Husband Texting Another Woman? 5 Useful Tips - Andrew G. Marshall

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  • čas přidán 12. 03. 2014
  • You want to put your foot down but that will drive the behaviour under ground. Here's five alternatives if your husband is texting another woman. I've written a whole book on the subject, which you can find on my website: andrewgmarshall.com/book/my-hu...

Komentáře • 81

  • @valentinpineda247
    @valentinpineda247 Před 2 lety +21

    I made a point of never being a friend with a woman I think is attractive. All of my female friends are unattractive to me, not unattractive, but that I don't think they are pretty. It has served me well for 30 years, never having cheated or come close to cheating. In fact I have never even contemplated cheating. This is not 100% true for all, but a very good rule of thumb.

  • @macaylarobinson22
    @macaylarobinson22 Před 18 dny +2

    What I typically get is “why are you going through my phone?”
    “I told you not to go through my phone”
    I’m so defeated and heartbroken.

  • @jadegordy3849
    @jadegordy3849 Před 3 lety +25

    Its hard to LISTEN when he wont TALK

  • @truckingwithtobee
    @truckingwithtobee Před 4 lety +32

    And my husband doesn’t see anything wrong with telling another woman that he’s “thinking of her”

    • @TerrisaVenus
      @TerrisaVenus Před 4 lety +11

      TJ None problem solved. Find a single guy to text. See if he likes it. Tell him you are thinking about him. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander:)

    • @sierrapadilla808
      @sierrapadilla808 Před 4 lety +1

      Cheers for this, I been tryin to find out about "my boyfriend doesn't text me much anymore" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Ponebastian Thunderstruck Prevalence - (do a google search ) ? It is a good one off product for discovering how to contact a guy at the perfect time to make him want you without the hard work. Ive heard some amazing things about it and my mate got excellent success with it.

    • @blueinindiana2294
      @blueinindiana2294 Před rokem

      Mine husband after 46 years said he loved her in a text and she sent it to me and she said she loves him. Wtf how do I cope with that? Asking him questions is like being a prosecutor in his eyes. I’m not allowed to ask him anything bc he says I don’t believe or trust him. I did until she showed me a lot of their text today. Negotiations sure. Not working with he is in love with her. So now he is upset with both of us. He says she tricked him and was photoshopping the screenshots of their texts together. He has been texting her love messages lying to me and telling me he hates me. Now she is a liar? I can’t believe either of them.

  • @RS-ov2st
    @RS-ov2st Před 3 lety +11

    I’m sure he’s already doing a lot of thinking for, “ himself”......hence, that’s why he’s already texting another woman, as if he doesn’t already know how “inappropriate” that “is”....how old is this man, 2? He said the vows, he already has a rule book and is breaking the rules. Yes, he’ll negotiate to your face and keep stabbing you in the back , like he has already been doing. This is nothing but , “TROUBLE”......and the wife is always the last to know......be out, be gone and collect your half of everything.....you get nothing but lies ,while a free piece is on the menu. Unless this is absolutely necessary for a job then, “No”...and that is threat enough....never trust a woman and man together sort of anything. Law of nature always interferes......we know this LADIES......EYES AND EARS OPEN ALWAYS....SAD BUT TRUE....

  • @randallkeesling9221
    @randallkeesling9221 Před 3 lety +11

    I don't even talk to the person anymore . I do have friends that are women. But I moved on and got my life back to jesus

  • @lilyb2617
    @lilyb2617 Před rokem +5

    It’s not just texting these days. It’s messenger, IG! It’s all the same. It’s disrespectful and it will only lead to one thing. So leave the idiot would be my advice then he can keep texting as many as he likes 😅

  • @Yvell
    @Yvell Před 6 lety +49

    You get lies and denial

    • @TheChihuahua83
      @TheChihuahua83 Před 5 lety +8

      And they blame and shame for their behavior!!

    • @andraacram
      @andraacram Před 4 lety +3

      I was clueless since he texted everyone in the world, so I never thought much about it.

    • @lisaotruba8974
      @lisaotruba8974 Před 4 lety +1

      and my husband doesnt want to talk about it either as well!!!

    • @lizzyg1758
      @lizzyg1758 Před 3 lety

      Exactly

  • @emilysproles972
    @emilysproles972 Před 4 lety +13

    In relationship almost 10 years....but he's always texting or sexting heavier women... I cant gain weight or keep my weight up even after having two kids...i hate my body bc of him...

  • @umisunflower9653
    @umisunflower9653 Před 4 lety +12

    My husband says men can just want Friendship from a woman he texts everyday.. Telling her she's cute and wanting to hang out... men is this true?? Every psychology book ive read on a man's pursuit says his theory is not true

  • @dawndeeearven1616
    @dawndeeearven1616 Před 5 lety +7

    I made the point after knowing about this good friendship (right before me was tried intimately) for 6 years, something now was feeling off, that my gut feeling wasn’t good and his reaction was defensive and angry and his exact words were “I’m not screwing her, she lives states away” what exactly do I do with that? Mind you after that the conversation was immediately pulled to halt

    • @incogb6696
      @incogb6696 Před 5 lety +3

      bad answer

    • @jersey7439
      @jersey7439 Před 4 lety +2

      Emotional adultery. Worse than physical. I found out after 2 yrs of marriage, 2nd for each, both our spouses if 30 yrs each had cancer that 4 months into our marriage he sent a text to a women he went to HS with after their HS Reunion wkend. I couldn't go as I was sick and I was ok with that and his seeing friends catching up. He called me while there. We had sex (know now it wasn't making love, can't be if he could do this and many other things he lied to me about and deceit, hid things, twisted things etc anyway had sex. In THE text I found read two yrs later he told her at 8:35 pm first night of reunion "ok dinner drinks and bigger bouquet than I gave your mom (found out on FB he gave flowers to an older woman's mom of friend which was this woman). Then Sat night was the main banquet reunion night. Flew back Sunday afternoon. Next text he sent her was in Monday while at work at 10:43 a.m said "Aside from the reunion it was really great to see you again. I feel the need to go buy a Harry Neelson CD 😉". SERIOUSLY?
      I couldn't believe my eyes, 4 MONTHS into our marriage then it made me literally sick remembering how he acted all happy to see me, lovey dovey, how he missed me then had sex night before he sent that last text. So I'm sure he was thinking about her what screwing me. It's so disgusting despicable disrespectful SO NARCISSTIC ANTI SOCIAL, SOCIOPATHIC.😳😠😒😪. hen we dated engaged he sent me texts every morning, afternoon, called BUT ONCE we got married he stopped.
      I remember clearly just few months into our marriage I told him how he stopped the texts and giving me flowers. He replied "well your here now" I couldn't believe he said that!! We are not kids each in our early 60s and he's a church leader who values his position above all incl me. I know we hear stories re church people as christians are not perfect and it's worse because they take oaths of behaviors and are trusted roles. But to be in this position on receiving end was unbelievable! So after he told me well I'm here now it hurt me deeply but I tried to make it work.
      He was supposed to be getting counseling. Found out that was a lie too. Fast forward during that time into 2 yrs later when I found those texts and to see the date and time of second one on a Monday AFTER the reunion wkend AFTER we had sex night before and that Monday mid morning while at work, Mondays very busy days he stopped thinking about her, their time together to text HER how great it was to see her ASIDE from the reunion and FELT NEED to get that CD with a flirty winky emoji😉. YET we had sex night before but he didn't send me a text about our time together 😉. It still makes me sick thinking about that. Found out his late wife used to get on him about other women, if he was late coming in from work. I see why now. I just wish I knew that info before we got married.
      He used to emphatic very adamantly say when dating "I might do a lot of things but one thing I don't do is cheat"!!!! I told him good cause if he did we're done. Cause I'd never trust him again. Well he did EMOTIONALLY AND MENTALLY which is worse then physical one night stand with no emotional build up and mental connections. So to him he justifies himself cause he doesn't let it go into physical since his "friendS" he texts, fb messages, emails are hundreds of miles away. WRONG!! That's why he was so adamant about his not cheating cause he truly was and has I'm sure going way back!!!!! As his late wife knew and accused him.

    • @dawndeeearven1616
      @dawndeeearven1616 Před 4 lety +1

      Jersey 74 Oh Baby I’m So Sorry for your hurt 😔 and heartbreak AND WE ARE SURVIVORS listen To Keith Urban Stupid Boy loud as you can We’ll Dance 💃🏼 and sing em right of hair!!💞🧚🏼‍♀️🍀💓🥰💋😇

    • @lynnburton7873
      @lynnburton7873 Před 2 lety +4

      That is an emotional affair, something I’m dealing with right now with my husband, it’s wrong in all aspects when a male does this, I can’t say man, because to me a real man would never do that to his wife, but a male/boy would…..

    • @tmc4609
      @tmc4609 Před 2 lety +1

      An that is what my husband said to me 4 years ago the first time I caught him, see where I said the first time 👀 yeah I stayed an guess what… he didn’t stop! Here I am 4 years later an still catching him, well this last time was the last time, I have started backing off an withdrawing from him (I have to do this for me to be able to let him go, it’s better for me, than just ending it all at one time).

  • @FavourisBeautiful
    @FavourisBeautiful Před 3 měsíci

    Why is devorce hard to do pls
    Am in pains of my husband always texting ladies like
    I thought we are done and have baby already
    That one will shamelessly say No we are not done cos the baby is in my stomach
    And continue so you make out time and come to check up on your unborn child. Jezzzzz does this mean they have started meeting each other?

  • @aa-dj9br
    @aa-dj9br Před 4 lety

    My guy wrote to female co worker to eat out. They met. She has bf. Too she doesn't stop even I fight. She tries on other guys too. But their souls are stronger than mind of my guy. We fight about this until our couple nearly died before going to hospital

  • @angelatetteh1469
    @angelatetteh1469 Před 3 lety +2

    Good evening everyone, my husband texts other women every now and then, we have argued over it over and over again but he keeps on doing it. Can someone please help me on what to do?

    • @angelatetteh1469
      @angelatetteh1469 Před 3 lety

      @Tree Sims sure

    • @lizzyg1758
      @lizzyg1758 Před 3 lety +1

      Hey can we chat too...you all want to do a group?

    • @angelatetteh1469
      @angelatetteh1469 Před 3 lety

      @@lizzyg1758 sure

    • @angelatetteh1469
      @angelatetteh1469 Před 3 lety

      @Tree Sims I messaged you but you aren't online

    • @mwendemutuku977
      @mwendemutuku977 Před 3 lety +1

      Mine we used to fight over his exes, and other ladies little did I knew after he realized I know he went bought another sim card that now he use to chat this ladies and he leaves that don't in his car, am in deep pain since he's cheated me that simcard is for GPS for tracking the cars of which is a lie, he's not a police why would he track the cars for who for what. I begged him to give me the number he refused. Am in pain.

  • @janetvedal9024
    @janetvedal9024 Před 3 lety

    FINALLY GET MY DIVORCE HUSBAND BACK WITH HELP OF POWERFUL SPELL CASTER AFTER HE DIVORCE WITH ME

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    @hamzadanjumasani7143 Před 3 lety +1

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    @hamzadanjumasani7143 Před 3 lety

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