Abusers are in all communities. They thrive in communities like this where they know they can keep their secrets. This man has great courage to go back and fight for victims.
This is the result of repression and secrecy without accountability its the same in the catholic church and for basically and fundamentally the same reasons.
So true. Key to secrecy seems to be a disposition about ignoring reality in favour of ideals and concepts. Notions that seem to provide orientation and security in a complex world. Yet ... this creates lots and lots harmful taboos. I do know similar stories from the pietist/puritan Protestant world, Jehova's Witnesses, ... The mechanisms of abuse additionally always include power and ignorance. On the wider societal field this also explains why the ratio of gender nonconforming children becoming victims is extraordinarily high. It's so important to break the silence. To expose the mechanisms in different communities ... that finger pointing to specific community becomes rather pointless. Yet, the courage it takes to get the voice of victims heard and the violence that may (and does occur) when abuse is in danger to be exposed ... is very different in different communities. It get more difficult the more hierarchies are accepted as "natural" and yet are informed by random immutable traits (like skin color, sex, gender, age, ...). A huge thank you to Kal Holczler, who is fighting abuse within certain parts of the Jewish community. (And the case of Malka Leifer shows: Training just women is not enough ...)
But they have it easier in some religious groups, some groups like scouts, brownies and some jobs, such as teaching. It’s disgusting, yet the bird app wants everyone to be nice to them and change the name of them 😤😤😤🤮🤮🤮
I was happy to see that she is willing to open her home up for this important meeting, to give families a way to deal with this. She is sticking her neck out. I can't imagine what it was like for Kal, or for his mother to find out such a thing happened to her son.
You can see the look of shame and regret on his mother's face that she allowed that to happen to her son. At the same time you can see how much respect she has for him and the look of pride that she has for the man that he has become. Keep up the great work!!
She had no idea about what was happening to him! She looks shocked and defensive to me! But I have no idea how she's feeling because I'm not her. Still, she did not allow anything! She simply did not know. If anything, blames herself for not knowing like so many mothers do...
What about physical abuse? I’m almost 60 years old and was physically and emotionally abused in a orthodox family. Everything was dealt in-house and no one believed me including my aunt and uncles. It ruined my life❣️🇨🇦
Janet Wayne I just read your story and I feel So sorry for you. The disbelieve and lack of trust can be very hurtful. I send you my warm support. I believe you. Shalom from France.
@@Fumi007 What In The World?!?! How could you ever come up with that conclusion? She is not trying to take attention away from him! My goodness! She's just asking about physical and emotional abuse! That kind of abuse happened too! WOW! You have absolutely no compassion at all! She mentioned her abuse and you respond by accusing her of seeking attention! She's wanting help! Wow! Absolutely DISGUSTING!
This violation of children in this community that tries so hard to live by G-d's word is a horrible abomination. What good is it to follow mitzvos so conscientiously when the most atrocious abominations are being committed against these children?
Ur dealing with evil spirits that need to come out! Why do u think everything geting bad now we need to serve Allmighty GOD psalms 103 GOD deliveres us from satan and seats us in heaven with him!
I'm sorry to hear you say this. True, there is no excuse for allowing such a thing to happen. But when I do something wrong, it doesn't invalidate the things I do right! (Of course I would never hurt a child.) It's very hard to remind ourselves that the good side of a person (referring to the bystanders, not necessarily the abuser?) is just as real as the bad side.
@@forestmcneir3325 MISHNAH. He who gives of his seed to Molech incurs no punishment unless he delivers it to Molech and causes it to pass through the fire. If he gave it to Molech but did not cause it to pass through the fire, or the reverse, he incurs no penalty, unless he does both. Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Sanhedrin 64a
The fact that communities like this seem to think they are above the law... is disgusting! You hear of it in many many fundamentalist religious sects in all religions... it’s horrible, and sad that so many victims have nowhere to turn... and in many cases don’t even realize what they have been through was wrong... this guy is doing good work ❤️ May God be with him in his journey.
Unfortunately they are above the law as the law doesn't dare get involved with these communities. The ones who suffer are the kids. All because PC ness.
Emteepa EmTrayPa - Law enforcement has a duty to protect ALL citizens. It shouldn’t matter what community they live in. This is America. If the police won’t go in there and the community won’t stand up for the innocent, then maybe some “street justice” needs to happen. I hope that girl sues her evil uncle.
Kal is such a gentle, lovely man. His cousin is sweet. I’m so sorry this happened to them but happy for them that they have the courage to expose evil people. I hope they both find immense happiness in their lives.
You had to have such a horrible experience in order to find your path. Your calling is to help and defend the children. Hope you know that there is something greater giving you guidance, strength and courage. You are not alone.
God made us sexual creatures - male and female - and sexual abuse is NEVER acceptable. Hiding abuse behind a religious veneer is the most despicable act of treachery to another fellow human being. I honour Kal for not only talking about it but doing something in his community. I am so glad his parents are now supporting him. I pray for continued courage for all who stand up for righteousness.
@@volz519 lol they will probably claim the Elders Protocols of Zion as their source, I dont believe that there is really anything that promotes pedophilia in the Talmud, because that would also mean the Christian bible promotes it to
@@dogguy8603 The Bible and the Talmud have absolutely nothing to do with each other and do not come from the same source. Your reasoning is so strange. You litterally pulled that put of thin air!
child sexual/physical/emotional abuse is soul-killing. it's imperative for the victims to get justice before they can regain their lives. thank you, kal. my prayers for your healing and the healing of all victims.
this man tells the sad truth . wheres cnn ? abc? nbc? fox news? the news papers. ? magazines? where are you? you tell the world about catholic priests? how about Rabbi ?
jimmy: This guy is bad, but he is one rabbi. Just one. The scandal of Priests and nuns being sexually abusive to children was global, and the whole vast institution of the Catholic church. In short, it was a bigger story and was treated as such. This small group is a cult.
God bless this man for his courage ... why aren’t the authorities called into this this needs to be broughtout into the open and stop the sexual abuse of your children !
Your special man and I take my hat to you for standing up and helping I wish I could help in some way but am blind and live in UK. I hope God will help you get all that is needed for helping the children etc
Mr. Holczler is extremely courageous and very driven. Bringing justice and, hopefully, closure to himself and others is a big thing. I thought his conversation with his mother was brave. His mother seems to have stepped up to the plate to help and that required a shift in perception, I think she is to be applauded. Lot of lying going on. Congratulations to Kal. What you are doing is very important.
No she is not ... she is passive and was passive probably her husband is and was a kind of the macho of the family ... and she was submissive ... what else could it be ... she did not see the signs??? probably she turn her head the other side many do ... Brave and admirable are those mothers who confront and battle for their child less than that is unacceptable
@@margotward8736 tbh when you don't have a thing in your awareness, it isn't in your awareness. The mind in a pure state, is of a level of consciousness that is innocent like a child. The thinking is pure, and there can be no assumptions of anything unsafe, impure etc. It has been not conditioned in a perverse way, so literally cannot suspect wrong doings of this nature. It doesn't matter if the person is an adult, or child - what is active in the psyche, is what it is, and so if it is of a pure state, it cannot be seeing things as impure, unsafe etc. There is so much trust and love. I have experienced this, coming of a pure state of being, in whole love, trust etc, as an adult, and coming into contact with those who are perverse in their mind is various ways. Even to have their view, pressed upon my awareness that was of a pure state, and treated how I was treated, was deeply disturbing. I didn't know people could be or think however, or that various things would come to pass, just because I was so trusting and in my heart etc So I totally understand how she was believing she was safe, her children were safe, and she be unable to imagine various things. She could not, as it wasn't an active thing in her mind, psyche, etc. That's how brains are. And, when she did learn of the things, she did take action, after discussion etc.
I'm certainly not against Jews, Just against any form of sexual abuse, or abuse in any form in any community. It is good that someone cares enough to make a difference. Well done Hal.
🤔🤔🤔........ According to "biblical scripture" 😏😏😏, these white guys in this video ARE NNNNNOT THE REAL JEWS. Just sayin'...... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Abraham Shekelbergstien.......... they come from the Caucasus Mountains of Europe.... these are the Ashkenazi and the khazar Jews.... yes? With that being said, that makes them white..........Nnneeeeexxt.
I lived 15 years in London in the Jewish community. I study their culture and religion. I truly believed that this nation was chosen by God Watching movies like this makes me so disgusted with people who think that they are better than others There is more abuse and iniquities than out side world I am really sorry for all abused kids-and women. They really can’t go anywhere to talk. Kal God bless you. Your uncle doesnt have to testify in fron of you, but he will testify one day to God.
Amazing courage. Overcoming the pain and the shame of what happened to him, and then helping others who are dealing with the same issues, that is quite remarkable. God's shalom be with Kal.
All too commmon in all groups. However where people are powerless, often have no money or are uneducated and particularly where women live under patriachal societies it is harder to stop this.
Being Brave to be a Good Leader for child abuse is who we all need. Thank You for telling what happened to you dear Kal. I am a survivor too. My baby sitter teenager neighbor took me over to my mom's ironing board. Some day I am going to protest by walking down a street holding a banner that I will make with other survivors. Yeah... You lead the way !!! We need You !!!
Tessa, I hope someone was there to help you. Nebach, even if the abuser may have been abused, it's no excuse. They should get help, instead of causing suffering.
J. Alexander Maximilian- New Square is no more of a disgusting place than any other place. Bad things happen in all places, and all communities. The point of the video is that this guy is making a difference for the future.
So sad that this happened to him and is continuing to happen. I am a survivor is sexual abuse and it’s far too common. He is also very pleasing to look at
As a child abuse survivor, I realize that it is difficult for people to understand the emotional baggage that victims must deal with as they attempt to come to terms with such a traumatic childhood experience.
Way to go Mommy!! She loves her son unconditionally. Be blessed. May the wake up call send safe waves through the kehilla and into Monsey Spring Valley where my son may he rest in peace was abused.
Child abuse or abuse to anyone in any form should not happen but it definitely makes a huge different when the people you trust within your family believe you, stand by you and support you with all the help you need.
Kal, you are amazing for what you are doing, you risk everything to try and protect children. Respect for your parents for supporting you. I wonder if this planet will ever be free from bad people. One thing is for sure, without people like you Kal it definitely won’t be.
So what you are saying is that a community that purports to LOVE it's children, in fact turns their back on their own babies and sacrifices them to untold abuse for a place in society? Abuse is everywhere however when it's entrenched because of stupidity, then it's child abandonment. You are very brave and I pray for you and the wonderful work you are doing.
Yes, omg how stupid can a mother be not to see the signs of child abuse you have to be incredibly stupid or incredibly scared ... but the love of a mother should prevail children are meant to be protected at all costs ,,, some mothers are not innocent are just stupid or not educated enough ... innocence if for children .... I am sorry but any woman who enters a marriage and has children should be attentive, alert and vigilant better to be safe than sorry the mind of child is precious..... I would never trust any man with my child not even his father he was aware of my decision now day U cannot trust any man around your child
Great, inspirational young man. I wish him the best and happiest life he could possibly live. His mother and women like her needs to wise up and stop burying their heads in the sand. They are disgraceful, and desperately failing in their duty to protecting their children.
Kal and Ghitti, thankyou so much for your great courage in speaking about the abuse you suffered. The more people come forward, the more the issue is raised, the better the chances of protecting children within the community. You are doing great work but I urge you to involve the police. Kal, it is no wonder you developed addictions, given what you'd been through, and I am so proud of you for overcoming them. I am not Jewish but cruelty of any sort to children of any race, color or faith apalls me. Wishing you all the best in your endeavours.
You are my hero and it is true families do not want to talk about it and most do not want to hear about it it is suffering in silence bless you and all that you say and all that you do shalom
I forgave my abuser! I specifically went and asked him for forgiveness! Because I hated him- and he broke down and started to cry. And then named all of the things he’d done to me and asked for my forgiveness!
My prayer is for All humans across the world to protest, march, & demand justice for ALL abused children. All Children's Lives Matter. Abusing a child is the worst crime against humanity & it's rampant in homes, churches, schools, government & all kinds of institutions. It has been going on for thousands of years All the people demonstrating for anti-abortion & they won't even address child abuse. We will never have peace till children are free from abuse.
As Jewish, I never heard of any child sex abuse in our community but i support Kal to speak up and confront those people that attack children, I would do the same thing
Your missing the point and it doesn't matter if it's one group or other ........ He is just bringing awareness and help to victims and let's be honest your not 100% sure that your community is free of abuse .........
I watched this video before and my hat is off to this man. I do recall him saying "that all Jewish children should be safe." I wish he had said "all children."
I salute your courage. It's hard enough in any context but here it's particularly harder. I wish you and the other victims courage and God help them because they are on their own right because what happened to them is WRONG. It is so simple to understand and the people of any community should acknowledge that and do something about it.
Praying for you and the New Square community and all Jews to be unveiled. May God bless your mission and the Peace of Yeshua be with you and your cousin always.
Kal, you are wise beyond your years. Seeking beauty out of ashes, peace and reconciliation. I’m definitely in favor of reporting abuse to the proper authorities, but that probably won’t happen soon. Perhaps your way can help end the cycle over time - but I fear not nearly soon enough. But you are trying.
Not a cult look up the definition they are abusing the laws of the Torah there is no question and they should be punished on earth but they will definitely be sent to hell. Judaism is a religion that has survived mire than 6000 years and we will continue. Most of this was csused by holocaust survivors and many were abused themselves it is a vicioys cycle and must be beiken but agsin this is nit a cult. Christianity is then a cult. Because this ran rampant in the church and in Australia
Not a cult judaism is the oldest religion in the world. You have a big abuse scandsl in christian church in my community too and this is a diverse metropolutan area
I hope this young man manages to help the abused children, no matter what age they are now, the memories will be in the minds of the abused for life, all because religious elders believe it's their right to sexually, physically and abuse a child who is not strong enough to fight back. Proof that there are decent Jewish people like Kal looking out for them and searching for justice and getting those responsible to account for their actions. Keep up the great work you are doing Kal.
No child should be abused.
He is doing the right thing.
Well done kal.
Thank you. Child abuse is the worst crime ever.
Leaving many disturbed,the abuser6do not really care at all,they put the guilt on the child😥Look an the Catholic Church,they knew+hid it!
Their Talmud says it is okay to have sex with a 3 years old...Judaism is a sick, sick religion.
Linh Thai Duong where does it say that I am curious to know
@GodsDaughter OfLove in the name of a random man who was killed 2000 years ago amen 🙏
Abusers are in all communities. They thrive in communities like this where they know they can keep their secrets. This man has great courage to go back and fight for victims.
This is the result of repression and secrecy without accountability its the same in the catholic church and for basically and fundamentally the same reasons.
So true. Key to secrecy seems to be a disposition about ignoring reality in favour of ideals and concepts. Notions that seem to provide orientation and security in a complex world. Yet ... this creates lots and lots harmful taboos.
I do know similar stories from the pietist/puritan Protestant world, Jehova's Witnesses, ...
The mechanisms of abuse additionally always include power and ignorance. On the wider societal field this also explains why the ratio of gender nonconforming children becoming victims is extraordinarily high.
It's so important to break the silence. To expose the mechanisms in different communities ... that finger pointing to specific community becomes rather pointless.
Yet, the courage it takes to get the voice of victims heard and the violence that may (and does occur) when abuse is in danger to be exposed ... is very different in different communities. It get more difficult the more hierarchies are accepted as "natural" and yet are informed by random immutable traits (like skin color, sex, gender, age, ...).
A huge thank you to Kal Holczler, who is fighting abuse within certain parts of the Jewish community. (And the case of Malka Leifer shows: Training just women is not enough ...)
But they have it easier in some religious groups, some groups like scouts, brownies and some jobs, such as teaching. It’s disgusting, yet the bird app wants everyone to be nice to them and change the name of them 😤😤😤🤮🤮🤮
except it never gets dealt with in a Jewish community. Internal "police" sounds very cultish.
They are very lucky these communities dont breed hard men or else they would be killed.
Brave man with a wonderful heart. I salute what he is doing.
One good thing is that his mother came round to his side and is helping him in his fight!
I was happy to see that she is willing to open her home up for this important meeting, to give families a way to deal with this. She is sticking her neck out. I can't imagine what it was like for Kal, or for his mother to find out such a thing happened to her son.
She doesnt get it
What a beautiful man! Beautiful soul, beautiful outward appearance.
💯
You're a great protector of our children. Thank you!
You can see the look of shame and regret on his mother's face that she allowed that to happen to her son. At the same time you can see how much respect she has for him and the look of pride that she has for the man that he has become. Keep up the great work!!
+Yehuda ad His mother did not "allow" that to happen to him. Parents don't know unless a child tells.
She had no idea about what was happening to him! She looks shocked and defensive to me! But I have no idea how she's feeling because I'm not her. Still, she did not allow anything! She simply did not know. If anything, blames herself for not knowing like so many mothers do...
She seems so nice
The dad looked bored AF!!! The mom was probably abused in childhood too
@@aw3271 If the child doesn't tell you there is nothing you can do other than to catch them in the act.
I love Kal's Mother. She said that she was proud, that she had something that she could share, to do something For him.
" you are not my family", " you are not my judge", wow, weird creature. Well done kal, keep up the good work my friend.
Kal you are a real hero
God should bless you with a lot of luck for your work
What about physical abuse? I’m almost 60 years old and was physically and emotionally abused in a orthodox family. Everything was dealt in-house and no one believed me including my aunt and uncles. It ruined my life❣️🇨🇦
Janet Wayne I just read your story and I feel So sorry for you. The disbelieve and lack of trust can be very hurtful. I send you my warm support. I believe you. Shalom from France.
+Janet Wayne Ignore that doofus DapPopoloinParadise's comment. It's beyond her comprehension.
Janet Wayne So sorry for what happened to you.
@@Fumi007 What In The World?!?! How could you ever come up with that conclusion? She is not trying to take attention away from him! My goodness! She's just asking about physical and emotional abuse! That kind of abuse happened too! WOW! You have absolutely no compassion at all! She mentioned her abuse and you respond by accusing her of seeking attention! She's wanting help! Wow! Absolutely DISGUSTING!
@@elaine1034 EXACTLY! What a fool! Wow!
This man has tremendous courage.
This violation of children in this community that tries so hard to live by G-d's word is a horrible abomination. What good is it to follow mitzvos so conscientiously when the most atrocious abominations are being committed against these children?
Ur dealing with evil spirits that need to come out! Why do u think everything geting bad now we need to serve Allmighty GOD psalms 103 GOD deliveres us from satan and seats us in heaven with him!
I'm sorry to hear you say this. True, there is no excuse for allowing such a thing to happen. But when I do something wrong, it doesn't invalidate the things I do right! (Of course I would never hurt a child.) It's very hard to remind ourselves that the good side of a person (referring to the bystanders, not necessarily the abuser?) is just as real as the bad side.
Read the Talmud it's promoted.
@@cloverbird5785 citation? I'm sure you must know at least one.
@@forestmcneir3325 MISHNAH. He who gives of his seed to Molech incurs no
punishment unless he delivers it to Molech and causes it to pass
through the fire. If he gave it to Molech but did not cause it to
pass through the fire, or the reverse, he incurs no penalty,
unless he does both.
Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Sanhedrin 64a
Them being followed around reminded me of Scientology another cult
When the abusing uncle said, 'You are not my judge.' My reaction was, 'No, but God is!' A day is coming for sure.
O yes!
כול הכבוד!Your gentle approach and support of your cousin should bring great healing. The love and sadness in your parents eyes was moving.
Your parents should be so proud of your courage. You are an amazing person.
The fact that communities like this seem to think they are above the law... is disgusting! You hear of it in many many fundamentalist religious sects in all religions... it’s horrible, and sad that so many victims have nowhere to turn... and in many cases don’t even realize what they have been through was wrong... this guy is doing good work ❤️ May God be with him in his journey.
Catholic church too😥The promoted or sent the Priests to other countries,other parishes😥
I don't think any religious leader should be left alone with children. Pedophiles put themselves in position that allow them to be close to children.
Unfortunately they are above the law as the law doesn't dare get involved with these communities. The ones who suffer are the kids. All because PC ness.
Emteepa EmTrayPa - Law enforcement has a duty to protect ALL citizens. It shouldn’t matter what community they live in. This is America. If the police won’t go in there and the community won’t stand up for the innocent, then maybe some “street justice” needs to happen. I hope that girl sues her evil uncle.
Good for this courageous young man, Kal. I'm Roman Catholic, and we Catholics understand how hard it is to do what Kal is doing.
Kal is such a gentle, lovely man. His cousin is sweet. I’m so sorry this happened to them but happy for them that they have the courage to expose evil people. I hope they both find immense happiness in their lives.
You had to have such a horrible experience in order to find your path. Your calling is to help and defend the children. Hope you know that there is something greater giving you guidance, strength and courage. You are not alone.
I agree!
The following him around reminds me of Unorthodox...this is real life.
Einstien said, Turning your back to the tree, doesn't make the tree go away. They need to learn this.
Thank you for standing up and being a voice to victims of abuse. You are incredibly brave.
God made us sexual creatures - male and female - and sexual abuse is NEVER acceptable. Hiding abuse behind a religious veneer is the most despicable act of treachery to another fellow human being. I honour Kal for not only talking about it but doing something in his community. I am so glad his parents are now supporting him. I pray for continued courage for all who stand up for righteousness.
Francesca Posney Hear, hear!
PEDOPHILIA IS DIVINELY ORDAINED IN THE JEWISH TALMUD!
No, it is not at all. Please show me where in the Talmud it says this?
@@volz519 lol they will probably claim the Elders Protocols of Zion as their source, I dont believe that there is really anything that promotes pedophilia in the Talmud, because that would also mean the Christian bible promotes it to
@@dogguy8603 The Bible and the Talmud have absolutely nothing to do with each other and do not come from the same source. Your reasoning is so strange. You litterally pulled that put of thin air!
child sexual/physical/emotional abuse is soul-killing. it's imperative for the victims to get justice before they can regain their lives. thank you, kal. my prayers for your healing and the healing of all victims.
This came into my view in lockdown. What a beautiful young man and I will pray for you to have peace in your soul.
Thankyou for being brave enough to bring this to light! And for saving others..
this man tells the sad truth . wheres cnn ? abc? nbc? fox news? the news papers. ? magazines? where are you? you tell the world about catholic priests? how about Rabbi ?
jimmy: This guy is bad, but he is one rabbi. Just one. The scandal of Priests and nuns being sexually abusive to children was global, and the whole vast institution of the Catholic church. In short, it was a bigger story and was treated as such. This small group is a cult.
God bless this man for his courage ... why aren’t the authorities called into this this needs to be broughtout into the open and stop the sexual abuse of your children !
Your special man and I take my hat to you for standing up and helping I wish I could help in some way but am blind and live in UK.
I hope God will help you get all that is needed for helping the children etc
Bless you. Thank you.
Mr. Holczler is extremely courageous and very driven. Bringing justice and, hopefully, closure to himself
and others is a big thing. I thought his conversation with his mother was brave. His mother seems to have
stepped up to the plate to help and that required a shift in perception, I think she is to
be applauded.
Lot of lying going on.
Congratulations to Kal. What you are doing is very important.
No she is not ... she is passive and was passive probably her husband is and was a kind of the macho of the family ... and she was submissive ... what else could it be ... she did not see the signs??? probably she turn her head the other side many do ... Brave and admirable are those mothers who confront and battle for their child less than that is unacceptable
@@margotward8736 tbh when you don't have a thing in your awareness, it isn't in your awareness. The mind in a pure state, is of a level of consciousness that is innocent like a child. The thinking is pure, and there can be no assumptions of anything unsafe, impure etc. It has been not conditioned in a perverse way, so literally cannot suspect wrong doings of this nature. It doesn't matter if the person is an adult, or child - what is active in the psyche, is what it is, and so if it is of a pure state, it cannot be seeing things as impure, unsafe etc. There is so much trust and love.
I have experienced this, coming of a pure state of being, in whole love, trust etc, as an adult, and coming into contact with those who are perverse in their mind is various ways. Even to have their view, pressed upon my awareness that was of a pure state, and treated how I was treated, was deeply disturbing. I didn't know people could be or think however, or that various things would come to pass, just because I was so trusting and in my heart etc
So I totally understand how she was believing she was safe, her children were safe, and she be unable to imagine various things. She could not, as it wasn't an active thing in her mind, psyche, etc. That's how brains are. And, when she did learn of the things, she did take action, after discussion etc.
I'm certainly not against Jews, Just against any form of sexual abuse, or abuse in any form in any community. It is good that someone cares enough to make a difference. Well done Hal.
Well that should go without saying, all abuse is wrong no matter whos religion is involved
🤔🤔🤔........ According to "biblical scripture" 😏😏😏, these white guys in this video ARE NNNNNOT THE REAL JEWS. Just sayin'...... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Abraham Shekelbergstien.......... they come from the Caucasus Mountains of Europe.... these are the Ashkenazi and the khazar Jews.... yes? With that being said, that makes them white..........Nnneeeeexxt.
I lived 15 years in London in the Jewish community. I study their culture and religion. I truly believed that this nation was chosen by God
Watching movies like this makes me so disgusted with people who think that they are better than others
There is more abuse and iniquities than out side world
I am really sorry for all abused kids-and women. They really can’t go anywhere to talk.
Kal God bless you. Your uncle doesnt have to testify in fron of you, but he will testify one day to God.
Sadly abuse in all Faith's.
Abuse is also highly prevalent in all faiths. It’s about abuse of power, it’s not central to Judaism. The high priests in Catholicism for example
Amazing courage. Overcoming the pain and the shame of what happened to him, and then helping others who are dealing with the same issues, that is quite remarkable. God's shalom be with Kal.
I believe that somebody apart from Kal should stand up and SAY SOMETHING! This is sick and immoral!
All too commmon in all groups. However where people are powerless, often have no money or are uneducated and particularly where women live under patriachal societies it is harder to stop this.
Baruch HaShem!! Blessing on you, your Ima & your ministry!!
I love watching him with his mother, she’s really open to learning, she really loves her son.
Being Brave to be a Good Leader for child abuse is who we all need. Thank You for telling what happened to you dear Kal. I am a survivor too. My baby sitter teenager neighbor took me over to my mom's ironing board. Some day I am going to protest by walking down a street holding a banner that I will make with other survivors. Yeah... You lead the way !!! We need You !!!
You are a blessing to this world! Thank you for your honesty and courage and work and sharing.
You are a super hero cal
Sending this beautiful young man love and strength, good for him 🙏
Good for him! He has turned around to save so many ❤️
Thank you for being a voice.
This happened to me by my frum father.
The same happened to me by a rabbi who died two years ago.
@@victormalyar9200 wow ! Im so sorry to hear that ....i never think this can be happened by a Rabbi
Tessa, I hope someone was there to help you. Nebach, even if the abuser may have been abused, it's no excuse. They should get help, instead of causing suffering.
@@farnooshjebeli2765 We don't think of rabbis that way, & most of them are good. But hey, it happens.
@@Chanie787878 you 're right .every where you can find good and bad people .
He’s so brave I hope one day he has the strength to report the abuser
Report to where..to whom? He can't take him to court.
What an amazing person. Such courage to start this conversation.
Thank you for your work, what you are doing is amazing.
I like his face so handsome....
They come in sheep clothes and inside they are wolfs.
J. Alexander Maximilian- New Square is no more of a disgusting place than any other place. Bad things happen in all places, and all communities. The point of the video is that this guy is making a difference for the future.
You can see what happened to him in his eyes...so sad
Why don't we start posting names and addresses on these comment sections? These problems could potentially work themselves out anonymously.
Probably better to report info to police. Innocent people could wind up hurt. Very disturbing video, though.
Could say anyone is. Dox anyone and get anyone killed just say they did something.
So sad that this happened to him and is continuing to happen. I am a survivor is sexual abuse and it’s far too common. He is also very pleasing to look at
As a child abuse survivor, I realize that it is difficult for people to understand the emotional baggage that victims must deal with as they attempt to come to terms with such a traumatic childhood experience.
It was not your fault and I hope you remember that always. I wish you safety, joy, peace and happiness all days of your life.
Great job, Cal! 👍🏼 best of luck🙏🏼
Thank you for your courage to come forward...
Way to go Mommy!! She loves her son unconditionally. Be blessed. May the wake up call send safe waves through the kehilla and into Monsey Spring Valley where my son may he rest in peace was abused.
Kind hearted man. 💜
Child abuse or abuse to anyone in any form should not happen but it definitely makes a huge different when the people you trust within your family believe you, stand by you and support you with all the help you need.
If authorities can't do anything...post his picture to warn others. He sounds so calm like he continues to do his wrong with no guilt.
Kal, you are amazing for what you are doing, you risk everything to try and protect children. Respect for your parents for supporting you. I wonder if this planet will ever be free from bad people. One thing is for sure, without people like you Kal it definitely won’t be.
So what you are saying is that a community that purports to LOVE it's children, in fact turns their back on their own babies and sacrifices them to untold abuse for a place in society? Abuse is everywhere however when it's entrenched because of stupidity, then it's child abandonment. You are very brave and I pray for you and the wonderful work you are doing.
Yes, omg how stupid can a mother be not to see the signs of child abuse you have to be incredibly stupid or incredibly scared ... but the love of a mother should prevail children are meant to be protected at all costs ,,, some mothers are not innocent are just stupid or not educated enough ... innocence if for children .... I am sorry but any woman who enters a marriage and has children should be attentive, alert and vigilant better to be safe than sorry the mind of child is precious..... I would never trust any man with my child not even his father he was aware of my decision now day U cannot trust any man around your child
Read a Talmud. It's all in there. Including excuses for child sacrifice.
What a brave and good hearted man. God BLESS his work!
What a mensch 😍
Ha
A sheyner mensch
Great, inspirational young man. I wish him the best and happiest life he could possibly live. His mother and women like her needs to wise up and stop burying their heads in the sand. They are disgraceful, and desperately failing in their duty to protecting their children.
Kal and Ghitti, thankyou so much for your great courage in speaking about the abuse you suffered. The more people come forward, the more the issue is raised, the better the chances of protecting children within the community. You are doing great work but I urge you to involve the police. Kal, it is no wonder you developed addictions, given what you'd been through, and I am so proud of you for overcoming them. I am not Jewish but cruelty of any sort to children of any race, color or faith apalls me. Wishing you all the best in your endeavours.
I’m not often publishing comment, but I want (and need) to tell you I impressed I am by your courage.
A big and huge bravo and a groysse shkoyeh
You are my hero and it is true families do not want to talk about it and most do not want to hear about it it is suffering in silence bless you and all that you say and all that you do shalom
I forgave my abuser! I specifically went and asked him for forgiveness! Because I hated him- and he broke down and started to cry. And then named all of the things he’d done to me and asked for my forgiveness!
"Poor Girl, I feel your pain".
My grief for what they have endured , I wept . My prayers for their healing and courage are sent.
Kal, you are so brave and strong my brother! Shalom.....
Kal I have immense respect for what you do. You make a difference.
Shalom ! here is David against Goliath
My prayer is for All humans across the world to protest, march, & demand justice for ALL abused children. All Children's Lives Matter. Abusing a child is the worst crime against humanity & it's rampant in homes, churches, schools, government & all kinds of institutions. It has been going on for thousands of years All the people demonstrating for anti-abortion & they won't even address child abuse. We will never have peace till children are free from abuse.
Good for you young man!!!! I'm proud of you for the mountain of crap you've overcome!!!! Keep your head high and God bless you!!!!!!!
As Jewish, I never heard of any child sex abuse in our community but i support Kal to speak up and confront those people that attack children, I would do the same thing
wow carry on the amazing work . Would really be interested to talk to you . I work with survivours of sexual abuse.
Your missing the point and it doesn't matter if it's one group or other ........ He is just bringing awareness and help to victims and let's be honest your not 100% sure that your community is free of abuse .........
Braves souls to speak against their abusers and working towards a change in this community . I applaud him and her
You are a strong person, like Moses. You stood up. Now others will be able to stand up.
I watched this video before and my hat is off to this man. I do recall him saying "that all Jewish children should be safe." I wish he had said "all children."
Thank you for stepping up and supporting these Mothers... God bless you.
I salute your courage. It's hard enough in any context but here it's particularly harder. I wish you and the other victims courage and God help them because they are on their own right because what happened to them is WRONG. It is so simple to understand and the people of any community should acknowledge that and do something about it.
Congratulations. Wonderful and important work. Total respect.
Praying for you and the New Square community and all Jews to be unveiled. May God bless your mission and the Peace of Yeshua be with you and your cousin always.
Kal, you are wise beyond your years. Seeking beauty out of ashes, peace and reconciliation. I’m definitely in favor of reporting abuse to the proper authorities, but that probably won’t happen soon. Perhaps your way can help end the cycle over time - but I fear not nearly soon enough. But you are trying.
All cults are ultimately abusive. 🥺
exactly.
Judaism is not a cult. It's a religion, with good & bad people.
Chanie A - All catch-and-cage religions are cults. Hasidic Judaism is a cult.
Not a cult look up the definition they are abusing the laws of the Torah there is no question and they should be punished on earth but they will definitely be sent to hell. Judaism is a religion that has survived mire than 6000 years and we will continue. Most of this was csused by holocaust survivors and many were abused themselves it is a vicioys cycle and must be beiken but agsin this is nit a cult. Christianity is then a cult. Because this ran rampant in the church and in Australia
Not a cult judaism is the oldest religion in the world. You have a big abuse scandsl in christian church in my community too and this is a diverse metropolutan area
About time. Excellent video. Courageous young man. I’ll follow his videos
Brave, resourceful young man who I'd be proud to have as a son. God is always on tbe side of authentic justice.
I wish Kal the best of luck. Sending prayers, peace, healing and blessings to him.
You are a true Jewish hero !!!!
Your a brave soul. God bless you. Keep on fighting for the children. For everyone.
I hope this young man manages to help the abused children, no matter what age they are now, the memories will be in the minds of the abused for life, all because religious elders believe it's their right to sexually, physically and abuse a child who is not strong enough to fight back. Proof that there are decent Jewish people like Kal looking out for them and searching for justice and getting those responsible to account for their actions. Keep up the great work you are doing Kal.
"GOOD FOR YOU. GOD BLESSED YOU EXCELLENT."
Dear kal I'm very happy that came forward about the issue will still showing the Beauty of the chasidic world
God Bless you. and hope the abuser is brought to justice. I am even more angry that the abuse also happened to his sister (different abuser).
A HERO ...DEEP RESPECT. AND PRAYER FOR HIS SUCCESS.