The Guys' Take | What It Takes For A Man To Stay In A Bad Marriage Ft The Aleph Cafe
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- You heard from us the ladies....now its the guys' turn.
Today they're laying it all down for us: from co-parenting to side chicks to the dreaded "We need to talk", the guys are here to talk about it all.
PS: Tonight is a good night to warm up at The Aleph Cafe with a coffee. Or a beer!
Thanks Gaetano and Marcus for joining us today!
Subscribe to their channel here @TheLastRoundUg
#AskTheGuys
You heard from us the ladies....now its the guys' turn.
Today they're laying it all down for us: from co-parenting to side chicks to the dreaded "We need to talk", the guys are here to talk about it all.
PS: Tonight is a good night to warm up at The Aleph Cafe with a coffee. Or a beer!
Thanks Gaetano and Marcus for joining us today!
Subscribe to their channel here @Last Round Uganda
#AskTheGuys
A Nigerian here supporting and loving your channel❤. Keep it up ladies.
We full ground whoop whoop! 🥳🥳🥳
Oh yeeeeeeeeessssoooooooo 💃🏾. P
Watching you from Lubumbashi, D.R. Congo
Most people think marriage is all about kuwooma, anfukira amazzi etc… There’re more pressing issues in marriage!!! I think everyone that wants to be in a long lasting relationship/marriage should have professional pre-marital counselling, credit check, take some time to know the person before committing, talk about things you can tolerate and not, but most importantly setting realistic expectations. Great episode ❤ Canada
I like how random yet collected this episode is.
Talking about expectations in relationships is very important indeed.👏👏👏
This was one of my favorite episodes ....it's good to know guys talk deeply too! Those co-parenting stories were a shocker. Great show ladies fun & informative ! I love Manuela's dress!
Thank y’all for having this conversation. It’s going to sit with me for a while…believe me you have fueled me for a lifetime. Merci 🍻
Please do a part 2. What a beautiful episode! I have laughed so hard and so silly...thanks guys! You are just getting better everyday ❤️❤️❤️
This was a beautiful episode. Absolutely beautiful! Never have I seen the Mars Vs Venus notion come so true. Thank you Marcus for sharing your life with us. Very inspiring. It is possible to co-parent.
Oh ladies! People raise their children well! Thank you for sharing this eye opener to mature difficult lessons!💕
This episode was really fun with very realistic and candid conversations. Marcus' experience brought the point on co-parenting home! I really love Angie's mature submissions!
This was so lit. Marcus and Gae just fired up the conversation . Well done Bump love thus episode was amazing
It's always good to have the guys' perspective on these issues!
Beautiful episode 🥰.. thank you guys
Thank you ladies. And for having Marcus and Gae. Looking forward to your show on their end at Last Round UG
The link up that I've been longing for. Thank you
This is profound and a great revelation that men do talk to their guys and in depth
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This has been my best episode... Well-done. Plus I am waiting for that book by Marcus
Best show ive watched in a while. Kudos to you guys. Ive learned so much.
Favourite episode yet! Love y'all
Ahhhh this is now oba one of my best episode of bump love, Marcus is a rare version....
Ladies this was sp insightful and beautiful
Bump love rock, your show today was awesome, Gaetano & Marcus made it wow
Really enjoyed this show! Well done girls...xx
That is so nice, that you're good friends with your ex wife...i was married in a relationship for 24 years...have 2 children...and we got divorced ,and i remarried and both my present husband and my ex husband get along great!! My ex husband celebrated his 60th birthday party a few months ago...and my husband and i went...its good to get along for our children and grandchildren...because our children are grown...and we have 3 grandchildren.
Well done ladies n gents the conversation was really amazing
Thanks
Very good episode it was and so enlightening. Thank you ❤️
Thank Bump love, I missed those two, great show.
One of the best episodes
This show ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Thank you ladies and the gents.
Alot to learn on here. Thank you always. You really hear us.
New subscriber watching from Jamaica! 🇯🇲 Keep up the great job! 👍🏽💯⭐😁
These topics are everything for the young generation. We are dealing with things older than us, and this, is a guide! Thank you'll
True
Thank you beautiful ladies for such an amazing show. I have loved this topic. Well thank you Marcus for being yourself and above all being good friends with your ex wife and co-parenting and big thanks to your wife for doing an amazing job, because most step moms in Uganda are not easy at all.
What i took home from this amazing, yet hilarious episode was:
Be honest from the get go.
Talk about what are your expectations as a couple and of each other.
Level up on your maturity. 🇰🇪
I like the way Racheal always brings back the conversation to the centre of gravity with her questions. Also kudos to Marcus for contextualizing the topic with your personal story.. please write that book
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She is out North star for sure. P
I enjoyed the show so much with the guys this time. Please bring them again..
Loved loved today's episode
The expectation conversation....very important 👌👌👌👌thank you Marcus for pointing it out. I wish every couple could embrace it instead of relying on assumptions.
From experience, most people have it but it’s forgotten and often no written evidence AND dating is often like an interview, people ‘pretend’ or are flexible to agree because they want the job .
My best bump love episode so far ❤❤❤❤❤❤Bless you guys
How I have enjoyed this episode I kept reversing back and forth 😊 this is wonderful...but Marcus ur the limit 🙌
I have been waiting for this
Much respect guys🥰🥰🥰
This was a beautiful episode…. Thx for bringing those gentlemen. My take home is, being ready to have the uncomfortable conversations n also managing expectations in marriage or relationships.
Nkutumidde
OK todays episode has been so amazing, pliz bring these guys again
This was awesome ladies and gentlemen ❤️❣️❣️
Wow loved this guys ,Marcus !
I really enjoyed and learned, more episodes please,
For some men, they don’t need to be unhappy at home to get side chics. It’s a few of them that get side chic as last resort
True dear some just get them just for no good reason
Keep the guys coming they make the show better
My best bump love episode so far
🤣🤣 I like the way Brian leaped to his defense
I cant wait to turn 40 😃
Great show, fun & relevant with a high level of maturity. Keep it up !
I have come to know Marcus, greetings to u all, Gae and Marcus thank u giving out the light .... It's been so real and lively.... thank you bump love
I loooooooooooovvvved this segment guys...very informative and funnnnnn at the same time...thank you guys...
I believe I’ll be a good mother in future because of this channel 😘💪 big up ladies
Now this is really a ting....Thanks for having the men on this discussion.
This is very educative big ups bump love
Am always checking wheather you have uploaded a new episode 🤩
Beautiful episode. Laughed and laughed!!1
Marcus you're the best, I love the conversation
I have really enjoyed the men's perspective ☺. Thank you for doing this guys.
Marcus autheticity is to reckon with great episode
Thank you for the show
Loved this episode big time big time laughter and lessons....kudos 🎉😂😂
You guys made me laugh...🤣🤣start to finish! The gents were amazing 👏 keep bringing these interesting collaboz!!!
Marcus raises a very vital aspect that’s usually ignored & down played by most couples before marriage; THE EXPECTATIONS CONVERSATION.📌👏🏽👍🏽
Anti the butterflies and wedding preparations take precedence. Honey have you eaten, honey can we meet up for some iig jig.....banange my gown....then it's all about sexual compatibility. What about ALL the other compatibilities that are needed in a long term relationship 😂😂😂
@@anonnona6433 okitegera 😂
And yet it's really the most important aspect. We do need to have more of these conversations. P
@@pumlanabachwa8668 couldn’t agree more.👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Wow! thanks Ladies and gentlemen!!
I enjoy bump love Conversation and to be honest its actually one of my favorite shows from uganda on CZcams . but this particular episode is epic!!💯 Reason I am a divorcee and a mother as well. soon to be a wifey again and I have learned so much from this episode.
yeah Thank you Angie.indeed we need to see the journey
Wow wow wow its a wow wow just for me, you ladies are too much. Thanks for the content 🙏 🙌 BRAVO 👏
I do not know why I dint know abt bump love😮 it's my second month now following u guys, & am getting addicted that I have gone thru all yo shows in the past, good job ladies
Wow Marcus - God has been good to you! 🙏🏾
Wow guys thx for the show
IT Feels so natural i like this show
Ohhh Welkom Angie, I love that hair syle. Thanks for always being on point Angie. I just wish you could speak more. Much respect ✊
i loved this episode so very much, hearing from the guy persperctive helped me fix my behaivours toward my partner,thanks guys very much
The best show ever , keep it up ladies
This was nice. Thank you
Great shows more of these collabs will work. Waiting for your collab with another round
Excellent topic. Good and varied views. Angie you’re quite wise. Marcus: it’s never too serious, it never is👌🏾
I have eennnjjjoooyyyed this episode ....thanks bump love!!!
I love love this episode 😍
I didnt want this show to end.......Damn Marcus...we need a movie and a book
Me either
My best episode ever! ❤from Rwanda
Marcus Truth brings peace.U said it in the first place .Ur such a great Gentleman 🤸♀️Kudos
Woooow woooow, one of the best discussions ever.
You people am in love with your work and ideas banange
These ladies are afull vibes and inspirational
Bump Love yo inspirational keep it up ladies I Love you all❤️
I felt the another round element in there with the" ( angry sex)"convoy.This episode was totally different in a sense that it brought out a different side of the girls.iam rolling on the floor.
They are not talking as moms today but as lovers ❤ 😂
Am Ugandan working in Rwanda Kigali, who always thought am far away from home, I have just watched just two episodes, I feel just close to home, thanks Pumla, your my favorite, mbagalanyo mwe❤
HEY,MARCUS,l seriously miss last round, le me go directly and watch the new episodes.
Marcus - wisdom 100%
I have enjoyed, thanks dearies
Wooow I enjoyed these show... It was lit for sure
Marcus u need an award
Loved the show
This show was so great
wow .i have enjoyed this .host more more of men . Looking forward to learning more about co-parenting
The way Brian walks in 🤣🤣🤣
He was dying
Finally yay I kept checking this channel since I woke up at 8:00 😍😍.
Me too
Hello Bump love and Lovers, i feel like you forgot to talk about finances, women kuguma because they have no where to start and they fight for their marriage because they have put in alot into that marriage to get what they have but a man goes and gets another girl and takes all what this woman has worked for or has been patiently been waiting for and he gives the best to the other girl. That is a blow to the head.
This is the number one reason for 'kuguma' honestly, men think they are tired but the woman is thrice as tired. They just have no where to start after investing their all in the marriage.
This point is underrated but makes so much sense.
This is true. We'll keep this conversation for another episode. Thanks for the reminder. P
I think this ladies have understand that financial life can starts any think and any where that I agree
True. Not just financial but physical as well. Women are considered more attractive the younger they are. Even more so if they haven’t had any children. So a woman who has put 10+ years into a marriage and had a couple of babies…her options on the single market are significantly lower if she leaves. So not only is it hard for her to start over financially, but it’s also a lonely path to take trying to find a companion. Women are incredibly disadvantaged in a divorce.
Very nice conversation I have learnt alot Thank you bump love and last round