Spillin' the tea: Garage Updates, Relationships, Hobbies & DIY Advice
Vložit
- čas přidán 3. 07. 2024
- Answering your burning questions! Mental Health? Pregnant? Garage Updates? DIY Regrets? Friends? Reading Favs?
💟Join my patreon: / diyinprogress
Subscribe: bit.ly/subDIYDanie | Make sure to enable ALL push notifications!
⚡️ Shop CREATIVE BEAST Apparel!
shop.diyinprogress.com/
👜 Shop This Episode:
🎨 ART:
Sam Toft: samtoft.co.uk/
Shayda Campbell: / @shaydacampbell
LaurieAnneArt: www.laurieanneart.com/en-ca
CopperCorners: www.coppercornersart.com/
🎥 EDITING:
Follow Editor Lisa!
lisa_drupst...
👩🎤🦄 HAIR & BEAUTY:
CAD: amzn.to/4cESaFq
USD: amzn.to/3J8dqXv
“DONT STOP” Nars PowerMatte Lipstick: rstyle.me/+JVf0KXuHdlY7JLdoJS...
“FULL RED: Makeup Forever Color Pencil: urlgeni.us/vkQ6
Maybelline Colour Blur, Red Orange:
US: amzn.to/3PHhII9
CAD: amzn.to/43CDjHI
👗 STYLE:
Fitted bodysuit:
CAD: amzn.to/3TXMb7q
USD: amzn.to/3PJQQr3
Free People Chunky Cardigan: urlgeni.us/people/YgsVt
Brown Poncho: Discontinued :(
📚 BOOKS:
CAD: amzn.to/3VzApl1
USD: amzn.to/3TUyhTF
🛠 GARAGE & TOOLS
Garage Door - Garaga - www.garaga.com/ca
Sawstop Compact Table Saw- urlgeni.us/zMynI
Milwaukee Packout - bit.ly/2VYUtNH
Jigsaw - bit.ly/3xgbAAt
Circular Saw - bit.ly/4a53Y2d
Orbital Sander - bit.ly/4afXA8g
Drill Kits - bit.ly/3TZBdyt
🛍️ Shop my Amazon Home Favs!
CDN: amzn.to/3LaX164
USD: amzn.to/3FbZ1Hj
✨ Watch the latest videos: bit.ly/3FRT7w2
🔴Watch More DIY Danie Favs!
HOME MADE HOME: • HOME MADE HOME | DIY D...
CAN I MAKE IT FOR CHEAPER?!: • CAN I MAKE IT FOR CHEA...
THRIFT FLIPS: • THRIFT FLIPS | DIY DANIE
MOST POPULAR: • MOST POPULAR | DIY DANIE
⚡️ Follow DIY Danie
Facebook: / diydanie
Instagram: / diydanie
Blog: diyinprogress.com/
TikTok: / diydanie
Pinterest: / diyinprogress
Society6: society6.com/bebopdanie
#DIYDanie #Q&A #SpillTheTea
📖 CHAPTERS
00:00 Intro
00:57 What type of dog is Kenobi?
03:47 What does he do?
04:09 How did you meet your husband?
04:54 Do you run your diy Projects by Geoff?
05:50 Do you want children?
06:30 Favorite Food Item?
06:40 What is your horoscope?
06:50 Are you neurodivergent?
07:38 Is This Your Forever Home?
08:25 New Hobbies?
09:19 Dream DIY project?
10:01 Creepy Basement?
10:11 What Projects Are Coming Up?
10:55 What Did Your Home Look Like At the Beginning?
11:21 What Skill Would You Like To Master?
11:54 Favorite Artists?
13:00 Who Edits Your Videos?
14:15 How Do You Collaborate With Your Editor?
15:20 UFO to UAPS?
15:54 What Motivates You When DIY Doesn’t Work?
16:32 Advice For Aspiring DIY Content Creators On CZcams?
17:15 What Advice Would You Give Past DIY Danie Starting Out?
17:55 How is Your Hair?
19:35 Hair Tools?
21:17 Favorite Clothing Stores?
33:50 What Dark Red Lipstick Do You Wear?
24:46 Favorite Harry Potter Character?
26:15 How Is Your Mental Health?
27:36 Why the Book + Belts?
28:40 DIY Regrets?
29:44 Favorite Star Trek Captain?
29:57 Girl Crush?
30:02 Will You Be At Maker Camp?
30:15 Is Being On CZcams Hard For Mental Health?
32:25 Are You Still Friends With AG?
35:30 What is your favorite room in the house?
35:52 What is a New Fantasy Book or TV Show You Love?
36:41 Top 5 Fiction Recommendations? Share Your Book Stack!
41:57 Ride or Die Paint Colors?
42:48 Did you take Woodworking Classes?
43:54 Do You Take Reno Projects Outside of CZcams?
44:14 What Do You Listen To When You Work?
45:09 Garage Door Brand?
46:12 Garage Updates
47:28 Updated Plans?
50:11 Garage Timeline?
50:54 What would you hire out in future?
51:20 What are your favorite tools? What Tools Do You Want?
52:51 How Do You Avoid Hurting Yourself With Doing A Project?
53:36 Small Space Most Essential DIY Tool List?
54:53 Outro
📍 O T H E R P L A C E S T O F I N D M E
Visit my Blog “DIY In Progress”: www.diyinprogress.com/
Instagram: / diydanie
Pinterest: www.pinterest.ca/diyinprogres...
Facebook: / diydanie
📽 EDITED BY
Lisa Drupsteen
🎶 M U S I C A T T R I B U T I O N
All music sourced by licensing.
Music Provided by: Artlist.io + CZcams Music Library
💌 🫂 C O N N E C T W I T H M E
Email: bebopdanieproductions@gmail.com
📬 S N A I L M A I L
Attn: Danie Berger
975A Elgin Street
PMB No.128
Cobourg, Ontario, K9A5J3
»»»» All opinions are my own. Thank you xoxox DIY Danie - Jak na to + styl
Kenobi sleeping with that sweet little expression on his face, "tell me more about how cute I am"
Oh he LOVES to hear how cute he is 😂🥰
Knowing that your editor is a comedy producer and does improv makes sooo much sense because DIY/home videos have no business being so FUNNY 🤣 and i always end up giggling throughout your videos. I swear it's a big part of what makes your content different and memorable! Masterful usage of memes etc
Woot!
YES! I vote for the redemption round! I would love to see how you solve for an overly heavy table. Do you fill the form with a smaller form, and leave it hollow on the inside somehow? Do you fill the form with plastic balls? Do you use foamcrete? Do you make it out of a lighter material and apply a skim coat of concrete? I would love to see what you come up with. Do you put up surveys and let your fans decide? If you're ever short of video ideas, that would be fascinating!
I might just have to!!!
That content would be so interesting. Actually it could turn into a series. Since you said your DIYs are usually the first time then showing making something again...even if you would make it the same way...would be so interesting. Now that's something I've never seen 💜💙💚💛🧡
Please make Redemption a series
Yes please!
I think this is something missing in the DIY space, the audience always gets to see the beautiful product but i am very interested in how it’s working in real life and if the creator would do it differently or replace it completely 😊
Who knew our sweet, quirky, funny, talented and beautiful Dani is so very wise??? Although I’m 67 years young, I want to be like you when I grow up! ❤❤❤
Me too. I'm 64.
A mom friend of mine told me, "if you love your life now (and you perhaps already feel stressed and busy), maybe don't have kids."
😂😂
Which is exactly why we are currently on the 'no kids' side. I would have to change jobs, my partner might have to give up his time intense hobby. Just too much change, while getting the new job of raising and supporting a new human.
As the mother of 3, I had children for purely selfish reasons -- I wanted children! But if someone doesn't feel that selfish desire for children, they should *not* have them. There's nothing innately good about having children or bad about not having them. (I'm glad I had and have my children but it's a purely personal choice).
@@TamarLitvot I was the same too. So much so that I divorced my first husband because he ended up not wanting any when he knew full well that I wanted kids and told me before we got married that he was onboard. 15 years later and I now have a loving husband with 2 beautiful boys ❤ Life is definitely more hectic but I am loving it. I learned that sometimes WANT can exceed NEED. Nobody needs to have children if they don't have them but the want once you have them can turn into need for sure!
If you might want them though, don’t leave it too late. Better to be slightly underprepared than miss the boat.
You never get over loss, you just carry it differently over time!
I must have missed something :( What happened in 2022? You mention loss.
@@jeannawalton8107 her stepdad died.
@@jeannawalton8107 Their cute little garden house is named after him
My mom passed away 15 years ago and I still get overwhelmed with grief at times.
"Jack of all trades but a master of none is still always better than a master of one" ❤ my favorite quote as an artist
I think you handled tragedy and loss beautifully and you certainly helped keep me sane during Covid. Your sense of humor is charming and reminds me so much of my granddaughter who I do not see. You are a joy!
“Jack of all trades master of none better than master of one” is the whole quote
Thank you for speaking about dyslexia! I was a secondary teacher for 10 years before I realized I am dyslexic; it has such an impact on your mental health when you understand why you struggle with learning! Love, love your work and what you share with us on the interwebs :)
Thank you! I adore your beautiful vulnerability and honesty. I look forward to watching you each week
Thank you xx I really appreciate that! Xx
I think this is literally the best Q&A I’ve ever seen. I love the format on how you completed this. Plus you’re pretty cool person to watch. Keep it pushing.
I’m loving your hair in its natural color. And I love the length on you.
❤️❤️ thank you xx
As a Special Education teacher for decades I appreciate your comments about dyslexia. Students who have difficulty learning to read or do math due to a learning disability always feel that they are stupid. I always tell my students that part of the diagnosis for a learning disability, like dyslexia, is that the person must have average or above intelligence. Another interesting thing I have noticed is the number of my students who have exceptional artistic skills and have gone into the arts professionally. The way their brain sees the world and images is gifted, not disabled.
OKAY!!! Day number 2 hair!!! WOWZA!! You are stunning!! I really feel this hair and length is the BEST for you. And the natural color is BEST!! DAYUM DANI. You Gorgeous girl.
😳😳🥰
I’d love a redemption series! I think it would be an amazing boost for you to do this, it will show you how far you have truly come. We all need that hunny. ❤
Holy cow: watching that dog climb that tree and grab that ball was stunning! Shocked at that skill.
I was worried about what would happen when it let go of the ball and fell!
Was that Kenobi?? It was incredible!
@@rocioiribe5841 o not Kenobi. This video is going around a long time already. Pretty amazing dog!
Hello Daniе! My name is Christina. I'm from Russia. I've been watching your videos for months. I really like you as a person. You are open and kind. You create a cozy atmosphere. I look forward to your videos every week. I wish you a lot of creative strength and patience. Thank you for the inspiration.
Yes we all have opinions, but we can all strive to give those opinions in a kind, respectful way. It seems so many folks have either lost that ability or perhaps they were not taught those manners. I wish for a world of humans with more compassion and empathy. I feel we are losing that. This was a fun video, Danie. Sending hugs from Kentucky.
I stand behind that compassion too Xo thank you so much!
Also I forgot to say thanks for the book recommendations!
2022 was hard for so many, I sometimes wonder if the “rebound” from Covid was like opening up Pandora’s box emotionally/professionally/family dynamics for many of us. You had a lot of other wrenches lobbed at you, too, so thank you for being so real. I know it helped me through a lot, a reminder that those I admire are human like the rest of us. My wife and I have been subscribed since your earliest days on CZcams, and I’m a happy “early adopter” on your Patreon. We are about to embark on our first “real home” and have several of your content pieces tagged as inspo. If you ever do consults, we would gladly pay for your expertise! We always like to seek out young, dynamic, self-made creatives as a source of both inspiration and joy. You’re doing great things, the sky is the limit!
😂😂 "I'm just a girl who lives inside her own movie." Oh i totally get that! You are! And we love watching you! ❤
I think your hair is absolutely gorgeous - love the shorter version 'cause it frames your face so beautifully! Thanks for your videos Dani - they motivate me & that's not easy these days!
Loving an in depth drive into Dani World! ❤
❤️❤️❤️ she is a doozy but it’s honest! Xx
“ Jack of all trades master of none, though oftentimes better than master of one.” This is the full quote 💛 so you keep dabbling in all of the creative outlets 😊 you are doing wonderful 😍
I really appreciate how you care about safety and demonstrate it while DYI-ing. I always cringe when diyers do projects without any safety gear.
So true. Snap was amazing. I didn't appreciate him until the end. Brilliant character. The actor Alan Rickman, a special man. !!
So special ❤️
I am nerologically atypical too, and you have always been a breath of comfort and fresh air. I love your sense of humor and your quirky creativity. I always look forward to seeing what you do., whether it is my style or not. I hate the picture perfect people in real life and on CZcams. You are someone I would like to be my next door neighbor!!!
As a mom with an 11 month old, the belt and books is actually a genius way to baby proof books! 😂
Books with belts = doggo no knocko down onto flooro?? 🤞 😂😂
I mean…my thoughts exactly! 😂😂
It is necessary to tell you that pottery is addictive, consuming, fascinating, frustrating, calming, focusing, Zen, and fulfilling. I had been making art for 40 years when I fell down the clay rabbit hole and I am never coming out. (I learned to throw, but I don't keep a wheel now. Handbuilding gives me all I want. :) )
2 things:
1. You were my inspiration to wear more red lipstick cuz it's washes off and life's too short.
2. Thank you for the basic tool starter kit! I need that!!
I agree redemption rounds are the way to go!
Hi Danie. I bought a 100-year-old house about when you did-with the financial help of my papa who died because of Covid. I watched your content quite a lot, but haven’t in a while, and this was very cathartic to watch. Keep being authentically you.
New video!
Just popped in to say I’ll be back this evening. Long vids like these are nice to unwind with (and yes, there will be tea).
Edit: 2022 . . . ugh. If it were a person, 2022 would be the bully who knocked me down and stole my lunch money. Repeatedly. All year. But we made it! 🥊🏆
I agree! See ya later! ✌️
I cannot imagine criticizing someone for their content they share on CZcams! After all, they are SHARING ❤. When I first discovered the creative content on CZcams, I was surprised and amazed that people were willing to share. Who am I to criticize what someone is sharing with me. Don’t like the content, change the channel but don’t criticize. And your channel, Danie, is my all-time favorite!
I caught the AG shout out in your stair makeover
Of course! I watched her video before I did mine 😅 I needed all the help I could get!
Love the redemption video idea! It's awesome to see different approaches to the same project and remind us that we can keep learning and growing.
I’m so sorry 2022 was awful for you. I love your quirky personality and your videos are reflective of it. I also happen to love your hair right now - in fact before you discussed it, I was already thinking about trying a similar hair style! 🥰. I don’t always enjoy q&a but love yours. It is absolutely refreshing to watch a great DIY channel infused with humor and realism. Hugs to you and best wishes for a fabulous 2024!
Can I just say dani you make my Saturday mornings I won't do anything until iv watched your video😂love this channel so much so thank you you are a beautiful person❤❤❤
Thanks for spilling the tea! I think your hair looks the best I’ve seen it……very healthy and great cut/style framing your face.
Gotta give you the rest of the quote courtesy of Law and Lumber (I am a law nerd). It goes “Jack of all trades but master of none, but oftentimes better than a master of one.” I love the entire quote because I am a dabbler in many things and it makes my heart happy that it’s “oftentimes better” rather than “you can’t focus” 😂 Just found your channel last month in my recommended and I subbed immediately because you and this community are definitely my tribe!
Edit: BTW, Rob (@LawandLumber) is a lawyer who covers court cases and is also an AMAZING woodworker! He live streams on Friday nights and last night we spent 3 hours going over the Kim Kardashian lawsuit. She is being sued by a foundation for Donald Judd who was a furniture maker in the sixties whose (very rectangular table and chairs called La Manasa and Chair 84 go for $180,000 for getting a knockoff made and presenting it as authentic. On video. However, the whole backstory of this very ugly furniture as “iconic art” is hysterical as they are seriously trying to say he invented this table and chairs that seriously look like 9th grade shop class. It was a great time!
I squealed when you mentioned adding pottery to your "wheel" house of talents. Watching you for years, gave me the kick in the butt to start my pottery CZcams channel. I love how authentic you are and your comment about showing the mistakes. I'm a big fan of mistakes since they are the best teacher. You're going to be amazing, and playing with clay is sooo good for your mental health. ❤
Turns out my husband was better at it than me 😅😅🫠 but as soon as I threw away the “proper technique”, I actually felt like I got better at it
@DIYDanie There's so many ways to center. I teach that you need to find your way. Plus, with pottery there are so many ways to make things. Not just in the wheel, but handbuilding too. My favorite is combining wheel-thrown pieces with handbuilding elements. Keep at it!
Wow! What an awesome video this was. Loved the q & a format and you moving around to different rooms. Loved the garage update too. I watch you faithfully and am crazy for your diy’s but it was SO nice having you share so much. From your lipstick, books and your tools it was all so good. One last love was that this was nice and long but not too long. Definitely one of my favs. Thanks for sharing😃
The new color on the bookcase in the office brings out the wallpaper so much more. Very pretty.
Regarding books & belts, I had thought you were just going to originally put the belts around book groupings. I was shocked when I saw you put it around the books and the bench. Personally, I think putting the belts just around groups of books would be more reminiscing of ages ago, and maybe how people might carry books. I don’t know, that’s just the vibe I get when I think about it. Of course, you just do you Danie! 😊
Lastly, regarding your Wonder, Woman mounted arms with Lasso in your office, I still think those arms need 1970’s Wonder Woman bracelets on them (either from the World War II early version, or the later up-to-date 1970s version).
29:34 - Regarding "redemption builds", I would definitely be interested. AAAAAAND. And. You put the old and redemption versions side by side, decide which of the two you'll keep (if any), and the lesser gets posted for sale on an online store of your choosing. Profits can either go directly to you for future projects, or to a charity.
Damn a Nuclear Engineer - Very impressed. Yes that breed of a dog is one of the best in my opinion as well. I had a Belgian Tervuren, many years ago. The smartest dog I've ever had, looked like a long haired Shepherd, solid black.
You answered so many questions in a variety of topics, great coverage. Nicely done!
I like this style of Q & A - where questions are gathered and organized prior to filming answers. I absolutely hate the Q & A's where you watch someone stare at a screen while scrolling looking for a question. I find those very boring and don't watch.
Excited to watch the progress of the garage and upper studio. And, super kudos to the viewer that sent in the 3-D suggestions. Awesome!
Thank you for sharing so much! I was excited to learn Geoff works in Nuclear Power. I always had a feeling we were in similar fields from the way you talked about him. I'm a mechanical engineer working in Gas Power and really admire nuclear power but couldn't handle the schooling 😅
My dog does the same thing with frisbees!! lol he loves to run around with it with his head through it sometimes simultaneously biting it.
I think it’s sweet how much he loves when people come over to the point of sleeping in the same bed as them
With all respect to your wonderful hubby, you are my woodworking creative girl crush!! Also Gillian Anderson is bomb!
Kids used to carry their books to school wrapped in a belt way before back packs.
You are truly awsesome and authentic ❤
Your hair does look amazing! Short, wavy, healthy and more importantly that you’re happy with it. I remember the change was hard so I worried ❤
“I’m just gonna dab it. May be it’ll make me look dewy. “ such a sweet way of you, trying to cope. Girl, I hope the best for you 🥰
Thank you so much for sharing so honestly and openly Danie. That was just about the best Q and A I've ever been honoured to watch and listen to. You are so generous with your ideas and experience and even at my advanced age of 79 (a month ago) and a life of arts, crafts and diy exploits of my own I've learned so much from you. I look forward to your videos and I'm always intrigued by the question of what will Danie create this time? Much love from a woman after your own heart, a retired librarian and reader. Keep on enjoying your reading journey of fantasy worlds, and never put yourself down. You're a special and valuable woman. 🤗💖
would love to see redemption rounds, it would be enjoyable to see how older projects would inspire new creations.
Your hair looks super cute ☺️, I’m glad you’re less stressed and it’s better, big hugs!
It's been a while since you upcycled an item for someone else...I love seeing their reactions to their new/old item.
Me too!!
You’ve already got a robust book list going, but wanted to recommend the Shades of Magic series by V.E Schwab, and the Dresden Files series by Jim Butcher. Magic and adventure all around - loved diving into these series - definitely worth checking out!
My husband and I were married for four years (together for eight at that point) before we had kids. Enjoy being married for a few minutes. If and when it’s right for you, you’ll know.
I just absolutely love you Dani! Ur weird is perfect for me. I never miss a video 🥰
😭😭 thank you! ❤️
I found Sam Toft while searching for dog prints. I purchased “Woofing along on the River “
I have a friend who has 3 pugs. Couldn’t believe this amazing work of art.
I’m hooked on Sam & Danie 💙💙
@lisa I have to appologize for my comment a view videos ago! Called you the edditor guy (thought the guy Danie did the desk for was the edditor) so I repeat...yay to you editor Lisa 👍👍👍 you are doing a great job.
Yes Dan was the previous editor and Lisa took over in January of 2023 ❤️ both editors are awesome xx
Woot!
A Mom & Daughter Duo (Jessica & Sandi Brock) have a Book Club on CZcams. They have a review of several of the books you showed us. And they both have their own CZcams channels.
I think it would be so fun to have a group of viewers come help you make some strides on the garage. I would take a week of vacation to help!
ooh the tea
I just want to say how much I've enjoyed your videos over the years. You are the first DIYer that I watched who's absolutely fearless with her power tools. I grew up in a generation where girls didn't use power tools. I confess I run a pretty mean chainsaw but that was unusual. Your creative spirit and your ability to make it happen is inspiring and very entertaining. Keep up the great work I hope it always continues to feed your soul. Thank you!
Also, Attack on Titan soundtracks. AMAZING.
Ooooh child! Yessssss 🙌
Danie, you are so relatable and I love you for it! I vote you do a redemption episode. I think it would be fun and I know you'd crush it... again!
Always interesting! Thks for sharing! 😊
Thank you for this video, loved it ❤
Thank you for sharing 🤗🤗🤗
I love your content so much!
Wow! This was an amazing episode! Contact, Harry Potter, film scores, power tools…I feel like we’re related! I hope you never stop doing this channel. I would go into mourning. Thank you thank you thank you💖💖💖
Kindered!
Thanks for this video!
We love you Danie!
When I can’t fall asleep I always listen to any random Neil Gaiman book, it is the most soothing thing in the world
He still is 😊
This was awesome! 🤩
This was a great q & a!
❤❤❤
Excited for anything that you do.
great video! Thank you for sharing!
Redemption! It would be awesome to see how you think now as compared to original.
Awesome video!!
You're just so delightful!
I'm also a super thrifty person. I love visiting thrift stores for clothes! But I've recently bought a couple of nice things from. Blackmilk because of their collaborations with Pokémon and Nintendo. It's wayyyy above what I would normally ever consider spending. But I bought myself the cutest Ditto sweater for my birthday present. 🥰
I KNOW WHICH SWEATER YOU BOUGHT!!!! jelly!!! ❤️ sometimes, we gotta treat ourselves to a little something extra xx
GREAT VIDEO!!! Thank you for sharing..
Much ❤️
Yay Sundays with Danie are good Sundays.
YES! Redemption round!
Redemption round series!! ❤
150% redemption round!!
Loved this video. Well I always do but did love this one!!
Thank you so much for the book reccomendations !!
Loved this! You are the sweetest person! Thank you for sharing. You are so gifted in inspiring others and I'm so blessed to be able to know someone like you even if I don't "really" know you.
When you started crying I started crying. I lost my emotional support animal last October. She was a stunningly gorgeous black cat named Catterina and she was my best friend. I work from home and we were always together. Her passing was unexpected & hit my husband & I hard. She always stayed next to me while I worked. When my anxiety would spike she just knew when I needed her and would be in my face, purring and making me pet her. I never went anywhere in the house alone. Suddenly my best friend was gone and I was alone and on my own. EVERYTHING reminded me of her. Loss like that is incredibly painful. I know your loss is different however loss is loss. And we all just grieve and get through it. It's so incredibly painful though.
I'm happy to say that my husband and I have rescued two black kitties. They're boys and it's a very different vibe with them in the house. Not bad, just different. And while I no longer have my shadow I do have two beautiful boys who check up on me throughout the day. They kind of tag team when my stress is high. It's amazing, really. It's helped heal a very broken heart so quickly. I miss my best friend so much. However I'm getting used to the new normal & I remind myself I'm so fortunate Catterina was in my life.
I really hope this year is amazing for you and that, like me, you can find ways to enjoy your new normal. 💖
Rock on Danie love your work
Redemption Round !!! Happy Easter Danie and Family 🥰😇
Your hair and makeup look great in this video. The lip color is so great.
We love you, Dani!
I so enjoyed this Q&A!! 💜
This was fun and thank you for your honesty.
I love the belts and books!!!!!!!
Someone needs to turn your first meeting story into a romance novel: cute nerd and funny artist stuck in fire escape and fall in love 💕