Sometimes i click on some of your videos thinking "meh, i don't really need advice for this but why not" and i still end up learning something new. That's why i want to watch every single one now
Need dat soft guitar playin bro. That adds such a peaceful calm energy over your content. In my opinion it’s what sets your content apart!!!! Always a good word of insight and care regardless tho. Appreciate you black man!!!! Keep up what u doin G! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🤝🏾🤝🏾🖤🖤
@@AskShimon 😂 I can dig it brodie! None the less your craft is much appreciated and we locked in! You help a brotha get thru the madness for real! 💪🏾🤝🏾🙏🏾💯
I agree 100% that it's a partnership through-in-through and should be valued in that light. That being said, I do believe that both individuals should be okay with being told something's wrong or that something they're doing might negatively impact their partner and should be talked about. For example if one partner was a frequent spender, the other partner should be able to REASONABLY approach them and say "hey, I've noticed [negative thing] and would like to talk about it [present change.] The spender has to be able to internally go "I do spend a lot, I do need to work on that" without also being defensive. I guess it goes back to your original point, haha.
I think the playlist idea is perfect. It would be interesting to see an almost crash course type playlist of ideas that correlate in some way and it would definitely help if someone were to think "dang, I need help with my relationship, but I don't know what specifically with" and lo and behold, you have an entire playlist of in-depth analyses of relationships. Love your content, it's been about half a year ago that I stumbled upon this channel and it has changed my life for the better. I'm now a better communicator, arguer, and I have more emotional intelligence now. I've learned to take things slow and focus on what's important in life. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for all you've done.
needed it...almost argued back with my mom, she keeps trying to bug me off bc she was repressed her whole life. its still hell, but atleast i have my inner peace 🩷
Shimon I say this from the bottom of my heart, you have made such a great impact to my everyday life. I’m going through a difficult time and currently struggling with depression and my mental health is not where I want it to be however, whenever you upload it genuinely makes me feel a sense of comfort because it feels like I’m talking to a friend. You’re helping not only myself but other people who are struggling with themselves and I cannot wait to see what the future holds for us, thank you🙏❤️
Both the relationship and high school playlist/video ideas sound great, Id love to see that stuff and Im sure others would too. And thank you for doin this, ive learned a lot. ❤
Literally within the first two minutes I hear a simple, but for some reason overlooked by me thing that actually seems like the knowledge I needed all that time. You're always dishing out one of the best advices out there.
generally I'm a scilent watcher I don't intract in the comments, but I just want to express how much I appreciate your content man. like I have been watching your content for few months, and I'm defently much more motivatied in life then ever, I started having life goals and understand my priorities, my life has been changing so much the last couple of months, I also understood my value as a person. ngl I'm having happiness tears while writing this comment just remembering where I was couple of months ago. I genuinely hope the best for you man.
i don't usually comment videos, but watching you speaking and the way you explain things gives me so much hope and inspiration. Thank you for this treasures of videos, keep going man.
So I've been off/"wounded" for a long time. It's something I've been aware of, but it's also something I've been struggling to work on because I don't know where it's stemming from. Because of this I'm always on the defensive side and I'm always having trouble with the habit of shutting people out every now and then. This has affected my relationship with my partners because it winds up being a scenario where I take a step to improve, but after some time i revert right back to how I was before I took that step. I don't know how to sustain my progress. A lot of things I don't think about and a lot of times it winds up hurting them, and I don't want that.. This video was helpful to me, and it's made me a little more aware of the people around me and how they function emotionally. I hope having a little more understanding can help me take a step to improving emotionally
As someone currently going through that stage of high school and college. I’d love to hear what advice you have for us younger students man. ppriecate your time and work
i lacked so much of control with my own emotions. i was w someone who communicated with me about his feelings but when it came to my feelings, i bottle them up and explode. we had a few arguments here and there until he had enough. it was a very hard lesson to learn
Thank you, man. I also have this thing I feel like I'm "emotionally unavailable"(not sure about this wording) with certain people. Like acquaintances for example. Recently I had a talk with a girl she opened up about some stuff in her life. She told me a couple of her problems and I just said some basic shit and that was it. IT wasn't that bad but it wasn't great!! And usually talking with close friends not acquaintances I have answers to questions. Usually we explore the problem together and most of the time come to some sort of solution that is great. Idk. Tell me what you think if you see this. And also I thought about adding "it really would mean a lot to me" at the end of this comment but again it's like I don't actually care if you respond or not because if I truly did and tried to do everything in my power to have you answer me I'd be disappointed or maybe even angry if you didn't respond. Of course a CZcams comment isn't a great analogy. But I have another one. Like for example you can be into someone and show affection and talk openly about your feelings and be natural with it. But you don't do that because you either don't know how or are scared of what may come of it. I don't want to think I'm scared and I kinda feel like I just don't know how to do that. I guess a solution for me would be to "go out there" and try to feel something for someone new. Because at least in romantic life, which I don't have, it seems that not showing affection doesn't really work. Idk. I get so nervous when someone shows feelings towards me. OKAY THAT'S just a big rant at this point. Thanks.
Im a sophomore in high school and i had to move schools in 8th grade but there was a girl who ive been friends with for a long time and i really have feeing for her and i told her that in person the only issue is that i live an hour and a half away. We went out on our first “date” last weekend and she got high when i was with her and i was ok with it but then at the end of the night she pulled me in and started to makeout with me, ive never done anything like that so of course it made me feel way more attracted to her and want her but i feel like she only did it because she wasnt sober and i dont know what to do about it
@mofrancis1433 he has a cross on his wall. So it would be interesting to hear him discuss his personal beliefs or lack thereof. Right now his perspective is undefined so he can appeal to a wide audience.
@@madly_beaver8748 in a previous video when he went to Mardi gras someone mentioned him being Christian, but he said the cross on the wall is a gift from his grandmother or something
"A wound can't heal, if you keep touching it" damn...❤
Sometimes i click on some of your videos thinking "meh, i don't really need advice for this but why not" and i still end up learning something new. That's why i want to watch every single one now
Long life battle with their self. U on that Kdot train I see u
Bar is a bar
nah you so right. The amount of decisions we make on autopilot without thinking through it is crazy.
"Save to watch later"
Need dat soft guitar playin bro. That adds such a peaceful calm energy over your content. In my opinion it’s what sets your content apart!!!! Always a good word of insight and care regardless tho. Appreciate you black man!!!! Keep up what u doin G! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🤝🏾🤝🏾🖤🖤
much love fam and you gotta switch it up sometime
@@AskShimon 😂 I can dig it brodie! None the less your craft is much appreciated and we locked in! You help a brotha get thru the madness for real! 💪🏾🤝🏾🙏🏾💯
This guy has some swagger to him!!! Keep the good work buddy 🔥
I agree 100% that it's a partnership through-in-through and should be valued in that light. That being said, I do believe that both individuals should be okay with being told something's wrong or that something they're doing might negatively impact their partner and should be talked about. For example if one partner was a frequent spender, the other partner should be able to REASONABLY approach them and say "hey, I've noticed [negative thing] and would like to talk about it [present change.] The spender has to be able to internally go "I do spend a lot, I do need to work on that" without also being defensive.
I guess it goes back to your original point, haha.
I think the playlist idea is perfect. It would be interesting to see an almost crash course type playlist of ideas that correlate in some way and it would definitely help if someone were to think "dang, I need help with my relationship, but I don't know what specifically with" and lo and behold, you have an entire playlist of in-depth analyses of relationships. Love your content, it's been about half a year ago that I stumbled upon this channel and it has changed my life for the better. I'm now a better communicator, arguer, and I have more emotional intelligence now. I've learned to take things slow and focus on what's important in life. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for all you've done.
You may not see this but we definitely gonna meet in the future. Thank you for your insight brother
U should make a series bout “how to get more emotionally intelligent” this is really helping me! So sum more vids about this topic would be awesome!
Where's the music in background
“letting old wounds bleed on a new cloth” the way you speak is so profound. continue to make these awesome videos!
needed it...almost argued back with my mom, she keeps trying to bug me off bc she was repressed her whole life. its still hell, but atleast i have my inner peace 🩷
Shimon I say this from the bottom of my heart, you have made such a great impact to my everyday life. I’m going through a difficult time and currently struggling with depression and my mental health is not where I want it to be however, whenever you upload it genuinely makes me feel a sense of comfort because it feels like I’m talking to a friend. You’re helping not only myself but other people who are struggling with themselves and I cannot wait to see what the future holds for us, thank you🙏❤️
The playlist series’s is a great idea. Go for it.
Both the relationship and high school playlist/video ideas sound great, Id love to see that stuff and Im sure others would too. And thank you for doin this, ive learned a lot. ❤
Yes, the playlist you are talking about would be great because I come to your account for advice and I'm a big fan so I'm interested!
Great conversation man, appreciate the reminder. Hope you're having an amazing day.
Literally within the first two minutes I hear a simple, but for some reason overlooked by me thing that actually seems like the knowledge I needed all that time. You're always dishing out one of the best advices out there.
generally I'm a scilent watcher I don't intract in the comments, but I just want to express how much I appreciate your content man. like I have been watching your content for few months, and I'm defently much more motivatied in life then ever, I started having life goals and understand my priorities, my life has been changing so much the last couple of months, I also understood my value as a person. ngl I'm having happiness tears while writing this comment just remembering where I was couple of months ago. I genuinely hope the best for you man.
i don't usually comment videos, but watching you speaking and the way you explain things gives me so much hope and inspiration. Thank you for this treasures of videos, keep going man.
So I've been off/"wounded" for a long time. It's something I've been aware of, but it's also something I've been struggling to work on because I don't know where it's stemming from.
Because of this I'm always on the defensive side and I'm always having trouble with the habit of shutting people out every now and then. This has affected my relationship with my partners because it winds up being a scenario where I take a step to improve, but after some time i revert right back to how I was before I took that step. I don't know how to sustain my progress. A lot of things I don't think about and a lot of times it winds up hurting them, and I don't want that..
This video was helpful to me, and it's made me a little more aware of the people around me and how they function emotionally. I hope having a little more understanding can help me take a step to improving emotionally
I like the idea of having a Successful Relationship playlist 👍
I’m glad I’m taking the time to watch this video because I am the wounded person but I don’t know how to work through my issues
you should totally do the playlist it would help me a lot me personally im going through some things right now so wish me the best
Keep the grind brother! Appreciate your content. It's a good idea to continue this little series of yours. Keep going.
if i will become someone one day its thanks to you man. keep up great work
I like this new style you're doing in this video. For some reason I find it easier to focus to the message without the music.
Yess family we would really appreciate that playlist 🔥🤝🏾
The series is a great idea, I will get to learn so much from it .
Needed this..Good way to start the day
Great video man!
We'd love the playlists thanks blud😊
I needed this video, thanks bro.
You have an amazing voice. How did you get to be so emotionally intelligence? You’re so mature. Thank you
You should for sure do the playlist
Thanks bro for these vids
you should totally release that series 👍
thanks bro, you explained all the truth about emotions, from now i'm starting to understand and do what u say. 🙏
Your best video yet
Thank you bro 🙏 keep up the amazing work 💯
YES for sure bro the tribe want the playlist.
I would love the relationship playlist, I need it!
Great video bro!...I have learned a lot through your videos.
I love your content ❤
This video came at the right time for me
I’d be down for the series
Definitely do the series concept
the series is a great idea
Yh, I would be interested in your series
Preciate you for this
Start a podcast please, or just longer videos. Listening to you talk is nice & helpful.
This man gives the best advice
Please release the series
We have a lot to learnnnn❤❤
I would love the playlists
the series would be fire
Yes super interested in that new series
Your so wise man
grateful for you
Big on the high school series
I would listen to the series I’m interested in it
As someone currently going through that stage of high school and college. I’d love to hear what advice you have for us younger students man. ppriecate your time and work
Yes do it man !!!!!
love it bro
Please do the series bro ❤
thank you
Camera looking extra clean today brother
Thank you I needed to hear that ghee, I also think that series is good idea 10:09
I miss the old background music!! Great video as always though
The goat posted
BTW, the chinese traditional outfit looks great on you!❤
The outfits be lowkey but fire
Release the series cant wait
i lacked so much of control with my own emotions. i was w someone who communicated with me about his feelings but when it came to my feelings, i bottle them up and explode. we had a few arguments here and there until he had enough. it was a very hard lesson to learn
Opening about emotions is hard. 25 and still can't do it. I will probably have to go to a professional cause people feel if you hide it
Thank you, man. I also have this thing I feel like I'm "emotionally unavailable"(not sure about this wording) with certain people. Like acquaintances for example. Recently I had a talk with a girl she opened up about some stuff in her life. She told me a couple of her problems and I just said some basic shit and that was it. IT wasn't that bad but it wasn't great!! And usually talking with close friends not acquaintances I have answers to questions. Usually we explore the problem together and most of the time come to some sort of solution that is great. Idk. Tell me what you think if you see this. And also I thought about adding "it really would mean a lot to me" at the end of this comment but again it's like I don't actually care if you respond or not because if I truly did and tried to do everything in my power to have you answer me I'd be disappointed or maybe even angry if you didn't respond. Of course a CZcams comment isn't a great analogy. But I have another one. Like for example you can be into someone and show affection and talk openly about your feelings and be natural with it. But you don't do that because you either don't know how or are scared of what may come of it. I don't want to think I'm scared and I kinda feel like I just don't know how to do that. I guess a solution for me would be to "go out there" and try to feel something for someone new. Because at least in romantic life, which I don't have, it seems that not showing affection doesn't really work. Idk. I get so nervous when someone shows feelings towards me. OKAY THAT'S just a big rant at this point. Thanks.
u should make a series
Drop the series
Im a sophomore in high school and i had to move schools in 8th grade but there was a girl who ive been friends with for a long time and i really have feeing for her and i told her that in person the only issue is that i live an hour and a half away. We went out on our first “date” last weekend and she got high when i was with her and i was ok with it but then at the end of the night she pulled me in and started to makeout with me, ive never done anything like that so of course it made me feel way more attracted to her and want her but i feel like she only did it because she wasnt sober and i dont know what to do about it
yeah men am interested
Bro please make a video on not feeling interested in anything
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playlists! Pls
🙌
Nahh we interested💯💯
New video Yipee !
Yipee?! 😆😆
🔥🔥🔥
My brother, could you make a video on relationships and handling it with the Christian view in mind? :)
🗣️
new camera?
Plis do the sirise i need it asap
Challenge accepted
Early to this one
in the next video can we talk abt our religion like Christianity 😢I really want to hear what u have to say❤❤❤😊
I don't think he's Christian
@@mofrancis1433there’s a cross at the back of the room.
Ummmm . 😭
@mofrancis1433 he has a cross on his wall. So it would be interesting to hear him discuss his personal beliefs or lack thereof. Right now his perspective is undefined so he can appeal to a wide audience.
@@madly_beaver8748 in a previous video when he went to Mardi gras someone mentioned him being Christian, but he said the cross on the wall is a gift from his grandmother or something
One minute and no views, bro fell off.
This was so helpful!🩵
Thank U