Build high self-esteem and unstoppable confidence. Use these 5 principles.

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  • čas přidán 27. 06. 2024
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    Self esteem and confidence is a key for success in life. Low self-esteem and low confidence can hold you back from reaching your full potential. It affects every area of your life, including work, love, friendship and more.
    In this video, I talk about how to build high self esteem and confidence so that you can live the best version of yourself possible.
    00:00 Low self esteem limits your life
    01:40 External validation
    05:24 Comparison
    08:49 Dealing with mistakes
    10:40 Setting boundaries
    12:02 Assertiveness
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Komentáře • 172

  • @HabitStrong
    @HabitStrong  Před 2 lety +27

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    • @dose.of.happiness
      @dose.of.happiness Před 2 lety +4

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    • @dose.of.happiness
      @dose.of.happiness Před 2 lety +2

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  • @Gowtham.D
    @Gowtham.D Před 2 lety +68

    1. Replace the need for external validatoin with inner conviction.
    People will have opinion. Take it as just an input. People may say you are hardworking, honest etc.. But you know the truth and that is what matters
    Whatever matters to you, take pride in being getting better in those things
    2. There will always be a person, who would be better than you in anything, no matter how you try. You have a place in this world, when you are born and you don't have to strive for it.
    Counter-strategy: Send the person you are envious of good wishes, mentallly
    3. Owing your mistakes is a symbol of courage. Human-beings make mistakes
    4. Tell that interceptor in a conversation, I would love to pay my 100% keen attention to your comments. But before that can I complete what I started
    5. Put yourself assertive with full confidence and without any defensiveness. You have the right to stand-out from crowd

  • @fairytalesnew
    @fairytalesnew Před 2 lety +54

    All 14 minutes each word is worthy .how can any one analyse things so deeply.your thoughts reflects the genious inside you .🙏🙏

  • @avadheshkumarmeena2202
    @avadheshkumarmeena2202 Před 2 lety +9

    I have gone with repeated failure in upsc and state pcs exam . Now I am always feeling wrong about myself and assume that I am not intelligent, smart person even I was topper in academics .
    But watching this video give me hope again to love myself
    Rajan sir you are truly genius

  • @badho3565
    @badho3565 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Sir you are doing great for youth of our country , love from North East 💙🙏.

  • @amithkumar8044
    @amithkumar8044 Před 2 lety

    I deserve dignity. I deserve respect. I will make sure I live that way.

  • @Pawanyadav21262
    @Pawanyadav21262 Před 2 měsíci

    Always look upto you in distress n crisis in my life ....i would say you played a big role in managing my bad situation life ...u r a true gem ..

  • @mdns21
    @mdns21 Před 2 lety +25

    Glad that I discovered you at a time when things took terribly wrong turn in my life. Since then I have been able to find my self recover with a better pace after stumbling , All thanks to you Sir!
    My regards 💐

  • @midhun153
    @midhun153 Před 2 lety +3

    Hi Sir, I was i great mental struggle today with my work. I was not able to produce a good result in new task that was assigned to me. I was feeling greatly demotivated and bad about myself. Then now in evening i just opened youtube and heard this message. I am now greatly relieved and feel less stressed. I just want to say, Thank you!

  • @sparkle655
    @sparkle655 Před rokem

    You are enlightened. These life lessons are also a way to be happy in life.

  • @Larry21924
    @Larry21924 Před 6 měsíci

    Your narrative is robust. Reflects the strength of a book that's a leader. "The Art of Saying No: Mastering Boundaries for a Fulfilling Life" by Various Authors

  • @juiahmed9798
    @juiahmed9798 Před 2 měsíci

    Sir, your advice has changed my life

  • @punjabitikka
    @punjabitikka Před 11 měsíci

    Best tip setting BOUNDARIES. Its good that you explain with examples

  • @Maverick0111
    @Maverick0111 Před 2 lety +2

    I actually was comparing mysel with othes for past few days, for which I was unable to concentrate on my studies and was feeling low....but after listening to u, all my doubts vanished...thank u so much sir..i really mean it from my bottom of my heart

  • @varunrai1671
    @varunrai1671 Před 2 lety +1

    Really helpful. Very important in today's times

  • @rajeshkumarlohani1761
    @rajeshkumarlohani1761 Před 2 lety +1

    Sir, you are an ocean of wisdom. Your each video is of gold standard.
    Thank you.

  • @gvr197
    @gvr197 Před 2 lety

    There may be many videos which are number 1 but this video is number 1 for me. (Same as point no 2).

  • @elishaamolik5344
    @elishaamolik5344 Před 2 lety

    You speak so well in English . Just keep on listening to you

  • @suchithrarajaram1122
    @suchithrarajaram1122 Před 2 lety

    Thanks for taking time to bring these precious pearls in one video. I was amazed with the content and decided to make a note of it and put it in my office room so I’m reminded about it when things are not right! All these are important yet we tend to ignore. Not anymore Rajan! Thanks again!

  • @varunrai1671
    @varunrai1671 Před rokem +1

    This one video is much better than endless counseling sessions !

  • @niveda5972
    @niveda5972 Před 2 lety +1

    I need this..thankyou

  • @shyambuddi
    @shyambuddi Před 2 lety +3

    One of the best videos of recent times !! Golden words and wisdom. Have to watch it many a times to remember and put it to practice !!

  • @aniljayant657
    @aniljayant657 Před 2 lety +1

    Very grateful for your insights. Hope you will continue to post such inspiring videos. Thanks again 🙏

  • @somiknag6165
    @somiknag6165 Před 2 lety

    I am absolutely enthralled by your videos with your crucial thoughts and ways to resolve, manage, overcome, encounter and thrive in life. After watching the video, I was commenced thinking about certain people live, in places in New Delhi, where I am residing with reference to my job, I always wonder about appalling behaviour of a certain branch of people, and they don't fear about police, administration and not even government. What source do they have or what motives them to stand tall, like an invincible army on this planet and that forces me to rethink about this city as a capital of India.

  • @yogamalayalamasha
    @yogamalayalamasha Před 2 lety

    Thanks 🙏🏻

  • @rajashreepriyadarshinibehe9541

    Thanks sir for the upbringing session. ❣️

  • @R..B
    @R..B Před 2 lety +1

    Rajan, Spot on ! Spot on ! I love to hear your points of view. You are doing a great service to society (after chucking out a seemingly powerful post in the police).

  • @vaibhav8039
    @vaibhav8039 Před 2 lety

    Thank you , sir.
    Maine CZcams par lakho video dekho honge lekin ye sabse behtaren Hain .

  • @vinodhm5077
    @vinodhm5077 Před 2 lety

    Really my inner thoughts reflects in few places of this video. Thank you sir

  • @juhiagrawal6320
    @juhiagrawal6320 Před 2 lety

    So crisp and clear👏👏👏

  • @rayray9996
    @rayray9996 Před 2 lety +1

    Very true. Sound advice.

  • @chetna_pn
    @chetna_pn Před 2 lety +3

    Very very practical tips . The best part which I liked was " what difference will it make if you are the most beautiful, rich etc, everybody has their place on this world " these words really uplifted the whole purpose of this video
    Looking forward to such more videos

  • @Yehaibharat
    @Yehaibharat Před 2 měsíci

    sir your videos helped me a lot to clarify my doubts ...thank you for such amazing videos.

  • @mohdnematullah288
    @mohdnematullah288 Před 2 lety

    I really liked how you talk about looks cancer..this one has become one of the biggest problem in our society nowdays and plays central role in breaking down self confidence and pushing towards depression

  • @sangeetapandey129
    @sangeetapandey129 Před 2 lety

    Thankyou so much sir. It is really helpful 😊

  • @gajendrapratapsingh1231
    @gajendrapratapsingh1231 Před 6 měsíci

    Brilliant video. Thanks for insights

  • @anantjain9315
    @anantjain9315 Před 2 lety

    He is an entire book in a video. Thanks Sir.

  • @iamhere8140
    @iamhere8140 Před rokem

    Repleted with answers ,which I was seeking,during my self doubts.
    Thanks Sir.

  • @shashanknavandhar7150
    @shashanknavandhar7150 Před 2 lety

    Thank you Ranjan sir

  • @amitd5134
    @amitd5134 Před 2 lety

    Your blogs are more intereesting and to the point fantastic stuff thanks

  • @shahinchoudhury8256
    @shahinchoudhury8256 Před 2 lety

    1. only thing matters is what you think of yourself, only thing you need is how much respect you get from yourself while being open to constructive criticism
    do i think of myself as high as i expect others to do?
    what you say & what you do should be well proportional
    do my actions support the same?
    2. there's a property of natural numbers(1,2,3.....) that, there's always a larger number then what you just said, like this, there will always be someone better at things that you are not,
    the comparison should be with yourself, how well i am doing then i did yesterday? that's the only responsibility we have,
    3. Honestly accept your mistakes, to others and be brutally honest to yourself , while this will make other's respect you, it will give you opportunity to grow & rectify
    4. don't get bullied by others, set lines not to be crossed, take stand for yourself
    5. maintain the stand you take, protect who you are under adverse situations

  • @chandrashekarmn7453
    @chandrashekarmn7453 Před 2 lety

    Thank you sir

  • @shabition319
    @shabition319 Před 2 lety

    Quality video! I personally feel social Media has made many of us believe that our lives are no good hence it's important take break from it. Taking break from facebook and instagram has made me more happy in last few months

  • @umamsh
    @umamsh Před 2 lety +7

    Very well said Sir. May Allah grant you success health and happiness 🙂
    I relate to all these points very well.

  • @Volt00746
    @Volt00746 Před 2 lety

    Thank you sir.👍👍

  • @nazmaahmed4766
    @nazmaahmed4766 Před 2 lety

    Thank u very much Sir .. It has a very strong impact on me and listening to ur lectures is really amazing .. U r doing a great job Sir by guiding us ..Important point that I like in ur videos is Ur every spoken word is truly worthful .. 🌹🌹🌹

  • @sukrititripathi...9431

    Sir...you are just awesome...🙏🙏🙏

  • @workthatmakelifework.122

    excellent . learn and implements

  • @hemantkulkarni5837
    @hemantkulkarni5837 Před 2 lety

    5 great advices👍

  • @Meetajsr
    @Meetajsr Před 2 lety

    Great videos with excellent content. 🙏

  • @dhankarchoudhary2865
    @dhankarchoudhary2865 Před 2 lety

    Thanks so much

  • @pratibhakannaujiya2364

    Superb sir , You discribed deeply , This habits developing take time but very nicessary for spending health and good life .
    Thank you sir 👍

  • @soumendramukhopadhyay8273

    Each point you have mentioned is a moral booster and very practical to apply in life. Great insight and thanks for sharing with all.

  • @samyakjain720
    @samyakjain720 Před 2 lety

    man, this is great !! specially for introverts

  • @sakshisherkhane6395
    @sakshisherkhane6395 Před 2 lety

    Truely thankyou🙂

  • @user-me8fc7kc4j
    @user-me8fc7kc4j Před 5 měsíci

    Dhanyavaad sir ❤

  • @dererishi
    @dererishi Před 2 lety

    Excellent video Rajan . Hats off to you .

  • @kulkarnigururajs8963
    @kulkarnigururajs8963 Před 2 lety

    Thanks 🙏

  • @productivepriyanshu2441
    @productivepriyanshu2441 Před 2 lety +1

    Rajan sir is no.1 Mentor

  • @AmandeepSingh-fi2ix
    @AmandeepSingh-fi2ix Před 2 lety

    Thnx sir

  • @shrikanthiyer1
    @shrikanthiyer1 Před rokem +1

    Wonderful...fundamental things but so well explained.... brilliant video...i simply love Rajan Singh for the ease in which he explains and also provides such practical examples...thanks a lot for inspiring and boosting our confidence

  • @satish5168
    @satish5168 Před 2 lety

    Very helpfull video

  • @user-si4so4ko2f
    @user-si4so4ko2f Před 2 lety

    You are just amazing Sir.

  • @ThePresident90
    @ThePresident90 Před 2 lety +1

    Give this man the Padmashree Award 🙏

  • @pratibhasingh7684
    @pratibhasingh7684 Před 2 lety

    Thank you !! 🙂

  • @ash25oct
    @ash25oct Před 2 lety

    Best video that every individual should incorporate

  • @manishmandal7260
    @manishmandal7260 Před 2 lety

    Thankyou so sharing all these life lessons to us sir

  • @gauravsaini3322
    @gauravsaini3322 Před 2 lety +7

    Sir, Good Morning
    Whatever you said is just inside me but was not been able to convince myself as I am going through a bit of rough patch but I have confidence inside me that I will definitely come out of it soon with a bang. Your video with so much of clarity on self-esteem is like notes for me to refresh my self and telling me inside that I am on the right path.
    Thank you from the bottom of my heart sir.

    • @alankarkhare12
      @alankarkhare12 Před 2 lety

      All the best buddy... Best wishes 👍🏻👍🏻

  • @surabhitomar8618
    @surabhitomar8618 Před 2 lety

    Current situation. Thank you sir for saving

  • @seemasinhsolanki692
    @seemasinhsolanki692 Před 2 lety

    Very focused ideas and simplified and true to the hilt. Hardly sounds preaching. That is what is the order of the day

  • @kandhavel4858
    @kandhavel4858 Před 2 lety

    Great Sir. I got many insights on self esteem. Thank you very much for your

  • @sastavideoswala
    @sastavideoswala Před 2 lety

    I like the example given in 4th point, and i find i have its practical usage in my life.
    Thank you.

  • @debashispattanaik5709
    @debashispattanaik5709 Před 2 lety

    Excellent exposition of the topic. So simple talk yet so profound its impact.

  • @sanketpaul8504
    @sanketpaul8504 Před 2 lety

    I love you Rajan Sir❤️❤️. May god bless you ❤️❤️. Best wishes ❤️❤️.

  • @ravimeshram1
    @ravimeshram1 Před 2 lety

    M very grateful for this knowledge sir.... thank you very much.....

  • @deeptinair9263
    @deeptinair9263 Před 2 lety

    Sir amazing examples, if you could talk more about building assertiveness, setting boundaries esp when faced with one upmanship from someone at work that will help.

  • @juiahmed9798
    @juiahmed9798 Před 2 měsíci

    Excellent video

  • @parthasarathy5450
    @parthasarathy5450 Před 2 lety

    Today my brother and mother said i dont know anything
    I haven't learnt anything from my college in 4 years
    That brought me down hurt my emotions badly and triggered all negativity in me
    Started feeling depressed and thinking about all negative things happened to me as im a negative minded person

  • @ankitt05
    @ankitt05 Před 2 lety

    We are just there !

  • @karunadamor5594
    @karunadamor5594 Před 2 lety

    Thank u sir.

  • @shubhamwasnik4763
    @shubhamwasnik4763 Před rokem

    Very practical tips very helping..

  • @julikumari4440
    @julikumari4440 Před 2 lety +1

    I am ur fan sir u inspired me alot I am neet aspirant but I learn something from u I watch every video of ur u learn everyday new .

  • @sauravsrivastava1026
    @sauravsrivastava1026 Před 2 lety

    Totally got hooked with it

  • @artfromsoul2166
    @artfromsoul2166 Před 2 lety

    Wel said sir thanks

  • @dose.of.happiness
    @dose.of.happiness Před 2 lety

    One in brilliant. thanks a Million Sir 😊

  • @poemsrhyme
    @poemsrhyme Před 2 lety

    Valuable advice!

  • @jaivratsingh9966
    @jaivratsingh9966 Před 2 lety +15

    Superb! You are contributing to society in a great way. Please don't derive motivation purely from our comments :) but it was important to let you know. Keep up good work.

  • @lakshmi11386
    @lakshmi11386 Před 2 lety

    Thank you sir for this wonderful video🙏🏻

  • @kirankumarreddybhumireddy9197

    You will know the real worth of yourself after
    you depressed and grieved because you believed that your worth less through others opinions and compare yourselves to others and lost yourself
    Because then only you compare yourselves with your lost version and think that you were really worth

  • @priyansingh23
    @priyansingh23 Před 2 lety

    love u sir

  • @anunjitadas245
    @anunjitadas245 Před 2 lety

    Wow. . I must apply it in my life from today😎

  • @stalluri11
    @stalluri11 Před 2 lety

    Good points. Well said

  • @abhishektiwari3158
    @abhishektiwari3158 Před 2 lety

    Great message conveyed with some of life changing tips . Respect Sir !!

  • @skparikshit4972
    @skparikshit4972 Před 2 lety +1

    Its always interesting to listen to your videos

  • @kumarayush7748
    @kumarayush7748 Před 2 lety

    Thank u sir

  • @sohailkhan1651
    @sohailkhan1651 Před 2 lety

    thanks sir

  • @shahnazmajeed1614
    @shahnazmajeed1614 Před 2 lety +1

    Love from Kashmir ❤️

  • @PraveenTiwari
    @PraveenTiwari Před 2 lety

    Amazing video Sir

  • @ankitt05
    @ankitt05 Před 2 lety

    Great advice

  • @devanshthapan9656
    @devanshthapan9656 Před 2 lety

    Awesome!