Candice Babe Candice fear not as those words you will speak in the video will be a reflection of your thoughts as Wode Maya’s thoughts was in this video . Understandably some may not like those words but you can not as well should not always try to suit or please everyone as you will never be able to live your life to the fullest. Yes some may get mad and decide to leave while saying mean words but those that stay are true friends . To those that decide to say mean and vile things towards Candice when the video comes out know that she will not be standing alone .... 😐
i have noticed that too, african people various countries can really master multiple languages.Many africans in China really speak good mandarin and cantonese
It's natural since we speak some African languages so it becomes easier for us. I have learnt Spanish on my own here in America by being around Mexicans
Africans are the creators for the baes of all languages! Japanese and Chinese languages still use characters inserted of letters, like the Egyptians did with hyrogliphics. Then you have The Rosetta Stone.😲
My dude, sometimes culture means nothing in the face of love. Even I can tell Candice really likes you, and from all your videos together, I can tell she's very open minded person and kind. You broke her heart a little lol
I think most Chinese both guys and girls, get jealous easily because when we were children, our parents like to yell at us over small mistakes instead of explaining what to do and compare us to other smarter children, that's why when we grow up, most of us are insecure. It took me 3 years to gain my confidence, but there are some Chinese who were born from a loving family, they are confident.
I agree with you. I think a very considerate amount of Chinese grow up with narcissistic disorders and a very childish emotional intelligence due the abuse suffered after always hearing adults talk/compare/belittle them (or others). Also, due to being praised for the wrong reasons. For example, for achievements that make their parents look good, instead of being praised for being a great person, etc.
We are the same in that area. I’m black American my mother yelled when I made mistakes. My mother had an explosive anger. She never compare me to another person but I feared her and it made me feel inadequate. That’s why I’m almost like a performance type of person and I try to do my 100% best at everything I do and I get really upset with myself when I make mistakes.
I am South African, this is more of a testimony for Wode Maya rather than criticism. Ever since I subscribed to this channel about 5-6 months ago, I still cannot stop watching your videos. They are educative, and I like he fact that you are still representing us out there and ridding off the stereotypical mentality that Chinese people have towards Africa. However, I have just activated notifications from this channel and have watched approximately 10 videos of yours today, very fruitful. Ironically, I have only just came here to watch other videos, and I have been on CZcams for 7 hours, and all I have been watching are your videos. When I watch your videos, I experience multiple thoughts, whereby I want to visit China, and one moment I change my mind. I think being a foreign person in most countries teaches us character, and you encourage me to get over my fear of travelling, thank you so much for the insight, we need more people like you. I am a Wode Maya addict. Keep up the excellent work.
It reminds me one of my classmate who used to date a Chinese girl and one day we were downstairs out of our dormitory and his Chinese girlfriend called him and asked him where he was , he said he was at home. She came and checked whether he was saying the truth or not and she found out he wasn’t inside his room. She started crying saying he lied to her , he said he was at home whereas he was outside. 😄😄😄😄
I'm really confused. First you're mad because Chinese girls have thoughts of marriage, but then expect them to do wifely duties like cook for you and sleep with you. Secondly, your harsh and loud tone is scary and you didn't let poor Candice talk at all. You kept over talking her. And lastly maybe you should explain to the girls you are dating that you don't want a serious relationship. That would probably save you the trouble.
Maybe asia ppl thinking way not same as western ppl...we asia ppl wont do that on someone after eat and throw away,is unaccepted in asia country,if just frdship then dont expert someone treat you like a king...
Sad to see African man talking as if girl friend culture is an Africa culture. In Africa women get married not have a boy friend for fun. They have a right to expect a marriage if you approach her. As for jealousy may be they are seeing your wondering eyes. Africa is a continent and diverse. Stop giving a wrong impression about Africa when you are really talking about which ever country you come from. As commentator above said you are loud and disrespectful.
3:41 _"You can't even talk to your MOM! If you text your mom she's going to think you're talking to another girl."_ Dude ...you are HILARIOUS! This had me *LOL!*
My friend when he fell in love with a Chinese girl, I told him to be careful because Chinese girls are crazy especially because she is too jealous. He ignore me and after 2 months he broke up with the girl lol 😂 😂 😂 😂 and then he swear that he will never take any Chinese girl anymore.
Heni Uwaila if doing something do it the proper way. Woman should not lay on her back for a man who is not a husband. If he can't wait , how can a woman be sure that when a situation arises and she may not be able to have sex for a while he won't cheat because he can't wait ?! More and more women throughout the world want same . Loose buddy won't get you a better husband but give one a soul tie at the least if not a pregnancy.... Women learn their self worth in the world .
Totally agree with you. Usually Chinese people get marry quite early, so if they date you at the age of 25-26 or something many will start thinking about marriage. Traditions are still strong there, but obviously it depends on girls as well. Nowadays we can see more and more Chinese women who thinks about her career and her own well being before getting married and make a family just like westerners. Once again, traditions are still strong in general and mariage is part of traditions. Jealousy yeah as well, especially when they start to like you but yeah sometimes it's crazy.. And cooking...well it depends. I would say it's 60% true. I am dating a Chinese girl and she can cook, she has two sisters who cannot cook. The one I dated before my current one could cook as well BUT I know lot of Chinese girls who can't cook or just don't like it. I even know a Chinese girl who doesnt work, her Chinese bf does, and she always waits for her bf come back from work and start cooking for her and for him. If he doesnt cook, she just skip the dinner which is a bit crazy but I guess she's an extreme example and the ones who can cook, cook very well in general. I think it's about generation...the ones who were born before 90's can cook in general, the ones who were born after 90's cannot cook in general.
I however admire their loyalty when it comes to relationships and they don't feel indebted to cook for you if you ain't married yet... that's using a girl though Maya isn't it
Please WODE MAYA do not let the stereotype live. AFRICA IS NOT A COUNTRY. Stop saying in africa, african people etc. I am African and I don't recognise myself in the things you say about africans. Those things might just be typically to Ghanaian. Africa is not a country.
WODE MAYA. Love your show. you know even in African culture you’re not allowed to date until you get married. It’s just that things have changed now you see a lot of girls becoming mothers before they are married. If you remain a virgin till you married, it a lot of respect and pride for you and your family in our culture. You are only allowed to date if the boyfriend in question declares his intention to your family in which the family would keep their watchful eyes on him to see if he is a responsible person or not. Otherwise you have to hide from your family. So don’t blame them for wanting you to commit brother. Thank you for sharing with us. 🇸🇱🇸🇱
Hey how can you tell? Oh i know its cause hes being honest and cause hes basically said hes off the books for Chinese girl, and girls always want what they cant have.
My Gahanian name is Kwabla (Tuesday Born) and I watched your show this morning. I was so disappointed you did this video with your best female friend in China. She has been by your side and has had your back no matter what was going on in your life. Please go back to China and do a video to show her the respect and LOVE she deserves from you. She is special and I came to understand Chinese woman from seeing her kindness towards you. If I were younger, I'd get on a plane and grab here and marry her. She is one in a million and I'm sure A BLACK or AFRICAN guy will do anything to have her. Candice is the coolest and deserves more respect than Naa Trudy should have. I watched 4 hours of your CZcams Channel today and saw Candice in braids because of you. Man, she is something special and deserves much love.
chines girls have a goood culture like our somali girls because a girl thinking about a marriege also she is jealous of her man when he spoke to a woman thats really is a girl who loves her future
I like the positive things you do about Africa I live in the Bahamas I am a mechanical engineer I would love to visit Ghana keep up the positive work may God continue to bless you Regards, Mustafa
U r one of those crazy black Queens that want to shame women of other colors... yes Africans were treated unethically due to their skin color for long time...but it doesn't give u the right to do the same...if someone made mistake u don't make the same mistake n call it self defense that's bullshit..u correct it in a right way...n last thing Women are Queens regardless of their color.
Am African living in the state and all the African men I have met wants me to married them. I told them am not ready for married I just want to be friends only not even friends for benefits but they get mad and wants married and ask me if I can cook for them... Which I don't. I don't believe in staying with a men before married nor do I believe in doing wifey duties for a man that not my husband... So honestly it just depends on the person not all are like that.
why would you marry someone you dont know? When you realize you're not compatible and dont get along youre gonna go and marry the next woman you meet??
If woman is dating a man before marriage then there is no difference between one prostitutes and that woman who date before marriage. and i know i am african man of africa so dating woman is like a nothing important of sex. Here in south africa i know i can date 10 black girls a day. evern i can date a three girls at same time and same room. They don't feel bad to sleep with one guy togehter with two other girls even. Thats why i don't like fucking my black culture. I got lots of indian and chinesee friend from india and china. If you wants to sleep with origina indian woman or chinesee woman then you must first get married or commeted and then you can get married other wise you can't sleep with them even they never allow you to touch. That is call real high values of culture. This man over here on internet spreading a prostitution
Wessels Accounting Pretoria you really do not know what you are talking about. I suggest you come and spend a couple of years in China then you will understand many things. Stop talking out of ignorance !
damn...you were wrong for this one. African girls take note. These guys just want to have fun with you. The chinese girls he dated wanted a serious relationship if he was going to disvirgin them. What's wrong with that. You were wrong for exposing yourself like this Wode.
you are wrong, i'm a westerner who has dated Chinese women they are very materialistic, want to know everything about you like what you own, how much money you make and they always want more money
TWO YEARS? WHAT IS THE AVERAGE LIFE EXPECTANCY IN THE WORLD THAT SOME PEOPLE DATE FOR SO LONG. THE LONGER THE MORE YOU LOOSE INTEREST AND EVEN SEE MORE REASONS IT WON'T WORK. SOME PEOPLE ARE NOT ASHAMED TO SAY THEY DATED FOR 7 YEARS OR 10 YEARS. AM MARRIED ALREADY. I WILL DISCOURAGE MY CHILDREN FROM DATING FOR "ETERNITY". IF I CAN'T DECIDE IN 6 MONTHS TO 1 YEAR, SOMETHING IS WRONG.
Dating without a view of marriage is wrong in my perspective and playing with someone's emotions is dangerous you dont date for fun you date to get to know someone better and when you are seeing a future with that person you can now court from there marriage..dating has no national,race or ethinc boundaries accept for religion.thanks
John Smith Not always. Depends on how he looks and his income heck get the same choices in Black women. It is sad how we have to accept the bottom of other race yet they have the sense to want ONLY the top of ours.
Every single person should know how to take care of themselves which involves cooking with other domestic duties. Why can't he cook for himself? Especially considering hes a student who is unmarried. He's just throwing demands left, right and center without interjecting anything of value into the relationship. "she used me for sex and now she has to cook". Guess that comes with age
Wode Maya I hope you didn't hurt Candice's feelings? Maybe you should have done it with another neutral friend.. You have a strong CZcams bond with her 👍... Take her out tonight 😉
PLEASE WADA... that's Moral I don't know where you came from .. am an African if that's what chines do I have started respecting them more... Maya you should not even come out and talk about this.. if you thinks show g every one how are is fine, to me it's disgusting... I thinks you are not very far from Nigeria. ... sorry my apology to Chinese people this is not for some of us Africa.
I like y'all guys! keep breaking those cultural stereotypes!! from what you said about Chinese ladies though, I found interesting is - they think of marriage when dating. that's a good discipline and culture - it means they are faithful. in my country we also believe "NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE"
"We're just having fun." Translation: "I want spousal benefit without being a spouse 😉." BUT lowkey I wouldn't want to marry every person I date either...
ShadyBrooks, self respecting, emotionally stable confident woman with character and principles don't lay on her back for every man that comes her way as he is testing her if she is strong enough to stand on her own and by her own principles, self respect, self love before anyone else.
I think marriage expectations in relationships has actually got nothing to do with race. I mean it depends so much on compatibility and personality. Personally, i don't date a girl unless i can marry her. Jealousy just confirms the presence of love. If you're flirting with other girls and your girlfriend's fine with that, then there is a possibility she doesn't like you that much. So i welcome jealousy at a reasonable level. I however agree with you that a woman should know to cook. I cant deny that most African ladies these days have laid down their kitchen tools and as such, most African women cannot cook these days. This seems like a general generational problem.
ENZO CINEMA even here in Australia most Asian girls and Australian girls from countryside think the same. Mostly the reason is how black/African guys treat girls, we really treat them nicely, we respect them, help, advise them, be there for them, have fun/laugh and we even support them financially...in addition to that, good sex. So whose girl wouldn't think about marrying such guy? Where other guys just want to please themselves and go.
Prit Singh, look there is nothing wrong saying what i saw. If i have seen many similar cases and experience it what do you want me to say? Do you want me to lie huh! However i said most black guys, not all black guys do treat well their gf thus concluding as you did it is completely assumptional you misunderstood. Neither did i say that every other girl want a big dick! Good sex and big dick are two different things. The most important thing is knowing how to use it. So that's again your misunderstanding. Revise your reading and rectify your understanding then you won't utter such disrespectful words to me.
Well, you said you are 21 and I think you are right about the youngins. Older Chinese women can and will certainly cook. I talked to so many young Chinese girls who said their fathers cook around the house and they cannot cook. I think it's because of the one child policy, which results in many young Chinese kids, post 90's and 00's being pampered and unable to care for themselves.
All asian women will do the same if they are serious to you. I suggest to asian women not to date with selfish men. They have to respect your culture if the men want to be with you. You are very precious so they have to respect your culture!!! Its better to look after the men with same thingking, wisdom, culture, religion.. At least they respect what you do, your culture, etc.
Its true our Chinese teacher in Tanzania 🇹🇿 told she don't how to cook she says her parents told her to study she says they have apps which they order food after 30 minutes, and that so down for a black woman
Young man all girls want marriage. No girl want to be used for fun. All girl get jealous but others girls will leave you alone . Make sure that the other women you talk to respect her. An men and women should cook for each other. I'm a black american woman. I work so we share the load.
I have subscribed on your channel immediately I watched your videos. You are full of life and very happy person. My advice is,you too should start dating. You look good together. Just be serious when it comes to dating,please. You can make a good couple.
Maya you have a huge personality man. I'm older than you but I personally think i would learn a lot from you if i was your friend. Keep up the good work
The girl was pissed but she controlled her emotions
lol
Understand jokes man
True
Agreed, and that Chinese girl is lying, even after marriage, men still do the cooking in China.
If I get 500likes & 10,000 views before Friday on this Episode I will upload why Candice Stopped Dating African Guys😂😂😂!!!LIKE & SHARE
WODE MAYA I just feel that you'll make it...🤨🤨🤨I'm scared tho...Hope my people can still love me after seeing mine 😂😂😂😂😂
I need a Chinese girl. ..lol and Candice is cute as hell
Haaa Wade Maya let me hold my words
Candice Babe Candice fear not as those words you will speak in the video will be a reflection of your thoughts as Wode Maya’s thoughts was in this video .
Understandably some may not like those words but you can not as well should not always try to suit or please everyone as you will never be able to live your life to the fullest.
Yes some may get mad and decide to leave while saying mean words but those that stay are true friends .
To those that decide to say mean and vile things towards Candice when the video comes out know that she will not be standing alone .... 😐
I liked from 3 accounts. I really want to see this!
This Chinese girl looks and sounds very adorable
i love her,i think she studied in the uk
Yea, she is
Yes she is
When she said "that's bullshit" that got me. Surprised me She is absolutely adorable!
She is average looking for me
Candice looks so cool and soft hearted l like how she speaks
why do african men master the chinese language so quickly and easily. Wow i admire you.
i have noticed that too, african people various countries can really master multiple languages.Many africans in China really speak good mandarin and cantonese
we are mixed race sponges
It's natural since we speak some African languages so it becomes easier for us. I have learnt Spanish on my own here in America by being around Mexicans
Africans are the creators for the baes of all languages! Japanese and Chinese languages still use characters inserted of letters, like the Egyptians did with hyrogliphics. Then you have The Rosetta Stone.😲
It is from dating Chinese women. Relationships speed up language learning
Candice will make a wonderful wife. She is quite interesting and intelligent too.
Appears he wants the amenities of being a husband without the commitment.
He's in no way #special! #typical #RunDont'tWalk!
True
This is how I felt . Not a quality man who respects woman's soul .
He simply want's steak not shares in an animal husbandry venture. LOL
He was young at the time....he went to China at 18yrs and even after 3 or 4 yrs most guys wouldn't be thinking of marriage...
My dude, sometimes culture means nothing in the face of love. Even I can tell Candice really likes you, and from all your videos together, I can tell she's very open minded person and kind. You broke her heart a little lol
He's such an#embarrassment to men, to me! And it pisses me off that both(men & women) still deal with this crap!
#infuriating
@Rich Wealthy 🤔🤔 to each it's own. I hear you!
@@pandawolfpresents The whole thing was setup by both as fun joking only. You are taking too serious.
On the marry issue, what women is dating for sport. These women respect themselves, good for them.
I think most Chinese both guys and girls, get jealous easily because when we were children, our parents like to yell at us over small mistakes instead of explaining what to do and compare us to other smarter children, that's why when we grow up, most of us are insecure. It took me 3 years to gain my confidence, but there are some Chinese who were born from a loving family, they are confident.
My dad is Nigerian and did the same thing growing up
I agree with you. I think a very considerate amount of Chinese grow up with narcissistic disorders and a very childish emotional intelligence due the abuse suffered after always hearing adults talk/compare/belittle them (or others). Also, due to being praised for the wrong reasons. For example, for achievements that make their parents look good, instead of being praised for being a great person, etc.
I agree, it's not about culture is different or whatever, it's in large parts because of different style of education and circumstances growing up.
jamaican parents too
We are the same in that area. I’m black American my mother yelled when I made mistakes. My mother had an explosive anger. She never compare me to another person but I feared her and it made me feel inadequate. That’s why I’m almost like a performance type of person and I try to do my 100% best at everything I do and I get really upset with myself when I make mistakes.
I am South African, this is more of a testimony for Wode Maya rather than criticism.
Ever since I subscribed to this channel about 5-6 months ago, I still cannot stop watching your videos.
They are educative, and I like he fact that you are still representing us out there and ridding off the stereotypical mentality that Chinese people have towards Africa.
However, I have just activated notifications from this channel and have watched approximately 10 videos of yours today, very fruitful.
Ironically, I have only just came here to watch other videos, and I have been on CZcams for 7 hours, and all I have been watching are your videos.
When I watch your videos, I experience multiple thoughts, whereby I want to visit China, and one moment I change my mind.
I think being a foreign person in most countries teaches us character, and you encourage me to get over my fear of travelling, thank you so much for the insight, we need more people like you.
I am a Wode Maya addict. Keep up the excellent work.
Ek se, im telling you! Well put
At least they ended up being good friends
It reminds me one of my classmate who used to date a Chinese girl and one day we were downstairs out of our dormitory and his Chinese girlfriend called him and asked him where he was , he said he was at home. She came and checked whether he was saying the truth or not and she found out he wasn’t inside his room. She started crying saying he lied to her , he said he was at home whereas he was outside. 😄😄😄😄
Candice looks so sad haha don't make her sad bro. She seems like she likes you
I'll take her, i mean i like her.
@@RaikenXion lol
Nah they are fake as hell
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She should stick to her own race.
I'm really confused. First you're mad because Chinese girls have thoughts of marriage, but then expect them to do wifely duties like cook for you and sleep with you. Secondly, your harsh and loud tone is scary and you didn't let poor Candice talk at all. You kept over talking her. And lastly maybe you should explain to the girls you are dating that you don't want a serious relationship. That would probably save you the trouble.
Maybe asia ppl thinking way not same as western ppl...we asia ppl wont do that on someone after eat and throw away,is unaccepted in asia country,if just frdship then dont expert someone treat you like a king...
Good point.
Sad to see African man talking as if girl friend culture is an Africa culture. In Africa women get married not have a boy friend for fun. They have a right to expect a marriage if you approach her. As for jealousy may be they are seeing your wondering eyes. Africa is a continent and diverse. Stop giving a wrong impression about Africa when you are really talking about which ever country you come from. As commentator above said you are loud and disrespectful.
Jordyn Brown he was talking too much
Jordyn Brown Well said. I mean he looks mean
3:41 _"You can't even talk to your MOM! If you text your mom she's going to think you're talking to another girl."_ Dude ...you are HILARIOUS! This had me *LOL!*
This guy looks like Gary Coleman.
lol i think i have to do a video on this cos everyone is talking about it
What you talking about Wilis!!
Lol Maya do look a bit like Coleman in dis one
LMAO!!! Yeah he’s funny looking as hell!!
Whatchu talkin' bout Willis?
They can't cook?? Y'all black boys take black gals for granted!!! Lmho
lol
Marco K 😂😂
@Marco K 😂😂 that's a lie though I know plenty of African girls who can but still hilarious 😂
True...its just a boyfriend not a husband.......
Chinese food includes bats, cats, dogs rats, I don't think so🤤😷😵
Black Queens all the wayyyyy
Ibrahim you are the man
He's gone or will be gone very soon
Ibrahim Exactly. Black Women are Gorgeous!
Ibrahim she is black... she just redbone.
Ibrahim wish i could say the sane
Who's watching this again in 2019?!
am here....late 2019
Me
Watching in 2020
My friend when he fell in love with a Chinese girl, I told him to be careful because Chinese girls are crazy especially because she is too jealous. He ignore me and after 2 months he broke up with the girl lol 😂 😂 😂 😂 and then he swear that he will never take any Chinese girl anymore.
Seriously she said kwasiaaa 😂😂😂😂😂
I tell you 😂😂😂😂. I even thought I heard it wrong 🤣🤣
Whywould any African married a Chinese woman when they're so many beautiful African women on the continent? SMH
Maybe there is not many living in China and if you live there you can only date one.
@@jades5581 No. You don't go to China in the first place
@@alioucisse1548
Really. So you are saying people should not travel out to do business and educate themselves. That's stupid.
@@jades5581 no you are stupid. It's one thing to travel and do business, it's another to married someone who their people hate you.
@@jades5581 you don't have to married someone just to travel and do business
There's nothing wrong in getting Married at that age. It's better than using anyone just for sex.
Come on wode maya most African girls would expect to be married after giving u some goodies.
Kriss Sucre 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Kriss Sucre , no commitments no consistency no proper communication into the future, no ring no wedding date no goods . No way ....!
Lol
an african woman wants marriage yesterday
Heni Uwaila if doing something do it the proper way. Woman should not lay on her back for a man who is not a husband. If he can't wait , how can a woman be sure that when a situation arises and she may not be able to have sex for a while he won't cheat because he can't wait ?!
More and more women throughout the world want same . Loose buddy won't get you a better husband but give one a soul tie at the least if not a pregnancy....
Women learn their self worth in the world .
Don't talk like that in front of my girl candace 😃
MARK P hehehehe I see you 😁😁😁
Very sweet u are candace..
Candice Babe you are so sweet and cute in this video I hope life is great for you
Totally agree with you. Usually Chinese people get marry quite early, so if they date you at the age of 25-26 or something many will start thinking about marriage. Traditions are still strong there, but obviously it depends on girls as well. Nowadays we can see more and more Chinese women who thinks about her career and her own well being before getting married and make a family just like westerners. Once again, traditions are still strong in general and mariage is part of traditions.
Jealousy yeah as well, especially when they start to like you but yeah sometimes it's crazy..
And cooking...well it depends. I would say it's 60% true. I am dating a Chinese girl and she can cook, she has two sisters who cannot cook. The one I dated before my current one could cook as well BUT I know lot of Chinese girls who can't cook or just don't like it. I even know a Chinese girl who doesnt work, her Chinese bf does, and she always waits for her bf come back from work and start cooking for her and for him. If he doesnt cook, she just skip the dinner which is a bit crazy but I guess she's an extreme example and the ones who can cook, cook very well in general. I think it's about generation...the ones who were born before 90's can cook in general, the ones who were born after 90's cannot cook in general.
Cheers! Wise.
I however admire their loyalty when it comes to relationships and they don't feel indebted to cook for you if you ain't married yet... that's using a girl though Maya isn't it
This Ghana Boy is amazing and I really love him.
Speaking Chinese like a Chinese
This is really funny. And Candice was jealous 😂😂😂😂
I would definitely date you 😍😍😍
I like Candice she's so sweet ♡♡
Mamii maami Thanks dear ❤️❤️❤️
me too
love you so much.u r so sweet
Candice Babe give me your Snapchat i know you have it
@@candiceli3439 pretty Candice
@@candiceli3439 you're beautiful 😍
Please WODE MAYA do not let the stereotype live. AFRICA IS NOT A COUNTRY. Stop saying in africa, african people etc. I am African and I don't recognise myself in the things you say about africans. Those things might just be typically to Ghanaian.
Africa is not a country.
WODE MAYA. Love your show. you know even in African culture you’re not allowed to date until you get married. It’s just that things have changed now you see a lot of girls becoming mothers before they are married. If you remain a virgin till you married, it a lot of respect and pride for you and your family in our culture. You are only allowed to date if the boyfriend in question declares his intention to your family in which the family would keep their watchful eyes on him to see if he is a responsible person or not. Otherwise you have to hide from your family. So don’t blame them for wanting you to commit brother. Thank you for sharing with us. 🇸🇱🇸🇱
I AM PROUD OF YOU MY BROTHER FOR BEING IN CHINA AND LEARNING CHINESE CULTURE
You date for fun not for marriage, bro that's not cool man
It is cool if she is also dating you for fun.
Why not you have to test the waters first.
There is nothing wrong with dating for fun as long as you are upfront about it with the other person
@BeCareFul EyeknowWhoEyeAm 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
What's uncool about it? As long as you don't lie about your intentions then it's okay.
Chale, you are gangsta for this video. I love it! LOL
MAYA you wants to enjoy spouse benefit but your scared of getting married, my brother why?😁
But she likes u... mannn!!!
Hey how can you tell? Oh i know its cause hes being honest and cause hes basically said hes off the books for Chinese girl, and girls always want what they cant have.
"After they use me in the bedroom..." LMAO!
My Gahanian name is Kwabla (Tuesday Born) and I watched your show this morning. I was so disappointed you did this video with your best female friend in China. She has been by your side and has had your back no matter what was going on in your life. Please go back to China and do a video to show her the respect and LOVE she deserves from you. She is special and I came to understand Chinese woman from seeing her kindness towards you. If I were younger, I'd get on a plane and grab here and marry her. She is one in a million and I'm sure A BLACK or AFRICAN guy will do anything to have her. Candice is the coolest and deserves more respect than Naa Trudy should have. I watched 4 hours of your CZcams Channel today and saw Candice in braids because of you. Man, she is something special and deserves much love.
I laughed all through this video 😂😂,
This is hilarious 😂
Candice is one fine lady in China 😍 looks like everything is directed to Candice 😅
I like candy is she a blogger if she is i will like to subscribe to her chanel
chines girls have a goood culture like our somali girls because a girl thinking about a marriege also she is jealous of her man when he spoke to a woman thats really is a girl who loves her future
EXACTLY!
Forget about all this your saying, i think must of all that break some familys
Africans women are the best
I like the positive things you do about Africa I live in the Bahamas I am a mechanical engineer I would love to visit Ghana keep up the positive work may God continue to bless you
Regards,
Mustafa
Can’t wait to hear Candice’s Why I stopped dating african guys! Y’all are funny 😂😂😂💛
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I am posted up in front of this computer waiting for it to drop you best believe that my brother ..... Rest can wait ...
if she really wanted to get even, it should be why she stopped dating Ghanaian guys!
I subscribed. Good laugh and great humour, you know you make a nice couple. That lady has s great sense of houmour.
She is such a sweet gal. I love her
Was this a break up video???
Seems like this was directed to her, and he realizes he should be with an African/Black Queen.
She was sad and Big mad about this😂😂😂
@@simplyjustronnie6852 Yeppppp!!! She was in her feelings.
But its too late for him now
HAaaaaaaaaaaaaaa ha ha ha ha haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, I'M AFRAID SO.
U r one of those crazy black Queens that want to shame women of other colors... yes Africans were treated unethically due to their skin color for long time...but it doesn't give u the right to do the same...if someone made mistake u don't make the same mistake n call it self defense that's bullshit..u correct it in a right way...n last thing
Women are Queens regardless of their color.
Am African living in the state and all the African men I have met wants me to married them. I told them am not ready for married I just want to be friends only not even friends for benefits but they get mad and wants married and ask me if I can cook for them... Which I don't. I don't believe in staying with a men before married nor do I believe in doing wifey duties for a man that not my husband... So honestly it just depends on the person not all are like that.
I agree with you on this!!!!🥰
They want papers
@@Legend-lc9bv not true..i have been offered papers by African men to marry them..our men are just like that sometimes..they love family
This is a reason why there should be no dating before marriage. It seems that allowing dating may lead to devalue women.
why would you marry someone you dont know? When you realize you're not compatible and dont get along youre gonna go and marry the next woman you meet??
If woman is dating a man before marriage then there is no difference between one prostitutes and that woman who date before marriage.
and i know i am african man of africa so dating woman is like a nothing important of sex. Here in south africa i know i can date 10 black girls a day. evern i can date a three girls at same time and same room. They don't feel bad to sleep with one guy togehter with two other girls even. Thats why i don't like fucking my black culture. I got lots of indian and chinesee friend from india and china. If you wants to sleep with origina indian woman or chinesee woman then you must first get married or commeted and then you can get married other wise you can't sleep with them even they never allow you to touch. That is call real high values of culture.
This man over here on internet spreading a prostitution
Wessels Accounting Pretoria you really do not know what you are talking about. I suggest you come and spend a couple of years in China then you will understand many things. Stop talking out of ignorance !
so arrange marriages are better?
Bullshit, you want to make a choice without knowing what your jumping into, s choice for the rest of your life, you must like being a prisoner
You two are great, funny, full of positive energy even when you are talking about tough thems, Candice is really nice!! Greetings from the U.S.!! 😀😁😊
Introduce her to the family and you can minimize the jealousy. Cultural difference💯💯
Massa drop the cooking... Both parties should cook.
What is the meaning of DATING? What is the meaning of BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP?!!
Black mens problem, alway want to have fun
@@brianadumensah7157 IS NOT BLACK MEN Alone problem. Its a GLOBAL issue. Still Not answered the meaning of DATING?
Or What is BEING IN a Relationship?
@@brianadumensah7157 Just fun, but the woman has to cook!?? Go and get well boy! 🤪 (...or have "fun" with african woman then...)
damn...you were wrong for this one. African girls take note. These guys just want to have fun with you. The chinese girls he dated wanted a serious relationship if he was going to disvirgin them. What's wrong with that. You were wrong for exposing yourself like this Wode.
you are wrong, i'm a westerner who has dated Chinese women they are very materialistic, want to know everything about you like what you own, how much money you make and they always want more money
This guy is soo lovely to watch. I got stuck the whole day watching your videos bro. Love your spirit love your show
I totally agree, just found his channel and I am watching videos back-to-back😹
you should date Candice, you guys look like u would make a great couple
David Lewis When you get hit by that culture, you are going to cry yourself to sleep.
"Look like"
Maya you should marry Candice. 😜😜😜
@@AbrazaNewsKE they broke up already maya is with an African girl named Trudy now.
😝😝😝😝
Hey Maya, I know you'll enjoy Japanese girls then! Japanese girls don't bring up marriage until you've been with her for at LEAST over 2 years! :)
Li1190 yeah? Thnx 4 the info
TWO YEARS? WHAT IS THE AVERAGE LIFE EXPECTANCY IN THE WORLD THAT SOME PEOPLE DATE FOR SO LONG. THE LONGER THE MORE YOU LOOSE INTEREST AND EVEN SEE MORE REASONS IT WON'T WORK. SOME PEOPLE ARE NOT ASHAMED TO SAY THEY DATED FOR 7 YEARS OR 10 YEARS. AM MARRIED ALREADY.
I WILL DISCOURAGE MY CHILDREN FROM DATING FOR "ETERNITY". IF I CAN'T DECIDE IN 6 MONTHS TO 1 YEAR, SOMETHING IS WRONG.
Now here we are Kenyans in laws m we love that Africans know how to love n to handle now tis Miss Trudy❤❤❤❤
Nakuona mwedwa
Tuko😂😂🇰🇪🇰🇪✌
Dating without a view of marriage is wrong in my perspective and playing with someone's emotions is dangerous you dont date for fun you date to get to know someone better and when you are seeing a future with that person you can now court from there marriage..dating has no national,race or ethinc boundaries accept for religion.thanks
The girl is really beautiful
Fuck you racist joe smith
Here we go again....ANOTHER mean racist comment! No, no no!
lol I'm black. We alll know black men usually date some of the ugliest and fattest women when they date outside their race.
John Smith Not always. Depends on how he looks and his income heck get the same choices in Black women. It is sad how we have to accept the bottom of other race yet they have the sense to want ONLY the top of ours.
This bitch fugly
That's doesn't seem any problem to me that's Asian culture even in India as well we took relationship pretty serious
They kind of look alike with the same cheek bones. Ebony and Ivory
Maya i think you broke Candice heart...you heartbreaker can't you see she was feeling you lol.
cornellw24 hahaha
all girls are like that
I know right loll
West African men basically, sometimes we say the most politically incorrect stuff, I know I've been guilty of this.
How can you tell? I cant, im terrible at reading women's vibes.
you both looks great together...
DroidXPhone means??
Are you blind or just being nice? She's way to hot for him
hats off for candice, she knows how to control her emotions. her face showed she was damn pissed
I'm from Kenya and I really like Chinese girls..I'm now learning mandarin so that may be I can approach one
Sitting close to you: baby do you miss me that part😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
the cookingthing really touched you wode maya hahahhh they should know the way to an African man's heart is his belly loll
Thank u my sister!hahahahaa I like that phrase African man's heart is his belly
Every single person should know how to take care of themselves which involves cooking with other domestic duties. Why can't he cook for himself? Especially considering hes a student who is unmarried. He's just throwing demands left, right and center without interjecting anything of value into the relationship. "she used me for sex and now she has to cook". Guess that comes with age
Wode Maya I hope you didn't hurt Candice's feelings? Maybe you should have done it with another neutral friend.. You have a strong CZcams bond with her 👍... Take her out tonight 😉
Alfred Malm Thanks for caring my friend 😝 but I'm okay don't worry 😁😁😁
Candice Babe you are welcome my dear... 😊😊
lol Candice is just such a pure sweetheart~
baby you are so sweet
@@candiceli3439 Ni Hao
PLEASE WADA... that's Moral I don't know where you came from .. am an African if that's what chines do I have started respecting them more... Maya you should not even come out and talk about this.. if you thinks show g every one how are is fine, to me it's disgusting... I thinks you are not very far from Nigeria. ... sorry my apology to Chinese people this is not for some of us Africa.
Very cute candice! I like Her more than trudy because candice is so freindly and i love how she speaks english🙂
You are correct.they can't cook.everytime they are just busy with their phone and oh
I like y'all guys! keep breaking those cultural stereotypes!! from what you said about Chinese ladies though, I found interesting is - they think of marriage when dating. that's a good discipline and culture - it means they are faithful. in my country we also believe "NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE"
Wode Maya. This is a decent Chinese girl. Love your videos
Love is love, but it's dangerous for a blk man to date a Chinese woman in China.
"We're just having fun."
Translation: "I want spousal benefit without being a spouse 😉." BUT lowkey I wouldn't want to marry every person I date either...
"Spousal benefit". That's a new one. Lol!
Exactly! Spouse benefit without been spouse, that is called sin.
ShadyBrooks, self respecting, emotionally stable confident woman with character and principles don't lay on her back for every man that comes her way as he is testing her if she is strong enough to stand on her own and by her own principles, self respect, self love before anyone else.
Lol so I see African an African American men are the same I see were they get it from 😭
Lmao!It's runs through the blood i guess
@@WODEMAYA ♥️♥️ I love my black men wether they stray away
Nope we not all , Some of us only date Sistah's. Whats ur IG lets talk about this ;)
@@KniiOSoul Erikakane92
The only thing I have to say here is...mad ooooo😹😹✌✌✌. If ur Nigerian or u follow cardi you should have heard this by now.
Am really proud of u guy... I really like your videos.... God bless you and protect u through your journey.... Thanks for making us enjoy the world...
I think marriage expectations in relationships has actually got nothing to do with race. I mean it depends so much on compatibility and personality. Personally, i don't date a girl unless i can marry her.
Jealousy just confirms the presence of love. If you're flirting with other girls and your girlfriend's fine with that, then there is a possibility she doesn't like you that much. So i welcome jealousy at a reasonable level.
I however agree with you that a woman should know to cook. I cant deny that most African ladies these days have laid down their kitchen tools and as such, most African women cannot cook these days. This seems like a general generational problem.
Marry Candy she is nice and you guys are good.
My Candice you really don't look happy but I love you a lot 😍
ENZO CINEMA even here in Australia most Asian girls and Australian girls from countryside think the same. Mostly the reason is how black/African guys treat girls, we really treat them nicely, we respect them, help, advise them, be there for them, have fun/laugh and we even support them financially...in addition to that, good sex. So whose girl wouldn't think about marrying such guy? Where other guys just want to please themselves and go.
ENZO CINEMA Hehehehe thanks ❤️
Prit Singh, look there is nothing wrong saying what i saw. If i have seen many similar cases and experience it what do you want me to say? Do you want me to lie huh! However i said most black guys, not all black guys do treat well their gf thus concluding as you did it is completely assumptional you misunderstood. Neither did i say that every other girl want a big dick! Good sex and big dick are two different things. The most important thing is knowing how to use it. So that's again your misunderstanding. Revise your reading and rectify your understanding then you won't utter such disrespectful words to me.
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This is the first time ever seeing Candice. I think I need to binge on your old videos 🤭
She is a nice girl. I must say.
Well, you said you are 21 and I think you are right about the youngins. Older Chinese women can and will certainly cook. I talked to so many young Chinese girls who said their fathers cook around the house and they cannot cook. I think it's because of the one child policy, which results in many young Chinese kids, post 90's and 00's being pampered and unable to care for themselves.
I think this is a setup and there will be a third video saying Wode Maya and Candace are currently dating
PM Smallears 😊😊😊😊
2+2 is 4-1 is 3 Chinese's girl got hot for this video 😂😂
WODE U WERE THINKING ABOUT MS TRUDY IN THE FUTURE❤❤❤
I just love how he says his name - like singing his praise I AM MAYA
All asian women will do the same if they are serious to you.
I suggest to asian women not to date with selfish men. They have to respect your culture if the men want to be with you. You are very precious so they have to respect your culture!!! Its better to look after the men with same thingking, wisdom, culture, religion.. At least they respect what you do, your culture, etc.
One would hope that a compromise could be found in relation to culture. I'm here to tell you that you either give up yours or she gives up hers.
I totally agree with you
Its true our Chinese teacher in Tanzania 🇹🇿 told she don't how to cook she says her parents told her to study she says they have apps which they order food after 30 minutes, and that so down for a black woman
Young man all girls want marriage. No girl want to be used for fun. All girl get jealous but others girls will leave you alone . Make sure that the other women you talk to respect her. An men and women should cook for each other. I'm a black american woman. I work so we share the load.
Candice marry me and I will cook for you
haha
He loves Candice and he made this video to make her Jealous. I can see it in her eyes. Wode Maya you think your Pimp.
I like Candice. Though she’s shy, she is calm, respectful and beautiful 👍🏾
I have subscribed on your channel immediately I watched your videos. You are full of life and very happy person. My advice is,you too should start dating. You look good together. Just be serious when it comes to dating,please. You can make a good couple.
Wodemaya. Where's this girl. Why did you break up the girl
She seemed nice and sweet but she doesn't look like she have anything on an African woman and dude knows that. But to each its own.
Candice is attractive 1
FUCK NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Maya you have a huge personality man. I'm older than you but I personally think i would learn a lot from you if i was your friend. Keep up the good work
Candy was cool and life goes on. Welcome Ms. Trudy.
Yezzzzz
If that's the reason, I like Chinese woman