How Long Should Sex Last?

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  • čas přidán 23. 09. 2015
  • How many minutes of sex is enough? Five minutes, 10 minutes, an hour? The hosts get REAL about how long sex should last, in this Girl Chat. Watch!
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  • @arlenemontiel7341
    @arlenemontiel7341 Před 6 lety +2942

    30 mins, isn’t long. Especially if it’s including foreplay! That’s accurate.

  • @Jezabel-in-Hell
    @Jezabel-in-Hell Před 6 lety +3717

    Adrienne is the only one getting anything proper. LOL

    • @clemonjgraham7038
      @clemonjgraham7038 Před 6 lety +59

      Truth

    • @lamoskgr
      @lamoskgr Před 6 lety +53

      I agree. She has that Caribbean blood right there. lol

    • @chelseagwenzi4343
      @chelseagwenzi4343 Před 6 lety

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    • @chelseagwenzi4343
      @chelseagwenzi4343 Před 6 lety

      Paisley Stovall yowb

    • @chelseagwenzi4343
      @chelseagwenzi4343 Před 6 lety

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  • @shelseajat
    @shelseajat Před 4 lety +1044

    I feel bad that Adrienne’s the only one getting it right 😭

    • @UnexpectedWonder
      @UnexpectedWonder Před 4 lety +20

      Ikr?!

    • @bribricatherine8577
      @bribricatherine8577 Před 3 lety +15

      Right! Like her timing adds up. If 7-13 mins is adequate sex, then take 5 to do kissing and all that 10 for foreplay, 10 for sex thats damn near 30 mins lmfao

    • @agentorange153
      @agentorange153 Před 6 měsíci

      @@bribricatherine8577 So I guess the afterglow is NOT included?

    • @markk4473
      @markk4473 Před 5 měsíci

      Ikr, I came to comments thinking it would be same, disagreeing with Adrienne. Trust me 20-30 minutes is so correct for real normal realistic people and if living with partner long, it’s not even an everyday thing. They’re just saying it for camera. I believe Tamera but sometimes making love but close to 1r and that will be once or twice weekly

    • @agentorange153
      @agentorange153 Před 5 měsíci

      @@markk4473 If you take a full hour, then you'll probably have to give up simply from physical fatigue, even if you take breaks during the act (been there, done that)!

  • @khronicallykatt
    @khronicallykatt Před 6 lety +915

    If sex was over in 10 minutes I would be hellllllaaaaa disappointed. 30 minutes including foreplay is prime. Anything longer is just a bonus.

    • @laiks5485
      @laiks5485 Před 4 lety +8

      Ok 🐷 oink

    • @ellyadoyo
      @ellyadoyo Před 4 lety +2

      Thats true

    • @allanpearsall8879
      @allanpearsall8879 Před 4 lety +5

      29 mins 59sec or no deal

    • @shooklizard9039
      @shooklizard9039 Před 4 lety

      @@laiks5485 ?

    • @zozochichi
      @zozochichi Před 4 lety +9

      1 hour is the least I expect. Never been with a girl who wanted less than 1 hour with me. Every girl I've been with went on and on with me even on regular days. Never had sex for under even 45 minutes before. Not sure who these ladies have been fucking. They seem really unsexed at all. They need to really get fuckedddd .... loooong

  • @Misslovlii14
    @Misslovlii14 Před 8 lety +1615

    That awkward moment when Loni says, "Idk what man you're with" to Adrienne and Adrienne just recently called off her engagement...too soon Loni, too soon...
    And I agree with Adrienne. 20-30 minutes is a good amount of time lol.

    • @smilealwaysnatasha3423
      @smilealwaysnatasha3423 Před 8 lety +59

      I know it look like it pierced Adrienne's soul lmaook

    • @saderoberts4877
      @saderoberts4877 Před 8 lety +16

      What are Yall talking about I would say 1 hour so what is she talking bout 30 min Thats too short #yesimafreak

    • @sandi-lynneshun1739
      @sandi-lynneshun1739 Před 8 lety +1

      +LexiMB Right?! I was thinking the same thing lol

    • @prettienini
      @prettienini Před 8 lety +14

      30 min is too long. I can be a freak in less time than that lmao

    • @lenamonique18
      @lenamonique18 Před 8 lety +15

      I agree! 30 minutes for the whole thing is on average. not including complete foreplay of oral and allat. anddd if you're going back to back with different positions that's about an hour.

  • @Akimaj
    @Akimaj Před 8 lety +2228

    I agree with Adrienne. 20-30 minutes is about right. That includes EVERYTHING! Kissing, hugging, foreplay, the wam bam and then you continue about your day, lol. Unless, like Tamera said, you're just looking for a quickie then that could take about 5-10 minutes. I hate how they tried to make Adrienne look like she was crazy. I AGREE WITH YOU ADRIENNE!!! Lol!

    • @leyway
      @leyway Před 8 lety +23

      The other ladies are married and with kids they cant exactly just have a whirlwind going on in the bedroom. Its different when ur married and things are different when ur still dating. Different strokes for different folks as long as there is a happy ending in the end duration shouldnt be an issue. Coz u can have 30 mins of horrible sex.

    • @Akimaj
      @Akimaj Před 8 lety +46

      Leah S. I'm married with kids too and I still agree with Adrienne lol! But it's like you said, different strokes for different folks.

    • @leyway
      @leyway Před 8 lety +9

      Akimaj
      well i never really sided with anyone. im just saying ppl shouldn't judge the quality with duration. im not married btw.

    • @charliebrown6425
      @charliebrown6425 Před 8 lety +25

      20-30 is not long if u think about. but I feel it's long enough to please each other

    • @dariannelson8103
      @dariannelson8103 Před 8 lety +2

      I agree

  • @shimariee5893
    @shimariee5893 Před 6 lety +905

    Sex should last as long as you please different stokes for different folks period

  • @e.c.1975
    @e.c.1975 Před 4 lety +487

    These ladies must be having nothing but quickies 😂

    • @UnexpectedWonder
      @UnexpectedWonder Před 4 lety +10

      Really though!

    • @blyat4842
      @blyat4842 Před 4 lety +9

      30 minutes for you is a quicky?
      Stop

    • @mimia.4810
      @mimia.4810 Před 4 lety +20

      Sam_ S No. they're saying the other women who are disagreeing with Adrienne and saying 30 minutes is long are having quickies.

    • @gawaynelynch8679
      @gawaynelynch8679 Před 4 lety +9

      One hour or more is a good sex time.

    • @jaypay8954
      @jaypay8954 Před 4 lety

      Jeanie made it clear she likes quickies.

  • @JaguarStar999
    @JaguarStar999 Před 8 lety +798

    3 to 7 minutes????? What, they interviewed 60 year-old housewives??? 7 minutes is barely enough time to say hello and kiss a little.

    • @user1982
      @user1982 Před 8 lety +6

      or maybe you're just doing it wrong

    • @electromaitotandonde
      @electromaitotandonde Před 8 lety +7

      +James Kiefer what is wrong with you telling everyone who does it for more than 2 seconds that they're doing it wrong? How do you even do sex wrong lol. If you finish that fast it's not everyone else's fault for being able to enjoy it for longer🙄

    • @user1982
      @user1982 Před 8 lety +1

      electromaitotandonde i'm entitled to my opinion and obviously my opinion has studies and focus groups to back it up!!!

    • @georgew7405
      @georgew7405 Před 7 lety +1

      A lot of time it takes me half hour to come is that normal?

    • @SheaRealSavage
      @SheaRealSavage Před 7 lety +4

      +George Abdo yes...i like 3 hours myself

  • @bevz90
    @bevz90 Před 8 lety +509

    The awkward moment when you can't relate because you're a Virgin..... but I agree with Adrienne if I was guessing I would have thought 30 mins too

    • @daniphantom6934
      @daniphantom6934 Před 8 lety +32

      me too, 7 minutes sounds ridiculous

    • @n.o1143
      @n.o1143 Před 8 lety +2

      Right loool

    • @deborarodriguez7899
      @deborarodriguez7899 Před 7 lety

      bevz90 yesss when the other one said that it was 3-7 I was like that short I though It was moree

    • @wigginskidst.v8427
      @wigginskidst.v8427 Před 7 lety +2

      bevz90 hello my name is Bryan let me change that

    • @naldotubo
      @naldotubo Před 7 lety +1

      Bryan Wighins your late by a year bro lol

  • @loveislife77
    @loveislife77 Před 6 lety +1329

    I agree with the first chick, 20-30 minutes is fair game. Women who require and demand 4-6 hours AND more than one round are insatiable and need medical help. That's almost a full time job.

    • @dattepo7534
      @dattepo7534 Před 6 lety +56

      JesuCristoEsREY full time job lmao so true

    • @magicdivinity5157
      @magicdivinity5157 Před 6 lety +14

      JesuCristoEsREY Full time job... hahaha

    • @juliasmith2271
      @juliasmith2271 Před 6 lety +8

      JesuCristoEsREY hahhahahahaa. I can't with u LoL.

    • @GarySmith-ph2qy
      @GarySmith-ph2qy Před 6 lety +1

      JesuCristoEsREY yupppp

    • @spinosaurusd2985
      @spinosaurusd2985 Před 6 lety +27

      Zack jay Women are different and get satisfied in different ways. Some women anatomically can only orgasm through their clit. Its like they don't even have g-spot (or it takes hours). I also know women who only take 2mins. Its all varied. Regardless of a man's technique, there's some women that you may never satiate

  • @warrenaray
    @warrenaray Před 5 lety +189

    Sex doesn’t have a time limit. As long as both parties 🎉 then it’s good!

  • @latina7292
    @latina7292 Před 8 lety +1155

    Am I the only one who just never wants it to stop once I'm started...like ever?! They're making me feel like nymphomaniac.

    • @TheFruitney
      @TheFruitney Před 8 lety +10

      +latina7292 dont feel that way... do you even if you have to hold a gun to his head.

    • @UrbanDecayLova247
      @UrbanDecayLova247 Před 8 lety +79

      +latina7292 Agreed, if I don't got anything to do that day I could have it all day tbh lol...but I think what Adrienne was saying is normal, 30 minutes is a television show how is that too long? I think it's funny us as women be acting like we doin ALL the work anyway

    • @etherealdeal1792
      @etherealdeal1792 Před 8 lety +1

      +Tany Britt hahaha true that

    • @nicolevanessa4022
      @nicolevanessa4022 Před 8 lety +35

      +latina7292 Lol I feel you, we latinas baby. Like we can go all day if I have nothing planned

    • @latina7292
      @latina7292 Před 8 lety +5

      +Nicki Santiago YES! Seriously!😂😂😂

  • @AyyRalphy
    @AyyRalphy Před 8 lety +429

    Adrienne was right wtf was all that screaming and nasty eye aimed at her for?

  • @leroyrobinson7018
    @leroyrobinson7018 Před 6 lety +468

    i was already in love with Adrienne but now... I am even more. she's just perfect

  • @Xk8rsx
    @Xk8rsx Před 6 lety +2611

    I’m a virgin so I can’t talk, but 30 minutes doesn’t seem long.

    • @GarySmith-ph2qy
      @GarySmith-ph2qy Před 6 lety +37

      Xk8rsx yeah ok

    • @itx02
      @itx02 Před 6 lety +118

      30 min ALOT, the average time is 6 min and maximum is 12 min

    • @GarySmith-ph2qy
      @GarySmith-ph2qy Před 6 lety +7

      Xk8rsx oh ok getting of this channel no one cares

    • @TheBurnonme
      @TheBurnonme Před 6 lety +51

      well stick to being a virgin. Cause you would know about that yet.

    • @ericnnamdi3062
      @ericnnamdi3062 Před 6 lety +24

      You are missing a lot dear.. Lol.

  • @JammyG360
    @JammyG360 Před 8 lety +651

    I'm over here like nothing under 45 minutes unless it's a quickie and y'all talking about 5 mins and 15 mins. Obviously I need prayer...lol...

  • @LaCheleWallace
    @LaCheleWallace Před 8 lety +294

    Chile, sex should last until we can't do it no mo'! Just sayin'.....

  • @ChastityBTheEntrepreneur
    @ChastityBTheEntrepreneur Před 6 lety +741

    30 mins is not a long time! What the hell is wrong with them..they acting like she bugging.

    • @shawnsmith3713
      @shawnsmith3713 Před 6 lety +1

      Chastity B. The Entrepreneur I am looking for a real woman in my life

    • @janaemurray1862
      @janaemurray1862 Před 5 lety +14

      There’s nothing wrong with them, they just have different opinions

    • @jimmyfrancois6111
      @jimmyfrancois6111 Před 5 lety +7

      You can not even run for 15 minutes... Can you !!

    • @kaylabey
      @kaylabey Před 4 lety +18

      cause she is, what kind of man can just screw for 30 minutes without ejaculating? i feel like y’all are dragging the time

    • @UnexpectedWonder
      @UnexpectedWonder Před 4 lety +1

      It really ain't! It's crazy how short the average is to me.

  • @syn0dicc
    @syn0dicc Před 6 lety +57

    I'm dying of laughter at their reactions to 30 minutes because thats like a quicky in my sex life. Adrienne knows what good sex is 😂😂😂

  • @tamaras.e9266
    @tamaras.e9266 Před 7 lety +133

    I've been married for 10 years and together from 12 years with the same man, it all depends when we are tired it last about 10-15 mins. When we are not tired and it s on and poppin' it's a good 40-120 mins. Like Adrienne said that includes kissing, foreplay, etc. You need passion to have a good sex life.

    • @ewilliamsz2099
      @ewilliamsz2099 Před 6 lety

      Tamara Eubanks you must be gay and with a stud no man can do that but a stud with a strapon yeah

    • @shawnsmith3713
      @shawnsmith3713 Před 6 lety +2

      Tamara Eubanks I am looking for a real woman

    • @andrewjackson2098
      @andrewjackson2098 Před 8 měsíci

      How often do you have sex

  • @Jennifer-wc5fs
    @Jennifer-wc5fs Před 8 lety +156

    i always thought 20-30 minutes was the average time. it scares me that some people want it shorter. and I'm trying to make it last longer.

    • @diyak172
      @diyak172 Před 8 lety +27

      Wait, you're like 7?

    • @CrissVaughn
      @CrissVaughn Před 8 lety +6

      +Diya K lololololllllll

    • @qiarnab
      @qiarnab Před 8 lety

      go do some homework...

    • @Jennifer-wc5fs
      @Jennifer-wc5fs Před 8 lety +15

      +Diya K I'm like 22. try again

    • @Jennifer-wc5fs
      @Jennifer-wc5fs Před 8 lety +8

      +peachpetals what homework? experience is the best way to learn about sex

  • @reuelnampui3547
    @reuelnampui3547 Před 4 lety +47

    Adrienne was just talking about her weekdays 30mins and all of them jump on her so she couldn't say about her weekends 😆

  • @champagnegold8614
    @champagnegold8614 Před 5 lety +167

    I agree with Adrienne. I don't know who the hell Lonni has been sleeping with. Sounds like Tamar ain't used to getting it for at least 20 minutes either. Either I've been with some really good men or they just are with the wrong ones.

    • @UnexpectedWonder
      @UnexpectedWonder Před 4 lety +5

      Really though! Very well said.

    • @princessreal6134
      @princessreal6134 Před 4 lety

      Bad man? Why a man would be bad in bed cause they can make you finish in 20 minutes?

    • @UnexpectedWonder
      @UnexpectedWonder Před 4 lety +4

      @@princessreal6134 Naw...You misunderstood. It was talkin' about him being done, not her.

  • @sarahjay5484
    @sarahjay5484 Před 8 lety +429

    Gonna come back to this tomorrow cos I know the comments are gonna be a mess.

  • @femaleking493
    @femaleking493 Před 7 lety +276

    'The day I'm married'
    Who else is watching this after Adrienne IS married.

    • @kikilicious99
      @kikilicious99 Před 7 lety +5

      Female King It happened sooner than expected. U Still watching?

    • @mwacheas
      @mwacheas Před rokem

      N with a kid🥺

  • @unapologeticbooty
    @unapologeticbooty Před 6 lety +110

    3:45 THAT LAUGH

  • @gwenjordanisfine50
    @gwenjordanisfine50 Před 6 lety +489

    Five minutes Tamara, you have got to be kidding me.

  • @ebonythomas9675
    @ebonythomas9675 Před 8 lety +82

    They aren't listening to what she's saying, she said 20-30 mins with foreplay involved. When you include foreplay it's not that long

    • @shawnsmith3713
      @shawnsmith3713 Před 6 lety

      Ebony Thomas where do you live

    • @shawnsmith3713
      @shawnsmith3713 Před 6 lety

      Ebony Thomas how you do miss lady I am looking for a good woman in my life do you have a man

    • @shawnsmith3713
      @shawnsmith3713 Před 6 lety

      Ebony Thomas I am looking for a real woman in my life

  • @zbluepirate
    @zbluepirate Před 8 lety +42

    when Jeanie admits she likes the wham bam thank you ma'am aka quicky. "i love that one" and points at herself....LMFAO Dead

    • @shawnsmith3713
      @shawnsmith3713 Před 6 lety

      zbluepirate I am looking for a real woman in my life

  • @derekchangedyou1392
    @derekchangedyou1392 Před 6 lety +50

    Everyone is so judgemental about this topic lol as if there is a right and wrong amount of time sex is suppose to be. Do what works for BOTH OF YOU problem solved!

  • @elocinaqui24
    @elocinaqui24 Před 6 lety +242

    "5 minutes... I like that one"
    "making love takes 15 minutes"
    "doesn't that hurt?"
    "that's a lot of cramping"
    i feel bad for these ladies. different strokes for different folks, but i guess they're not getting a lot of strokes.

    • @Sophie.H
      @Sophie.H Před 5 lety +12

      Right ? Who are they married too ? 5 mins ?! My man needs longer than that to come.

    • @ss5187
      @ss5187 Před 5 lety +9

      @@Sophie.H just depends, I was with a man who lasted about 40 mins with his last gf, and with me it would be like 10 minutes. He just got off quicker with me.

    • @princessreal6134
      @princessreal6134 Před 4 lety +2

      Man. They are not getting that many strokes so what? If she finishes why would she want sex of a thousand years? My boyfriend is amazing at eating me out and i can finish in 5 minutes when he does that. Sometimes we have time to keep fucking after oral to each other sometimes no.

    • @positivevibes709
      @positivevibes709 Před 4 lety +1

      Omg you making me laugh

    • @Skimmylou
      @Skimmylou Před 4 lety

      sabrina berriez I’m a mom of 3 year old twins. 15-20 mins is perfection for us. We get what we need and it feels great and we don’t need much else. That’s just average for us though, it depends sometimes. But I don’t have a lot of time with these damn kids lol

  • @2KAYE9UNRULEY
    @2KAYE9UNRULEY Před 8 lety +45

    Adrienne you not buggin. The rest of them are just old. 20 - 45 minutes I would believe is the ideal amount of time for most people.

  • @MajLouisa
    @MajLouisa Před 8 lety +64

    45 -1hour without break, if there are chemistry and passion. I love Adrienne she's always keepin' it real.

  • @christina2311
    @christina2311 Před 6 lety +44

    Absolutely with Adrienne. I generally get 20 min of actual sex ( when he's really focusing) and 30 minutes of foreplay (him and me)

  • @KYRAA30
    @KYRAA30 Před 4 lety +19

    I completely agree with Adrienne! 30 mins is just right. I’ve never had 5 min sex and I hope that I never will lol

    • @Thewifelife40
      @Thewifelife40 Před 11 měsíci

      I never had that either well not with a partner 😂😂😂

  • @juliocesararias5920
    @juliocesararias5920 Před 7 lety +358

    40 minutes when there is love... 10 when there is not.

    • @myaudiobookschannel3625
      @myaudiobookschannel3625 Před 7 lety +5

      Julio Cesar Arias hell yeah

    • @oceaniamonarch5404
      @oceaniamonarch5404 Před 7 lety +2

      Julio Cesar Arias Damn ninjas is ruthless out here

    • @siphomabadi2931
      @siphomabadi2931 Před 7 lety +1

      Julio Cesar Arias ,that is true dude

    • @youngspunky2835
      @youngspunky2835 Před 6 lety +2

      well when your atracted to woman you may cum faster ...but when there is love it's difrent story for me personaly i try to make the girl orgasm before me and then i can let my dick do his work lol

    • @GarySmith-ph2qy
      @GarySmith-ph2qy Před 6 lety

      Julio Cesar Arias jackpot

  • @divinelight2089
    @divinelight2089 Před 8 lety +80

    I totally agree with Adrienne about the 20 to 30 minutes. And yes, that is including foreplay. 20 minutes is reasonable. That is, if you really love and care for each other and want the sex to be good. I think the other "real" gals thought she meant doing the actual deed for that long. By what Adrienne said here, you can tell that deep intimate sensual good sex and connection is important for her.

  • @EmileeBreeana19
    @EmileeBreeana19 Před 4 lety +33

    I feel bad for everyone but Adrienne lmao

  • @qtq7680
    @qtq7680 Před 4 lety +24

    It should be good enough that you don’t keep track of the time. If you are watching the time, you’re probably doing something wrong

  • @MrUnattainable
    @MrUnattainable Před 7 lety +832

    Why are they acting like 30 minutes is a long time for sex, including foreplay?? I'm so confused... lol

    • @natrai95
      @natrai95 Před 7 lety +11

      Brandon Mr.Unattainable Sloan that's what I'm wondering 😂lol

    • @NataliaRomanova
      @NataliaRomanova Před 7 lety +1

      Brandon Mr.Unattainable Sloan so true

    • @shakilahermine8712
      @shakilahermine8712 Před 7 lety +7

      rare2b exactly I go 2hours at least wtf about 30min

    • @angelsalvador148
      @angelsalvador148 Před 7 lety +16

      I guess they're just busy women lol

    • @weliveforages7696
      @weliveforages7696 Před 7 lety +6

      Brandon Mr.Unattainable Sloan I'm young and only been with three girls, but I read up on sex positions and foreplay and stuff, so I've always tried to good even though I had no ideas what I was doing, but usually foreplay is about 10-15min, I learned 20min might make her mad cus its taking long (some women think that I guess). after that I go through the usual missionary, doggy, spooning, whayever that would be I guess another 10-15min at least. I also read Kamasutra recently so I've added like three of four others to try. I'm doing all this and I'm only a teenager. I'd say about 45-60min goes by like NOTHING.

  • @jodiii122
    @jodiii122 Před 8 lety +248

    I'm guessing that Tamera, Jeannie, and Tamar's perspectives are all coming from women who have been with their men and have been married for years. A perspective I can't at this point in my life understand and hopefully one that I never have to accept as truth when I settle down and get married 😂! But for now, 30 minutes or more, please!

  • @denisegarcia9176
    @denisegarcia9176 Před 5 lety +12

    Y’all 30min is the perfect time. Any longer and I start getting frustrated cause I gotta move on with my life and got some work to do

  • @nyecore
    @nyecore Před 6 lety +20

    I’m with Adriene! 20-30 minutes is perfect

  • @michellewilliams6266
    @michellewilliams6266 Před 8 lety +115

    lol at Jeanie "I love that one "

    • @blessedandredeemed8529
      @blessedandredeemed8529 Před 8 lety +14

      I died! I'm surprised the comments ain't going mad at this, she was like a kid is preschool who wants to get picked to answer a question but spills the answer too quick! 😆😆

    • @michellewilliams6266
      @michellewilliams6266 Před 8 lety +6

      +BlessedandRedeemed lol

  • @shrutikaondich8416
    @shrutikaondich8416 Před 8 lety +533

    Loni annoyed me in this discussion for some reason

    • @rubisanchez09rs
      @rubisanchez09rs Před 8 lety +84

      I knw I'm disliking the way she's reacting to the subjects they be talking about. like she don't care & looking at the rest of the girls like their dumb or something.

    • @CoCoGemel
      @CoCoGemel Před 8 lety +1

      +Shrutika Ondich I wish we could've seen the look on Tamera's face when she paused when Loni was making annoying ass noises and comments when she was talking about the different types of intercourse

    • @MissJness
      @MissJness Před 8 lety +46

      Loni can be really annoying on a lot of these discussions. Like I know you're a comedian, but come on.

    • @lenamonique18
      @lenamonique18 Před 8 lety +19

      +madeyoulook I think its kinda funny that they pick on Tamera, but I agree. she's married! she knows what it is! Loni acts like she knows everything about sex

    • @ohheyshy1550
      @ohheyshy1550 Před 8 lety

      +lmkp18 but shes not the only one married

  • @bellaccino129
    @bellaccino129 Před 5 lety +13

    Tamar cracks me up everytime!😂 1:00

  • @greeneyes9448
    @greeneyes9448 Před 4 lety +21

    Can’t believe I am still watching after 4 years

    • @ramiii171
      @ramiii171 Před 10 dny

      Can’t believe I’m reading your comment after 4 years …

  • @robyndae5416
    @robyndae5416 Před 8 lety +43

    it's a known fact that women take longer to reach their climax. Besides Adrienne, why is everyone else talking like their men?

    • @smilealwaysnatasha3423
      @smilealwaysnatasha3423 Před 8 lety +23

      because they aren't having orgasms

    • @jessicac1623
      @jessicac1623 Před 8 lety +8

      +Robyn Dae Thank you ... seriously ... i don't get loni .. either she can reach orgasm as fast as guys could ooor she really doesn't get any herself which would be extremely sad ..

    • @joshuamcdowell5782
      @joshuamcdowell5782 Před 8 lety

      +Robyn Dae All women bodies are different. I remember Tamera said it don't take her no time reach climax.

    • @MajesticMyronn
      @MajesticMyronn Před 8 lety +1

      +Joshua McDowell yeh Tam Tam said that on the trial run when the Sex therapist was there here was the exact quote "I get it almost immediately" .

    • @xoAuthentiChick
      @xoAuthentiChick Před 8 lety

      +Robyn Dae I don't I can have one within a couple of minutes, but I still keep going.

  • @lallipoppin
    @lallipoppin Před 7 lety +238

    I still can't believe everyone on here likes such short sex! Wtf is 3-7 minutes?! I'm with Adrienne!

    • @jtcartermusic
      @jtcartermusic Před 7 lety +10

      For me, and I can only speak for myself; the amount of time spent having sex depends on how often we have it. Like if we're having it everyday, multiple times a day, I need it to last only like 5 minutes max. But if we're having it only a couple times a week then yes, I agree 30 minutes is not long at all.

    • @tinychamberz
      @tinychamberz Před 7 lety +1

      im in shock tbh! 3-7 minutes WITH foreplay? thats like not even having sex!

    • @davidvusi4621
      @davidvusi4621 Před 6 lety +1

      I think 15 minutes not 30is too much

    • @jordangrier4842
      @jordangrier4842 Před 6 lety +1

      Most of the people complaining about 7-10 minutes being short are the same ones who can't jog for 5. The problem is that everyone's adding foreplay. That's NOT sex. That's the prelude to sex. 10-15 minutes isn't short for the actual act of sex.

    • @jordangrier4842
      @jordangrier4842 Před 6 lety +2

      abc zyx EXACTLY! I've noticed (experience & conversations) that a lot of the lazy ones like to have sex for a long time. Of course, because you aren't putting in work. Sex with a tranquilized mattress will take 30+ minutes

  • @vik_khy
    @vik_khy Před 4 lety

    We can go for 20 min if we are shortage of time...time management is important everywhere...I appreciate u raised this topic bcoz it varies person to person...👍

  • @XAmericanGirlDollzX
    @XAmericanGirlDollzX Před 6 lety +64

    am i the only one who doesn't want sex to last forever ?? like 15 minutes (not including foreplay) is good for me

    • @blackqueen543
      @blackqueen543 Před 4 lety

      Bri okkkkkkkkkk

    • @blackqueen543
      @blackqueen543 Před 4 lety +1

      AGREE

    • @victoriasmith2965
      @victoriasmith2965 Před 4 lety +2

      Same... I think its mostly because Tamar, Tamara and Jeannie all have been in a relationship for a long time and are married.... in the beginning obvi sex lasts longer when it's still fresh and new... but after years of being with someone it doesnt last that long... I've been with my boyfriend 7 years and I agree with the others and not Adrienne...

    • @zozochichi
      @zozochichi Před 4 lety

      @@victoriasmith2965 Whaaat? Who are you married to, a 65 year old retiree. My wife and I, 50minutes - 1hr .15 minute averages. Yep, we always keep track of time. Ever heard of sex therapy as a form of keeping a stronger bond in marriage? We are still in our late 30s, got married in our early 20s and have kids .... we F like rabbits ... atleats 4x in a week and all of every weekend except for the 5 - 6 days period breaks.
      Please please please .... get the book 365 Days of Sex by Anne Harper.
      Y'all ain't living. I truly feel sad for your sex life ..... like seriously?

    • @zozochichi
      @zozochichi Před 4 lety

      OMG no wonder why women are so rigid in today's world .... 😂😂😂😂. Y'all ain't getting DICKED right. Wow ..... y'all been living with 10 minute sex men. WTF .... are you even happy? .... WOOOW! ..... Get into sex therapy with your man ASAP!
      Get 365 Days of Sex with Anne Hooper. Y'all will F like rabbits.
      I love quickies .... but that's always a prelude to a good 1 hour average later that day or evening.
      My wife and I only stop F'ing when she's in her 5 - 6 days period.
      We jump right back at it.
      Sex therapy teaches, never use tiredness as an excuse not to F*.
      Get a good 30 minutes in even on the days that your are very tired.
      Teach your brain to F your lover, ALL THE TIME .... and no, THERE IS NO SICH THING AS TOO MUCH SEX.
      Married since 2005
      ..... in my late 30's with MULTIPLE KIDS .... soooooo 👀

  • @chinitahh94kc
    @chinitahh94kc Před 8 lety +141

    Lol I need Jesus I was thinking 30-40 minutes and they said five 😂

  • @CoCoGemel
    @CoCoGemel Před 8 lety +30

    LMAO!! Adrienne looked genuinely confused @1:43. I don't know why they were acting like what she was saying was such a long time. Of course not every time you foop with your partner is gonna be that long. There are some times where you wanna actually make love and caress and canoodle and all that and there are times where you want that quick fix and have that quick shake down on the bathroom sink. It varies but Adrienne's response is definitely not incredulous like they were making it seem.

    • @shawnsmith3713
      @shawnsmith3713 Před 6 lety

      madeyoulook I am looking for a real woman in my life

  • @maureendera6440
    @maureendera6440 Před 4 lety +2

    I was about sneezing when Loni gave that mockery laugh at 3:48 and I lost my sneeze in laughter

  • @samanthamostowicz9790
    @samanthamostowicz9790 Před 4 lety +6

    Adrienne be counting the foreplay😅😂😭❤️

  • @houstonscott4362
    @houstonscott4362 Před 8 lety +244

    I don't know how long it SHOULD last but it tends to last over an hour most definitely. I can't have a quickie. my body won't let me. lmao. 45 minutes minimum is all I got.

    • @houstonscott4362
      @houstonscott4362 Před 8 lety +31

      Hell! foreplay lasts a good while with me also. Lol I like to build up to the actual moment. ;) lol!

    • @musicismylife320
      @musicismylife320 Před 8 lety +21

      Dang

    • @ishrathuque2130
      @ishrathuque2130 Před 8 lety +11

      +Houston Scott I agree. with my bf and I, we could both go 45 minutes pleasuring each other easily (not including foreplay). with foreplay, that's an hour. even in a rush, we need at least 25 mins (without foreplay).
      my bf and I both like the intimacy that you get when you're building up to the moment. Like Tamera said, making love is different from "wam bam thank you mam"

    • @houstonscott4362
      @houstonscott4362 Před 8 lety +2

      +Ishrat Huque I love foreplay and I can hardly go without it when it comes to sex and like you it lasts quite awhile. actual intercourse is never short for me. haha

    • @serenityq26
      @serenityq26 Před 8 lety +1

      +Houston Scott same here

  • @maximumrisk2004
    @maximumrisk2004 Před 8 lety +245

    I am confused, do they not want 30 minutes or do they think no man gets that far?

    • @melissajacksonmenny8515
      @melissajacksonmenny8515 Před 8 lety +53

      Sounds like they don't want 30 minutes and they don't get that far. Jeannine said 5 :-/ and Tamar and Loni were gasping like that's an outrageous amount of time. Smh

    • @Robbynie
      @Robbynie Před 8 lety +65

      +Melissa Jackson well tamar I love my girl but let's be honest her man can not last that long at all. only position she getting is he hitting it from the back and she riding. and he has health problems so that's y she acting like that. loni ass ain't having sex cause she so lame nobody ain't running to hit that.

    • @TylerMauga
      @TylerMauga Před 8 lety +12

      jerk I thought I had a spider on my phone😂😂😂

    • @annieparker2788
      @annieparker2788 Před 8 lety +5

      +Robbyn Kennedy Yeah cause you in they bedroom sit down hater just cause nobody running to tap yo ass.

    • @maximumrisk2004
      @maximumrisk2004 Před 8 lety

      kaitlyn jackson
      She has a point though.

  • @ReemThearab
    @ReemThearab Před 3 lety +5

    Tamar”wait! How long?!” her face 😂

  • @globetrotguru89
    @globetrotguru89 Před 4 lety +5

    I agree with Adrienne on this topic every time 😂

  • @shaya550
    @shaya550 Před 7 lety +157

    Honestly, we'd just be getting started at 30 minutes; Making-out and fondling. One hour later, still making-out and fondling; "Get your life" ladies of The Real.

    • @LifestylewithGifty
      @LifestylewithGifty Před 7 lety +2

      Preech, Girl they need to get their life...

    • @ninagalarza6965
      @ninagalarza6965 Před 7 lety

      Shay A um

    • @WaffleHouse365
      @WaffleHouse365 Před 7 lety +11

      u better say that, cause ur right, i mean 1 hour i havent even got to my fav position

    • @cowboicode2285
      @cowboicode2285 Před 7 lety +5

      I hit 3 hours a few times so I'm really confused 30 mins is being debated

    • @JChiwi
      @JChiwi Před 7 lety +3

      Indeed it's shocking they r debating 30min! Have easily hit 3hrs with all ingredients at play a number of times before.

  • @brookelederer8380
    @brookelederer8380 Před 8 lety +89

    You all are nuts. If you can get it longer do it. My fiancé and I go for at least 30 minimum, our first night was6 hours. If you can't last 30 minutes your gone.

    • @witchywisdom4505
      @witchywisdom4505 Před 8 lety +9

      +East African Queen 😂😂😂😂

    • @livelaughlove4459
      @livelaughlove4459 Před 8 lety +3

      +East African Queen... Lmao 😭

    • @user1982
      @user1982 Před 8 lety +39

      A: 6 hours? Lies you tell!
      B: If it takes you that long then you are doing something wrong

    • @maroonhorizon1693
      @maroonhorizon1693 Před 8 lety +1

      +East African Queen LMAOOAOAOAOOA

    • @brookelederer8380
      @brookelederer8380 Před 8 lety +11

      +James Kiefer not even funny. What is wrong with you all?! Everyone is different! So what that I love long sex. I'm not here for 10 minutes. And if I'm telling lies why don't you come find out!

  • @blancamunoz3151
    @blancamunoz3151 Před 5 lety +21

    15 mins is a quickie for me, I need an hour or 2 then we are good. As long as its good to u, I dont think a time limit is necessary and long u 2 can get ur satisfaction.

    • @Jambuc829
      @Jambuc829 Před 4 lety +2

      blancamunoz3151 2 hours??? Hell no. 15 minutes is not a quickie either. A quickie is 5 minutes or less. I know for a fact you can’t stay wet that long and after a while you get dry and makes the dick numb. If I was fucking past an hour there is no way I could reach climax I would be too tired and my dick would be too numb to cum. So it would just be pointless at that point.

    • @lilcortez1901
      @lilcortez1901 Před 4 lety

      You're crazy

    • @lifeisrosyyy
      @lifeisrosyyy Před 3 lety

      What man is able to penetrate for up to two hours and not cum?

  • @notsobasicbecki658
    @notsobasicbecki658 Před 5 lety +2

    I agree with Adrienne. For everything, that's perfect.

  • @sharonc5914
    @sharonc5914 Před 8 lety +16

    I completely agree with Adrienne that 20-30 minutes is a good time to make love with someone. That's not a very long time, because you're doing different things within that amount of time. I don't believe that the girls fully understood what Adrienne meant.

  • @salomephillips1876
    @salomephillips1876 Před 7 lety +35

    20-30 is just fine.....minimum really.

  • @mityanaroadonlinetv6072
    @mityanaroadonlinetv6072 Před 6 lety +3

    From uganda but currently working in saud my view is
    The timing depends on da driver or the engine (man )and the response of the woman

  • @kaylaking6687
    @kaylaking6687 Před 6 lety +6

    Being in love with each other FORREAL and the kids are away for a few days makes ALL the difference. When you're in love and he's crazy in love with you makes the difference.

  • @chrissmarie455
    @chrissmarie455 Před 8 lety +797

    30 minutes is not a lot of time!

  • @alleydaprince
    @alleydaprince Před 8 lety +69

    lol lol Jeanie is a mess "I like that one". Poor Freddie

  • @damiengarbutt7229
    @damiengarbutt7229 Před 5 lety +32

    Someone forgot to finish Tamera's dress.

  • @reigncandy7442
    @reigncandy7442 Před 6 lety +275

    I need a full hour

    • @franciszomba8623
      @franciszomba8623 Před 6 lety +4

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    • @mmanhira4994
      @mmanhira4994 Před 6 lety

      Reign Candy if you want satisfaction bold sex chat plz WhatsApp me +971565945765. I am a young boy

    • @GarySmith-ph2qy
      @GarySmith-ph2qy Před 6 lety

      Reign Candy no love just fucking anal and all

    • @dirtyred2411
      @dirtyred2411 Před 6 lety +2

      Freak

    • @ericnnamdi3062
      @ericnnamdi3062 Před 6 lety +3

      Lol... She gone here... Wasting time dropping messages.. She ain't even in Dubai dude so take your number back

  • @francesjames7055
    @francesjames7055 Před 7 lety +34

    It depends on the sex. You can have boring sex for two hours or a mind blowing quickie that lasts a few minutes.

  • @alinaitwesamuel808
    @alinaitwesamuel808 Před 7 lety +395

    Five minutes????? Are you chicken.??

  • @marcellamcduffie8218
    @marcellamcduffie8218 Před 6 lety +1

    When you are in the mood it should last as long as you want it to much love to you all keep doing what you do and keep having fun.

  • @StefWriter
    @StefWriter Před 4 lety +2

    The thumbnail for this one always gets me. lol

  • @DJoy221
    @DJoy221 Před 8 lety +72

    30 minutes really isn't a lot of time lol

  • @iiiJenii
    @iiiJenii Před 8 lety +14

    Love this show!!! I literally could watch these videos all day

  • @dezeraejames7934
    @dezeraejames7934 Před 5 lety +12

    According to Sophia from The Golden Girls say it should last for an hour--- and that includes everything.

  • @tonyabdulaikajue4811
    @tonyabdulaikajue4811 Před 3 lety

    I really love your programs

  • @NaughteConsult
    @NaughteConsult Před 8 lety +187

    30 mins is too long?? What? 5 mins is not acceptable on no day, Lmbo...

    • @miaking6839
      @miaking6839 Před 8 lety

      That's all some of us get lol

    • @user1982
      @user1982 Před 8 lety +2

      then maybe you are doing it wrong.

    • @junny16
      @junny16 Před 7 lety +7

      when you have been with the same person long and you have sex frequently. you know what they like and they know what you like. so it 5 to 10 mins and your done!!

    • @JosephWax
      @JosephWax Před 7 lety

      London Naughte pretty

    • @nelsonrobinson2255
      @nelsonrobinson2255 Před 7 lety

      HV by

  • @theycallmemo
    @theycallmemo Před 8 lety +10

    LMAO!! I never comment but I MUST chime in on this one! Adrienne boo boo kitty, I feel you girl! 20-30 mins including the wind up is definitely adequate. anything beyond that is just too much

  • @addonisryan
    @addonisryan Před 4 lety +1

    This totally depends on your level of connection with each other.Sex is not supposed to be seen as drudgery.If you are making love it can be 45 minutes to an hour including foreplay if you are really into each other. A quickie for mr is 15 minutes if I am in love with who i'm with. Speed sex is 5 minutes.I thought Lonnie wouldn't complain about 30 minutes. Adrienne Bailon totally surprised me.

  • @innocentiaanel
    @innocentiaanel Před 4 lety

    😂😂 They should bring this topic back because Wow I'm looking their spouses at a different angel right now, Adrienne seemed to be the one getting it right.

  • @RootedWings
    @RootedWings Před 8 lety +18

    I agree with Adrienne. I think a good amount of time is 20-30 mins and I've been married before. I thought more people would agree or say longer lol. A quickie to me is between 2-10mins! that's the same amount of time I take for a smoke break!
    p.s Yes i know smoking is bad. I don't encourage anyone to start...")

    • @MegaCadette55
      @MegaCadette55 Před 8 lety +3

      thanks for your honesty(last line). you have my like

    • @RootedWings
      @RootedWings Před 8 lety +1

      Lol aww thank you hun!

  • @merahabu6965
    @merahabu6965 Před 7 lety +15

    Adrienne was the most honest of them,she spoke to her mind ,I can feel the others were not being honest their playing social politics to appear acceptable,and shamed Adrienne.How ever practically it is well proven with many researches that women need more time than men.For men 5 to 10 min may be enough but ,for women it is just a start of the marathon .....,

  • @jillw2607
    @jillw2607 Před 6 lety +1

    I agree with Adrienne!! 20-30 kinda like minimum!

  • @TheFeminineExperiencePodcast

    They weren’t understanding that Adrienne was talking about the whole situation kissing, foreplay, and intercourse! The other ladies I think were talking about just intercourse.

  • @stajamarie4431
    @stajamarie4431 Před 8 lety +24

    Adrienne has the right idea. I don't know WHAT the other ladies are on.

  • @Auroracle
    @Auroracle Před 8 lety +14

    Sex can last however long you and your partner wants it to.

  • @sheleneama5889
    @sheleneama5889 Před 5 lety +5

    "Doesn't it hurt" 😂😂

  • @gabriellamartodrono47
    @gabriellamartodrono47 Před 4 lety

    Boni in the thumbnail has me dead!!😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @melissajacksonmenny8515
    @melissajacksonmenny8515 Před 8 lety +24

    😩 ........ I'm with Adrienne. This is a thumbs down to couples, especially married ones. 20-30 minutes makes sense.

  • @lucecita19
    @lucecita19 Před 8 lety +53

    I´ve never has sex, becuase I wanna wait until marriage, but Loni´s schedule of cooking while getting it on sounds interesting. You enjoy, then you eat.

  • @qadashzayan1006
    @qadashzayan1006 Před 6 lety

    I need a hour with all five of those host a piece!!

  • @brianbirir1803
    @brianbirir1803 Před 6 lety +69

    30mins is purely foreplay

  • @girlsgeneration9130
    @girlsgeneration9130 Před 7 lety +14

    jeanie's "i love that one" killed me XD

    • @shawnsmith3713
      @shawnsmith3713 Před 6 lety

      Girls' Generation I am looking for a real woman in my life

  • @siennaleonne2645
    @siennaleonne2645 Před 8 lety +53

    Loni look like she don't want to be there

    • @smilealwaysnatasha3423
      @smilealwaysnatasha3423 Před 8 lety +16

      loni should be replaced

    • @dimababay
      @dimababay Před 8 lety +1

      +Natasha AndCompany yup

    • @livelove7475
      @livelove7475 Před 8 lety +16

      +Sienna Leonne Yeah. The producers may have had a chat with her and Tamar. They've both piped down this season. The others are actually getting to speak...

    • @siennaleonne2645
      @siennaleonne2645 Před 8 lety

      +C Fas probably

    • @lenamonique18
      @lenamonique18 Před 8 lety +1

      +C Fas yeah, even though Jeannie ain't get no type word in 😣😣😣😣

  • @Kcseales
    @Kcseales Před 4 lety +3

    30 to 40 minutes is accurate. I don't know if that includes foreplay or not. Like if "going down" counts as foreplay.

  • @ChelsPinky
    @ChelsPinky Před 6 lety +59

    I say an 1 hour is perfect 👌🏾

    • @Jambuc829
      @Jambuc829 Před 4 lety

      Chels_Revenge_ Sweets how long is fourplay?

    • @madridista703usa3
      @madridista703usa3 Před 4 lety +1

      It’s funny how women talk about what’s long and what’s not. And then the day the man has a good turn down the man has to stay hard the man has to perform . Women can just show up and spread their legs piece of cake. So I laughed when women talk how long it should be or not is that up to you. Facts

    • @tykankakee4663
      @tykankakee4663 Před 4 lety

      Hell yeah

    • @madridista703usa3
      @madridista703usa3 Před 4 lety

      Yeah you just lay there and get fucked a man has to be turned on a man has to be at hard. The man has a perform you just show up and spread your legs sounds pretty easy to me

    • @madridista703usa3
      @madridista703usa3 Před 4 lety

      Anna Stella Yeah maybe when I was 21 or if it’s somebody new and she’s super hot but that’s just a man’s perspective. It’s like asking a woman to give me a head for one hour. Which I don’t know nothing much but it seems easier moving your neck up and down then keeping a hard on for a hour lol