What's the Difference Between Good Boundaries & Poor Boundaries?

Having good, healthy boundaries in place versus poor, unrealistic boundaries can make all the difference in our personal, spiritual, and physical lives. Having boundaries is important (especially when loving someone suffering from addiction), but boundaries can be confusing. What is a good boundary, some of us might be wondering?
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[@dhelsiogalaxy2594]

Thank you Michelle for sharing all these thoughts. It helps so much to listen to you.

[@TxHoneyBee]

I think survivors get caught up on boundaries, but abusers are intend on overstepping and destroying boundaries no matter how good we are at upholding them. We can't blame ourselves for the actions and choices of others.