Paul George Do you believe that because it rhymes? lol did you ever hear of people changing it's a real thing lol once a cheater always a cheater is bullshit it's so annoying when people say it because it doesn't even make any sense it only rhymes people can change lol
Norris Jackson If they did it once your SURE they will do it again? lmaoo i highly disagree. thats not 100% at allll. like i said it just rhymes some people learn from mistakes. "they will do it again" lol clearly someone did you wrong so that's your own personal opinion. not everyone is the same lol
Ik its so hard to grasp cheating when you actually strive to be loyal. I know not everyone is monogamous but if you know your not (and your gonna try using that as an excuse) at least get into a relationship where thats cool with your partner (Polygamous relationships exist lol). Also, alot of people get off on the games, deciet, and get a high off of all the lying so cheaters are just not the best people smh.
I was dating this guy for few months and he actually came clean and told me he did. He didn't go into full details but he did tell me and we both decided to call off our relationship. Now, I absolutely don't support that he did that at all, but it truly meant to me to know that he let me know and not continued while we were still together.
Yes. These was very responsible. Not cheating is ideal but after you cheated them you definitely should come clean. Acting like it’s worse than it is just makes people get more hurt than cheating in it’s own
I agree with Jeannie 100% because the minute you feel like you can even SEE yourself cheating or being with someone else you need to go talk to your spouse/partner right away so it doesn't even get to that point.
Yes so true! If one partner is getting a urge to go out and cheat, it's a sign something is wrong in the relationship or within themselves. If the other partner knows, then maybe they can try to figure out what the core of the problem is and overcome it together.
I have a "friend" who has been on and off with this girl for about 10 years. The last 4 years he has been married to her. He has cheated on her with different girls and said... and I quote "What she doesn't know won't hurt her." You could say I am no longer talking to this person. lol
I would snitch on his ass you know why because first off I’m not just gonna let my friend off the hook when I see them disrespecting someone secondly every girl should help another girl out no one should be having to deal with this at all not only is it disgusting but it’s clowning the other person for being with someone who has been playing them without them knowing and it’s worse when you know and they find out you knew before them and didn’t even bother telling them-
Kimberly Smith not always man I’ve cheated on some girls and I’m not with them anymore and til this day they’ll never know. They know i wasn’t 100% faithful but they don’t know all the specifics. Sometimes you’ll never know you may die married to a cheater and never find out. 69 found out his bm was fucking his manager thru police wire taps off of an on going investigation. People act different when the ones they care bout aren’t around...
+Ilen Gauth No shade to other ladies that are married on the panel but truly believe tamera would lose her mind if she found out adam was cheating, she really loves that man.; not saying that the others dont love their man but not like tamera.
I honestly just think that it's selfish..not only did you cheat..your not even gonna give your partner that right to choose whether they want to stay or not..
+Dominique wright ikr? nothing is more selfish than that. I mean on top of being a cheater you're not even gonna pay due respect to your partner and let her move on with her life? gtfo 😒
Try practicing spirituality and it'll tell you what you feel from inside. Our mind, our focus runs from here to there all time, learn to control it little by little everyday. Your soul is your power, this body and even this mind will age one day. I hope you find yourself soon🙏 ( I'll be happy if you already did.)
Exactly these Filthy Cheaters and Nasty Sides Don't care what they contact,!! But the Loyal Loving spouse does and thinks they have No worry's cause they are married they Don't Deserve there Filthy Cheating Spouse possibly bringing home Deadly or Disgusting STDs!!! Honesty is the Best policy!!! I can't stand people that Cheat on there spouse!!! I also have No Respect for the Dirty Pieces of garbage that Mess with Married people!!!!
@Lulu That is so Sad!!! Some people are so Disgusting they think nothing of the Consequences of hopping in the Sack with other people even though there Married!!! It makes me Sick how some people have No Respect for anyone not there Spouse not even themselves there are Many STDs out there !!! It's like these Filthy Cheaters and Nasty ones they Mess with don't care what they could contact!! Your not safe unless you have a spouse who is Loyal has morals!!!
I'm Surprised there are so Many Cheaters with all these Grotesque Deadly STDS the Only ones I have Sympathy for are the Spouses that are being faithful while the Filthy Spouse is Messing with any piece of Garbage that's A EASY Piece!!Those EASY types Don't care what they Contact they Usually have Major issues And don't care about the Consequences that sharing bodily fluids with just Anyone brings on Illness hell I would not be surprised if those types have had Numerous STDs!! You know what they say if you have one your chance of having or contacting HIV are higher.
If I believed that I was in a long term happy committed relationship and my partner cheated in a one off situation that I would never find out I would rather not know. I would find it hard to forgive, I would certainly never forget AND I would never be able to trust him again. Once the trust is gone the relationship is pretty much dead anyway. Confession is often a way that someone seeks absolution but my observation here is that it is often done to rid the cheater of feelings of guilt leaving the wronged partner feeling wretched and bereaved.
*I wholeheartedly agree with you. I believe that you should tell your significant other as soon as you can, as keeping that destructive of a secret will only hurt you (physically, psychologically, and emotionally).*
@@Brettbren I think you should not tell so you stick with the pain you have caused. May it kill you 😒 Seriously, most of the people only want to tell for selfish reasons. To release their own pain. It's never about the partnet otherwise they wouldn't cheat in first place. If you don't want the relationship or think you deserve better just leave! That simple.
DebieDebsie Lein so you’re saying if someone cheats, they should just leave the relationship and not say anything? That’s about as cowardly as it gets.
If you cheat and you don't tell your partner you should automatically end the relationship because if you can go out your way and take the extra step to be with somebody else and not stay faithful then there's no point in staying with your partner
I cheated on my man and I felt like I couldn’t keep it a secret for long. I eventually ended up telling him and he forgave me. But let’s just say things haven’t felt the same since
Once the trust is broken , it's very difficult to put everything back together. My ex cheated on me and it broke me down as a Man , I thought she was The One . I tried to make it work for our son but I couldn't do it , now I am a single Father and my son is with me.
LIES, Tamar! If Vince EEEEEVAAAAAA comes home and Tamar finds out he cheated, she gon' beat his ass, the girl's ass, the girl's MOMMA's ass and then, she gon' beat and cuss Vince's ass AGAIN.
ADAM: Tamera...I cheated. I'm so sorry TAMERA: Wait, excuse me? ADAM: It didn't mean anything, it just - TAMERA: (throws a hard punch) ADAM: Wait - did you just? Did you just hit me? TAMERA: WE BRAWLIN'!!!
In my situation I cheated and I do feel it was a mistake. I was extremely drunk and I don’t remember a thing. All I can do is go off of is what the guy said we did that night. I confessed immediately cause I felt horribly and wanted to give my boyfriend the option to leave and choose someone better than me. It was my decision to drink and I should have been more careful. I feel confused shocked and disgusted with myself and I dislike the guy a lot cause he knew I had a boyfriend and I wish he would have been a true friend and not taken the opportunity yet and still I take responsibility. I’m so grateful my boyfriend understood. Yes he was extremely upset and disappointed in me but he respected me telling him of the incident and wants to stay and work past this. I’m still hurt by my actions and I’m being very attentive to his feelings and am showing I’m working to never let that happen again by following all his requests so I can potentially gain his trust back. I don’t want to lose my best friend or ever put myself in a position for this to happen again.
Tamera was a true friend to Tamar & Tamar was too but because she got fired she felt no one took up for her when a lot of times production will make calls on their on . I wish the honest truth would come out and they can still hang out . Like life is short . Tamar is stubborn though
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Jeannie: Tell them, even before cheating let them know. Adrienne: Don't tell them just break up with them. ..and then they went on to talk about if you could handle it and how you would react.
(2 cents from a single dude ) men: cheating is a conscious decision , a choice. Just as you arrive at an intersection and choose to “turn” left. Or “turn” right. At no point after that sequence of “choosing” to turn left - should I arrive at the realization that “maybe I want to go right”. It’s either or. However that does not preclude the idea that someone “may” cheat as an isolated incident - feel incredible Remorse and even never do it again. Circumstances , motives , etc . As a man, I feel that men cheat as a result of inabilities to inhibit temptations , and may even be viewed as a question to themselves: “can I get away with this”? I categorize it with the likes of greed, envy , lust, excess - and as I said earlier ; it’s unequivocally a choice. “You can’t turn left and right- simultaneously..” okay that’s that - The real reason I’m in this message thread ; DAMN Tamar you are fine !!!!!
Queen you don't know me. Let every person speak for themselves and not be slaves to the words of others. Let me speak for myself thanks. Feel free to talk about whatever you like.
I agree. I feel like before you go through with doing it you've actually been thinking about doing it for some time. In my opinion there is absolutely no justification for cheating because if your relationship has gotten to a point that you're unhappy enough to seek "comfort" in another person then you should just leave. 👣
If you feel like you're going to cheat,talk and work through issues. If that doesn't work,break up with them. If you call yourself being mono an in a commited relationship just don't cheat.If you want to date multiple people,just date,and don't fall in commited relationships.
You should most definitely tell your partner that you cheated because when you don't you take away their right to decide if they still want to be with you. They're not in the relationship that they think they are in and that is not right. You cheated, but they don't know so they are oblivious to the fact that you cheated, and they still believe they're in a happy monogamous relationship when they aren't at all. It's their choice if they want to still be with you. Don't take away people's choices just because you don't wanna lose them!
You're absolutely right! I cheated and lied about it, thinking I would cause him harm by telling him...and I caused us both SO much harm by not telling him. I deeply regret cheating and it has taken me years to get my self-respect back. Here's my story mybetterbodyblog.wordpress.com/contact-joanna/
I agree it makes me angry when people lie about cheating and say that they are lying beceuse they dont want to hurt their soupose felling when in reality they just dont want to face the conseuences
Carter's mom Okay well it is the cheaters personal life and a personal life is individualistic. We can't make people do anything, you have to break the news at the right time.
foreigncarsrule No matter how you try to spin it it should still be the other party's choice if they want to continue the relationship with a cheater. Yes you should tell your partner because you've already cheated why continue to be dishonest about it. I find it really sad that you don't think a person should have the right to know and choose if they still wanna be with a cheater.
I think "always" just means regardless of circumstances. Like, there's no situation in which you shouldn't tell. I don't think it necessarily means every time on an individual level.
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A guy I was in a relationship with years ago cheated on me. What pissed me off royally wasn't that he actually cheated, but that I found OUT via outsiders. After all was said, done and confirmed, I packed my isht and left. When it comes to being cheated on, if I choose to stay after I find out, trust and believe I'm not going to get violent...I'm going to show you my dark side and make your life both uncomfortable and miserable by any means necessary. I'd rather HE tell me that he stepped out on our relationship and I get mad and we deal with it, as opposed to me finding out via OUTSIDERS resulting in me becoming BEYOND LIVID and not wanting to hear it, PERIOD.
"Dont cheat, just leave the relationship if you want out"... sometimes, people dont want out. They already have an amazing relationship and a great, secure spouse and still choose to cheat because they like to have even more attention and like thrill of the new/forbidden. They dont understand the definition of a sacrifice. They feel like they can have both and are even entitled to it. Thats the worst kind of cheating imo.
Yes. This is about my choices. I deserve the opportunity to decide whether or not I forgive you. But honestly, I think even if I loved him and I stayed, we would never really be okay.
Ehhh in the words of Beyoncé she show must go on. Replace her and keep it moving, who ever watches...watches. I liked the show better when Tamar was out sick. She can be so closed minded and extra. Love her music... That's it.
I’m not fighting. I’m not arguing none of the back and forth. I’m literally turning facing away , back to you , and walking with my peace of mind , knowing I did right by (so and so) I have got no time whatsoever for the Y&R scriptures.
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The audience. LOL. #Done But I agree with Tamar and Tamera. I do think Tamar would be able to handle it. In regards to cheating, I think you are a coward and selfish if you don't tell the significant other because sooner rather than later, they will find out. Just admit it and leave them alone. Loni's got it twisted. Don't make excuses. I personally would want to know. I would be completely heartbroken but I would hate not knowing.
I was thinking, It doesn't matter if she can handle it or nah. It doesn't change the fact that staying with a cheating man is such a unhealthy relationship :/
+Bianca V Yup, I was feeling Tamar at the end. I need to know. I don't care how ugly the truth is, you just better not lie to me. The only thing I can't stand even more than cheating itself is LYING. If you cheated on me I'm upset, but if you lie to me I now look through you like you never existed to me. I will be DONE with you for _life_. I do not play those games.
It you cheat, and can't bring yourself to be honest....it says a lot about your character and your morals. Sometimes you and your spouse can work it out if you both have mistakes or poor choices (whatever they may be). Being honest about infidelity, if the couple can work through it, can only strengthen the love. We all make mistakes. It's about owning up to them and righting the wrong, no matter how hard it may be. But this all goes to the type of person you married. If your spouse can't let go of small things, if you cheat, it's better to end it completely. No use in being with someone who will never forgive you. That is the type of person who is spiteful and seeks revenge.
KoolKid8987 im saying that you mentioned two different things lol potatoe and tomatoes are different foods .Some liked her on the show and never listened to her music.The two dont go together
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If you're bold enough to cheat, you better be bold enough to tell.
W ikr
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If you cheated on me you better tell me, because I deserve to know that I need to break up with you.
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Exactly
When men cheat they will always try to cover it up and deny deny deny
No relationship is ever the same after cheatig
BitterSwt02 once cheating always cheating
Brianna Tyler your wife so you were in a lesbian relationship
Paul George Do you believe that because it rhymes? lol did you ever hear of people changing it's a real thing lol once a cheater always a cheater is bullshit it's so annoying when people say it because it doesn't even make any sense it only rhymes people can change lol
@@realskeezy3601 hunny there's a reason why that saying is a thing 🤣 because even if the have "changed" if they did it once they are gonna do it again
Norris Jackson If they did it once your SURE they will do it again? lmaoo i highly disagree. thats not 100% at allll. like i said it just rhymes some people learn from mistakes. "they will do it again" lol clearly someone did you wrong so that's your own personal opinion. not everyone is the same lol
“Well first give an honor to God and all the saints in the building” 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Tamar is funny
This escalated real quick
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Im not a christian. Is this a qoute from the bible?
@@riteshbdoerga6090 no lol just a funny saying
I want him to tell me so I can leave his ass IMMEDIATELY
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+Ari Ed Best Answer! Best Advice! Best Comment!
+Ari Ed Agreed, and to go get tested too!!
+Ari Ed gurlll u spoke my word...tell em boy bye!!!
You cheating and not telling your partner out of fear of losing them is selfish and disrespectful.
I think cheating , is selfish and disrespectful . I agree with Tamar , If it ain't working then leave .
Word on Point
Yas! If you didn't want to lose them you shouldn't have cheated in the first place.
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Ashley B PREACH MA SISTER AMEN!!!!!!!! (I FEEL LIKE I'm IN CHURCH AGAIN)
If u cheat on me, u cheated yourself from having a loyal lifelong partner. And that my friend is hard to come by now n days.
100%. Idk what's wrong with people. Their loss not mine. Thanks for letting me know you weren't the one I guess 😂
You forget it is not just physically.
Ik its so hard to grasp cheating when you actually strive to be loyal. I know not everyone is monogamous but if you know your not (and your gonna try using that as an excuse) at least get into a relationship where thats cool with your partner (Polygamous relationships exist lol). Also, alot of people get off on the games, deciet, and get a high off of all the lying so cheaters are just not the best people smh.
Hello.
That hit so different.
When Tamera said "I don't want to hear it from somewhere else" I felt it deep in my soul.
"Don't let nobody else tell me what you should have already told me".
Definitely tell your partner... so he/she can break up with your cheating ass!
lol yup
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+Santricia Jones lol savage i can't with you
lonely me Lol :)
Sounds like something Loni would say lol
Cheating is a choice that ruins a relationship. If you're not happy with your relationship, then just leave. Don't cheat.
A True Love Official yup true
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A True Love Official it's not always that easy to leave specially if there is kids and finances.
A True Love Official thank u sis what's so hard
Preach !!!!
I love how Loni always stays on reminding what the actual question is. Keeps them on track and from being able to avoid answering it directly.
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I was dating this guy for few months and he actually came clean and told me he did. He didn't go into full details but he did tell me and we both decided to call off our relationship. Now, I absolutely don't support that he did that at all, but it truly meant to me to know that he let me know and not continued while we were still together.
Yes. These was very responsible. Not cheating is ideal but after you cheated them you definitely should come clean. Acting like it’s worse than it is just makes people get more hurt than cheating in it’s own
That is extremely mature. Well done the both of you l!
Cheating is also spiritual, you don't want somebody to bring spiritual diseases to you because such things will block you.
It’s good you didn’t have to catch him
I think you should definitely tell your partner you've cheated, I mean you didn't give them LOYALTY at least give them some RESPECT and let them know.
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Preach 🙌🏽
Put some respect on it!!
+Obia RESPECK LOL
I agree with Jeannie 100% because the minute you feel like you can even SEE yourself cheating or being with someone else you need to go talk to your spouse/partner right away so it doesn't even get to that point.
+Melissa Evans Yup communication is the key 🔑, people. Gotta do it.
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5.43 jeannie's still processing all of that but that face wow don't mess with jeannie mai hahahaha
Yes so true! If one partner is getting a urge to go out and cheat, it's a sign something is wrong in the relationship or within themselves. If the other partner knows, then maybe they can try to figure out what the core of the problem is and overcome it together.
It's easier said than done
Don’t cheat simple 👌🏾just stay true to whoever you decide to be with
Kobe Trotman that hard
@@brandonjablasone7544 then don't be in relationships.
@@brandonjablasone7544 like my grandmother always said, have sex with people you actually love
Lol
I have a "friend" who has been on and off with this girl for about 10 years. The last 4 years he has been married to her. He has cheated on her with different girls and said... and I quote "What she doesn't know won't hurt her." You could say I am no longer talking to this person. lol
Karma will catch up to him eventually
@@sagittariusque8932 yep!
Did you tell the girl?
YOUR A DOG FOR NOT TELLING U SHOULD BE BASHED
I would snitch on his ass you know why because first off I’m not just gonna let my friend off the hook when I see them disrespecting someone secondly every girl should help another girl out no one should be having to deal with this at all not only is it disgusting but it’s clowning the other person for being with someone who has been playing them without them knowing and it’s worse when you know and they find out you knew before them and didn’t even bother telling them-
what's done in the dark, eventually comes out in the light🤔
lady michele yea might as well confess
*AMEN to that!*
i was thinking da samething sis you should have to top comment
It Always Comes out!!!
Kimberly Smith not always man I’ve cheated on some girls and I’m not with them anymore and til this day they’ll never know. They know i wasn’t 100% faithful but they don’t know all the specifics. Sometimes you’ll never know you may die married to a cheater and never find out. 69 found out his bm was fucking his manager thru police wire taps off of an on going investigation. People act different when the ones they care bout aren’t around...
Tamera seems sweet,but if Adam cheated,I believe she'd lose her mind😠😠😠😲😵
+Ilen Gauth OMG I know I would not want to be within 100 mi of that..... 💣💣💣💥💥💥
yep!!
if Adam cheated...... "RIP Adam" 😩
She would still stay though one hundred percent
+Ilen Gauth No shade to other ladies that are married on the panel but truly believe tamera would lose her mind if she found out adam was cheating, she really loves that man.; not saying that the others dont love their man but not like tamera.
Tamar brought so much energy and fun! She was real and Spoke what we as women think.
I agree!
Miss her and Tamara now 😭
@@EvolvingMama_ yes! Ugggh I ain’t watching no more.
Tamar is hilarious. She said, “First giving honor to God.” I laughed so hard! 🤣😂😂😂
I honestly just think that it's selfish..not only did you cheat..your not even gonna give your partner that right to choose whether they want to stay or not..
+Dominique wright ikr? nothing is more selfish than that. I mean on top of being a cheater you're not even gonna pay due respect to your partner and let her move on with her life? gtfo 😒
+Helena exactly..in my opinion if a person means that much to you..there's no way you could entertain someone else to the point of sleeping with them
true.
Yup. Never say never.
Very well said..it's just nasty..
Cheating is a choice, not a mistake....
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+kae Amen #2
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I had a girlfriend once that used to tell me why do u want to know your just going to get your feeling hurt .... 😞 I’m not that idiot anymore
Yeah don't be that idiot anymore I would've left real quick that's just somebody who's playing around you dude just to have you so nobody else would
Forget her you deserve better!
Try practicing spirituality and it'll tell you what you feel from inside. Our mind, our focus runs from here to there all time, learn to control it little by little everyday.
Your soul is your power, this body and even this mind will age one day.
I hope you find yourself soon🙏 ( I'll be happy if you already did.)
Sorry that happened to you. Cheating sucks.
@@kaleidojessthat was long time ago but I’m currently in a relationship I’m happy but thank you does suck
Tamars hair looks amazing here. The short dark curls 😍😍yess
Mmm, cheating can bring sexual health problems for the partner who got cheated on. You gotta tell.
writerspen010 yeah. don't put me at risk.
Exactly these Filthy Cheaters and Nasty Sides Don't care what they contact,!! But the Loyal Loving spouse does and thinks they have No worry's cause they are married they Don't Deserve there Filthy Cheating Spouse possibly bringing home Deadly or Disgusting STDs!!! Honesty is the Best policy!!! I can't stand people that Cheat on there spouse!!! I also have No Respect for the Dirty Pieces of garbage that Mess with Married people!!!!
@Lulu That is so Sad!!! Some people are so Disgusting they think nothing of the Consequences of hopping in the Sack with other people even though there Married!!! It makes me Sick how some people have No Respect for anyone not there Spouse not even themselves there are Many STDs out there !!! It's like these Filthy Cheaters and Nasty ones they Mess with don't care what they could contact!! Your not safe unless you have a spouse who is Loyal has morals!!!
I'm Surprised there are so Many Cheaters with all these Grotesque Deadly STDS the Only ones I have Sympathy for are the Spouses that are being faithful while the Filthy Spouse is Messing with any piece of Garbage that's A EASY Piece!!Those EASY types Don't care what they Contact they Usually have Major issues And don't care about the Consequences that sharing bodily fluids with just Anyone brings on Illness hell I would not be surprised if those types have had Numerous STDs!! You know what they say if you have one your chance of having or contacting HIV are higher.
What if it was just a kiss
If they don't tell the STD will!!
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Mahagony1985 😂👏
Mahagony1985 Yeah that definitely does not always occur...
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Mahagony1985 I absolutely agree the std will it'll give it away no use hiding the fact your cheating.
Me and the audience not believing Tamar "can handle it" before she explained herself 🤣🤣🤣
If I believed that I was in a long term happy committed relationship and my partner cheated in a one off situation that I would never find out I would rather not know. I would find it hard to forgive, I would certainly never forget AND I would never be able to trust him again. Once the trust is gone the relationship is pretty much dead anyway. Confession is often a way that someone seeks absolution but my observation here is that it is often done to rid the cheater of feelings of guilt leaving the wronged partner feeling wretched and bereaved.
The fact that this conversation was so long, I don't trust them lmao.
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Nallah B fr..it was a simple question
Nolan Baptiste well I'm sure tamera doesn't she's only been with one person ger whole life..well at least sexually
Nolan Baptiste no.. to my knowledge she has never been with the same sex..and I was saying she's only been with her husband
Are they kidding? Honesty is one of the most important things in a relationship. Cheating and not telling your partner is disgusting.
*I wholeheartedly agree with you. I believe that you should tell your significant other as soon as you can, as keeping that destructive of a secret will only hurt you (physically, psychologically, and emotionally).*
cheating is not good but what u dont know cant hurt u!!
@@sadmansakib6753 except when you get Chlamydia, herpes or HIV
@@Brettbren I think you should not tell so you stick with the pain you have caused. May it kill you 😒
Seriously, most of the people only want to tell for selfish reasons. To release their own pain. It's never about the partnet otherwise they wouldn't cheat in first place.
If you don't want the relationship or think you deserve better just leave! That simple.
DebieDebsie Lein so you’re saying if someone cheats, they should just leave the relationship and not say anything? That’s about as cowardly as it gets.
If you cheat and you don't tell your partner you should automatically end the relationship because if you can go out your way and take the extra step to be with somebody else and not stay faithful then there's no point in staying with your partner
I cheated on my man and I felt like I couldn’t keep it a secret for long. I eventually ended up telling him and he forgave me. But let’s just say things haven’t felt the same since
Once the trust is broken , it's very difficult to put everything back together. My ex cheated on me and it broke me down as a Man , I thought she was The One . I tried to make it work for our son but I couldn't do it , now I am a single Father and my son is with me.
@@Sabretooth-gz7pp sending 💖💖
@@siobhangallagher2576 Thanks 👍.
Yikes.
@@a.g.8025 Yikes indeed 😳
LIES, Tamar! If Vince EEEEEVAAAAAA comes home and Tamar finds out he cheated, she gon' beat his ass, the girl's ass, the girl's MOMMA's ass and then, she gon' beat and cuss Vince's ass AGAIN.
😂😂😂😂
why the mom though!? 😂😂😂😂
diamond dorr I dunno. That's how bad Tamar would flip out. Lol
Lol, that's her handling it 😂
I died lmfao
ADAM: Tamera...I cheated. I'm so sorry
TAMERA: Wait, excuse me?
ADAM: It didn't mean anything, it just -
TAMERA: (throws a hard punch)
ADAM: Wait - did you just? Did you just hit me?
TAMERA: WE BRAWLIN'!!!
This right here...😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 gold
from a sweet witch to a warrior mode hahahaha wawww
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 I'm dead
In my situation I cheated and I do feel it was a mistake. I was extremely drunk and I don’t remember a thing. All I can do is go off of is what the guy said we did that night. I confessed immediately cause I felt horribly and wanted to give my boyfriend the option to leave and choose someone better than me. It was my decision to drink and I should have been more careful. I feel confused shocked and disgusted with myself and I dislike the guy a lot cause he knew I had a boyfriend and I wish he would have been a true friend and not taken the opportunity yet and still I take responsibility. I’m so grateful my boyfriend understood. Yes he was extremely upset and disappointed in me but he respected me telling him of the incident and wants to stay and work past this. I’m still hurt by my actions and I’m being very attentive to his feelings and am showing I’m working to never let that happen again by following all his requests so I can potentially gain his trust back. I don’t want to lose my best friend or ever put myself in a position for this to happen again.
You knew this male friend wanted to sleep with you and you never distanced yourself from him.
Tamara's idea of a brawl out is her doing the windmill during a fight 😂
Well that's what Deontay Wilder does
Tamera just gave me ALL TYPES OF LIFE this clip. lmmfao!
+JustS lmao this side of her cracks me up! feisty 🌶🌶🌶
She is my FAVORITE!! lol
Tamera and Tamar are real friends, you can tell
I know right! I love it!
I know right! I love it!
yassss lol
Whitney Jones not anymore lol 😂
Tamera was a true friend to Tamar & Tamar was too but because she got fired she felt no one took up for her when a lot of times production will make calls on their on .
I wish the honest truth would come out and they can still hang out . Like life is short . Tamar is stubborn though
They NEED TO TELL! It is not their decision if the other person wants to stay. . . It is disrespectful.
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A few guilty suspects on this table... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"We brawlin" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 👊👊👊 brawl out
lmao
yes 😂😂😂
Tamera about to send Adam lemon emojis 🍋🍋🍋🍋 😩😂😂😂😂😂 I love her so much !
what does that mean ?
+Brystal Bianca You'd have to listen to Beyonce for that answer.
+tlcmnchld18 oh yeahh lol duh. thanks
omfg !!! 😂😂😂😂
+Amaris PMH She is so cool! I'm with Tamera.
Love the wisdom from the Braxton, I'm glad listen to people who have experience.
This is the group that I missed they were all so cute and funny enjoy the show ladies
NOBODY answered the question😂😂😂😂
They never do lol
Jeannie: Tell them, even before cheating let them know.
Adrienne: Don't tell them just break up with them.
..and then they went on to talk about if you could handle it and how you would react.
+Hana K the question is based off the fact that u have ALREADY cheated...would u tell..nt what u would do before u gt to that point
they did tho
Jeannie did. She just told a story while she said her answer lol
Everyone's makeup is EXTRA fleeky in this clip! Love it!
Right!!!!
Blues
The Girl Wearing The Hat Resembles Brenda Song.
Savage Sonya haha yes I agree
Hm no
Savage Sonya just her voice
Her name is Jeannie Mai baby
(2 cents from a single dude ) men: cheating is a conscious decision , a choice. Just as you arrive at an intersection and choose to “turn” left. Or “turn” right. At no point after that sequence of “choosing” to turn left - should I arrive at the realization that “maybe I want to go right”. It’s either or. However that does not preclude the idea that someone “may” cheat as an isolated incident - feel incredible Remorse and even never do it again. Circumstances , motives , etc . As a man, I feel that men cheat as a result of inabilities to inhibit temptations , and may even be viewed as a question to themselves: “can I get away with this”? I categorize it with the likes of greed, envy , lust, excess - and as I said earlier ; it’s unequivocally a choice. “You can’t turn left and right- simultaneously..” okay that’s that -
The real reason I’m in this message thread ; DAMN Tamar you are fine !!!!!
Totally agree...thats what my brothers taught me
the Ratchet Tamera will come out. lolol can't stop laughing.
Juna Antenor IKR
Juna Antenor lmao
Lmao me too, tamera a lil crazy though I can tell
That was funny
Im on her level yo 😂
Can we just acknowledge how BEAUTIFUL Loni looks today????!
Yes she truly looks gorgeous 😍😍
absolutely!
Yasssss
yessss
Gorgeous
The only way we can get better as a society is to be honest with each other
Yeah you say that til black people start speaking the honest truth about white structural racism 💯💯💯💯
Queen you don't know me. Let every person speak for themselves and not be slaves to the words of others. Let me speak for myself thanks. Feel free to talk about whatever you like.
Tamera doing 'we brawling' is my favourite Real moment
I would brawl out, y'all!!! 😂😂😂😭😭😭😭
Lol she's adorable 😂😂😂😂
The ratchet Tamera xD
I love Tamera she’s hilarious 😭😭 “we brawlin”😭😭
Nadia Pridgen lmao 🤼♀️
😂😂
🤣🤣
I hope she don’t brawl like that 😩🤣🤣🤣
@@TheAriesprincess19 love tamera Mowry housley she doesn't belong on that show she's too smart she's way too educated well spoken than all the girls.
I LOVED Tamara's answers 🙌💕
Adrienne’s hair though!🙌🏽
Cheating is not a mistake, people need to learn that.
I agree. I feel like before you go through with doing it you've actually been thinking about doing it for some time. In my opinion there is absolutely no justification for cheating because if your relationship has gotten to a point that you're unhappy enough to seek "comfort" in another person then you should just leave. 👣
ginatae1986 exactly what I'm saying.
Exactly! It's a decision.
That's right.
THANK YOU THANK YOU ITS A CHOICE PLAIN AND SIMPLE
Tamar always knows the right things to say to rile up Tamera (in the funniest way)!
+Mimi. She asked what "brawl out" meant at the end just for the giggles I saw that Tamar lol
OMG did yall hear that Tamar got fired from the show?!!!
+Nicki FlawlessMiraj exactly
+Nicki FlawlessMiraj true
yep
If you feel like you're going to cheat,talk and work through issues. If that doesn't work,break up with them. If you call yourself being mono an in a commited relationship just don't cheat.If you want to date multiple people,just date,and don't fall in commited relationships.
Loni looks amazing with her hair up like that, like utterly regal and I love it.
"if I stay loyal, you stay loyal'!!😂 yasssssss Tamera ....
Well first giving honor to God and all the saints in the building😂😂😂
that was too funny lol
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂 they all cheated please give me a break the real my ass
Tamera, and we are brawling. Laughed so hard to tears
This is very interesting. I can see why they all have different thoughts. We all have different perspectives in certain situations
You cheat! You're OUT!!! And I'll know whether you tell me or not! Done!!!! 🇱🇸🇿🇦🇺🇸
Tamera is way too cute, I can't!!! 😂 #brawlout
OMG it's really nice to see a South African in here especially if their name is the same as my sisters🇿🇦
+Nthabie Abie Tabz yessssssss she's way too cute!!!!!
+Nthabie Abie Tabz like you canr help but love her... nqwwwaaa
+Nthabie Abie Tabz you are right. I love, love, love Tamera,she is such a beautiful person from inside out
"BRAWL OUT YALL! WE BRAWLIN"
Lmaoooo I love Tamera
lmao i absolutely love Tamar and Tamera's relationship...The quiet and the storm LOL!! and Jeannie is long winded like me
+DaniChanelENT__ I love how Tamar gets so tickled by Tamera's behavior, it cracks me up.
"We brawlin!" 👊👊 Dead 😂
I’m sorry but Loni’s hair was the star of the whole clip and her makeup yaaaaassss hun...ty 🥰
You should most definitely tell your partner that you cheated because when you don't you take away their right to decide if they still want to be with you. They're not in the relationship that they think they are in and that is not right. You cheated, but they don't know so they are oblivious to the fact that you cheated, and they still believe they're in a happy monogamous relationship when they aren't at all. It's their choice if they want to still be with you. Don't take away people's choices just because you don't wanna lose them!
You're absolutely right! I cheated and lied about it, thinking I would cause him harm by telling him...and I caused us both SO much harm by not telling him. I deeply regret cheating and it has taken me years to get my self-respect back. Here's my story mybetterbodyblog.wordpress.com/contact-joanna/
I agree it makes me angry when people lie about cheating and say that they are lying beceuse they dont want to hurt their soupose felling when in reality they just dont want to face the conseuences
Alexander Briggman Not with me. Just say "I cheated on you" and from there I will decide what I wanna do stay or go
Carter's mom Okay well it is the cheaters personal life and a personal life is individualistic. We can't make people do anything, you have to break the news at the right time.
foreigncarsrule No matter how you try to spin it it should still be the other party's choice if they want to continue the relationship with a cheater. Yes you should tell your partner because you've already cheated why continue to be dishonest about it. I find it really sad that you don't think a person should have the right to know and choose if they still wanna be with a cheater.
Why is Tamar continuously asking Jeannie "would you tell him girl?" When she didn't even answer the question herself... Just wondering 😞
Exactly like Jeannie flat out answered the question and Tamar jumped down her throat!
That's just Tamar being Tamar. What else is new lmao
lmao
Madame Tay Tay...Is being herself. strange that you're only noticing Tamar is like this now
but she said she wouldn't, she would leave. She does not believe in cheating
Tamara we brawling hilarious these were the best shows in my opinion🤗
Oh Tamar!
"I feel like I can handle it"......we all know you can't😂😂😂
How I miss moments like this.
What you mean by "should you ALWAYS tell them"? How often do you cheat? Wtf.
I think "always" just means regardless of circumstances. Like, there's no situation in which you shouldn't tell. I don't think it necessarily means every time on an individual level.
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Tamera, don't ever change.
She like 37. If she hasn't changed yet, I don't see it coming. But, that's just me.
ABSOLUTELY! SHE HAS INNER beauty!
+Christian Clarke and that's rare!
+Christian Clarke I love her soooo much for it!!!
“We Brawling” 😩🤣👏🏾
A guy I was in a relationship with years ago cheated on me. What pissed me off royally wasn't that he actually cheated, but that I found OUT via outsiders. After all was said, done and confirmed, I packed my isht and left. When it comes to being cheated on, if I choose to stay after I find out, trust and believe I'm not going to get violent...I'm going to show you my dark side and make your life both uncomfortable and miserable by any means necessary. I'd rather HE tell me that he stepped out on our relationship and I get mad and we deal with it, as opposed to me finding out via OUTSIDERS resulting in me becoming BEYOND LIVID and not wanting to hear it, PERIOD.
God, Tamera is always so right. She's like the mother Teresa of The Real❤️
Diana M Mother Teresa didn't get violent over a past indiscretion.
@@foreigncarsrule i love that you call cheating a " past indiscretion "
Actually "mother" Theresa was an evil woman and her disgusting ways are well documented.
@@ocandro WOW! I'm gonna look that up!
They should of kept Tamar on the show
Tam Tam had me crying laughing at the end! "What does Brawl out mean?"
*awkwardly fights air*
😂😂😂😂
"Dont cheat, just leave the relationship if you want out"... sometimes, people dont want out. They already have an amazing relationship and a great, secure spouse and still choose to cheat because they like to have even more attention and like thrill of the new/forbidden. They dont understand the definition of a sacrifice. They feel like they can have both and are even entitled to it.
Thats the worst kind of cheating imo.
Yes. This is about my choices. I deserve the opportunity to decide whether or not I forgive you.
But honestly, I think even if I loved him and I stayed, we would never really be okay.
Even tho Tamat gets on my everlasting nerve with her shade at times, I'm sad to see her leave the show. The group dynamic just won't be the same!
Ehhh in the words of Beyoncé she show must go on. Replace her and keep it moving, who ever watches...watches. I liked the show better when Tamar was out sick. She can be so closed minded and extra. Love her music... That's it.
Right !!! Ughhh
+Mariah B wait why is she leaving?
+123marciav She got fired.
True
Loni is so radiant!
Make up and locs just fleeky! lol
+MsQueenB2 yeah braids and lots suits her more than straight hair
That let's you know right there
Tamera is a real keeper 👏
I’m not fighting.
I’m not arguing none of the back and forth.
I’m literally turning facing away , back to you , and walking with my peace of mind , knowing I did right by (so and so)
I have got no time whatsoever for the Y&R scriptures.
Tamera is the cutest omg 😂
She looks like a cute mouse :-)
😂😂
Yesss! I’m so sad she’s not on here anymore.
@@tiamarie6997 I can’t even watch it all the way😂😂🙄 I watch it but I’m not that into it as I was when she was there🥲
@@iambreaajade_tv8056 IKR!! I find myself watching old shows with her on it😩. It’s not the same without her🤷🏾♀️
Tamera said “we brawlin’” 😆😆😆😂😂😂
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For me once my partner cheats ONCE there's no go going back. Game over PERIOD
Wtf Is this even a question?
Next episode: Is Cheating on your spouse really that bad? 🤔
Omg I died at "We Brawlinnn!" *Air fist fights* LOL!! Tamera is hilarious.
The audience. LOL. #Done
But I agree with Tamar and Tamera. I do think Tamar would be able to handle it. In regards to cheating, I think you are a coward and selfish if you don't tell the significant other because sooner rather than later, they will find out. Just admit it and leave them alone. Loni's got it twisted. Don't make excuses.
I personally would want to know. I would be completely heartbroken but I would hate not knowing.
I was thinking, It doesn't matter if she can handle it or nah. It doesn't change the fact that staying with a cheating man is such a unhealthy relationship :/
+withrachh98 so true :0
+Bianca V Yup, I was feeling Tamar at the end. I need to know. I don't care how ugly the truth is, you just better not lie to me. The only thing I can't stand even more than cheating itself is LYING. If you cheated on me I'm upset, but if you lie to me I now look through you like you never existed to me. I will be DONE with you for _life_. I do not play those games.
Do you guys think by not telling your SO that cheated on them makes you a liar ?
I don't agree with what Loni said because then you can't trust your spouse to go out on vacation or a night by themselves.
yup when your mind strays everything follows
I’m learning! I like different view points
I LOVE TAMERA THATS MY GIRL!!!!!! WE BRAWLING!!!!LOL!!!! IF IM STAYING LOYAL YOUR STAYING LOYAL!!!! THATS RIGHT !!!! LET THE CHURCH SAY AMEN!!!!
Amen. I love her so much
"So would you tell him or not girl" lmao Tamar was impatient
Loved that lol
“If It Is to clear Your conscience - you should not have did It In the first place”.
Straight
It you cheat, and can't bring yourself to be honest....it says a lot about your character and your morals. Sometimes you and your spouse can work it out if you both have mistakes or poor choices (whatever they may be). Being honest about infidelity, if the couple can work through it, can only strengthen the love. We all make mistakes. It's about owning up to them and righting the wrong, no matter how hard it may be. But this all goes to the type of person you married. If your spouse can't let go of small things, if you cheat, it's better to end it completely. No use in being with someone who will never forgive you. That is the type of person who is spiteful and seeks revenge.
All these "loyal" Tamar fans talking about they're not watching anymore. Where were you fans when she dropped her album?? 🐸🐸🍵🍵🍵
+KoolKid8987 my thoughts exactly
+KoolKid8987 potatoes...tomatoes what
+Positive vibes why u talking about food? Lol
KoolKid8987 im saying that you mentioned two different things lol potatoe and tomatoes are different foods .Some liked her on the show and never listened to her music.The two dont go together
+Positive vibes fans should support someone they love right? She gets no support for her music. Ijs
7 minutes few days in a row.. FOR REAL ?! THE PRODUCERS R ON THEIR HONEYMOON GURL
Lmao
+Red Eyes lmaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaao
+Red Eyes hahahaha gurl!!!!!!
They are buttering us up since they dragged Tamar through the mud, fields, tundra...
+whits water 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
“ So would you tell him or not girl ? “ Tamar is me all day everyday I am with Tamar
Tamera saying she would brawl out is the epitome of that little duck with a knife meme