Red Flags: 8 Types of People to Avoid in Christian Dating and Marriage (Proverbs
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- By studying Proverbs 26:12-28, Christians can discover 8 types of people to avoid in relationships like friendship, dating, and marriage.
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1. A Legend or Wise in his own eyes. Believes he's always right.
2. They have excuses for doing the right thing.
3. Sluggers/lazy people
4. Avoid people who think they are smarter than everyone else.
5. Drama lovers - looking for problems.
6. Cynical and sarcastic, passive-agressive.
7. A Gossiper
8. Smooth talker to deceive.
Nice summary! Thanks for this :)
That's a narcissistic person 100%. they will use you as their source, then move on when you are depleted.
thanks for summarizing
that funny
It's interesting - what if we fit into a few of them??
This was really good-- looked at it as a self check rather than a spouse check
Very wise decision
Same here.
Same
Uhhh that is such a good idea. Gotta have the same traits you expect in the other person.
Yes, I am very flawed
The Single people walking 🚶♀️ with GOD need to understand the singleness IS YOUR BLESSING before it’s too late!
RIGHT! Singleness is a blessing because it gives you the time to invest in yourself!
I'm so glad I watched this, I'm looking at my own life so that I'm not one of the 8 types of people you have described. May God richly bless you
Michelle Bingepinge amen! And may God richly bless you as well :)
im doing that too god bless
Exactly thats what i was doing. Checking myself
I used to be number one. Now I know I have faults, one of them being; I overthinking small things that may not even mean anything and its making me feel overwhelmed, anxious and stressed. Currently I have a lot going on with my life with the Navy, school, and work. May I get some prayers please? If you pray for me thank you. But don’t pray that I get an easier load. Pray that God can help me deal with this heavy load.
God bless you Mark. Your channel is God's tool to heal me from brokenness. For 3 long years I was in a relationship with a guy with these things you are talking about. It was a great mistake to enter his den but God is good enough to take me out of it.
Amen, the Lord is faithful
Good comments Ms. Cressy. I'm a man who used to be "open sexually" with women...until I read the Bible 3-4 times over. It's hard work...it's worth finding a worthy Christian spouse inevitably.
You sound a lot like the number 8 of the Red Flags "smooth talker to deceive people" @@frankfromupstateny3796 . Many Narcissistic guys are lurking around, searching for a pretty, empathetic Christian woman as a new source of supply, I hope you're not one of them... As for being hard work not to sleep around, pray and fast and get your strength from the Lord. Don't be deceived into thinking that you can do it yourself, lean on the Holy Spirit instead.
thank God you are saved, God Bless truly
I wish I knew these truths when i was younger. But We must teach our children how to pick their friends and what types of people to avoid as friends and for a relationship.
I almost cried when you brought up sarcasm since I’m known for being a jokester but it’s heathy and super light heart so thankfully you cleared that up.
Ditty C same lol 😂
We can avoid people who are too judgy towards us.
True
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger what if im a sincere believer and im actually trying to learn to desire God and cut out sin in my life, but im about 4 out of 8 of these things myself??
You need to choose your mate wisely. There's no rule that you have to be with everyone possible. We can avoid judging but also recognize that we shouldn't be with them.
I wish I knew this 10 years ago😧...
So glad I watched this! That verse in Proverbs about joking... I am gonna be tossing that around quite a bit now that I recognize it. I have too many people around me who like to "joke" and say they were not being serious when in reality they are being hurtful.
Mark Ballenger I've been the victim of all 8 of these, I'm sorry to say. I'm even related to people who are like these. Members of my own family have spread lies about me throughout the years and have been successful in getting people turned against me. They even set me up and had me arrested for a crime I didn't commit. Don't always believe everything people tell you about someone. Just use good judgement.
LifeBeginsWithChrist well said thank you and God bless you
@LifeBeginsWithChrist OMG so true and remember she probably didn't even love herself.
I am in the same situation
I'm not afraid to admit I'm most of these.. My gf and I broke up... I had to self-reflect... I needed help. So I prayed... and even though right now I'm learning to change myself. It's difficult.... jeez. I really needed this... Thank you God for this...
Pray for me... I'm going for a year long missionary trip. Trying to reset my life. And hopefully be more aware of what I'm doing in order to Glorify God... Thank you Mark and God...
Passive-Agressive men. We shouldn't definitely not ever initiate a relationship with one. That type of man is avoidance addicted, mean at his core, and has no desire to ever be honest, only über-
controlling, in an oh, so cruel and underhanded way. He is not prone to develop the important skill of handling disagreements in a kind, direct, and mature way. This is from personal experience.
Tanya Dixon wow well said i agree God bless you
And women too
And they come as an angel of light.
Wow sounds like my ex
True
My ex husband has all these negative traits. I pray for him and his family! 🙏🕊 #onetouchfromGod
I feel like I keep attracting all of these kinds of people! It's so annoying! I know that I am a good person although not perfect. Regardless I feel that I still deserve healthier people around me and in my life.
Wow man thank you so much you’ve really convicted me of my gossiping, arrogance and pride, double standards, unhealthy sarcasm, laziness, and a selfish take and not give at times perspective - your words on giving strength to your spouse not being needy (might of been another of your videos) was really helpful and convicting too. Thank you so much for your work!
Would it be possible for future videos to have words on the screen for each point? e.g 1. ‘Do not date people with double standards’
Cheers brother in Christ!! Love and prayers to you man!! ❤️
Guarding my heart
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This makes for a wonderful filter to determine "who is who" in ones life and decide if "Goodbye" is the right thing to say to those that meet this list. Thank you Mark!
Amen Rose :)
Thank you for your biblical postings, they have been helping me get closer to Christ.
Wow this video really had a huge positive impact on me because there are so many toxic people out there and it's so important to avoid them because in the end they will drag you down! Who you hang around is who you become!
Life is so mysterious. Everything we think, we do, and we say have power to destroy or influence other people.
Yes. But with the help of the Holy Spirit we can develop a peaceful life in such a way that we do not give any offense to anybody. Humbleness is the very most important thing we need to get and maintain.
The 2nd Timothy verse literally freaking slapped me cuz I’ve started to change various things and Mature and that just describes what god has been putting on my heart
Amen! I'm so glad word is speaking to you!
Thank you for opening my eyes with the words of the Lord. ✨🙏✨
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Thank you very much Mark. I was seeing someone who had a lot of these qualities. I ended the relationship but wondered if I made the right decision. This confirms it for me.
YES THOSE ARE THE PERFECT EXAMPLES. Love how you used Proverbs for that. Now I can study it myself 🙏
Hi, enjoy listening to all of the bible verses. I am constantly learning and growing daily. Thank you, TO GOD BE THE GLORY !
🌸 first one, 4, 6 & number 8 you described is narcissistic personality lol
Also many more even worse traits like no empathy, finding joy in hurting others
I'm a victim of this. My husband is one :(
GOOD ADVICE -THNKS^
This is incredible. I've been reading through the Proverbs every day this month and thinking about a lot of these things. I like how you condensed some of those ideas in this video and related them to relationships and friendships. Thanks Mark!
I've been watching these videos since the channel began and I'm so happy to see the growth! ❤ Praise God!!
Hard pill to swallow, but I am apart of this list. Thank you, Lord, for guiding me here.
We all fall short of the glory of God, but thankfully God's grace can transform us when submit to him :)
Timely!I needed to hear this!Praise God for the wisdom!🙏
TRUTH Straight up!!Thank You, Brother!♡
Brother you are amazing. God is speaking through you. Stay blessed.
God is definitely speaking and I appreciate the words of wisdom. Thank u.
My pleasure 👍
Soo true, these videos always come right on time!!!!
THANK YOU KINDLY FOR SHARING! ❤❤❤
Love it! Pearl of wisdom. Thank you brother Mark. These are wise advise.🙏🏻😇
Right on time Mark! Thank you!
great word of wisdom. thanks for sharing, God bless you.
Amazing blessings to God’s ministry
Awesome advice. Everyone needs to watch this. Thank you so much for sharing.🍎🍎🍎🍎
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Wow so much wisdom here... Thank you Jesus
Praise the Lord :)
Every believer needs to watch this and really think about themselves and the people we seem to gravitate too! Thank you so much, great video :D
Thank you for the words of wisdom from the Word of God.....😃
My pleasure, God bless!
Thank you for the message. Its was very clear explained. God bless you📙📙📙
Thank you Mark! You and your ministry are a real blessing! God bless!
Lovvvvvvvveeeeee this, Pastor Mark!!!
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Great video Mark.It was helpful.God bless you!
Thanks jennifer! Glad it was helpful, God bless :)
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Thank you for this for this came right on point
Lord talking through you to me and Many others
God bless you
Thank you for this video; I believe that my life / future has been blessed from watching this. God bless
So glad this was helpful to you :)
God Bless you abundantly, great video, thank you
Loved it to the full extent Mark. I am definitely going to share this on Facebook to the Public.
You are so informative, thank you !
Awesome breakdown.
Thank you kindly!
Love this, I've been watching you for a couple weeks and I love how you've gone through the scriptures in this one! Thanks
Yes sir! Great video bud! Thank you
My pleasure!
NAILED IT!! Awesome video thank you!!😊
Thanks! God bless :)
Thank you so much for this!
The third thing is a problem I see myself in. I mean I do do things, mainly when I’m asked to, and if I know how to or I can do it, but most of the time I am quite lazy. I know when I find the right one I can get out of this laziness. Right now, especially in the Winter, there’s not much to do.
Thank you for this video!!
This topic is pretty interesting and largely good advice. I remember God telling me recently to look at others as how he looks at me. We must do our best to let the Spirit of God guide us and not our flesh and emotions. Who are you man or woman to cast someone away because they may not fit your predefined fleshly bill. God may well use someone who is seen as largely imperfect in many ways to address issues we have in our own personalities as well as using us to help to build someone else up. Not saying all circumstances are like this. Some are truly agents of Satan but we must stop making judgement of who is ideal by our eyes and ears but instead be led by the Spirit of God. The best teacher is the Christ in us! not our words.
Keep them coming!!!!! 😇😇😇
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Good talk God bless you brother
Thanks alot. You are God sent.
All glory to God!
This is powerful Man of God thank you
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Great job, Mark!
Thanks for the encouragement and God bless!
Your welcome!
Thank you!
I really like your videos. Thank you for posting these. It really helps me with my grief.
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Thnks for sharing it..Nice to know this godly ways of a healthy relationship..
God bless!
Thank you for this because words are powerful.
So glad it was helpful :)
I really love your videos Mark! I started watching the past month/two. Your fruit is evident. Blessings bro 🙏🏼💜
Excellent!
Thank you for the amazing insight on this topic, very helpful and much appreciated! :)
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U are so right I wish I had a healthy relationships
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Thank you. Rough day. So rough Im starting to question my spiritual beliefs. I just could of sworn I was making the right choice. I believe I've ever been more confused.
I wrote a poetry on how words are powerful and how you should be careful of how you used them to communicate to others. Words do hurt.
Another excellent video.
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Great information thank you
WOW just right on timeeeee 👌💯
Amen! I'm so glad this was timely for you :)
Thank you!!
Love all your videos! Keep up the great work!
Thanks Anora!
Great video!
Great points, thanks for sharing, pastor Mark! :)
You are welcome!
I appreciate this video.
Wonderful!
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This video was sooo helpful I genuinely feel like I was lead to this message and I’m content 😌God bless
YES, these videos always come right on time. The holy spirit has perfect timing!!!!
Man this really helped! It even exposed some flaws I had!! Thank god for making me find this video and I hope your ministry continues to touch others
Amen, so glad you found this helpful:)
I am glad I watched this video. I finally realised that he is not the one for me. Thank you very much. God bless 🙏🏽🙏🏽
GREAT VIDEO MARK 5 STARS
Thank you, God bless!
That dating course thing I pray and believe God will help me find a way to get into it
Thank u bro god is good
Amazing! Thanks :)
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Some of us don't look at most men to be perfect with us that so great when the grace of God is working .Those kind of men will be so jealous of their relationship. especially some men they always find faults on people or they will be finding too many faults from good women.I know good men do exists. great one man of God
God bless you
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