Bothering A Babysitter
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- čas přidán 20. 03. 2023
- The plaintiff says the defendant hired her to babysit her three kids, but she crossed a line with her behavior. The plaintiff claims the defendant would call her in the middle of the night to talk about sexual exploits. The plaintiff is suing for wages she’s still owed. The defendant says the plaintiff didn’t do a good job, and she’s not paying her any more.
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The defendant is shady. She definitely took advantage and hoped that the plaintiff wouldn’t stand up for herself because she’s young.
they look the same age.
@@kyoto32001 the plaintiff just turned 20! The defendant looks to be in her late 20s or 30s. Old enough to have kids and a career.
@@lydimae3810 she looks old.
@@kyoto32001 12:46
She's weak. I was young and stood up for myself to ANYONE. The plaintiff is weak.
As a nurse, the defendant should KNOW that HIPPA only applies to patients' health information, NOT TO YOU NURSING CONTRACT! I'm a nurse, I wouldn't trust her as far as I could throw her! SHAME ON YOU LADY! SHAME!
FACTS!!!
She is is a caretaker something different than nurse
Yes!!! That assertion made me laugh. I was surprised the judge didn't put her in her place, but I guess ultimately it was irrelevant.
I came back here to say this !
Exactly! The minute she said that about HIPAA, she lost all credibility. From a retired nurse as well.👩⚕️
They are both absolutely beautiful, however, it does seem like the 20 year old was a pushover. When the defendant said "She started setting boundaries", that's the real reason she fired her. It's plain as day. Don't withhold her hard earned money.
You are spot on…
I was looking for this comment. She fired her because she finally set boundaries.
That's exactly what I was going to say. Once the plaintiff decided she needs boundaries the defendant was like " he'll no".
One thing I hated is that it seemed like she looked down on the girl. "I have a career" she said that a few times. No one should ever looked down on no matter what job they have. You're no better than anyone else.
Unfortunately not very smart people think they are smart when a pushover shows up.
An intelligent human being never takes advantage of weaker people.
@@Web19814 Well said!
She was mad because the plaintiff was asking for her money. Congrats on standing her ground
@@howtoleavetheusaand how is she wrong when she ISN’T wrong??! Explain this please.
The defendant thought by firing her the plaintiff would go away. Nurse plaintiff, the text about “having sex before marriage “ adding in religion was wrong. Not an opportunity to show your feelings about your possibility bias attitudes!. Wow! Disrespectful!
Anybody who walks up to me and says “You have great energy, would you like to babysit”…I’m immediately going to walk away from them. I’d be terrified of anybody whose only requirement for a babysitter is “great energy”.
She did say she shadowed her for a few weeks before leaving her kids home alone with her.
Right! That's a strange place to find a babysitter.
Yup. Sounds like a vampire..
@@traceyaz125 Exactly. It's not like she just brought the girl around her kids and left them alone together right after.
@@traceyaz125 Ok, but still I need more credentials and history than just meeting someone in a store and saying “you have great energy”.
The defendant is a bully. You used that young lady and then got mad. She had ZERO proof to back up anything.
Yep. She thought she could get a 20 year old to nanny so she could easily boss her around and didn’t like it when she finally stood up for herself.
Totally agree with you that defendant is a bully and mean and condescending and rude but I saw the mother was looking at her and the mother was not happy with how that lady treating her daughter by the way. Just also the young lady that was a babysitter she is so so beautiful and I think the one was jealous that she had a little boyfriend
I agree!
The defendant wanted a free ride, free house cleaning and free babysitting and she's surprised she lost.
Ppl like her are slave drivers MOST PPL WHO hire nannies expect more of their nannies then just caring for their brats most ppl cant handle their brats thts why they get help I WORKED AS A NANNY I was pushed to do more and more for less and less $ I was SEXUALLY harassed treated like crap by extended family I was summoned to be stupid because I'm from the southern u.s she even bragged on tht the moms was anorexic it was hell I walked out on them she called ALL OF MY FRIENDS AND BAD MOUTHED ME IN THE END
It sounds more like she wanted a full time nanny than a sitter, if she was expecting care, cleaning, laundry, chores, etc--
Her mother made her stand up for herself. Thank you mom
It’s sad when a person thinks their “job title” or profession entitles them to treat people like crap!
Beck's I would not want her to be my nurse just saying
@@naomiwilliams1310the amount of people who only go into nursing for the money is startling
😂😂😂 congress
Those nurses (the ones I work with) are snobs, lazy complainers, who gossip about the patients in the hall where the other “support” staff can here.. With their current sneakers on..👟
The defendant is ridiculous. She said that she’s a nurse. Would she continue showing up to her job if she didn’t get her earned paycheck?? Yet she wanted to string this young lady along and ask her to keep working for no pay… Horrible!
Judge asked her why didn't u pay her for the 2weeks she replied she didn't come in Monday. That's 1 day what about the other 13 even if that was true witch there was no evidence of smh
@@NOCALGooN916 the plaintiff only worked 3 days per week so she wouldn’t have owed her for 13 she would have owed her 5 if she missed 1 Monday.
The defendant looks ANGRY
And she is a nurse who doesn't understand HIPAA. The HIPAA law does not cover your contract. There is no private health information in your employment contract. But even if there was you have every right to share your health information to whoever you want to. HIPAA is to prevent others from share your info not for you sharing anything you want to.
I’m guessing she is using the term “nurse” loosely
There is no way that plaintiff is acting any of this. You can tell she's very naive and is a people pleaser. The defendant took full advantage of her and made stuff up about her.
That nurse acts like she is the only nurse with kids. Shame on her!
Is she a nurse though. 😂
@@juliegill9322 that’s the real question. 🤔
@@juliegill9322 lol
@@alfredopomales7286 no.. she got hipaa wrong telling everyone that actually went to any type of med school she lying. Most likely a care taker and just wanted to sound good? 😅
@@juliegill9322she is stay jealous because you’re not
The nerve of the defendant, she was basically paying plaintiff $5 dollars an hour to watch her 3 brats. If she wanted a nanny/ maid that’s what she should have hired! She also tried to manipulate text messages to her advantage and should be ashamed that she took advantage of this girl.
She was paying her $11 not $5 😂😂
Try not to call the kids brats because they didn’t do anything.
@@jamesflaherty9190 11$ is still shit for babysitting. she should have stuck with 20$ a hour
@@Hi-nl2jg Duh I know that! Your math was just wrong. And no she needs $25 an hour!
She said that was only half the pay, the children's father also paid 333 per week.
I think the defendant is a cheapskate and lied through her teeth. The plaintiff is a sweetheart. She was hired as a babysitter not a housecleaner. Different entities all together. Boo hoo I am a nurse, my job is so stressful. I am a RN emergency nurse as well and don't cry like her. I love my chaotic job.
You are a heroine
This "nurse" prob saw the paycheck
Thank you for all you do. Seriously. I’m a congenital heart defect patient. It was the nurses that got me through the two major surgeries I had. ❤
Indeed! I work in a hospital on regular basis doing creative finish to the doors and handrails. I see up close, such a dedicated nursing team and I'm there working into wee hours to minimize my presence, but they're always friendly, enthusiastic, upbeat and will take time to compliment my work (I don't expect that but I do appreciate it😊). I tell them honestly, it's really in honor of them & the patients!...to my way of thinking, too often, doctors get the "spotlight" that nurses truly deserve. 💗🌷
Indeed !! The plaintiff is a sweetheart and sadly became a pushover. Hopefully she gets a backbone and stands up for herself so she won’t get take advantage of by anybody.
The defendant… girl don’t get me started. First of all is she even a real nurse 🤣 because what she said about HIPAA isn’t even true
@ bass D#min everyone's not the same. Just because you don't find it stressful doesn't mean she can't. Hate people with this mentality. It's like saying I don't get a headache when I drink coffee, so if you do, you're just being dramatic.
The plaintiff is so cute. She comes off so innocent and pure. She needs to be a Disney princess at Disney.
I don't believe her act AT ALL. She totally has a whole other side to her.
@@spacecase8791 I agree. I just think that's how she comes off, but I think the defendant had a great point when she stated that it's an act and that she's different in real life.
I was thinking the same thing. Yes she’s so cute and beautiful but there’s definitely a shady side.
@Tatyanaz World hahaha my name is Tatiana
I agree!
Your nursing contract isn't covered by HIPPA. It covers patient information so unless your contract is with a patient it wouldn't be a HIPPA concern 😂
Exactly. I just think she didn’t want to discuss her contract and the real reason she was terminated.
Everyone brings up HIPPA..scary they don't know what it really is
Yeah but it’s HIPAA
She sounded either incompetent or manipulative
Judge didn't pick up on that...she must be unfamiliar with the topic
The plaintiff seems so sweet and humble. I think the defendant did lose her mind-again.
Yr blind..the defendant is the real one
LMAO
@@xoxo9354lol this must be the defendant from her burner account lol
@Grwm_adrielle She's a gold digger!
I would date her without a second's hesitation were I younger. Gorgeous and caring young lady.
The defendant literally cites "she started putting up boundaries in her life" as a reason she fired that girl. Yeah. She made you respect her and the work she does for you!
Hippa has NOTHING to do with what she is saying. Furthermore as an adult with kids you should ALWAYS have a backup. Especially if your work doesn’t allow you to have sick days.
Truth.
"HIPAA, it's health care stuff" That was so obnoxious!
HIPAA has to do with patient’s privacy. Lol not workers. She must have been confused.
@@thelimitdoesnotexist_93 Maybe. I think she probably knew what was going on. She just didn’t want to show them her contract and the real reason she got terminated.
She's obviously not a nurse but a cn a nurse would know this and gets well paid to do their job
Wow she took advantage of that girl!! That girl is too sweet, I hope she gets a bit tougher.
I was a Manny while I was in grad school for 2 boys for 4 years. It was so convenient as I had plenty of time to study and time to spend with the boys. I learned to be a dad taking them to their first day of school, teaching them to swim, play catch, etc. I definitely included doing dishes and cleaning as my job. I even tutored them. I trained the boys to clean. I did the dishes. I wanted their mom to come to home to a clean house as she is a single mother. I thought that was fair as they allowed me to eat whatever they had which really cut down on my bills. She worked hard and spent time with them after work too. I really felt for her bc she couldnt help but miss her boys' milestones. What she paid me wasnt crazy high but it allowed me to live my life comfortably and be able to pay bills. So grateful for them as I can do what I do now bc of their support.
Nice Daniel
Aww that’s so sweet
I was a Manny to my oldest niece and she got me ready when it was my time to be a girl dad
That sounds like a beautiful mutually beneficial situation ☺️ that is wonderful
🥹❤❤❤❤
The plaintiff seemed like the sweetest person ever. The defendant was trying to take advantage of the young lady.
You let that “soft sweet baby voice“ fool you
You are confusing "meek" and "sweet".
Mask or no mask. Personal feelings aside. In this country, if you work you get paid.
@@KweenK07 girl say that. For some reason I don’t trust that girl 😂😂
Why do ppl put whining and sweet together? 😂
As a long time caregiver I can tell you the more you do the more they come to expect and feel it is owed to them. Kudos for the plaintiff standing up for herself ! She is going places
Yep. Most people in the world won’t appreciate your hard work,they will just come to expect it and demand more and more from you.
In the future, the plaintiff and the defendant need to have a detailed contract of the work hours, pay rate, and responsibilities of the babysitter.
That would be better than the way they did it. Have everything in writing!
Sounds like the defendant wanted a nanny
💯even if it's family cover your asz with all that detailed
They better not have future contact!! The best time shell retaliate worse
@@toniiblack7014 The defendant will most likely need childcare in the future from someone else. It's best she has a detailed contract.
i also was hired by a crazy mom who didnt pay me when i was 16, i called out one day and she fired me and i never got paid, im happy for the plantiff
FR I am so over the struggling single Mother BS when they usually get TONS of handouts and then start to expect it😂
I bet you started standing up for yourself, good lesson for a 16 year old.
@@payableondeath9091my mom was a single mom and never got a handout. Don’t generalize.
Yeah, taking care of kids is a stressful job, especially when you don't get paid. Shady AF.
It’s interesting how Judge Milian often seems very concerned about how things went south between the litigants personally. Judge Judy would be like “I’m not Dr. Phil!!!”
The defendant is shady AF, but the plaintiff needs to grow a back bone. If she doesn’t ,she’s going to be taken advantage of her whole life . 🤷🏻♀️
Well she’s only 20. A lot of people haven’t learned how to stand their ground at that point. This definitely seemed like a learning experience for her
She did have a backbone that's why she sued and got paid
@@cazzraz1164 i understand and agree with what you are saying 😄
@@cherubcherrycola2382 thank u some people wants everything to be violence
@@Orlandoloc83 who the heck said anything about violence?!? Hahaha 🤣🤣you really crazy. You can have a backbone and stand up for yourself VERBALLY, without assaulting someone.
HIPPA deals with patient privacy. I’m a dentist. Her nursing contract has NOTHING to do with HIPPA. Come on….
HIPAA*
The plaintiff seems so innocent and nice. I believe her over the defendant.
‘Seems’ nice. 😂you don’t her. She could be just faking this whole image and voice
The Plaintiff is sunshine. So radiant and beautiful. The defendant is shady. She probably thought the defendant wouldn’t stand up for herself. She is a liar and took advantage of her…
The defendant’s whole demeanor is off. From the time the case started to the end she just looked mean. And then to think someone would want to work from 5AM -5PM and you not pay them is crazy .
Poor plaintiff shes young and seems very sweet. I hope she does eventually begin to stand up to people
Gorgeous inside and out
When you're nice, people take advantage. The defendant was lucky to find that young lady in the first place.
No, you get taken advantage of when you have no boundaries
Yeah, my dad was Mr Nice Guy, and it worked very well for him. We was known and respected in the community, church, and both his professions. I tried being like him, and it blew up in my face, and ended up abused amd with a ruined reputation in my hometown. Now I live in Texas, and I often can't keep up with the friendly locals
“People can put on a good act in front of you.” She says while trying to put on a good act in front of her. I hope she’s a better nurse than she is human being. #ShadyAsHell
Yeah I caught that too. Bet you she’s wishing she had Fernando back!
She only cares about her contract money as a nurse. And them contract nurses be getting payaid especially during the height of Covid. She could afford to pay her! she just thought someone should watch her kids for free!
I dought she's a good nurse with her additude and character
Y’all don’t even know her tho lol the hate is so real.
@@perfectlyimperfect9129doubt
She wasn’t hired to be a cleaner. That lady was definitely taking advantage of her smh
The defendant is completely shady.
I think she needs to pay double!!!
The Defendant took advantage of that young lady. I'm glad she won her case.
The "watch this.." from JM always gets me😂😂😂😂
HIPPA? Come on now a nurse she know better than that.
I was thinking the same thing. She needs to brush up on her medical law terminology.
You can tell the plaintiff is such a sweetheart so to see her get treated like this upsets the hell out of me.
The babysitter sounds so sweet. The mother totally took advantage of her.
This defendant is so fortunate she got this quiet non-confrontational baby sitter. She is losing her mind!!
I'm only like 2 minutes in and I can already tell the defendant is in the wrong this plaintiff sounds so nice and innocent lmao
Sounds is the key word. I think she was putting on a slight act but she was probably a decent person overall.
That whining crap is aggravating. Not sweet sounding.
She putting on an act
Shidddd she far from innocent. Women like her be wild on the low.
@@richierich8420 yup!
$333 for 30 hours is around $10 per hour, to take care of 3 kids. Absolutely not 😂
And the defendant was in the wrong by calling the sitter during the night talking about her sex life. Sounds like the defendant is missing something.
morals, integrity, conscience . . . .
Yes! She's missing Fernando 😂😂😂
@@looknbakatu you forgot boundaries and RESPECT
@@Ms_O 🤣💀😂
As well as a functioning brain.
The defendant saw a meek woman in the plaintiff, and thought she could take advantage of her. That's creepy af.
I looooooooooove the after court interviews! They are so entertaining, funny and cute!
Dang, where do I find a person like her that will watch my kids, clean my house & do errands for me all for one low price!! Seriously, if you owe someone that worked for you, then you OWE them! You can’t say you aren’t gonna pay them cause you feel like they disrespected you, got sassy, etc!! Tough crap! Just pay them so you don’t look like a dirty cheater & liar & then try to find another sucker to do all you want for one set amount!! Lol!!!
🤣usually young ppl get suckered bcuz they don't know any betta
15:38
17:11
At the grocery store apparently
Plaintiff is / has learned through this experience to set her boundaries so good for her💯
Now, let me say this..not long after turning 18, I decided to skip college, move in with my boyfriend, and become a nanny. The first family I was a nanny for had 5 children. At 18! And they fully expected me to run their entire house while mom and dad worked full time! After getting overwhelmed with keeping up with their house and activities, they had the audacity to fire me. They only paid me $300 a week…I feel bad for this girl!
Girl no that’s should be 1200 a week u should sue
$300 😮
Wow she was babysitting 3 kids for $11 an hour. Oh heck no!
She hired the young lady just to manipulate her and she seems very intelligent she’ll be fine I’m glad she won
I'm proud of this plaintiff as if I'm her mama. She didn't let the defendant get away without paying her. Congrats!
The defendant just looks vexed. I pray she can get rest. She just seems miserable.😢
Nursing is no joke. She looks burned out. Especially balancing 3 kids. She needs help.
This, and she knew in her heart that she was wrong. You could tell that she was embarrassed. When the judge started quoting the weeks, you could see the deflation.
She needs to pay the girl smh
Even if the plaintiff was putting up a soft front that's how you conduct yourself in court!
How about the fact that she didn’t even know her.. she just walked up to a random stranger at a grocery store and was like hey do you want watch my kids.. lol
Background check genius!! She was with me weeks before she was alone with them.
This young lady was raised right. Great job mom! I know the defendant was lying about her throwing the car seat. You can tell by her reaction.
The defendant is a manipulative narcissist and bc the plaintiff is so sweet and passive, she really tried to get over. I’m so happy the plaintiff stood up for herself and won her case.
Hippa involves ppls personal Healthcare info not the contract between you and your contractor
😂 I’m embarrassed for her
Sidebar: Plaintiff must have made the cutest baby !! She has a doll face and the voice to match lol
She's just the cutest, I can't even imagine the cuteness of a lil baby her! Doll face is such a perfect description!
Hilarious that the initial defendant statement says something about after the plaintiff got a boyfriend she no longer cleaned the defendants house. I love how it was never actually brought up as a defense after Judge Milan commented how the plaintiff shouldn’t be doing a job she wasn’t hired for. I hear parents say many times in these court shows how they get upset because the babysitter doesn’t have dinner ready, have clothes done or the house isn’t clean. Truly, the amount of delusion some people possess is astounding.
I think they're both FOS. The plaintiff clearly said MOST TIMES they spoke in person. The judge was too aggressive to the defendant asking questions and not letting her answer. I'd be flustered too. 🙄
Okay and look at how the plaintiff is changing her voice and turning on her tears. Girl!😂
I wish I was the plaintiffs older sister because I would've chose violence because you can tell she's a sweetheart
Good for the plaintiff! I can't believe the defendant expected her to work for free!
defendant is TRIFLING, A USER & A LOWLIFE!🤔🤨🤔; plaintiff, such a Sweet person, She will go far with such a positive attitude!🥰
As soon as I saw the defendant's attitude from the first camera shot, that was all i needed to know lol!
She is mad because people are setting boundaries 😂 those are your kids so pay the lady
Happy Tuesday y’all! 🎉
Happy Tuesday Susie 🎉
I get that the plaintiff was owed money, but there was no reason for her to call the police! 🙄
Nah, defendant deserved it. 😂
I don't trust these syrupy sweet types.
She didn’t call the police. She went into the police station and asked for advice.
The plaintiff looks very polite. I dont see anything bad with her. She was sick. How can the defendant be mad if she doesnt work. Its crazy.
Defendants work contract in healthcare is not bound by HIPPA guidelines.
HIPPA has only to do with patient confidentiality and only apply to defendant and her interactions with patients related to their healthcare.
They're both a sandwich short of a picnic, manipulative, and bending the truth. The plaintiff's incessant nodding and whiney princess voice, the defendant's excessive details and jumping around trying to cloud the story. Who hire's a babysitter off the street and who accepts a babysitting job off if it?
That lady is so sweet sad when good people get taken advantage of smh
The plaintiff looks like a sweet Disney princess. The defendant is the evil queen.
Good one 😂
i mean im gong to get mad if someone doesnt pay me after 2 weeks of work..like cmon..
That baby sitter is a very sweet girl and you can tell she is very humble and helpful
Plaintiff is putting it on thick. She is owed money sure but it's these types that are really vengeful.
Sound like the defendant was exploiting the plaintiff timidness and making her work extra from the job scope. Once the plaintiff stood for herself and try to set boundaries that when the problem begin. Defendant probably didn't expect the plaintiff to sue and get away with not paying once she terminate the work. Most likely she is gonna hire another pushover baby sitter and do the same allover again.
Defendant wants to believe she a boss and is to important to do her own domestic so she hiring she people she can't actually afford smh lol
Plaintiff has the sweetest voice.
What a sweet lady! I’d be happy to have her watch my kids if I had any!
$333 a week working 12 hour days????? Where??? Poor girl was being USED
she was getting paid another portion from the father. this is what the defendant owes her
The look of disgust that Def had at 1:40 when Plaintiff said "I do love children" told me all I needed to know.
Defendant was so negative. She may be overwhelmed with her kids and her job but she treated the plaintiff like crap. Plaintiff seems like she grew up really sheltered. I can related.
This case was a little jucier than I expected!😊
Sometimes I don’t like this judge because all she does is talk all over people
The defendant is the worst liar 😂 she was making absolutely no sense.
The plaintiff is a sweetheart. The way she speaks has so much manners. Her mom raised her with manners. Although, she does need to stand up for herself but her demeanor is respectful
THE defendant did NOT want to pay her ,she had to MANY excuses and lies.GRRR.Defendant is also Jealous of this young Lady with very good manners.Makaila has to more ASSERTIVE NOW and Forever!!!
Jealous why!? The defendant is just as beautiful!
I feel bad for the plaintiff because I feel like the defendant did her wrong. Everything she says feels like a lie. That and how she kept making it seem like the plaintiff was harassing her and literally all her texts match up to what she is saying. Girl bye. I'm glad everything worked out for the plaintiff. I hope she will be more cautious in her future adventures.
Melissa, are you outta your mind? You have to pay up when someone did work for you.
Every time she tried to sound like she was going to cry no tears every flowed
Yeah, things started to go bad when you didn't bother to pay her and expected her to show up still.
"You have good energy" meant "You're young and easy to exploit." Glad the plaintiff won.
Aww I want the plaintiff to work for me. I don’t want her to change who she is but she needs to be more vocal.
That defendant is a liar and a drama queen.
Pay that girl her money!
As a caregiver...I can say client's will try to take advantage. I've had previous client's that used me to lift heavy wooden bookcases. I'm talking extremely heavy furniture.
Caregiver's and babysitters are NOT maid's. Also, any true professional knows HIPPA pertains to patient information.
The defendant is a shady lier. She wanted a maid.
As soon as the Plaintiff started speaking, I was like, VERDICT FOR THE PLAINTIFF!
I want to dip her in my coffee! She's so adorable!!!!
Pretty pretty girl but Voice was pretty annoying too tbh
Thank God you aren't a judge.
@@jcymngo yuup.
She called the police for what again? GTFOH ma'am.
Yeah, I am the only one in the comments who thinks the plaintiff is annoying and whiny... "I was overwhelmed"! I had an employee like her once who would take off at the slightest bit of discomfort and whine about it later...
Yeah she needs to grow up
I mean someone is not paying you. What else you supposed to do? Just suck it up ?
yes police do have jurisdiction to contact anybody (following evidence) to tell them to cease cyberbullying, lol