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  • Sharing ideas & inspiration on new ways you can change your life for the better this new year. A lot of us are motivated to change, but how do we make that change, and where do we start? I hope you're ready to commit to positive change in 2020. Remember, all change begins with a small step. No matter what, keep going, my friends ✨
    Which habits & ideas will you start in 2020?
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  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  Před rokem +2

    Hi loves! ✨ We just launched a new community program ft. masterminds and monthly live events for personal growth & wellness! Learn more & join here → lavendaire.com/DLC 🫶

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n Před 4 lety +3606

    *Don't let your yesterday, dictate your tomorrow.*

    • @AleyahK24
      @AleyahK24 Před 4 lety +5

      Definitely

    • @tabassummohona1965
      @tabassummohona1965 Před 4 lety +17

      Jesus you're everywhere

    • @ievabereisaite
      @ievabereisaite Před 4 lety +3

      so true! because all we have is the present! 😍

    • @KKatee777
      @KKatee777 Před 4 lety +2

      More like "don't let your (poor grammar) yesterday dictate your tomorrow"

    • @yamiletsoler3464
      @yamiletsoler3464 Před 4 lety +2

      I've seen you in Ms. Midwest comment section! You really like inspiring women.

  • @marienoemibeatriceaubelack1529

    If you've clicked on this video its already a big step

  • @unknown1667
    @unknown1667 Před 4 lety +1144

    this comment section is goalssss I thought it would all be jokes but the people watching this video are actually ready to commit to this lifestyle, you have a great audience!

  • @Cherry-by5zu
    @Cherry-by5zu Před 4 lety +1362

    habits to leave and develop in 2020 ( may help you):
    - I need to stop being so addicted to youtube and start a habit of reading
    - I need to stop caring about what people will think and start being free and careless of peoples thoughts
    - I need to stop looking down on myself and start exercising and forming a better version of myself

  • @ktcco961
    @ktcco961 Před 4 lety +298

    ♦️Be strong but not rude.
    ♦️Be humble but not timid.
    ♦️Be brave but not reckless.
    ♦️Be proud but not arrogant.
    ♦️Be kind but not weak.
    Be myself and no one else

  • @carolzinha4467
    @carolzinha4467 Před 4 lety +593

    1)Adopt a healthier diet✨
    2)Design a better morning routine ✨
    3)Travel to a new place✨
    4)Commit to reading daily✨
    5)Declutter your life✨
    6)Deepen your relationships✨
    7)Be vulnerable✨
    8)Cut onde bad habit✨
    9)Make peace with your past✨
    10)Be more present in your life✨
    Kisses from Brazil🇧🇷💕

  • @urbbylin
    @urbbylin Před 4 lety +677

    Me: I’m so lost I need to get my life together...
    Aileen: 10 ways to change your life in 2020

  • @gabrielleholt446
    @gabrielleholt446 Před 4 lety +1020

    I'm going to quit the following two habits for 2020:
    1. Cutting my wrists
    2. Pushing people away
    I will do this by telling myself "I am not a cutter" and seeking healthier coping mechanisms for my mental health symptoms. And I will say "I am too deserving of love and have too much love to give to push people away anymore".
    Thank you for wishing me luck because I deeply, deeply needed this video today and the push to make the changes I so desperately seek for the new year and beyond.
    Edit: The first one will be really really hard and I can already feel the resistance from quitting it since I feel like it's my only coping mechanism, but I will try. Let's all push ourselves to be better!!

    • @milenamagalhaes2123
      @milenamagalhaes2123 Před 4 lety +75

      Gabrielle, I wish you all strength and power to overcome these bad habits

    • @sarawatson8756
      @sarawatson8756 Před 4 lety +26

      Best wishes to you! Good luck this year!

    • @freyamatthiessen7466
      @freyamatthiessen7466 Před 4 lety +31

      Good luck you beautiful human! I love you so so much!! I believe in you and know 100% your going to do it! Don’t give up if you have a slip up ❤️ it happened to ALL OF US. You are deserving of self love and happiness and I hope with all my heart you get that this new year. I’ve never been so proud of someone I’ve never met before, it takes strength to start a new chapter in your precious life! I’m right by your side 🌻👑❤️

    • @lanna6640
      @lanna6640 Před 4 lety +17

      Gabrielle Holt good luck! You are loved and deserve the world 💖

    • @kpopkontent8438
      @kpopkontent8438 Před 4 lety +16

      Yess u go girl! I’m proud to have u in this earth

  • @hayleyl9667
    @hayleyl9667 Před 4 lety +807

    In 2020 I want to:
    -travel to Italy
    -save save save!
    -grow my relationship with God
    -eat less to no dairy and eat healthier
    -start planning my wedding
    -stay connected with my friends

    • @SamanthaStew
      @SamanthaStew Před 4 lety +16

      Hayley Kotulak I love your goals. I just got a book from Target called the weekly faith project and it gives you an activity to journal once a week for the whole year to help you commit and grow deeper in your faith. There’s a weekly prayer one as well. It might help on growing your relationship with God.

    • @malakatouvlohead
      @malakatouvlohead Před 4 lety +2

      You go girl!

    • @CRobinson11
      @CRobinson11 Před 4 lety +5

      Congratulations on your wedding.. God bless you both 🤩💐

    • @winter_wolf3284
      @winter_wolf3284 Před 4 lety +4

      I also want to go to Italy! Most importantly, Milan. So I guess I should finish my Duolingo lessons 😅

    • @winter_wolf3284
      @winter_wolf3284 Před 4 lety

      New Years just happened where I live, so Happy New Years!

  • @Tiffany-jc5lv
    @Tiffany-jc5lv Před 4 lety +402

    i’m 14 years old and striving for a life like aileen’s! thank you aileen, you’ve greatly impacted me and i’m really glad i stumbled upon your channel a few months ago. you’ve been inspiring me to become a better person, i’ve finally stepped out of my depression zone and am going to start caring and loving myself! 2020 is going to be an amazing year~

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  Před 4 lety +58

      you're on your way, my love ✨

    • @khushardeshna1140
      @khushardeshna1140 Před 4 lety +35

      15 years old here!! Stumbled across this channel two years ago and it has changed my life ever since. I'm still fighting with my depression and anxiety but I know I'll keep pushing and soon a sunny day will come after all these days of rain. I hope you have a fabulous 2020 filled with blessings and joy!

    • @emeralds.760
      @emeralds.760 Před 4 lety +9

      Vibe On Point good luck ❤️✨I struggled with depression myself - try to see the sun through the clouds! Have a great 2020.

    • @faiqarasool8204
      @faiqarasool8204 Před 4 lety +16

      i just turned 16 and even though i haven’t gone thru depression, im still trying to become the best version of myself. we can do this guys! ❤️

    • @djdancer4513
      @djdancer4513 Před 4 lety +1

      Yes it is gonna be a good year

  • @ranaaz-yu7ph
    @ranaaz-yu7ph Před 4 lety +60

    What I want to reach in 2020 :
    1.Save The earth more
    2.Read daily.
    3.grow my relationship with god.
    4.Be more positive
    5.be more calm
    I hope I can get to my goal! 🥺💞

  • @KGala-yw5lk
    @KGala-yw5lk Před 4 lety +132

    I couldn’t stop focusing on how much footage you had to record to make this. Mad respect

  • @kale6641
    @kale6641 Před 4 lety +46

    what i want to change/do
    •grow my relationship with God
    •lose some weight
    •stop self harming
    •save money
    •and grow my confidence
    bring it on 2020 😀

  • @ip2489
    @ip2489 Před 4 lety +150

    I'm 24, still no job, no qualifications,no car, no friends, no achievements etc meaning I'm extremely behind my peers and those younger than me. I've never been on a holiday. I can't even afford the train. No one is offering me a job plus my parents give me no freedom. I still have a lot of undiagnosed health and skin issues. I still have a lot of depression. I still have a plethora of problems. I always set early alrsms, and structure my days as though I'm in a job but I'm not getting anywhere. I meditate and write lists daily. I go for walks. I try being nice as possible. I'm keeping my comment very brief as the reality is very complex and a mere comment cannot explain what I'm enduring. I have been a long time viewer and really enjoy your perspectives and high quality content. I just wish I too could be half as successful.

    • @asiasdenis
      @asiasdenis Před 4 lety +24

      Tell yourself your successful and develop a happier mindset. I am only a teen oblivious to adult problems. But attitude is EVERYTHING. I can’t really help, but I wish you the best! 😊✨

    • @penelope4983
      @penelope4983 Před 4 lety +5

      Sending love and light your way. :)

    • @GalacticHeroOfTime
      @GalacticHeroOfTime Před 4 lety +18

      I understand how you feel. I felt that way a lot during my mid-late 20s. Sometimes I still feel like that, but I think this is something a lot of people in their 20s go through. It's hard to not compare yourself to others, especially friends and family, but think about what you've done so far, even the little things. If you're a student, maybe get involved with some clubs to meet like-minded peers and participate in volunteer activities. Even if you're not a student, a good way to get experience would be to volunteer with community organizations/events. You'll meet others who are like you and you can befriend them. Eventually you'll gain experience and references that you can put on your resume to help you get a job. Hope that helps!

    • @ktcco961
      @ktcco961 Před 4 lety +9

      I felt that. I’ve sometimes had to start with gratitude for what I have. ‘ breath, sight, sanity etc. and then build up from there. What you have right now will help you get to the next level.. intentional baby steps ..

    • @justdes7248
      @justdes7248 Před 4 lety +12

      Obviously you still have a very negative mindset. You say you have "no job, no qualifications, no car, no friends, no achievements, you aren't as high up as your peers/ those younger, you can't afford a train, no job offering, no freedom from parents, health problems, depression etc.."
      No matter how much you mediate and script, it will amount to zilch if you are always complaining about what you dont have. You do have a healthy working body (from what I assume), a smart enough brain, food, shelter, and something more important than friends; yourself. I'm sure majority of the things you are spouting are things that you've been told or are secretly internalizing.
      Go slow, it doesn't have to be everything at once . Work on healing yourself in 2020. There is no better time than the present. Stop comparing yourself to others. Ask the universe for an incredible job opportunity and wait. She has slowly been building this life for herself. Dont look at the end result and count yourself out.

  • @Lindsweightloss
    @Lindsweightloss Před 4 lety +1872

    Who's ready to MASTER 2020?!! I am :)

  • @mymelody008
    @mymelody008 Před 4 lety +39

    In 2020
    -I will have 2 hours of screen time everyday(I feel sometimes so stuck bc being on my phone for hours)
    -I will work on my eating disorder, eat more and healthy 💛
    -Im going to step out of my comfort zone, and really get some more social life. People are really important in our lives, and im really lonely usually.
    -Saving money and not buying stuff that I dont need. (I have already stopped buying too much clothes, only when I need them).Its really nice to open your closet when it is clear and you know you like all of the clothes there. ☺️ So guys lets be the people who really do work on them new year promises! Happy new year everyone!

  • @kells_utopia
    @kells_utopia Před 4 lety +50

    here are some of my goals for 2020:
    • learning to love myself
    • being more fit and losing weight
    • little to no procrastinating, being more serious about school
    • commit to CZcams / making videos
    • starting my online shop
    and finally -
    • fixing my sleeping schedule
    These are so difficult but I really want to change for the better . I can not stress how these past few years have affected me . I really hope 2020 will be my year !

  • @likeaflowerinsun
    @likeaflowerinsun Před 4 lety +206

    This really motivates me a lot. 2019 has been my steping stone, i already try to change my lifestyle but it ends up to fail and it really made me feel bad, but i realize that's it's okay. It's just a start and i should not be afraid to try more until i achieve it. I promised myself that 2020 will be my year, this year i will apply everything i've learned. I am so excited to enter another gate for more adventures. Thank youuu!!

    • @HannaCreative
      @HannaCreative Před 4 lety +3

      I feel like in a way we’re always setting the foundation for new things to come so don’t be hard on yourself! The fact that you want to change and are aware of what’s working and what isn’t is already a sign that you’re doing great and are on the right path! 🤗
      2020 is gonna be amazing! I wish you the absolute best for it ❤️

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  Před 4 lety +4

      wishing you the best year in 2020!! make it a great one :)

  • @rosetwala5947
    @rosetwala5947 Před 4 lety +90

    One problem I always seem to personally face with the whole “live with positivity thing” is the fact that I sometimes feel like its forced... like when I genuinely dont feel positive, I force it and that just makes me feel worse. I feel like the dreamy and fantasy-like side of things just makes me feel worse, I hope I make sense.

    • @hannahthomas3366
      @hannahthomas3366 Před 4 lety +3

      @Frances Riame thank you so much I really needed to hear that. I've been struggling with that for so long and I'm glad that it's ok to have a bad day as long as I recover. Thank you!!

    • @shannon2748
      @shannon2748 Před 4 lety +7

      I agree. Sometimes , if you even say one negative thing, someone will call you negative, or tell you cliche things like "cheer up" or "you'll get over it", or "many people have it worse than you". I have also been told "Well, you have a roof over your head and food in your belly". True, but I don't think others should try to invalidate someone's feelings. Telling someone people in North Korea have it worse than you, for example, will not make you feel better. We are human beings. We need to be able to feel human emotions, even the negative ones like sadness, anger, etc. It's what makes us real and human. Real humans.

    • @h0zi3r
      @h0zi3r Před 4 lety +2

      Rose Twala we all have those bad times, its better to know you aren’t in a positive mood than force yourself to be positive

    • @rosetwala5947
      @rosetwala5947 Před 4 lety +1

      @lovelyvegan princess Telling someone to not be sad cos others have it worse is like someone telling you not to be happy because others are happier

    • @shannon2748
      @shannon2748 Před 4 lety +1

      @@rosetwala5947 Exactly. Even worse is, "suck it up". I hate that one.

  • @pakunamarfusa4621
    @pakunamarfusa4621 Před 4 lety +29

    *Quarantine: Whoopity whoop, this year is mine.*

  • @nihed4380
    @nihed4380 Před 4 lety +73

    My perfect morning routine is to start with praying, honestly it's like a shift button for me, and I immediately pray the other 4 times during the day

  • @jaylagarrison9177
    @jaylagarrison9177 Před 4 lety +13

    my goals for -2020-
    -eat healthier
    -adapt good habits, such as making my bed every morning
    -start a journal
    -read more
    -drink more water
    -have a clean mind 🌞

  • @marinmiah4443
    @marinmiah4443 Před 4 lety +64

    The fourth way to change your life is to commit to reading daily
    Me: Wattpad

    • @beth629
      @beth629 Před 3 lety +2

      And that's ok! Honestly alot of wattpad stories are well written and thats what will encourage you to read that's great.

  • @Kneec4ps
    @Kneec4ps Před 4 lety +42

    *Enjoy your morning*
    Me waking up for school: *hell nAw*

  • @jetteharris6818
    @jetteharris6818 Před 4 lety +256

    The bad habit I would like to break: I make critical comments about strangers and actors. I don't want to teach my children this habit (like my dad taught me).

    • @eva9996
      @eva9996 Před 4 lety +26

      Try this instead: look at strangers and actors and try to find something you like about them. Consciouslly forcing yourself to do that and repeating it will really help you rewire your brain.

    • @jetteharris6818
      @jetteharris6818 Před 4 lety +7

      @@eva9996 I was trying to think of a replacement habit. Thank you!

    • @sleepingsugaaa4189
      @sleepingsugaaa4189 Před 4 lety +5

      yes i really should stop, afterwards i feel so guilty

    • @quinquinly
      @quinquinly Před 4 lety +8

      I am already impressed that you are self-aware about this habit! It is a great first step. Something I do is I try to find 3 ways I can compliment someone before I judge them. This is also something I do to not be too critical of myself.

    • @BrianaBorten
      @BrianaBorten Před 4 lety +5

      That's such a wonderful goal, love it! We are conditioned as a society to see what's wrong with everything to show we are paying attention or to prove we are smart. If we can look at others and say one thing we appreciate about them and remember everyone is doing the best they can with the information they've been given and what has led them to this point. Be kind you never know what a person is going through. Happy New Year!

  • @F0reverblessed
    @F0reverblessed Před 4 lety +139

    Decluttering is LIFE CHANGING!!! Smalls habits truly has the biggest changes! Planned grocery list is KEY! It definitely helps having healthier food options at home.
    From a self love content creator to another - Awesome video Aileen! 💕

  • @mermaidtango
    @mermaidtango Před 4 lety +11

    As someone who has spent the last two years decluttering, what I find now is that rearranging a room, a desktop, a bookshelf, creates new paths for energy flow equal to what decluttering had provided. As I do this, I also notice which (if any) things no longer resonate.

  • @phanquang3259
    @phanquang3259 Před 4 lety +12

    These ideas help me a lot. Thanks Aileen
    My 3 habits to quit:
    - Smoking
    - Care too much about what others think
    - Afraid to say NO to what i don't want.

  • @pee4851
    @pee4851 Před 4 lety +56

    I had a pretty bad 2019 so I am going to attempt and try to have a better year next year!

  • @bellachambers
    @bellachambers Před 4 lety +12

    My friends and I are doing a creative trip where we road trip every month in 2020 to a new place in our state. The original idea is to take pictures and have a huge collage at the end but it'll be a great time.

  • @Wifeysmitty
    @Wifeysmitty Před 4 lety +8

    2019- I learned how to develop a commitment to my health. I wake up every day at 4:15 and I hit crossfit at 5. I bring my best self to work. And when I clock out m I’m focused on my family time .
    2020- I’m going to be clear on where this new journey is going to go . I’ve been wanting to develop myself as a life coach or fitness coach or a combo of both .
    I’ve been on an alcohol fast from mid November to the end of the year and I feel so clear on the journey.

  • @godsangel2429
    @godsangel2429 Před 4 lety +17

    I'm ready for 2020. I definitely need to stay away from negative people.

    • @ummtulip
      @ummtulip Před 3 lety

      Stay away from positive people this year because positive = corona 😂

  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  Před 4 lety +379

    What positive habits are you looking to start in 2020?
    To see the full list + blog post to this video: www.lavendaire.com/change-your-life-2020/
    And check out the Lavendaire Shop for items to help you create your dream year: shop.lavendaire.com
    Happy holidays my loves!!

  • @hyacinthgrows
    @hyacinthgrows Před 4 lety +11

    I've made the mistake of setting numerous goals to the point that I become intimidated and end up never getting round to completing them.
    So for 2020 I have one goal: to be at peace with myself. Nothing more, nothing less.

    • @happyfrenchfries
      @happyfrenchfries Před 4 lety

      You are enough.

    • @hyacinthgrows
      @hyacinthgrows Před 4 lety

      @@happyfrenchfries I don't think so. I've never accomplished anything useful in my life
      But thanks anyway

    • @happyfrenchfries
      @happyfrenchfries Před 4 lety

      @@hyacinthgrows but maybe being kind to those around us is enough.

    • @hyacinthgrows
      @hyacinthgrows Před 4 lety

      @@happyfrenchfries maybe

  • @mariarhn4039
    @mariarhn4039 Před 4 lety +5

    3:35 Where do you wanna travel this year?
    corona: no

  • @Mia-sb1bb
    @Mia-sb1bb Před 4 lety +21

    "travel to somewhere you have never been to"
    2020 pandemic: *hmm i think not*

  • @ThexBabyBunnyx
    @ThexBabyBunnyx Před 4 lety +29

    I'm so excited for 2020. I'm starting my new years resolutions early.

  • @jaydeanita
    @jaydeanita Před 4 lety +75

    So exited for this!! Extremely early squad where you at?! 🤩🤩

  • @krypey
    @krypey Před 4 lety +2

    My main goal for 2020 is to stay clean the entire year. I’m already two months clean so I hope this will go well. I also hope to ease my anxiety and get a healthier relationship with food and exercise. I wish the mental illnesses I have would just go away, but I realize that I need to take the first step myself. I plan on deleting social media, reading and drawing more, expanding my knowledge of the world and mainly spending more time with the people I love.

  • @crain3413
    @crain3413 Před 4 lety

    I only just found your channel but I can already tell how amazing of a person you are. You seem at peace, genuinely happy, and calm.

  • @olivianewberry3980
    @olivianewberry3980 Před 4 lety +26

    This was so well-thought-out and beautifully filmed.

  • @tshiamotaje
    @tshiamotaje Před 4 lety +7

    “Travel to a place you’ve never been before” me watching this during quarantine😭😭😂😂

  • @paccc7092
    @paccc7092 Před 2 lety

    Gosh. I just discovered your channel from meditation and started watching your other videos. You have such a positive vibe. You’re like the positive friend I never had. Thank you for being here and guiding us.

  • @madalinamit4694
    @madalinamit4694 Před 4 lety

    Your positive energy and light is contagious! I am on the journey myself and I wish you all, peace and love.

  • @ara8093
    @ara8093 Před 4 lety +22

    These comment section has the most positive comments made me really get in to the video

  • @languagetraveller
    @languagetraveller Před 4 lety +24

    Lavendaire: where do you want to travel this year?
    Me: everywhere 😂

    • @mirandamorrison9033
      @mirandamorrison9033 Před 4 lety +1

      I suggest you start with one place or region. Once you've done that, the rest of the world is available. You can travel - by planning a couple of years in advance or more - for the rest of your life. So pick a place that resonates with you. Have you always wanted to go to London or Paris? Then, make a 6 day trip. Have you always wanted to see the Grand Canyon or go horseback riding in the desert? If you want a European feeling, but think it is too far from the U.S., then go to Quebec City. Remember Aileen advises that we start with baby steps. Each step makes the next one easier.

    • @languagetraveller
      @languagetraveller Před 4 lety +1

      @@mirandamorrison9033 i know, i travel a lot in europe, my dream is to come to US 😍 i'm currently on a backapcking trip through se asia, 2 months in, just arrived to the Philippines and it's amazing 😍 but i guess the more you travel, the more you WANT to travel 😅 thanks for advice anyway (:

  • @shreya24jul
    @shreya24jul Před 2 lety +2

    You can't even imagine how calming all your videos are, Aileen!🥺Thanks for existing!

  • @Ella-bn1nq
    @Ella-bn1nq Před 3 lety

    The world needs more people like you. You're like my therapist. My love for you is growing day by day.

  • @rajshreesharma8726
    @rajshreesharma8726 Před 4 lety +4

    My goals for 2020 :-
    Study hard
    Get your dream job
    Be independent
    Start travelling
    .........in short start a new whole dream life that you always wanted.

  • @Zoey-zh9jg
    @Zoey-zh9jg Před 4 lety +6

    Thank you so much, Lavendaire for inspiring and motivating me this year ...
    Much love from Australia ♥️❤️

  • @dorlisastjean4072
    @dorlisastjean4072 Před 4 lety

    I recently started cleaning my room and throwing out things that I don't need anymore. I never imagined feeling better after doing this when I have been going through depression. I am almost done with decluttering and recreating my room and I am getting better and better each day. This video is one of the many videos that is giving me joy to know that the future will always be bright no matter how many obstacles that may occur

  • @julieschofield4594
    @julieschofield4594 Před 2 lety +1

    Watching this in August 2021 in a full lock down and it really resonates powerfully on what we can do now as well as how much we need in person connections.

  • @cami7cloud
    @cami7cloud Před 4 lety +5

    I feel like this year it was the year I was the laziest and wasted my time the most, so I plan to be more productive and just not wasting my life on this new decade ✨

  • @Blackcat-fi2ll
    @Blackcat-fi2ll Před 4 lety +10

    My dream for this new year is to travel somewhere where I can be surrounded by pretty colorful flowers, maybe live there forever💜

  • @rozycool3180
    @rozycool3180 Před 2 lety +1

    New chapter always will be started on new day with Happiness and Joy

  • @dramalovely41
    @dramalovely41 Před 4 lety

    I remember discovering you a little over two years ago. I binged your podcast during new year because I wanted positive energy and positive energy is what I received . I’m a proud subscriber of an amazing woman. Continue making videos, they help me in ways more than you know✨

  • @dudylifestyle
    @dudylifestyle Před 4 lety +17

    I send you alot of love energy and gratitude 😍❤️❤️❤️❤️ it was a great pleasure getting to know you ... hope this new year will be the enlightenment year of the humanity 🌞⭐️⭐️🌞🌞🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  Před 4 lety +5

      Sending you lots of love too Dudy!! Happy new year 💞💞

  • @Eeven-tb4hp
    @Eeven-tb4hp Před 4 lety +4

    In 2020 I want to
    ~get organized in all aspects of my daily life ex. School, home, mental state, Arts
    ~get a job
    ~stop being scared of interacting with people
    ~start going to the gym
    ~stop binge eating

  • @heysabo
    @heysabo Před 4 lety

    This couldn't have come at a better timing! ♥️ Thank you Aileen & can't wait to start the new year with you and with everyone!☺️

  • @S1r3nc0r33
    @S1r3nc0r33 Před 4 lety

    Thank you so much for this Aileen!❤️ I’ve been in a bit of a slump lately and this definitely came at the right time! All my love✨

  • @gelg.1487
    @gelg.1487 Před 4 lety +4

    I booked my flight to Bali and Vietnam next year! And possibly even Australia too! Those 3 are my dream destinations since I was a kid. 😍

  • @nicoleangelicanastor3764
    @nicoleangelicanastor3764 Před 4 lety +14

    This makes me ready for 2020 ❤️

  • @annettethecreatorlady6231

    This video is relevant even in the middle of 2020! I have spent a lot of thinking deeply thinking about who I want to become during these quarantine times and realized I have false mindsets and habits that I really want to change. One habit I decided to work on changing is learning to listen more and complain a lot less. I noticed there was so much I can complain about but in reality, I have so much more to be absolutely grateful for. Each day, I've seen how much my moods have changed because I'm focusing more on my blessings rather than my complaints. Thank you so much for this video!

  • @JuliaJackpot
    @JuliaJackpot Před 4 lety +1

    I quit smoking after 10 years of heavy smoking, this year. I feel amazing about it and like a happier, more relaxed person. Best decision ever.

  • @rkplant
    @rkplant Před 4 lety +8

    My 2020 goals:
    - Be healthy both mentally and physically
    - Spend more time with myself
    - Do what I love instead of what others expect me to
    - Be happy!

  • @couldnotcareless8667
    @couldnotcareless8667 Před 4 lety +3

    1. Adopt a healthier diet
    2. Design a better morning routine
    3. Travel to a place you have never been before
    4. Commit to reading daily
    5. Declutter your life
    6. Deepen your relationships
    7. Be vulnerable
    8. Commit to cutting one bad habit from your life
    9. Make peace with your past
    10. Be present
    Great video! Hope these notes help

  • @mickaylalove7541
    @mickaylalove7541 Před 3 lety +1

    Looking at this going into 2021 is the best thing ever !

  • @minascore
    @minascore Před 4 lety

    I cant actually believe what i saw. This women is a definition of success, courage and strength. I am so far from this, need to change a lot in my mind and my around but im on my way. It was all so obvious but I couldn’t just catch and sum it all together, thank you for letting me now this. Ill try and i know im able to do what needs to be done

  • @KeyannaWeaver
    @KeyannaWeaver Před 3 lety +3

    So encouraged by this video and honestly, many of your videos! Thank you!

  • @rollypolypress
    @rollypolypress Před 3 lety +3

    2020 “I’ll change things FOR you!”

  • @leilani2258
    @leilani2258 Před 4 lety +2

    As a long time subscriber, seeing your channel grow and flourish has been an honor. 💞 I am so freakin proud of how your channel has grown. And how through it all you have stayed true to yourself. Cheers to the new year! 🥂

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  Před 4 lety

      thank you so much!! appreciate that you're here ✨✨ happy new year babe!!

  • @marcelaaguilar7455
    @marcelaaguilar7455 Před 4 lety

    I just want to say thank you for being my compass. You always show me who I want to be: a better me! 💕

  • @rachelb3920
    @rachelb3920 Před 4 lety +3

    Wow, this was so helpful. So ready to start fresh with the new year✨

  • @wanderingwithyanvlogs
    @wanderingwithyanvlogs Před 4 lety +97

    Is anyone freaked that 2020 is in 9 days and going to be a new decade? How does time pass so fast!!

  • @sarai.ruiz06
    @sarai.ruiz06 Před 4 lety +1

    happy 2020 to everyone!

  • @tamannazamanauthy7423
    @tamannazamanauthy7423 Před 4 lety +1

    So excited for your new year's videos!

  • @devayanig.3100
    @devayanig.3100 Před 4 lety +4

    I'M ALREADY EXCITED FOR 2020❤️❤️

  • @josefineoijer
    @josefineoijer Před 4 lety +13

    yup, I need a new morning routine for the weekdays. Currently I don't have one

  • @nickbaritone
    @nickbaritone Před 4 lety

    Number 8 is very solid advice. I need to not dwell in negative situations. When I bring up the negative topic it becomes a vicious cycle, plus it pisses other people off. Telling myself that I am a positive thinker is a great idea.

  • @kstrobel15
    @kstrobel15 Před 4 lety +1

    I am actually studying abroad in Costa Rica this year! I am super excited to do something that I have always wanted to do and learn about that culture!

  • @faethyyy
    @faethyyy Před 3 lety +5

    "travel to a new place you haven't been to before, but not too far away."
    Me: Welp, into the attic it is ;-;

  • @sheabuske4445
    @sheabuske4445 Před 4 lety +13

    I want to go see the waterfall in the mountains that’s 40 minutes from my home

    • @michellemae1136
      @michellemae1136 Před 4 lety +4

      i want you to finally see it. wishing for your happiness :))

  • @Jessica-uf8qe
    @Jessica-uf8qe Před 4 lety

    Came back to this video to recharge and keep being motivated after a month into the new year, it definitely made me feel a lot enthusiastic! thank you Lavendaire ^^

  • @lorenzameneghini3698
    @lorenzameneghini3698 Před 4 lety

    Your voice is actually so soothing it feels like velvet. Thank you for your words, they were really inspiring!

  • @vinnierana0786
    @vinnierana0786 Před 4 lety +10

    I tried no meat for 15 days in Nov I felt so good literally energetic and calm, beautiful...😍 Seriously
    And I am decluttering my space I'm trying to HV a gud morning routine also💃🏻💃🏻☀️

  • @kitsuneyuri7734
    @kitsuneyuri7734 Před 4 lety +12

    Comments: IM SO EXCITED FOR 2020 I BEILEVE THERE ARE FLYING CARS AND SO MUCH EEEEEKK
    Corona Virus,WW3 and Fires: *laughs*

  • @itsmekarishma_____128

    Love you lavendaire, your videos feel like warm sweet hug to me. Thank you so much for motivating all of us!
    Love you girl! So happy to watch how effortlessly you help all of us to beautify our lives .

  • @pm-ne2vt
    @pm-ne2vt Před 3 lety

    I had the goal of learning art techniques every day but never got to make it a habit. I felt like I had no time for it. One day I decided to make learning art a part of my morning to-do list and I was actually able to do everything I needed to that day and even have some fun! It also raised my energy doing something I loved in the morning.

  • @thusomahlatji6268
    @thusomahlatji6268 Před 4 lety +6

    That theology about reading books was very interesting.

  • @aligrace8135
    @aligrace8135 Před 4 lety +3

    I would love to travel to Canada to see beautiful cities and practice the French I have been learning for the past two years

  • @katiahale1004
    @katiahale1004 Před 4 lety +1

    you always say what i need to hear, so please don't stop what you do because you do it perfectly

  • @aishichatt
    @aishichatt Před 4 lety +1

    Thanx Aileen
    For the video. May you blessed with lot of love light and abundance. Sending you positive vibes...

  • @larasryujihan123
    @larasryujihan123 Před 3 lety +3

    Hello Aileen, I'm Laras from Indonesia. I really like your videos, its motivation me to change my bad habits, my inscure, my weakness, to love myself like I must have a self love because I dont know about myself. I never bored to watch your video. From you I know and can realize that there are something happens I cannot control but I must learn to take respond to take an action an can responsibility everthing happens in my life. thank you so much Aileen. Maybe someday I can failed but I must believe its not the end, just do the best, evalute dont feel that its can break my life. btw, this my favorite video. I'll be waiting result 2020 to better 2021, byee. Terima Kasih :)

  • @M3thylamine
    @M3thylamine Před 4 lety +6

    Its hard to be positive when the weather in germany is rainy and cold. Cant really go outside because it gets dark really quick and nobody wants to go out on bad weather.

  • @isuriupadhya535
    @isuriupadhya535 Před 4 lety

    I just wanna stop worrying about past. I need to enjoy the present. Enjoy even small things in life and feel blessed. I love excerising. It really makes me happy. Thank you for this video. It is so inspiring. 💓 Wish you all a very successful and happy new year.

  • @caffeinereaper
    @caffeinereaper Před 4 lety

    im currently planning a trip to germany to visit my friend for the first time!! i didnt grow up with a lot of money so traveling was never in the books for me, but now that i have a job im saving up so i can start traveling and doing things i never had an opportunity to do before!

  • @goeleappermont3146
    @goeleappermont3146 Před 4 lety +5

    I'm gonna travel to Kyrgyzstan in 2020, my first trip out of europe😊

  • @missprettysaditty
    @missprettysaditty Před 4 lety +8

    I’m so excited for 2020! I plan on saving money to go to Jamaica 🇯🇲

    • @lex541
      @lex541 Před 4 lety +1

      Yes come to Jamaica and feel alright. So much to explore here! All the best!

  • @seoulologyy
    @seoulologyy Před 4 lety

    This is an amazing video! Thank you! I absolutely needed it and it makes me look forward to 2020 even more! I’m hoping to cultivate these positive habits: read everyday, meditate, and being grateful daily. 🙏✨