Why Single Men Are Hated By Society
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never understood how no one will ever shame you for partying 24/7, or drinking every other day, or even being in a toxic relationship... but if you choose to stay to yourself, and improve yourself instead of dating and hookup culture... now everybody wants to shame you lol
Funny isn't it?
They see you as a threat because you never fell into the trap they did. You're continuing to rise while they've found their level.
Don’t tell nobody you single , not even family , play like you dating because society hate single men , it’s sick it’s like that but you gotta do it
I been single since 2012. I never cared about boozing. I only eat low dose edibles to relax and sleep at night. Hit the gym 4 times a week. Enjoy some gaming and sometimes friend hangouts.
Just keep trying to stay up with inflation and this insane country called the USA
I get shamed for my alcoholism every day lol
Because normies want others to stay down with them
We're hated because we can be peacefully happy by ourselves, and it pisses the sheep herd off
That's not why.
Each to thier own.
Bingo!
@@ColbraBull Well, fucking said!
It might not be the entire reason, But the fact that we can live peacefully seems to be the gist of their hatred towards single men
We're hated for many reasons but the two that come to mind are:
#1 We're not supporting a financial/resource leech thus pushing the burden back onto State & Local governments.
#2 We're not helping to create the next generation of tax slaves.
BINGO
Bingo!
I aint gonna make hamsters...To run for them in the hamster wheel...
They’ll try to introduce a bachelor tax when they realise we’re not going back to their plantation. Or double down with the Disney propaganda for remaining Simps.
@@nickvincent3029 We'll have to find creative ways around it/ways to mitigate it/ways to fight back and remove even more of our money/participation.
Ran 15 miles for the first time today, felt good better than wasting time on a dating app.
Same dog 26 thousand steps
Dating apps are pointless. Good work today on the run.
Kudos man!!!
Guys I’m 42 in highschool I could barely run a mile. It’s never too late to level yourself up. Your body is a temple take care of it.
Good stuff
The quality of modernist women is the lowest in human history
understatement.
Well said , true .
Bro I can attest. I have worked as an elementary school teacher for decades surrounded by mostly women and single moms....let me tell you, it's worse than you could ever imagine.
It’s always been like this , it’s in the bible. 😂
What’s changed the bible is full of the same stories 😂
Life is So PeaceFull " as a Single man.... Peaceful is the Key word here.
You can't put a price on peace of mind, peace of finances and peace of soul. Is a peace of "pie" worth trading in the others for?
Once you grow accustomed to the peace & quiet of the single life you do not want to give it up just to put on the plow mule harness of the married Man.
what fantasy are you living. it's all in your head, or you are a chick pretending to be a guy. or it's terry on his other account.
I just got back from the gym., to a peaceful condo. No bitching no moaning no nothing. Now I’m going to watch ⛳️. Life is great as a single man doing what you want when you want.
@@Onetakelifestyle3323 mum didnt let you go to the gym before? was she next to you then too? lol.
The world is so toxic most people become a liability and relationships aren’t worth it
No, they aren’t. I’ve created a set of rules for myself and they are solid. Rule #2 - not every hand extended in friendship is worth shaking.
100 percent accurate yup toxic
I find most younger men are literally unbearable to listen to and incredibly corny. It's pathetic when this re d pill movement blame women for everything
Modern women aren't helpers. They're roommates at best. We don't need that.
@@michaelangst6078 I am 64 and have never had a conversation with a young adult (early 20s). They see a gray haired old man who they are paying taxes to support.
As a lifelong single man I don't feel hated. Most people don't approach me which I I rather like, so all's good! 😎
It's a win win situation.I actually don't think society hates us, more like they really envy our peace.😂
@@Ridersonthestorm8899 I think we're pretty invisible. Society doesn't really notice unless we do something sensational.
Same here. I just mind my own bussniess. Out here enjoying life.
“I don’t want a bite of the apple, I’m good” - preach
I had one offer me one on the subway while I was vocally calling out the clown show. I told her, "I can't accept that". She wanted me to bite into the forbidden fruit. Fuck Adam.
I had one chick offer me an apple on the subway while I was calling out the clown show. I told her, "I can't accept that". She wanted me to bite into the forbidden fruit. Forget it, Adam.
I had one chick offer me an apple on the subway while I was calling out the clown show. I told her, "I can't accept that". She wanted me to bite into the forbidden fruit. Forget it, Adam.
I had one chick offer me an apple on the subway while I was calling out the clown show. I told her, "I can't accept that". She wanted me to bite into the forbidden fruit. Forget it, Adam.
I had a chick offer me one on the subway a few days ago, I said, "I can't accept that".
Cell phones and dating apps indeed ruined natural relationships.
In USA divorce rate is 60% and courts are heavily in favor of women. Why would you want to marry someone who is eventually going to leave you and take half of your stuff and half of your money with her?
I’m 38 and single 😢 but it’s because I have a small penis 4 inches hard 😢. It is embarrassing and I rather be single all my life.. I am working on myself to be the best I can be but having a small cock hold me back
Exactly.
Then if you have a couple kids she will take them too along with 1/3 of your income for the next decade.
@@franciscoaguilar123 lmao almost damn near 2 decades.. gotta love a broken system
Then we need to get rid of cell phones and dating apps. Correct?
a lot of married couples I know" are Absolute Miserable Situation... Arguing about money" and Neither getting Sex... LOL
Yep, same here. I know some every very successful couples / families, in the sense that they are wealthy and secure, built a big empire for their lives, and even they are in chaos right now and arguing about money and very very unhappy.
I’m 42 I know one married couple that’s solid, the rest are pretending to be happy on fakebook. That’s the lay of the land today.
Friend's gf checks on him every 15 mins or so when our group had an outing. I can't imagine how it'll be when they get married.
@@prussiansocietyofamerica Really? Even the wealthy ones are arguing about money?
@@user-wk8mw6to2g Yes, SHOCKINGLY, I am talking about literal Millionaires. This is a recent development I have seen take place in the last year specifically.
It’s the systemic critique and oppression of strong “toxic” men. You’re not spending money on women… buying drinks, getting high, supporting the bar scene… buying her expensive jewelry and getting married… buying property… having kids, spending ALL that money… putting them through school…
You’ve reached a certain level of contentment in your own life. You set boundaries. You don’t need to keep up with the Jones’s. You’re living life on your terms, not giving in to everyone else’s… playing the long game, not feeding into costly short-term gratification… and they’re mad.
expecting schools to raise the kids makes lazy parents out of men and women alike. Have kids because you want to bring kids into the world not just to make yourselves feel good.
@@seankingwell3692 Agreed… it’s important to be ready, in all areas, to bring children into the world… but then we have this system and society that guilts and pressures people into things that they shouldn’t be doing, or aren’t ready for.
Guess what I’m trying to say is, it’s important to see it for what it is, and let it roll off your back. Do what’s best for you.
Single for 20 years !! I see women get visibly furious for little to no reason 😂😂 I'm assuming because they are miserable sleeping in the bed they made and seeing untapped wealth 😂
What I've been noticing lately is that these Vv0m3n are getting furious and they are "suspicious" that you are single, but it seems to be more prevalent at places in public where the FEE...MAIL workers or maybe regulars see that I've been coming for years and never have a Vv0man with me,. I've lately been getitng this "look" from them, along with the fact that I don't tip, and it seems they are now thinking that I'm one of those "those guys". Especially if you seem to be very well off and order extravagent items for yourself... Let them cope and seethe@ :D
They're bitter, spiteful creatures because they are walking egos. They are not held accountable but they KNOW, deep down, that they are pathetic but can't admit it. That knowledge causes insufferable cognitive dissonance that comes out as rage.
@@Willie_Wahzoo mix that with one or all disorders that ends in pd, pot, pills, liquor, beer and violent mood swings and we're gettn somewhere 🍻🍻
That true feminism told women their equal to men further lying that they're better but they have come to realise that's a lie. It's a reality they don't wanna accept. Women should know their place and play their role
@@Yuckerb❤
40 yo, single, never married. Successful by any societal metric. Successful by my metric (character). Not marrying or engaging in relationships in this society. They’d be hard pressed to see me as an “incel.” Entirely by choice given the character desert I’m in.
So you are this tren bros future
Except he will have heart failure before 40
I’ve been working out in extremely disciplined fashion since I was 15 years old.
I’ve done Ironmans, ultramarathons, train in calisthenics at a high level, eat extremely well, and generally dedicated a ton of time optimizing my nutrition plan to stay lean. Currently do about 6-8 hrs/wk of calisthenics, 8-10 hrs of aerobics (cycling, running)/wk, on top of day hikes/climbs on weekends.
I also engage in solo alpinism/mountaineering at a very high level as well. This is the central motivating factor for staying this fit.
I did a few cycles of “pro hormones” back when they were legal in 2005. None since then. I used to lift weights, and weighed 210 at my highest. Now, 165 with a constant 8-10% body fat level, and just train with bodyweight (except weighted pull-ups)
I kept all this up while graduating with honors with a PharmD. Some of us are very motivated, high performers, my friend. None of what I have now is the result of PEDs.
The pro hormone cycles added strength/muscle way back in 2005, I suppose. But again, was 210 at my peak then, and I’m far more fit overall now, with a higher strength/weight ratio.
I should add that saunas are a good practice in my opinion for most athletes, if they have the time. Some compelling research behind the benefits, and may help whoever is using “tren” stave off heart failure for at least a little while. Though they should just stop the gear. Function and longevity are my focus. Not unnecessary muscle mass that doesn’t help performance in my sport. Besides having the broad shoulders and large back from calisthenics/climbing, in dress shirts that aren’t tailored, no one would be able to tell how fit I am.
The only PED I use sparingly is dexamethasone to aid recovery, considering that my job as a pharmacist makes getting adequate rest/keeping stress levels down difficult. Though that is a once or twice a year thing. Another sauna benefit? Compensatory parasympathetic nervous system response. One of my strategies for managing work stress. See the picture here? Type A pharmacist has looked into his shit, in depth.
@@neuroleptika
I can understand why you might think this in today’s society. I travel for work, and live rural. I get this reception sometimes at the gym. Mainly from the younger crowd, who has grown more competitive, but in that douchey way I don’t like. I work extraordinarily hard to maintain an interesting balance of strength/endurance, to enable these crazy solo climbing trips that are some of the best, most fulfilling times I’ve had in life.
Another secondary purpose here, is to be an example for patients, who take my advice more seriously when they can clearly see that I “walk the walk.”
42 here.
-Own my own place.
-Zero debts
-Muscular
However, I don't think anyone thinks it's odd that I'm single.
At 5'6, people know that no woman wants a man of my height.
"Why are you still single?"
Because I decided to stop running in a rigged race, where the rules change on a whim, the goalposts slide around like a hockey puck, and the prize is nowhere near as good as it used to be.
It’s because you get no matches
don’t give into temptation, brothers! stay strong 💪
🫡
HOBBIES HOBBIES HOBBIES... cars/boats/engines/ model airplanes/cars/boats... paint the house, fix the plumbing the roof... fix the car/ get a car to work on... a bike to work on... something to occupy your time.
@@NONAME-kw3puget a fur baby that’ll keep you busy for sure without the b.s that comes with others 🙏🏼🐶❤️
Yeh, really important to not succumb to nature's instincts. If you follow them, you are falling into a trap.
42 here.
-Own my own place.
-Zero debts
-Muscular
However, I don't think anyone thinks it's odd that I'm single.
At 5'6, people know that no woman wants a man of my height.
Even though I'm pretty mixed about being single, I gotta learn to stay patient and to keep praying.
I feel the same man, these feelings are normal but we gotta just take one day at a time and work on ourselves 👊
Never a wrong move to obey God, keep praying and building king God bless you.
Don't Pray move forward.
Don’t look forward to life with a woman. It’s not even that fun bro is the cat really worth you’re whole freedom?
@@ajaxtanked I see what you did there. 🤣 And I don't know, really. I just want someone who's just as into me as I am to them. Been single for the longest time and I'm 28.
I'm gonna go out on a limb and wager that this modern society we're in is the most undeserving of a man in human history so far...
The days of having to rely on brute strength are quickly coming to an end. You need to get into the medical field or become a code monkey.
They hate seeing us happy lol. No ring means no sting boys! It drives the world nuts!
They could care less. They have lots of men telling them they will be loyal in their dm's on dating apps, and they reject them all. Why would they care if men they find ugly are happy or not? Y'all don't think logically
No ring no sting I’ll remember that ring 🚫💍🚫🐝
Why would it drive them nuts? Who is ''them''?
They don't like you are doing your own thing.
Says a lot of themselves😂
but he is expected to let her do her own thing... cell phone in hand 24/7/365??? what is the point of "having someone" when they have their face buried in the electronic toy 24/7/365??? still alone??? seen a movie on netflix ... Black Mirror? where the guy picks up his GF to go for a drive, she has her toy in her hand, of course... he tells her.. IN THE GLOVE BOX!!! and she DOES IT???? WOW!!! of course that is NOT the real world... in the real world she would just tell him STOP THE CAR!!! IM GETTING OUT!!! her and her "lover" the precious little electronic toy carbon bonded to her hand.
I like the way you put it
... and enjoying it.
One the main newspeak glossary words from Orwell's 1984 book was Ownlife. An act viewed with suspicion and the person as dangerous.
The ones that are deciding to stay single are the smart ones these guys are going to be of a higher quality because they are either working on themselves or already the man and won’t settle these are the men women REALLY want but won’t be able to get
I disagree. Men who are actually worth something in the dating market can have quality women by his side that add to his life rather than take away
@@michaelangst6078Agree to disagree. No woman can add anything to any man’s life, all they do is take. There’s just some that aren’t as bad as the others.
@@Rscottphillips You just aren't good looking enough. When a woman is down bad for a man, she can be the one spending the money on the guy on a regular basis. Just because this is not the norm does not mean it never happens.
@@michaelangst6078 You troll comment the opposite everywhere. Get lost troll
@@Rscottphillipsgive women some credit; women can give you shit, BJ’s and children!
There is same situation here in Japan. What he says are correct. We really live in a poisonous screwed society.
Harsh time.
The worst is when you’ve been single for so long because no one you’ve met is relationship material. Then you meet someone and she’s absolutely amazing in every way but then she has a boyfriend. Puts your faith back in relationships but also kills your spirit in the same way
damn...that hits close to home...
Bruh my sister tried to set me up with this girl because the girl apparently found me attractive but when I hit her up she said she had a man so I ran 😭😂 there’s also relationship material and wifey material and I’m after the wifey without the marriage coz F* that scam lol
Quite literally has been my entire early 20s put into 3 sentences. Oh well, is what it is, no use for me to sit here and cry about it. Got dealt and unlucky hand.
Almost 40, I'm single and childfree. I had guys that felt sorry for me because I chose not to get married. I always tell them that i don't need marriage to get a girlfriend and they look at me like I'm strange. I always knew marriage is a scam for men. Today, most guys I have known are divorced and miserable. Marriage is like buying a house for a woman you hate and letting her take half of what you have in your bank account.
I am divorced with kids, and I will say I definitely had an ideal vision of what could be. But if all eventually crumbled apart. The kids are doing great, but the marriage did not last, and it came at a great cost of both time and money.
@@CruceEntertainmentI know someone who was dragged thru the coals for years and lost to the woman cause the laws in that state are against the men. Lost 1/2 of 401k, Savings, entire home, everything. Unbelievable.
Same here, man. 41 and never married (not for lack of trying- the minute I agree to commit, they monkey-branch to the next dude). I know some divorced guys but most of my friends are married and I just never see them anymore. I know some are not happy but love their kids a lot. Some have gotten boring and into lawn care and lame stuff like that or turned bitter, angry and are turning into their dads, getting fat and posting batshit right wing conspiracies online and all that. And these are dudes that used to be able to pull like crazy. I'm just doing my thing and traveling, dining out and doing what I want!
@@CruceEntertainmentindeed
Terrible that it had got to this. Western society has lost all values. Go to Russia to find a decent woman. Life is too short and the bus ride home after a date is a slog.
I just find it weird how much society hates single people in general. We're conditioned to think that our whole main goal in life is to be in a relationship with someone and have kids. Society makes it seem as if your life has no meaning if you aren't trying to find a partner and have kids. In society's eyes, wtf are you living for if you don't wanna do any of those things and it's just crazy to me.
They fear those that have the courage to think for themselves. They want you to conform because that's exactly what they did.
Unfortunately the basics are corporate America is destroying the American family with more required hours working, less pay, expensive healthcare, and uncertainty of having a job tomorrow with the cost of living exploding. Management bonus before families is today’s motto!
Having kids is overrated anyways.
@@mikehawk302 Yes 👏
@@Willie_Wahzooright, escape the matrix
No man wants the bitten burger
So far this is the best one I've read!!!! NICE
Or the chewed up chewing gum.🤮
@@salguodrolyat2594men are more chewed up than women nowadays 😂
@@Camryndawn22 life is more difficult for men than it is for females nowadays.
@@Camryndawn22 we build the world while you live in it, sit down and google this - timothy 2;12
learn your place
I blame all this on Social MEDIA.
it happened already before. social media just makes it more visible 😉
Good.
Feminism*
i blame the ones who promoted feminism
I have heard it recently said that women and children are loved unconditionally, and men are tolerated, only if they are a really good provider or have something to offer society that is out of the ordinary. The term eligible bachelor seems to no longer apply to a hard-working young man who lives paycheck to paycheck and rents his dwelling. He has to have disposable income and his own home. If a guy has roommates or lives with other family, forget about it. Young women will see him as a loser.
We have become so ungrateful as a society that even a man who provides his labor for either the availability of goods or services, he still isn't appreciated. Instead, he is looked at as competition for everything and even things people don't prefer.
Nah, that's not it, an eligible bachelor, 6 foot, 6 pack, 6 figure .... doesnt matter where rhe six figure comes from. Could be earned illegally, oh and if you have tats and beat up your last girlfriend... u are a catch !!!! Girls luv badboyz
Well yeah that was & is the society our parents facilitated. Where've you been?
All comes back to the money being fake bro. All these women and weak men out here with all this money didnt earn it. It was STOLEN from productive young men that WORK. Imagine our quality of life without this p4rsite draining us every single day. The system is unnatural. My suggestion is look into getting active with a local nationalist group
"Women are, men become" - Camille Paglia
I'm more surprised that most men who have these complaints don't attempt to find the women who want a DINK relationship (especially once they get to their 30s). You share incomes and afford a house or apartment together. Without the worries of kids because one or both of you is sterilized before getting married. It's not that complicated of a concept, but most men would rather blame society/technology and, yes women as a whole.
Imagine if we shut down the internet for a while. No social media. No Google. Just taking walks. Playing in the park. Throwing a ball. Playing tag. Ride a bike. Read a book. Go on a date. Start a family. Sounds so simple, huh?
Been on my mind a lot lately! The world would probably blow up though, we rely on the internet way too much I know but it’s needed for a lot of our military weapons and power grids and so forth
Nah, it was fucked and going south before internet. You just can't blame it all on the internet.
shutting down internet that would be the day of our lives
You had me until "date." I'd rather eat my boots thanks.
I guess most of the people would go on a rampage just like a junkie who doesn't get his dope
Women have more power now by far. They have more option and know how to play the game. That's the problem life is not a game and when you want a family it's really not a game anymore. Family's values have shifted to who have most benifits. Women have huge benifits now and men have a lot's to lose. Nobody wants to play games if you're losing right at the beginning
HATED BC WE ARE HAPPY + FREE
thats not how they see you clawns, and theyre right. its not reality either.
Massive cope. Keep telling yourself that to feel better about yourself. We men are full of testosterone we need to be involved in sexual activity on a daily basis.
It is so sad that society hates on us single Men.
No more sad than it is pathetic
The only time girls ever showed interest in me is when I'm out with another girl. When I'm out single I'm invisible
It's ok, just make yourselves happy and ignore what people say
It's not sad if I don't GIVE A FUKK😂😂😂 Screw society 🖕
42 here.
-Own my own place.
-Zero debts
-Muscular
However, I don't think anyone thinks it's odd that I'm single.
At 5'6, people know that no woman wants a man of my height.
Smartphones have destroyed women.
and society
FUCK SOCIETY! Im proud being single. I don't need any more stress than I already have.
Hope the best for you bröther!
Stop having a workhorse mentality. Become the Rider.
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Men are not build that way. It will kill you mentily. Work hard and stay busy. Find things that keep you happy .
@@MarthaTorres-gu7vd yes. the other older lady is cappin
@@MarthaTorres-gu7vdUnbelievable: working hard and having a workhorse mentality, has actually killed many men.. You are not a man, so don't even....x
more the raider in my opinion , but you're right 👍
They hate us cause they ain't us 💪
Yes, they hate us because they ain't us 😎👉
I’m single, age 50, 6 Foot 5, Toned, my property & house 🏡 paid off. Investments
Woman get mad at me like they are zealous at a Single White Male making it 🤣🥃🔥
&
Not Giving a FUCK
( Sorry for Spelling, I was typing 💬 this while in transit )
Go on trip to Asia and Latin America better quality women over there and ignore the western women.
Women are angry @ you bc you won't GIVE them anything. Kudos bro.
@@sirchirps8695 I’m just being myself
Thanks 😊
@@Will.Flavell Interesting
It's simple what happened. Women used social media to search a wider radius and found better men, dumping their local men in an instant. But they were sharing those men with more women in proportion to how much hotter he was and how much bigger their search radius was. Naturally, those men with lots of women (by definition) aren't holding doors for her anymore. So women are in the same boat only getting treated half as good by a guy twice as hot with twice as many other women.
Nice
It's a self-inflicted wound.
Feminism and the sexual revolution is what happened
Thank you for this it was perfect.
And crying about it and complaining .. where have all the good men gone... lol..... um.. echo
It’s a rich man’s game now.
Yea man I'm broke and I don't stand a chance
whatever lens you look out of, that's the reality you will live in.
Waiting patiently on God's best choice for a partner is ALWAYS worth it.
So true
If they ever come.
That's false doctrine. You have been warned about females
True, but the devil always likes to rip apart things that are good. Is it really worth the risk?
@@Dylan-rs4yx Well, you ought to still continue building your own life in that time, if she never comes, then so be it, wasn't in God's plan my man. Better than the risk of being with the wrong one and having your life ruined, or to be some male spinster and risk damning your soul in the process. At least that that is how I see it.
If people are asking you why you are single. Then people know way to much about you and have gotten way to comfortable around you.
Stay on your square, keep your distance, vet throughly and review their actions.
Filter in slow and out quickly
Well said!
I always tell them, "Because I haven't fallen in love"
I think women caring why a man is single has gone way down since 20+ years ago... For example in 2004 a woman could be genuinely puzzled why a 6/10 looking 30 year old man has been single for so long with no kids... Now a days women don't find this puzzling at all and don't care..
I know why they hate me...
I haven't worked in 13 years, and when they hear that over 150 other men have taken after my ideas on how to do that, they get this horrified look in their eyes. I rebuilt my sailboat to a live-aboard bugout survival pod that can stay out at sea self-sufficient for up to 10 years if needed. My yearly cost of living is down to $3500 (three thousand five hundred) and all I do is my hobbies, sailing, fishing, online gaming, watching old movies and ride my CT 125 and sometimes deliver food with it for fun. I do pay very little tax, and my service to society is completely off the table, why would I uphold a system and people that hate me?
(53 years old)
How do you get the 3500/year?
@@networth00
I have 2 businesses that generates money, and I have savings.
@@Servant_of_Christ Sounds like you have an amazing life. Working a regular job is terrible.
@@networth00
I know, been there... I took my savings I had for the family that never happened and bought myself 2 sailboats. One I'm living on, the other was a bigger luxury sailing yacht that I did charter with. Then I bought an abandoned village in Portugal, renovated it and rented out the houses. Now it has grown to 5 sailboats, 7 villages in Spain and Portugal (almost 70 houses) and I have people running it for me. I just do fun stuff... 😊
@@Servant_of_Christ sounds awesome
Never stay in a bad relationship. You're better off single.
Hated? I got people showing up 30 years later in my backyard alley to tell me they're better than me. 30 years. Such is the impact of my little old single male self.
... I suppose they're telling you that because they know that they're not better than you And they're so upset they have to tell you Because they're totally inferior inside like a narcissist full of self loathing😂😂😂😂
Are they serious? For what was that for.
I mean, why can't they mind their own business? Do you know any details from them which you may want to share?
@@norbert099 This is the way I have been treated my whole life. I cannot even leave my garbage by the curb and expect it not to be vandalized before pick up. That's been going on for 20 years.
@@richardgardner1547 damn, those are some really miserable folks... I'm glad I don't have such but still, got some a bit annoying ones however they don't go this far.
I wonder how much longer they are willing to do this in their life to a person, seems pretty pointless honestly.
Also, I usually ignore these kind of people as the only thing they want to do to me is causing harm "someway".
I will never understand them and I don't have to, I don't care about them.
With all these single moms, it amazes me there are so many men that are ok with having their children stolen from them.
It goes to show you how many men are pure trash when it comes to being loyal to women they chose to have kids with though.
These men have no choice. Law is against men
The most tragic figure I ever knew personally was my uncle. His two sons, my cousins, were always flagrantly disrespectful to him. His wife, my mother's sister, played the stock market, got into deep trouble, and cost him the price of their house. He suffered a debilitating stroke, and was disabled for the final few years of his life.
After my dad's early death, he tried to be a surrogate father to me. He was a hard worker, and always "played by the rules."
I'd be glad to think I lived up to his character, but wouldn't want to live the life he led.
This Gen Z harvest is going to fail. I'm 51 - married for 20 years with 18 year old son - I've done my part Bro. I have a family and a home. My wife is a chartered accountant and I'm an IT support engineer. My son is training to be a commercial pilot. I had to go to Russia to find a decent woman. I live in the UK and I couldn't find anything even half reasonable in this country. US is the same - a lot of the women are lost. You can still find decent women, but you will have to get them from a different culture. And I can tell you - being married for 20 years - it's hard bro! You are going to face some hardships along the way - but you hang in there and don't give up... it's not going to be all romance and roses. But you stick together as a family - because that's the right thing to do.
The difference is who will actually be committed to you through the good times and the bad times and not just jump ship at the first sign of hardship.
Only idiots have kids,smart people know not to give new life a death sentence for no fucken point.
Me and my brother have always said our future partners are somewhere over seas, women here in Nz just don’t cut it for us 😅
I think you made a wise choice getting a Russian woman, they just seem more communitive without being domineering.
You didnt do your part 'bro' LOL You literally fed the machine that destroyed us by buying into every corporate good in your home and what you drive, YOU ARE THE PROBLEM LOOK IN THE MIRROR BOZO.
If she's not a virgin, if she has any tattoos, luridly coloured hair, bad relationship with her family and or an attitude, just keep moving.
a lot of modern women are like that
Those are the worst type of women. A serious relationship with someone like that is worthless to even think about.
The more you understand in a deep level the women's behavior you get less interested on them. The more you understand the Matrix we live the more awake u become, because u know to much because we live a world where want men weak with no power and depressed and submissive.
Matrix is a word that means womans womb
you can love women or you can understand them it does not go both. you are inside the matrix or outside but once outside there is no going back.
@@oreoolafgaming3756 best answer ever 💯
"People are damaged". The truest statement of the millennia. Everyone is broken. And the most insane fact is that they know they're broken, but refuse to fix themselves.
Single guys are smart. Look around. Why would a guy get married and have a family these days? There’s no benefit to them.
PREACH
My body, my choice, my life, my journey. You come into this world alone, you leave this world alone. Worry about your own path, mind your damn business and stay out of mines…😏
Its nice to finally see someone else around my age that actually gets it too.
You can't let anyone's opinions or judgements influence your thoughts and actions. You'll forever be a thinker and not do-er.
Don't shack up with someone who doesn't share your vision for life or isn't willing to put in the work alongside you to achieve that common vision. Better to forge ahead, alone, than with someone who will only ever hold you back and derail your progress.
I've never felt shamed for being single, although it does get annoying at family reunions when people ask why you aren't married and have kids yet. I will say this though, which I believe applies to both men and women: When you are single you have peace, freedom, a generally drama free life, and (if you've made wise decisions) you have financial stability. That is what a potential romantic partner is competing with, in other words, what do they bring to the table? Many of us, myself included, have looked at what is out there and we're simply not interested. We've watched what has happened to our friends and we don't want that for ourselves.
Feel you on this brother, I’ve always been the single guy with no kids at our family reunions and I feel so much pressure being the only boy of 7 sisters without kids and a parter at 27 yrs old but honestly they all seemed in a rush and I guess I’m just patient 😅
Being single is the best feeling in the world not having to deal with another grown human and the b.s they bring with them,all I need is my fur baby and life is wonderful…🙏🏼🐶❤️
I never met a woman more beautiful than freedom. Enjoy your freedom.😁😁
Honestly bro I love animals more then people lol I’ve always looked after other peoples pets but gonna have my own house soon so can’t wait to get my own cat gone give it my all haha❤️
I've finally convinced my parents that it's not my fault for being single. Modern women are flat out nuts!
In general. They bring nothing to the table.
Getting labeled as a incel/misogynist comes with choosing to be single aswell 😅
Been single since age 40 (now 61),these past twenty one years have been settled, peaceful, without stress. Chasing the relationship dream just caused trouble and awful situations. There is no way I am taking up with any woman now. To those that are chasing that, well good luck to you, it's a rocky road. Just to conform? Think carefully, act in haste, repent at leisure.
"Why don't you take her? Why don't you go with her? Dadadada, why don't you shut up?"
He can't answer any of his own questions. He's talking about himself again and how he has nothing lined up. Why me, he is saying - while pretending it is a girl.
Period
Life was good for me as a single man but the moment I started a family, things have been downhill for me.
same bro
Can you make changes
Hell yeah, Terry.. I see you as a big brother. I still struggle with many vices but wont give up. Hope you guys stay tough out there. 🙏
After 30 years of marriage and now 3 years separated, I’ve never been more content, more at peace, and more in love with my freedom. I won’t ever go back.
women are so heartless. they spend 30 years with someone and wake up one day not loving their partner anymore, even if they did nothing wrong, even if their partner took care of them. god needs to fix their control panel
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Absolute facts! 😂
And the rest more like all names under the sun! 😂
Those flips are like biting into the apple 24/7, junior and you guys just don't see it yet.
@dorianlawson6791 what flips are you referring to, dorian? we're merely stating the obvious, and once again, all you're doing is projecting yourself unto others, thinking it'll elevate you in the process do you see those of us commenting with 101 girls as wives, do you even see us with 300 concubines like samson which was ultimately the death of him all because he put his trust in the wrong female which going by your profile photo I can only assume you have sense why you're trying so desperately hard to convince those of us with good intentions into believing your projections to be our own when in reality we know the TRUTH your time is up and you know it wouldn't it make more sense to hold yourself accountable/responsible for your actions than to project unto others in the attempt to shift the blame and play the victim everytime I deflect your every weak ass attacks.
@@dorianlawson6791 🤣
I'm 61 never been married but am happy and content.
Nobody is truly happy at 60+ unless they are a multimillionaire
@@michaelangst6078I met a psychologist and told me 90% of the people he treated were wealthy as f-ck
Feminism = Juice not worth the squeeze!
Feminism breeds masculinism as well !
Man I’ve been slacking your videos, banger after banger bra.
I never understood the whole having “compassion” thing except when a man shows up or worse one who stands up for himself.
I’m 38 and single 😢 but it’s because I have a small penis 4 inches hard 😢. It is embarrassing and I rather be single all my life.. I am working on myself to be the best I can be but having a small cock hold me back
People also hate couples that do not have children. If you don't have kids they do not trust you...it is as if you are a threat to society or something.
I'll never understand that. Maybe it's the 'misery loves company' issue. They're jealous, but won't admit it.
Excellent commentary, and right on the mark in so many ways! Wow! Glad the algorithms found your channel!
You can put ten men in a room and the women will pick the narcissistic antisocial abuser.
sounds like you are the antisocial
@dorianlawson6791 with his CZcams name giveaway, I think that it's safe to say that this one time, I actually agree with you on something
@@WalkingMeatSuit1925 well you have a long way to go then still. glad I could make you a little better however :)
@@dorianlawson6791 I can be. But I have my reasons
@@dorianlawson6791 rapstars or as I'd like to call them crap stars are known to be antisocial it's a given fact hence why we have all of the degenerative nonsense within the rap industry in answer to your question I've got nowhere to go because I'm free to live and think for myself I don't have to project baggage in order to believe that I'm someone or something that I'm not if that makes any sense
I’ll tell you why.. it’s because… WE’RE THE TRULY, HAPPY ONES !!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
This is actually true, and they despise it. Wimmin make themselves and everyone around them miserable.
I'm 54 and could never win a womans heart. At 30 I had finally sex with a much older woman for over a week, I met her at a party. I wasn't really into her but she was nice enough and I finally wanted the experience. It ended with her having wanting her ex-husband over to make him jealous. I guess I boosted her self esteem, simply by being younger than her. I felt used and wouldn't have that so I never saw him and walked. Admittedly I used her to, for my first sex. That was ugly of me, what she did was ugly of her. Both lowered my opinion of us, humans. In general, girls/woman always were cruel to me, ridiculed me and I saw/see them being that way to other guys too. What are we looking for? Intimacy, love, belonging. Yet there is all that talk about ones and the others value, what we bring to the table, yadda, yadda, yadda. It's a cold, cynical, self centered world we live in. You want to be loved, you got to meet conditions. Prefetched ideas. Attraction. What got that all have to do with love? Isn't love about giving, not getting? Wouldn't I give my all and everything for the one I love? But I won't love this one, or that one, or that one and that one won't be attracted to me, value me, see me fit etc. etc. etc. I'm what they called a "softy" in 80s. Humble, polite, shy (the latter not so much anymore), I have qualities, I have faults. That's true for all of us. I gave up looking for a partner in my mid 30s. I just couldn't take all that rejection anymore. I was tired of making a fool of myself and the heartbreaks. They say you just have to keep on looking. Like all those girls I had a crush on mean nothing. Like my feelings towards them meant nothing. Like they are just interchangeable. Like they mean nothing to me. If that was so, why even bother with them? Why bother with the next one? I don't desperately just need SOME woman. I don't desperately need to end singlehood. I'm very much okay having alot of alone time and my peace. But when I'm interested in someone, I sacrifice all that and only for her. Not just "someone." I not just only feel that way, I feel this what love and attraction are about. I should MEAN something. She should MEAN something. (Capital) I should. Lotsa of shoulds here, I guess I'm and idealist. A romantic. I think one ought to. I can't do this any other way. I don't FEEL anything any other way. It's not WORTH IT any other way. I don't understand this world. It's like people get together just for the kicks. To boost their ego. What has that all to do with love? I don't understand this world. I don't much belong here.
Such a great video Terry. Anything worthwhile in life takes patience and focus.
Dude! You just totally popped out of nowhere. Thank you man. I needed that.
Good insight on a rotting society. I just lost a relationship and the pain is crippling. Being single again is a hard adjustment especially in this day and age. But I appreciate everything you said here.
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Everything happens for a reason brother, I had to move city’s because I couldn’t stop thinking about her after we split and I’ve been on this single grind for 5 years now just working on myself and not looking for love in clubs or dating apps but rather just let the love of my life come knocking on my door when it’s the right time
Amen! U said it nicely!
Nailed it. I can't allow an unpredictable variable that operates on feelings flip everything l've built upside down.
You earned a sub for telling the truth and giving good advice, keep doing good for yourself man and never give up!
that is what I said earlier this month, most woman would not approach 10 men for potential dating in real life but behind closed doors or in private engage 30 men in regular basis via social media its mind boggling and a cancer to society
I’m 38 and single 😢 but it’s because I have a small penis 4 inches hard 😢. It is embarrassing and I rather be single all my life.. I am working on myself to be the best I can be but having a small cock hold me back
Totally agree!
1:00 is such an understatement some will not learn from it until is too late...
Being single doesn't really bother me, but the way many people react does. It's either, "why? Is something wrong with you," " Aww...how sad," or "OMG, we need to get you a girlfriend!" Honestly I wish people didn't care so much.
The not biting of the apple bit
- excellent
I enjoy watching a young man's perspective on this topic. I believe that the court system has a big role in men abstaining from marriage. I am speaking from experience. All a woman has to do is say that they are not happy anymore and file for a divorce. It will devastate a man mentally and financially. It happened to me and 90 percent of my friends and starting over from scratch at 50+ is not fun at all. My suggestion is to work on yourself by getting an education, getting in prime physical shape, making money and establishing yourself BEFORE marriage and document everything so it won't be a marital asset.
As someone with a different outlook on life, I recently started following you. I always recommend that people in your sphere shift more toward personal anecdotes rather than conjecture; give yourself and others a platform to discuss abuse by women, not just advantages they have in society. Likewise, focusing on the hatred for single men should hinge less on women by pointing them out and more on awakening men by pointing out how much society hinges on their decisions which is why people use you like a puppet or a voodoo doll.
I’m 28. My mom really gets on me about being single. “When you gonna date? When you going to get married, have kids” etc.I’m like do you see my options out here!? It really pisses me off
One literally has to be isekaied to a medieval world then comeback to showcase a good gal to get married and have kids with!
I needed to hear this right now; thanks brotha
Long term relationships is doomed.
You are right Terry better to wait & build yourself up!
Bs. Life doesn't work like that. Thanks for telling him what he wants to hear sweet cheeks, I love you too!
@@dorianlawson6791 he is the best!
no love from me. keep cappin lmao.
Thank you, I need to hear this
Really enjoy your perspective on human relations👍
Single Men are just sick of the cesspool of how modern dating is.
The real reason is because they don't get picked, plain and simple.. No attractive man who gets natural attention from women has your mindset
I'm single. 51yo. You don't like it? I don't care. It's just me & my 3 cats trying to enjoy life.
I've been single for 24 years and never been happier, no stressing or wondering if someone is cheating on me, no trying to guess which personality I'm getting each day and no mind games.
Continuous faith, continuous work, stay climbing boys📈💯
Protect your mental health, men.
It's not your fault !!
Being Single can be a blessing. You can have save more money, and don't have to Be obligated to give it to someone else. if single men are looked down upon its a jealousy thing for me . I'm 54, and the last 3 women I was seeing have put me off relationships . You're right most people are damaged, and as a man you got to do what's best for you.
Dude. ONE MILLION % ON THE $$!
Beautifully articulated and correct the whole hurt way.
Amen brother terry it’s like tarry speaks of perseverance through obstacles #overcomer
If you think about it, can you honestly say you've ever met a happily married Man?
*No.*
One that’s a friend of mine been married I think close to 20 years. Story goes this way on honeymoon they knock boots twice. End of the trip he sits her down and says that’s not good enough, she cries he sticks to his guns but says he has never had a problem since. He says when other men complain about their wives he doesn’t say anything because it doesn’t apply. So it’s rare but yes I know one. I know plenty now who is in the cheaper to keep her club.
I never did. There is a reason why married men lie about their marriage being "happy" to single men and it is because they don't want to feel embarrassed or humiliated. I had a buddy of mine who decided to be real with me after he got divorced and lost his house to his toxic wife. He didn't do anything wrong either, she just decided to bail out and take his shit.
@@BlazingNChilling7s I've known countless married Men who have told me "don't get married". It was the biggest mistake of their lives.
I have but I'm not from America