What It Takes To Make A Relationship Work | Marriage Summit 2022 | Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares 'What It Takes To Make A Relationship Work'.
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Komentáře • 543

  • @nelsonmayo8856
    @nelsonmayo8856 Před rokem +122

    The issue is, everyone wants the right person but they don't ask themselves if they are right for the right person. Unless we start teaching people to examine themselves and stop directing them to look at others,we will have a selfish society like now. Marry the right person, the question is, are you right for the right person because a lot of wrong people desire the right persons also and will never look at their bad characters.

    • @MaryMackori
      @MaryMackori Před rokem +4

      That was me... Realised I am proud and had narcissistic traits...I went for therapy... now am trusting God for a good man 😊

    • @henryelimimian4412
      @henryelimimian4412 Před rokem

      Very correct

    • @vcj8096
      @vcj8096 Před 11 měsíci +7

      He had taught that multiple times before. He is a balanced, well seasoned, anointed teacher in this area of life, relationship, & marriage.

    • @prunellawilliams2865
      @prunellawilliams2865 Před 7 měsíci

      Very correct

  • @lizzienabende3280
    @lizzienabende3280 Před rokem +250

    Going through a breakup, for a reason that I don't know. I asked him to stop having flatousous comments on fb on a girls post, and he called me illusional and insecure. Then breaks up with me. It's quite hard, but I put my trust in God, and I know he will soon bless me with the wonderful man I've been and still praying for.

    • @iyanuoluwafolarin6192
      @iyanuoluwafolarin6192 Před rokem +46

      Amennnn...
      A break up is better than a failed marriage.

    • @stylesbymo
      @stylesbymo Před rokem +1

      Amen

    • @evelyngakpetor8110
      @evelyngakpetor8110 Před rokem +1

      Amen

    • @RS1xT
      @RS1xT Před rokem +33

      Love, God knows you only deserves the best. A man who will respect you and your peace of mind! Your ex did you an amazing favor by removing himself from a position he wasn’t fit to be in. Maintain your standards, boundaries & Protect your precious heart❤️

    • @sylvanusnoble5611
      @sylvanusnoble5611 Před rokem +1

      Hello dear, just know everything works for good. Just stay calm and pick notice of his behavior. Be carefully careful words from him

  • @deborahharrison9872
    @deborahharrison9872 Před rokem +69

    My father left us for 16 years now. It was no pressure but greed. It affected me and its still affecting me. I am always scared of being alone. I never got the expected love I deserved when growing up till now. It affected my mum badly at the early years of him leaving us. So mommy benched her anger and depression on me, which made my relationship with her poor.
    Growing up, especially as a first born and daughter, without a father badly have an effect. It hurts more knowing he's alive somewhere having a life with another woman.
    May God help us.
    Thank you sir for this powerful message. God bless you and more Grace 🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @Glorie_indeed
      @Glorie_indeed Před rokem +5

      Your story is exactly like mine 🥺
      The lord will take care of us dear ❤️🤗

    • @CodingToInspire
      @CodingToInspire Před rokem +5

      I proclaim God's healing on you

    • @debonair6322
      @debonair6322 Před rokem +4

      hi @deborahharrison9872 i pray you receive healings sooner. moreover, you must learn to let God take his will, forgive your past no matter how painful it is. Be determined to make the best corrections with your present and focus on a better future. You sure will have it by God's grace...

    • @KudzaiTapomwa-xs2ju
      @KudzaiTapomwa-xs2ju Před rokem +1

      I pray that God may heal your heart. Pray that God heals your heart. Let it be your prayer. His able. I know how you feel. Man tend to take advantage of pple like you but may God give you a husband that will love and cherish you.

    • @josbigie1
      @josbigie1 Před rokem +1

      Amen dear

  • @ownernkem9727
    @ownernkem9727 Před 2 lety +109

    Going through a heartbreak 💔 now I know I was never the problem.
    God will bring the right one this time 🙏 because God my heart is always open to find that husband of my youth

    • @mariancarez8611
      @mariancarez8611 Před 2 lety +11

      Don’t worry love ! You will be alright
      I’m actually going through same !
      But it so disheartening but you will be fny..
      I’m still not to cry , though I’m still crying..but I believe Love still wins ,God is still able .

    • @happinessolagold9755
      @happinessolagold9755 Před 2 lety +6

      It is well my dear. God will bring the right person to you okay

    • @favourazukaego3803
      @favourazukaego3803 Před rokem +4

      I'm sorry dear. You would be okay.

    • @chidianthony3113
      @chidianthony3113 Před rokem +1

      @@favourazukaego3803 you single

    • @chidianthony3113
      @chidianthony3113 Před rokem

      In-box me your number

  • @olusholatemi2296
    @olusholatemi2296 Před rokem +5

    God grant me grace to have a right father for my unborn children

  • @lovefavorbon1639
    @lovefavorbon1639 Před 2 lety +65

    My helper, your teaching have helped me, l wrote my marital messages earlier and why l am here to day because your teaching has changed my life. My husband left me 10 years ago gust what? He voluntarily returned yesterday! Jesus Christ my Lord!
    My master my conference. I applied your teaching in practice and he called me yesterday we have not spoken for 10 years.
    He moved to Maryland but he flew into Minnesota yesterday just because of me.
    He will be in my house this morning at 11:00 AM just to round up our reconciliation and work on our children businesses.
    I am glad l watched and puts your advice in to practice and today l will no longer file for my divorce. I am more happier and praising God for allowing yours sacrifice. Remain blessed.

  • @liz9664
    @liz9664 Před 2 lety +198

    I will marry my best friend in Jesus name, Amen! 🙏🏻

  • @moulynnjeri9999
    @moulynnjeri9999 Před rokem +12

    As a Christian youth living in a crooked world, it's necessary to get such content instilled in us all the time🙏Thank you for this knowledge Pastor Kingsley.

  • @evelyniwendi195
    @evelyniwendi195 Před 2 lety +117

    There is love"the feeling" and there is love"the commitment".
    Thank you so much Pastor Kingsley 🙏🙏🙏

  • @fiagmenyiraissa6601
    @fiagmenyiraissa6601 Před rokem +10

    Don't marry who you love but love who you marry. Thus your love belongs to the category of #love the commitment#

  • @tifuhcatherine7178
    @tifuhcatherine7178 Před 2 lety +17

    I'm so scared of marriage but i think I need to give it a trial after all these lessons
    God please help me out

  • @jaquelinemudyanadzo2440
    @jaquelinemudyanadzo2440 Před rokem +7

    Dec 2022 I'm marrying my best friend thankyou Jesus 😍😍😍😍😍

  • @paulzerina
    @paulzerina Před 8 měsíci +5

    Love must be mutual, and Real Love is committed!❤

  • @Oluwasegunfunmi1985
    @Oluwasegunfunmi1985 Před rokem +12

    Oh lord. This man is telling the absolute truth. I was married for 11years and from this I could point out why our marriage failed.

  • @lovefavorbon1639
    @lovefavorbon1639 Před 2 lety +12

    Man of God l am glad to be online and listen to this wonderful eyes opener.
    My husband left me with our 4 children without consideration.
    In 2012 till date he’s still on exit.
    I am in United States of America the situations are not easy for us.

  • @odukwecynthia8535
    @odukwecynthia8535 Před 2 lety +17

    Well said pastor K. I almost made the greatest mistake in marrying the wrong person.

  • @theakalubas
    @theakalubas Před 2 lety +23

    You're a blessing to our generation. Your words are tested and trusted ❤️🤗

  • @MISS_SHERRY
    @MISS_SHERRY Před 2 lety +2

    Prayer, patience and honesty

  • @brokenpiecesmovement6449

    One ☝️ of the best relationships illustration. It’s sooo spot on 👌👌👌👌👌👌

  • @estherobigwe8831
    @estherobigwe8831 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you Pastor K! God bless you for your anointed words...

  • @Realtorplace
    @Realtorplace Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much Pastor K.......your teaching on spirit, soul and body have saved me from getting married to a wrong person. I truly appreciate you and your wife Sir. God bless you

  • @EzikeEmmanuel_
    @EzikeEmmanuel_ Před 2 lety +8

    Thank you so much for this insightful message. I really learnt a lot from it.

  • @sidiangel805
    @sidiangel805 Před 2 lety +1

    Awesome message. I am super blessed . More Grace Pastor Kingsley

  • @vivianokonkwo8934
    @vivianokonkwo8934 Před 2 lety +3

    This is inspiring..... Thank you Pastor K.

  • @ememobongndifreke660
    @ememobongndifreke660 Před 2 lety +2

    thank you pastor K sir for this teaching am blessed

  • @enakpodiaogboreri6409
    @enakpodiaogboreri6409 Před rokem +1

    I'm amazed by such touching message 😩❤️

  • @chiamakaokafor5009
    @chiamakaokafor5009 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you so much sir for this message.it really blessed my life.

  • @JefferyErikpara
    @JefferyErikpara Před 2 lety +16

    This can only be God! Thank you Pastor K for this enlightenment on what love really entails

  • @rejoycepeaklyn5079
    @rejoycepeaklyn5079 Před 2 lety +6

    Pst K is a blessing to this generation... I'm blessed Sir 🙂

  • @UgoiykeSonia
    @UgoiykeSonia Před rokem

    Thank you Pastor k for your teachings. What a great impact

  • @omasherrill3678
    @omasherrill3678 Před 2 lety +14

    Liked the video before watching, you and your wife have been a blessing in my life and marriage. I appreciate you sir, may God continue to bless the work of your hands🙏🏿

  • @emmchikodili535
    @emmchikodili535 Před rokem +12

    Going through a break I don’t know what I did , he started seeing another girl and was covering it up, but God opened my eyes and I was able to see the real him , believing God for my own man 🙏

    • @RICA2237
      @RICA2237 Před rokem +1

      Be comforted Nne. Your husband man will come 🥰

  • @tobilobawonders
    @tobilobawonders Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you PK. More anointing sir.

  • @parfaitfurnishing4007
    @parfaitfurnishing4007 Před 2 lety

    👏👏👏👏👏 Thank you so much sir for this teaching. Listening to it at the right time I needed it. God bless you and Pastor M always.

  • @Jarofoil_2023
    @Jarofoil_2023 Před rokem +1

    This wisdom is straight from heaven. Wow! Thank you Sir! 🎉🎉🎉

  • @maristar2249
    @maristar2249 Před rokem

    Thank you so much PK, I am a lover of your messages and my prayer, dream and goal is to be that woman my hubby will be proud of, be submissive, be a woman my household will not tread for the world and to have a godly, Peaceful and happy home

  • @kellinesstembo809
    @kellinesstembo809 Před 2 lety +1

    So powerful pastor K am highly blessed with the word God bless you more 🙏

  • @tracybrown7786
    @tracybrown7786 Před rokem

    Omg this is for me. I really wished i came acrossed this like 2months ago. But many lessons learnt though. Lord am grateful 🙏 thank you pastor K for this master piece 🙏

  • @gloriaijeoma6488
    @gloriaijeoma6488 Před rokem

    Wow I found the complete video. Thank you sir for all your teachings we love and appreciate you sir ❤️

  • @nwamakaaworo7199
    @nwamakaaworo7199 Před rokem +1

    Ur teachings are inspirationals and encouraging. Remain blessed sir

  • @thatpurposefulgirl
    @thatpurposefulgirl Před 2 lety +7

    So profound!!💎🔥🔥 May the Lord continue to bless and enrich you MOG with His divine knowledge as you bless your world In Jesus name sir🙏🏼.

  • @Ohamsjennifer
    @Ohamsjennifer Před 2 lety +4

    Thank God for this knowledge Pastor K God bless you......I pray I marry my friend and the right person.

  • @givensaquaye563
    @givensaquaye563 Před rokem +5

    This message is timely

  • @hopengu2023
    @hopengu2023 Před 8 měsíci

    Is always a blessing listening to you Dad/mum K.

  • @adekoyaelizabeth1432
    @adekoyaelizabeth1432 Před rokem +1

    I'm very much blessed with this message, God bless you Sir.

  • @stylesbynne7924
    @stylesbynne7924 Před rokem +1

    Thank you Pastor, I needed this❤

  • @brownshugakale2410
    @brownshugakale2410 Před rokem

    Eros Philia and Agape 🙏🏾... the love that never fails ❤

  • @user-qo3ds2rf2x
    @user-qo3ds2rf2x Před 11 měsíci

    This is a great advice and message. It makes me almost shed tears 😢 😭 it's so touching 😢 😊

  • @queenokemena575
    @queenokemena575 Před 2 lety +2

    Wowooooo this explanation is so clear and understandable ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @preciousnayame4556
    @preciousnayame4556 Před rokem +1

    Getting wisdom daily from you sir thank you🙏🙏🙏

  • @cynthiaiyekekpolor2725

    Thank you Pastor K..this message is really an eye opener

  • @nosiphookechi6613
    @nosiphookechi6613 Před rokem +2

    God bless Sir for opening your eyes

  • @christyjacobs536
    @christyjacobs536 Před 11 měsíci

    Very very insightful and practical explanation. Thank you!

  • @okonkwochristianonyeka7128

    Great one pastor K. I always listen to the end

  • @lakotprisca6153
    @lakotprisca6153 Před rokem

    Thanks Daddy Kinsley for this deep secret of marriage and relationship and above all thanks for helping this generation 🙏🙏🙏

  • @robohope9212
    @robohope9212 Před rokem

    Everything you need is in this 💯

  • @anitaotoo3872
    @anitaotoo3872 Před rokem

    This is wisdom talking, God bless you man of God

  • @mercyhinneh6747
    @mercyhinneh6747 Před rokem

    I like this license pastor, thank you so much i've learned alot.

  • @rotiflex
    @rotiflex Před 11 měsíci

    Always a blessing listening and watching you and pastor M! Honestly, I keep wishing I'd come across these messages before making certain decisions in my life! God bless you, better late than never 😊

  • @annathembani7290
    @annathembani7290 Před rokem +1

    l am so blessed 👌charm is deceitful, beauty fades but the woman that fears the LORD is to be praise...

  • @klaudiashikesho6355
    @klaudiashikesho6355 Před rokem

    You are a blessing to God's nation. You really know your story. Impressive.... More wisdom sir!

  • @EstherNjoku-ly5lp
    @EstherNjoku-ly5lp Před rokem

    I learned a lot from this teaching,two types of love, love in feeling and love in commitment. thanks you pastor k for the teaching, God bless you sir

  • @sageneltv
    @sageneltv Před 2 lety +5

    This Message is Sooooooooooooooooo Goooooood!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @happyvictorjohnson2516

    Love is so broad that sometimes it is only God that can see us through love is a beautiful thing when we are not self center.

  • @ziondiaries
    @ziondiaries Před rokem

    When the pressures of life comes....they will succumb to their father 🔥🔥🔥

  • @mkhululimunjanja7388
    @mkhululimunjanja7388 Před 9 měsíci

    Sir, you are a master communicator and counsellor. We thank God for you.

  • @kimberlyjereka6818
    @kimberlyjereka6818 Před rokem +2

    Wow extremely powerful sermon 🔥🔥🔥 this is enlightenment at its best ....I'm blessed to have come across this sermon

  • @naggayialice1850
    @naggayialice1850 Před rokem

    Am really learning.Thank you so much pastor

  • @margaretdodzi977
    @margaretdodzi977 Před rokem

    You are the best teacher and a counsellor

  • @beneditaakakpo5522
    @beneditaakakpo5522 Před rokem

    God bless you Pastor K...I've learnt a lot...a very great message

  • @irenemueni4404
    @irenemueni4404 Před rokem

    Blessed by your teachings pst k

  • @meks297
    @meks297 Před 11 měsíci

    Good bless you pastor Kingsley for this wisdom.

  • @happyvictorjohnson2516
    @happyvictorjohnson2516 Před rokem +4

    U are really good at what you do. U and your wife are such a blessing to our generation. More grace sir

  • @yvonne9500
    @yvonne9500 Před rokem

    Listing to you has be a blessing to me this all what young people are going through this in the of love

  • @happysspace9492
    @happysspace9492 Před 2 lety +8

    May God connect me to the right man,,I’m really tired of being cheated on,,so help me God

  • @greatfadaabraham
    @greatfadaabraham Před 2 lety +68

    I will get it right in marriage! Amen!!!

  • @user-ri8eg5oi3j
    @user-ri8eg5oi3j Před 8 měsíci +3

    😮too much knowledge,thank you for allowing God through you to give us this needful teachings

  • @chisommefor5035
    @chisommefor5035 Před 6 měsíci +1

    This is the best of Pastor K's teaching. Wow 🎉❤

  • @michelleadebiyi2341
    @michelleadebiyi2341 Před 2 lety +1

    really informative, learnt a lot🙏🏾.

  • @richardolugbemi4831
    @richardolugbemi4831 Před rokem

    I learnt a lot . Thank you pastor . God bless you 🙏🏾

  • @chiamakablessingoguguam

    Thank you so much sir for your teachings, more grace to you

  • @hugs2mama425
    @hugs2mama425 Před 2 lety

    I have liked it before watching, now let me watch.

  • @louiseattzs
    @louiseattzs Před 2 lety +19

    “You can’t be motivating someone to go with you, they just want to themselves. There will come a time where everyone will need to motivate themselves to keep going”
    True for all relationships I think

  • @raymondagbonzegbe8604
    @raymondagbonzegbe8604 Před 2 lety

    Thank you sir am richly bless with this message

  • @PricelessMunachi
    @PricelessMunachi Před 2 lety +1

    Very powerful and educative 🔥🔥

  • @umezvictor
    @umezvictor Před 11 měsíci

    Great teaching. I've been blessed

  • @mindjohnson18
    @mindjohnson18 Před 2 lety

    pastor Kingsley okonkwo you are so good 👍

  • @jessiena100
    @jessiena100 Před rokem

    True marriage is lifetime commitment, other than other commitment and assignments

  • @manelisinagarciavazquez4169
    @manelisinagarciavazquez4169 Před 11 měsíci

    God bless you pastor!!!!
    Thanks so much for your teaching you just give me strength and more hope 🙏
    God keep give you strength and wisdom to keep reaching more people 🙏

  • @sindyyajeh2180
    @sindyyajeh2180 Před rokem

    Thank you so much for this. God richly bless you . Untill today I didn't fully understand the difference between the 3 types of love. Agape(Spirit),Philia(Soul),Exotic(Body).

  • @victoriaokoro492
    @victoriaokoro492 Před rokem

    Wow this teaching touch my heart

  • @zandiwardle
    @zandiwardle Před rokem

    Wow so much truth. Thank you ❤ I recieve my husband who will also be my best friend ❤

  • @thedynamicwardrobe7725

    This is practical enough. Thank you Sir!

  • @pat.nsojoseobi6851
    @pat.nsojoseobi6851 Před 2 lety +27

    Thank you pastor k, for this teaching, It has practically rewired /deprogrammed and recalibrated my priorities about life, dating, marraige and Destiny. Thank You so much sir. by the way, i am an ardent follower.

  • @georginaanum7612
    @georginaanum7612 Před rokem +3

    Thank God for the word.
    This is the third message I am listening to today from Pastor King and I must say God is speaking with me through you. Understanding these things makes you less stressful.
    God bless you, Papa

  • @violettachikungu7975
    @violettachikungu7975 Před 2 lety +3

    Watching live from Zambia

  • @kinghassankay9985
    @kinghassankay9985 Před 2 lety

    God continue to bless you sir.

  • @Noahspeaks
    @Noahspeaks Před 2 lety +12

    Loved the illustration using the 3 volunteers, it was 3mendous

  • @etekambaetuk3823
    @etekambaetuk3823 Před rokem +10

    This is so profound! If you are single and you prayerfully apply this teaching, you're marriage can work 👌🏾 God bless and keep your home P.K!

  • @marthamatolo3673
    @marthamatolo3673 Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you sir! You changed my life