You're (Probably) Killing Your Social Skills! | Dale Carnegie Book Summary
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The word encourage - really hard to understand your pronunciation. But it's an easy fix :)
Is this your video or yaya the narrator video 😊✌️
Is this you talking in the video?
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Thank you kindly for such an encouraging content. Truly remarkable.
1:GIVE PEOPLE A FINE REPUTATION TO LIVE UP TO
2:ENCOURAGE OTHERS TO TALK ABOUT THEMSELVES
3:BECOME GENUINELY INTERESTED IN OTHER PEOPLE
4:DON’T RESIST PEOPLE,AGREE FIRST
5:APPEAL TO THEIR NOBLER MOTIVES
6:TALK IN TERMS OF OTHER PEOPLE’S INTERESTS,NOT YOURS
7.MAKE THE OTHER PEOPLE FEEL IMPORTANT AND DO IT SINCERELY
8.ASK QUESTIONS INSTEAD OF GIVING ORDERS
9.USE ENCOURAGEMENT & MAKE THEIR FAULT SEEM EASY TO CORRECT
10.IF YOU WANT PEOPLE TO LIKE YOU, U MUST LIKE THEM FIRST
:) #BTA1356 Veljko
Thanks
Thank you!!
Maybe someone can tell me how to genuinely like someone who is trying to destroy my life, who hates me and lies about me. That is too hard for me.
@@tututishtosh why would you want to like someone who you said trying to destroy your life. Stop spending time and energy to change their mind, to love or even hate them. Just keep your distance from the person and go pursue something that would make you happy and pay attention to those who love you and care for you.
Some of my favourite quotes by Dale are:
• It isn't what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about.
• Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get
• Develop success from failures. Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success.
Lastly, my favourite & one of things i personally stand by -
• Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain but it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving.
Awesome. Thanks for sharing! 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon
Thanks
"I'll speak I'll of no man"
🎯 *WeLL donE my good man...WoRThy sTudenT yoU aRe.!!* 🎓
My favorite quote, which Im not sure if its "how to win friends" or "how to stop worrying" but it says "every day is a new life to a wise man."
Unless we have a sincere heart,every knowledge will turn out to be a means of manipulation.
Agreed!
:) #BTA1283 Luka
Orville Raposo that’s why I’m
Here lol
1000 percent agreed
That's y i say if i have to manipulate
Then i don't want t
*The truth is that we all care about ourselves. Therefore, if we care about them and see their worthiness, they will FEEL awesome around you. People remember how you make them FEEL* 🙏
I agree with what you said about people remember how you make them feel ! :)
Well said... people remember how you make them feel. - Mani from 2000 Books
Agreed :) #BTA1283 Luka
*I agree*
Agree!
It boils down to LOVE. My wise mother always taught us to look at everything with love….even your “enemies”. It annoyed me to think of this at first because I thought the answer was to resist and fight for things. Law of attraction taught me otherwise. Give love genuinely and you will attract and get love in return. 💕
Thank you for sharing and for watching. 😊 #Believe - Feb
@Chantey Nk Just my opinion, that is when we have to keep our boundaries and walk away if we can. ??
A great man shows his greatness by the way he treats little men.” How to win friends and influence people teaches us the right way to treat others and be a great person.
❤️😊 #BELIEVE - Ahmed
All equal. Big or small.
It's about the size of the heart rather than the size of the man.
Being authentic and showing that you really cares is what makes you win people over. You don't have to have the fancy stuff, all you have to have is kindness and genuineness.
Couldn’t agree more. Thanks for sharing. 😊 #Believe - Feb
@@EvanCarmichael Thank you too! If you have the time, you can come and visit my channel too. I think we have things in common.
Hello whoever is reading this, we may not know each other, but I wish you the best of luck in life! Stop blaming yourself, accept the situation, and move on. Your grin is priceless; all the keys to happiness are in your hands, so make use of them!
💖 #Believe - Feb
This was first self help book that I read, some 30 years ago. I was brought up by a solo parent in a very modest lifestyle. I am a self made successful entrepreneur and I can attribute much of my start in business to Dale Carnegie's. Showing genuine interest in your customer is very powerful.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts :) #BTA1298 Luka
Awesome! Glad to hear that Nev :)
What kind of buisness do you run?
Your comment is empowering and you inspire me. Thank you. :)
@@user-xz2rv4wq7g I develop intellectual property for the construction industry these days.
Give people a good reputation to live up to. Encourage others to talk. Ask questions. Be genuinely interested. Agree with them to end resistance. Appeal to the nobler part.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts Kayli :) #BTA1283 Luka
This works for intimate relationships too in order to lead to a hopefully successful marriage beginning.
Really !!!!
I think that if you are someone like me, who GENUINELY listens and cares, this book might be just a refresh button of your personality. It’s unbelievable that people need a book to learn the basic steps of building a friendship or when you are just meeting someone new. I love listen to others and I pay attention to details of each word they are saying, I like to be present. I’m tired of living in a society where people just see me as an asset: “ can she add anything valuable in my life?” People are forgetting the genuine feelings of being a Human Being. Sad
Thanks for sharing your thoughts #Believe :) #BTA1659 Veljko
Ah yes, me too. I'm so great. I'm a perfect soul and people who aren't as great as me are just sad. period. I'm tired of living amongst people who are lower than me. Why can't they be as great as me?
I have no one that's show interest in me and I have no one that's listened to me. So, I ended up being clueless about showing interests to other people as well. This book is what helped me sharpening my social skills, something that's *no one* ever taught me. Humans can be a bitch too.
@@iliveinsideyourhouse3943 lmao realest shit I ever heard
I agree with you. I felt like this is a refresh button of my personality. But that made me think of one thing. I've always been genuinely interested in people, their interests, asked them questions about themselves, told them nice things. In short, I liked people. But the thing is, it hardly ever got reciprocated. I can't think of a single incident from the top of head where people took interest in me. What am I doing wrong? I like people, genuinely, but they don't like me.
The most important lesson I learned from this book is to listen to what others say and eventually other people will trust you and this will lead to healthy relationship.
Great. Thanks for sharing! 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon
Evan, thank you sharing your channel with 2000 books. What a gift for us and for 2000 books. Thank you for modeling love, respect and kindness!
Mr. Carnegie pretty much has put Biblical principles in a business format. So good! And loved the narrator's summary👍
Glad you enjoyed it #Believe :) #BTA1607 Veljko
Which biblical principles?
@@ziurziur1ify Golden Rule, precept in the Gospel of Matthew (7:12): “In everything, do to others what you would have them do to you. . . .” This rule of conduct is a summary of the Christian's duty to his neighbour and states a fundamental ethical principle.
Best example of how to use the insights of a book in reality ...
😊 #Believe - Feb
People love to talk about themselves and we just need to listen. Ask the questions they need to ask themselves in order to guide them and help them in their journey. It's not about us, it's about them.
Indeed.... It's not about us. It's about them :)
@@2000Books :) :) :)
You are right Erika! :) #BTA1283 Luka
@@EvanCarmichael ♡♡♡
I'm a counselor-sort of thing at times for my job, and this is EXACTLY what I do. I don't even give advice, just make sure everybody knows their options and make informed choices.
I met Mani at a conference back in Feb.
I can say that I got more value from that 10 minute conversation than I had from many classes I've taken. I got advice for something I've been wondering for a very long time.
Very smart man.
*Dale Carnegie was a genius!*
Agreed! - Mani from 2000 Books
:) #BTA1283 Luka
you're right!
Totally!
Thank you for helping me improve my confidence.
Glad we could help #Believe :) #BTA1575 Veljko
Great summary! I’ve listened to the book many times. This summary is right on and a great reminder to listen to on the way to work!
Glad that you liked it. Thanks for watching 💛😊 #BELIEVE - Ahmed
This is top notch stuff! Really helpful in every way I could imagine couldn’t thank you guys enough🙏🏽
Glad that you liked it. Thanks for watching ❤😊 #Believe - Ahmed
I love it!!! Thank you so much for the explanation of this book.The way you presented it using simple diagram and point form make my life easier. The summary also helps me to recap all the points clearly and not missed out any points! Keep it up,you are indeed my hero.
Thanks for watching. #Believe :) #BTA1658 Veljko
Fantastic Evan! Well done!
I didn't afford this book in audible, so I went through this video. Now, I feel awesome for precise analysis and intellectually designed and presented. U r a great explainers..👍
Thank you for the appreciation! ❤️😊 #Believe - Ahmed
This great! Thanks for the examples, it was helpful to understand the principles 👍
I am glad you enjoyed them! - Mani from 2000 Books
Thanks for watching :) #BTA1283 Luka
Thank you for this informative and fundamental video, as much as i want to read this book its just that i prefer to watch videos and learn from it. You did summarize it thoroughly❤
Thanks for watching #Believe :) #BTA1621 Veljko
Thank you Sir, my life lights up with this summary. LETS JUST BE AUTHENTIC IN EVERY DEALINGS WE DO. Million Thanks
Thanks for watching #Believe :) #BTA1615 Veljko
Wonderful book and nicely summarized... Thank you Evan!!
Thanks for watching #Believe :) #BTA1611 Veljko
I just realized this is basically a whole ad for the 200 Books Summaries XD
And I honestly have no problem, it's still pretty entertaining.
Lol, thanks for watching #Believe :) #BTA1678 Veljko
This is the smartest marketing idea I've seen so far
Glad you liked it. #Believe - Feb
I love the way you explain by examples. It makes it a lot easyer to understand!
Glad you liked it. Thanks for the support. 😊💛 #Believe - Feb
Our world needs people like you
Thank you! 💛😊 #Believe - Ahmed
I just love your channel ..
Finally, i have learnt a formula that I have been searching since 7 months..
This is my first comment on CZcams that mean I really thankful to you 🙇💞
You are very welcome, glad we could help #Believe :) #BTA1540 Veljko
I just talked about this last week in my group! This is great!
Awesome! Glad you enjoyed it :) - Mani from 2000 Books
:) #BTA1283 Luka
Thanks for sharing..
You're welcome, thanks for watching as well. 😊 #Believe - Feb
great info. thanks.
You're welcome. Glad you liked it. 😊❤️ #Believe - Feb
It's just awesome thankyou for helping us through this ❤️
Thanks for watching, stay safe #Believe :) #BTA1622 Veljko
Love others like one self. Simple
#Believe :) #BTA1627 Veljko
I love this content! It really build confidence. Thanks for sharing!
Glad that it helped Darin. 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon
Thank you very much !
I'll for sure check you out!
Thank you so much !
Awesome! You're welcome! #Believe ❤️😊 - Ahmed
This was great!! Thank you for all of the information and for being honest about the mistakes you have personally made. That made me feel a lot better about all of mine.
Everyone makes mistakes. The important this is to not make the same mistakes twice. 😊 #Believe - Feb
I am inspired through reading this book. Your explanation was too good to explain everything. Every one should read this book to develop there attitude and collaboration with friends. I think we should love them first and then expect something from them.
Thank you for your awesome video. :D
Glad you enjoyed it! #Believe :) #BTA1460 Veljko
Thanks for sharing this!!!
You're welcome Oliti. 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon
Great summary, thank you
You're welcome, glad you liked it. 😊 #Believe - Feb
❤you are a wonderful son. English is hard. English is great because so many people in the world learn it. Proud of your mom for even trying. 👍
❤️😊 - Mark
I read this book last year and it has certainly helped approaching people and engaging in conversation, especially in my workplace. Fantastic book, I would recommend everybody reads it
Thanks for the recommendation #Believe :) #BTA1514 Veljko
Great summary! Thank you.
You're welcome, Elizabeth. Glad you liked it. 😊 #Believe - Feb
Very engaging! Thank you for sharing, Evan.
You're welcome 🤗 #Believe - Feb
Thank you for this video. ..it really helped me
Thanks for watching #Believe :) #BTA1563 Veljko
Thanks for making this video mate, you are part of the solution and that really good.
I am going to subscribe to you.
Thanks again
Thanks for watching, welcome aboard! #Believe :) #BTA1602 Veljko
Excellent video! Thank you!
You're welcome, glad you liked it. 😊 #Believe - Feb
this is a great video!! And I won't forget the lessons because you were teaching with examples!
Thank you. Glad you liked it. 😊 #Believe - Feb
It’s very informative only reading book sometimes we miss some point now I’m understand very well
Awesome! Glad you enjoyed it :) - Mani from 2000 Books
This was fantastic! Thanks to you and also to 2000 books. 
Thanks for watching! :) #BTA1308 Luka
Glad you enjoyed it :)
Thank you sir, I get new concepts. And thanks for sharing.
Thanks for watching :) #BTA1441 Veljko
How to win friends and influence people
1. Give people a fine reputation to live up to
2. Encourage others to talk about themselves
3. Become genuinely interested in other people
4. Don't resist people, agree first
5. Appeal to their nobler motives
6. Talk in terms of other persons interests, not yours
7. Make the other person feel important, and do that sincerely
8. Ask questions instead of giving orders
9. Use encouragements, and make their fault seem easy to correct
10. If you want people to like you, you must like them first.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts #Believe :) #BTA1613 Veljko
Wow. As much as I read, I never thought to summarize this way. Too many don't read a book a year, so I began reading books to my followers in 2017 via Facebook. I'll be checking this channel out.
That's what I want to do. Read books on line. I'm puzzled about copyright.
Awesome! I hope you enjoy the channel :)
I love that
2000 Books already subscribed
Glad to hear that :) #BTA1283 Luka
That Mom shout out was epic‼️
#Wonderful
Glad you like it :) #BTA1293 Luka
@@EvanCarmichael so you are already following the book's principals, I see
Glad you liked it Rob!
This is a very good summary.thank you for putting your time and effort into it.I appreciate you.
You're welcome Dr. Zahir. Glad that you liked it. 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon
Thanks for sharing
You're welcome 😊 #Believe - Feb
this is an amazing video, changed my way of thinking my friends.
Glad you enjoyed it #Believe :) #BTA1542 Veljko
Glad you enjoyed it Syed!
Believe nation you nailed it. Great choice to share and collaborate with.
Glad you enjoyed it! - Mani from 2000 Books
That's good to hear :) #BTA1283 Luka
Thanks for teaching. I love you
You're welcome Chann. Thanks for watching! 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon
Morocco. Wanna thank you for your explanation. easy to understand and really helpful and cleans up a lot of scratched ideas I've had . All the respect for the effort
You're welcome! Thank you for the support! #Believe 💪😊💛 - Ahmed
This is awesome....I now understand faults I have made while communicating with others...
_I will implement these rules now onwards_
Thankyou so much..
Thanks for watching :) #BTA1466 Veljko
Awesome!
Dale Carnegie was a genius. His books are awesome and genuine from the heart ❤️
True. 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon
@@EvanCarmichael agree first.
This is great! Thank you for posting this video!!!
You're welcome, much love. 😊💛 #Believe - Feb
OMG! This helped me sooooo much. Thank you!
Glad to know it helped, much love. 😊💛 #Believe - Feb (from Evan’s team)
I think you just did all these things to ME in this video. It worked. I subscribed :)
Welcome aboard! #Believe :) #BTA1606 Veljko
Really good content and very easy to follow. Presentation is impeccable !! You really made it so much easier for me to understand :) I struggle with approaching people without sounding like I am pushing them to buy or subsribe... Your teaching is going to make me so much more at ease :) World changer !!! Thanks
Appreciate your feedback. Thanks for watching. #Believe - Feb
A very fine video indeed, thank you very much!!
You're welcome, glad to know you liked it. 😊 #Believe - Feb
Really awesome .....whole summary explained very well in just an single video. Its takes so much effort to gather information and sort out the important and essentials things to give out to audience
Glad that you liked it. Thanks for watching 💛😊 #Believe - Ahmed
Many of the points may seem counterintuitive but do make sense when you look at things through the eyes and emotions of those people that you are interacting with and hoping to enlist their cooperation. Thanks again for another great presentation.
I agree! And I am so glad you enjoyed it :) - Mani from 2000 Books
Mani from 2000 Books thank you for your response. I appreciate it as it shows respect for those people that take the time to listen to and comment on your videos. Thanks again for your presentation.
@@bonkahermitakaintjudge9228 You are welcome, my man!
Thanks again guy
Much love :) #BTA1283 Luka
I’m inspired😊❤️
Love it! - Mani from 2000 Books
Glad to hear that :) #BTA1283 Luka
Great video. Thanks for sharing.
Glad you enjoyed it Jim! - Mani from 2000 Books
Glad you like it :) #BTA1283 Luka
Thanks for the summary! Absolutely clear, informative! (paused the video on each chapter in order to memorize). Honestly, one of the best educative videos on CZcams!:)
You're welcome, glad you liked it. 😊 #Believe - Feb
👌Useful video 👍
#shrisha
#shrishafoundation
This book is unbelievable. 🙏👌
It indeed is :) - Mani from 2000 Books
Thanks for watching Danny :) #BTA1283 Luka
@@EvanCarmichael Never heard of the Channel 2000 books before. I already checked it out and its great.
think this is a great and inspiring Summary of this book . it makes me want to reread this book
SO glad you enjoyed it Richard :)
:) #BTA1283 Luka
I already do these... I'm thankful for the good people I met in middle school who.. by association taught me what it means to be a good friend
Thanks for watching! 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon
Awesome. Thanks guys!
Glad that you liked it. Thanks for watching 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon
Kindly make book summary on the book"the one thing" by Gary Keller....
I will talk to Evan about it :) - Mani from 2000 Books
You need to work on your influence skills... you missed the whole point of this book.. you should say thank you for posting this nice video, before asking for something that you would.
Currently reading this book! it is amazing so far
Lindsey Spiteri Bellizzi me too
It is awesome! - Mani from 2000 Books
Glad to hear that :) #BTA1283 Luka
Thanks for sharing, very insparing.
You're welcome. Glad you are feeling inspired. 😊💛 #Believe - Feb
Thank you many thanks sir
You're welcome! Glad to know you liked it. Thank you for watching! 😊 #Believe - Feb
Best summary ever!!!
Glad you liked it. Thanks for the support. 😊 #Believe - Feb
We ❤️ Evan
I've heard better
agree
Hai
I like this
Awesome! - Mani from 2000 Books
Glad to hear that :) #BTA1283 Luka
Well made and easy to follow. Thanks for your insight on influencing people
You're welcome. Glad you enjoyed it. 🥰 #Believe - Feb
Thank you for this powerful meditation love your work Dr Joe ❤️
You're welcome, Jesse. Glad it resonated with you 😊 #Believe - Feb
I wish someone would listen to me. I'm always the listener.
💛😊 #Believe - Dondon
You earn their ears when you do great things. By then when you speak, they will listen.
I feel like the biggest challenge in applying these principles is to remain genuine.
At least try #Believe :) #BTA1641 Veljko
Amazing! Thnx a lot
Glad you like it :) #BTA1364 Veljko
thanx for this additional knwoledge. its motivates me a lot
Glad you're feeling motivated #Believe :) #BTA1637 Veljko
Aaaaw hope my son will turn out like you. 😃
Thank you.... I hope he does!
:) #BTA1283 Luka
Let him be the one he can be without any influence. He might be inspiration of others rather than taking inspiration from others.
Hey does anyone know what animation tool Evan uses for these videos?? Pls let me know
We did this video and used videoscribe for it
@@2000Books thanks man. I am a huge fan of your works
@@jimiayoayo Thanks for the support!
@@2000Books Pls is the videoscribe free?
This is the clearest and most logical explanation I have ever heard in my life. Thank you
You're welcome, much love. 😊💛 #Believe - Feb
Great work... Thank you.
Glad you like it #Believe :) #BTA1555 Veljko
Do a top 10 on Freddie Murcury?
Thank you very much for your suggestion but it would be great if you could post your request under this video: czcams.com/video/0arZb0xLIDM/video.html If more people would vote or like your request and there are available videos/clips for it, we might do a Top 10 rules video for it. Much love. :) #BelieveNation #BTA1283 Luka
Is this video complete? Or should I consume the whole book or audiobook?
For it to fully satisfy you, you need to read it. Imagine me telling you what my good taste like, it wouldn’t satisfy you unless you consumed it yourself.. you digg😉
really good advices !!! love it
Indeed. Thanks for watching. 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon