Can A Muslim R*pe his Wife?
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Brother Gabriel you have the worst viewers ever man. I mean looking at your comment section gives me genuine depression. All the people arguing like children. Emotional people not being able to accept a hard truth. It's not your fault brother. You clearly mentioned everything that needs to be mentioned in the video yet people argue in the comment section.
That’s what happens when you try placating both sides instead of taking a stand for the truth and declaring things as they should be.
CZcams comments are filled with people arguing. You must be born yesterday
@@takiyaazrin7562 I didn't know this is common among "Muslims".
These days Muslims are simply just rejecting authentic Hadiths. Maybe 10 years from now they will reject verses from the quran and still call them Muslims
Very good video Brother very very good.
Ma sha Allah great breakdown and good examples.
Looking at the comments, seems this video was desperately needed. Mashallah, married a man whose culture looks down upon demands and has a person “request” their wants & needs as well as he is Muslim. I don’t get headaches.😂
Well done brother Gabriel for explaining this in a holistic manner it's so beneficial.
He literally did not. He misrepresented what maritial rape means. The nikkah being consent has no relevance according to the term.
You need consent for every single sexual interaction or else it is mariatial rape and it is not enough if she just goes with it.
A man is also Islamically allowed to refuse provision for his wife if she does not give him intimacy which would fall under maritial rape since he is forcing her. The same with her being obligated to do it even if she doesnt feel like it.
@Akhawat21 disciplining her or threatening to divorce her is literally forcing. How do you not realise that? That is literally what would fall under marital rape do you even realise that?
Forcing and beating aren't even synonymous.
And yes you can force her reminding her of the punisment and sin is literally forcing as well. You can also stop providing if she refuses to fulfill your right of intimacy. That is forcing as well.
Stop trying to bring in some new religion.
A man is forced to provide for his wife by the islamic judge.
He is also fkrced by Allah. We are forced by Allah to pray,fast or we burn in Hell.
Stop preaching this new liberal bs.
Conseny isnt everything.
You dony need lifetime consent in Islam.
Also Lars Gule,a liberal professot deems it okay to have intercourse with a dog as long as it isnt harmed. Hypocritical because a dog cant consent so he said in this case it isnt required. Stop tqking your rwligion from a sociwty which has 72% of adultery commiting if not found out for men and 68% for women.(official statistics if America)
@@mehmet20003 I doubt if you've been with a girl before. "Even if she just goes along with it, that's still not enough" Lmao
@@hadi_you_tube learn how to read
Great Job Brother! very informative and useful understanding. I wanted to add if the wife/woman is showing a pattern of rejecting intimacy or weaponizing that then my advise is would be to start the process of divorce since that mean the affection and mercy has been lost in such relationship so it's better to act decisively when this pattern start before it turns into an ugly and long divorce. Peace!
We captured beautiful women for ransom. We decided to have sex with them but by observing 'azl (Withdrawing the male sexual organ before emission of semen to avoid-conception). We asked Allah's Messenger (ﷺ), and he said: It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Resurrection will be born.
Sahih Muslim 1438a
We have seen that would beat the women in the afternoon and then goes to bed with her in the evening while she is bruised up, wow this is complete eye opening for some people in the eastern part of Africa 😮😢hope they can hear this and repent sooner
Translation of Surah Ar-Rum verse 21: "And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought."
May Allah bless you brother, the fact that this still needs to be clarified is terrifying, I'm not going to lie, people want to make what is haram halal based on their desires, just as women are guilty of this (denying their spouse of intimacy with no valid reason) so are men (justifying martial abuse because lack of self-control)...may Allah guide us all
He literally misrepresented maritial rape.
Maritial rape is without consent and the nikkah is not considered consent for the whole marriage according to the definition. It always has to be on consent.
Maritial rape is not just beating her but making her oblige by telling her she is sinning.
Her having to give intimacy even when she doesnt want it which is obligatory on her.
The men being able to stop providing for her if she refuses him intimacy would also be maritial rape since you force her.
@Jihadiconqueror21 r*pe is haram, full stop, anyone who says otherwise is innovating
@Jihadiconqueror21 incorrect, r*** is haram because it causes harm even in this context, we are definitely on topic, idk why you went to zina
@@aishax01 rape and maritial rape are completly different. Rape is not haram bc it just causes harm. Rape can also not cause any harm or the women could end up enjoying it and it would still be haram.
Maritial rape does not exist in Islam
Marital grape doesnt exist in Islam.
There is no hadd because it is isnt "grape". Grape is only for graping a free muslim woman,dhimmi.
Treatment of your wives is relative to the standards of the society you live in. You are not permitted to cause undue harm and you do not have absolute knowledge of what is and isn't harmful either physically or psychologically.
Taqwa is most important. When you remember to think before an action, "How does this specific act please Allah, and how will I explain this on the day of judgement?", you are less likely to do harm to others with your actions.
Think long and hard before you do questionable things and consult scholars in your community who can advise you based on the condition of your community. Do not follow your desires into the hellfire just because something you wanted to do was not explicitly haram.
So many angry comments here shows how your wives reject you. Makes me wonder how good youre actually at it. Why would you be rejected if she enjoys it ?!!
Women are never satisfied or happy so what taking about ? You can’t be in constant happiness all the time 😂
@@IbrahimHassanDayTradeimagine using that as a justification on how bad you're lololol
pathetic
Look she has no right to reject without valid excuse....men should kick such wives out.
@@IbrahimHassanDayTradeonly someone who can't satisfy his wife would say that😂😂 don't embarrass yourself
@@murtaza9906same is true vice versa. She shouldn't be with someone that can't satisfy her
By the way Eid mubrak Al Romani 🙏
سلام عليكم..
What we know is violence is Haram .
As you say Islam dealing with every aspect of life .
Who wants Angels Curse ?
Islam ☪️ سبحان الله العظيم is Perfect 🥰 💞
A Muslim women never say no to her husband to have sex. If women say no to her husband then she committ a major sin. Islam give duties to the husband to provide, protect, and treat nicely to his wife, and the same thing it gives duty to the wife to fulfill his sexual needs and to protect her dignity and his dignity
There is no harm in a man having intercourse with two of his slave girls before he does shower. It is disapproved of, however, to go to a freewoman on another's day. There is no harm in making love first to one slave girl and then to another without shower.
Muwatta Malik, Book 2, Hadith 90
I'm a Muslim, this is the most machist thing I've ever heard. Women can work and have sex whenever they want and not, it is their right, love goes beyond sex, if your wife is not healthy and is old would you love her above your carnal desire? I remind you many Muslim women are students and providers. A lot Muslim men are clinging to this Dunya for having sex as much as possible, Allah hates people having addictions, if you cling to this dune, Moderation and loving your wife without limits, I think you would do her a great favor
Marital rape is not recognized in Islam. The idea is a secular one. To even use the term as a concept to describe forcing oneself upon the wife gives it validity and normalizes it as a concept-which it is not. You need to do better Gabriel and stop being afraid of angering Muslim women so much.
Saudi abolished slavery in 1962
Is it not rape when you force intimacy on someone ?
@@Cynical.safia2 It is not forced when you’re married because consent is given at the time of nikah.
What are you yapping? We are speaking English so we use English terms😂
@JamesBond-wv9xz consent isn't a one time thing. Everyone always has the right to their own body. That's a right no other person will have fully have
I don't know why but your videos are not showing on the front page :)
It destroys one's marriage
What s the story of the samurai sword
Both parties spouses MUST AGREE say yes and respect one another's limits and health issues 😢you cannot wake up someone in the middle of their relax8ng calm sleep at 3AM astaghfurullah 😂rasoul Allah would never do such thing, it's idiotic to think other wise, why are we even talking about this, we'll, it must be addressed I guess😊
Islam enjoins a Muslim to show kindness to others and even more so to his wife. I don't see how raping one's wife goes along with that.
Even if marital rape is not specifically addressed in the Shariah, one must use their 'aql and hikmah. Why does you wife not want to be intimate with you? Perhaps you have not learned how to approach a woman in a way that she will want you (in that case please read up on that) or you have criticised and argued with her all day and at the end of it you expect to get some sexual gratification from her. Also ask yourself how is raping your wife going to lead to a good marriage? Do you think your wife will want to take care of you, cook for you, iron your clothes etc. after you brutalised her? That's just so messed up and not the Prophetic rolemodel at all!
It's really sad that some ignorant men think this is what our religion is about subhanAllah. May Allah guide our Ummah.
@@ummisra We captured beautiful women for ransom. We decided to have sex with them but by observing 'azl (Withdrawing the male sexual organ before emission of semen to avoid-conception). We asked Allah's Messenger (ﷺ), and he said: It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Resurrection will be born.
Sahih Muslim 1438a
@@ummisranot to mention that if a man forces himself on his wife there is a high chance of damaging her internal organs 😪 look up Vaginismus
As a man, about to get married, has no intention to force myself upon my wife. But if she refuses without any excuse.
She will be admonished, then , divorced if she doesn't correct her mistakes.
Quick advice. If it’s just here and there she rejects or hardly ever, but sometimes, don’t go down the route u just mentioned. But if it’s basically a sexless marriage where she does not give u anything at all then you can take some action (not rape).
@@user-lt3fh9ey2v I'd say I'll come to an agreement if it is less than 3 times a week.
@taimurahmad I think this is not about can or can't, I just don't want to do it. But yes, I directly found no evidence that under normal circumstances,'marital rape' is haram.
True I just hope I am not put in a siatuation like this.
Yea you are right. No one wants to use this approach unless as a last resort
@@murtaza9906 We captured beautiful women for ransom. We decided to have sex with them but by observing 'azl (Withdrawing the male sexual organ before emission of semen to avoid-conception). We asked Allah's Messenger (ﷺ), and he said: It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Resurrection will be born.
Sahih Muslim 1438a
You're no scholar. Know your place.
{ولا تَقُولُوا۟ لِمَا تَصِفُ أَلْسِنَتُكُمُ ٱلْكَذِبَ هَـٰذَا حَلَـٰلٌۭ وَهَـٰذَا حَرَامٌۭ لِّتَفْتَرُوا۟ عَلَى ٱللَّهِ ٱلْكَذِبَ ۚ إِنَّ ٱلَّذِينَ يَفْتَرُونَ عَلَى ٱللَّهِ ٱلْكَذِبَ لَا يُفْلِحُونَ} (النحل/116)
{Do not falsely declare with your tongues, “This is lawful, and that is unlawful,” ˹only˺ fabricating lies against Allah. Indeed, those who fabricate lies against Allah will never succeed.} [Surah An-Nahl-116]
Neither you anonymous brother.
@@bhsecurity
Obviously. That's why I'm not going around issuing fatwas of my own, unlike a certain someone.
@@kojo2773if your going say something like provide claim and source
Only solution is polygyny
advice for women that wants to marry. seeing the comments maybe you should brought up this conversation before getting married 😂😂😂
and watch out if he uses the religion and vaguely quoting stuff here n there without knowledge just to justify his position.
There is no harm in a man having intercourse with two of his slave girls before he does shower. It is disapproved of, however, to go to a freewoman on another's day. There is no harm in making love first to one slave girl and then to another without shower.
Muwatta Malik, Book 2, Hadith 90
Yes, men should not force themselves upon their wives. Neither shall wives needlessly reject their husband's advances.
Both spouses must strive to be a little selfless at times and focus on the others needs.
At the end of the day, marriage is for companianship and support so we help each other to stay on the right path and not fall into haraam
We captured beautiful women for ransom. We decided to have sex with them but by observing 'azl (Withdrawing the male sexual organ before emission of semen to avoid-conception). We asked Allah's Messenger (ﷺ), and he said: It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Resurrection will be born.
Sahih Muslim 1438a
guys just dont spend on her if she is refusing
There is no harm in a man having intercourse with two of his slave girls before he does shower. It is disapproved of, however, to go to a freewoman on another's day. There is no harm in making love first to one slave girl and then to another without shower.
Muwatta Malik, Book 2, Hadith 90
It's haram to not spend on her actually...
@@takiyaazrin7562 Do we have slaves today? Slavery is only allowed during wars in Islam.
I am totally shocked that people even should discuss these things. Ofcourse we can't force someone to be intimate. That's why the religion mentions the angels will curse. It's mean you can't force. That would be psychologically horrible. Than man and wife should create a good intimicy. Talk about their needs and enjoy together. Sometimes womans want more intercourse than the men and sometimes the opposite. Not good to refuse a lot ofcourse but talk with each other. Maybe their is an issue that's need to be solved.
They are not animals.. you need to create feelings
Put on the hijab then preach
@@biggsubz3122 You dont decide if I can reply or not
@karimabelhajla5976 you don't get the privilege of talking about Islamic matters if you're not adhering to a basic command from Allah like hijab, You don't belong here nor does anything you say matter unless you adhere to the hijab. Go jump onto another thread
@@biggsubz3122 So if a man doesn't were a beard he can not talk about Islam? Because it"s from the religion? Do you have any proof that someone who does't were a hijab can't participate in a discussion?
Consent as it's known in the world today it is a secular concept. If the wife does not have a valid shari'ah reason to reject intercourse such as menses or she is unable to due medical issue where it will cause imminent harm - islamically there is NO basis for a woman to reject her husband's advances.
Allah said:
"Your wives are a place of cultivation [i.e., sowing of seed] for you, so come to your place of cultivation however you wish and put forth [righteousness] for yourselves. And fear Allāh and know that you will meet Him. And give good tidings to the believers."
نِسَآؤُكُمْ حَرْثٌۭ لَّكُمْ فَأْتُوا۟ حَرْثَكُمْ أَنَّىٰ شِئْتُمْ ۖ وَقَدِّمُوا۟ لِأَنفُسِكُمْ ۚ وَٱتَّقُوا۟ ٱللَّهَ وَٱعْلَمُوٓا۟ أَنَّكُم مُّلَـٰقُوهُ ۗ وَبَشِّرِ ٱلْمُؤْمِنِينَ ٢٢٣
There is even a hadith where a newly married woman came to complain of her new husband and didn't want to have sex with him. The Prophet peace be upon him told her she cannot even get divorced and re married until she had sex with the current husband whom she didn't want.
A'isha (Allah he pleased with her) reported:
There came the wife of Rifa'a to Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) and said: I was married to Rifa'a but he divorced me, making may divorce irrevocable. Afterwards I married Abd al-Rahman b. al-Zubair, but all he possesses is like the fringe of a garment (i. e. he is sexually weak). Thereupon Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) smiled, and said: Do you wish to return to Rifa'a. (You) cannot (do it) until you have tasted his sweetness and he ('Abd al-Rahman) has tasted your sweetness. Abu Bakr was at that time near him (the Holy Prophet) and Khalid (b. Sa'id) was at the door waiting for the permission to be granted to him to enter), He (Khalid) said; Abu Bakr, do you hear what she is saying loudly in the presence of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)?
حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ، وَعَمْرٌو النَّاقِدُ، - وَاللَّفْظُ لِعَمْرٍو - قَالاَ حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ جَاءَتِ امْرَأَةُ رِفَاعَةَ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقَالَتْ كُنْتُ عِنْدَ رِفَاعَةَ فَطَلَّقَنِي فَبَتَّ طَلاَقِي فَتَزَوَّجْتُ عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ الزَّبِيرِ وَإِنَّ مَا مَعَهُ مِثْلُ هُدْبَةِ الثَّوْبِ فَتَبَسَّمَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقَالَ " أَتُرِيدِينَ أَنْ تَرْجِعِي إِلَى رِفَاعَةَ لاَ حَتَّى تَذُوقِي عُسَيْلَتَهُ وَيَذُوقَ عُسَيْلَتَكِ " . قَالَتْ وَأَبُو بَكْرٍ عِنْدَهُ وَخَالِدٌ بِالْبَابِ يَنْتَظِرُ أَنْ يُؤْذَنَ لَهُ فَنَادَى يَا أَبَا بَكْرٍ أَلاَ تَسْمَعُ هَذِهِ مَا تَجْهَرُ بِهِ عِنْدَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم .
Reference : Sahih Muslim 1433a
Bottom line, intimacy is a husband's right just like the women have their rights. In some cases she cannot even legally divorce and remarry without having sex with the one she doesn't want to have sex with. And Allah knows best.
I know many couples who got divorced before they even touched each other. Who told that they can not ger divorced??
@ST-tt8bg @ST-tt8bg A husband having sex with his wife is not force, unless she has a valid shari'ah excuse. The sunnah is to do foreplay and say nice things to her also. Having to ask for permission is very beta and a western concept. Nothing to do with Islam at all. If you need to ask permission for intercourse your marriage is questionable at best and you should check your manhood. In the very least it means your wife has no respect for you.
@zaze8376 The hadith I posted and the Qur'an is proof that if the divorce is final (3 talaaq) then she cannot remarry that man unless she consummated marriage with a new husband first.
"Allah says (in translation):
“And if he has divorced her (the third time), then she is not lawful unto him thereafter until she has married another husband” [al-Baqarah 2:230]
فَإِن طَلَّقَهَا فَلَا تَحِلُّ لَهُۥ مِنۢ بَعْدُ حَتَّىٰ تَنكِحَ زَوْجًا غَيْرَهُۥ ۗ فَإِن طَلَّقَهَا فَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْهِمَآ أَن يَتَرَاجَعَآ إِن ظَنَّآ أَن يُقِيمَا حُدُودَ ٱللَّهِ ۗ وَتِلْكَ حُدُودُ ٱللَّهِ يُبَيِّنُهَا لِقَوْمٍۢ يَعْلَمُونَ ٢٣٠
The whole point of marriage is to get consent for intercourse, so the nikah itself is the consent. Assuming there is no valid Shari'ah prevention. Wanting to deprive someone of their Islamic right is not a valid shari'ah reason. So people should not get married and be alone together unless they are prepared for intercourse, which is a key part of marriage.
@@bd-456 Who said anything about old husband forcing himself on her? That's not what was said so dont assume it. What was said was in Islamic law if she divorces old husband who treated her good and its final (3 talaaq). The she marries someone new and decides she doesn't want to have sex with the new husband, rather she wants to divorce the new husband return to the old one who treated her well.
She is not even allowed to remarry the old husband unless she has sex with the new husband who she doesn't want to have sex with. In other words, she has to have sex with the one she doesn't want and only after that can she legally get divorced and go back to the old husband. So it's understood intimacy is part of the deal in marriage.
Woman's feelings are not a valid shari'ah excuse to deny intimacy in marriage just as man's feelings is not a valid shari'ah excuse to deny housing and sustenance to his wife.
Imagine a woman comes into marriage expecting a roof over her head, food and clothing. And some days husband says, "sorry I don't feel like it today". Is that a valid shari'ah excuse?
I personally think if a woman thinks she can deny intimacy in marriage because "she feels like it" she is trash and should be divorced promptly. Likewise for the husband who thinks his feelings dictate whether or not he needs to provide for his family. That's not how Islam works.
Being "forced" to provide for ur family is part of marriage for men, nobody denies this. For women it's similar although their obligations are different. But going in everyone knows the obligations of marriage, so "force" is the wrong word - since theres no compulsion in religion.
In reality marriage equals consent just as marriage equals a woman's right to be provided for. If you know that going in, then it's not by "force". Rather, it's simply submission to what Allah and the Messenger came with which equals obedience to the husband and the wifes rights being met also.
It was narrated that ‘Abd-Allah ibn Abi Awfa (may Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “By the One in Whose hand is the soul of Muhammad, no woman can fulfil her duty towards Allah until she fulfils her duty towards her husband. If he asks her (for intimacy) even if she is on her camel saddle, she should not refuse.”
Narrated by Ibn Maajah (1853);
@@MiloBozyou need to learn the difference between consent and force. He does not need consent but if you have to grab, pull, push, hold down then that’s abuse and that’s haram.
The video actually proves that there IS consent w/in the marital relationship, even with claims to the contrary. A woman who has sex with her husband, even if she doesn't want to, is consenting. Rape means no consent and he does it anyway.
Asalam Aleikum Warahmatullahi wabarakat, Brother Gabriel are you married???
Nikah is consent, that's your answer right there.
bro think Nikah=sex
@@chanito1059 nikah = consent
@@chanito1059 I mean that is literally one of the reasons marriage can be obligatory for you
Yes, however a man is sinning if he's forcefully pinning a disobedient wife who herself is sinning for denying.
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First of all if wife refused simple divorced if she not fulfilling his right you are free to go
You can force your wife, but then do not be shocked when the love is gone and she resents you. Lol
Exactly. These people are extremely low in empathy
But if you can make her reach orgasm, she may get more submissive lol.
@@MH-bf4uu We captured beautiful women for ransom. We decided to have sex with them but by observing 'azl (Withdrawing the male sexual organ before emission of semen to avoid-conception). We asked Allah's Messenger (ﷺ), and he said: It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Resurrection will be born.
Sahih Muslim 1438a
Dont also be shocked when your husband gets a secret second wife because of your intimacy refusing problems and throwa you out because you dont deserve a marriage
@@taimurahmad well said bruh .
Quran Surah 2:223 ayat refers to positions after the clarification was given that anal intercouse is HARAM. Further more the ayat warms men of not doing something that will caused Allah's anger and land them in hell fire. "... but take heed of your ultimate future and avoid incurring the wrath of Allah. Know well that one Day you shall face Him..." Rape involved violence and it causes harm and pain to the victim being rape and this alone will incurred the wrath of Allah.
Can you tell me what is the punishment of this so-called "marital r***" islamically?
@@bd-456divorce and get a new wife
St.
I have one q for you.
Is consent required for female slave in Islaam??
@@bd-456 let me rephrase it for you
Wife should get khula, if she is withholding it without any Islamic valid reason
@@bd-456 instead, I don't think you are Muslim.
Don't you know that India has the largest Muslim population??
Yeah, she should take Khula but Mehar certainly is not "cheap" in no way.
A wife should not deny her husband sex unless she is unwell or he has slept with someone and she is concerned about a sexually transmitted disease. A lot if things are happening in the muslim ummah unfortunately.
She can if she's tired. Or from time to time
@@MH-bf4uu except she can't, unless it harms her physically.
Also brothers take mire wives without ensuring that the relevant tests are done to secure the existing wife.
The reason we have all this confusion is because marital rape is a relatively a new western concept which flower dawah muftis and those in dawah work have adopted to try and explain the bad behaviour of some men in islamic marriages. By doing so, they are forgetting the laws of Allah and and the right afforded to men and women in islam. Strange times.
That word is being used purposefully to pass western laws in muslim countries.
No sister should deny sexual intercourse with her husband unless she is unwell or he has slept with someone and she is concerned about a sexually transmitted disease.
for the algorithm
In Islam, it is permissible for the husband to force his wife to intimacy.
Proof:
"نعم له وطؤها جبرا إذا امتنعت بلا مانع شرعي، وليس لها إجباره على الوطء"
Source: Radd al-Muhtār 'ala al-Durr al-Mukhtār by Ibn 'Abidin.
Keep in mind, Islam doesn't care about your opinion. Someone as unqualified as you shouldn't be speaking on such religious matters. Muslims must always refer back to scholars and the earlier (closer to the prophet's time) a scholar is, the more accurate they are.
‘Abd Khayr reported: Ali ibn Abi Talib, may Allah be pleased with him, said, “If the religion were based upon one’s opinion, one might expect the bottom of the leather sock to be wiped instead of the top. I have seen the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, wiping over the upper part of his leather socks.”
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 162
Translate the Arabic into English for me please
Imam shafi said the opposite;
“As for the matter of intercourse, it’s position is one of pleasure and NO ONE can be forced into it”
-Kitab Al Umm
I’d rather follow the opinion of imam shafi who is part of the salaf, then this random jurist who was born after America was created.
Again as you said, since imam shafi is more close to the prophets time he is more accurate then the person you have cited who was born after America was created.
@@williamschwarz9651 Forced sexual intercourse is not 'haram.' Yes, it may be dislikable, but it is not 'haram.' Furthermore, there is no such thing as marital rape in Islam. If both the husband and wife engage in intercourse even without the wife's consent, it is considered halal because 'haram' is when they engage in sexual relations outside of marriage.
Here is the reference from Quran; 2:223...
نِسَاؤُكُمْ حَرْثٌ لَّكُمْ فَأْتُوا حَرْثَكُمْ أَنَّى شِلتُم وَقَدِّمُوا لِأَنفُسِكُمْ وَأَتْقُوا اللَّهَ وَاعْلَمُوا أَنَّكُم مُلْقُوةٌ وَبَشِّرِ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ
Translation...
Your wives are like farmlands for you, so go into your farmlands however you wish but take heed of your ultimate future. And avoid incurring the wrath of Allah. Know well that one day you shall face Him. And give good news to the believers.
⚠️; Now notice that what Allah SWT says in the Quran; your wives are like farmlands for you, so go into your farmlands as you wish. It doesn't say that 'as you and your wife' wish, but rather it refers to the wishes of 'you,' the husband only, It doesn't mention anything about considering the consent of the wives.
@@Rational771so if your wife says I’m not in the mood and leaves your bedside you will chase after her and force yourself into her while she scribes and screams “stop” “I don’t want it”? 😐 seriously asking what would you in this exact scenario?
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Kindness is better even the scholars whosay it is permissible say so. Baseline of everything is permissibility.
We are talking about permissibility.
If the woman is persistent in this behavior and the man is resorting to other means,then it is allowed ofcoursr to be forceful becquse it is bwtter then doing haram.
Baseline is to ofcourse be kind but if this is persistent then this is a problem.
Also there is no such thing as marital rape in Islam as marriage is lifetime consent.
A woman can take from her husband's wealth without his permission if basic needs are not met.
Same concept here.
Some sisters create their own problems then complain.
Women usually reject intimacy because men are not emotionally available and not high in empathy. These are very important for women
@@MH-bf4uu you've been with all of us? Lol. Nowhere in the Quran or hadith is it written where all of this is necessary.
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marriage is a contract: both parties have to fulfill their duties. if a woman does not fulfill her duties then the husband can marry another woman or divorce the wife. if a man does not fulfill his duties then she can refuse herself and there are no consequences so the hadith about the angels cursing the wife is not valid
A man can also just stop providing.
And the hadith is sahih stop talking without knowledge what no consequences
imagine having to ask your soil for consent before planting seed
This special soil has feelings .
This comment is so ignorant that I had to go back to it. Everything has its own terms and conditions . Soils too. A time when it's fertile ,a time when you can enter it & a time when you can plant the seed. Will you force yourself into your woman while shes bleeding ? Means you actually have to ask her if shes on her menses or not . So arrognt to not ask her if she want you or not. You asked for her hand in marriage ,right ? You had to hunble yourself for that, put your head down and go to her parents ,family and bring yours too. You spoke to her parents that you'll force yourself into her ? Rasulullah said "when you intend to be intimate with your woman ,send forth a messenger " I.e kisses ,affection, attention, softness, warmth ,as to open her up and make it pleasurable for her . Seems you don't need these ,but never can you take something by force even if it's yours, especially something so intimate and special. May Allah guide us and grant us wisdom and understanding of his pure deen. Ameen
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Brother it is not rape. There is no such thing as marital grape. A better title would be "Is forcing your wife to intimacy" allowed. The hadd is for graping a free woman qho is not your wife,or dhimmi woman,not for forced intimacy with your wife...
There is a difference of opinion...
We are speaking English. In the English language, forcing yourself on a woman who doesn’t want it is called *ape. 🙄 Learn how to use the meanings of the language you’re actually speaking instead of trying to change it to suit your personal purposes.
That is the western definition of rape.
Islamically rape is only with non mahram. There is no hadd on thr husband for forced intimacy.
Also there is a very dark and negative connotation associated with the word grape.
For example a wife may continually refuse intimacy which results in doing more haram by husband im this case he may be forceful so he doesnt commit haram.
Rape has a very negative connotation and pwople hate graypists,however this only applies to non mahram grape accordimg to islaaam
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The word "marital r***" is being used purposefully to pass certain western laws in muslim countries.
Islamicly there is no such thing because it doesn't have the same punishment as normal r***.
@@taimurahmad Ok well he’s speaking English and he used the correct word for what he was talking about.
No sister these terms can be misleading. For example prayer to muslims means salaah but to non muslims it something else. Similarly God for them is a trinity,but for us we mean Allah when we say God.
It is better to avoid misleading terminology
In consideration of history,"marital rape" is a new terminology arising only in the 1970s. So this is an incorrect term to use for a husband who appliea force because this is not "rape'
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haha... Under islam law.... which is illegal..
As did the xtians....
And in christianity what is all wrong is righy@@briendoyle4680
Forced sexual intercourse is not 'haram.' Yes, it may be dislikable, but it is not 'haram.' Furthermore, there is no such thing as marital rape in Islam. If both the husband and wife engage in intercourse even without the wife's consent, it is considered halal because 'haram' is when they engage in sexual relations outside of marriage.
Here is the reference from Quran; 2:223...
نِسَاؤُكُمْ حَرْثٌ لَّكُمْ فَأْتُوا حَرْثَكُمْ أَنَّى شِلتُم وَقَدِّمُوا لِأَنفُسِكُمْ وَأَتْقُوا اللَّهَ وَاعْلَمُوا أَنَّكُم مُلْقُوةٌ وَبَشِّرِ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ
Translation...
Your wives are like farmlands for you, so go into your farmlands however you wish but take heed of your ultimate future. And avoid incurring the wrath of Allah. Know well that one day you shall face Him. And give good news to the believers.
⚠️; Now notice that what Allah SWT says in the Quran; your wives are like farmlands for you, so go into your farmlands as you wish. It doesn't say that 'as you and your wife' wish, but rather it refers to the wishes of 'you,' the husband only, It doesn't mention anything about considering the consent of the wives.
You need help. If ur wife doesn’t want you, there’s steps to follow if ur a civilised human being. If you’re not and rather hurt and force yourself on a woman who doesn’t want you… you don’t deserve a spouse or the responsibility of taking care of a woamn.
FYI, rape does serious physical damage to a woman internally. In what world do you think Islam would allow that. Get help, seriously. In that case, it would be haram.
We, Muslims,, have to respect the wife's request when she has valid reason not to have sex.
Be caring. Find out the problem she faced. Men are to take care of the well-being of the women.
This is our responsibility.
@Jihadiconqueror21f you force you may hurt the woman ,you may not hurt her physically ,but there is possibility ,and if you do this often it may have consequences for the woman ,you must remember it too .women are very vulnerable.Keep it in mind
@Jihadiconqueror21 lol, you’re the funny one. Good luck finding a wife and keeping her. Interesting how any opinion that comes from a woman is deemed emotional to you isn’t it.. especially since Gabriel is saying the exact same thing yet don’t see you coming at him for speaking emotionally. And the way you’re interpreting that ayah to suggest hurting your wife is allowed is beyond disturbing and disgusting. Trust me, you got issues.
@Jihadiconqueror21 and that's what people don't understand. A valid reason is needed, otherwise consent is given and sexual intimacy should be permitted.