass as white looking like our other family members 😂
Edit: forgot to add on that my mom’s side also has other features like hazel or green eyes, blonde hair, and red heads
What about a video where the doctors can tell that the baby isnt the mothers?
I love caramel colored skin too. What’s weird about that?
1:23 reminds me of Mama Mia
My dad jokes...
Partially unrelated, but some women who cheat and lose bfs or husbands from it send the newborn for adoption, and liked 13+ years later, kid shows up like “Hi I tHinK uR my mOM!” And the (bad) but kind of poor biological parent (who might have regretted and gained a new family by then) would have to either allow them in their life or be the bad guy and tell them, yes, but the kids unwanted.
19:58 interesting
Link to the song mentioned 1:13 "czcams.com/video/5rIKIvZVj7M/video.html"
A friend of mine had a kid that does not look like either of the parents at all but it's his and it's hers they're both tan with black hair and brown eyes the baby blonde blue eyes in the whitest skin you ever seen the only reason why my buddy didn't freak out is because she looks exactly like his mother seriously it's weird then he has a cousin that looks exactly like his baby so every time she comes around and they go out everybody thinks she's the mother LOL
Genetics is messed up. I know of a news story of this black man and white woman who are a couple and they have two sets of twins together, and in both sets, one looks black and the other girl looks white (even has red hair).
That first one is the taking two dates to the dance storyline that went too far.
I look nothing like my dad's side of my family (I'm blond, blue eyes, very pale, and my nose) but my younger brother and sister both look nothing like my mom's side (they are very tan, dark brown hair, brown eyes, brother looks a lot like dad)
@10:40 obligatory not a doctor lol. But with a successful vasectomy the swimmers *may* be active if they are already in the pipeline(so to speak). For this reason guys are advised to umm self-care (it can help with the bruising too) a couple of times. Or use protection. But if it was long enough after surgery that the wife had a diagnosed preg, all swimmers would be dead.
But even when waiting long enough, there is still chance of baby and vasectomy isnt 100% proof
Lol I'd leave my wife so fast if something like this happened.
Been confirmed again
Wait I have a rare blood type 😂 did’t know that thanks readdit
For those wondering this is the song: czcams.com/video/PAkkLQr2Kjc/video.html
Your father ain't your father, and your father don't know. Shame, shame, shame; shame and scandal in the family (repeat). Common when I was growing up. Remembered b4 graduation; principal stood on the assembly stage and announced; can you all go home, and ask your parents what name they will like on your diplomas? Imagine being a teenager and finding out your dad is not your biological dad. To soften the shock thou, alot of your friends dad's weren't really their dads also. As a result, many names were changed. Families too. The end results of lies and secrets. One day they will come to light. Or come home to roost.
2:44 African British not African American but I've always wondered why I was white as can be in my baby pictures.
Just say African lmao African Americans have traceable DNA that’s unique, African British is a modern concept, you’re 100% African no English, Welsh, Scottish or Irish DNA in your 💀💀
@@tdoran616 Bruh you don't even know who I am and you're telling me my dna lmao. I'm first gen so calm down.
@@SonGayku you said you’re first gen African British, pretty clear who you said you are 🤨
@@tdoran616 What? Did you predict that before sending the first reply or something? You said I cant be african british because it's a recent thing even though that's not how it works.
@@SonGayku I never said you can’t be be African British, I said African British isn’t an ethnicity because it’s a modern concept. British is a nationality, African American is an ethnicity however. You’re not an ethnic English, Scottish, Welsh or a Irish. You’re first generation African, you said it yourself.
You have -100 reading comprehension 💀
A friend of mine's old lady cheated on him but you still raise the kid as his own nobody knows who the bio dad is but to this little girl my buddies her dad but he's not with his girlfriend no more she flaked out on both of them I had to help for a year or two to make sure he could make it but he turned out to be a very very good father even though the kids not his and he's raising her by himself I think he prefers it that way LOL
my little sister has strawberry blonde hair. her parents and all 4 of her siblings have dark brown or black hair. hmm.
Hi
@Lorryn SilverSpike OwO
I once had a black friend who husband was white they had a child the child was black no trace or white I'm him. The kid was his child though.
Got to love honest people. What man with a brain wouldn't test the kid? There really is a sucker born every minute lol.
So.. I was raped last October, and now Pregnant, and because my ex and I are still very close, so hes gonna be there for me, taking care of me until I recover from birth. So I wonder what everyone is gonna think when my baby comes out brown like myself and the father (Costa Rican) since I'm pale and my ex is white. I'm just glad he's here for me. Idk what I did to deserve him, but he's the best.
So sorry you've been through so much, and so glad you have someone like your ex there for you. He sounds amazing. Hugs
Sorry to hear what happened to you. Hope you'll be able to overcome it one day soon. You don't have to care what people thinks or say. You can't please all of the people all of the time. No matter what you do in life, someone will always disagree with you. It's your life and none of their business. I know it's hard the way you conceived but all children are a reward from the Almighty. I thank God he's there for you. Safe delivery.
I'm not sure if the guys already in prison.
But you have that person arrested
And then the grandchildren and great grandchildren and great great grandchildren ect...won’t be his.
Unrelated but were white but we can turn brown in the summer lol.
My daughter is half black and her dad was like “why is she so white?” She had darker ears and other parts. She has darkened up all over now.
Yeet
Poor amara
Annoyed that the topic is meant to be "Doctors /nurses that knew the kid didn't belong to the so called father" but there are many stories not about that. Seriously quit posting if you're going to keep doing stuff like this.
isn't O- a universal blood type?
Uwu
When I was born my father didn't believe I was his due to me looking white at birth with pale skin, hair, etc. I'm black btw. I got darker as the months went by. But yeah straight up ignorant. He never cared for me regardless due to me resembling my mother in height, appearance and skintone wise. My maternal cousin father did the same ish! Like babies spend their time in fluid for months, of course it causes discoloration 😒
During pregnancy I got darker than my normal skin tone. After my daughter was born, they took her and was checking for jaundice. When I asked why? Because me and her father were of a darker skin tone. She was like a white baby with lots of jet black hair. Her ears, around her fingers, toes and genital were not dark as the signs of a black baby. Fortunately, a nurse I knew at the beginning of my pregnancy told the doctor I'm darker due to pregnancy, and lots of African Americans babies look extremely light when they are born. He was not convinced until we showed him a picture of my previous self; as I was way lighter.. He looked like a sheepish dog for his assumption. Yep! We were living in a predominantly Caucasian area. He had never delivered a black person's baby before. Come to think of it now; wonder what he was thinking when he saw my black parts?
White people can be ignorant and downright creepy 🤷🏽♀️
Owo
@Lorryn SilverSpike QOQ
If I was a guy and married and had this happen, I would divorce my wife and if the biological father didn’t step up I’d step up and be at LEAST involved and a positive male role model in the kids life. But EFF the woman. She wouldn’t get a cent of my money or ounce of my love or attention.
you are already helping her by proxy
My takeaway is this - guys always, and I mean always, need to have a DNA/paternity test done on their newborn to verify they are the actual father. If they are not, they then need to be adamant and ensure their name does not appear on the birth certificate. Why? Lots ow women out there are sloors and will gladly name some simp as the dad to collect benefits, child supports, or just to ruin a dude's life. And do not be fooled guys, the court system is stacked against you, the only way you might have of saving your posterior and everything you have worked for is that DNA/paternity test at time of birth (sooner if it is safely possible.
Pro tip. Don't sign a fucking birth certificate.