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  • @alromaani
    @alromaani  Před rokem +8

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    • @counsellorcone1206
      @counsellorcone1206 Před rokem

      @2:28 What is a ‘sedimentary’ lifestyle? Also could you define what an alpha and beta are in terms of social behaviouralism? What is the empirical basis for the utility of these Greek terms?
      I ask rhetorically of course however I do look forward to your response very much.

  • @roneddy
    @roneddy Před rokem +64

    Every guy is someone's Beta 🤣. Only desi people will understand.

  • @syadmustafa
    @syadmustafa Před rokem +40

    Again another great video. May our women get Real Men and help in growing these Real Men and similarly may our men get Real Women and help in growing these Real Women. Let Real Men & Real Women work together (Not against each other in sha Allah)

    • @xmuhmd
      @xmuhmd Před rokem

      Yeah
      And women should understand to raise 3 children
      They need 9 years of their life....
      Being pregnant around 1 year
      Then around 2 years giving milk for the baby

  • @nsawatchlistbait289
    @nsawatchlistbait289 Před rokem +19

    Man I feel so grateful for the internet and for your work

  • @RazorStan
    @RazorStan Před rokem +5

    Mashallah. May Allah increase this brother in goodness And success. We need more men like this. Brother Gabriel is doing the work others aren’t.
    And may Allah make Us all strong believers.

  • @workinghour911
    @workinghour911 Před rokem

    Great video. Thanks for your effort. And the view behind you is staggering Subhanallah

  • @sultansvideotamil9185
    @sultansvideotamil9185 Před rokem +1

    جزاك الله خير اخي الكريم

  • @maddybbboy
    @maddybbboy Před rokem +4

    Be the best beta to your parents. That the most alpha thing to do.

  • @muhamed36
    @muhamed36 Před rokem +2

    Jazakallahu khayr, brother Gabirel. Really useful content mashaAllah. I have one correction. It's 'sedentary', not 'sedimentary' 🙂

  • @prydonianbravo725
    @prydonianbravo725 Před rokem +1

    Salaam brother - I totally relate to you. You’re like my double

    • @YourLordIsOne
      @YourLordIsOne Před rokem

      wa aleikom Assalaam wa rahmatuLlah wa barakatuH

    • @anonymousmuslim_girl2227
      @anonymousmuslim_girl2227 Před rokem

      @@YourLordIsOne اَلسَلامُ عَلَيْكُم وَرَحْمَةُ اَللهِ وَبَرَكاتُهُ‎
      Can you please make dua for me to Allah to accept all my dua's. Can you please make dua particularly for helping me concentrate in halal medical studies.

  • @bintjamiel2873
    @bintjamiel2873 Před rokem +18

    Salaam alaikum brother
    Could you please advise the men to dress modestly as well while in public places, we already have a struggle to correct the women BUT unfortunately what is now more DISAPPOINTING is men are also dressed but naked (how do you get out of your house to the public in an under garment/skimpy shorts that only cover the subject matters(private parts? Subhana’Allah
    Every time you step out you stumble into a family and the husband seems like he is competing with the wife as to who can reveal the most, astaghfirullah.(this has become sooo common)
    Many times I’m disgusted going out but have no choice.
    Muslim men imitating kuffar in the way of dressing
    PROPHECIES THAT WE NOW SEE
    “Al-Zubayr ibn ‘Adi reported: We came to Anas ibn Malik, may Allah be pleased with him, and we complained to him of what we suffered from the ruler Al-Hajjaj. Anas said, “Be patient, for an era will not come upon you but that what comes after is worse, until you meet your Lord. I heard it from your Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him.”
    Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 7068
    Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Bukhari

    • @SDSen
      @SDSen Před rokem +2

      This isn't the topic he's discussing

    • @aspiringkamikaze1894
      @aspiringkamikaze1894 Před rokem +3

      No way people come out wearing boxers. How dont you feel shame?

    • @Idris.1994.Norway
      @Idris.1994.Norway Před rokem +5

      This is true. I have some relatives here in the west that wears shorts were their thighs is visible. And before they moved to the west they were ashamed to wear that, subhanAllah. May Allah guide us all.

    • @shadowstorm5261
      @shadowstorm5261 Před rokem +1

      @Healing Misogynist you are missing out on sport? Because you wear trousers and not shorts?
      How does that even make sense?
      Ever heard of jogging bottoms?

    • @shadowstorm5261
      @shadowstorm5261 Před rokem

      @Healing Misogynist also what sport?

  • @zafflen528
    @zafflen528 Před rokem

    masya Allah, very epic

  • @shoaibhaq8680
    @shoaibhaq8680 Před rokem

    Walaikum assalam wa rehmatulla hi wa barkathu

  • @UnbeatenPlayzMinecraftandmore

    ‎و عليكم السلام و رحمة الله وبركاته
    ‎و عليكم السلام و رحمة الله وبركاته

  • @YourLordIsOne
    @YourLordIsOne Před rokem

    wa aleikom Assalaam wa rahmatuLlah wa barakatuH

  • @umjetnikslavon2umjetniksla887

    Be patient brothers....

  • @sammu
    @sammu Před rokem +13

    “Beta”, “alpha”, etc are cringeworthy terms but point well presented. The mothers need to raise men and not boys. I believe that is where the problem lies. If you want a perfect example of how our tradition used to be, look at the relationship between Asma bint Abi Bakr RA and her son Abdullah Ibn Zubayr.

    • @User-kw5bk
      @User-kw5bk Před rokem

      @TestOfStrength it is debunked in wolves, however in apes, this dynamic is still found (supposedly)

  • @irfaankhan8035
    @irfaankhan8035 Před rokem +7

    Wallahi who needs Andrew tate when we have Gabriel al Romani. MashAllah tabarakAllah

    • @Aldisa-Safe1
      @Aldisa-Safe1 Před rokem +1

      Andrew says so many bad things about women .I know he said some good things about Islam but this doesn’t mean he is right for everything.I would never marry a man who is violent like Andrew says them should be.I am not getting married to fight with my husband I am marrying to have a good life.Not a miserable life .

    • @MohammedAlAmriki
      @MohammedAlAmriki Před rokem

      Lol ikr

    • @SultanRahman1
      @SultanRahman1 Před rokem

      @@Aldisa-Safe1 Brother Andrew has made some mistakes indeed and he will continue to make mistakes, may Allah forgive us all.
      This is why our only role model should be the Prophet (pbuh) in everything we do especially in marital relationships. The Prophet (pbuh) is the ultimate alpha and role model for us.

  • @Chamseibnmasood-qn4me
    @Chamseibnmasood-qn4me Před 10 měsíci

    A/W/W
    I hope you are well br Gabriel how do we book a session with you I clicked on the link I don’t understand,
    Kr Chamse.

  • @kamellolz7
    @kamellolz7 Před rokem

    Can you do a video about the blackpill

  • @alpharays3667
    @alpharays3667 Před rokem +9

    Women create this men and then wondered!.

    • @syadmustafa
      @syadmustafa Před rokem +9

      Salaam, don’t be a sexist. Allah (swt) created both men & women. Men & women need to work together Not against each other

    • @SpecialAgentTinkyWinky
      @SpecialAgentTinkyWinky Před rokem

      @@syadmustafa he means women created these weak feminised men

    • @bintjamiel2873
      @bintjamiel2873 Před rokem +12

      Bro this is true, we women have a role to play in this not only fathers, so many mothers pamper/spoil their boys, eat (unhealthy food) and play video games.
      while the fathers are busy with money forgetting and ignoring the importance of upbringing of the boy to become a man.(parents have to step up if we want boys to be men and girls to be women)
      Also for as long as we are still busy with our feelings(calling for unnecessary divorces), we will always up bring weak men. And the same goes for the girls.
      Don’t expect your daughter to get a strong man if you yourself have weak men in your house🤣
      It’s just like saying “I want a religious/righteous practicing man/women yet you are the total opposite.
      DO THE WORK AND ASK ALLAH TO GUIDE YOU THRU

    • @sarahosman9030
      @sarahosman9030 Před rokem +3

      @King Sultan so you have to dominate and be superior to woman in order to protect your family?
      Or is it that in this comfortable and liberal world we live in men are not exposed to the hostility and stress the men before them were. Men went to wars or were prepared to go to war. They did a lot more manual labour. Also where you were raised makes a difference, if you live in a rough neighbourhood then you are ready to fight.

    • @aspiringkamikaze1894
      @aspiringkamikaze1894 Před rokem

      Nobody to keep them in check. Women will indulge in Fawahish if nobody puts them in their place. They will get arrogant. They will think they’re the same or better as men. This is the complete Asl of feminism.
      Except those whom Allah has mercy upon.

  • @AmmarBinAman
    @AmmarBinAman Před 10 měsíci

    fitrah is calling us, we have been directed away from it, may Allah bless you ya sheikh

  • @theimprovist4158
    @theimprovist4158 Před rokem

    Can someone tell me whats the nasheed at the beginning ?

  • @YourLordIsOne
    @YourLordIsOne Před rokem +8

    I advise you check Hadith 5590 in Sahih Al-Bukhari and it’s explanation+exceptions in regards to musical instruments’ prohibition, may Allah bless you

    • @anonymousmuslim_girl2227
      @anonymousmuslim_girl2227 Před rokem +2

      @Jkn ahmd اَلسَلامُ عَلَيْكُم وَرَحْمَةُ اَللهِ وَبَرَكاتُهُ‎
      Can you please make dua for me to Allah to accept all my dua's. Can you please make dua particularly for helping me concentrate in halal medical studies.

    • @falteredbeauty8563
      @falteredbeauty8563 Před rokem

      He used a nashid in his outro though...

    • @emrecan2521
      @emrecan2521 Před rokem

      @@falteredbeauty8563 sounds like instruments

    • @falteredbeauty8563
      @falteredbeauty8563 Před rokem

      @@emrecan2521 and if you listen closer and listen again, it's vocals and the daff

    • @emrecan2521
      @emrecan2521 Před rokem +1

      @@falteredbeauty8563 searh up "When is it permissible to beat the islam. Qa

  • @erwinsmith5381
    @erwinsmith5381 Před rokem +1

    اللهم صل وسلم على سيدنا ومولانا محمد عبدك ورسولك النبي الأمي وعلى آله وصحبه وسلم

  • @muslimresponses9731
    @muslimresponses9731 Před rokem

    Assalamu aleykum warahmetullahi wabarakatuhu
    I am trying to become more masculine but i have a question
    Is wanting peace and quiet feminine?

    • @muslimresponses9731
      @muslimresponses9731 Před rokem

      @Healing Misogynist because men are supposed to be adventerous and active so i thought maybe it is feminine to want some peace and quiet

    • @MohammedAlAmriki
      @MohammedAlAmriki Před rokem

      No, masculine means being able to stand up for you and your family and the truth. Masculine means taking care of things. Such as: Fixing the cars, house, building wealth, keeping things in check, not letting people walk over you while being kind and respectful, able to control anger abd and frustration, knowing when to act on certain things.

  • @mufunyiibrahim3655
    @mufunyiibrahim3655 Před rokem +1

    We need real men, here In Africa the struggles of the society automatically makes men masculine although the recent generation of single mothers are fighting that.my question is where are those feminists be actively fighting in the trenches in Ukraine?.they will demand equality when the war is over

  • @Robinhood-pg6mb
    @Robinhood-pg6mb Před rokem

    Can’t believe the guy said that Subhan’Allah. I can remember in jahiliyah times I faced 5 guys with machetes over coming to my house and alhamdulilah only got sliced once

  • @limitedquantitysufiyyahexp4905

    Akhī remove the music, it is haram and reprehensible.

    • @falteredbeauty8563
      @falteredbeauty8563 Před rokem +1

      Salamu Alaykum. An exception is vocals and the daff. That's what he used so he's within halal boundaries

    • @limitedquantitysufiyyahexp4905
      @limitedquantitysufiyyahexp4905 Před rokem

      @@falteredbeauty8563 وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته.
      The scholars have explained the ruling on these vocals Akhī, they have the same effects as music, as for the duff, it's permissible only in spacial occasions from what I know.

    • @falteredbeauty8563
      @falteredbeauty8563 Před rokem

      @@limitedquantitysufiyyahexp4905 But again, is that majority opinion about nasheeds? Because to be honest, I've only heard one opinion about it and not a range of them. And yes I know it's only for special situations, but nowadays, the audio is all music. I'm not aware of any ruling that nasheeds and daff can't be used in a video, reel, youtube short, tik Tok, etc. Unless there's specific rulings to the contrary.

    • @elafzal5866
      @elafzal5866 Před rokem

      ​@@falteredbeauty8563 So you are still spreading this nonsense even though you were presented with evidence? SubhanAllah

    • @falteredbeauty8563
      @falteredbeauty8563 Před rokem

      @@elafzal5866 SubhanAllah, I can't believe that's what your responding with.
      No specific evidence was given to me, but what he said is accepted bc that's the general opinion. Why can't I sincerely ask and respond when I've heard and seen otherwise? Many Muslim CZcamsrs who are genuinely practicing use nasheeds in their vids and this is the first time I've heard that this isn't allowed and I genuinely want to know if this is true or this is laymen talk.
      Why is it a problem if I ask? Why is it when I do ask and respond and have a difference of opinion, it's "oh, so you're going against the evidence? SubhanAllah" what kind of attitude is this? There's always a range of opinions in fiqh that are valid bc the scholars are genuinely trying for the sake of Allah. Why can't I ask and have a difference of opinion here?

  • @dangrille5846
    @dangrille5846 Před rokem +1

    What I’ve seen too is men are leaving women to raise their sons and that’s part of the problem

  • @waseemwani8504
    @waseemwani8504 Před rokem +1

    Are CZcams earnings halal?

  • @Twfikomar
    @Twfikomar Před rokem

    No Jeffrey here😅

  • @NonanoN-er6de
    @NonanoN-er6de Před rokem

    Does beta mean daughter in urdu? Or is it a term of endearment for both genders?

  • @li-ion2543
    @li-ion2543 Před rokem +1

    "the man" exist less, imo not cuz of what society have become, its cuz ppl get married very late these days. most of us develop our adult mindset between 17-24. marriage comes with responsibility, and when we are set for marriage in late 20s or early 30s, its too late. what do u think someone who gets married so late is thinking about in their early years? they just having fun and goofing around, they're getting manipulated with bad ideas, so they don't have the sense that they might need to be responsible for taking care of a family and stuff. the sense of family responsibility would cause anyone with common sense to get serious about career, education, din, etc. example: u see this often when the non-muslims (internet is full of such stories) is sleeping around and end up getting a kid with a girl, all of a sudden they feel forced to change their lifestyle for their family, so he can be someone that the kid can look up to, etc, even the ufc champ kamaru usman was like this before he got his things straight.

  • @zahraosman3504
    @zahraosman3504 Před rokem +2

    Assalaam alaykum we must fear allah and followed and obey allmight god aw,the brothers know their right as a husband and the sisters know her right following quran and sunnah not western feminist or western red pill,you will sucessed this world and hereafter following quran and sunnah

  • @dangrille5846
    @dangrille5846 Před rokem

    Alhamdulillah the awareness this video provides is good BUT the real man us brothers need to really learn about his the Prophet peace prayers and blessings be upon him. His whole persona not just his merciful side though that is a necessity as well but his zealous traits in his quiet determination against every odds in the beginning of the revelation. His strong character and ability to deal with multiple personalities with his Sahabah. And his tenacity on the battlefield. There has NEVER in all history been such a well rounded man of characteristics in human history and the life changing impressions he left on the first three generations is enough to pick and chose from. I challenge myself and any brother who reads this to learn something about our beloved Prophet peace prayers and blessings be upon him and His Sahabah and pick and chose something He and they did then adopt it on our lives inshaALLAH

  • @exsinner
    @exsinner Před rokem

    Lucky me, im a sigma male

  • @sidaliamraoui5060
    @sidaliamraoui5060 Před rokem

    Bro I'm not familiar with this beta and alpha men can anyone explain? ...

    • @MohammedAlAmriki
      @MohammedAlAmriki Před rokem +1

      When men dm and comment on girls Instagram posts complimenting and begging her =bta
      Alp= Gabriel El Romani

    • @sidaliamraoui5060
      @sidaliamraoui5060 Před rokem +1

      @@MohammedAlAmriki thanks bro .. i like alpha : Gabriel el romani

    • @MohammedAlAmriki
      @MohammedAlAmriki Před rokem

      @@sidaliamraoui5060 🫡

  • @xmuhmd
    @xmuhmd Před rokem

    And women should understand to raise 3 children
    They need 9 years of their life....
    Being pregnant around 1 year
    Then around 2 years giving milk for the baby

  • @layla302
    @layla302 Před rokem +1

    Please stop using terms like “beta.”

    • @alpharays3667
      @alpharays3667 Před rokem

      No!!. You don’t get to tell anyone what to do!. Gabriel isn’t your beta husband

    • @salmaanli6188
      @salmaanli6188 Před rokem +2

      @@alpharays3667 Brother Gabriel is beta to his mom...only desi can understand 🤣

    • @illegal-tints-onyourcar
      @illegal-tints-onyourcar Před rokem

      What’s wrong with it?

    • @layla302
      @layla302 Před rokem +2

      @@illegal-tints-onyourcar for improved behaviors, it’s better to identify the behaviors themselves, rather than tearing men down by calling them names. I just don’t see that it’s in the spirit of Islam to be negative like this.

    • @emachines3447
      @emachines3447 Před rokem

      @Gyxu Euehr why are you going to make takfir against her?

  • @ukush1
    @ukush1 Před rokem +12

    Women don't understand the reality of violence. The same women that want men to fight for them don't realise the consequences of such violence on the streets. Yes as men we should defend our families, but sometimes running is genuinely the best option. Bring attacked is different from just fighting people on the street because they said something to your woman. But I agree with the brother here, as men we should be ready and capable of violence, but also understand when to use it.

    • @coperniggus9314
      @coperniggus9314 Před rokem

      I doubt he really got that email or perhaps any of these emails from "sisters". He just needs video topics to make more shekels

    • @ahmedalmahdi2185
      @ahmedalmahdi2185 Před rokem +13

      This whole idea of protecting your wife on the street is a very stupid and shallow one. 99.9% of the time if there is an altercation, it is the woman's fault for inflaming it and letting her husband pay the price. This is why feminine women are needed, they do not cause problems and do not put their husband in the way of danger.

    • @shabzahmedshabzahmed1046
      @shabzahmedshabzahmed1046 Před rokem

      @@ahmedalmahdi2185 your ignorance is apparent, even for those sisters who keep to themselves, do you think they don't get attacked???!! do you think they're not targeted and looked at???

    • @ahmedalmahdi2185
      @ahmedalmahdi2185 Před rokem

      @@shabzahmedshabzahmed1046 Men are statistically greater victims of violence than women.

    • @ukush1
      @ukush1 Před rokem

      @@coperniggus9314 no I think he probably did. Like I said, in my opinion most women (and even a lot of men) don't understand what it's actually like out there

  • @waqstar7067
    @waqstar7067 Před rokem +1

    What's a beta

    • @roneddy
      @roneddy Před rokem

      Weak effeminate men who is agreeable in all situations, has no ambition etc

    • @Idris.1994.Norway
      @Idris.1994.Norway Před rokem +1

      Beta is a slang insult for or describing a man who is seen as passive, subservient, weak, and effeminate.

    • @waqstar7067
      @waqstar7067 Před rokem

      Bloody betas

    • @salmaanli6188
      @salmaanli6188 Před rokem +2

      Beta=Son desi word.

  • @bramkayser445
    @bramkayser445 Před rokem +2

    It is a bit of a cringe term. There is only one alpha that is God.

    • @bramkayser445
      @bramkayser445 Před rokem

      @@Aldisa-Safe1 No I don't believe in these terms.

    • @bramkayser445
      @bramkayser445 Před rokem

      I will try. I think they use these terms to describe men. Weak men= beta and strong men=alpha. Is this the answer you was looking for.

    • @Aldisa-Safe1
      @Aldisa-Safe1 Před rokem

      Yes thanks .All the best.

    • @MohammedAlAmriki
      @MohammedAlAmriki Před rokem

      Wth

    • @BD-hm3fb
      @BD-hm3fb Před 4 měsíci

      We don't attribute names to Allah that he hasn't given himself

  • @keifer7813
    @keifer7813 Před rokem +4

    Pretty weird question to use when vetting someone for marriage. I'm guessing the sister is a loudmouth who often gets into altercations with people. Avoid

    • @MAhmed-zs2vp
      @MAhmed-zs2vp Před rokem +9

      That's nonsense. She is ascertaining if the man has masculine tendencies or not

    • @melih1528
      @melih1528 Před rokem +3

      @@MAhmed-zs2vp Fr. A man needs insight and be able to react to unexpected trouble in a good way.

    • @MAhmed-zs2vp
      @MAhmed-zs2vp Před rokem +3

      @@melih1528 he must be able to deal with savoury and unsavoury situations

    • @ghafranhaque7161
      @ghafranhaque7161 Před rokem +3

      Are you aware that assuming the worst about people is haraam?

    • @rimagweder2851
      @rimagweder2851 Před rokem

      Tbh she put it in a direct straight forward way, but it did reveal a lot. Asking if they believe in physically attacking someone to defend yourself or wait for the police is better

  • @abdullahahmad9300
    @abdullahahmad9300 Před rokem

    U only talk about physical aspects your definition about Man is not comprehensive

    • @ghafranhaque7161
      @ghafranhaque7161 Před rokem

      You only comment based on a few sentences. Not being agreeable which was one of the many things he mentioned, is related to the man's character, not only the physical aspect. If you truly fear Allah make sure you watch attentively this and other of his videos before passing judgements as the one you did.

    • @shygetsbuckets
      @shygetsbuckets Před rokem

      Akhi arguably it’s all about mentality

    • @shygetsbuckets
      @shygetsbuckets Před rokem

      If u have bought into the sedentary effeminate model that men are following today, then your mindset will not enable you to defend, take lead etc.
      If u have the mindset of a man who has duties and responsibilities then action will follow
      Gender roles are being confused and changed are to such a degree that has not been seen commonly in history
      In the past, in almost every society, men were taught how to be men

  • @omarabbas5959
    @omarabbas5959 Před rokem

    MUHAMMAD SAW never talked about this nonsense.

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