Some people NEED to be single to better themselves BEFORE entering into a relationship. Some of us don't know how to communicate or LISTEN with out reacting. Meditate , pray daily, focus on the NOW...raise your vibration
I needed to be single for 35 years, before entering my first relationship this year. So it's never too late. Also, i don't need the relationship. People don't nééd a partner. People should first learn to be perfectly fine on their own, only then can a relationship be a healthy addition to your life, not an integral part. And for some this might take a short while, for others years, decades... I really think we look at relationships in a very unhealthy way, as something that you must have to be complete.
@@Sydebern Thing is there are alot of people who are perfectly fine on their own then they get into a relationship (like happens naturally) and they feel even better. Then when they lose that person they go into a depression like state for awhile, because they had something they didn't even knew they thought they needed or wanted. Plus being with that person could help them discover something about themselves that they need to work on that they hadn't noticed before.
@@blackkyurem720 Depends on how these people spend their lives when they were single. Did they just pursue worldy ambitions, or have they explored their existence? With the latter i mean, did they have some kind of spiritual awakening? If not, they will probably be devastated by the loss of their partner. If you do not derive happiness from within, which is the source of happiness, you will be bound by objects, experiences and relationships for your happiness. And by the nature of those, you will lose all of them. In my case, i am in a LAT relation right now. I see my girlfriend about 5 days in the month, the rest of the time it is as it always was. I can say without a doubt that i will be totally fine when for some reason this relationship ends. Of course, i will be very sad about it for a while, but i love being on my own and i am happy on my own so i will be fine. The problem lies in really believing that you need the other. That is a false belief that binds you to that person. It makes your happiness conditional, dependent. Of course i do love being with my girlfriend and she is a great "addition" to my life (if you can say it like that). But she's all extra. I don't need her and i let her know that. I'm fine without her. I just like to share my happiness with her and she hers with me.
@Nik Built Something It has to do with your mood. Depression, anger, hate, for example are low vibrational states. Happiness, joy, love, are high vibrational. It all exists on a spectrum. It's the frequency of consciousness.
That is advice for women. For men you can't be advising them to not have sex. At least tell them to visit some prostitute in the meanwhile! The bare minimum.
The reason why so many people find relationships so hard nowadays is we live in an extremely narcissistic culture. People feel like no one is good enough for them. And when they see someone they think IS good enough for them, THAT person thinks THEY'RE not good enough.
Be HAPPY!!!😃 BEING SINGLE IS FREEDOM!!! Having FRIENDS IS HEALTHY IF TRUSTWORTHY, TRUTHFUL, Caring:Looking AFTER EACH OTHER Is important! (Care for each others LIVES with REGARDS & TRUTH!!!✌🔎🔑🔑🏆🏆🎼🎶Honesty.
I am a couple weeks from turning 54, Single and no children and all I have to say is, I love my life and the PEACE that comes with it. Being in love is a beautiful thing, but being Single and at peace is even more more beautiful!💕
I think its to each its own. Its a different type of peace to be in real love and share a life with somone else its more soothing to be held than to be alons unless ur in an abusive relationship thats a different story..
Wow!! You must have the natural grace to be single and have that peace. I'm single too and find that I'm complete in Christ first. However, I don't intend to be single for the rest of my life. I've always wanted a husband, my own family and a home. I believe relationships make you grow, learn and develop as a person. It's about meeting someone who's mature and confident in themselves and knows what they want that complements you and vice versa. Once we have a mutual respect for one another we can get on with life and all it's ups and downs. I'd rather experience this with my husband than on my own. I don't believe anyone wants to grow older alone?! That's just my thoughts. 😊
@@michaelangst6078 THIS is ABSOLUTELY not true!! There are many of us who do not and will not fuck someone over Period!! Look for better quality people
Dallas LeMons I totally agree with you. Each of us is responsible for our own happiness. We never want to put the key to our happiness in someone else’s pocket. (Unless he’s gorgeous & wearing tight jeans🤣, just kidding!) Rhetorically speaking who wants to hook up with an unhappy someone? Our happiness shines from the inside out & enhances our beauty. We have to authentically be like who we want to attract. Stefan knows his stuff!!! *Stephan
I did some of my best healing while in my previous relationship. People shouldn't be scared to enter relationships if we don't feel 'healed'. It is dangerous to think we have to be a perfect human before we enter a relationship. The best foundation for a relationship is the willingness for both parties to grow on their own and together in the partnership. I wouldn't be the woman I am today without the 6.5 years of my last relationship. Relationships can also be catalysts for your own growth. Get rid of perfectionism and needing to be 'healed' first.... That can be dangerous and toxic. We learn about ourselves through our interactions with others x
Something my brother-n-law said to me one day. He said “ being in a relationship is really not about the other person, it’s more about learning who you are”. Meaning when you enter into these relationships you learn what your going to put up with and what you’re not going to put up with” I have to agree. It’s just some things I’m not going to except. Period
We are all viewing each other through a filtered lens. Social media has blinded us to what people truly are. Heck, I barely recognize women anymore because I'm used to seeing them through filters used in all their pictures, and men are showing the highlight reel and not the daily grind. We all have to start being honest with ourselves and each other. I had to take a break and focus on God and myself because it is getting to crazy out there.
I totally agree. I refuse to filter my personal pictures anywhere. Unless it's clearly and obviously a picture that is part of my photography portfolio and the picture is clearly meant as art. I respect and appreciate your opinions. I feel like the second we created an entirely new vernacular for our current behavior and approach (and exit) to relationships in this day and age. I've chosen to just chill with me because I like my company. And I am truly impressed with your choice as well. Stay righteous. 😁
For myself self love is having a before bed skin care routine, using essential oils on my bedsheets for better sleep, running first thing in the morning so I can hear my breath and my heart beat, reading my positive/inspiring notes after, placing one hand on my heart and saying to myself “Kasia I love you”, meditating for 30min before I have to face difficult situation/conversation, eating healthy, drinking green tea-my body is my home, being attentive to the energy and remove myself from toxicity, accepting and allowing every emotion to run through me without judgement, list 5 things I am grateful for at the end of each day.
I was dating a guy and it was after dating him for 2 months. I learned a lot ,by listening to him. He was fresh out of a 6 yr on and off relationship. He wasn't emotionally ready for a new relationship. Because he hasn't healed. He is emotionally constipated. Unfortunately, I knew he wasn't relationship material. I broke it off and I feel so much better.
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My Relationship Blogs archangelcleo.blogspot.com/2019/12/my-relationship-blogs.html Excerpt from Wikipedia Tinder en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tinder_(app) Nancy Jo Sales wrote in Vanity Fair that Tinder operates within a culture of users seeking sex without relationships. Health officials from Rhode Island and Utah claimed, that Tinder and similar apps are responsible for uptick of some STDs
Transmute your sexual energy into healing and your goals! We must go in as a healthy person for a healthy relationship. We don't want to put our partner to be our therapist. They are not here to make us happy. We need to happy and have self-awareness. Don't under estimate emotional intelligence!
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I need him to do an episode on breaking up. Because they are many people that don't know how to end things with others. Breakups don't have to so ugly.
Breakups also don’t have to be prolonged or avoided. Ppl always fear making that move, once they realize this is the step needed. Breakups also need to be FINAL. No take backs!
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exactly my take the best a couple can do in a break up is try to communicate civilly and be a good listener, i guess 2 ears 1 mouth right. listen 2x as much as you say. ANY break up is going to hurt and scar the key is to MINIMIZE hurt and scarring with a mature civil approach to communicating.
@faith umuk some have no choice because the woman they love and would love to loyally spend forever and more unconditionaly with is unreachable and closed of to them. even breakups can be handled in a civil and somewhat constructive manner I'm guessing.
@faith umuk Good luck. Being single is a long road traveled alone. At least you were married for a long time and experienced it even if you weren't happy.
This interview was truly amazing and insightful. I met my husband on tinder after 3 or 4 years of cycling on and off the app (not using it for a year going back on then deleting again when the results were abismal). My bro also met his wife on tinder btw and they both cycled on and off for a long time before finally finding each other. If you are a genuine person, don't give up hope.
I disagree. I’m single because I’m not settling for BS. Some stuff are out of your control. Even if your in a good space doesn’t mean you have to be in a relationship. I don’t want to be single but I don’t want to be treated like shit either. Which is why I believe single people are more stronger because their not settling. I know a lot of people who are in relationships because they don’t want to be alone. Which is worse. I’m very feminine and get approached by men all the time. It doesn’t make sense to say it’s wrong with single people
@@MichElle-py8lk What I said has little to do with children. It's about a woman's sexual market value. The decline starts around the age of 25 and with each year reduces the quality of man she can get. In general.
Best tips: - Men be masculine, women be feminine - Put yourself first - Set boundaries, no posting underwear selfies online etc. - Communicate, listen an do not get emotional in arguments. - Never go to bed or leave without resolving an argument, ever. - Surprise your loved one now and again, be spontaneous. - Don't obsess over them, especial if you're a man, never make the woman your God. - Make them laugh. - Be sexy for each other - Get in shape together, it's win win. - For men, be a father to your girlfriend/fiance/wife, guide her and love her.
Do you have any tips on how to get over from being mentally abused by friends? Letting big things slide in the past and not talking back when they're disrespecting you?
Too many damage and broken people who didn't take the time to healed then they jump right back into another situationship going around and hurting other people instead of trying to find some self love. Hurt people hurt people. 🤦🏽🤦🏽
I enjoy hearing him talk. he always gives direct responses and tells men and women realistic tips. he's also not in his car telling you how to get a person lol
I would say step six is as follows: find one goal to fulfill. Take flute lessons, learn to drive, take yoga, read a book you have always wanted to do... Do one thing just to prove you can accomplish goals for yourself.
I'm married and some of the best advice I've heard and applied came from a divorced divorce attorney. 🤷🏾♂️ You don't need to be a pro baller to be a good coach.
Transmute your sexual energy into healing and your goals! We must go in as a healthy person for a healthy relationship. We don't want to put our partner to be our therapist. They are not here to make us happy. We need to happy and have self-awareness. Don't under estimate emotional intelligence!
Yh its true, it hurts because I know im broken and currently shouldn't be in a relationship, but it really showed how broken i was when it didn't work out thank god she was understanding I think lol
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God has to be the center of our life in everything we do, specially in the most precious relationship like marriage. Chemistry and looks will fade at some point, so one have to connect in a deeper level, but not just to the other person but to God. Each person should love God more and be complete in Him, because a spouse cannot ever fulfill the emptiness of God in the other person heart. And how can anyone become wiser or make wise decisions without readying the Bible or being connected to God?
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I had connection without chemistry many times. Emotional connection doesn't mean sexual chemistry! I am single as I am not someone I would date at the moment. I don't meet men I would like as I don't live in an area where those men are frequent and at the moment I can't move. I'm fine being single. I was married before, settled, so I will never do that again. Also, I'm not sure I want to live with someone. I would definitely need my own bedroom and space, a lot of space. But the problem with meeting another introvert is quite difficult as they do very well on their own too.
Introvert here, so yes, I confirm it's a lot more difficult for us, because we actually like being alone. Well, many of us. I don't put myself out there, I rarely meet new men, so it's settled: single for life. And I'm fine with that. It's the best choice for me, as an introvert with standards.
Could it be people are introverts because they have had too many bad experiences with people..l dont see how anyone would be introverted if others loved and accepted them
@@user-dp4bu8jy4b I'm not sure you understand the difference between introverts and extroverts. everyone’s nervous system has two modes: parasympathetic and sympathetic. When we use the parasympathetic side (nicknamed the “rest and digest” side), we feel calm and are focused inwardly. Our body conserves energy and withdraws from the environment; muscles relax, energy is stored, and our heart rate and blood pressure slow. The sympathetic side (a.k.a “full throttle”) puts us in a state of fight or flight. Our pressure and heart rate are elevated, we are alert and poised for action. Introverts thrive when they are operating in parasympathetic mode. This is the reason for the constant desire introverts have to be alone. Their desire and pension to engage in quiet, thoughtful activities away from others is not antisocial or moody behavior. It is a physiological need they have that is driven by their brain chemistry and function. When introverts are deprived of their alone time they can experience: Fatigue Mental and physical exhaustion Inability to concentrate Irritability Increased anxiety Depression The causes of introversion and extroversion are directly linked to how our brains operate and respond to neurotransmitters. So the best thing you can do for the introvert that needs time by themselves is to leave them alone.
@@user-dp4bu8jy4b Not really, I was always an introvert, since I was a child, I believe it's more genetic than environmental. Now being shy it's a different story. It may be because of insecurities. Introverts aren't necessarily insecure.
I remember a much respected Pastor once said that a married couple that falls out of LOVE is a married couple that stopped having fun in their relationship
I’m single by choice .. it’s difficult to find someone who gives of themselves 100% towards building a relationship and bond, that I give. So since I have not met that individual.. I default to the choice.
I agree with you, me too. I'm not going into something just to trick myself that I have somebody when I only am with somebody that is not really invested or has feelings.
sharonkanipe I’m Aquarius. We are naturally detached. So relationships aren’t as important, we value friendships more so. We also get hurt and love hard, because we wait a long time to invest in such an endeavor. And when all that time we lost or let’s say a learned a lesson in relationship failures. We tend to remain single as I forementioned. Plus I’m 47. I’ve had plenty of years of marriage experience and relationships. Living my life on my own terms is my mantra till death calls me home . 💋❤️
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I totally self sabotaged my relationship because I wasn't healed. He knew but approached anyway, he told me it was selfish on his behalf but he didn't want to take a chance I'd date someone else. I told him every step of the way.. right person wrong time.. we're in separation, broke up Aug. 7th.. still in contact as friends. I am happier than I've ever been because I had my awakening, healing, self love and forgiveness of my exes and - myself..Thank goodness I seek consult thru the universe and ancestors and I'm a fast learner!!! open and allowing to reconnecting to my great mate be it him or someone else. I've been healing for 5 years with some derailments.
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Mind blown. I was resisting watching this and kept trying to shut down when certain subjects came up. I am so grateful for the info shared. It has shed the mother load of light onto my situation. Single and searching. ❤️
I’m BLOWN AWAY by this interview - it was exactly what I needed, at a personal turning point. I have SO much more perspective now on coming together with someone and thinking about: is the type of person I’m wanting, desiring the type of person that I am? Not just having the attitude of: accept me how I am, flaws & all, I’m amazing!😁 It’s not about vanity but it’s about becoming a truer version of yourself as well, learning from your desire towards someone else! Being the reflection of what you desire...energetically and emotionally. Also I’m going to have a VERY focused & special new moon ceremony tonight- I’m writing letters and identifying those pains to let them go. We’ll see if the letters are sent but I’m committed to healing. Dudes. I love you both so much!!!!
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You are on the money about healing. Now that I've healed, I can see straight to someone's heart. As soon as I see that the person doesn't really like me I quickly get away from that person. People can't hide what's in their heart even with a smile on their face. For the life of me, I can't figure out why people refuse to follow their heart. I can't resist my heart's desire.
I am loving Lewis Howes. He asks the most intelligent questions and dig very deep into the what ifs and core of the real issues. Lewis is the most excellent interviewer who takes me to another level of where my potential and growth can be accelerated. The interview with Sarah Jakes Roberts was amazing. I had it on repeat because you and Sarah awoke the giant within me. Thank you so very much Lewis. I enjoyed this conversation between you both, although I think that there are many people who chose the single life because they just love being single. Its not that they can't find anyone. You are the best on CZcams and I subscribed. I have also shared with family and friends.
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“What if their shoes are wrong?” Hahaha. Love this!! Being single pretty much for the past 4 years has fought me soooo much about myself. Happy being single but would love to be in a healthy relationship... either way is fine. I won’t “settle” just to be in a relationship. Thanks for this!! Much love ❤️
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I so agree with having a deep connection with someone so the relationship has a good chance of surviving. This is why I'm divorced right now; there were no deep soul connection in my marriage. It took me 3 decades to find someone that I spiritually connected with instantly and it happened during my failed marriage. This person and I are not in communication but my heart is with him. Once he heals his heart he will return to his true love. Since we met and connected, no one hasn't even come close to matching the vibration I have with him.
23:55 lmao. I wrote down all my insecurities and then burnt it after writing the opposite traits I decided to have. Unfortunately, I closed the fireplace flute (thinking I was opening it) and all the smoke filled my home where I had to call the fire department. Hahaha
When it takes you months to know if he/she is the right person it’s you over analyzing and trying to convince yourself you made the right choice when you know in your gut feeling (within few minutes of meeting the person) that you didn’t. One knows immediately, the later just doesn’t want to accept defeat, but calls it determination to make it work... the only hard work we should be having is the inner work, not the trying hard to make the relationship work because you’re trying too hard to change the other person...
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I am taking all of these steps to heal me after a death of a spouse who I manifest in my life. I stayed to long in this relationship. Now I am free and free to love another for I know the tell tell signs as to weather is coming to via the Devine. Haven't read your book but I am doing the work.
Self care vs. Self love. There is a huge difference. Sometimes self love requires doing difficult things for your growth. Getting a pedicure or purchasing something for yourself isn't difficult but gratifying.
I read a book a long time ago that said “what makes us think that if one f*^d up person meets another f*^d up person we can creat a whole relationship…..totally resonated with me
Single women like me desire and pray for a Godly marriage and long term relationship. Being previously married and together with my ex for 13 years, I understand what a man needs and tried to go above and beyond for him. He was abusing me so I got out. I have been divorced for a while and single trying to date and choosing the wrong men and trying to do it on your own is part of what is keeping me single. I am trying to do it on my own. So God is keeping me single for His purposes. He is making me desire my relationship with him first. So no, it’s not me in my season right now. I want and desire a partner in my life-I am simply just not ready right now and need to heal. God is showing me this. It’s just not my time to be in a relationship right now in this season.
I agree with what Stephan said about willing to make changes to better themselves. At the same time we are in the hookup culture and it’s not making things easier for people who want healthy relationships and marriages.Everyone is out for themselves.
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Please don't take me as I am because I grow every day and changes of improvement is on the rise of greatness... 💪 Strong relationships not only with a partner but with my family, friends and who ever come in contact. I have one first-time impression so I make it my best to be in a positive state 😌 energy is so real.....
People who are single who have been in relationships and have experience different situations hopefully have learned and so are able to pick up quicker on signs that wake them up and help them to make sensible choices!! Some might say that means they are damaged people but people who have learned from bad relationships are not damaged they are aware!!
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I've seen this before and just watched it again. I Love Stephan's answer and the end when asked if he was seeing someone or still single. His answer is exactly how I feel 🙏🏽❤️
i had a connection like that but i wasn't attracted to her. it was a deep connection but missed that spark for me. she had a highschool sweetheart boyfriend at the time but our connection was crazy. he found our texts and flipped out. so we broke it off, which really sucked, and they got married shortly after. we could not have been friends because it just made no sense long term. it was so weird.
It’s been about a year since my ex and I broke up but to this day I still feel she’s that one for me. Everything was genuine, we instantly connected etc... it was just the wrong time for me I wasn’t in the best space. I pray the universe let us cross paths again once I’m where I need to be. She was a great woman
well I would say that being a woman who has been dating women in the last several years, statistics are against me along with all the other complexities it brings (people exploring etc), although I for sure have things to work on. The issue I have right now is I've taken the time to heal, work on myself, figure out what I want - everyone I'm meeting just seems down for casual, got out of a serious relationship or exploration and I'm very secure in saying I want a relationship but having been single for 8 years, it's not just anyone - as in people hear relationship and freak out at just the word but I'm not going to jump into just any relationship. If the fact that I want an actual meaningful connection scares you, then ya leave
I’m 17 years single, age 46, got my 2 girls, grandson n still got granddaughter on the way!!!! Single is brilliantly beautiful! Took me 8 years to tolerate me. So me happy u happy we happy!🙏🏼💙👊
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My brother walked into a church and saw his now wife and he said, “she is the one” and they has been married for almost 50 years. He told me the other day that he love her more and more.
The thing about connection, compatibility chemistry really hit home with me!!! There's this girl I went to college with I liked her at the time but she was incompatible with me! She smokes, drinks and started to do drugs during when we where at college, I loath drinking alcohol, drugs and smoking. Because of those reasons I never asked her out and tried to ignore her completely to get over my feelings for her. (this was 8 ago when we where 16) I took her out last August to catch up because it had been 5 years since we had last seen each other and I wanted to see if we had and "compatability" (looking back on it) and it felt so easy being around her, we had a Laugh, Reminisced about college and just felt so great being with her, nothing felt forced at all. I didn't try to escalate with her because I found out she started drink a lot heavier, so smoked and does/ tried a lot of drugs and those are my biggest NO NO's when it comes to someone I look at romantically. We are just friends but I would say she's my closest friend
The part about they have to supersede a previous relationship, connection, feelings, that confirms in my heart my late husband, I have yet to meet anyone who comes close to the connection I had with him, I hope I experience it one more time in my life.
We will girl, we will. It will be a different kind of wonderful though and that's taken me a while to get used to after I lost my husband. He was one in a million and I'm so lucky for that. I don't want a version 2.0 that will always be second best. I am struggling to figure out how to shift gears and it's hard. But just like our husbands, we will have another moment where someone shocks us by being amazing when we didn't expect it. I am holding on to the idea that when a door is closed, a window.... Much love sister! Xo
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Tell me your secret, the loneliness is making me more insecure as the years go by lool 15 years and counting. The pain is my partner at this point, married to misfortune
@@NetSkillNavigator to be honest, it's just acceptance. Living life for successes just brings more pain, if you don't achieve them successes or if you get it then lose it. Goal chasing will never make us happy, only content whilst weve got it, but when the novalty fades, well this is when you get rich depressed people. Life's only worth living, when we decide to stop living for circumstance.
@Jay Sha I respect that bro, there's more to life than just tryna settle with someone. I suppose there's so many things you can do in this world, having a partner is just one small part of it.
@@chokeonthis2932 if your partner doesn't elevate you then she isn't worth your time. You have to realize that YOU are the value in the relationship and maintain control or you will WISH you stayed single...trust me man don't underestimate the power of working on yourself and loving yourself and your own situation. Once you make a your woman THE priority you will get trampled on in .any different ways....just my 2c
I was abused by my mother. She has passed away. I often have wished I could of made the first steps to bond with her before she passed. To be honest I feel I got into stubbornness and selfishness myself and never looked beyond my hurt and pain to see her hurt and pain, in order to initiate proper steps for us to bond. I miss her now. I have ALWAYS LOVED her..I don't think I ever could of wrote a letter to express my feelings while she was living.
When a narcissist finds you the connection can be overwhelming immediately. I caution about listening to that immidiate connection . You still need to get to know that person with your eyes open. That part can and should take 1-2 years to see that person’s red flags.
I totally agree about the fear factor. I'm trying to overcome that fear now. I have self sabotaged all of my potential long term relationships. My defense mechanisms kick in every time someone I really like tries to get close to me. Now, I'm noticing the guys that are highly attracted to me are doing the same thing.
He has connection and chemistry reversed: chemistry is either “there” or it’s not; connection is created (through being interested in one another; learning to communicate well, etc.).
If you are familiar with his material you’ll understand, he has a very different take on chemistry vs connection and yes, you’re right it is indeed different from how most coaches explain it, even Matthew Hussey. But go check out his other podcasts and even the first interview with Lewis ☺️
LW On the Rez I disagree with you. I have tried to make relationships work that had compatibility and chemistry. All the energy, time and good intentions did not create true connection. I’ve finally met the one. We have connection. I knew on the first date. The saying “You’ll just know” is true. I did a lot of healing leading up to the time when I met him. When you are healed you/your spirit will recognize and be attracted to someone who is also healed. All the best.
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In relationship or not in relationship -- every man pays with his hard earned money and expiring time. You decide for yourself how much to which woman you pay up. For example for 100 get 1 hour on bedpage 24 hours a day you pick and you do anything you want for that 1 hour. We are only alive for 80 years in the end no one ever says I wish I did not bang so much.
I agree. I'd rather be single for the rest of my life, than settle for someone who I am not physically attracted too or someone who tries to control me, or irritates me. Nor do I wanna be with someone who expects me to love them more than I love myself. Its NEVER gonna happen. I will ALWAYS put myself first & foremost. I'm not obligated to contend or deal with anyone & I honestly believe people can be replaced. No one is that special that they can't be disposed of. So with that said, I love & put myself first at all times & I retain control of my emotions. I never allow anyone to have emotional power over me. This way I keep the upper hand at all times. Anyone that I am not satisfied with gets the boot & no I don't care about how they feel.
@@dallasbrat81 no this person isn't a narc because they refuse to settle. They are intelligent. There's no point in being in a relationship with someone you really don't want to be with.
Oh, My, Goodness... this was Phenomenal, just as the first. It’s truly Amazing how God works. When He created Man, He did both genders in one body. Yet saw that Man needed human connection and not just the Spiritual Connection with Him. So God drew out a Woman. In this separation, she actually is the same being as her mate, yet in a different way. Because of the fact that she was in man from the beginning; they just became an equal yet different divide. Of the same Spirit though because God breathed into both as they were one. This is how we recognize our Home, by being of God and in Relationship with Him. Because of this, that’s why Connection is the first important factor of a man and woman coming together, must be equally of the same One True God. And it’s dry True of being free of ungodly soul ties... they create false perceptions of your sight towards people. Being free and Purified causes us to see demons or Angelic beings within one another. Chemistry after Connection is...💥💥💥💥 Because God makes his appearance truly shine and 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ indescribable... Just Beautiful, like Jesus. To me anyhow. The compatibility comes into play because of Purpose. The two must be able to do things in opposite in order to bring a leveled perception that can paint an amazing masterpiece. Like if we both add the same ingredients to the soup, it will be bland or just one flavor. Positive magnets cannot lock together only positive and negative. So it’s no fun if we’re both rooting for the same team. If God made the same personality in two different people, one would be irrelevant. If we’re not selfless in our single lives, we won’t become it once involved. 😂😂😂, Lewis almost stated that his lady had balls, for the statement she made. I know that if I were to meet the Man my heart sees, I’d be very nervous, especially about kissing. My first kiss would be with my husband, and heck, I’d be afraid to hold his hand before time... The greatest thing is, I refuse to go backwards or to even entertain a thought of what if my ex fiancé came and said he made a mistake or anything. I won’t be as Lot’s wife, nor would I put my hand back to the plow. It would kill my Destiny and I would not be able to inherit God’s Kingdom. The the greatest thing is when your heart belongs to God, I’m awaken with a song of Worship in my Spirit, and sleep to rest with Jesus on my mind... 😁, Voltron, Or Thunder Cats... And it’s very true of how God broke this year of 20/20 Vision... Those who have Eyes, are Clearly Seeings, and for me and God’s Children, it’s truly Kingdom Purposed... For God does know our beginning from the end, for His plans for us are to be taken to an expected end. And if you haven’t seen it in Spirit with Scripture to confirm it, it won’t manifest, to be Blessed of God. Oh My, so many nuggets. It’s a Beautiful things when God designs a mate that Speaks to your Spirit-man, heart, instead of your flesh, brain... Truly in love with the intellect of The King...💝💯 Yup!!!
I'm single because I'm in no rush and i want to take my time finding the right one then to be the guy giving the advice after 8 failed relationships. The problem is people are in ruins due to social media, porn and seeking validation from everyone else but thier lover. Encouraging bad behavior and a lost sense of love. Relationships are no longer we can better ourselves and we are the prize because the partner is someone i love and value. Its more of a battle who can be the most heartless and spreading it on to others that want meaningful relationships taking nice guys for example. Now I and many have to suffer for other peoples bad preferences they refuse to change and forget but instead label everyone as bad while posting it all over instagram, tik tok, twitter ,etc. The worst part of it all is these damaged people often act like childern and they make preferences based on how they were damaged taking the daddy issues for example. They will try to date the same type of person that damaged them in the first place and loop the cycle.
I feel as many people now a days have disposable, disrespectful relationships. Its very rare now a days when people do stay together. I had two toxic relationships ( verbal, physical abuse, cheeting) in my lifetime and truly dont care to make time for relationships/dates. anymore.
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@@ryanwalker3076 I'm not comfortable putting any of my personal information on youtube comments. I don't use hangout! I'm unsure what this platform is.
Stephan is talking about "energy" that you can't explain but you just know is there. He is right about blocking and diverting if you haven't healed and changed those beliefs that are keeping you stuck. So many people think that marriage and having a family is a fix for all unresolved fears and issues. That's an individual's inside job and then watch how synchronicities fall into place! You can also be in love and committed yet not married so "single" can mean different criteria to different people.
I have been single for almost 8yrs now , I am 40 and starting to worry that I may not find the person that I have both chemistry and compatibility and I dont want to settle😒
@Boss ` interesting, Im gonna read over this a few times, because it resonated deeply with me, I tryed to fight it at first but I felt no ego, pseudo science or preachiness in it, just good observation of the reality of relationships. We get ideals from TV, songs and films, and porn lol, but reality is often very different. Showering someone with constant affection and appreciation, makes up for lack of love for oneself, which is never good for a long time relationship. Know one likes needy people, even needy people.
@@chokeonthis2932 true I screenshot that reply so I can remember it. However there has to be attraction. Because I met someone last night that i have no chemistry with. He's relationship material but I've tried so many times and I can't even have sex with him because I'm not attracted to him
Ya, instant chemistry is great. But I agree with the comments below. People tend to be attracted to what is familiar. Like people who had abusive male figures might find themselves to be drawn to abusers.. I think looking for instant connection can be great but also can be a short cut to putting the work in and growing to love eachother. A lot of older generations developed deep lasting love that wasn't based on superficial chemistry.
Exactly ! Instant chemistry may have something to do with familiarity. Gut instincts are based on past experiences and they're part of body. That's why it doesn't follow logical but instead shows up as bodily sensations. If the past experience is a wrong learned lesson, then the instant judgement will turn out to be a bad decision. Malcolm gladwell explains it in his book Blink.
God bless you StephanSpeaks and Lewis Howes .Too hurt people together hurt each other more sometimes is true.Everything is spiritual yes.The energies make a difference,We attract who we are not what we want.Healing makes a difference and depending on how deep the wounds are makes a difference.Forgiveness is in order and x seems safe and isn't.Back and forth wastes alot of time.Moving on is best.Easier said than done everything stems from our childhood.We can heal.
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@It's Scary to Remarry...did you have that overwhelming powerful feeling they described in the video when you first interacted with her in person? The, "she's the one" feeling?
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This is probably one of the best videos I’ve listen to Alex forward to hearing seeing him more thank you Luiz for all that you do and all your Helpful meaningful guest hope you have a new show I wish you the best
Personally I find life to be filled with many beautiful things to see and do aside from just dating. Dating is like 10% but people spend like 90% of their day and energy stressing over it and letting it control them.
I disagree as well, the spirit can be attracted to what's familiar and what's familiar isn't always the best for a person, especially with people who have suffered trauma as a child. Deep friendships grow over time. Love is just a deep friendship that also needs to grow over time and might include physical attraction and sex.
Some people NEED to be single to better themselves BEFORE entering into a relationship. Some of us don't know how to communicate or LISTEN with out reacting. Meditate , pray daily, focus on the NOW...raise your vibration
I needed to be single for 35 years, before entering my first relationship this year. So it's never too late. Also, i don't need the relationship. People don't nééd a partner. People should first learn to be perfectly fine on their own, only then can a relationship be a healthy addition to your life, not an integral part. And for some this might take a short while, for others years, decades... I really think we look at relationships in a very unhealthy way, as something that you must have to be complete.
Underrated comment, I think everyone should do this
@@Sydebern Thing is there are alot of people who are perfectly fine on their own then they get into a relationship (like happens naturally) and they feel even better. Then when they lose that person they go into a depression like state for awhile, because they had something they didn't even knew they thought they needed or wanted. Plus being with that person could help them discover something about themselves that they need to work on that they hadn't noticed before.
@@blackkyurem720 Depends on how these people spend their lives when they were single. Did they just pursue worldy ambitions, or have they explored their existence? With the latter i mean, did they have some kind of spiritual awakening? If not, they will probably be devastated by the loss of their partner.
If you do not derive happiness from within, which is the source of happiness, you will be bound by objects, experiences and relationships for your happiness. And by the nature of those, you will lose all of them.
In my case, i am in a LAT relation right now. I see my girlfriend about 5 days in the month, the rest of the time it is as it always was. I can say without a doubt that i will be totally fine when for some reason this relationship ends. Of course, i will be very sad about it for a while, but i love being on my own and i am happy on my own so i will be fine. The problem lies in really believing that you need the other. That is a false belief that binds you to that person. It makes your happiness conditional, dependent. Of course i do love being with my girlfriend and she is a great "addition" to my life (if you can say it like that). But she's all extra. I don't need her and i let her know that. I'm fine without her. I just like to share my happiness with her and she hers with me.
@Nik Built Something It has to do with your mood. Depression, anger, hate, for example are low vibrational states. Happiness, joy, love, are high vibrational. It all exists on a spectrum. It's the frequency of consciousness.
If you break up from a long term relationship, never jump right into a rebound...I would advise mastering the art of being alone!
I have mastered it!!
That is advice for women. For men you can't be advising them to not have sex. At least tell them to visit some prostitute in the meanwhile! The bare minimum.
And that my friend I’ve mastered to the T..
I Literally go for random walks and bike rides blasting music, people don’t seem to notice
The reason why so many people find relationships so hard nowadays is we live in an extremely narcissistic culture. People feel like no one is good enough for them. And when they see someone they think IS good enough for them, THAT person thinks THEY'RE not good enough.
so so sooooo true lol, best comment here
I think you might be right 🤔
Damn.
Be HAPPY!!!😃 BEING SINGLE IS FREEDOM!!! Having FRIENDS IS HEALTHY IF TRUSTWORTHY, TRUTHFUL,
Caring:Looking AFTER EACH OTHER Is important! (Care for each others LIVES with REGARDS & TRUTH!!!✌🔎🔑🔑🏆🏆🎼🎶Honesty.
Best comment so true
I am a couple weeks from turning 54, Single and no children and all I have to say is, I love my life and the PEACE that comes with it.
Being in love is a beautiful thing, but being Single and at peace is even more more beautiful!💕
Why no children
I think its to each its own. Its a different type of peace to be in real love and share a life with somone else its more soothing to be held than to be alons unless ur in an abusive relationship thats a different story..
Wow!! You must have the natural grace to be single and have that peace. I'm single too and find that I'm complete in Christ first. However, I don't intend to be single for the rest of my life. I've always wanted a husband, my own family and a home.
I believe relationships make you grow, learn and develop as a person. It's about meeting someone who's mature and confident in themselves and knows what they want that complements you and vice versa.
Once we have a mutual respect for one another we can get on with life and all it's ups and downs.
I'd rather experience this with my husband than on my own.
I don't believe anyone wants to grow older alone?! That's just my thoughts. 😊
Absolutely!
@@daviddickendon315 maybe she didn't want to have children out of wedlock.
Happiness literally has to start within. When you're living authentically, you'll attract who you're meant to be with.
@Jane lane Nobody is truly real baby.. Everybody has a price in life to fuck people over depending on their status in life/mental state
@@michaelangst6078 THIS is ABSOLUTELY not true!! There are many of us who do not and will not fuck someone over Period!! Look for better quality people
Dallas LeMons I totally agree with you. Each of us is responsible for our own happiness. We never want to put the key to our happiness in someone else’s pocket. (Unless he’s gorgeous & wearing tight jeans🤣, just kidding!) Rhetorically speaking who wants to hook up with an unhappy someone? Our happiness shines from the inside out & enhances our beauty. We have to authentically be like who we want to attract. Stefan knows his stuff!!! *Stephan
@@michaelangst6078 BITTER. WHO HURT YOU????
@@c.l.montoya2972 I agree 👍
I did some of my best healing while in my previous relationship. People shouldn't be scared to enter relationships if we don't feel 'healed'. It is dangerous to think we have to be a perfect human before we enter a relationship. The best foundation for a relationship is the willingness for both parties to grow on their own and together in the partnership. I wouldn't be the woman I am today without the 6.5 years of my last relationship. Relationships can also be catalysts for your own growth. Get rid of perfectionism and needing to be 'healed' first.... That can be dangerous and toxic. We learn about ourselves through our interactions with others x
Thank you for the comment
I totally agree, only thing is that not everyone learns whilst they are actually involved, but they should!
You make a good point.
Yes!!! This! I was thinking this very same thing and you put it into words perfectly. Everyone has a story and we are all imperfect people.
Something my brother-n-law said to me one day. He said “ being in a relationship is really not about the other person, it’s more about learning who you are”. Meaning when you enter into these relationships you learn what your going to put up with and what you’re not going to put up with” I have to agree. It’s just some things I’m not going to except. Period
We are all viewing each other through a filtered lens. Social media has blinded us to what people truly are. Heck, I barely recognize women anymore because I'm used to seeing them through filters used in all their pictures, and men are showing the highlight reel and not the daily grind. We all have to start being honest with ourselves and each other. I had to take a break and focus on God and myself because it is getting to crazy out there.
I totally agree. I refuse to filter my personal pictures anywhere. Unless it's clearly and obviously a picture that is part of my photography portfolio and the picture is clearly meant as art. I respect and appreciate your opinions. I feel like the second we created an entirely new vernacular for our current behavior and approach (and exit) to relationships in this day and age. I've chosen to just chill with me because I like my company. And I am truly impressed with your choice as well. Stay righteous. 😁
Why is there only three comments here? This the nest statement ive heard in this whole thing
@@tainocris9664 thanks. I think people don't like facing reality and would rather be told pleasing lies.
Yes. I agree -100 percent Ben. Find yourself in Christ first and He will send the one you need to complement you. Amen.
I'm just going through this
For myself self love is having a before bed skin care routine, using essential oils on my bedsheets for better sleep, running first thing in the morning so I can hear my breath and my heart beat, reading my positive/inspiring notes after, placing one hand on my heart and saying to myself “Kasia I love you”, meditating for 30min before I have to face difficult situation/conversation, eating healthy, drinking green tea-my body is my home, being attentive to the energy and remove myself from toxicity, accepting and allowing every emotion to run through me without judgement, list 5 things I am grateful for at the end of each day.
This is perfection
❤️ this
This is pretty amazing. You are a very wise woman. Thank you for sharing with us!!!
Karen Obana thank you Karen. Your message touched me ❤️
Phil LeBorgne how come?
I'm still single because I like to be. 🙂 People need to learn to love themselves and not blame others.
I was dating a guy and it was after dating him for 2 months. I learned a lot ,by listening to him. He was fresh out of a 6 yr on and off relationship. He wasn't emotionally ready for a new relationship. Because he hasn't healed. He is emotionally constipated. Unfortunately, I knew he wasn't relationship material. I broke it off and I feel so much better.
@Patricia Page I’m so glad You feel better. But, I do feel for him because I’m in a place of healing and it’s so very hard to not date really quick.
As a woman, I find it so helpful to listen to men's perspectives on relationships. Thank you both so much!
Being Single is way underrated.
But loneliness is overrated
🤔Try tellin' that to ya Mamma tho😂😂😂🤣😂😂
Research is proving that single people with purpose and ambition are happier than married people. The single people acting sad don't hv life goals
Part of the problem is people live on the same street their whole lives, meet a partner down the street and think they've found their soul mate 😆
@@scottl.1568 you can be in a relationship and still be lonely....so being with someone else doesn't cure that.
“They have to surpass the person you have had the strongest feelings for.”
A ton of truths here. Heal first, then get into a relationship.
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The relationship was the reason for all the hard work to get back to zero. No thanks
@@jerseysteelfitness6927 that's curious. Then why do you listen to him?
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Transmute your sexual energy into healing and your goals! We must go in as a healthy person for a healthy relationship. We don't want to put our partner to be our therapist. They are not here to make us happy. We need to happy and have self-awareness. Don't under estimate emotional intelligence!
Being single rocks!
Sometimes...
Until it’s not. Don’t put men on the back burner
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Not really.. I feel like killing myself sometimes and i'm wealthy.. I didn't feel that way when I had steady realtionships
@@Msalike can't put us on the back burner we are the engines..
I need him to do an episode on breaking up. Because they are many people that don't know how to end things with others. Breakups don't have to so ugly.
Breakups also don’t have to be prolonged or avoided. Ppl always fear making that move, once they realize this is the step needed. Breakups also need to be FINAL. No take backs!
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exactly my take the best a couple can do in a break up is try to communicate civilly and be a good listener, i guess 2 ears 1 mouth right. listen 2x as much as you say. ANY break up is going to hurt and scar the key is to MINIMIZE hurt and scarring with a mature civil approach to communicating.
@faith umuk some have no choice because the woman they love and would love to loyally spend forever and more unconditionaly with is unreachable and closed of to them. even breakups can be handled in a civil and somewhat constructive manner I'm guessing.
@faith umuk Good luck. Being single is a long road traveled alone. At least you were married for a long time and experienced it even if you weren't happy.
This interview was truly amazing and insightful. I met my husband on tinder after 3 or 4 years of cycling on and off the app (not using it for a year going back on then deleting again when the results were abismal). My bro also met his wife on tinder btw and they both cycled on and off for a long time before finally finding each other. If you are a genuine person, don't give up hope.
Thank you so much for your feedback🙂
I disagree. I’m single because I’m not settling for BS. Some stuff are out of your control. Even if your in a good space doesn’t mean you have to be in a relationship. I don’t want to be single but I don’t want to be treated like shit either. Which is why I believe single people are more stronger because their not settling. I know a lot of people who are in relationships because they don’t want to be alone. Which is worse. I’m very feminine and get approached by men all the time. It doesn’t make sense to say it’s wrong with single people
Only thing is your clock is ticking for the highest quality males.
@@mrscott01 there's always adoption. Plus not everyone can or will have children.
@@MichElle-py8lk What I said has little to do with children. It's about a woman's sexual market value. The decline starts around the age of 25 and with each year reduces the quality of man she can get. In general.
@@mrscott01 women are not cattle! Grown up men do not think of women as having a sexual value market!
Amen!
Best tips:
- Men be masculine, women be feminine
- Put yourself first
- Set boundaries, no posting underwear selfies online etc.
- Communicate, listen an do not get emotional in arguments.
- Never go to bed or leave without resolving an argument, ever.
- Surprise your loved one now and again, be spontaneous.
- Don't obsess over them, especial if you're a man, never make the woman your God.
- Make them laugh.
- Be sexy for each other
- Get in shape together, it's win win.
- For men, be a father to your girlfriend/fiance/wife, guide her and love her.
👏👏👏
And there’s a gap for the mistress just in case ( as back up)
Do you have any tips on how to get over from being mentally abused by friends? Letting big things slide in the past and not talking back when they're disrespecting you?
Too many damage and broken people who didn't take the time to healed then they jump right back into another situationship going around and hurting other people instead of trying to find some self love. Hurt people hurt people. 🤦🏽🤦🏽
True
He's exactly right!!! Call it chemistry...spiritual..gut instinct. You know it when you feel it
I enjoy hearing him talk. he always gives direct responses and tells men and women realistic tips. he's also not in his car telling you how to get a person lol
@Joys Destiny oh hellno.
I would say step six is as follows: find one goal to fulfill. Take flute lessons, learn to drive, take yoga, read a book you have always wanted to do... Do one thing just to prove you can accomplish goals for yourself.
I am learning flute on a hot pink flute!!!
@Tony John scam
Why are all the relationship experts single? 😂
Rachel Khona 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I'm on the floor laughing!!!
I always ask that too. Shouldn't they being in a relationship let alone married. That's like a business expert being jobless
I'm married and some of the best advice I've heard and applied came from a divorced divorce attorney. 🤷🏾♂️
You don't need to be a pro baller to be a good coach.
Annie in KC I mean even the title!! 😂😂 So do these experts follow their own advice or no? 😂😂😂
This was amazing. You two should have a regular show! ❤
Thank you!
Lots of gold nuggets in this!! If people paid attention to these things - every relationship in their life (business and personal) would improve.
Transmute your sexual energy into healing and your goals! We must go in as a healthy person for a healthy relationship. We don't want to put our partner to be our therapist. They are not here to make us happy. We need to happy and have self-awareness. Don't under estimate emotional intelligence!
Thank you for your words, Samantha. It was good help!
Yh its true, it hurts because I know im broken and currently shouldn't be in a relationship, but it really showed how broken i was when it didn't work out thank god she was understanding I think lol
@@chokeonthis2932 sending love and healing your way. You are not alone in this.
@@samanthafoster4788 Thankyou
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God has to be the center of our life in everything we do, specially in the most precious relationship like marriage. Chemistry and looks will fade at some point, so one have to connect in a deeper level, but not just to the other person but to God. Each person should love God more and be complete in Him, because a spouse cannot ever fulfill the emptiness of God in the other person heart. And how can anyone become wiser or make wise decisions without readying the Bible or being connected to God?
Totally agree with your wise words Carla.. I’m praying for a man of God especially in these uncertain times we live in. 🙏
Also , what you think about the book 101 questions before engagement?
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Totally correct. We cannot use another person to fill the void where God belongs. Wishing you the best.
Staying in a “situation” too long, not a “relationship” too long. The former is a distraction and space keeper. The latter is something to grow by.
Don’t be fooled, it’s a blessing to be single the bible says that.
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True but at the same time it says it is not good for man to be alone
What verse?
I', like what's wrong with these people I'm having a blast single and I intend to keep it that way for as long as I can possibly get away with it!
@@blackblack697 Being single does not equal being alone
I had connection without chemistry many times. Emotional connection doesn't mean sexual chemistry!
I am single as I am not someone I would date at the moment.
I don't meet men I would like as I don't live in an area where those men are frequent and at the moment I can't move.
I'm fine being single. I was married before, settled, so I will never do that again.
Also, I'm not sure I want to live with someone. I would definitely need my own bedroom and space, a lot of space. But the problem with meeting another introvert is quite difficult as they do very well on their own too.
Agreed, have connections doesn't necessarily meet have chemistry.
Introvert here, so yes, I confirm it's a lot more difficult for us, because we actually like being alone. Well, many of us. I don't put myself out there, I rarely meet new men, so it's settled: single for life. And I'm fine with that. It's the best choice for me, as an introvert with standards.
Could it be people are introverts because they have had too many bad experiences with people..l dont see how anyone would be introverted if others loved and accepted them
@@user-dp4bu8jy4b I'm not sure you understand the difference between introverts and extroverts. everyone’s nervous system has two modes: parasympathetic and sympathetic. When we use the parasympathetic side (nicknamed the “rest and digest” side), we feel calm and are focused inwardly. Our body conserves energy and withdraws from the environment; muscles relax, energy is stored, and our heart rate and blood pressure slow. The sympathetic side (a.k.a “full throttle”) puts us in a state of fight or flight. Our pressure and heart rate are elevated, we are alert and poised for action.
Introverts thrive when they are operating in parasympathetic mode. This is the reason for the constant desire introverts have to be alone. Their desire and pension to engage in quiet, thoughtful activities away from others is not antisocial or moody behavior. It is a physiological need they have that is driven by their brain chemistry and function.
When introverts are deprived of their alone time they can experience:
Fatigue
Mental and physical exhaustion
Inability to concentrate
Irritability
Increased anxiety
Depression
The causes of introversion and extroversion are directly linked to how our brains operate and respond to neurotransmitters. So the best thing you can do for the introvert that needs time by themselves is to leave them alone.
@@user-dp4bu8jy4b Not really, I was always an introvert, since I was a child, I believe it's more genetic than environmental. Now being shy it's a different story. It may be because of insecurities. Introverts aren't necessarily insecure.
I remember a much respected Pastor once said that a married couple that falls out of LOVE is a married couple that stopped having fun in their relationship
I once asked a wise old pastor, "why is there so much stress in marriages"? I'll always remember his one-word response "selfishness."
I’m single by choice .. it’s difficult to find someone who gives of themselves 100% towards building a relationship and bond, that I give. So since I have not met that individual.. I default to the choice.
I agree with you, me too. I'm not going into something just to trick myself that I have somebody when I only am with somebody that is not really invested or has feelings.
❤💛💙
You must be a scorpio we love Soo hard
sharonkanipe I’m Aquarius. We are naturally detached. So relationships aren’t as important, we value friendships more so. We also get hurt and love hard, because we wait a long time to invest in such an endeavor. And when all that time we lost or let’s say a learned a lesson in relationship failures. We tend to remain single as I forementioned. Plus I’m 47. I’ve had plenty of years of marriage experience and relationships. Living my life on my own terms is my mantra till death calls me home . 💋❤️
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Yes.. It's not about being in a relationship..it's about being with the RIGHT person. Thank you! Relationships are easy to get into
I totally self sabotaged my relationship because I wasn't healed. He knew but approached anyway, he told me it was selfish on his behalf but he didn't want to take a chance I'd date someone else. I told him every step of the way.. right person wrong time.. we're in separation, broke up Aug. 7th.. still in contact as friends. I am happier than I've ever been because I had my awakening, healing, self love and forgiveness of my exes and - myself..Thank goodness I seek consult thru the universe and ancestors and I'm a fast learner!!! open and allowing to reconnecting to my great mate be it him or someone else. I've been healing for 5 years with some derailments.
When the relationship is over? When one or two parties is not going to make the work to fix it. I don't need any more than this answer. THANK YOU!!!
Matthew Hassey
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Scammer!!! Stay away from this platform.
Mind blown. I was resisting watching this and kept trying to shut down when certain subjects came up. I am so grateful for the info shared. It has shed the mother load of light onto my situation. Single and searching. ❤️
I’m BLOWN AWAY by this interview - it was exactly what I needed, at a personal turning point. I have SO much more perspective now on coming together with someone and thinking about: is the type of person I’m wanting, desiring the type of person that I am?
Not just having the attitude of: accept me how I am, flaws & all, I’m amazing!😁 It’s not about vanity but it’s about becoming a truer version of yourself as well, learning from your desire towards someone else! Being the reflection of what you desire...energetically and emotionally.
Also I’m going to have a VERY focused & special new moon ceremony tonight- I’m writing letters and identifying those pains to let them go. We’ll see if the letters are sent but I’m committed to healing.
Dudes. I love you both so much!!!!
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You are on the money about healing. Now that I've healed, I can see straight to someone's heart. As soon as I see that the person doesn't really like me I quickly get away from that person. People can't hide what's in their heart even with a smile on their face. For the life of me, I can't figure out why people refuse to follow their heart. I can't resist my heart's desire.
I am loving Lewis Howes. He asks the most intelligent questions and dig very deep into the what ifs and core of the real issues. Lewis is the most excellent interviewer who takes me to another level of where my potential and growth can be accelerated. The interview with Sarah Jakes Roberts was amazing. I had it on repeat because you and Sarah awoke the giant within me. Thank you so very much Lewis.
I enjoyed this conversation between you both, although I think that there are many people who chose the single life because they just love being single. Its not that they can't find anyone.
You are the best on CZcams and I subscribed. I have also shared with family and friends.
Stefan is so wise, loved this material!
It’s just amazing, thank you!
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So many gems in this interview. Thank you Stephan for your work and Louis for all the incredible questions you asked 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
“What if their shoes are wrong?” Hahaha.
Love this!! Being single pretty much for the past 4 years has fought me soooo much about myself. Happy being single but would love to be in a healthy relationship... either way is fine. I won’t “settle” just to be in a relationship. Thanks for this!! Much love ❤️
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I so agree with having a deep connection with someone so the relationship has a good chance of surviving. This is why I'm divorced right now; there were no deep soul connection in my marriage. It took me 3 decades to find someone that I spiritually connected with instantly and it happened during my failed marriage. This person and I are not in communication but my heart is with him. Once he heals his heart he will return to his true love. Since we met and connected, no one hasn't even come close to matching the vibration I have with him.
He is in alignment and understands what a lot of other people do not. Great talk! Agree 100 percent
Hello Deb
23:55 lmao. I wrote down all my insecurities and then burnt it after writing the opposite traits I decided to have. Unfortunately, I closed the fireplace flute (thinking I was opening it) and all the smoke filled my home where I had to call the fire department. Hahaha
A good ending would be that you ended up on a date with one of the firefighters 😻
When it takes you months to know if he/she is the right person it’s you over analyzing and trying to convince yourself you made the right choice when you know in your gut feeling (within few minutes of meeting the person) that you didn’t. One knows immediately, the later just doesn’t want to accept defeat, but calls it determination to make it work... the only hard work we should be having is the inner work, not the trying hard to make the relationship work because you’re trying too hard to change the other person...
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Hey y'all singles out here...👂🏽😘🤩
Hahaha
hey hey hey!! 😉
💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
People not even tapping into themselves 💯
I am taking all of these steps to heal me after a death of a spouse who I manifest in my life. I stayed to long in this relationship. Now I am free and free to love another for I know the tell tell signs as to weather is coming to via the Devine. Haven't read your book but I am doing the work.
Self care vs. Self love. There is a huge difference. Sometimes self love requires doing difficult things for your growth. Getting a pedicure or purchasing something for yourself isn't difficult but gratifying.
I read a book a long time ago that said “what makes us think that if one f*^d up person meets another f*^d up person we can creat a whole relationship…..totally resonated with me
Single women like me desire and pray for a Godly marriage and long term relationship. Being previously married and together with my ex for 13 years, I understand what a man needs and tried to go above and beyond for him. He was abusing me so I got out. I have been divorced for a while and single trying to date and choosing the wrong men and trying to do it on your own is part of what is keeping me single. I am trying to do it on my own. So God is keeping me single for His purposes. He is making me desire my relationship with him first. So no, it’s not me in my season right now. I want and desire a partner in my life-I am simply just not ready right now and need to heal. God is showing me this. It’s just not my time to be in a relationship right now in this season.
Amazing, amazing, amazing! I learned so much and some of it I actually already achieved. Thank you for this podcast and having Stephan as a guest🌼🙏
I agree with what Stephan said about willing to make changes to better themselves. At the same time we are in the hookup culture and it’s not making things easier for people who want healthy relationships and marriages.Everyone is out for themselves.
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Please don't take me as I am because I grow every day and changes of improvement is on the rise of greatness... 💪 Strong relationships not only with a partner but with my family, friends and who ever come in contact. I have one first-time impression so I make it my best to be in a positive state 😌 energy is so real.....
People who are single who have been in relationships and have experience different situations hopefully have learned and so are able to pick up quicker on signs that wake them up and help them to make sensible choices!! Some might say that means they are damaged people but people who have learned from bad relationships are not damaged they are aware!!
True indeed, everything must change. You must look inside yourself and change what hinders your relationship and repels your partner.
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Stephan's insight and ability to explain is amazing!
Connection is Love; Spirit to Spirit; Love meets love, makes you soul mate, kindred Spirits
Ive noticed that Lewis has never talked about a girlfriend more then he has with this current one. He glows every time he speaks about her. 😊
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I've seen this before and just watched it again. I Love Stephan's answer and the end when asked if he was seeing someone or still single. His answer is exactly how I feel 🙏🏽❤️
When you find that crazy connection.. just to find out yall not meant to be lol worse feeling ever
i had a connection like that but i wasn't attracted to her. it was a deep connection but missed that spark for me. she had a highschool sweetheart boyfriend at the time but our connection was crazy. he found our texts and flipped out. so we broke it off, which really sucked, and they got married shortly after. we could not have been friends because it just made no sense long term. it was so weird.
What is a crazy connection?? Is it like oh i found out she watch ninja turtles 🐢 and dragon ball Z?
@@agentsmith8568 if its that and 100 other things. or if its like you are telepathic.
It’s been about a year since my ex and I broke up but to this day I still feel she’s that one for me. Everything was genuine, we instantly connected etc... it was just the wrong time for me I wasn’t in the best space. I pray the universe let us cross paths again once I’m where I need to be. She was a great woman
I feel like you and my ex.
If she's your ex then it wasn't meant to be.
@@rzvrzv9894 been starting to feel the same way lately
well I would say that being a woman who has been dating women in the last several years, statistics are against me along with all the other complexities it brings (people exploring etc), although I for sure have things to work on. The issue I have right now is I've taken the time to heal, work on myself, figure out what I want - everyone I'm meeting just seems down for casual, got out of a serious relationship or exploration and I'm very secure in saying I want a relationship but having been single for 8 years, it's not just anyone - as in people hear relationship and freak out at just the word but I'm not going to jump into just any relationship. If the fact that I want an actual meaningful connection scares you, then ya leave
Good Luck!
I’m 17 years single, age 46, got my 2 girls, grandson n still got granddaughter on the way!!!! Single is brilliantly beautiful! Took me 8 years to tolerate me. So me happy u happy we happy!🙏🏼💙👊
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Okay cat lady you are happy
This was one of the best episodes that I have seen on CZcams! Thank you brother for recognizing that The Spirit of The Lord is your source !
Hello Mary
My brother walked into a church and saw his now wife and he said, “she is the one” and they has been married for almost 50 years. He told me the other day that he love her more and more.
The thing about connection, compatibility chemistry really hit home with me!!! There's this girl I went to college with I liked her at the time but she was incompatible with me! She smokes, drinks and started to do drugs during when we where at college, I loath drinking alcohol, drugs and smoking. Because of those reasons I never asked her out and tried to ignore her completely to get over my feelings for her.
(this was 8 ago when we where 16)
I took her out last August to catch up because it had been 5 years since we had last seen each other and I wanted to see if we had and "compatability" (looking back on it) and it felt so easy being around her, we had a Laugh, Reminisced about college and just felt so great being with her, nothing felt forced at all.
I didn't try to escalate with her because I found out she started drink a lot heavier, so smoked and does/ tried a lot of drugs and those are my biggest NO NO's when it comes to someone I look at romantically.
We are just friends but I would say she's my closest friend
The part about they have to supersede a previous relationship, connection, feelings, that confirms in my heart my late husband, I have yet to meet anyone who comes close to the connection I had with him, I hope I experience it one more time in my life.
We will girl, we will. It will be a different kind of wonderful though and that's taken me a while to get used to after I lost my husband. He was one in a million and I'm so lucky for that. I don't want a version 2.0 that will always be second best. I am struggling to figure out how to shift gears and it's hard. But just like our husbands, we will have another moment where someone shocks us by being amazing when we didn't expect it. I am holding on to the idea that when a door is closed, a window....
Much love sister! Xo
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Single and love it!
Tell me your secret, the loneliness is making me more insecure as the years go by lool 15 years and counting. The pain is my partner at this point, married to misfortune
@@chokeonthis2932 You got to do something that makes your life worthwhile..
@@NetSkillNavigator to be honest, it's just acceptance. Living life for successes just brings more pain, if you don't achieve them successes or if you get it then lose it. Goal chasing will never make us happy, only content whilst weve got it, but when the novalty fades, well this is when you get rich depressed people. Life's only worth living, when we decide to stop living for circumstance.
@Jay Sha I respect that bro, there's more to life than just tryna settle with someone. I suppose there's so many things you can do in this world, having a partner is just one small part of it.
@@chokeonthis2932 if your partner doesn't elevate you then she isn't worth your time. You have to realize that YOU are the value in the relationship and maintain control or you will WISH you stayed single...trust me man don't underestimate the power of working on yourself and loving yourself and your own situation. Once you make a your woman THE priority you will get trampled on in .any different ways....just my 2c
I was abused by my mother. She has passed away. I often have wished I could of made the first steps to bond with her before she passed. To be honest I feel I got into stubbornness and selfishness myself and never looked beyond my hurt and pain to see her hurt and pain, in order to initiate proper steps for us to bond. I miss her now. I have ALWAYS LOVED her..I don't think I ever could of wrote a letter to express my feelings while she was living.
Freen...you can still write the letter. Once you've written down everything you can burn it...as a way to release it.
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I will. THANKS for responding. You placed a smile on my face
@@freenchrist2935 😊😊
When a narcissist finds you the connection can be overwhelming immediately. I caution about listening to that immidiate connection . You still need to get to know that person with your eyes open. That part can and should take 1-2 years to see that person’s red flags.
The best relationship is with God. That's real love wait on God's man ladies
Hello Jeannette
Amen to that!!🙏🙌
Stephan has a lovely voice....dont waste time with wrong guys....time flies....
Hello Colleen
I totally agree about the fear factor. I'm trying to overcome that fear now. I have self sabotaged all of my potential long term relationships. My defense mechanisms kick in every time someone I really like tries to get close to me. Now, I'm noticing the guys that are highly attracted to me are doing the same thing.
He has connection and chemistry reversed: chemistry is either “there” or it’s not; connection is created (through being interested in one another; learning to communicate well, etc.).
LW On the Rez yeah he ain't relationship expert
If you are familiar with his material you’ll understand, he has a very different take on chemistry vs connection and yes, you’re right it is indeed different from how most coaches explain it, even Matthew Hussey. But go check out his other podcasts and even the first interview with Lewis ☺️
LW On the Rez I disagree with you. I have tried to make relationships work that had compatibility and chemistry. All the energy, time and good intentions did not create true connection. I’ve finally met the one. We have connection. I knew on the first date. The saying “You’ll just know” is true. I did a lot of healing leading up to the time when I met him. When you are healed you/your spirit will recognize and be attracted to someone who is also healed. All the best.
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I rather be single for the rest of my life, than be with someone, I'm not happy with.
Your classic narcissist
In relationship or not in relationship -- every man pays with his hard earned money and expiring time. You decide for yourself how much to which woman you pay up. For example for 100 get 1 hour on bedpage 24 hours a day you pick and you do anything you want for that 1 hour. We are only alive for 80 years in the end no one ever says I wish I did not bang so much.
I agree. I'd rather be single for the rest of my life, than settle for someone who I am not physically attracted too or someone who tries to control me, or irritates me. Nor do I wanna be with someone who expects me to love them more than I love myself. Its NEVER gonna happen. I will ALWAYS put myself first & foremost. I'm not obligated to contend or deal with anyone & I honestly believe people can be replaced. No one is that special that they can't be disposed of. So with that said, I love & put myself first at all times & I retain control of my emotions. I never allow anyone to have emotional power over me. This way I keep the upper hand at all times. Anyone that I am not satisfied with gets the boot & no I don't care about how they feel.
@@dallasbrat81 no this person isn't a narc because they refuse to settle. They are intelligent. There's no point in being in a relationship with someone you really don't want to be with.
I’m single because I prefer it u don’t have to put up with any crap from anybody relationship s are overrated x
Exactly! Singlehood is peaceful.
Chan_RainOctober I love it I wouldn’t have it any other way now x
Jay Sha Better off been through it all never again like my freedom x
Oh, My, Goodness... this was Phenomenal, just as the first. It’s truly Amazing how God works. When He created Man, He did both genders in one body. Yet saw that Man needed human connection and not just the Spiritual Connection with Him.
So God drew out a Woman. In this separation, she actually is the same being as her mate, yet in a different way. Because of the fact that she was in man from the beginning; they just became an equal yet different divide. Of the same Spirit though because God breathed into both as they were one. This is how we recognize our Home, by being of God and in Relationship with Him.
Because of this, that’s why Connection is the first important factor of a man and woman coming together, must be equally of the same One True God. And it’s dry True of being free of ungodly soul ties... they create false perceptions of your sight towards people. Being free and Purified causes us to see demons or Angelic beings within one another.
Chemistry after Connection is...💥💥💥💥 Because God makes his appearance truly shine and 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ indescribable... Just Beautiful, like Jesus. To me anyhow.
The compatibility comes into play because of Purpose. The two must be able to do things in opposite in order to bring a leveled perception that can paint an amazing masterpiece. Like if we both add the same ingredients to the soup, it will be bland or just one flavor. Positive magnets cannot lock together only positive and negative.
So it’s no fun if we’re both rooting for the same team. If God made the same personality in two different people, one would be irrelevant.
If we’re not selfless in our single lives, we won’t become it once involved.
😂😂😂, Lewis almost stated that his lady had balls, for the statement she made. I know that if I were to meet the Man my heart sees, I’d be very nervous, especially about kissing. My first kiss would be with my husband, and heck, I’d be afraid to hold his hand before time...
The greatest thing is, I refuse to go backwards or to even entertain a thought of what if my ex fiancé came and said he made a mistake or anything. I won’t be as Lot’s wife, nor would I put my hand back to the plow. It would kill my Destiny and I would not be able to inherit God’s Kingdom. The the greatest thing is when your heart belongs to God, I’m awaken with a song of Worship in my Spirit, and sleep to rest with Jesus on my mind...
😁, Voltron, Or Thunder Cats...
And it’s very true of how God broke this year of 20/20 Vision... Those who have Eyes, are Clearly Seeings, and for me and God’s Children, it’s truly Kingdom Purposed... For God does know our beginning from the end, for His plans for us are to be taken to an expected end.
And if you haven’t seen it in Spirit with Scripture to confirm it, it won’t manifest, to be Blessed of God. Oh My, so many nuggets.
It’s a Beautiful things when God designs a mate that Speaks to your Spirit-man, heart, instead of your flesh, brain...
Truly in love with the intellect of The King...💝💯 Yup!!!
I hope Stephan is getting compensated adequately for this video as the views increase, he’s a gem
Hello Becky
Stephan is brilliant and I always enjoy him on the podcast 😊 Great episode guys 👍🏼
when a person says "you're mine forever" , GTFO
@Joys Destiny that really work,yeah right?? 🤣🤣
You're not mine... it's just my turn
Oh my gosh..Thank God i didnt even start anything and someone said that. "You are mine for ever"
Stephan is so well articulate it is like art to the ears listening to him speak aswell as incredible knowledge ❤
I'm single because I'm in no rush and i want to take my time finding the right one then to be the guy giving the advice after 8 failed relationships.
The problem is people are in ruins due to social media, porn and seeking validation from everyone else but thier lover. Encouraging bad behavior and a lost sense of love.
Relationships are no longer we can better ourselves and we are the prize because the partner is someone i love and value. Its more of a battle who can be the most heartless and spreading it on to others that want meaningful relationships taking nice guys for example.
Now I and many have to suffer for other peoples bad preferences they refuse to change and forget but instead label everyone as bad while posting it all over instagram, tik tok, twitter ,etc.
The worst part of it all is these damaged people often act like childern and they make preferences based on how they were damaged taking the daddy issues for example. They will try to date the same type of person that damaged them in the first place and loop the cycle.
I feel as many people now a days have disposable, disrespectful relationships. Its very rare now a days when people do stay together. I had two toxic relationships ( verbal, physical abuse, cheeting) in my lifetime and truly dont care to make time for relationships/dates. anymore.
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This man is right on the mark! I love it! He knows what he is talking about! Thank you for sharing!
Hello dear
I would have loved us to chat and become friends, Hope to hear from you soon
@@ryanwalker3076do you have a Facebook account?
@@samanthafoster4788 yes i have, but a very bad network service , we can chat on hangout , can i have your gmail pls
@@ryanwalker3076 I'm not comfortable putting any of my personal information on youtube comments. I don't use hangout! I'm unsure what this platform is.
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Wow, if there were just more single men like Stephan! I think he gives the most grounded-in-truth advice I've heard from any CZcams coach. Solid🙌🏼
Stephan is talking about "energy" that you can't explain but you just know is there. He is right about blocking and diverting if you haven't healed and changed those beliefs that are keeping you stuck. So many people think that marriage and having a family is a fix for all unresolved fears and issues. That's an individual's inside job and then watch how synchronicities fall into place! You can also be in love and committed yet not married so "single" can mean different criteria to different people.
I have been single for almost 8yrs now , I am 40 and starting to worry that I may not find the person that I have both chemistry and compatibility and I dont want to settle😒
That’s because we live in a hookup culture! It’s $100 for some ass. Nobody talks about love no more
Me too. I am 1 yr behind u. I'm so depressed
You actually don't look like the type to be single, you been choosy about who you pick or what? in a good way i mean, sorry im prying ill go now.
@Boss ` interesting, Im gonna read over this a few times, because it resonated deeply with me, I tryed to fight it at first but I felt no ego, pseudo science or preachiness in it, just good observation of the reality of relationships. We get ideals from TV, songs and films, and porn lol, but reality is often very different.
Showering someone with constant affection and appreciation, makes up for lack of love for oneself, which is never good for a long time relationship. Know one likes needy people, even needy people.
@@chokeonthis2932 true I screenshot that reply so I can remember it. However there has to be attraction. Because I met someone last night that i have no chemistry with. He's relationship material but I've tried so many times and I can't even have sex with him because I'm not attracted to him
Ya, instant chemistry is great. But I agree with the comments below. People tend to be attracted to what is familiar. Like people who had abusive male figures might find themselves to be drawn to abusers.. I think looking for instant connection can be great but also can be a short cut to putting the work in and growing to love eachother. A lot of older generations developed deep lasting love that wasn't based on superficial chemistry.
Exactly ! Instant chemistry may have something to do with familiarity. Gut instincts are based on past experiences and they're part of body. That's why it doesn't follow logical but instead shows up as bodily sensations. If the past experience is a wrong learned lesson, then the instant judgement will turn out to be a bad decision. Malcolm gladwell explains it in his book Blink.
7:59 fulfillment 8:23 happiness
God bless you StephanSpeaks and Lewis Howes .Too hurt people together hurt each other more sometimes is true.Everything is spiritual yes.The energies make a difference,We attract who we are not what we want.Healing makes a difference and depending on how deep the wounds are makes a difference.Forgiveness is in order and x seems safe and isn't.Back and forth wastes alot of time.Moving on is best.Easier said than done everything stems from our childhood.We can heal.
Powerful conversation. I met my Wife on Instagram and married 6 months later. Everyone relationship is different
Thank you for saying that
How ppl find love on Instagram and Facebook? Is there an add on to these apps?😅
SpellboundTonight Facebook has an app built in called “Facebook dating” and there are singles groups
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@It's Scary to Remarry...did you have that overwhelming powerful feeling they described in the video when you first interacted with her in person? The, "she's the one" feeling?
Love it! I already feel uplifted and it's only 5:30 in the conversation. Love the energy
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This is probably one of the best videos I’ve listen to Alex forward to hearing seeing him more thank you Luiz for all that you do and all your Helpful meaningful guest hope you have a new show I wish you the best
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Personally I find life to be filled with many beautiful things to see and do aside from just dating. Dating is like 10% but people spend like 90% of their day and energy stressing over it and letting it control them.
Great point!
I’m so grateful for Stephan’s wisdom!💖
I disagree as well, the spirit can be attracted to what's familiar and what's familiar isn't always the best for a person, especially with people who have suffered trauma as a child. Deep friendships grow over time. Love is just a deep friendship that also needs to grow over time and might include physical attraction and sex.
That’s why insecure girls chase toxic dudes, they’re just use to chasing it so it’s in their mindset
That's the reason that you need to heal first - he also said so...
That's ego, not spirit..
I like how this man makes the interviews . He lets the other person talk and does not want to excessively put his point in it.