Conversations you must have before getting married.
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- čas přidán 14. 11. 2020
- Before you move to a step of marriage in your relationship, instead of just talking about the wedding, it's important to talk about certain things like finances and how your home is going to be run inorder to avoid conflicts and disappointments.
Conversations about faith and religion are really important, most especially when you plan on having children, it’s very important to decide on how best to raise them with regard to practicing your faith and religion.
Lilian I must tell you that faith and religion are two different things in God's Eyes. "Religion" is defined as 'the way in which one worships their God. It is observed that it is based upon ppl going to church once a week to fellowship with their God. And then leave to go back to their sinful lives. In religion these are hypocrites.
On the other hand, (very few find this the Lord Mashiah said) faith is a way of living dependent entirely upon the Word of God if the Lord has revealed Him to you - Matt.11:27-30. Until the Heavenly Father is revealed one is under the law bc of sins. All that is not of faith is sin.
So faith is knowing, and believing is mental assent and never enough bc you might change your mind in the face of adversity. It takes faith to believe. With re to children and marriage. A woman should not have children until the age 30 and above. Actually between ages of 30-40. Children are not meant to satisfy the deep urge for fulfilment that only copulation can bring over intercourse.
As a woman you should have the three principles that allow you to be; relationship, wife and marriage material. And those are to love; your husband, your children and be a keeper of the home. A man must have the three principles of morning, noon and night. It is the only fulfillment for a woman. He has to have his paper in order. This is purely so that when he eat, she eat. When he drink she drink. There is always something to shop for to change pace. This is what the world is missing from the beginning.
I like the fact that she said a lady who will grow you.
Brian contribution is the best because he speaks with examples, I also like Ashley's humour and straightforwardness,
Am in Kenya but I like this conversation on kachai platform very articulate
✍✍tuko wengi
Present as well v bn following came back here& glad seeing my fellow Kenyans
Good morning....let me watch this and see what I didn't do since I'm already in long distance relationships....
Thanks ladies and gentleman,great relationship advice.
💃yeeeiiii can't wait for a part 2. I agree setting your own standards and not the world's standards is key. Be your self the world will adjust
This program is like Kenyan Switch Tv🇰🇪. The full circle.
Thank you so much Lucky. This is good information for us te growing adults. Just stumbled on this channel and am never going to leeaaaavvveeee.
Brian and lucky thanks alot for the contributions in ppls relationships
Thanks so much I really enjoyed this so much. Waiting for part 2 👍👍
Nic conversation .thnks for being smart to u all ❤❤
Decent discussions from you guys. Thumbs up!
Thanks for the show, and this has really cought my attention, add us more shows on this topic. I mean go deeper coz this is very educative
Impressive ..waiting 4 part 2
Love you lucky, thank you for the show dear so inspiring
Good morning beautiful people 🤩🤩🤩🤩 planning on stepping back in to the dating world so this is really helpful
Love u guys, your topics keep me inline. I just get more intelligent abt hw things shld b.
Kachai Lucky..we appreciate you guys for a good job..keep it up
Learning a lot from you lucky. Thank you
Nice talk plus nice show keep up
Haha😂 waiting for part 2!
I like your show. Got A lot to understand 🙏👍
Oh my God the show is really amazing
It's true that most of us fear to talk about financial issues before getting married yet it's a serious matter to talk about before
Thanks alot dear Mbabazi and the team
Thanks for this program it's so interesting 😊
Your conversations is just mwaaa
I love you're kitenji Ankara choice its just too beautiful am a tailor too but that was well stitched woo
Thanks so much for KaChai show n speaking English like American natives.
My regards to Ugandans
Let's always pray to God in order to get a prudent wife in this crooked world.Iam watching from the U.S.
This has been so helpfull
For sure mbu hustler nogamba kiki kyo!😆😏
I am glad I was brought up by a strong woman who went to independently raise kids even after being widowed. In general women need to stop looking to marriage to mean their future is secured because life is unpredictable. Marriage is a partnership not a custody, what else are you bringing to the table other than cooking and cleaning skills. Are you able to support your significant other during difficulties. Can you come up with business ideas or support his ambitions. Perhaps it's socialization or culture but a wife can submit and still be a partner in other aspects of business or investment. This princess complex some women have 🙄🙄 manage your expectations please.
Love the show..... bt eeeh Brian u hv examples, its like u hv experienced life since childhood 😂😂, anyway so much 2 pick from, n so informative, love this.
Good morning Lucky u jst Brightened my monday let mi go & work love u 😜😜😜
Actually I love this platform,,thanks to the management u inspire me bambi
Hello, have you ever lived in ntebetebe, bweyogerere?
Expectations??nice conversation.
Guys I thank you for everything you give us really are interesting and educative topics but I request if have not talked about it before, can you talk about social media love, how it can be managed and is it advisable? thanks Lucky and yours team.
My dear it depends on the person u av got cause some people end marrying each other n living in the beautiful life just trust God you can easily be blessed through social media
Ashley am the marriage material ,cracked me
Thx , like me I dont like cooking, but cook when my man is a very very good provider. Otherwise, I enjoy my man cooking for me like 2x a week. And I say so, without shame . And Ugandan women look at me as though have seen a ghost.
Ladies please please stop having children outside marriage,save yourself till u are his legal wife , because in the end if u have a kid thinking that will keep a man then you will end up alone with a child and no man,it's better u be alone .
Right but more importantly don't look to marriage as an investment or security for the future. Ladies should also bring something to the table. Marriage is a partnership not a custody waiting to be catered for everything like a child
Not always the case. I depends on the people involved.
Please stop the background music it is a little distracting. Nice conversation pleasant hosts. Good job
Good morning my Huslers u enjoying your tea alone no invitation kale 😅😅😅
Conversation cannot stop people from getting marry because love is blind you cannot not see well again at that moment
Hi Lucky which lippie are u wearing please
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Help us n talk about age difference wen choosing a partner is it authentic to marry someone of not ov yo generation
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Ahahahahahha we men we always in struggle 🤣🤣🤣🤣
But Ashley mbu you have kids olimba kubanga
Kim, I have 5....Kubanga...hahaha
@@judithashelynne6476 waaaaaaa you hahahaha ela if its true your husband alabika he even steps on other people's heads
U me first time i thought your a student
@@judithashelynne6476 wabula nondola mpaka on fb nzuunga hahaha
what a coversation
Volume was very low more especially brian
I like your conversation,,,,,
But people pretend
Lucky, It is your business because it will affect you
By the way I wanted to ask, “is it morally right for a woman to go ahead have a child every time the guy cheats in order to settle him down?”
When a man wants to settle he will settle but you can't settle him down with a kid
no it is not right and that kind of woman is not relationship material and neither is he. A man that cheats cannot sexually satisfy the woman he is with. He is getting from another woman the exact same thing his woman has (inside they are all the same).
It is mainly from non-teaching from her mother who probably had her out of wedlock as well. It is said now that 80% of ppl are having illegimate children. it is a big problem bc a woman needs 'opening' from the outside-in (by her man) and not from the inside out by child-birth before 30.
But most relationships are headed for trouble from the start. Men do not understand that you will end with her like you began with her, not satisfying her sexually. That is all women want, need and desire. A man learns these things from women when he learns how to satisfy her. (them 1 atta time)
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500people wedding 😂😂😂😂😂 I don't even like 50 people
Same page 50 is too much
Subtitles for non Ugandans please
Very Useful ❤️
I Wish You Could Just Speak #English
Entirely 🤔
Dave - you have my permission to speak - entirely (make it short)
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@@daveondiekaaron2204 I was being sarcastic
Seriously men should styleup if ur parents failed to raise nursery schools of children,,wat makes u burden spouses,,get a reasonable number of kids period 👌👌