I enjoyed how you articulated this video. For some reason I started to pay attention to you language framework. It's refreshing to watch that. I still watched the video. Very informative. Thanks
Here in Norway, we have many Polish people. In my experience, most of them prefer to marry Polish men. They have the same language, culture, and mentality. Many are here only to work for some years and return to Poland once they have enough resources. Again, this is just an observation. Not necessarily true about all poles.
Of course there are differences but still, what you're talking about sounds to me both reasonable and respectful. I admire these traits. Humans, love, family, survival... it should not be taken lightly.
Relationship should NOT traumatize nobody. Not all woman are the same, so Im opposed to generalizations. There are graceful women and the ones which LOST Gods Grace- BIG DIFFRENCE. Repented Mary Magdalene- is a good exaple of women on a right path.
These are the values I grew up with, taught by my mum in the 90's in England. I have given up now on dating because it's become utterly ridiculous and stressful. Polish girls sound exactly what I think most men want. Just to have a loving partnership which both people can care for and rely on each other. It's just basic courtesy, thoughtfulness, and decency. Thank you for this video. It makes me think the world has a chance, perhaps.
Much of this, generally, sounds like traditional upbringing/values/social norms if you were born in early thru mid 20th century America. Which is to say, generally, a good thing.
Do you feel that attitudes in Poland are changing now though? Especially with the younger generation? They seem to want to good jobs with careers and have more fun, while waiting later in life to get married, like in the west.
With the marriage, that depends on how they were brought up. And career wise, I think fewer people want career. I think they strive to have this work-life balance to have the time to figure out their lives that may be so different than their parents'
@@yourpolish I've only been to Krakow, I saw many young polish girls drinking and partying with tourists every night. The one's I spoke to wanted to travel more and find a good jobm but maybe it's different in the smaller towns.
I think there is no universal way a Polish woman should be but there are a few common traits of all Polish women: 1. The majority of Polish women are intelligent and goal-oriented so having a partner who has no goals and doesn't know where his relationship would be in 5 years is a recipe for disaster for Polish women. You need to know who you are and where you want to be in life; 2. The majority of Polish women don't go to the clubs and if they go, they do it to celebrate someone's birthday or a hens' night, not to find a guy. Polish women who are frequently there are looking for a casual date. It's not a place to meet someone serious so don't expect it; 3. Poles are in majority punctual. If you are late for a date longer than 10 min, it's considered to be disrespectful for a Polish woman. If you are no show and you don't call her to let her know why, you can forget about the second date with her; 4. Polish woman are loyal and have integrity so a man who dates a Polish woman can't date a multiple people at the same time. It's considered cheating; 5. Whoever invites another person for a date/meeting/outing is expected to pay, no matter of their sex. It's considered polite to offer to pay for yourself though. If you are in a difficult situation and you want to invite a Polish woman, don't worry. Polish women are not materialistic, they are romantic. Invite her to the park for a walk, make her a picnic with whatever you have in the fridge, pick some flowers for her, buy her a coffee/tea from a vendor store, take her to any picturesque place, write her a beautiful message. A date needs to be memorable, not expensive; 6. Always keep your word. If you break it you will be considered unreliable unless it's a life-death situation. It's a turn-off for Polish women if a man can't keep his word; 7. Polish women rarely ask for help but if they do, better help them as soon as possible. Polish women usually deal with problems themselves but if they muster their courage to ask you to do something for them, they are either in a pitch or they trust you a lot. Take it seriously, don't postpone it for later because of more important thing; 8. Polish women like manly, polite, kind, gentleman-like guys. Open door for her, help her with chair, coat, bag, be kind to the waiter and people around you. A mean, full of himself buffon is a turn off.
That sound great, but I'm a traditional man, is it common for women to be marriage oriented from A catholic or christian perspective?, or is the hook up culture or situationships common there in poland like it is in the U.S.
Thank you for this comment, wayyy more accurate than the video! The thing about taking requests for help seriously is especially spot on! We really don't like letting "weakness" show and so it takes so much out of us to admit we actually can't handle something on our own and need assistance.... If someone we trusted with this brushes it off, it can hurt a lot.
The farther one goes from Americanization, the closer one gets to traditional values! These values are shared everywhere around the world. Unless you live in a socialist country, young mothers especially need an extended family to help them if they want to become professionals of some kind.
If you are very handsome you will be lucky with short term dating especially in the women 18-25. And maybe you find a unicorn. For regular guy's it will be d difficult .
From a Polish guy, YES SHE WILL. In fact, a Polish mom is the KGB interrogator whom you should fear, especially if your her child, even when an adult - and if she is not satisfied with your answers, she will continue to do so until you’re completely worn out and worn down.
To get into polish girl hearth you have to steal her mother hearth first! bring flowers, be polite, kiss her mother in hand (especially on the first meeting) and help with dishes after dinner....also to maintain relationship with polish girl you have to be handy if she ask you to fix broken table leg dont wait because she will do it herself and that's a red flag for her.
Some Polish women do have very close relations with their moms - that's true. And as to being able to fix things - I think it comes in handy to every person that doesn't know how to fix things themselves.
This is very correct. If the potential husband does not seek a relationship with her parents, she most likely will not allow her relationship with him to develop further. Also, it is true, the Polish woman will repair something which is broken, and won't say anything to her husband, but he loses esteem in her eyes if she knows he was aware of the problem and did nothing about it. If she is dating a man and he ignores something which needs to be repaired, she wonders why. Is he stupid? Is he just lazy? Does he need to be told what to do? Will he ever improve? What else will he ignore? If we have children and I'm not at home, will he feed them or will he just let them starve? If the house catches fire will he get the children out or just leave them to burn to death?...Good bye!...Next man!..ooops! my Polish got a little carried away!
I know that you generalizing and that's fine but I wouldn't agree with you about "us being taught to please a man/husband"? Where did you hear that? The part of Poland where I am from which is Lublin, I was rather thought the opposite. Sorry, but I have to laugh 😅. I would also say that "telling mom everything" depends on how close the relationships within the families are and in every family is different. For instance, I didn't tell my mom everything, my childhood friend was the same but my daughter (13 y.o.) on the other hand tells me everything, I mean we are very close which I love and appreciate, but sometimes I think to myself, do I really need to know this or that🤔🤭, but I always listening what when she wants to share something and I believe that it is a blessing because nowadays, many parents have no idea what is going on in their children's life.
Czesc ! it is open discussion, I don't want to be rude... but I would like to meet the Polish women you describe. I met a lot poles in my Eramus in Czechia, I've already lived 4 years in Poland, and started a new work in Krakow : all Polish women I met had distusting behaviour with me. For example, today I raised a complainst against some female vendor at the cafeteria in my company. As I understand well Polish language, I knew they were mocking at me and my appearance. I don't think it is a good behaviour. Or I can tell, those who make you think a beautiful story is starting, but dont give any news after. Yesterday, at work I met a friendly women, who asked information. She thanks me touching my arm... but... actually, hearing her accent, she was ukrainian.
@@renanvinicius6036 I am latin type, dark hair, and short height (1m65), and with my French accent, well, let's I can understand jokes about my appearance. But I would never think my first offcial complaint will be againt Polish ladies.
I just came back from Krakow and the women there were very nice to me, most of them anyway, the Poles are quite friendly and respectful in my experience, but then again, I've never stayed for long or gotten very close to one, and that can be very different.
@@dcikaruga That is good, I work in Krakow now. Generally speaking they are friendly, cold but friendly (but less than Ukrainian). I've reached a point where I can distiguinsh a Polish and an Ukrainian women in the street. Ukrainian ladies seems, sometime smiles at you. Polish women are like French women, very avoiding behaviour, looking for conflict, not smiling... it is general of course, but I have the feeling they dont like men...
Polish women act very masculine. they walk like men, they talk like men and are generally very rough. Which is of course mainly because of societal problems where they had to undergo a lot of stress and hardships. consequently going through stress and hardships naturally lead to having masculine traits.
I think self-awarness and communication are key to understanding anyone. Find a woman who is self-aware, knows how to communicate and is willing to listen.
There is an old joke for you. Guy was walking along Long Beach California. Kicked bottle and genie comes out and says this is your lucky day. Make a wish. Guy says I am afraid of flying. Could you build freeway for me from here to Hawaii ? Well are you out of your fucking mind ? Can you imagine amount of material, currents etc. No way . Come up with something else. The guy says ok I would like to understand women. Genie.... Do you want this fucking freeway one lane or two ?
The first thing you always want to ask any woman is, how is relationship with the LORD Jesus Christ. This will set the conversation in the right direction.
If you really want to attract a polish girl get invited to a polish wedding express some interest in one or two singles and a date well likely be arranged by friends. Charm her by being well mannered and polite and admiring her 2-flat. After you are married (of course you well marry her - all of them are pretty if not gorgeous) live where she tells you (within reason). After that it's just a matter of realizing that what is hers is hers. And what is yours is hers. 35 years later it has worked out pretty good for me. Just try to keep the rental property acquisitions to a dull roar and sell them before you hit 55.
POLISH women used to be very catholic and graceful years ago. Modern age confused many women with liberal ideas , marksist ideas etc. Its time to rethink our identity , and real GOAL of our existense which is SALVATION and SANCTIFICATION OF Our SOULS trough JESUS CHRIST, everything else is not that important. AVE MARIA!- real GRACEFUL MODEL for woman.
I'm admiring the beautiful Polish countryside behind you. Actually this sounds much better than relationships with Swedish women. Traditional values still exist in Poland I guess.
Alligator?? You must not be in Poland. Interesting views! I'm looking at training a person in financial management. I want to be in a foreign language for fun and being able to train someone interesting. I'm just browsing.
It's easy to attract a Polish woman: flaunt your money. Spend it all on her. If you don't have money, go to the bank, take out a loan, flaunt it, spend it on her, repeat.
Im from a small village in, Ventura County.......we use rupees as currency, currently. How much for yyoouu to become my wingWOman¿ You'd wear an ear piece and guide me to the godssss...rrrrr....ummm...my date. What say you? (I think they're on to me.....Quick. Act natural: 🖖🥸 Nothing to see here)
After being in Poland, I definitely understand why Polish men drink.
After watching this video, I definitely understand why Polish men drink.
😂😂😂😂
I'm Polish guy mid-30s and never touched alcohol in my life 😛
@@raraszekRare breed😂😂😂
@@raraszek so, what's your poison?
I enjoyed how you articulated this video. For some reason I started to pay attention to you language framework. It's refreshing to watch that. I still watched the video. Very informative. Thanks
Here in Norway, we have many Polish people. In my experience, most of them prefer to marry Polish men. They have the same language, culture, and mentality. Many are here only to work for some years and return to Poland once they have enough resources. Again, this is just an observation. Not necessarily true about all poles.
In my Polish family, my brother has Russian gf, and also two of my cousins :D We keep Slavic I suppose
We're so poor. We need your money
Of course there are differences but still, what you're talking about sounds to me both reasonable and respectful. I admire these traits. Humans, love, family, survival... it should not be taken lightly.
I met one and lived with her for 4 years...She has a quite disturbing attitude .. I know that not all are bad, but I am traumatised .
Relationship should NOT traumatize nobody. Not all woman are the same, so Im opposed to generalizations. There are graceful women and the ones which LOST Gods Grace- BIG DIFFRENCE. Repented Mary Magdalene- is a good exaple of women on a right path.
Bad relationship, nagging, whinging and complaining? Angry and losing her temper? May even hitting you? Lot's of women are like that, Polish or not. 😕
Really cool channel, so happy I discovered your channel today!!
These are the values I grew up with, taught by my mum in the 90's in England.
I have given up now on dating because it's become utterly ridiculous and stressful. Polish girls sound exactly what I think most men want. Just to have a loving partnership which both people can care for and rely on each other.
It's just basic courtesy, thoughtfulness, and decency.
Thank you for this video. It makes me think the world has a chance, perhaps.
character is more important than culture...
Much of this, generally, sounds like traditional upbringing/values/social norms if you were born in early thru mid 20th century America. Which is to say, generally, a good thing.
I think women made better wives at that time
I had a polish parner and is one of the best things that has ever happened to me 😢. I love your videos.
Do you feel that attitudes in Poland are changing now though? Especially with the younger generation? They seem to want to good jobs with careers and have more fun, while waiting later in life to get married, like in the west.
With the marriage, that depends on how they were brought up. And career wise, I think fewer people want career. I think they strive to have this work-life balance to have the time to figure out their lives that may be so different than their parents'
@@yourpolish I've only been to Krakow, I saw many young polish girls drinking and partying with tourists every night. The one's I spoke to wanted to travel more and find a good jobm but maybe it's different in the smaller towns.
Good men will get unchained from plebian, naive romanticism towards their native country woman. Considering many Polish women/girls xenophilia.
@@dcikaruga Everywhere is different in smaller towns.
@@yourpolishBlow job?
Talking about polish women in supposed very Italian way
I think there is no universal way a Polish woman should be but there are a few common traits of all Polish women: 1. The majority of Polish women are intelligent and goal-oriented so having a partner who has no goals and doesn't know where his relationship would be in 5 years is a recipe for disaster for Polish women. You need to know who you are and where you want to be in life; 2. The majority of Polish women don't go to the clubs and if they go, they do it to celebrate someone's birthday or a hens' night, not to find a guy. Polish women who are frequently there are looking for a casual date. It's not a place to meet someone serious so don't expect it; 3. Poles are in majority punctual. If you are late for a date longer than 10 min, it's considered to be disrespectful for a Polish woman. If you are no show and you don't call her to let her know why, you can forget about the second date with her; 4. Polish woman are loyal and have integrity so a man who dates a Polish woman can't date a multiple people at the same time. It's considered cheating; 5. Whoever invites another person for a date/meeting/outing is expected to pay, no matter of their sex. It's considered polite to offer to pay for yourself though. If you are in a difficult situation and you want to invite a Polish woman, don't worry. Polish women are not materialistic, they are romantic. Invite her to the park for a walk, make her a picnic with whatever you have in the fridge, pick some flowers for her, buy her a coffee/tea from a vendor store, take her to any picturesque place, write her a beautiful message. A date needs to be memorable, not expensive; 6. Always keep your word. If you break it you will be considered unreliable unless it's a life-death situation. It's a turn-off for Polish women if a man can't keep his word; 7. Polish women rarely ask for help but if they do, better help them as soon as possible. Polish women usually deal with problems themselves but if they muster their courage to ask you to do something for them, they are either in a pitch or they trust you a lot. Take it seriously, don't postpone it for later because of more important thing; 8. Polish women like manly, polite, kind, gentleman-like guys. Open door for her, help her with chair, coat, bag, be kind to the waiter and people around you. A mean, full of himself buffon is a turn off.
That sound great, but I'm a traditional man, is it common for women to be marriage oriented from A catholic or christian perspective?, or is the hook up culture or situationships common there in poland like it is in the U.S.
Thank you for this comment, wayyy more accurate than the video! The thing about taking requests for help seriously is especially spot on! We really don't like letting "weakness" show and so it takes so much out of us to admit we actually can't handle something on our own and need assistance.... If someone we trusted with this brushes it off, it can hurt a lot.
@@ReleventNews-ll7lb marriage oriented
Could you distinguish if a Polish woman is Catholic or Jewish? Would they somehow tell you or keep it secret?
@@KBasayev-oj8sn catolic
Good video interesting and informative
Information thank you 👍🏴👍
The farther one goes from Americanization, the closer one gets to traditional values!
These values are shared everywhere around the world.
Unless you live in a socialist country, young mothers especially need an extended family to help them if they want to become professionals of some kind.
If you are very handsome you will be lucky with short term dating especially in the women 18-25.
And maybe you find a unicorn.
For regular guy's it will be d difficult .
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She kinda looks like Lena Paul tho
lol
She will tell her mum everything? Everything ??? 😲
You never know, Julian 🤭🤫
From a Polish guy, YES SHE WILL. In fact, a Polish mom is the KGB interrogator whom you should fear, especially if your her child, even when an adult - and if she is not satisfied with your answers, she will continue to do so until you’re completely worn out and worn down.
True
@@MCADHD-rf5klThis is really toxic ! Are all polish mothers like that ?
then you get mum too maybe even an alligator. package deal.
To get into polish girl hearth you have to steal her mother hearth first! bring flowers, be polite, kiss her mother in hand (especially on the first meeting) and help with dishes after dinner....also to maintain relationship with polish girl you have to be handy if she ask you to fix broken table leg dont wait because she will do it herself and that's a red flag for her.
Some Polish women do have very close relations with their moms - that's true. And as to being able to fix things - I think it comes in handy to every person that doesn't know how to fix things themselves.
This is very correct. If the potential husband does not seek a relationship with her parents, she most likely will not allow her relationship with him to develop further. Also, it is true, the Polish woman will repair something which is broken, and won't say anything to her husband, but he loses esteem in her eyes if she knows he was aware of the problem and did nothing about it. If she is dating a man and he ignores something which needs to be repaired, she wonders why. Is he stupid? Is he just lazy? Does he need to be told what to do? Will he ever improve? What else will he ignore? If we have children and I'm not at home, will he feed them or will he just let them starve? If the house catches fire will he get the children out or just leave them to burn to death?...Good bye!...Next man!..ooops! my Polish got a little carried away!
@@yourpolish stares at my trade licenses. Stares back at ola.
co ty pierdolisz? xDDD
I know that you generalizing and that's fine but I wouldn't agree with you about "us being taught to please a man/husband"? Where did you hear that? The part of Poland where I am from which is Lublin, I was rather thought the opposite. Sorry, but I have to laugh 😅.
I would also say that "telling mom everything" depends on how close the relationships within the families are and in every family is different. For instance, I didn't tell my mom everything, my childhood friend was the same but my daughter (13 y.o.) on the other hand tells me everything, I mean we are very close which I love and appreciate, but sometimes I think to myself, do I really need to know this or that🤔🤭, but I always listening what when she wants to share something and I believe that it is a blessing because nowadays, many parents have no idea what is going on in their children's life.
Don't care, they should change their minds to fit me.
Nice one 😁
You look a bit like survival lily here on CZcams. 😅 checkout
Czesc ! it is open discussion, I don't want to be rude... but I would like to meet the Polish women you describe.
I met a lot poles in my Eramus in Czechia, I've already lived 4 years in Poland, and started a new work in Krakow : all Polish women I met had distusting behaviour with me.
For example, today I raised a complainst against some female vendor at the cafeteria in my company. As I understand well Polish language, I knew they were mocking at me and my appearance. I don't think it is a good behaviour. Or I can tell, those who make you think a beautiful story is starting, but dont give any news after.
Yesterday, at work I met a friendly women, who asked information. She thanks me touching my arm... but... actually, hearing her accent, she was ukrainian.
Ohh that's really bad, what were they talking about your appearance?
@@renanvinicius6036 I am latin type, dark hair, and short height (1m65), and with my French accent, well, let's I can understand jokes about my appearance.
But I would never think my first offcial complaint will be againt Polish ladies.
@@marccolas7531 ohhhh I see, girls are typically very assholes and unrespectful with short guys, even more if they are overweight
I just came back from Krakow and the women there were very nice to me, most of them anyway, the Poles are quite friendly and respectful in my experience, but then again, I've never stayed for long or gotten very close to one, and that can be very different.
@@dcikaruga That is good, I work in Krakow now.
Generally speaking they are friendly, cold but friendly (but less than Ukrainian).
I've reached a point where I can distiguinsh a Polish and an Ukrainian women in the street.
Ukrainian ladies seems, sometime smiles at you.
Polish women are like French women, very avoiding behaviour, looking for conflict, not smiling... it is general of course, but I have the feeling they dont like men...
Polish women act very masculine. they walk like men, they talk like men and are generally very rough. Which is of course mainly because of societal problems where they had to undergo a lot of stress and hardships. consequently going through stress and hardships naturally lead to having masculine traits.
Not at all but we tend to be self-sufficient:)
Polish women are very feminine Polish men are very masculine. Just the contrary of Western Europe
I have never met anyone that is more suspicious of everyone then “Polish woman
Black chicks
What? :))))
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Can someone make a video called "Women Explained" where someone simply explains women in general because they are just hard to understand
I think self-awarness and communication are key to understanding anyone. Find a woman who is self-aware, knows how to communicate and is willing to listen.
There is an old joke for you. Guy was walking along Long Beach California. Kicked bottle and genie comes out and says this is your lucky day. Make a wish. Guy says I am afraid of flying. Could you build freeway for me from here to Hawaii ? Well are you out of your fucking mind ? Can you imagine amount of material, currents etc. No way . Come up with something else. The guy says ok I would like to understand women. Genie.... Do you want this fucking freeway one lane or two ?
@jjk3502 I heard this too. Over 20 years ago now.
The first thing you always want to ask any woman is, how is relationship with the LORD Jesus Christ. This will set the conversation in the right direction.
If you really want to attract a polish girl get invited to a polish wedding express some interest in one or two singles and a date well likely be arranged by friends. Charm her by being well mannered and polite and admiring her 2-flat. After you are married (of course you well marry her - all of them are pretty if not gorgeous) live where she tells you (within reason). After that it's just a matter of realizing that what is hers is hers. And what is yours is hers. 35 years later it has worked out pretty good for me. Just try to keep the rental property acquisitions to a dull roar and sell them before you hit 55.
POLISH women used to be very catholic and graceful years ago. Modern age confused many women with liberal ideas , marksist ideas etc. Its time to rethink our identity , and real GOAL of our existense which is SALVATION and SANCTIFICATION OF Our SOULS trough JESUS CHRIST, everything else is not that important. AVE MARIA!- real GRACEFUL MODEL for woman.
please keep shouting like you have a Z on your forehead
Watching this after being married to one for6 years it will be interesting 😂
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As I suspected any such video is a collection of stereotypes.
Stereotypes are useful because they nearly always contain long-observed truths.
50’s are Gen X.
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Jeśli nie chcesz mojej zguby aligatora daj mi luby.🙂👍
Really gorgeous you are
Maam polish respected woman love indian men
They certainly do not 😂 those deprived perverts
hahaahhaha in bed realy sirius
I'm admiring the beautiful Polish countryside behind you. Actually this sounds much better than relationships with Swedish women. Traditional values still exist in Poland I guess.
It's actually Floryda🤣 but Poland is beautiful :)
@@yourpolishI didn't think that Poland had alligators.
@@yourpolishFlorida
I’ve fallen in love with several Swedish women but ended up living with a Polish one 🤦.
They’re definitely more traditional.
Alligator?? You must not be in Poland. Interesting views! I'm looking at training a person in financial management. I want to be in a foreign language for fun and being able to train someone interesting. I'm just browsing.
Alligator.. Polish lady with England accent.. definitely far from home.
are you single .
polish woman wanted.
It's easy to attract a Polish woman: flaunt your money. Spend it all on her.
If you don't have money, go to the bank, take out a loan, flaunt it, spend it on her, repeat.
How to get a women, never listen to what she says. Do your magic and don't stop. She will finally catch a bite, unless you earn less than her.
Im from a small village in, Ventura County.......we use rupees as currency, currently.
How much for yyoouu to become my wingWOman¿
You'd wear an ear piece and guide me to the godssss...rrrrr....ummm...my date. What say you?
(I think they're on to me.....Quick. Act natural:
🖖🥸 Nothing to see here)
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