ASMR | Celebrating Ten Smoke-Free Years! (Whisper Ramble)

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    September 4, 2011 was my first smoke-free day. Today, I celebrate ten years of no smoking! I'll tell you the story of how that came to be, but first, I'll give you my initial impression of the movie, "Black Swan". I hope you enjoy it. :)
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Komentáře • 328

  • @love4theages
    @love4theages Před 2 lety +554

    OMG, I love you, Mary! "B**** I have 2 kids, and I've been married 3 times - ain't nothing too racy for me!" You are my absolute favorite, lolol! 😂😂❤ Also, congratulations!

  • @Bottleofjax
    @Bottleofjax Před 2 lety +81

    her fashion sense and outfits are so underrated. she's giving me y2k "it girl" vibes rn and I love it

  • @KateMich12
    @KateMich12 Před 2 lety +24

    I wish a doctor had been that real with my mom about smoking. She'd still be alive today. Congratulations on 10 years!

  • @AndrewJustin00
    @AndrewJustin00 Před 2 lety +133

    1:08-1:12 caught me SO off guard I spit laughed 🤣🤣
    congratulations on your HUGE accomplishment, Mary!

  • @ellieross9472
    @ellieross9472 Před 2 lety +311

    “let the poor girl orgasm”
    truer words have never been spoken lol

  • @GarretWallace
    @GarretWallace Před 2 lety +161

    The beginning of this video had me HOLLERING!! Congratulations on 10 years, and bless you for everything you do.

  • @lauraa2778
    @lauraa2778 Před 2 lety +232

    Congratulations, that's a huge accomplishment, and hope folks who smoke that see this decide to quit too! (Hoping a dear friend and her dad decide to quit smoking soon, I want them to be around for a while as well.)

    • @summerraine3934
      @summerraine3934 Před 2 lety +4

      I’m trying😩.

    • @Meiaberg
      @Meiaberg Před 2 lety +4

      @@summerraine3934 you can do it! We believe in you!

    • @summerraine3934
      @summerraine3934 Před 2 lety +4

      @@Meiaberg aww this made me cry. Thank you ❤️

    • @Meiaberg
      @Meiaberg Před 2 lety +2

      @@summerraine3934 I hope you succeed ❤️

  • @Blocksd2
    @Blocksd2 Před 2 lety +31

    “I’m not a vape lord or anything.” 😂 had me dying

  • @opheliacplays
    @opheliacplays Před 2 lety +67

    Congratulations Mary! Such a wonderful milestone and accomplishment. I'm so honored to get to celebrate with you!

  • @gahangore111
    @gahangore111 Před 2 lety +55

    2.5 years for me. Congrats!!! Hardest thing I've done, make sure you celebrate this huge accomplishment 😀😀😀😀

  • @jimmyromero4136
    @jimmyromero4136 Před 2 lety +14

    “I’m not a vape lord or anything” thank you for clearing that up for us 😂😂💙

  • @HisGirl23
    @HisGirl23 Před 2 lety +32

    So I’ve been thinking a lot about quitting smoking, and I’m gonna take this as a sign! I’m so happy for you Mary great job! ❤️

  • @Monsicorn
    @Monsicorn Před 2 lety +18

    WOOOOHOOOO! YOU GO GIRL! In all seriousness, this is an absolutely amazing accomplishment! I have an aunt who has been trying to quit for almost five years now and she's fallen back so many times so for you to be able to stay smoke free for this long is truly something to be proud of! Here's to 10 more smoke free years Mary, we all love you! ❤

  • @MM_asmrColorTests
    @MM_asmrColorTests Před 2 lety +21

    For some reason, I laughed when you mentioned "Black Swan" and scandalization...I can totally imagine Carl being beyond affected by that film and Mother would surely be raging!

  • @ilovecartoonz23
    @ilovecartoonz23 Před 2 lety +9

    Oh congrats! I’m about a year and a half without a cigarette, and seeing things like this really give me hope. Thank you ❤️

  • @laurenagnes8435
    @laurenagnes8435 Před 2 lety +6

    Congratulations Mary! I smoked maybe five cigarettes total in my twenties and it did nothing for me. I’m so glad because when I hear about the severe cravings people get, I couldn’t be so strong!!! I can’t even give up bad carbs!!!

  • @sunshineonarainyday5443
    @sunshineonarainyday5443 Před 2 lety +4

    I am so proud of you Mary! My mum passed away in 2009 from tongue cancer from smoking all her life, so for you to quit for your own sake I am so proud of you. I can’t imagine how difficult quitting was for you or anyone as I don’t smoke myself, but I’ve heard many stories. A huge congratulations on 10 years that’s just amazing! 🥳🎉🎉

  • @zzzsasmr7681
    @zzzsasmr7681 Před 2 lety +20

    Haven’t even watch any of the video yet… but that’s amazing. You’re doing so freaking well. Everyone is proud of how far you’ve came. Please keep it up!

  • @leelee2616
    @leelee2616 Před 2 lety +4

    I quit smoking 3 years ago and still crave it from time to time. But it's been 3 year so. CONGRATULATIONS to 10 awesome years!!

  • @annmyhill
    @annmyhill Před 2 lety +5

    Mary...hearing your story about smoking, the cravings and the doctor's office was like hearing you read out my own story... except it took me until 2018! It was one of the hardest things I've ever done...and you are so right, you have to be honest with yourself and do it for you! So proud of you! ❤

  • @madisonlovings
    @madisonlovings Před 2 lety +6

    Congratulations!! What an awesome achievement♥️ we are so incredibly proud of you Mary!🥰

  • @nellie2022
    @nellie2022 Před 2 lety +8

    congratulations! that’s amazing, i’m so happy for you!! thank you for sharing, it is such a hard thing to share and go through sometimes. all my support to you!

  • @slccphotomajor
    @slccphotomajor Před 2 lety +5

    My mom quit smoking close to 25 years ago. Unfortunately she replaced it with food, which brought on a plethora of new problems. Addiction is rough. Congrats on 10 years and here's to many more.

  • @Insanity_awaits
    @Insanity_awaits Před 2 lety +1

    So much happiness to you Mary! 10 years is a triumph, congratulations 💛 I know your boys are most proud of you. They have the best example of facing something challenging and overcoming. I've seen both my parents off and on again with quitting that habit. Thankfully it's been gosh about 4 years since my mom stopped. Hope you and the boys are enjoying your labor day 😊 lots of love

  • @sweettexast2894
    @sweettexast2894 Před 2 lety

    Tayyyyyyy Congratulations Miss Mary! Quitting smoking was the most wonderful thing for me as well. What a wonderful thing for you to share this with us so that it may help others. We’re so glad you’re here! 😊❤️

  • @SleepyHugAsmr
    @SleepyHugAsmr Před 2 lety +14

    So happy for you! Hearing your good news brightens my day 💖💖 sending you lots of love

  • @margaretforsey7763
    @margaretforsey7763 Před 2 lety +1

    ❤️✨ Congratulations, Mary! ✨❤️ 10 years smoke free is a big deal! Thank you for sharing your story. This is so inspiring for those of us who are trying to make lifestyle changes. Also, the beginning of this video, and your commentary on Black Swan cracked me up! 🙂

  • @juliapalka9770
    @juliapalka9770 Před 2 lety +41

    Today is actually my birthday Mary! Congratulations on your great achievement! & thank you for always keeping us relaxed with your hard work on these videos!! 💐

  • @amberrrr762
    @amberrrr762 Před 2 lety +2

    Congratulations!!! My mother quit smoking when I was around 12 years old and she had smoked for years. I am now 37, and she said she still gets cravings to this day, but still has never smoked since then.

  • @ibitha
    @ibitha Před 2 lety +2

    girly i’m so proud of you and so happy for you. everyday you achieve greatness!

  • @JenSF580
    @JenSF580 Před 2 lety +1

    That is freaking incredible !!! W are proud of you Mary!! I can imagine your boys are beaming with pride!!

  • @JustPaperASMR
    @JustPaperASMR Před 2 lety +8

    Congratulations! You are amazing! That is a HUGE accomplishment. Proud of you! 🧡🧡

  • @graciemiranda9107
    @graciemiranda9107 Před 2 lety

    Congrats Mary on 10 years of not smoking. What an accomplishment. Sometimes it takes an angel to come into our lives and tell us how it is. I believe your Dr was your angel. I don't know what it's like to have a have a bad habit but I know someone who does. So I understand when you say it's hard to kick the habit. So for whatever reason your Dr spoke to you in that manner on that particular day, it helped you to react and see life for what it is, precious. So I commend you for making that change. I'm happy that your here with us to make our lives a little sweeter. Thank you for that. Take care, be safe and have a blessed weekend. 💚❤️💙💛💜

  • @philipcarruthers
    @philipcarruthers Před 2 lety +4

    I congratulate you on giving smoking away and wish you all the strength in the world to keep it up! Having lost both my parents to smoking related cancer, I know how heartbreaking the habit can become.

  • @tamerafoxx9691
    @tamerafoxx9691 Před 2 lety

    I am so happy for you. I smoked for 30 years, have been married thrice, and I'm from North Carolina. Twinsies! With the exception of. having 20+ years on you. You're great Mary. Thank you for helping me sleep!!!

  • @elischb4425
    @elischb4425 Před 2 lety +5

    Mary, you make me LAUGH. congrats on a smoke free decade! here’s to many more🥂
    the end of this video made me a little teary eyed. i’m finishing up two bachelor’s degrees and i often wonder if i really can finish them. but, if Mary says i can, then i can. thank you💕

  • @babyface45
    @babyface45 Před 2 lety +4

    Congratulations!!! I am smoke free for 10 years in 6 months!

  • @JanOsborne-Sage
    @JanOsborne-Sage Před 2 lety

    CONGRATULATIONS MARY. I am SO PROUD OF YOU. Ten years is a major accomplishment. I celebrated 13 years, just a few months ago. 🥰

  • @ambam90
    @ambam90 Před 2 lety +1

    I've never been a smoker but I've witnessed the struggle. Apparently it's no walk in the park. YOU GO GIRL!

  • @sleigh9921
    @sleigh9921 Před 2 lety

    Congratulations on being so strong 10 years and counting 🙌🏽. This has been me with punctuality, I’m inspired to plan my morning commute better .

  • @madelineaugust7973
    @madelineaugust7973 Před 2 lety

    This is so awesome, Mary!! Congratulations on a decade of being smoke-free!!

  • @anissavillarreal3094
    @anissavillarreal3094 Před 2 lety +2

    I love you Mary! 😂😂😂 “B I have 2 kids and I’ve been married 3 times. Ain’t nothing too racy for me.” 💀 you’re awesome. Also, congrats on no smoking. You are an absolute gem 💎

  • @jessicacis8246
    @jessicacis8246 Před 2 lety

    I loved this story! Felt like I was at your table with you just listening along. Congratulations on 10 years of no more smoking!! 👏🏼

  • @Maria_FFerreira
    @Maria_FFerreira Před 2 lety +2

    That's a powerful message! Thank you, Mary, for sharing!

  • @ghostii716
    @ghostii716 Před 2 lety

    YAYYYY!! congrats! this is such a great accomplishment and i’m so glad that you shared your joy with us

  • @baileyshantz4388
    @baileyshantz4388 Před 2 lety

    This is one of my favourite videos of yours Mary . I am trying to quit smoking at the moment and this was the perfect light-hearted, funny message. Always so thankful for you and the peace you bring !!

  • @yellowsubmarine1321
    @yellowsubmarine1321 Před 2 lety +3

    Hey Mary, Thank You for all you do💖. Congrats too🎊🎉🌼👍

  • @tate1418
    @tate1418 Před 2 lety

    congratulations!!! you’re so inspiring mary ❤️ thank you for all you do!

  • @stellaalonzo5495
    @stellaalonzo5495 Před 2 lety

    Congrats Mary!! Take good care of yourself. You have so much to give, we so enjoy your videos! Keep up the good work. 😉👍🏼❤️

  • @kazbar7611
    @kazbar7611 Před 2 lety

    Your a stronger person than me Mary. I gave up smoking about 21 year's ago, but I don't have any cravings. I found it pretty easy to quit, I can't imagine having to fight cravings for ten year's!

  • @meganallin5437
    @meganallin5437 Před 2 lety

    Congratulations on 10 years Mary, I'm only at 2.5 years but you help inspire me to keep going! Thanks for all your videos ☺️💜

  • @mtraveler5
    @mtraveler5 Před 2 lety +1

    Congratulations!! So absolutely beyond proud of you. ❤️

  • @conniebradley9307
    @conniebradley9307 Před 2 lety

    Hey my dear Mary!
    Congratulations now and forever for the accomplishment and 10 year milestone and another 30-50
    Years ahead!!
    You are truly an inspiration to
    anyone who is facing any kind of addiction !!!
    You are a powerhouse continuing to climb mountains everyday!!
    Thank you for sharing that part of your life with us!!’
    Love you dearly always my dear friend unconditionally!!!
    ✌️✌️✌️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️✌️✌️✌️

  • @spencerallegra
    @spencerallegra Před 2 lety

    CONGRATS MARY!!!! This is a huge accomplishment ♥️

  • @abbagel779
    @abbagel779 Před 2 lety

    Congratulations Mary! Thanks for sharing with us! 🤗 👏 🎉

  • @stephaniepullen4526
    @stephaniepullen4526 Před 2 lety +1

    Well done Mary! It’s such an achievement!! I haven’t touched one for 6 years. What stops me is that I know that I can say it’s been 6 years since I had one and if I even had just one, then it’s back to only being one day since I had one and that time and hard work was for nothing. Keep up the good work!!! Xxx

  • @_iamsarahi
    @_iamsarahi Před 2 lety

    Congratulations Mary! We are so proud of you. I hope you and your family are doing well. It’s my first time commenting on one of your videos, even though I’ve been watching you for a long time now. Lately however, I’ve been going through a lot (mentally and emotionally) in my personal life, yet your humor, personality, and just your existence, in general, give me so much comfort. Obviously, I don’t know you personally, but I appreciate you for giving us insight into your life trials and tribulations, whether good or bad, as it takes a special person to be able to do what your do, and do it well. Thank you for giving me the confidence boost, at the end of a long day. Also, I cannot thank you enough, for normalizing being human-making mistakes. I am always hesitant of trying new things or being my full self due fear of failure, or what others will say. I am happy to announce that little by little, I am gaining more and more confidence. Thank you Mary for being an inspiration and always being you. 🌻

  • @classicrockasmr
    @classicrockasmr Před 2 lety

    Way to go Mary!!!! I was never a smoker but my husband was, and watching him quit was tough. He would still be smoking if it wasn’t for the juul. He eventually stopped the juul as well but definitely needed that as an in between!! This is something to be proud of!!!! Happy for you :)

  • @samanthagellin4185
    @samanthagellin4185 Před 2 lety

    Congratulations on 10 smoke free years! That’s AWESOME!

  • @carriemars8871
    @carriemars8871 Před 2 lety +2

    I'm so happy for you. My brother was on two oxygen machines, confined to his living room because he couldn't walk more than a couple steps (the firemen had to arrange his one doctor's appt) and he couldn't really talk and breathe at the same time. Well, he couldn't really breathe at all. The lung transplant didn't pan out. His wife really misses him.

  • @user-zg4yb4rn5n
    @user-zg4yb4rn5n Před 2 lety +15

    congratulations!!!! that's incredible

  • @a.shoggoth7348
    @a.shoggoth7348 Před 2 lety

    Congrats Mary! 3 years for me so far! We've got this!

  • @Kalbeflow
    @Kalbeflow Před 2 lety

    I’m so proud of you! Such an incredible milestone 💙

  • @theskellyboi
    @theskellyboi Před 2 lety

    Congrats Mary!!! I’m so happy for you 💙💙💙

  • @heatherwatchesstuff
    @heatherwatchesstuff Před 2 lety

    congratulations Mary! that is such a difficult thing to do and I’m so sure everyone in your life is grateful that you’ve made this positive change in your life. also I wanted to say that I definitely get teary when people are angry with me and I’m glad I’m not alone😂❤️

  • @up4rent
    @up4rent Před 2 lety

    Mary, I already commented on Facebook but I'll say it again, I am SO proud of you. 10 years is awesome. Thank you so much for sharing these lessons of your life! I'm about 6 months nicotine free I think. I've lost track now and am so happy about it. That doctor anecdote is so impactful. Sometimes we all need a kick in the butt!
    I'm a senior in college taking a creative writing class and have been thinking of you and River Road so much!

  • @Lunalavender83
    @Lunalavender83 Před 2 lety

    Congratulations!!! That is truly something to be proud of! 👏

  • @riss4087
    @riss4087 Před 2 lety +11

    Yasss girl congratulations so proud of you ❤️❤️

  • @gerij272
    @gerij272 Před 2 lety +5

    Congratulations Mary i quit a long time ago too i know how hard it is...i quit when i was 26 n i'm 55 and i still crave it now n then.......i seen that movie i thought it was ok...hope your weekend is going well....LOVE YOUR VIDEOS!!!

  • @keekay3882
    @keekay3882 Před 2 lety

    Ten years!!!! Wow!!!! Congrats Mary that is a huge accomplishment we are all so happy for you!

  • @morgan.nelson1
    @morgan.nelson1 Před 2 lety

    “But still… it counts” 😂😂😂 you crack me up!!! CONGRATULATIONS on 10 years being smoke free 🎉💕

  • @lizstjohn01
    @lizstjohn01 Před 2 lety

    Congrats Mary! 🥳 Thank you for sharing with us

  • @minnesotagirl1473
    @minnesotagirl1473 Před 2 lety

    Congrats Girl!!!! I've never looked back...can't wait for it to be ten years!

  • @Meggssd
    @Meggssd Před 2 lety

    Congratulations!!! You should be so proud of yourself. Happy you’re going to be around longer, enjoying your life, and your kids. Lots of love Mary.

  • @zathrasnotzathras655
    @zathrasnotzathras655 Před 2 lety

    Congratulations! Absolutely worth celebrating such an important accomplishment.

  • @ggchronicles3417
    @ggchronicles3417 Před 2 lety

    I started smoking at 15 and quit at 21 yrs old...I'm 43 now, I once in a while will have a dream about smoking or have a random craving and then it passes. Congratulations on 10 smoke-free years!!! 😊😊

  • @UcGypsyLB85
    @UcGypsyLB85 Před 2 lety +1

    Congratulations and thank you for sharing this story, you are inspiring. I went through the same thing you did. I started smoking at 17 and quit May 5th this year, for a total of 19 years. I've been ok until here recently, having gone through a breakup and trying to get out and meet new people again but I have held strong so far. Both my father and maternal grandmother passed away from Lung Cancer so I can only hope that I haven't completely ruined my lungs. Stay awesome Mary✌❤🙂

  • @talktoyounever
    @talktoyounever Před 2 lety

    Congratulations Mary! That's an awesome accomplishment! 💕

  • @christina_96
    @christina_96 Před 2 lety

    Congratulations Mary!! You’re a wonderful person and I love your videos 🥰

  • @lisak6321
    @lisak6321 Před 2 lety

    A milestone worth celebrating, congratulations Mary! I loved smoking and smoked for over 30 years and quit 8 years ago November 5th. I will say that Ecigs helped me because I was so afraid of having a craving and not having cigarettes. My best friend quit smoking using Ecigs too. I have made the same declaration, that if I get a terminal disease, I'm picking them back up.

  • @VictoriaJoyWeir
    @VictoriaJoyWeir Před 2 lety

    This is wonderful! Congratulations! I just love your videos so much!

  • @psychologynerd23
    @psychologynerd23 Před 2 lety +1

    This video brightened my day! Also, I hope you’ll consider making the gossipy lady into t shirts and sweatshirts like you did Carl. I love her character! All of your stuff is great.

  • @genuinepolyester9445
    @genuinepolyester9445 Před 2 lety +1

    Congrats, that's so great to hear!

  • @tortimeese
    @tortimeese Před 2 lety +1

    Wow! Congratulations! You look great and I bet you feel wonderful.

  • @Maria_FFerreira
    @Maria_FFerreira Před 2 lety +1

    Huge congratulations, Mary!!!

  • @Laura.v.b
    @Laura.v.b Před 2 lety

    Congratulations!!!
    Also you're black swan review had me in stitches. 😂😂over you mary!

  • @Logan-if4ue
    @Logan-if4ue Před 2 lety +7

    congrats on being smoke-free! I appreciate that I can always count on you to make me laugh lol, thank you for what you do.

  • @kathrynvera3947
    @kathrynvera3947 Před 2 lety

    Congratulations Mary!!! What an accomplishment! 💞

  • @tex_gil117
    @tex_gil117 Před 2 lety

    Yes! Thank you Mary, I feel the EXACT same way. I quit chewing tobacco 3 years ago and crave it almost every day. Congrats on your 10 years 🤘

  • @CBPz
    @CBPz Před 2 lety

    Congratulations on the 10 years 🎉🎉🎉 and I agree 1000% about black swam

  • @npo64
    @npo64 Před 2 lety

    Congratulations, Mary! That's awesome!!!

  • @PussnBoot2516
    @PussnBoot2516 Před 2 lety

    That's an awesome achievement, Mary. Well done you!

  • @BloodyPandaAE86
    @BloodyPandaAE86 Před 2 lety +1

    great job!!! that's so good to hear ❤️❤️🫂🫂

  • @abbsterbean6
    @abbsterbean6 Před 2 lety

    Congratulations!! What a wonderful accomplishment!

  • @emmacook2689
    @emmacook2689 Před 2 lety +5

    Well done girl!!! Doesn't everyone have one of "those" relatives?? 🙄🙄🙄🤣🤣🤣💕💕

  • @susan2514
    @susan2514 Před 2 lety

    Wow, that’s amazing! Congratulations 😊🙌🏽🎉

  • @dreameasyasmr3625
    @dreameasyasmr3625 Před 2 lety

    What an incredible accomplishment Mary, well done!

  • @hannahgrace9781
    @hannahgrace9781 Před 2 lety

    Congratulations!!!! 🎊🎊🎊🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @Schmusekissens
    @Schmusekissens Před 2 lety

    Thats amazing Mary! I’m so proud!

  • @sarabrown7488
    @sarabrown7488 Před 2 lety +17

    Wow your smoking story is just like mine. I only stopped smoking when I was pregnant 4 different times. The last time I had twins. The twins are identical boys. They’re the babies. When you said you have 2 young boys to take care of . It hit me hard. Bronchitis all the time. Thanks for sharing. And I don’t like for people to get mad at me either.. I want to try using a vape. I was looking at them online. This feels like this video was for me. All day I’ve been thinking about it. It’s the biggest mistake of my life. .