How INFPs Stop Feeling Defective

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  • čas přidán 20. 08. 2024
  • INFPs and Enneagram 4s often carry feelings of Defectiveness, a schema in which they chronically doubt their own worth or rights.
    #infp #infps
    While others love to go out and party, you love to go inwards. My name is Erik Thor and I've been a dreamer all my life. In this channel, we talk about the inner world of dreams, journalling, self-discovery, and creativity. So release your inner Amelie from Montmarte and let's sit down and introspect together.
    Maybe you've been feeling it. The call to minimalism, to size down, to live a more easy, and comfortable life, away from the busy noise of the bustling city, away from the high demands and stress of ambition and work. Perhaps you're looking for something deeper and more meaningful.
    Being a dreamer isn't always easy. It can often feel like you're pressured by the world to be somebody else than who you are. To be more practical, to be more successful, to work harder, and to be more ambitious. But that's not for you. You'd love to dedicate the rest of your life to your creative pursuits. If you need help with that, I'm here.
    Join the community!
    / erikthor

Komentáře • 9

  • @wewrestlenot
    @wewrestlenot Před 4 měsíci +4

    ❤ Thank you. Always spot on! I wonder how childhood trauma impacts INFP 😔

  • @SchrodingersKitties
    @SchrodingersKitties Před 3 měsíci +2

    Te inferior is brutal 💀 Thank you for this advice.

  • @nathanwood4762
    @nathanwood4762 Před 4 měsíci +4

    I misread the title and thought it said detective. Please release the detective INFP video.
    Also, I am more and more convinced that I picked up counterproductive beliefs from my parents.
    Looking back, the beliefs my parents taught me seem preposterous, but I depended on my parents, and they were adamant that I didn't understand why they were right, and that what I wanted was never the point. I can consciously say I do not believe most of those things now, but have moments when I realize that those beliefs are built into my body language, my choice in words, my work life, the way I let friends mistreat me, the clothes I wear, my habits, how I arrange my home, the chores I neglect, the way in which I apply abstract concepts to my understanding of the world. It's very discouraging to see that I've been hitting my head against the wall for years based on things I know are untrue, but I am still programmed to embody in my life.

    • @acaciaesp
      @acaciaesp Před 4 měsíci

      whoa same…. I initially read detective too

    • @actualizedinfp
      @actualizedinfp  Před 2 měsíci

      But why would you wanna stop being a detective? :D

  • @marvinfoo9544
    @marvinfoo9544 Před 3 měsíci +4

    how infp stop feeling defective? Just give me 1 million dollar.
    -infp

  • @rynkhm5875
    @rynkhm5875 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much for these videos. They help me in so many ways

  • @Таволга
    @Таволга Před 4 měsíci

    Спасибо за поддержку Эрик!)