FEMININE ENERGY MISTAKES TO AVOID // don't do this when trying to increase your feminine energy

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  • čas přidán 1. 08. 2024
  • In today’s video, I’m chatting about feminine energy mistakes to avoid when it comes to activating your feminine energy and embracing your divine feminine.
    While I’ll be discussing how to be more feminine + femininity tips by avoiding these mistakes, it goes much deeper than that. Feminine energy is truly powerful, and when you can really tap into and harness its energy, you’ll feel more in touch with yourself, more confident, and more fulfilled.
    If you’re trying to increase your feminine energy, then this video is for you. I hope you enjoy! :)
    CHAPTERS
    0:00 Feminine Energy and Its Importance
    1:17 Mistake #1
    2:42 Mistake #2
    3:25 Mistake #3
    4:44 Mistake #4
    5:46 Mistake #5
    7:39 Mistake #6
    8:45 Mistake #7
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Komentáře • 121

  • @spokeless6419
    @spokeless6419 Před 2 lety +90

    1.Avoiding asking for help
    2.Measuring worth by achievements
    3.Ignoring their Intuition
    4.Thinking emotions is bad
    5.Struggling to embrace pleasure
    6.Not Prioritizing Self Care
    7.thinking that being in their Masculin is bad(basically be balanced)
    Thank you for sharing this

  • @elisabethschlarb3059
    @elisabethschlarb3059 Před 3 lety +128

    Regarding anxiety vs inner knowing, for me anxiety is dramatic, noisy, and involves tons of mental chatter, whereas inner knowing and intuition is super basic yes/no narratives such as "I like" vs "I don't like," or "this is good for me," vs "this is not good for me." It's much calmer and wiser.

    • @Pieceofpeeace
      @Pieceofpeeace Před 3 lety

      Thanks for this!

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 3 lety +8

      Thanks for sharing this insight! I totally agree with you on this!

    • @CycleCoachAcademy
      @CycleCoachAcademy Před 3 lety +5

      I agree that anxiety vs. inner knowing is the same with me. Inner knowing is calm and anxiety is frantic! Thanks for sharing.

    • @moonflower9406
      @moonflower9406 Před 2 lety

      Ah wow that makes sense! Thank you 😊💓

    • @anastasijapilnikova5732
      @anastasijapilnikova5732 Před rokem

      The Different is in Evolution Stages 💓💞🥰🙏

  • @gypsysoultraveler5276
    @gypsysoultraveler5276 Před 2 lety +71

    At some point in my life, I was forced into my masculine energy to “survive.” And to protect myself. Everything that you said in this video is spot on to how I operate almost daily.
    For me, it’s learning that the walls that once served me, no longer serve me. But rather are hurting me and my growth.
    It’s hard to break down walls that you didn’t even know where there.

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 2 lety +11

      So many women feel so similar to you, don’t worry. But remember, that just simply bringing awareness to these things is more than half the battle! ❤️

    • @gypsysoultraveler5276
      @gypsysoultraveler5276 Před 2 lety +3

      @@JillzGuerin 🥰🥰🥰

    • @foxybell2394
      @foxybell2394 Před rokem +1

      finally someone whpo understands me @GypsySoul

  • @Dgtlbath
    @Dgtlbath Před 5 měsíci +2

    I’ve spent my whole adolescence in my masculine energy because I needed to survive my abusive household. When I turned 18 I couldn’t handle anymore and turned to my father crying for help, and he listened. Ever since that moment I’ve embraced my emotions, my body, my past, and thanks to therapy and all the self work I’ve done, I can easily say that I’m not the same woman i was. Embracing my feminine energy, my womanhood, my self image as a woman, made my whole world change for better

  • @coralkenagy8184
    @coralkenagy8184 Před 3 lety +32

    Oh my goodness, I am just now realizing how long I have been suppressing my feminine energy and living almost completely in the masculine. Self care was never taught to me... emotions were something to "keep in check". At almost 40 I am starting to realize the impact of generational pain. My mom was strong, determined, successful, a great leader (principal) and praised for all of that. She also pushed for me to go the career path, which was contrary to my innate programming. Thankfully I was strong enough to follow my heart and be a wife and mother but, wow, the effects of being raised to suppress the feminine (true femininity, not just dresses and makeup) has created decades of patterns that are just now being addressed after 15 plus years as a wife and mother.
    Thank you so much for creating such valuable content. This is something the world needs embrace, desperately. I will likely be binging on your content here. :-)

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 3 lety +4

      Thank you so much for this sweet comment! And you are definitely not alone...I think the majority of women today, including myself, have some sort of reprogramming to do around this ❤️❤️

    • @CycleCoachAcademy
      @CycleCoachAcademy Před 3 lety +1

      It's so awesome that you're stepping into your feminine power. Also, really beautiful that you recognize how your mother didn't foster ground for you to tap into that naturally. Congrats, sister! I see you thriving in your feminine!

  • @amandaduncan9447
    @amandaduncan9447 Před 11 měsíci +2

    The crying thing was big for me! My therapist said I am blocking my healing when I don’t cry, it’s made such a difference to me!

  • @bihac83
    @bihac83 Před rokem +2

    Anxiety comes from the mind, it's accompanied by the doubt and creates a lot of stress in our being. Intuition is the opposite - it comes from our heart and soul, we feel the knowingness in our gut and/or heart and it's always peaceful and clear, although not necessarily logical and rational and it's always in alignment with us and the best answer for us at a given moment. For me, intuition is the best compass there is. 😊
    Jillz, thank you for sharing your beautiful wisdom. 💖

  • @CycleCoachAcademy
    @CycleCoachAcademy Před 3 lety +25

    Jillz!!!

  • @adibaORblarr
    @adibaORblarr Před 3 lety +27

    Hii I've been watching your feminine series. I've been rejecting my femininity since I was 14 (evident from short hair, always being tomboyish, etc) because the values I see appreciated are those belonging to the boys and I naturally thrive to be there. I think a lot of girls has been through the hate-pink phase but now is trying to embrace it! I'm 20 now and finally trying to grow out my hair, and be in touch with my feminine side & your videos are helping me so much with that so thank you :) 💛

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 3 lety +5

      Love that you’re now trying to get in touch with your femininity! I think what you went through is SO common because the masculine is what’s praised like you mentioned. I just want more people to understand that the feminine is also so powerful and amazing. I’m glad you found me 😊

    • @CycleCoachAcademy
      @CycleCoachAcademy Před 3 lety +1

      Congrats for stepping into your feminine! What are you doing today to support your divine feminine?

    • @sarcodonblue2876
      @sarcodonblue2876 Před 2 lety +1

      I don't like pink as my mother wanted me to wear it and was upset when I didn't. It also isn't a sophisticated colour and is really just a pastel which are more associated with young children. Pink is a tint of red and bergebdy is the shade and I like the darker colour.

    • @sarcodonblue2876
      @sarcodonblue2876 Před 2 lety +2

      The feminine that is sold to girls is just about how you look and it begins to teach women to only care about this while boys are allowed to be kids for longer and I can see why this is far more appealing to many girls. I was a bit of a tom boy and I still enjoy being like this at times.

    • @breakfist6364
      @breakfist6364 Před 2 lety

      @@sarcodonblue2876 same ... My female friends started early putting make ups ,making bf , over thinking about their postures while ididnt prefer to put makeups or having bfs walking and sitting in way that makes comfortable ,now ppl label me masculine girl idk why

  • @morganalexis6147
    @morganalexis6147 Před 3 lety +4

    Ugghhh. I'm LOVING that I found your channel ☺️💞 I've been experiencing going in an opposite direction lately and my being is really falling apart from it, it's draining my energy heavily. 💔

  • @morganalexis6147
    @morganalexis6147 Před 3 lety +3

    Omg!! I am SOOOO glad that you mentioned the asking for help aspect. I've ALWAYS been comfortable asking for help whenever I needed it! However, I had some family members shame me for asking when I need it, and that really confused me! I thought, "well, I'm allowed to ask when the need is there. It doesn't mean you have to agree to. But why would you shame me for presenting the need." Also too, I LOOOOVVVEEE that you mentioned not needing to prove yourself as well!! I totally feel this way!! I recently was also impressed with the opposite notion by people of influence in my life too. :(

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 3 lety

      So glad all this resonated with you! Sounds like you're already very in touch with yourself and that's amazing! ❤️

  • @foxysoundsinmyhead
    @foxysoundsinmyhead Před 2 měsíci

    thank you, jillz, i have been implementing your teachings into my life for about two weeks and im already seeing a difference; more tips at work and my husband has more respect for me/we are fighting less
    god bless you dear ty!

  • @morganalexis6147
    @morganalexis6147 Před 3 lety

    Ugghhh I LOVE receiving :D I literally feel so loved when I am. It's the best!

  • @LoammyRivera
    @LoammyRivera Před 3 lety +12

    I adore your vibe so positive and delicate✨. I feel so blessed to have found your channel 🥰

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 3 lety

      Aw thank you!! So glad you found me! ❤️

  • @positivevibes3418
    @positivevibes3418 Před 2 lety +4

    What a wonderful channel. Although I'm older, I appreciate what I'm hearing, and so wish I had this information when I was younger. You are bringing great value to other younger women.
    Your energy radiates love, is pure, beautiful, glowing, feminine Goddess energy.
    🙏💜🕊️
    Blessings!

  • @mariemagmandeln
    @mariemagmandeln Před 7 měsíci

    Such a thoughtful and deep video! I will definitly rewatch it, thanks

  • @rapen6014
    @rapen6014 Před 3 lety +6

    I don't know if you ever thought about doing this but I think your vibe and voice would be perfect for a meditation. Your videos are very relaxing :)

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 3 lety +2

      Ahh I actually have thought about this so thank you for this comment!!❤️

  • @he2548
    @he2548 Před 2 lety

    I breathed a sigh of secret relief when I viewed this! I've been Uber-feminine all of my life (happily) but felt I had to hide it.

  • @user-hs3ri2xb7p
    @user-hs3ri2xb7p Před rokem

    Thank you so much Jillz, your videos are really helpful🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @BlueHorses_
    @BlueHorses_ Před 3 lety +7

    Binge watching all of your videos!!! Love them all, so well done and beautiful content:)) i am wondering if you could do a guided meditation for stepping into our feminine energy/power?? I think you have a super relaxing and soothing voice and you would be great at this. There is not enough of them out there.. x

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 3 lety +2

      I’m actually working on making one right now! 😊

  • @jnf6772
    @jnf6772 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you,Jillz!! All of these points were and partly are still challenging for me, mostly because of unsafe environment and trauma.
    Please keep your good talent of observation and promoting feminine energy. I can see from the points u made how our society seems to see value only in active hustle culture and that resulting in an overflow of masculine energy. I think its a win for both sexes if we embrace our female energy more and stop comparing it with the male energy regarding work and accomplishment- its just not fair to both energies.
    Thanks again, your content holds value :)
    Greetings from Hamburg, Germany
    Nicoline

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 3 lety +1

      Totally agree our entire world will benefit when we can all see the value in both the masculine and the feminine ❤️❤️

  • @cassieerickson1390
    @cassieerickson1390 Před 3 lety +2

    Love it. I needed to hear that last one!

  • @Lilyseeyou
    @Lilyseeyou Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you so much! I love your videos, your energy! can't wait to see other videos ; ) xx

  • @sofiahedz
    @sofiahedz Před 3 lety +2

    your voice gives me peace! thank you ❤️

  • @tralala88
    @tralala88 Před 3 lety +1

    Helpful video, thank you. Love this topic x

  • @Ladybug_0912
    @Ladybug_0912 Před 3 lety +2

    Love your videos. You're great! What you said about our intuition is so true. Love and kisses from Buenos Aires, Argentina.

  • @lenapinky7459
    @lenapinky7459 Před 2 lety

    I’m wrong choose coach about relationship in my country indonesia, my ex coach always said start asked help to man for become proactive women, I do some his advice in his programs, I think that if I choose man as my coach my relationship will better, but in fact result is failed, my man leaving me in not good condition, not cause of him but because my self , I’m become masculine energy and he is alpha man. I just realized since watching your video. Hope someday when I come to your city I can met you in person jills . I want change become feminine energy now and forever , once again thank you jills❤️

  • @marianayepes1718
    @marianayepes1718 Před 2 lety +1

    I enjoy this videos a lot, so relaxing✨🌈❤️

  • @lilabostwick1804
    @lilabostwick1804 Před 11 měsíci

    I love your hair, makeup, and wardrobe! Do you do videos that highlight your brands and show your makeup/hair routine?

  • @kristinlinekin
    @kristinlinekin Před 3 lety +1

    Love your videos, so helpful!

  • @seidenschnabelfederflugel5441

    I would love to have a mentor in my life. And i think i found one. You! ♥️😍😍 Thankyou for giving us so much insight and knowledge. Also i feel very safe watching your video. Also merry christmas. 🎄🎁

  • @anajano07
    @anajano07 Před 2 lety

    Wow thank you so much 😊 blessings to you.

  • @alicialinares9378
    @alicialinares9378 Před 3 lety

    Thank you!! Very helpful

  • @AlwinaVU
    @AlwinaVU Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you so much I really love your channel 🍀

  • @kaouthersoltani9281
    @kaouthersoltani9281 Před 3 lety +1

    I'm absolutely lucky by watching your videos ❤

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 3 lety +1

      Aww thank you for watching! I’m so glad you’re here! ❤️❤️

  • @anitamukhiya2761
    @anitamukhiya2761 Před 3 lety +1

    First mistake was listed in first hehe..... I am loving your talk and video ❤️ .....Thank you for sharing ,I am learning a lot from your videos....

  • @ra4798
    @ra4798 Před 2 lety

    thank you so much dear it was really helpful, may God bless u

  • @sapir6515
    @sapir6515 Před 2 lety

    thank you for every video!

  • @surbhijha2228
    @surbhijha2228 Před 3 lety +3

    your vedios has literally changed my perspective.. love from India!! keep it up..

  • @005-oindrilamondal5
    @005-oindrilamondal5 Před 3 lety +2

    Really loved this ❤️❤️

  • @chickensarebirdsthatcantfl3550

    you are incredibly helpful

  • @StandupGirl-ym3ey
    @StandupGirl-ym3ey Před rokem +1

    How do I even begin to be more in my feminine as a single mom? I'm always doing and in my masculine energy! 🤔🤔🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @ariawhite1943
    @ariawhite1943 Před 3 lety

    This is so helpful ❤️

  • @zuzanar4809
    @zuzanar4809 Před 3 lety

    Very helpful! 😊

  • @sattabruce2765
    @sattabruce2765 Před rokem

    Awesome video.

  • @marisson3
    @marisson3 Před 2 lety +1

    Oh my.. I feel exposed. Guilty of all the points you mentioned.
    Career woman here working in masculine world and self sufficient running on masculine overdrive.
    Have suppressed a lot of my feminine energy and my light is almost out.. tired

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 2 lety

      It can definitely make you feel so drained! This is so common but can be fixed 💖

  • @kellyr.1817
    @kellyr.1817 Před rokem

    I dont see receiving as being weak or helpless. For many years I have had a difficult time receiving because I fear of being seen as a "take advantage of other people" type of person, so I avoid receiving or asking for help.

  • @JackieEco
    @JackieEco Před 10 měsíci

    How to protect yourself when outside at night and vulnerable tho... I've been forced to be a warrior since a toddler. My guard is almost always up and I've become fierce af

  • @nataliedoll1350
    @nataliedoll1350 Před rokem

    good stuff. what is your background? where are you getting your info?

  • @Aneta8C
    @Aneta8C Před 3 lety

    Great video 🍀🌷

  • @janananahhhh361
    @janananahhhh361 Před 3 lety

    Amazing video ❤️❤️❤️

  • @daichuu245
    @daichuu245 Před 3 lety

    I think I found my woman crush on CZcams 🥺 You're so lovely 🥺

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 3 lety

      Ahh thank you!! I’m so glad you’re here!! 💖

  • @chelseasmith1426
    @chelseasmith1426 Před rokem

    This video was very soothing to me today as I was feeling very charged and disregulated the last few days. 💜

  • @kamrynfilms
    @kamrynfilms Před 2 lety

    you are amazing

  • @surbhijha2228
    @surbhijha2228 Před 3 lety +2

    please make vedio on body fragrance.. how can we be smell flowery all the time ?

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 3 lety +2

      I’ll write this idea down. Thank you!! ❤️

  • @najianaser6968
    @najianaser6968 Před rokem

    With the first mistake ,I want to clarify that it becomes an obligation in our life most of the time to do everything by urself, for most of women ,I guess as from my expierence ,I refused asking for help because I got rejected or I have it to pay it back in more immoral way if you get what I mean , it becomes hard to do everything by myself but asking others esp. Men to help ,become a huge burden and humiliating without getting anything helpful

  • @samanthafraki7905
    @samanthafraki7905 Před rokem

    I wake feeling feminine but work wreckes it even after work I can get back into my feminine energy for the rest of the day and it’s torture!😢 what can I do to fix that? I try to dance, play with the dogs and singing because I’m weird and my body automatically does small dance but once I stop dancing I’m out and into my masculine again!

  • @strawberryxstarlight
    @strawberryxstarlight Před rokem

    what is the background song in this video?

  • @ekagage
    @ekagage Před 2 lety

    Hi Jillz, I’m new to your channel. Where do you buy your tops and dresses? They’re so pretty! 👗

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 2 lety

      Hi!! I think this one is from Petal + Pup which has super cute feminine clothing! I also love Abercrombie and astr the label right now 😊❤️

    • @ekagage
      @ekagage Před 2 lety

      Thanks! I appreciate the reply 🌷

  • @Cristina.Antoniuc
    @Cristina.Antoniuc Před 3 lety +2

    please do a skincare routine, you have beautiful glowing skin i want to know your secrets 😍❤️

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 3 lety +1

      Aw thank you!!! I'll do that in the future 💖💖

  • @moonprincesslizzy
    @moonprincesslizzy Před 2 lety

    I looked over at my 18 month old son he loves your videos or something haha always in these cx we'll on my previous watched but still he only likes cocomelon usually and screams at anything not cartoons lol he grabs my phone opens youtube and clicks your vids 😅

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 2 lety +1

      Omg this made me lol!! So funny 😂💕

  • @ceogoddess2543
    @ceogoddess2543 Před 11 měsíci

    What is your thoughts when you ask for help but are rejected often? So you have to do things yourself.

  • @sarcodonblue2876
    @sarcodonblue2876 Před 2 lety +1

    Men like to help is a practical way but think women are high maintenance when they show any kinds of upset and emotion.

  • @ericadgueho_mama_art954

    ✨🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼✨

  • @sakuraesther6309
    @sakuraesther6309 Před 2 lety

    Men seeking and receiving help is feminine??
    What about selfcare for men is it feminine???
    Most if not all are advise given to men to enhance masculinity including the your job does not define their worth either

  • @maricelg777
    @maricelg777 Před rokem

    🤍